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minoc_uo/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:46 PM
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I dated a colOmbian chick for a while. Speaking of the woman, they aren't racist and alot understand they are better off being with an American then a latino.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 04:33 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:45 PM
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I was and still am like you, but to a much lesser degree. Exercise is your #1 priorty. You literally can't miss 1 day. Lift weights, but you really need to be sweating. That helps with your depression. How to Stop Feeling So Damn Depressed The No BS Guide for Men Jonas A. Horwitz 3 hour audio book.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 07:47 PM
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Completely different scenario if she mentions that A-list celebrities are cut/hot, right?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 12:32 AM
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Yes I agree with you on the exclusivity for sure. Cubans being the exception and exactly for the reason you state. Cubans didn't have strong religious followings.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 10:04 PM
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Right, sometimes these girls aren't in the mood, but still wouldn't deny me. But it seems like the general idea is it's nothing to do with race. Just my gut telling me otherwise
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:53 PM
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Check out strip clubs. From my experience, most are actually brothels.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:52 PM
1

Less literal, but Sun Tzu ,the art of war
/r/askTRP21/01/19 02:26 PM
1

Yeah, it's more then just physical. Let's say... I'm tired of being trapped in a building all day.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:15 PM
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Grass is always greener, but man I'm tired of sitting at a desk all day. It's also bad for your health.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:53 PM
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It helped me. That's for damn sure.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:20 PM
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I've spent a bit of time lately in strip clubs, and I specifically like Colombianas. We think of strippers as "dirty", but the truth is they are always showered and smell nice. Similar with colombianas in general. So make sure you are fresh and smell nice. Clean under your nails. Colombian use the word "chevere" for cool. Shev-a-ray. They use Tomar instead of Beber for drink... Quieres un Tomar? (Do you want a Drink? ) I found strippers like Patron. Combianas like a drink called aguardiente.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 02:29 PM
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Not on audible. Not even on Amazon.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:57 PM
23

This is bad advice
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:59 PM
129

I literally suffer from depression if I don't excercise
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:10 PM
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First time I walked into a strip club, (miami) a smoking hot Cuban girl walked up to me, put her hand on my dick and starting rubbing. Whispered in my ear $150 for a blowjob. $200 "fuck suck whatever you want". And that's about the standard there. Just saying my experience with strip clubs is very different then yours.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:11 PM
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I don't think he meant a strip club. But anyways, by me, the girls pressure you to fuck in the rooms. My impression of a strip club is that that are all literally game of thrones type whorehouses.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:06 PM
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48 Laws of Power was a tough book for me to get through, but you should really give it a read.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:28 PM
1

I'm in a similar position, except the guy is my Superior. It sucks. He is happy to talk to me for 2-6 hours a day and work nights and weekends. Our team is just him and I It's been 2 years now with no resolution. I literally can't do my job without being friendly with him though. I just suck it for now.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:32 PM
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Go get the book (I did audible version) How to Stop Feeling so Damn Depressed. By Jonas A. Horwitz, PhD. It's written specifically for Males. The quick advice would be to do aerobic... Sweaty excercise. But seriously, I listened to that and didn't even realize how depressed I was and for how long. It really fixed me up. And it's only about 3+ hours on audio.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:18 AM
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I'm 33 and can have sex 4+ times a day, 2-3 days over the weekend. Then I might be tired the next day. And I'm kinda fat.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:30 AM
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I just read about Strong Lift 5x5. Google it, it's exactly what you are looking for
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:27 AM
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Yeah I didn't really think about it for that aspect.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:05 AM
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Colombian women are great. The men, not so much. Why is that?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:30 PM
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I remember reading that he never did drugs, which was to emphasize the great acting in Wolf of Wall Street
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:43 PM
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Can you recommend some reading?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:29 PM
1

Does the sex on demand diminish with all your LTRs over time?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:21 PM
1

My mom got sick and was in the hospital for a while before passing away. I didn't hold it together to well. I just felt so useless. If I had the money for better health care, I'm pretty sure she would still be alive. But I was living paycheck to paycheck. And my point is, that is was ended my marriage. I ended it (was still BP) because I couldn't believe I sensed anything but support from her.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:42 AM
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Are you telling me McDonalds doesn't use high quality ingredients?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 03:32 PM
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Thought it would be Biz Markie. But that was good
/r/askTRP14/10/18 12:45 PM
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Worst case scenario is you go for coffee, she decided she hates you and accuses you of rape.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:08 PM
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"It's cold/hot in here"
/r/askTRP05/10/18 08:32 PM
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You can smoke weed, watch TV and workout all at the same time. I am 30 alone. 0 family. I smoke drink play video games every night. But I also cook my own healthy food, workout and read and study.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:44 PM
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Picanah is a type of steak Brazilians do that is good. They also have a soda called Guarana Antarctica, which is high caffeine and good.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:35 PM
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50 first dates
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:06 PM
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50+ hour/week intership is bullshit. I work at a fortune 500. Our interns are there to learn in a relaxed environment.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:08 PM
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Just my opinion. When she asked about the sharing the ice cream, you got what you wanted I would have said something like... Yep, see you after work for ice cream. Seems like your comment made her acknowledge she was coming over for sex which she didn't like. But, you know, hindsight being 20/20.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 01:36 PM
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No buns no fries no soda.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:10 PM
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If you have a LTR that doesn't help you when you are sick, then she isn't worth your time.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 02:52 PM
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Do what makes you happy man
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:03 PM
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Yeah I'm highly introverted, but I learned how to act in social situations. I've had plenty of people believe I love talking to everyone. Introverted was the wrong word, but we know what OP meant.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 11:58 AM
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No matter how hot a girl is, there is a guy somewhere sick of her shit
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:41 PM
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You can find a new job dude.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:14 AM
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In your case, based off you posting that question, it was definitely your fault Abundance mentality, sidebar, all that
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:59 PM
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More expensive obviously but dailies are the best. More sanity. No liquid, always carry a backup. If one falls out or starts to bother, just replace.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:32 PM
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I would say he turned alpha because of what happens in the movie.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 10:47 AM
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My girl is foreign and she is. I am in charge of 90% of the decisions. Even at a restaurant I order both our meals, I tell her when it's her turn to pay... She hands me her card and I pay with it. I have never once been denied sex. As someone who is not a natural alpha, it's getting really tiresome. I feel like I'm babysitting. Honestly not sure I want to stay in this ltr. It's great and horrible at the same time.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:26 PM
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I'm just talking out my ass, but she might have just been nice since you were that way. Had no intention of getting with you.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:59 PM
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If you need to, buy a jacket from Macy's and return after the interview.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:47 PM
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It obviously turned you into a woman
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:39 PM
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You can find alot of books in PDF format
/r/askTRP31/05/18 01:01 AM
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Sometimes at work you gotta play the game to get ahead. If there is no chance of getting ahead, deal with it until you find something better
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:57 PM
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I'm not qualified to give you advice here, but I'm a reader. I'd recommend Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Seems to me some stoicism would do you good.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:00 AM
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You are doing it wrong
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:08 PM
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Be careful. Your mom may have never mentioned him for a reason. But you should do it. This doesn't apply to your situation specifically but: I was around 12. Knock on the door... It's a 30ish year old guy looking for my step dad. He comes in all emotional ready to meet his dad. My step dad says... Your mom never told you that we adopted you? We split when you were a few months old. Dude sat there and cried for a little while and left never to be seen again
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:02 PM
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Just because you're paranoid, don't mean they're not after you.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:11 PM
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It's a tie. They both suck.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:39 PM
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Study, learn. Actually pay attention in school 401k/IRA.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 11:15 PM
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Maybe ignore them like you don't recognize they are addressing you.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:43 AM
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I like to read non fiction
/r/askTRP20/04/18 11:41 AM
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I skimmed through that. I don't give much advise because while the trp changed my life (it got me laid). I haven't fully embraced to a point of giving advice. However, I've read enough here and didn't see it pushed in other responses... You need to go to the gym. Everyday. Do that for a few months and a good percent of your shit is resolved.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:45 AM
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Unrelated and Just curious. He's mad at your father but what about you?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 03:07 PM
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I would call him out on what he's doing, right in front of everyone. A one liner like, there you go mocking me again. Just say that Everytime then let it go. Then just say Jimmy the Mocker when he does it. Get loud, Interrupt him, then let it go until next time.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:38 PM
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Buy a hat
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:27 PM
2

I kept my company 401k with full matching. I built some mining rigs and collect from those. I should be able to recover the money in about a year's time. I think that's possible. I'm planning on reivesting some of the money I make back, but am holding some for long term retirement hopes.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 10:15 PM
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Just an idea. But you need salt in order to retain water. So check your salt intake. But do your own research on that because I only think that from reading Reddit.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:13 PM
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If you are learning, there is no head trauma. If you are professional fighting sure there is a risk. Bjj is an essential part of mma. I went to a gym that did it all. So I got to experience a little bit of everything. Personally, I didn't find bjj boring at all. Muay Thia I found to be very violent and probably the best for everyday self defense. A Muay Thia fighter would destroy a boxer because the boxer doesn't kick or grab
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:07 PM
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If your not that comfortable with her, call first say you are on your way.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:53 AM
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My my mom died I just wanted to be around people I felt comfortable with. No need for talking, but their presence. Get an Uber and show up. Worry about being a good human, not an alpha red pill man.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:25 AM
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I've noticed women do move past. I can't believe it, but ignoring them just works to well.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 11:08 PM
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What really does a man have to offer a man?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:11 PM
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You obviously give a shit. It literally matters at the end of my day.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:13 PM
2

That worked for me.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:03 PM
8

Stay a virgin then.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:02 PM
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She's sounds like a girl that awalt doesn't apply to. A perfect unicorn. Better just do whatever she says to keep her happy.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 05:45 PM
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I only read the title and I'm sure dude.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:01 AM
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A girl who acts like that is not one to be in an LTR with. You leave.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:21 PM
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This is bad advice.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:12 PM
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I'm seeing a suicide post every day now
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:04 PM
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I'm middle class, but I had a friend who did well. Man, taking girls out on the boat was great.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:21 AM
0

Sound like you want adderall.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:15 PM
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I read the into about being deleted and though this guy has a sense of humor. Then the stand up comedy bit.... Suicide is so final man. Better off making a drastic change then that.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 02:32 PM
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I think about work, finances. I run through code I'm working on. Bite my tounge.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 09:49 PM
1

Books
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:51 PM
4

You getting alpha widowed by a girl.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 08:09 PM
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Use Firefox Focus browser for anything like that. Clears on close. Tell you it hasn't been cleared if open in background
/r/askTRP09/02/18 01:59 AM
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Depending on your gaming pc you might want to set it up to mine crypto and make a few bucks. I played a lot of pc games, mining feels like a version of it except much less of a time sink. You work on setting it up and let it run and make money.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 03:00 PM
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Make her pay for 2nd.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:47 PM
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I've never been a happy person. But shit gets a lot better after high school. Give it a few more years buddy.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:18 AM
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That's cute
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:07 AM
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I get where you are coming from, but there are a lot worse parents out there man.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:33 PM
2

What about recreational use of those drugs
/r/askTRP03/02/18 05:00 PM
1

She seems like a nice girl
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 04:06 PM
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Something about it not being your turn.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 04:47 AM
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Yeah man I think you have to fight him. You can't let this happen and linger over you for the rest of your life. You will always feel like that dude was over you, rolling his char and shit. Train for a day or two before the challenge. Make sure his gf is there to watch. Slap him up a bit before the challenge. Set up a camera for the fight so he can't say you just attacked him. Live stream it to YouTube so you everyone knows its not edited. Post the link here so you have witnesses watching.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:29 PM
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Do your fucking homework.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:18 PM
2

Same
/r/askTRP31/01/18 07:57 PM
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Doesn't seem like it.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:38 PM
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And you will never love a woman as much as you do your dog.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:43 PM
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Personally, i wouldn't do anything. Let it escalate and see how far it goes. Imagine he put her arm around her and got close. You do nothing. Then the dude started kissing her and she reciprocated.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:42 PM
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I agree to point 1. You gotta figure out why 20 people didn't want to show up. There's something going on there.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 12:54 PM
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Cool. I have to check that out. I was hoping to achieve this through crypto currency.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 09:08 PM
1

How much did their drinks cost you?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:58 AM
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When we are growing up we are conditioned to be like our parents. If you don't want to be, it's simply a choice you have to make to act a different way.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 12:54 PM
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Stop posting here.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:31 PM
2

If you are 70lbs overweight... coming from someone who was worse then that, you need to resolve that first to even find out what your real problems are. I lost a lot weight on the keto diet. Check out the sub, feel free to msg me with any questions.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:28 PM
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These sound like old friends, so cutting them out of your life seems extreme. But I would find a new main group of friends or spend less time with them.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:18 PM
2

Tell her mom you are actually struggling since the wedding got called off and are about to l9se everything and you need a few grand to recover. Recoup your losses from the wedding planning and be done with her.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:17 PM
1

Yeah tell me you will agree if you get the back pay. Sucks, but seems like a fair compromise.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 02:52 AM
2

Virging4life needs this sub and he knew it instantly. Those comments probably bring new people.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:05 PM
1

Just curious what your relationship with your father/step father is now?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 07:01 PM
1

You kinda go on about having someone care for you in hard time. Having money gets you the best treatment.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 10:09 PM
2

Best medicine goes to people with money.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 01:28 PM
1

she spanish?
/r/askTRP10/12/17 03:47 AM
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Download Snapchat and use the filters
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:47 PM
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My ltr has not denied me sex 1 time in 3 years. If she did that would be the end.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:45 PM
5

Pussy
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:03 PM
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Good luck man. It's a tough transition, but you will be happy you made it.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:55 PM
2

Doesn't sound tough to me. Shitty parents.. join the club. In college with 7k in bank... better then most working adults. It would take only a small bit of discipline to have a good life in order. I felt similar with my dad. I had to cut him out of my life completely. I haven't talked to him in around 3-4 years. I don't miss him, But hope he is doing okay. I don't see having a relationship with him that doesn't involve him trying to take advantage of me. I'm not saying to have to go to that extr…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 07:47 PM
1

Seems like you should try some social physical activities. Mma gym, rock climbing, any sport. Kayaking.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:06 PM
1

I'm no expert on this by any means, so I can only give you my personal experience. I used to want to learn to program and signed up for online videos. Paid subscribe with instructor help, quality videos. It didn't click much for me. I found that reading a book worked much better for me. Point being, you need to find a method that works for you. If you are in highschool, maybe there is some tutoring you could find. Anyways man, you won't regret the effort you put in now.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:58 PM
2

If you used Excel/Access a lot VBA can be most useful in the short term. Less in the long run I suggest you start with Python. It's so easy. World's runs on SQL. Strong if you have a data warehouse at work or backend access.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:08 PM
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I love my dog. Was a big fucking mistake to get it at 20 years old. Lots of money. Getting home every night. Miss lots of on the fly weekend trips. No Week long vacations.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:49 PM
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I'm 31. About a year ago I landed a job at a fortune 500. It's an old company. White male dominated. It's really not bad. Time off, sick days, personal days. Good 401k match. Subsidized cafeteria. No extreme hours every week. I only make around 65k. But plenty of guys there making double that who work hard, but have it good.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 03:29 AM
1

Everyone company has a finance department
/r/askTRP22/10/17 03:25 AM
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Bet it all on black
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:09 AM
3

I bought private dance lessons. I don't recommend that. Super expensive 1 on 1. It's a long term thing going through steps. The dance nights for beginners was like $15 , little liquor... they needed guys. I learned more there juyst getting comfortable
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:08 AM
1

Say no to his requests you don't agree with. Then let the chips fall where they may.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:13 PM
2

I think she is just embarrassed (or any other similar emotion) about begging you last time and getting denied. Just wants you to initiate next time
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:10 PM
10

He is also a beats provider
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 02:01 AM
3

Get a dog
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:40 PM
1

You gotta figure out the logistics as a manager. Make a comment section, split credit or something. Just make a history showing her doing what she is doing.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 06:34 PM
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Every work situation is unique. Based of what you wrote I would take an approach of assigning tasks to everyone in the open... a white board and Excel file. Something everyone sees. Keep track of it all and mark when completed... overtime you can show this with proof that she is not complying and hurting the team.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 02:50 PM
2

I worked in 200 person firm. Led by 3 woman. 4:1 Female to Male ration. I was the analyst who did audits so that's a fact, not a guess or exaggeration. The jealoulsy was strong. The good looking females would get berated for wearing shirt skirts or showing cleavage. Whereas anyone less attractive then the 3 owners could do the same with no consequence. Meetings were as you described. email chains were a fucking mess. I remember I had 1 project to do with 2 other guys. The difference was astonish…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 06:58 PM
1

You know yourself. Some people can handle casual gaming. If I play a little bit, I know the potential is there for me to get hooks and lose months of my life again. I don't want to risk it. If you need something to do at home, get a book. Though if you are 16, still in school... I would focus on school. You will be happy you did for the rest of your life. Study on how to study better. Read books that interest you. Learn technolgy... programming, rasberry pi. Join the debate team. Set up your lif…
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:49 PM
2

This guys really seems down. Usually a post like this gets treated pretty harsh. Especially when its obvious the guy hasn't done much reading. Kinda amazed how sympathetic and helpful everyone has been. Its really nice to see.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:28 AM
1

I agree. As long as it will help your job and its not some revenge fantasy. It feels like a revenge fantasy though
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:20 AM
1

Other girls your age didnt seem to mind.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 06:17 PM
3

Replace ("Prayer","Meditation")
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:25 PM
5

Some of 'our' father weren't doing their best. Some were bad people.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 11:27 AM
0

To burn in a lake of fire and fry, won't see them again until the 4th of july?
/r/askTRP16/08/17 02:36 PM
1

You don't have a gf anymore. Assuming this is real. Which I find it hard to believe. It really validates the beta males out there and how far lost they are.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 04:37 PM
2

Not really. It's not worth getting in trouble for some kids
/r/askTRP09/08/17 08:38 PM
2

Let me help you out. You don't love her
/r/askTRP08/08/17 10:23 PM
1

You said it. He's not a bad guy. He doesn't need trp. He needs you to get your shit together.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 01:44 AM
1

Cool. I'm not one to give advice past that.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 01:33 AM
1

Skimmed through all this.. but are you hitting the gym? I feel like you arent.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 01:24 AM
12

He was being sarcastic. He was also trying to help you, just while being sarcastic. I think you should look into some sort of Buddhism meditation man.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:18 PM
12

He was being sarcastic. You really should have picked up on that. I would say 99% of people who read that would. Figure out why you didnt and fix that.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 06:21 PM
1

Thanks for that. That put me in a better mood.
/r/askMRP03/07/17 01:13 AM
1

Just be aware if you go back to that, you risk going back to how you were before. It is worse the 2nd time around and harder to get out of. I know you think that it's not possible, but it is. I personally think you should give the girl a chance. If what you say is true, but you may be blinded. But just don't put yourself in jeopardy of falling back to old ways.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:26 PM
2

"Can i sit in that chair?"
/r/askTRP26/05/17 02:55 PM
1

I had a similar situation but also included phone conversations. I actually got tired and bored after a while. At first i was a fiend. The realy value was listening to management. Eventually you will dislike almost everyone though. However, i had a 150 person office. With only 20, everything is much more relevant to you.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 12:15 PM
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I'd follow some of the general advice over in /r/personalfinance Put small amount into a retirement (roth ira). Some into savings for a rainy day fund. But 18 in college, you should mostly go out and enjoy yourself. I'd say cook > restaurant to save money and eat better.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 11:49 AM
1

This first comment was my reaction too. You said you are a fully grown man. You don't sound like it. I am 31 and cut my family out about 2 years ago. It was specifically my dad who is an addictive gambler who will use anybody he can. Removing him caused me to lose the rest. I still love him and miss him, but he is sick and will only ruin my life more in addition to everyone else... already ruined credit and 30k+ debt.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 10:52 AM
1

I like IT because of the social skill needed or lack there of
/r/askTRP24/02/17 12:12 PM
1

Excess IS the problem.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:17 AM
1

Im not doing great, but I am doing better since finding trp about 2 years ago. I used to never laid, now i do sometimes, but I've slightly improved in other areas as well. Honestly i just play too much pc games.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:42 PM
10

Kinda sounds like you need new friends as well
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:38 PM
6

You sound pathetic.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:03 PM
5

Yeah buy her a gift. You sound like a pos. Do you want to buy her a gift? Do you want to spend that much money? If you find it hard to spend $50 on a 3 year ltr, maybe you don't really like her.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:49 PM
1

It depends on where you work, but there might not be anything wrong with making a formal complaint. Or even respond to him with a, "thats not appropriate for work and I will need to file a complaint" use the word harassment and/or hostile work environment. Just be calm and keep frame.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:06 PM
5

Looks like he has a bright future in trp
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:40 AM
5

"me thanks too"
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:24 PM
56

makes me think you don't understand this whole red pill thing.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:04 AM
41

i thought i loved you because you didn't ask me these types of questions.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 01:40 AM
1

You missed latin people. One of the largest growing populations. They are like cocaroaches. Women are also insanely hot.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 10:18 PM
2

real estate shit you can do whenever. the plane shit, maybe not.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 02:33 AM
1

smoke weed. just kidding.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 08:32 PM
2

Consider the loss you take on the car, plus the expense of a new one. But really man, this is a personal decision with valid points on both sides. No real right or wrong answer. Bmw helps with girls if thats what you are going for. A civic wont do the same. I went from a camaro to a honda.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:23 PM
1

I wouldn't get too worked up about the inbetween. You just gotta kill it at the interview. You are being considered for the job. Go over interview questions and practice, although I am a firm believer that how well you are liked on a personal basis will hold the most importance. The only thing I can think of to do in preparation to increase your chance is getting a few minutes with the guy who put your name out. Ask his advice, but really the goal would be to get him to put another good word in …
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:11 PM
1

Testosterone does cause baldness. I'd go for muscles > hair though. Mostly you sound like you are lacking self confidence, saying it nicely there. You are going to have to accept it and move on man.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:43 PM
1

I am no expert, but in my opinion, you haven't fully accepted the abundance mentality. I believe that I recognize this because I have not fully accepted it myself. I don't want to lose my current ltr for fear of finding another girl like the one I have now. If you have never applied dread game to a girl, I think you will be surprised by how effective it is. It really puts the girl through an emotional roller coaster and it almost seems tortuous. I would only do this for a valid reason. Like it i…
/r/askTRP02/12/16 07:10 PM
5

Worrying about having a baby face lower your SMV lowers your SMV.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 09:10 PM
2

Dad was a gambling addict and commited fraud. Put me and my sister in massive debt before i was 18. Step dad was the biggest pushover with no spine. My mom was bread winner, she drove made all decision. She died when i was 24. 30 now. But like Andro says, reading. No more mr nice guy was good.
/r/seduction28/07/16 01:00 PM
1

I think so. The girls at my work react as expected.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 07:06 PM
1

The first time i applied some dread game, I couldnt fucking believe it worked. It was a test I did of TRP theory. After that ive been hooked.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 01:24 AM
4

If she is single you are competing against all other guys, if she has a boyfriend you are only competing against one guy. I read that on here a while ago on here. It is a bit anecdotal, but I liked it.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:21 PM
2

I could recommend this book to teach you to manage money. Especially retirement at an early age. You could get it free though in pdf or audio. http://www.amazon.com/Will-Teach-You-To-Rich/dp/0761147489
/r/askTRP27/12/15 11:01 PM
0

Be careful when siging up. I understood the importance. Signed up. I told the instructor i was doing it to get with women. But she was concerned with teaching me the steps and proper technique on their money making model. $1000 down and only slightly better off. There is also alot of styles. So learn one relevant to your area. I am in south florida so its the salsa and bachata stuff.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 05:22 PM
4

Try the Pomodoro Technique. See if that works for you. I used it at work and it has helped me stay off mindless bullshit. Google it
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 09:43 PM
2

You know what you need to do man.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 01:32 AM
1

I was going to say this. Go study something to make yourself useful. Read a book or i happen to like udemy.com. if you go to udemy make sure to use a coupon code. No course should be more then $15
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:42 PM
2

I enjoy reading all thats stuff, but i just do what is natural. If i read something and it makes sense to me, i will comfortably and naturally do it.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 10:05 PM
1

yeah its strange. I experienced this at a young age when I told my parents what i was excited or interested in, then they would punish me from it.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 04:30 AM
1

yeah, seems like taking her out, dinner, movies, flowers is sufficient for the occasion. like everyone else says, you gotta hold frame now.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:51 PM
1

oh. my bad. Yeah I don't know anything about that.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 02:48 PM
1

I dont know about your situation right now, but not buying someone a gift on their birthday when they spend it with you is a dick move. Regardless of relationship or gender.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 02:34 PM
2

Right. I ride my bike to work.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:13 PM
2

Except real bacon taste a hell of a lot better then tofu bacon
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 11:12 PM
2

The balanced diet by whose standard? The studies sponsored by Coca-Cola?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 11:02 PM
2

Most of us are so adiment about it because we experienced it. Very similar to swallowing the pill. Yeah dude if you aren't fat then its probably not worth doing. My doctor said he isnt sure about the diet, but if it keeps my bf% low, the benefits will outweigh any consequences. I was on the fast track to type 2 diabetes if i was lucky and most likely heart disease or heart attack in the not to distant future. So i will defend it with my life.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 10:55 PM
2

Which Dr. Oz episode did you learn that from?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 09:37 PM
1

Health insurance and hospital bills arent cheap.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:03 PM
3

I dont know why thats not okay for me either. I had been far my for as far back as my memories go. Eating fucking everything in sight. I couldnt go grocery shopping cause i would just clear out my fridge. 2 weeks into stuffing my face with high fat low carb foods and all of a sudden i have to force myself to eat over 1500 calories a day.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:58 PM
4

Bacon can be cured with sugar or someshit like that but it is an insignificant amount. Plus i can eat up to 50 carbs a day and stay in ketosis.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:04 PM
8

Well it was 2 meals, but yeah it does add up. But when you factor in the health benefits it is easily worth the price. The real glory behind keto is eating in a way i can stay within my caloric budget. Eating high carbs food i cant. It works for it. In fact its the only thing that has ever let me decrease in weight. I dont make 6 figures, but i do okay and dont mind eating foods i enjoy while being able to decrease body fat.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:03 PM
12

I thought you were going to say bacon. I lost over 100lbs doing keto eating a lot of bacon. Shit man, just the otherday i cooked the full package of bacon and just ate that for breakfast and lunch. 700 calories. I guess i could have saved $3 eating rice and oats though, so good point.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 06:30 PM
2

I thought post like these were going to start being deleted?
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:34 AM
1

Dont be a pussy and ask her out.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:37 AM
1

I hate to condone this for highschool. Highschool is fucking easy, you are just lazy. However adderal is really effective. I prefered low dose time release, but i had a friend who prefered the low dose non time release. Eitherway, start with lose dose. 5mg should be good. Like everyone older then you is saying, i wish i would have studied and just did my work in high school. Got my easy As. Got into a decent college and set up my career.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:03 AM
1

I moved out when i was 18. Went to a commuinty college 6 hours from home living with 3 friends paying 400/month for rent. Got student loans and worked in a restaurant. My dad did help out a bit financially but that was a mistake. Shoulda done it completely on my own.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 01:11 AM
3

I would suggest working hard to move out as soon as you can. It is not easy, but once you do, your relationship with your mom will likely improve as well.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 11:28 PM
1

Since it is somewhat on topic here, what is the general idea behind a LTR talking about previous boyfriends? I had a monogamous relationship for 8 months, it was intimate and close up until the very end. She would occasionally mention something about an ex of hers. I was genuinely interested and had no issue talking about it, but never let it get lengthy or too involved. In regards, to the current top comment, it was never about how they made her feel.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:52 AM
1

You can get the friends by living in a college town.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:37 AM
1

Yeah man. It will help you not hurt
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:34 AM
1

Well i grew my hair but also lost over 100lbs. Anywyas girls would make comments about it and i just told them i fucking love my hair and they are jealous it's nicer than theirs. This was all flirtacious and always seem beneficial. However, i do actually love my hair.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:34 AM
1

I cut contact with my family for about a year now. Only immediate family was dad and sis. I still love them and care for them, but they caused so much stress in my life. I wasnt a free person. I dont regret my decision. You might think you cant do it on your own, but you can. Just something to think about.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:30 AM
2

Also make sure to completely remove this girl from your life. Dont let her back in any way for any reason.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:24 AM
11

You knew before submitting this what the right response is. Maybe you just needed to hear others say it.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:21 AM
1

he's is right and trying to help you. You confirmed it with your response.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:01 AM
1

When I first started learning, I had similar situations. I would practice on girls, but did not have intentions of doing anything with them. I was just testing shit out. I would practice with girls at work, but that snowballed and got out of hand so I had to stop that. 4:1 Female to Male, 120+ employees, I have a position with some authority and autonomy.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:36 AM
5

Dude. Your your count is 1. In college. Don't get a ltr. I was like that and regret it.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 06:32 PM
6

Im doing this now while working full time. I require myself 2 hours a night mon-thur. I am learning ms sql. I currenty work in IT doing help desk and reporting. I do alot of Excel work, i program in VBA for excel Would love any advise you have
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:15 PM
1

There is a tech school by me free tutition to anyone unemployed or underemployed <45k. I tried the school as a paid student. It was bad. A kid in class told me to cancel while i can its not worth the money. I think they get some governement credit
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:13 PM
2

This is a quote i read on here a while ago that i enjoyed. "A single girl you have to compete with all other guys, a girl in a relationship you only have to compete with one"
/r/askTRP20/10/15 01:53 AM
0

I decided my dad was a bad person who was having a negative impact on my life. He leeches and takes advantage of everyone he can including his family and children. I removed him from my life and work to rely only on myself. This had nothing to do with alpha or beta.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 12:38 AM
1

I would study and be a house husband. Study all you can and earn degrees while taking care of the kid. If she or you decide to leave, you are set. If you become well educated enough, you can begin your career
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:59 PM
4

I put everything on credit as well for the bonuses but most people are just not able to handle it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 10:43 AM
1

You said you don martial arts? Try and hang out with the guys you practice with.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 10:34 AM
3

I didnt see anyone else say it, but lifting weight will help your weight loss. It keeps yours muscles working (rebuilding) hours after a workout, eventually burning more total calorie then cardio. You need to be lifting weights dude.
/r/becomeaman10/10/15 02:47 AM
2

Ive lost some weight too. You can leave your shirt on. Wear an undershirt / tank top What ive read about loose skin is it depends on the person and age. I was with a 40 year old woman with 4 kids and she didnt have a single stretch mark on her body.only A little loose tummy skin when she bent forward. Time, lotion exercise. Or surgery. Start saving putting a little away each month. I heard if a Dr. Says it is a medical condition, insurance could help cover it. On mobile
/r/askTRP02/10/15 10:36 AM
1

Thanks. I actually live 3 miles from my work. Recently Sold my Camaro which i was still making payments on cancelled insurance. That goes straight to savings now. Stay home and study to try to get some IT certs. Just wish I did it 2 years ago. Yeah its crazy. I was living paycheck to paycheck but bought a new sports car.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 10:22 AM
3

Im negative and glad you said it. I know where im at and doing something about it. Alteast when i retire my roth and 401k should put me in the positive.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:38 PM
2

On mobile: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00HGKNBDK?ie=UTF8&redirectFromSS=1&pc_redir=T1&noEncodingTag=1&fp=1 Book called: Mini Habits® — Smaller Habits, Bigger Results To really sum it up. Require yourself to study everday in such a manner that you cannot fail. 1 math problem a day required. Do more? Fine. But 1 is required everyday no exception. You will wind up doing more most days, but by doing this you are also improving your self discipline skill. No proofread.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 09:43 AM
7

i'm not in a position to give advice on chicks, but drinking to increase tolerance sounds retarded. I just dont drink that much. The line i use is "i just dont drink that much"
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:06 AM
1

I have a 2012 lowest model camaro, about 20k new. Women think its something so much more then that
/r/askTRP06/05/15 06:27 AM
2

From my personal experience, you will only get silence.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 08:10 PM
1

i would suggest reading daily too.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 10:00 PM
8

I had a columbian chick call me Papi. I Liked it.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 04:48 PM
2

Ive joined a dance class and mma class. Its really help with physical interaction. Also both help with self confidence. The 1st class is hard, make it through that and you should be good.
/r/seduction18/04/15 12:12 AM
1

I am similar. I don't hate my father, but I can't have him in my life. At least not right now. I am 29. I feel like my dad taught me nothing, but I have a friend who would say, maybe he taught you more then you think. Meaning, that I have learned a lesson from the experience.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 01:34 AM
13

This is really it. She invited you over Because her roomate was gone... 1am.. put her leg on you... wtf happened. I got so disappointed right there.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 03:12 AM
2

There is some shit about wearing socks to be more relaxed. getting head should make you hard, but not always easy to pull of on a new chick. But yeah I am in a similar situation. With LTR no problems ever. Broke up, now with new chicks im like wtf is going on
/r/askTRP04/04/15 10:50 PM
3

Good read. Post 02 when it comes out so its not missed.
/r/seduction29/03/15 12:38 PM
1

From personal exerience in the workfield... jumped from 13/hr to 27h/r in 4.5 year. Always work hard and no one can ever say anything else about you Be friendly and suck up the person who decides your pay.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:42 AM
2

i was with a girl from 18-28. She was my 2nd, i was her first. I struggled with the same problem you are having. I broke if off a year ago, there were some other factors involved too. I still dont know if i made the right decision. I can tell you that now i tend to gravitate towards girls similiar to her and have accidently called them by her name. I did get tired of sex in the relationship (10 years) and sometimes i enjoy the new pussy so much its scary. Yet, there are times i think about her d…
/r/askTRP28/03/15 03:43 PM
3

right, ok. i can see how that would be bad
/r/askTRP28/03/15 01:18 PM
5

I dont get it. Whats the big deal? house supplies you both use? In a 5 year ltr only $100 Im honestly just asking.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 02:43 AM
2

Ah. This hits deep
/r/askTRP17/02/15 11:09 PM
1

Good question
/r/askTRP16/02/15 06:54 PM
1

I've seen a lot of success with acne over at r/keto. It is also how i lost over 100lbs.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:41 PM
2

Can you post or tell me where the link is with the 26 questions?
/r/askTRP15/02/15 08:31 PM
1

Diet and exercise routine helped me deal with a lot of my internal shit. It helps in so many aspects including getting women. It's not cheap, but MMA type classes. You'd be surprised how good a 3 minute round of sparring makes you feel. Plus the confidence boost and its a social thing, you meet people.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 06:23 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. I had already cancelled. but i understand what you are saying.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:59 AM
11

Or whose dad is just a fucking loser.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 08:29 PM
1

I didnt downvote it. I actually just upvoted and this is what im going with.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 08:21 PM
2

That actually sounds like solid advice, except I just read /u/tepper2 post where it seems one of the cardinal rules is to not shit where you eat. While she doesn't technically work with me, I think it would still fall under that category. I don't hate my job and make decent money. I don't know a lot of people who can say that. I've already fucked up a bit, not going to risk making it worse.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 04:50 PM
1

thanks. yeah man. it really only took 1 full year. 28 years of doing nothing and feeling like shit, 1 year of hard work and things are looking good.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 01:40 PM
2

cool. thanks
/r/askTRP14/02/15 01:38 PM

Make sure you are exercising and eating right. seems simple but that really halped me. I did /r/keto for diet and joined an mma gym. Mma gym may help your social life as well.
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If you weren't attracted, why did you make out with her Beer take her number, and ask her out? There is something going on here that you are glossing over. Well I was thinking i wanted to have sex with her. I've been with very few girls and only recently have I ever gotten female attention. I was just practicing, but I don't want the shit coming back to me at work. I have a position of some authority and I don't want to ruin my chances with some other girls there. You should be a man, keep your …
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