Hello Red pillers, long story short i have a LTR (5y relationship) which is a nice relationship. Sex have been going down for the past 2 years to an all time low (once a week on a good week) she had some personal problems i of course supported her on them. The thing is i think I don't feel the same desire, she gained 25 pounds this past 2 years even though we go to the gym every day. I fell that all that i do is supporting her and have sat aside my personal goals. Lots of pretty girls talk to me and flirt me, even though i know i can have them I'd blow them off because of mi LTR status. We are soon to get engage, about to get a department for the both of us and about to get married. Don't know what to do about it, I don't know if that's the path i still want to go with my live. I'm 25y she's 24y live in Latin America. I have a pretty good well paid job, she does an ok job. Also I'm well build and never have any problems getting laid.