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| 2 | Can I recover from too much comfort and beta vibes on date 2?what did i just read. you’re overthinking this. you’ve fucked every time. you need to care less. you’re going to fuck this up if you keep this neuroticism up. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Ltr pulling back to match my investmentso things are just fine. if you feel she’s pulling back, match her energy. decide on what your frame is and operate from it. let her live in your world. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Ltr pulling back to match my investmenthave you smashed? a month is not an LTR | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | My case against game and against PUAi don’t think OP would disagree with this. the pt of this post was the bedrock of frame is stability - of mind, yes, but that comes much easier when you don’t have material threats/concerns e.g. money, housing, extras. when you’re stable, your game will be tighter and frame more solid for the reasons you mention: pussy is not the end all be all for you, girls are entertainment and fun, not essentials or your purpose. this post supports that although the wording was a bit provocative. game is awe… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Am i doing this right, Tinder pics. (Barely getting matches)i’m sure it looked better. gotta add fun with friends/girls to your profile and you’re golden | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Am i doing this right, Tinder pics. (Barely getting matches)super barbarian, fuck you like a warrior vibe, that’s why it’s cool and chicks dig, long hair is also an indicator of genetic quality | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 12:04 AM |
| 21 | Am i doing this right, Tinder pics. (Barely getting matches)you’re making goofy faces and no clear face shots, no shots with friends or girls, comes off as weird and alienated and lowish value, gains and haircut look good tho | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | My case against game and against PUAa sheltered fool is what he is | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/20 03:46 PM |
| 8 | What’s your go-to response when girls use bad logistics as a way to reject a date?i’d leave on read and remove from your mind. nothing more to add. she said when she couldn’t but not when she could. that’s all you need to know. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | All my habits are bad habitsalso, check out a book called “The Luck Factor” by Richard Wiseman. positivity is addicting. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 08:57 PM |
| 7 | My case against game and against PUAfeel free to elaborate: curious about your reasoning. this is my first time reading a post in months. in general, members of this sub who dramatically pronounce its death underscore their inability to lead more than anything. says a lot about you that you’ve made that assessment and that’s how you respond. when there’s a vacuum, leaders fill it. also, remember the words of Heraclitus. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 08:14 PM |
| 27 | My case against game and against PUA20-something chicks are so drawn to stability I'm surprised they aren't out fucking concrete slabs. hilarious line, rings very true, i agree with this strongly | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 9 | My case against game and against PUAwhat i think he meant is men have it simple. build yourself up. not easy, in fact, the hardest thing. but it is simple (as it relates to SMV - there are things you can’t change physically, but most things you can, and then mentally, also simple once you know what the mindset of a winner looks like). | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | All my habits are bad habitsyep | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | All my habits are bad habitsthis is literally all in your head. and that’s life. we’re all battling to conquer ourselves. you’ve got some seriously negative thought loop cycles in motion. bad news: they compound like interest and get more engraved in your mindscape. good news: they compound like interest and get...you get it. solution? brain wash yourself at all costs. start listening to those videos on youtube where it talks about how strong you are in the face of adversity and how life will go great for you. i’m talkin l… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 05:07 PM |
| 3 | As an Asian-American, how do I compete with black guys in nightclubs?don’t feed the trolls | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 03:50 PM |
| 26 | As an Asian-American, how do I compete with black guys in nightclubs?stop being a little self-pitying bitch. start there. no woman wants to suck the cock of a little bitch. once you learn to stop complaining, you’ll maybe get your dick wet. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I block an ex who's still attracted to me but is now in a different country?why do you care? | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Talking chicks out of wanting to fuck. HELPrelax bro. get out of your head. at this pt you’re doing something right by attracting these women. it’s time to stop thinking and start doing. trying tactics. my take: it’s really simple - lead. you need to lead these women but in order to lead you need a vision. a plan. a destination. a goal or objective. all this stuff sound familiar? what works with women, works in life. apply the direction and drive you do to work to the seduction. if she’s coming to you she’s looking to you to lead her. so… | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | No matter how much time passes or how many girls I see/plate I won’t forget my first “love”you’ve got to stop idealizing her and that time. i guarantee if you look back you’ll realize it wasn’t all as perfect as you choose to remember it. people come and go. give it time. you’ll find someone else you dig, but let this be a lesson in the childish foolishness of emotional over-investment. you’re a man. you need to be strong and be able to hold your own, even if that means you’ll never “get her back” or “love” (be infatuated with) another person again. revisit that sidebar. right now you… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR acts jealous when I hang out with female friendskeep doing your thing. invite her to a session if it makes sense. try not to let this affect your mission. you need to stay focused and perfect your craft. if this girl can’t handle that, she’s gonna have to go at some point. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | "Oh yeah what are you going to do?" - best way to respond?something along these lines, OP. she’s inviting you to close. prove her right by making it happen. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Considering changing my future regarding LTRwhy would you marry her? there’s no reason to. you’re doing all the work. she’s not worthy. you gotta have higher self worth. you’re lucky. you’re seeing the real her before the marriage. learn this concept. understand it well. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 04:19 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with entitled girls?you’re overthinking this. just fuck her when she wants and you’re free/want, but forget trying to “herd the grasshopper” here. game other girls, care less about what she does, when she throws pussy your way, catch it. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | “Too tired” for sex? No second date.no contact. move along. if she boomerangs that’s on her, but unless it’s about fucking, she doesn’t exist. oneitis. go after other sluts. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:53 PM |
| 4 | For dudes here who have "plates", are you attractive ? (stupid question).so you’re not being social and going out to talk to girls, but you’re asking yourself if you have no hope with women? you realize how ridiculous you sound, right? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | I think I got ghosted. I'm a beginner so bear with me.forget about her, get another one. that’s your only option here. forget she exists. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | For dudes here who have "plates", are you attractive ? (stupid question).uh...do you go out and interact with girls regularly? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Trp opinion on nudes?of course she did. girls are very predictable at times. she’s escalating sexually. it worked. have fun with your friends. make her wait. then tell her to show you wanna see something sexy. when she sends the nudes give her some affirmation/validation in the form of sexting (how’s your sexting game?). don’t lose frame and start worshipping the bitch. focus on how the nudes make you feel. they should make you want to fuck the shit out of her be concise. “damn, you have no idea what i’d do to you r… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 05:03 AM |
| 9 | Help with clingy sidegirl.tell her to fix her pussy | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Girl withholding sex, got paranoid when I pulled back; where to go next?when she asked that question, she was looking for clarification. the real question was twofold: what kind of guy are you and how do you see me? it wasn’t immediately clear up until that point if you’d go alpha or go beta (to put it simply) and so she looked to you for guidance on how she should behave. you immediately said “i’m the beta boyfriend so let’s take it slow and do things the right way” with your response and so she’s just treating you accordingly. she’s not actually playing games. she… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl withholding sex, got paranoid when I pulled back; where to go next?when you “asked her out” before fucking her, you do realize what you did right? (specifically not just “i fucked up”) | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Trp opinion on nudes?that’s the difference between the real and the fake. a guy can “pretend” to be some dominant alpha because he takes great notes and has memorized the right answers, but when he’s in unknown territory, he reverts back to being a little bitch and his frame crumbles. where am i going with this? so say a guy is doing everything right and he really wants his girl to send him nudes. problem? there hasn’t been a post written about it on TRP so he’s got no idea what to do. his first instinct will be to … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Trp opinion on nudes?that’s fine. i send chicks random snaps of me at gym/with pump just for fun. i’ll occasionally ask chicks to “send daddy a pic” and they know what that means and send something good. i had one chick who’s otherwise in my frame push back hard on the nudes thing. but she gives up the pussy, buys me gifts, travels long distances for me, so i accept it. the most important thing here is frame, and not being a little pussy and exchanging your dignity for anything a woman has to offer. does that makes … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 11:34 AM |
| 19 | Girl I’m trying to plate says I’m similar to her boyfriend... what is she implying?your first guess is correct. she’s priming you, testing the waters: how did you respond? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 11:50 PM |
| 3 | is “i fw all races” useful in tinder bio?yes. that is actually useful in your case. have fun. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?i’m still not exactly sure what triggered this. i don’t know what he did wrong, but maybe she sensed neediness toward her, maybe she could tell that he didn’t want to lose her, maybe she met new, interesting guy. he mentions he matched on a dating site with one of her friends. that doesn’t mean much, and it should actually increase the girls attraction for him. her going silent could be a shit test. whatever triggered the change in her behavior, the fact is she flaked without giving a reason and… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Two tipsy female coworkers were just telling me "how nice" their boobs are...maybe not the month but definitely the next couple weeks, brace yourself | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 11:49 PM |
| 8 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?be careful with the concussion, make sure you’re getting check ups and fully recovering from that. trust me man, i get it. i’ve been in your shoes. i know what it’s like to lose a fun, likable fuck toy. put things in perspective. this is one girl of the thousands you’ll have over the course of your life. you two shared some good times and now it’s time for you to move on, as all good things must come to an end. be grateful for having the experience of slaying the hot babe pussy and take a few mo… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 08:49 PM |
| 19 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?got it. yeah. so what you need to do is divest emotionally. right now. fully. you need to bring yourself to the point of complete apathy for this woman. she has demonstrated she doesn’t value you, your time, your presence in her life so she now no longer has rights to you. you have to find a way within yourself to drop her, and raise your self-esteem. while you’re divesting, you must game other women. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 08:40 PM |
| 16 | Two tipsy female coworkers were just telling me "how nice" their boobs are...lmao, you shouldn’t have even said the boobs were 10/10, you idiot, thankfully the shred of rationality you had left prevented you from pressing the stop bottom on the elevator and motor boating them both against their will. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 08:15 PM |
| 21 | Plate canceled 8th date. Should I call?hit her up like “let’s do X @ Y” to confirm she’s lost attraction and there’s not something going on with her. if no response, or excuse and no proposal, soft next indefinitely - treat her as if she no longer exists. let her initiate, but most likely she’s gone forever. always be gaming. it might help if you described what happened when you met her friends. you need to learn from this. further note: nothing wrong with finding a girl suitable for your rotation and preferring she remain, but watch… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 4 | I have been gorging myself on the red pill, but still don't understand the specifics of cold approachingOP - break out of the “where’s the documentation” mindset. here’s what you need to do: IT. just do it. try stuff out. you will learn it along the way. you need to accrue personal experience and be okay with being absolutely clueless. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 10:04 PM |
| 3 | best way to avoid being the emotional tampon?are you fucking? no? are you talking about fucking/otherwise escalating? no? congrats, you’re an acquaintance/colleague. is all the above true and she’s droning on to you about how she hates her boss and how mean, annoying and stupid and dumb and OMG! Chad, Luke and Jason are to her? congrats, you’re an emotional tampon. how do you avoid being an emotional tampon? i think the answer is clear. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Going clubbing with Big group + ltr. What should i be aware ofsingle | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 37 | How to escape this "crabs in a bucket" cycle?don’t break. you can’t control the actions of others. start checking out. surround yourself with high value people and prepare for the next chapter in your life. laugh, smirk, banter, ignore, withdraw (high value people don’t pay attention to things that don’t serve them). do you. you’re more valuable. why would you care about the opinions of people beneath you? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 10:02 PM |
| 10 | Sick after the gymdon’t cheat with starting strength. do the program as recommended. you’re overtraining / under recovering. eat more. sleep more. take a break for a week from training. give your CNS time to recover, then get back to it, but more intelligently next time. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Going clubbing with Big group + ltr. What should i be aware ofoh expect her to do all that you listed. she will try to make you jealous if she’s the type i think she is. it’s imperative that you do not mate guard or be reactive. let her be free. be unphased. that will make you more attractive not just to her but others as well. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Going clubbing with Big group + ltr. What should i be aware oflisten, focus on your fun and enjoyment and genuinely force yourself not to care what she’s up to at the club. guarantee you she’ll want you at the end of the night. and if she doesn’t? who cares. on to the next. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 06:20 PM |
| 9 | Going clubbing with Big group + ltr. What should i be aware oflmao, it seems like plates with feelings (a more retarded version of friends with benefits). all jokes aside, the way you write about her, it’s like she’s completely unpredictable. will she flirt with a guy? will she grind on a guy? will she get bent over and taken piledriver against the seat backs? will she set off a suicide bomber vest? you gotta demote her in your mind. she’s just a plate. uninvest emotionally from her behavior. let her do wtf she wants. you should focus on having a good time… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 06:11 PM |
| 32 | Going clubbing with Big group + ltr. What should i be aware ofi already know you and her aren’t on the same page. you don’t know her at all. she’s not your girl or LTR. if she does any of that to you (minus “talk with dudes” - she’s allowed to communicate with male human beings you fuckin weirdo), she’s not your LTR. she’s a plate. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | It bothered me that ex used to date black dudes. I’m mot racist but am I terrible for this?how does this add value to the community? how is this relevant to anything at all? you don’t like women who’ve fucked black guys. that’s your prerogative. hilariously enough, you will never fully know a woman’s sexual past, regardless of what she tells you. i guess no women are your type, then. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | It bothered me that ex used to date black dudes. I’m mot racist but am I terrible for this?let’s examine this logic briefly: she couldn’t get attractive white dudes. so she fucked black dudes. were these attractive black dudes? unattractive? (forget about the unattractive white dudes, right, they don’t count) all else being equal, white dudes > black dudes? that’s how you’re theorizing this, right? this whole discussion is fucking dumb. why are you micro analyzing this? how does the community benefit from this post*? | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 05:44 AM |
| 1 | It bothered me that ex used to date black dudes. I’m mot racist but am I terrible for this?always have. ever tried approaching a group? | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 05:20 AM |
| 2 | It bothered me that ex used to date black dudes. I’m mot racist but am I terrible for this?nope. don’t give this any further thought. you like what you like. move on. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 05:18 AM |
| 5 | With the full realization my frame is paper thin, I am clueless as to what the next step is.lmao you’re reading into this way too much. you’re not a mind reader. and stare-offs have very little to do with frame. she didn’t break your frame. you did. she literally just looked at you. you don’t know what frame is. you’ve built this cage you live in. ponder that and quit being so neurotic. hit the gym, nerd. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Wont let me penetrateyou know what to do | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Wont let me penetratethere are so many dope lines you could’ve used lmao. do you want to fuck her or not? you need to make the decision for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | LTR candidate in therapy for anxiety. Should I ask for details?you should know more. continue to observe her behavior. therapy is a red flag - usually means alpha widow or self-destructive tendencies, poor decision making and neuroticism. that doesn’t sound like a fun LTR situation, now does it? you’re looking for “good enough”. you should be looking for great (that is, if you’re going to look in the first place). | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 11:58 PM |
| 6 | I think I've done too much teasing, how to recover?she liked it at first. okay you’re teasing but for what purpose? you need to escalate. you don’t tease just to tease. you tease to get her hot so she fucks you. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 11:56 PM |
| 3 | bummed out after bad experience, thoughts?why are you bummed? why are you so emotional? you didn’t have condoms. you didn’t smash. it’s not a big deal. you know what the fuck to do. this was a diary entry. next time you see her, be prepared, stop jerking off so god damn much, and play it like you did the first time. nothing happened. relax. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right move?i agree that going out of your way to target some guy’s girl is childish - but OP doesn’t actually know if this girl he approached has a bf. the reality is girls are rarely ever single. even when they’re “single.” there’s always someone. so instead of trying to sort that out, let her decide whether she wants to fuck you or not. regardless of relationship status, women fuck whoever gives them the most tingles. if you’re attractive enough to her, she’ll suck you off and you’ll never know about her… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Did I make the right move?wow, don’t listen to this guy. beat you up. he’s up way past his bed time. you win some, you lose some, no worries. you played it well in terms of verbals, but perhaps you fucked up with tonality/non-verbals/body language. improve there, stay playful and persistent, realize you won’t get them all even if you’re perfect. the “my boyfriend is on the way” is a common shit test, so kudos for plowing. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 04:32 AM |
| 18 | I'm no longer getting along with my friends and I need advice (Long Post)you need better friends, sure, but you need to figure out why this is happening to you. if everywhere you go you smell shit, you’re probably shitty. do* some self-assessment and find out why they don’t feel like you’re offering value. there’s clearly something you just don’t “get”, find out what that is. feel free to be direct with friend C, let him know you want to work things out. even if it doesn’t work, that’s not the point. the point is to use friend C for intel. you want to get his honest … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Should you purposely avoid discussion on controversial/political topics these days?avoid at all costs but don’t be afraid. it just isn’t worth it. my advice is to find neutral / non-directly political fields that you can be knowledgeable and passionate about, and turn the conversation to them whenever possible. also get good at doublespeak, vague language, skirting the heart of the issue, focusing on symptoms not causes etc, this will allow you to slyly get away with not ever expressing your real opinion about things. consider it a fun game, you’ll get better at it. think what… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Risks in marriage/divorce? The official TRP's recommendation is to never have a long term relationship?there’s a whole sub for this called married red pill. check it out, you’ll get all the answers you need and then some. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Shitting where I eatit does count. the idea is you’ll make the work environment uncomfortable for yourself by causing women to be emotionally invested in you. as i’m sure you’ve noticed, women in general operate differently from men. when you fuck coworkers, you potentially change how they behave to you and others in the work environment. if you offend them or don’t give them what they want, they aren’t above threatening your livelihood by lying about your work performance, falsely accusing you of sexual assault or… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 03:04 AM |
| 8 | Drama, guys acting like females.you handled this like a g. they’re acting like females, correct. very low value male behavior, gossiping behind your back and being passive aggressive without ever confronting you directly. this is up to you. ask yourself this: would you take them back if you told them the truth and they apologized and wanted to be buddy buddy again? could you respect them again considering how this all played out? what value did they add to your life? sometimes people are in your life for seasons. that’s ok. i … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:51 AM |
| 51 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.this is what it means to flirt. good job, OP. you did great. now you’re fully aware of the power you wield. this is only the beginning. buckle up ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Tinder match wants me to text her friend instead?!“hey. your friend sent me. i don’t do small talk over text, let’s grab drinks later this week.” if you don’t hear back within 24 hours, block both on all platforms. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Tinder match wants me to text her friend instead?!happened to my homie. ended up meeting up with the friend referred to him by the girl he matched with. so it’s possible. if you think she’s hot, give it a shot, but hold frame, don’t compromise your dignity or “give” anything. be direct and straight to the point about linking and if she’s not down, move on. you stand to lose nothing (just unfollow/block the bitch if they’re playing games) and have a new plate to gain. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Tinder match wants me to text her friend instead?!yes, snap is fine. i sometimes prefer this. get some disappearable sexual tension built with sexts/nudes, then when you meet hold the tension, and when you get back bust all kinds of nuts. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 04:35 PM |
| 3 | A hot girl I met online has fallen in love with me. I have no such feelings. Should I still plate her?this is normal. fuck her and plate her. set the frame of the relationship and enjoy her until it’s over. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | To get revenge?smart but idk if that’s permissible or legal. you took a massive risk meeting with her privately. she’s fucking insane. she tried to assassinate you socially. and now you want to expose her? i’d say don’t do that unless absolutely necessary. back away from her and live your life. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 06:23 AM |
| 2 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipstwo years later. long time to experience a lot of shit as a woman of fuckable age. she’s nowhere near the same person you met on 4th of July, 2 years ago. keep that in mind. tread carefully. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | The desire to connect with a woman and experience true intimacy is fulfilled through casual sex, not emotional relationshipsplate spinning is the best of both worlds. you still get some of that uninhibited wildness while also getting a girl who’s working to keep you around. but just as surely as plates spin, plates break. enjoy it while it lasts. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youdisclaimer: just read the summary. i also read gaylubeoil’s comments*. i agree with you both. i think you’re basically right, but you come across as a loner. in my experience. i benefit greatly, not from being team-man, but being team like-minded man who agrees with me on core values and has my interests in mind. that feels natural to me and works for me. so yes, you should be obsessed with upping your stats. but without a clan to share it with, it rings hollow. edit: read the whole thing. opini… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 13 | AWALT - Women have been liberated to be who they truly arelmao, this is super reactive and childish. if she wants it, do the opposite to show her you’re the super dominate alpha guy who never gives her what she wants even when you want the same thing. that’s a very weird mentality that i don’t see doing well with women. if you wanna choke a bitch, you choke a bitch, there’s nothing wrong with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Looks are the most important thing about seduction, please change my mind.you’re seeing what you want to see. looks matter. garbage can game is indeed game. what exactly do you want us to say? lmao you’ve come here looking for confirmation for what you already believe. stop wasting the reader’s time. you’re violating rule zero. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Looks are the most important thing about seduction, please change my mind.lmao. i’ll stop here. read the sidebar, friend. welcome to the red pill. you’ll understand better what’s going on, and what the other commenter was talking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Looks are the most important thing about seduction, please change my mind.you haven’t read the sidebar. do that. this post will soon be removed for breaking the rules, but while it’s up, let’s dive deeper into this. do you lift? does your super model friend lift? does he get paid to look good (pro model)? what does “treat them like a garbage can” mean? asking these questions for a reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Lack of Presenceand sleep. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 06:52 PM |
| 22 | Plates leaving stuff behinda couple weeks ago i took a girls virginity. she was a little tipsy and still kind of buzzing from the sex. when she was looking for her panties, she found another girl’s. she said “whose are these? did you fuck someone right before i came?” i just looked at her. she kept looking for her underwear. eventually i said “oh those..? they’re not yours? idk whose those are. let’s find yours” lmao, i had nothing. she dropped it immediately and never brought it up again. still wants to play. girls do th… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 05:03 PM |
| 3 | LTR of two month keeps saying she loves me?she’s absolutely smitten with who you are right now. keep it up, and remember women change as the seasons change. she may fall out of love, but that’s fine because i guarantee you you will find another woman who loves you just as hard, in her own way (female love ≠ male love). enjoy the present moment and keep your best interests at heart. regarding the scarcity of Men (in contrast to males) out in the world: i’ve accepted the nature of women. what still gets me is seeing perfectly solid dudes g… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Lack of Presenceserious question: are you autistic? instead of trying to change everything at once, i advise your to practice one thing at a time. you should start lifting weights. google DARE vs DEER. that could be a solid starting point for you in terms of red pill mindsets. check out eckhart tolle’s the power of now as well. might be helpful given your tendency too overthink things. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 02:53 PM |
| 11 | A girl rejected me a few months back but recently she's showing me choosing signalsi think you make a move. the initial facial expression could’ve been a shit test. i don’t know enough about the approach/wasn’t there, so i can’t speak to it definitively. but you also have to keep in mind that women reject you for many reasons, some of which have nothing to do with you. confidently make a move. see what happens. if she rejects you a second time, you’re dealing with a fucking lunatic, and i’d advise you to simply ignore her completely going forward. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 02:49 PM |
| 8 | LTR of two month keeps saying she loves me?good, maintain that abundance. i think you’re handling this very well, continue to assert your boundaries, and allow her the chance to rectify her behavior. you already know the protocol if she refuses or gives you trouble. seems like you already get this, but i always tell my boy something and after repeating it as nauseam i think it has stuck: how a woman feels about you is none of your business. i.e. always set the frame and do not ever allow a woman’s fickle feelings dictate how you objectiv… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | LTR of two month keeps saying she loves me?uh...what? was this to OP or me? if the latter, read my comments on the post in this sub: “I went no-contact after she behaved in a shitty way, and it worked. Now what?” stop making assumptions. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Is the stubble beard fad going to end soon?lol. this question is pretty blue. fuck fads. do wtf you wanna do man. if you’re bored, then switch it up. stop seeking consensus for trivial decisions and learn to make them on your own. it’s facial hair for christ sake. what are you gonna do when it really matters? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 02:22 PM |
| 13 | LTR of two month keeps saying she loves me?seems like you just need to make a subtle mental shift. ask yourself: why do i feel bad when i don’t say it back? because the truth is you are not obligated at all to say it back. and you shouldn’t feel bad for not saying it back. she’s trying to negotiate desire. that’s a huge no-no because it’s delusional and impossible. frankly, this is a huge red flag. it’s been two months. she’s got issues. continue to let her worship you but quit feeling guilty about not saying it back. if it annoys you, w… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 02:14 PM |
| 13 | Very old oneitis said she wants to date me. Thoughts?if she’s truly up to your current standards, fuck her. otherwise, leave her alone. all the “i care about you” is complete and utter bullshit manipulation. don’t fall for the love bombing. she will never be anything more than a smash piece. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 07:50 AM |
| 3 | I went no-contact after she behaved in a shitty way, and it worked. Now what?i’d rather you self medicate with weights than with alcohol. celebrate with alcohol, if you’re going to drink it at all (you could argue ending this relationship is worth celebrating but i digress). i’m something of a naturalist. i think we should do our best to understand the feelings we experience. mitigate the downside while maximizing the upside. caring about others is natural for a non-sociopathic man, so my approach is to find the most effective way to care. i want to care in an attractive… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 02:23 AM |
| 3 | I went no-contact after she behaved in a shitty way, and it worked. Now what?good attitude. live life well. don’t feel bad about this. relationships end. that’s a tough red pill truth. enjoy the times that were good and learn from the bad times, move forward carrying those lessons. attaching to others is unhealthy. so it’s good you’re trending in that direction. the ultimate goal is self-satisfaction with healthy relationships to others. the red pill doesn’t have an official stance/how-to on emotionally investing in women, so as a relatively emotional guy, you’ll have to… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 02:00 AM |
| 2 | I went no-contact after she behaved in a shitty way, and it worked. Now what?don’t force yourself to feel anything. it’s good that you’re fine with how all this played out. confirmation that you made the right choice. at the end of the day, actions have consequences. she has to face them now. as for you, focus 100% on yourself. continue to improve in all areas. hang out with friends. talk to new girls. i recommend you go no contact. i’d also recommend removing from socials/blocking her so she doesn’t try to manipulate you via text. what lessons did you learn from this ex… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 01:39 AM |
| 2 | I went no-contact after she behaved in a shitty way, and it worked. Now what?ok. so that’s over. how are you feeling? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 18 | Should I be ghosting someone I will probably see?even if you did want to fuck, you don’t validate her. she knew what she was doing was wrong when she did it. it was extremely disrespectful but you kept your cool and withdrew as you should have done. since you don’t want to fuck, just treat her like an unattractive stranger the next time you see her - polite but uninterested. she will likely try to love bomb you/appeal to your morality/play the victim. simply acknowledge and tell her it’s cool. but she’s lost her privileges to you. you weren’t … | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Should i reply if at alli don’t think no reply is butthurt. it’s just the end of the conversation. or just be like “dope” or “cool” or whatever word you use, then* NC. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 10:41 PM |
| 25 | Should I be ghosting someone I will probably see?the latter. you handled this very well. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Really Strugglingi don’t see where things went wrong. you’re long on feelings and short on facts. wtf happened? why are you so emotional? do you have a vitamin d deficiency? are you using your phone more? are you sleeping consistently? this just seems hormonal. what happened to your old friends? what did you do? this just doesn’t add up. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Did I fail this Texting game shit test?all good, it happens, now you know where you went wrong. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of extremely common beta behavior you see?ok i follow, there are situations where all the girls are your cup of tea, and amongst them there’s infighting as is typical in groups of females. in this case, i wouldn’t care which one i end up with, but now that i think about it, i only go after A1 or A2 in a group of females, unless they’re all hot, which is rare. to build on the attention piece, i think this is intuitive. attention is a lagging indicator of value. so naturally higher smv women will garner the lion share of attention and tha… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of extremely common beta behavior you see?actually, not surprised you’re taking this angle. yeah, i just don’t think this matters much to men. thinking about it flippantly for a couple seconds, can’t think of a reason why i’d care if the girl i’m attracted to is an alpha or beta female, which isn’t to say understanding these dynamics has no value, just that most men don’t care. if you like her, you fuck her. there are alpha females, by your definition, who i’ve fucked and who’ve submitted to me. all i care about tho is how they interfac… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Did I fail this Texting game shit test?you let her lead. you held frame. then you submitted to hers. you failed. don’t do that again. at the very least fuck first. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I lie to girls about having a girlfriend so it increases my SMV?no need to create a fictional girlfriend to increase value. better to just maintain mystery and shrug off questions (you can do this in a number of ways, google DARE vs DEER). pre-selection is attractive, but showing it is leagues better than telling it (will likely not have any impact on your SMV because your behaviors will reveal your true value). best thing is to just get multiple plates so you don’t have to come up with tricks. but, sure, fake it till you make it. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I lie to girls about having a girlfriend so it increases my SMV?how would you know that prior to discussing this? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How can you tell the difference between a considerate behavior to a plate/LTR/friend vs. a clingy/needy/beta behavior?context is important. the typical rules apply. scarcity inflates value. give to those who appreciate it - when the giving isn’t acknowledged, pull back so you don’t create a dynamic where the recipient of your kindness expects good treatment for* nothing in return. as long as you are being treated the way you’d like by them, use your attention, kindness, value as a reward for their good behavior. positive reinforcement. nuance is key. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 05:44 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of extremely common beta behavior you see?women who like to be dominated aren’t “beta females” whatever that means. even if you’re referring to dommes, still doesn’t make sense. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl acts really into me in-person but barely responds to texts and only agrees to meet up once every couple weeks. How can I get her more invested?absolutely, you need to be seeing other women. you’re over-investing and that’s how you will lose her if you keep this up. when you fuck her i need you to fuck her like it’s the last girl you’ll ever fuck right before i find you and cut off your dick. fuck the fucking living fuck out of her. pile drive this bitch, destroy the pussy, multiple orgasms. do cardio if you have to to get your endurance up. you gotta go ham bro. outside of that, pull back a bit. go a little cold. she’ll feel it at leas… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl acts really into me in-person but barely responds to texts and only agrees to meet up once every couple weeks. How can I get her more invested?have you fucked? if not, she doesn’t know you have a dick. you’re the gay best friend. she’s just using you for attention so she’s not bored when she isn’t working. what to do? escalate. enough of this best friend bullshit. show the bitch you’ve got the balls to go balls deep and go balls deep. if yes, don’t fuck it up by being needy and trying to spend more time with her. she’s fucking busy. let her secure the bag and fuck her good when she isn’t. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | I need your help... Girl who gives me craaaaazy IOI's and kino is also playing extremely hard to getbro. it’s happened to all of us. when she’s smart and pretty enough she can get us to lower our defenses and not think clearly. you’ve learned that you’re vulnerable in this way and now it won’t happen again. you’ll retain control and the ability to objectively assess situations you find yourself in. this is a classic case of actions > words. she tried to confuse you with the teasing/flirting and the feigned innocence - but look at her actions. she barely responded to your texts and never even s… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Slept with one coworker, now my other coworker (who tried to fuck me) has turned cold and platonic. How can I reconcile this? Am I fucked?lmao, yep you’re kinda fucked because this chick is on your team. this kind of situation is actually exactly why i’m not going to my holiday party this year. i know myself, if i’m drinking and a girl makes a move, i’m gonna smash and it’s gonna get weird. you were good fucking V and maybe even E, but not really because she knows P and P knows you fucked E. honestly, the damage is already done. might as well keep fucking E. no chance to return to normalcy with P. why? because that would mean you … | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | I need your help... Girl who gives me craaaaazy IOI's and kino is also playing extremely hard to get“not tryna be a simp but...” inserts unattractive coming-too-strong idea i admire your persistence. very good quality that will take you far in life. but this has been all chase, man, no catch. and i don’t even blame you. she’s leading you on hard with all the bullshit but none of that is fucking or linking outside of work. it’s free validation. the bitch is a hardcore, likely sociopathic attention whore. she’s enjoying being hunted with no intention whatsoever of allowing you to get the kill. y… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Escaping the red pill is near impossible when society shows you exactly what you were fearing the mostlol, this guy is in denial. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | One of my plates asked me to join her at the club today...ignore the text, address it concisely in person or simply pretend she never sent it and proceed as usual. if she asks you about it, simply say oh yeah, i have/had plans. if she asks to join say you’re catching up with friends/they’re with other people. or simply smirk at her and escalate as usual. she should get the hint. if she gives you a ton of trouble, soft next. then hard next if there’s no improvement. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Rejection/ failure everyday?pain + reflection = progress. success doesn’t come over night. you’re not special. it’s hard. keep working. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Need a RP perspective on this. Why do compliments on girls pictures on Reddit get downvoted?i’ve noticed there’s a movement against/backlash/response to thirsty men online. women can post a semi-nude pic of themselves online and get an endless flow of likes, heart-eye emojis, wedding propositions and payment offers. this is one of the main reasons the SMP is skewed the way it is now. i won’t go out of my way to downvote simps on the internet but it is a little jarring to me to see men shitting on their dignity/giving away their power by worshipping strange women in comment sections. my… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 3 | My whole high school knows I’m red pill I know I’m a dumb a$$you idiot, lmao. you’re an attention whore and you won’t listen to what anyone here tells you. this post will likely be removed. have fun out there. enjoy the attention...while it lasts and before it ruins your life. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 01:44 AM |
| 2 | How do I deal with the Anger towards my fatherwhat does being black have to do with this? lmao. listen kid, you literally didn’t even read the rules. don’t fucking run your mouth about the red pill. you need to care less about what other people think. you’re young. you need to strengthen your frame. actually read the sidebar and shut your mouth. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Girls are losing interest after knowing medamn. sadly, lots of pussy goes unfucked. well, hopefully you can resolve this issue. best of luck. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Girls are losing interest after knowing mehave you changed your view on this? this IS a shit test. are you less sensitive after reading the replies here? are you more open to people answering your questions? this guy is right and if you reject his insight, it’ll only get worse for you. you have a lack of understanding that needs to be addressed. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Girls are losing interest after knowing meyou lost me at aging lol. are you saying you don’t have the libido, or...? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Cutting body fatyou’re shredded, going for similar stats. kudos to you on the discipline. need to cut the body fat and cals. getting leaner and not losing muscle. slow path. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 4 | How to best deliver the anal ultimatum (give me anal or go fuck some beta instead)that’s a legit excuse bro lmao. even if* a girl wants to get fucked in the ass might not be able to if the guy is endowed. some might be lying, sure, but if you’re packing, you’ll have trouble with the average pussy, let alone ass. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Girl that's "just a friend" to me now - soft next, or offer a fun timefrankly, my opinion doesn’t matter. you want what you want and like what you like. as long as you aren’t being manipulated or taken advantage of, do what you want to do. just hold onto your power. i think in terms of access, status, if a girl is hot she has hot friends and can get me close to them, things like this. i don’t have female friends, just girls i’ve fucked or working on fucking. all the rest are acquaintances. and that’s how it’s supposed to be. that’s natural. women don’t want friend… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Girl that's "just a friend" to me now - soft next, or offer a fun timelisten, you seem outcome dependent. she just isn’t that important. she isn’t that cool. she’s adding marginal value to your life (...high energy...really?). she isn’t attractive. it doesn’t fucking matter dude. text her right now. i dare you. say i’m coming thru and i wanna hang out and have fun. i’m genuinely confused right now. you wrote this long as post about an ugly fat chick with no style but with an ok personality...it just does not matter. she doesn’t matter. if you lost her today nothin… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl that's "just a friend" to me now - soft next, or offer a fun timeand uh...how old are you? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl that's "just a friend" to me now - soft next, or offer a fun timewhat value does she add to your life? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl that's "just a friend" to me now - soft next, or offer a fun timeyou lost me at “then for some reason...” you yourself said you aren’t attracted to her anymore. so why are you trying to smash? reach out to link up, or wait for her to hit you up. no further thought or action required. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Almost escalated with a girl with a boyfriend but got rejected what now?you actually didn’t break anything. she still wants to see you. you just delayed the smash. she would’ve smashed the first time. now, it’s possible you lose her between now and the next time you see her but you need to have a stronger frame. meaning, you need to not crumble when a girl expresses uncertainty and continue with your agenda. lead her and take responsibility for her decision to fuck you. even tho she expressed doubt/uncertainty, deep down she wanted it but she can’t in good conscious… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Almost escalated with a girl with a boyfriend but got rejected what now?cc: u/corpear | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Almost escalated with a girl with a boyfriend but got rejected what now?why would we try to defend the boyfriend? much to learn. the EC who commented hit the nail on the head - she needed plausible deniability. do you know what that means, and do you see where you messed up? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Why are people so ignorant to the red pillmost people are inherently lazy. the overwhelming majority. and all people are (necessarily) selfish. combine the two and you end up with low information, low-effort posts that don’t add value... ...kinda like this one | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Should I take this girl out on a date?i think he means she wants to try to take his power in a date context/beta bait him into committing. ofc, if he has a strong frame, that’s not a real concern. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 08:00 PM |
| 4 | FWB denied sex for the first time after we failed to get a threesome (overreacting?)she puked. she seemed legit sick. sometimes girls get sick, lol. it’s ok bro, stay vigilant but don’t read into this just yet. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls say "don't kiss me in public", and how to reply to that?OP, listen to this guy. punish her a bit. make her yearn for your touch. also, this just means she doesn’t want people to know who she’s involved with. discretion. i actually prefer that in my plates but whatever. i’ve also never had a girl reject my advances in public so directly, that’s a sign that she doesn’t fully respect you. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I went no-contact after she behaved in a shitty way, and it worked. Now what?yeah bro, escalate on her, get physical. she might need some good old fashioned dominance, and when she acts up, don’t be afraid to literally walk away. only this time it’s for good. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:56 PM |
| 4 | I have a girlfriend and I pay for everything. Help pleasedon’t be too hard on yourself man. take this as a wake up call. if you can, fuck her good before you leave her in the dust. she’s relishing her power over you. you’ve got to take your power back. if that means no more pussy from her (you are fucking her right!?) then so be it. there will be plenty more down the line. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 6 | I have a girlfriend and I pay for everything. Help pleaseit’s not simply that you’re paying. if you’ve got means and she’s operating in your frame, even if you pay, she will offer to pay as well or buy you gifts or do you favors, turn up the submissiveness etc. it’s how you’re doing it. you’re doing it against your will! she’s coercing you. that’s the issue. you are totally operating in her frame. it’s like she had you on a leash and you are submitting. you’ve got to flip the script. you need to learn how to say no, stand up for yourself, set boundari… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Despite knowing RP, I failed hard.weird google “dare vs deer” | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Despite knowing RP, I failed hard.search it in main sub | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Despite knowing RP, I failed hard.search it in main sub | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Lately, I have noticed that I am incapable of sharing romantic emotions with a female.you can show affection without committing tho. all the feelz without the risk. because as much as you like this chick, if she leaves, oh well, it was fun, on to the next. you should read a book called the Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:24 PM |
| 2 | anyone else scared of #metoo nonsense?she needs to be punished bro. withdraw, but slowly. don’t want her to reinterpret what happened as full-on titty grope rape. but she fucked up, not you. but the lesson for you is to be more cautious. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | am i being plated or what?just the reality of the sexual marketplace bro. chicks you fuck are fuckin. some pretend and try to make you feel special so that you’ll invest/commit. some are more open about just wanting the cock and aren’t into the games. this is what you’re dealing with. really great situation, actually lol. your problem is you want her to love you and love on you and treat you like her special wittle boy and snowflake. you’re seeking out motherly love in the women you’re fucking. male mother need, or somet… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Need a few opinions on "the talk"what the, lmao. bro, you made her your bottom bitch. sure, show some affection when she earns it, but don’t go all blue on us. AWALT applies. check yourself before you wreck yourself. remain on guard and keep up the attractive behaviors. you’re in a very dangerous position right now. fuck hot bitches with her dude. ya goof. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 23 | Walked Out On Her!no. this is red pill to a T. it’s about frame. OP made an effort. she decided to play too many games. he did his part. her job was to get fucked. when you have options you don’t have time for extended teasing. OP demonstrated his abundance and the chick realized he deserved the pussy. i really don’t see what’s not red pill about this unless you’re autistic and think every similar situation requires the exact same response. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 16 | I have a girlfriend and I pay for everything. Help pleasenever had the chance to apply? dude you have nothing but chances to apply this stuff! you’re a complete doormat. totally spineless and dependent, scared, small, being used and abused and you say you have no opportunities to apply!? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Looking for efficiencyso you already know the game then! execute my man. no more theory. gotta get your numbers up. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 05:02 AM |
| 5 | How to best deliver the anal ultimatum (give me anal or go fuck some beta instead)this works for you? interesting. just being direct about it is what has worked for me. i would never stick my dick straight in a girl’s ass without her giving me any indication she’s open to that or talking about it prior. i get the finger thing, i guess that could work, i might have to try that out, just never struck me as a viable path. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 05:00 AM |
| 7 | How to best deliver the anal ultimatum (give me anal or go fuck some beta instead)i think you tell them you wanna fuck their butts, but you don’t place a ton of weight on the requirement tonally. as i’m sure you know by now, women need guidance and sometimes directly spelling out the boundary/requirement, but in a calibrated/aloof way and not making a huge deal out of it is the way to go. communicate with your tone that you actually don’t care whether the girl will comply or not, it’s just a fact of your reality - your frame - that girls you fuck let you fuck their ass. if sh… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 04:40 AM |
| 16 | Cuddleslutdo what you want. if you wanna be a cuddleslut, be the best cuddleslut that ever cuddled. as long as your frame is strong and the girl knows what’s up, she’ll cuddle the shit out of you back (even tho she might call it quits when she realizes she ain’t busting nuts). find a chick who’s like minded and keep doing what you’re doing. no real “technique” or “system” to being an elite cuddlewhore. i know for me i’ve used plates as human pillows but i always fuck em. i think most guys use plates as fu… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Looking for efficiencywhat doesn’t measured doesn’t get improved upon. you could set a goal of 3-5 cold approaches a day or choose days to do bulk approaches. multiple helps you gain momentum and learn quicker. increase volume of approaches during night game. the key is volume, just like with lifting and really any other activity you’re looking to get good at. you’ll fuck 2-4 per month easy once you hone. set goals that make you happy not anyone else, including TRP. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Looking for efficiencykeep doing what you’re doing. get lean. approach chicks you think are hot during the day (not just at night). your results will improve. trust the process. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 02:35 AM |
| -6 | How do I keep the conversation going?you still haven’t gotten used to your period by now? aren’t you like 15? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 10:45 PM |
| -5 | How do I keep the conversation going?wow. you literally know nothing about the red pill. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 10:19 PM |
| -5 | How do I keep the conversation going?nope. you need to read the sidebar and stop trying to use the red pill to be a better emotional tampon. she will never touch your dick. she’s sucking someone off tonight and he barely talks to her. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do I always chaseyeah, having options is key. doesn’t have to be a harem but you need to give yourself options and get more “wins” experiences that give you satisfaction outside of any one girl. are you happy with your physique? are you muscular and shredded? the biggest piece of advice i can give you is to be patient and trust the process. every day do something to build yourself up. what makes you feel like shit? usually it’s comparing yourself to others. don’t do that. be the best you, focus wholly on yoursel… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 05:25 PM |
| 4 | I ghosted a girl that looks like she was going to friend zone me, now I'm feeling guilty or did the wrong thing. Is this a normal feeling?yeah man, the feels are real. this is normal. it’ll take time before you become the man you’re aspiring/pretending to be. it’s cool to be empathetic and think of others but you’ll have to learn that’s it essential to put your needs and desires first especially when it comes to women. in fact that’s the only way it can work - she wants to and has to operate in your frame. she’s seeking a frame to live in. she wants it to be fun and hot and give her emotions and tingles. this is why “bad boys” get… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 05:00 PM |
| 8 | Why do I always chaselmao, that last line. you’re outcome dependent. a little too needy and desperate. seems like you lack social intelligence. go make some friends and focus on charisma and being social. prioritize that and include talking to women as a part of that. lift weights. read how to win friends and influence people and the art of seduction. observe people around you that you admire socially and learn from them. befriend them and provide them value from a place of confidence. your self-esteem doesnt seem t… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:58 AM |
| 21 | There's 5 behaviour patterns that I have that literally fuck with my overall vibe. Any advice?skimmed, but my first bit of advice: this stuff takes time. pain + reflection = progress. keep it up. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Is this disrespectful?hmmm....seems you don’t like this behavior. that would warrant a soft next. what you absolutely will not do is ask her what she was up to or be butthurt. respond with your actions. at the conclusion of the soft next, act as you normally would. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:51 AM |
| 32 | Update: Ex gf texted me, againyou’re doing great. NC. do NOT fall for the beta bait. she’s just testing you. 3 months post break up. sad. keep her on block. don’t check her socials. on to better things. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | What is the most essential read on trp for beginners? Thinking of showing my friend what it's about..i knew you were one of those guys. i sure hope you’re right about your friend. in what follows i’m gonna try to help you mitigate the damage that likely will occur: if you’re going to go through with this you need to stoke his curiosity, get him to ask questions and have him lead his own education. only he can take the red pill. it cannot be given to him. you want to help your friend. i get that. but the road to hell was paved with good intentions. remember that. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | What is the most essential read on trp for beginners? Thinking of showing my friend what it's about..listen up: don’t be a fucking idiot and show your friend the red pill. you will more than likely get exposed and at worst be socially ostracized and at best lose your friend. don’t. do it. don’t. there’s a reason why it’s one of the rules. i get the feeling you’re gonna be a fucking idiot and do it anyway, but at least you were told. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Are fat chicks anti rp?you have to sort this out for yourself. if you want to fuck fatties to get the nut off, then have at it. if that’s all they are to you, fine. don’t feel compelled to take these girls out. they should know what role they serve based on your actions. i, for one, can’t do that, so i don’t. i’ll take a dry spell if it means i don’t have to fuck a land whale. that’s just me. but if you feel like you’re shortchanging yourself and deserve better, then you have to ask yourself how you intend to address … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 11:19 PM |
| 2 | LTR keeps talking about her extaller + more fit does not mean she doesn’t hold her ex in higher esteem than she does you. it’s up to you to set the frame and establish boundaries. it bothers you. she should know this. you can verbally address it in the right way or do what’s been suggested by others: soft next, withdraw, etc. lots of ways to communicate non-verbally. whatever you do, remember this: she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. you should be gaming other girls and continuing to self-improve. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 11:09 PM |
| 10 | Are fat chicks anti rp?how would it be? there’s no RP stance on this. do you really love fucking fat chicks? then go for it. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Girl pulls bitch move how to proceedall good - also, as some have said, friend zone her, be super chill and cool around her but unless she drops to her knees in front of you in a (relatively) secluded area, she’s dead to you for her disregard for your time. do not pursue her. judging from your other comments, i don’t suspect you will, but i’d be remiss if i didn’t say it explicitly. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Girl pulls bitch move how to proceeddude. when a girl says she wants to fuck and you’re up for it... SEND YOUR LOCATION. don’t meet at a fucking bar. what were you thinking? this is your fault, not hers. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad to enjoy the conversation with the girl?what do you want from her? good conversation? pussy? define your objective to know the course of action you need to take to accomplish it. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Cutting body fatthis is actually very common. most people take inaccurate tests or think they are lower body fat than they actually are. pro bodybuilders will tell you that most people who lift are fatter than they realize. greg doucette on youtube discuss this at length, for example. i did InBody a few months. uses impedance analysis. it said 15.4%. it was fucking wrong. looking back, my guess is in the 16-20% range. i’m getting leaner by the day and feel like i’m around 13-14% or so now. you should trust your… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:18 PM |
| -1 | Cutting body fati take creatine with HMB by transparent labs. check it out. they have an article on the product page on both. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Harsh truth: if you don’t have friends, hobby and career you are undatable/unfuckableyes. but the thing is if you’re hot, you’ll get fucked, pretty much regardless of sexual desperation. there’s a difference between RMV and SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Ltr talks to me all dayread the sidebar and don’t ask questions when you don’t want to listen to the fucking answers. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 5 | Advice on reacting / maintaining frame when FWB/plate flirting with other dudes?great username | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Advice on reacting / maintaining frame when FWB/plate flirting with other dudes?it bothers you because you think she’s yours (she’s not) and you lack abundance. do you work side by side with this chick? why are standing around watching her flirt with other guys? you need to focus on yourself and your mission and game other chicks. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Translating personal success to laysyou know where to go when it comes to how to attract and manage women - EC/top posts on main sub and sidebar. use the search bar. it’s great that you’re strong. keep it up. but now your mission is to retain as much of that strength as possible and get lean. caloric deficit. get rid of the dad bod. get to 10ish percent body fat. if you’re as good looking as your modeling stint suggests, you will have no problem getting your foot in the door with women around you when you’re lean. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Should I go to a possibly lame event with LTR?the crankiness is understandable in this situation. you’re the rock here. regarding the event, it’s on you. plenty of options. there’s nothing wrong with occasionally just going with a recommendation like this from a girl, especially your LTR. if you have nothing to do and are more or less neutral on the event, then why not go. if you do have shit to handle and/or are really opposed to going, just insist: “enjoy the time with your friends, i’m sure it’ll be fun. come see me after.” you could eve… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Why does this sub dislike no fap so much?a lot of ECs are older and didn’t grow up and have their neural wiring fused by high speed internet porn during puberty, so you can understand this blindspot. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Textingyou don’t need to text if you already agreed to a time. if she’s worth your time she’ll honor the commitment. that said, most guys will confirm in one way or another that morning/afternoon or a few hours or even minutes before with a statement: “see you tonight” “text me when you’re close” “the doorman will let you in” etc. these are assumptive statements - the assumption being of course you’re coming to drain my balls. these types of statements flow naturally when you have the right frame. focu… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Textingdefine negative results. are you losing women and fucking them less? or does it feel weird not being an emotional tampon/source of free validation for women? two different things. you’ll have to experiment and use your sense of judgment. sometimes you’ll want to humor her, give her a taste of the back and forth, short responses, maybe a few questions. you want to test her investment by using mostly statements and see if she asks questions, indicating a desire to win you over and get to know you … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Blue pill tactics while being red pilledsome plants flourish when watered heavily. others require very little water at all. women are like plants. this can be related to an SMV gap where insecurity drives the need for comfort or plain personality differences (whether caused by nature and/or nurture). you’ll continue to develop your ability to discern who’s who. i’m still perfecting this myself. you want to slowly introduce beta game/balance, emotional nourishment for the girl as a reward/positive reinforcement for good behavior to pro… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 06:29 PM |
| 5 | How to increase social circle?be valuable. go out, befriend valuable people. offer them value - style, status, charisma, looks, connections. everyone wants to be the hero of their own story - find ways to help them. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 03:35 PM |
| 11 | Why does this sub dislike no fap so much?it doesn’t. everyone has their own opinion. think for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Minor lied about age for three months . Now won’t leave me alone after I broke it off . Stalking“scared of getting it to that stage?” you’re already at that stage. a lawyer’s not going to put you in jail. explore your options and prepare to mount a defense. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 02:25 AM |
| 41 | Have you ever had a girl react to your stepping out of her orbit?she won’t fuck you bro. focus on other women. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Protein Shakes for the RedPill Soulfancy finding you here, chris ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to pursue a woman?lmao. you can fuck girls who attend your college. quit being so introverted, go out and meet new girls, get a social circle, get on dating apps, you’ll be okay. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | She’s got a BFit’s getting late. i missed that detail and change my recommendation to the following: OP. get more hoes. don’t fuck the bitch if you live with the guy. also, get a new roommate and work toward your own place. that said, still, do what the fuck you wanna do. if you fuck her and it blows up in your face (which it likely will - your “ex-bestie” will make your life hell), you wont think to make the same mistake down the line. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 05:36 AM |
| 4 | She’s got a BFwtf is an ex best friend. are you friends or not? if not, then do wtf you want. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Does she see me as a friend or a guy she wants to fuck?read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Does she see me as a friend or a guy she wants to fuck?but you won’t not until you do. that’s what this guy’s trying to tell you. stop twiddling your thumbs wondering if she’ll like you. this is outcome dependence. you care too much about her. go after what you want. if you escalate properly she’ll reject or accept, she want put you in the beta zone. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 02:19 AM |
| 5 | How do you reply to girls sending you selfies and pictures of themselves?no | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 02:17 AM |
| 4 | How do you reply to girls sending you selfies and pictures of themselves?this | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 02:16 AM |
| 77 | Modern DNA analysis reveals hypergamy taking hold after the invention of agriculture and stratification of society: 8,000 years ago, 17 women reproduced for every one mangreat find, OP. “something cultural happened” yes. yes, it’s called hypergamy. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/19 03:13 PM |
| 7 | Do I Next Her?uh. she’s prolly enjoying herself at the concert. a lot more stimulating than snapping. bunch of attractive guys around. you’re thinking way too much about a chick you went on* one date with. just chill out. if you want ask “how was the show” and leave it at that and move on with your life if you never hear from her again. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 05:00 AM |
| 6 | DIFFICULTY MAINTAINING COOL WHEN BULLIEDStronglifts 5x5. there’s an app. start there. easy at first. but you’re going to be stressing your body and it will need time to get used to the sudden change. don’t cheat. you’ll be very happy you didn’t later. this way you prevent injuries. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 04:52 AM |
| 1 | DIFFICULTY MAINTAINING COOL WHEN BULLIEDgood. you will need to zero in on* recovery - nutrition and sleep. eat more. rest more. that way your body can adapt. be patient. no shortcuts. go hard. be smart. you’ll get there. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 04:49 AM |
| 9 | DIFFICULTY MAINTAINING COOL WHEN BULLIEDwhatever they’re bullying you for: if it’s something you can control, work to improve it. if it’s out of your control, accept that and be at peace with it. get in the gym, get bigger and stronger so you can be more physically intimidating. the stronger and bigger you get, the less you will get pushed around. get to work. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 04:47 AM |
| 28 | DIFFICULTY MAINTAINING COOL WHEN BULLIEDit angers you because you’re insecure. don’t try and cure a symptom - get to the root of the issue. fix your self-esteem, first. the bullying will be rendered ineffective. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Is regaining a women’s respect possibleyou got it. prosper. we ain’t worried about these hoes out here! | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Is she losing interest ?good shit. be great! | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:33 AM |
| 6 | Is regaining a women’s respect possibleyou fucked up. bigly. act as if you lost her already and it’s over. she’s probably getting railed and has at least 2 holes stuffed as i type this. she’s leaking from those holes and cumming harder than she’s cum in a long time. she’s tasting herself off the strange Thad cock and licking it all up. yes. you need to imagine this. vividly. because it’s happening. all you can do now is not repeat the same mistakes, focus on other women, your mission, and improvement and let her come back if she will… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:12 AM |
| 6 | Is she losing interest ?hmm. so here’s the deal. take the plane ticket and brief your friend in advance that you may need a place to stay if she ends up giving you shit. that way you can catch up with an old friend for half the price. forget her. you’re doing it right. don’t feel the need to increase texting frequency. your “friend” (read: these are not your friends, they’re trying to take the pussy from underneath you without being straight up with you about it, even though she’s not yours, it’s just your turn) is pro… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 01:27 AM |
| 14 | Guy friend fucking with mean actual friend. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Guy friend fucking with meyou keep bringing women into this. i’m talking about men. and male friends. i explained why this supposed “friend” doesn’t deserve the benefit of the doubt: he’s an idiot liability. at the most charitable, he’s demoted to acquaintance. this isn’t conflict. this is potential malice, or naked, harmful idiocy. you and i think differently. that’s okay. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it really possible to raise SMV at 48?lol, i think he’s trolling | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Guy friend fucking with memeh. i have abundance mentality with friends just like i do with women. if you “hash out some emotional shit” with a supposed “close” friend who then airs your dirty laundry/exposes you in a group/public setting (continuously, each time the opportunity to do so presents itself), then he’s not a friend (perhaps an enemy), he’s a liability and also low IQ (or worse, smart enough to know what he’s doing and harboring ill will). take out the trash and carry on. i get nothing out of “ironing things o… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Best response to girls who says they are not available a specific day/time when asked to go out?context is very important here. so she tried to lead and you said “ok, then lead” then she realized she hated leading, and you’re letting her suffer. the petty in me doesn’t mind this at all. that said, while you should never ever beg for a date, you should take the reigns from her hands, and lead the bitch. when you get her out, escalate. then when you get her in bed, fuck the shit out of her and teach her who fucks, and who gets fucked. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Best response to girls who says they are not available a specific day/time when asked to go out?either no reply or this OP. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:16 PM |
| 4 | Best response to girls who says they are not available a specific day/time when asked to go out?dude. don’t just post a random image and not specify which one you are. it’s impossible to tell who’s dumber here. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Best response to girls who says they are not available a specific day/time when asked to go out?so you’re saying you’ve actually had a girl literally say “i’m busy” to you twice THEN agree to a date? lemme guess: you didn’t fuck. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you ask girls out if you know she has a boyfriend? Or save the validation for later?are you attractive? you say yes. odds are always good. if she gets the tingles and no one will find out, she’ll fuck. she might not even care if they find out. did she do a good job? will you be upset if she no longer feels comfortable servicing you? much more relevant question. you defn go for it. that’s not a question. don’t pussy out and be afraid to escalate because if you do, she’ll make the decision for you. and on the validation piece: you don’t have to give away your power when you show … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 10:54 PM |
| 13 | Guy friend fucking with mecut him off for good. stop spilling emotions to untrustworthy people. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl who “rejected” me over a year ago suddenly hits me up after we matched on tinder with a weird remark. How to handle?partially - beyond that, she initiated the conversation. she didn’t wait for you to act. whether what she said was true is irrelevant. by engaging you, she gave you the opportunity to give her tingles (or confirm you’re an unviable sexual prospect), in the guise of asking about such and such event. you didn’t escalate is it obvious yet? no where in this exchange did you escalate! you’re focusing on the content and not the action. action > words. you wanna know if you can fuck this chick again? e… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Slipping into BP mindset in LTRcheck out the sidebar. start to rebuild. take enjoyment in the process. learn about frame. work on yourself and the rest will follow. meet some people and prioritize yourself. things will get better if you do these things. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Got soft while having sexdon’t make it a big deal. if you catastrophize it so will she. frame. resensitize yourself. take it easy on the porn. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Girl who “rejected” me over a year ago suddenly hits me up after we matched on tinder with a weird remark. How to handle?the medium is the message. do you know what that means, OP? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 03:01 AM |
| 15 | Conquered the shit test, now to conquer pillow talktake this opportunity to step back and ask yourself: do i fear losing her? what do i want from her? what are my boundaries/what behavior will/won’t i accept? level set with yourself. with a refreshed and renewed mindset you can make sure you’re operating out of the proper frame. call it a frame check. once you do this, you’ll likely know how to proceed. right now i think it’s best to let it cool off for a few days/week, focus on your goals/mission and other girls, then hit her up again to link. … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 01:43 AM |
| 23 | Conquered the shit test, now to conquer pillow talkyessir. don’t underestimate the power of STFU. say what you need to say and no more. the more words you use, the more rope you give her to hang you with. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 01:26 AM |
| 5 | Need advice with a girl a wanna turn into a platewomen are always seeing someone. she’s telling you so she’s not on the hook when you fuck her. “i told him i was seeing someone! i just...slipped and fell on his cock...with my throat...teehee!” ignore she said that and say “let’s catch up for old times sake. how’s drinks at Local Bar Near Me @ 8 tomorrow” she can resist more. continue to demonstrate it doesn’t even register and/or you don’t care. if she tries to make you acknowledge. “good for you. continue with your agenda” it’s your job to se… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 01:16 AM |
| 121 | Conquered the shit test, now to conquer pillow talkprofessing* love (that you don’t even feel, mind you) won’t keep her interested. do what you did to get her in bed, and be outcome independent. tell her long-term planning isn’t your strong suit. tell her you’re actually gay. tell her whatever tf you want but don’t feel like you have to answer any question she asks you. conceal your intentions, but let your actions speak loudly. “do you like me?” “haven’t decided yet.” “you’re alright” “if you keep fucking me like that i’ll get down on one knee … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on game in SoCal vs rest of US?super small city. so you’re saying they don’t care about men? no one gets fucked? all the political shit is irrelevant. girls will believe whatever if it means they can fuck a high value man with a strong frame. idk...i felt i did fine in LA. i love NYC as well. game paradise. shift your locus of control and focus on what you can be doing differently. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Do I need to go to a bigger city?yes, that’s not easy, but totally worth the effort. give it a shot. learn how to approach groups. i got some amazing sex from this fine latina who was latched onto a friend. i opened them both with “you two seem fun” and took it from there. girls need the security blanket. you don’t need to move. conquer your fear where you are. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to go to a bigger city?lots of chicks in night clubs are there to get fucked. you can approach in a way that isn’t giving up your power, or giving away free validation. be more challenging and playful with it. just because you’re at a club doesn’t mean all of sudden she doesn’t have to work for your affections. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Relationship Advice...Dating Girlfriend for 5 yearsthe whole thing. i’d also read posts by ECs. PM’d you a link i can’t post here. there’s too much to dissect in your post, but based on what you wrote here, your understanding of women and how they operate rests on the presupposition that’s we’re roughly equal, men and women, and that the expectations you have of yourself should be applied to them. this is a recipe for disaster. keep seeking. you’ll understand and come back to the post and see why this relationship is ultimately holding you back … | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | LTR barely initiates anythingyour*. and if you think the real value of a contribution is in the amount of upvotes it gets, you think like a sheep and a woman and have very little discernment. ECs who offer clearly much more valuable comments get downvoted into oblivion regularly by people who think like you. this comment isn’t for you, by the way. you can’t process it. it’s for impressionable others who might read it and think reddit karma is the best way to assess content’s value. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 10:48 PM |
| 22 | For newcomers: take your time with reading the stuff here on TRP, especially the sidebar.the answer is who gives a fuck what they think. when their opinions roll of your shoulders you’ll know you’ve gotten somewhere. yes, even family. consider what they have to say, but this is clearly them being in denial and rejecting how you’re reframing their reality. your frame must be stronger than theirs. there’s nuance to this as well. one of the laws of power is to think as you wish, but behave like others when it’s situationally advantageous to do so. you’re on the right path. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/19 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Advice...Dating Girlfriend for 5 yearsdude, if you’ve read the sidebar, do it a-fucking-gain. you‘re so blue. deeeep blue. stop wasting your valuable time. END IT. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 09:50 PM |
| 0 | LTR barely initiates anythingthe title reads like a complaint “LTR barely initiates anything”. and this is bothering you otherwise you wouldn’t ask whether it’s good or bad. you seem quite bent on not accepting anything being told to you so i won’t waste my time further. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 0 | LTR barely initiates anythinglol, is it good, really? you’re complaining about the bitch online, can’t be that good. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 07:11 PM |
| 10 | “I thought I replied”next time include the full* text in your post. you replied the right way. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How to respond😂 | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Old ltr “drunk” texted me bitching out of nowhere.ask a question. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 06:09 PM |
| 7 | The Biggest Problem In My Life Was My LTRit’s not. read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/19 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How Exactly to Soft Nextyep. the silent treatment is very effective with women. smug, carefree, self-satisfied* silence and absence. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How Exactly to Soft Nextmy interpretation of his comment was that in response to her grilling you about the soft next, you soft next. again. what you will NOT do is explain why you did what you did (note: DO state and enforce boundaries as needed, but don’t get in the habit of explaining your choices to women - very unattractive). it seems counterintuitive but it’s counterproductive, and you can’t “win” an “argument” with a woman. you have to defeat her physiologically. you have to make her crave you in your absence. h… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:48 AM |
| 5 | How Exactly to Soft Nextback to basics. frame. YOU set the reality of the dynamic between you and your girls. not her. do not allow her to win the frame war. this is how you lose her and any other chick. i’ve dealt with this. i ignore, deflect, change the topic and withdraw as the situation requires. girls do one thing a lot better than men: take hints. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | How Exactly to Soft Nexthis answer is good. why? read mine. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:41 AM |
| 4 | How Exactly to Soft Nextwhen a girl acts up, i withdraw. your time and attention are your power. you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to, including answering certain questions. if she decides to try to “dig deeper,” that’s on her. you do you. absence is punishment. your presence is a present. actions > words. say whatever, but make sure you communicate what you want with tone and action. don’t be afraid to lose her. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Am I high value yet for a teenagermy opinion is read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Am I high value yet for a teenagerlol. you didn’t understand what you read. read it again. slowly. you move fast so i know that’s hard for you. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Am I high value yet for a teenagerread the sidebar, kid. you’re ahead of the game. don’t worry about this so much. focus on the process. read the sidebar. read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Men shit testing men?🤣 | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Men shit testing men?... | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Men shit testing men?saying “a model compared to you” is not “fighting”. that’s more bitchy than just smirking and walking away. you don’t fight a guy for a childish insult like “you’re ugly”. that screams insecurity and lack of composure. OP, don’t do this. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 11:09 PM |
| 11 | Is blocking a girl's number considered emotional or is it non-needy?know yourself. whether it is or not depends on you. typically i’d block ppl i’m trying to prevent from reaching out to me. that’s not needy or emotional. but if you’re rage-blocking them because you think it will make you feel better somehow, that’s by definition an emotional reaction. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Found my ex on a anonymous tinder account looking for MFM threesomes/experiences doms/subssidebar. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Absolutely broken.re-read it. your homework is write down on a piece of paper positive affirmations like “i love myself”. “i matter” “my life is what i make it” “i am stronger than my suffering” “i’m not a special victim and it’s my responsibility to make my life what i want it to be, regardless of where i am now” you need to look in the mirror and smile. you have to be delusional, but in a positive way, and learn to apply a favorable spin to whatever happens to you. this won’t happen over night. these things tak… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Absolutely broken.you’re not fucking listening. read EVERYTHING i’m writing, stop cherry picking and looking for negative ideas to fuel your self-hatred. the truth is you enjoy being this way. i can tell by how you twist everything i say to match what you already think. stop talking about yourself in such a negative way. you need to be more loving toward yourself. who gives a fuck what people think - the only thing that matters is what you think. you’re not a special unicorn. you think you’re the only one who gre… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 06:34 AM |
| 3 | Absolutely broken.lmao, why do you think so lowly of yourself? realize that you have the power to change this. start by changing how you talk about yourself. you are creating your own hell in your mind. many, many men have it far worse than you do, and have turned things around. enough of this. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 06:26 AM |
| 9 | Absolutely broken.you need to fucking relax. so melodramatic. the self-hate and self victimization is pathetic. by most any standard, your life isn’t all that bad. you’ve got a lot going for you, family, income, good looks. you just need to stop comparing yourself to other people, learn game and stop poisoning yourself with shit like steroids. that was a horrible decision, but all is not lost. you’ll be alright. you want things to be instant but that’s not how life works. give it more time and it’ll turn around i… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 06:21 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to girls that give vague responses to being asked on dates?this. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Former-LTR harrassing a potential plate.great - you booted out the crazy bitch like you were supposed to and now she’s trying to sabotage you because she didn’t like how you ended things. by now i hope you’ve told this new girl that you kicked your ex out because she cheated and this is resolved. right? it’s really not that hard. as i already said, if the new girl isn’t with it, soft next indefinitely* and use her as a plate if she comes back around. either way, handle your hoes and handle your business. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Former-LTR harrassing a potential plate.key words “if he did it the right way.” read the whole comment. you’re paying attention to what you want to in this scenario to white knight for OP. don’t get me wrong - she’s a fucking meddlesome skank. but OP needs to stop waffling, take up some more god damn space, and handle his fucking hoes. period. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:44 PM |
| -4 | Former-LTR harrassing a potential plate.except he never says they “broke up” - he says they “split”. this language, i believe, is intentional and indicative of the way in which OP “ended” the previous relationship. they way she’s behaving doesn’t make much sense if he did it the right way. thats most definitely NOT an AWALT move and no where did OP imply she was a crazy bitch throughout their relationship. so, as i said, OP fucked up. in these situations, it’s always the man’s fault. he should have been, and needs to be, more of a fuc… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | It's not enough / What can I improve?that’s good that you escalated in that way. do a once over on the sidebar, there’s some good content on sexualizing the vibe. you could probably use the search function on the sub. things like innuendo, sexual misinterpretation. when you’re DARE-ing, make it mischievous. talk about sex. talk about what she likes in bed. get her thinking about sex with you. obviously intimate physical contact. all calibrated to the situation. you’ll get better at this over time. less interview questions. more shu… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | It's not enough / What can I improve?go for the kill shot. we don’t have a ton of context, we’re not on the dates with you, but these girls need to know you have a dick and it’s their purpose on planet earth to milk it in whatever way they know how. do they know that? do you communicate that to them? you do not. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:08 PM |
| 3 | It's not enough / What can I improve?they don’t want your dick bro. desperate, needy, most likely supplicating. i get the sense that you act like romantic guys in movies do. practice being a little more savage. it’s okay if you crash and burn the first few times. you’re too soft. their pussy is getting progressively drier. it’s not physical. it’s mental. but also keep lifting. you are lifting, right? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:04 PM |
| 18 | Former-LTR harrassing a potential plate.first of all. focus on your damn lifts. don’t waste opportunities to get gains. this is your fault. you did not decisively* and unambiguously end the first relationship and you weren’t assertive enough when your ex intervened in your current relationship. stop standing by and letting things happen to you and happen to fucking things - take control, tell your new bitch that your old bitch is acting out because you moved on* and she’s trying to sabotage what you’ve got going. be firm, let her know… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Share with me your viewsthere it is. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Girl asks to push first date back tonight from 7 to 8. Should I meet her halfway? I don't want to seem availablenah it just means don’t chase or continue to give more than you’re getting here. it’s clear she’s far more outcome independent in this situation than you are. feel free to throw out that cheeky line. at least it challenges her. that’s good. go with the flow. say and do less. but remember first principles. again, you’re overthinking this because you are concerned about how what you say will make her feel or how it will affect the outcome. what you’ve got to do is get to a place mentally where you… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Girl asks to push first date back tonight from 7 to 8. Should I meet her halfway? I don't want to seem availablei literally thought no more than 1 second about what i wrote above. it just doesn’t matter that much. often, girls underestimate the time they need to get ready. this doesn’t seem like a huge deal to me but it seems like you’re fighting to hold on to your “man card.” you’re barely containing the dynamic / frame with her and she senses that. she’s already “making” you alter your plans, changing venues and times. she’s doing what you should be doing. that doesn’t come out of nowhere. you’ve been f… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Girl asks to push first date back tonight from 7 to 8. Should I meet her halfway? I don't want to seem available“i’ve got plans later so no time for dinner. down to grab drinks at 8 tho.” | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Guys who grew up in a strict religious household, would it bother you if your girlfriend had lived with a guy before?congrats. you’re a volcel. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Recently girls tell me I come off as a player, even from the ones I’m not trying to game. Is it a good thing?perception is reality. if she’s shit-testing you, she wants to see what you’re made of and if you can make her tingle. it’s an indicator of interest. you should assume that if she’s shit testing you, she perceives you as higher value than she is and wants to confirm your value is indeed higher than hers. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How to really determine if a girl is interested (and what to do in this case)good - continue to hone and trust that instinct. it’s that instinct that separates the boys from the men. you’re on the path to more pussy than you have time for. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 4 | How to really determine if a girl is interested (and what to do in this case)i’ve has this go either way - i replied back “okay i understand”, “another time” or “let’s do x day instead” and then have them come back with something that works. other times i’ve just left it on read and the girl circles back or we simply never speak again. if she likes you, she likes you, and will make it relatively easy for you. persistence does pay but there’s a fine line between that and neediness. just don’t be needy. what you don’t want to do is allow her to trick you into resetting the… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Recently girls tell me I come off as a player, even from the ones I’m not trying to game. Is it a good thing?this is a good thing in that she finds you attractive. gaming in class is fine if you have strong frame. you’ll be shit tested more once you fuck a chick or two and you’ll have to be strong enough to allow the talk about you to roll off your shoulders. be non reactive, STFU and have fun with it. your* value is higher than any girl who shit tests you. believe that firmly and her hamster will do the work for you. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Am I really this fucking stupid? Night game“i just said, well what are we gonna do at the after party” - you, a dumbass lmao. you literally ASD’d yourself. maybe learn to just stfu. you talked yourself out of pussy by removing all plausible deniability for her. she needs a pretext for fucking and you took it away from her. this is the sexual equivalent of shooting yourself in the foot, then falling over, concussing yourself on a blunt object, then impaling yourself on a sharp object. but painful fails like this are a part of the process.… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Would it bother you if the girl you were interested in has had a bunch of live-in boyfriends over the years?what are you “interested in” doing with her? ask yourself: if it didn’t bother you, would you be posting about it here? learn to make decisions for yourself. you’re looking for justification to make a bad decision for you and you know it. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:03 AM |
| 6 | I need to help my friend out of this blue pilled thinkingdon’t bother trying to red pill your friend. the best you can do is treat him how you would a woman: whenever he goes full blue pill, withdraw attention, change the topic and apply negative reinforcement. don’t humor his delusion. promise me you will be firm on this. the truth is he needs to be destroyed so he can be reborn. let him get destroyed, and offer him a hand when he asks for it. but only when he asks for it. take your mind off this and focus on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Why does she takes a day to answer, if she always comes out when make a date and fucks me? (Is it a shit test)they wanted to tag team peg chad? lmao | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:24 PM |
| 8 | Go lifting is great advice....but you know what is even better advice? Go eat right.these guys equating keto with peak health / masculinity know very little about how the body works and nutrition. these men will learn for themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/19 05:13 PM |
| 24 | Go lifting is great advice....but you know what is even better advice? Go eat right.i recommend a caloric deficit. and to experiment with different diets to find the one that works for you. and for grazers, intermittent fasting. 6 pack abs are 100% about body fat percentage and lean muscle mass. there are many paths here but you must be in a caloric deficit to get there. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/19 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Why are women so stupid?AWALT. this is their nature. modern convention and technology have only exacerbated who they’ve always been. anger phase. this is where you are. channel this energy toward your lifts. get to acceptance. blue pill fantasy. the lie we’ve all been sold that told us women were different than what we idealize them to be. that “love” solves all and can guarantee commitment. when love is only conditional chemical addiction to value creation. and she’ll chase the next high, she’ll chase novelty, she’ll … | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What's this community's thoughts on calisthenics?for size, you should be focused on volume. with calisthenics, you’ll need higher reps and sets and you’ll want to add weight. if you do that you can gain solid mass. lifting gets you there easier through progressive overload. increasingly more weight with moderate to high reps and sets and adequate recovery (e.g. sleep, nutrition) equals gains. promise you’ll do this: check out team3Dalpha on youtube. explore that thoroughly, and you’ll know everything you need to know about gaining size via vol… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 01:17 PM |
| 11 | Broke up with gf due to her chatting with her ex. Did I give her closure?in this context, closure = the reason why the relationship ended. you were pretty clear on this. you asserted your boundaries and withdrew access to your time and attention. that was the easy part. what comes next is the hard part. she will never become your gf again. right? you won’t text her later reminiscing about the “times you shared”, right? you won’t let her stalk you and when she finally gets to you, let her cry in your arms, right? you’ve already moved on and are either focusing on self… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Google saved me“what should i do?” oneitis. you’re digging through the trash. you lack abundance. you have zero hoes. if you did you wouldn’t care about this. you’d be so excited to be single so you can fuck bitches. “what should i do?” you’re pining for a woman who isn’t thinking about you and isn’t who you thought she was. she’s getting creampied. you’re jerking off to her memory. despite catching her in a lie, you’re still holding out hope. you’re posting to obscure online forums to see if you should try to… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Should I trust my gf given these circumstances?this is pragmatic and interesting but if your dick doesn’t agree, i wonder how long you’ll be able to sustain this, assuming you’ve decided not to simultaneously fuck submissive and hot chicks who are good at fucking. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Open relationships: Cucked or Alpha?i think the name is fine as is. but you can call it what you want. and i think your friend is proof that it can work. what he did is what lots of guys do with their plates. many men do get emotionally involved with their plates, or at least go deeper than just a purely physical arrangement. that doesn’t mean they’ve given up their power, or even committed to anything. it just means they enjoy the experience and choose to indulge. more important than the utter domination of the women in your life… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Open relationships: Cucked or Alpha?if you read the sidebar you’d know exactly what was happening here. watch her actions not her words. basic sidebar material. in what follows i assume the friend thinks in a red-pilled way for the purpose of shedding light. your friend invites a girl to an open relationship (inherent in this arrangement is the acceptance of the futility of mate guarding - sidebar). she accepts. but she doesn’t fuck anyone else (to his knowledge, anyway, but that’s beside the point). why? because it was his fuckin… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Open relationships: Cucked or Alpha?if you’ve read the sidebar and actually comprehended what you read, you wouldn’t be writing like you’ve been here for two hours and you wouldn’t have written this post to begin with. my other comment answered your question: a girl you’re in an open relationship with is just a plate. i’m not wasting anymore time on you. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Should I trust my gf given these circumstances?you must not have read the sidebar. read the sidebar. you’re as blue as they come. you’ve already lost. don’t come here crying, writing essays about your oneitis and wasting everyone’s fucking time when she hurts your feelings. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:06 AM |
| 12 | Other golden TRP articles like the one I read called “talking with women - always DARE never DEER”the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Share with me your viewsyou don’t get it. you don’t need to respect women. you need to love to fuck them. you enjoy them for who and what they are. you’re talking as if women have made a choice to be the way they are. most of this is base and instinctual. don’t blame women for their hardware. learn the real rules of the game and play to win. these emotions/ruminations are ultimately useless. accept reality with open arms and allow that acceptance to transform you. be the man women want to be conquered by for the night.… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 03:47 AM |
| 17 | What to do if she keeps texting me after she rejected me?she’s 18. you said you’re semi famous. she won’t touch your dick. she’s obviously using your status, genius. it isn’t that hard to see. she wants to associate with you (hence post publicly) to increase her clout, without giving you any of the benefits. stop being a fucking pussy. prohibit her from using your likeness in any social media and ghost her PERMANENTLY. you’re not getting anything out of this! why is this even a question? why are you so emotionally invested in an idiot teenager who isn… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Should i pursue?you shouldn’t have asked. next time say “let’s do x activity on y date”. girls like to have the ability to choose, but within the context of your leadership. essentially, you choose the menu of items she can choose from. be more assumptive and lead the bitch. women need to be lead. they prefer it. they crave it. tap into her hardware. get more instinctual. stop overthinking these little things. you’ll get there. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | How did I handle this breakup?don’t waste any more time thinking about her. she isn’t worth any of it. she love bombed you and tried to dig her claws in you to control you. she realized she couldn’t and bailed/using this as an excuse to ride new dick. either way, she is permanently demoted to nothing more than a 2am “you up” text. vet better next time. stop emotionally investing so quickly. stop giving your commitment away. use this opportunity to learn and be a higher value man. edit: i hope you’ve been fucking this girl to… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Open relationships: Cucked or Alpha?“because you’re dominating so hard” lmao i’m gonna assume you’re not a troll you’re just so deeply blue-pilled that your* goal is to red-pill LARP your way into a blue pilled fantasy with your oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Open relationships: Cucked or Alpha?a girl in an open relationship is a plate. your real question is “should i open up my wittle heart and, like, really connect, and like not be jealous when she does things i’m not cool with because like we are so close, you know? like can i love her and she love me so much but still let her fuck other guys?” you need to read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I being used because I am a nice guy?jesus christ, read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Old ltr “drunk” texted me bitching out of nowhere.“no idea what it means.” the actual content doesn’t matter. don’t take the beta bait. she’s horny. she knows how to behave. leave her on read or invite her to come over so she can get fucked. nothing more. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 09:46 PM |
| 9 | Broken plate hit me up randomly.that’s fine to send. you set the frame here. watch her actions. if you wanna fuck, keep it simple and keep it about her getting fucked. if she gives you trouble, withdraw. don’t emotionally invest. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Feeling guilty and weak because of strong game.. Should I intentionally get rid of the only plate I have right now?lmao, you clearly haven’t read the sidebar. don’t be a fucking fag and keep fucking your plate. read the sidebar. read it, god damnit. work on your fucking self esteem. you’re doing something right. keep it up. your gay ass emotions are likely due to a hormonal imbalance that can be remedied through lifting, good sleep, and a better diet. stop whining. you’re right: you are weak, but it’s because you’re blue-pilled and don’t accept reality for what it is. this is not a fair world. and everyone m… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 05:59 PM |
| -1 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.is he actually your “friend”? and i think the lesson is simply his refusal to swallow the red pill has led him to a vegetative state. reality is too difficult for him. plenty of people fuck married women gleefully, live fantastic lives, and sleep soundly at night. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 05:47 PM |
| -3 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.you might be right, but frankly i’d do the same with any woman stepping out on her husband. the white knight can be a pest at best and fatal at worse. irregardless of mental stability, the less she knows the better. she’s here to get fucked. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.it also gives him the option to kill OP. you’re making a lot of assumptions. the husband may believe he’s happy and him knowing this will only harm him. some things are best kept secret. your emotional appeals to morality are preventing you from viewing this situation objectively. it’s best he not know. this scenario is as old as time itself. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 05:39 PM |
| -2 | How come when I tease people get hostile?you were “talking to” this girl. is she interested in you? was she a random girl you were chatting up? no matter how she reacts, you must hold frame but keep it playful and fun, not just insulting. your tone matters a lot here. also, tease with a purpose - to demonstrate value on the way to the pussy, in the context of the “mating dance” where the girl is a willful participant - don’t just tease to tease with random people who haven’t shown interest in you. it won’t be taken well. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:00 AM |
| 2 | How to not care what an ex does with other men?you know what you can do? take the time to read the fucking sidebar you lazy cunt. quit wasting other people’s time with your gay ass questions. get your nose out your ex’s asshole. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Coworker advicedepends. do you care about your job? she wants to fuck so you could end up fucking. it will eventually go sour. this could lead to you being fired or pushed out. don’t send that meme. don’t show anyone else that meme. ever. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 12:24 AM |
| 1 | talking to people who make you feel stupid all the timejust be direct and let him know you don’t appreciate his condescending tone. you make it seem like you’re stuck with this guy, so you can continue to get dominated by him, or you can challenge him. this feels like it was written by a woman. make of that what you will. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is this just AWALT? Girlfriend broke up with me but she's hot and cold.lol, what’s your question again? dude, it seems like you understand the dynamic and are relatively self-aware. her behavior is typical. what exactly don’t you understand? | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How to win her into your frame?are you sure you understand what frame is? what is your frame? | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | This is the shit we are up against...“we” aren’t up against anything. there are guys into being cuckolded. what’s your point? if you’re attractive* more pussy for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/19 11:34 PM |
| 3 | International Men's Day messages are so cringeworthy it's now certain that society has no idea what a man is, let alone actually help them. And social media is utterly biased to support the Blue Pilled narrative.they generally are. the gossip and instinctual (regardless of professional setting) frame tests are anti-productive. avoid them if at all possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/19 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Women are sweet angels!you’re talking about the misogynist comment? i do that shit for shits and giggles. how is that simpery? wtf are you rambling about? my point still stands. you don’t contribute, you just bitch and moan like the pussy you are. i’m currently wiping pussy juice off me as a type. will gladly verify privately if you want, pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 08:57 PM |
| 3 | How my 2.5 year LTR Unicorn was actually a Wolf. Heartbroken but thankful for the Bullet dodged.“so it’s time to move on.” lmaoooo, after all that? this can’t be real. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Some crazy shit happened. Did I handle the situation correctly?what the fuck does that have to do with how you behaved!? dude, stop and think about what you’re saying before you say it. and consider the advice you’ve been given sans the kneejerk responses. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | The correct method of soft nexting?roger that. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Women are sweet angels!if you don’t like what you’re reading, contribute. there have been great posts by ECs this week. stop bitching unproductively and view this as the opportunity it is. if you’re as knowledgeable and discerning as you’re implying, prove it. otherwise you’re just a bitchass leech. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Saying I look like my cousini would say go with your gut. this will disgust some. and not others. ultimately it’s subjective. and i mean this for a woman who is simply a smash piece. i wouldn’t want my smash piece to vocalize this during sex. bc it would turn me off. doesn’t matter if i’m not marrying this hoe. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Saying I look like my cousinlast pt is valid. but you don’t tell someone they look like a family member mid-stroke. at the very least she’s a fucking weirdo you’d rather not fuck if she’s gonna be fantasizing about your cousin while you’re smashing. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | The correct method of soft nexting?jesus christ. mods please ban this. i’m triggered. my testosterone count just dropped precipitously after reading this vomit. please god tell me you’re joking lmao. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Some crazy shit happened. Did I handle the situation correctly?“deal with” “trying to keep her with me” “i just think the dude got lucky that night” your escalations in the beginning were too weak. you let her dominate you. my recommendation to you: read u/gaylubeoil’s most recent post on the main sub. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 01:38 PM |
| 15 | Some crazy shit happened. Did I handle the situation correctly?why are you trying to talk? escalate. stop arguing with the feedback here and ponder on it. consider it seriously. kill your ego. you asked because you wanted to learn what you did wrong, let yourself learn. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 01:35 PM |
| 12 | Some crazy shit happened. Did I handle the situation correctly?when she texted asking where you were you should have left her on read. you honestly came off as weak and salty with your replies. you were half direct, half indirect and it comes off as fangless. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Saying I look like my cousinyeah, that’s disgusting. she’s planting the seed for a 3some. glad you have enough self-respect to cut this hoe off. when a woman gives you that gut-level, visceral feeling of disgust, you should drop her. it’s her job to keep you attracted just as it’s yours to be attractive. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Are beta traits bad?this. learn to think for yourself, OP. know yourself. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 01:26 PM |
| 16 | Stop talking and go lift.“every guy is jacked” lol, no | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 01:05 PM |
| 11 | Stop talking and go lift.don’t worry. this will never happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Stop talking and go lift.“6’5 roid monkeys” are figments of your imagination. show me a “6’5” roid monkey” and i’ll show you a guy who gets his dick wet. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 01:46 AM |
| 6 | Stop talking and go lift.lifting offers more immediate and higher quality value that, for most people, per se enhances the effectiveness of even the most basic game. it’s more tangible and “hind-brain”. game confers value that must be propped up perpetually by gambits and artifice. it’s more taxing/grueling and, if only internally, try hard (as the best game comes off as natural). when it comes to fucking, i give the edge to lifting, but still understand the crucial importance of solid game, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 11:13 PM |
| 38 | Stop talking and go lift.this post is fundamentally right-minded. those most triggered need this message the most. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 11:03 PM |
| 13 | A guide to maximising your facial attractiveness.i appreciate the spirit of this OP. most men could pay more attention to their hygiene. that said, points 1, 2 3 and even 5 could be dangerous for some men’s skin. i will say in my experience, less skincare is more. most of my skin woes came as a direct result of overreacting to a blemish, and nuking my face with products that compromise my skin barrier. i’ve tried it all from SA/BP to oil cleansing and what worked was using nothing at all. just water once or twice a day. i also use SPF but i do… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Blowing It Uplmao, who’s upvoting this post? you guys need to hit the sidebar and go get more experience with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Blowing It Upthis is silly for reasons elaborated by the ECs - you have zero control over the next man a woman chooses. this is hardcore male hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 12:21 PM |
| 4 | Empty / dead inside. What is wrong?lots of unknowns here. how are you sleeping/eating? does your family have a history of mental illness? are you compulsively addicted to porn (or anything else for that matter)? have you always been depressed? what do you tell yourself about yourself/what’s your self-talk like? hard to help you when you provide so little info. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | A woman just rejected me after being all over me and allowing me to touch her... wtf is wrong here?she might have a rape kink. leave her alone. drop her. now. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Plateud at my weight. How to put on 15lbs of muscle?fair - with respect to hair loss, it’s case by case. if that’s a significant concern, that’s trade off you’ll have to consider. ultimately you’ll make the right decision for you. but heed the other advice. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 06:59 PM |
| 38 | Are you still fucking other girls?beautiful, familiar story. curious tho: what did she get you for christmas!? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it time to hit monk mode?Yes. CNS fatigue / overtraining can impact your mental health negatively. Look into this. May be the source of what you’re experiencing. Recovery is not just about muscle soreness, it’s about refraining from over-triggering your stress response. Look up overtraining syndrome. These are scientifically documented, very real problems. Overtraining is real. This can cut years off your life and backfire health-wise. Also ensure you’re sleeping and eating adequately. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Ex-gf hired at my companyyou’re in a good position. i don’t think this will affect you as much as you think it will in practice. try and suss our your partner’s motivations. this is far more important than whatever hell your ex is doing and will be critical for you to understand to protect yourself going forward. it may have been a simple poor decision and oversight on his part. but someone at his level should be intelligent enough to understand the impact of such a decision. i refuse to believe he’s this naive. as such… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Is it time to hit monk mode?if you want to get better at being alone, you should spend time alone. monk mode doesn’t have anything to do with this. pick up meditation. delete these infinite scroll apps. these are contributing to your anxiety/feeling of unease. if you’re watching porn, refrain. if you find these things difficult to do, that’s probably where your problem lies. ask yourself why you’re afraid to be alone and why you want to get better at this. we’re social creatures. perhaps you’d be happier around people. per… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | To those who've successfully approached girls at the gym, how do you do it?be having fun in the gym. transfer positive energy/vibes to her during your approach. you can high five her playfully between sets and intro yourself. be natural and chill. no need to be nervous. she’s already noticed you and won’t bite. don’t get butthurt by a bitch shield or initial shit tests. be cool, pass them, and she’ll open up. don’t rush. you’ll see her again. think long game. if she’s super hot/on with you, grab number and try to set up hang out and escalate as usual. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Plateud at my weight. How to put on 15lbs of muscle?you’ll need to start counting calories as best* as possible. begin using creatine but - * and this is important* - up water intake at the same time. you must do this if you are to begin using creatine(which you must do if you want to build more mass). here’s why: https://www.transparentlabs.com/blogs/all/should-i-take-creatine. increase time under tension when lifting. increase reps and sets. you can get stronger manipulating these factors just as you can by adding weight to the bar. you can als… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Ex-gf hired at my companyhow to keep frame? treat her like anyone else. she’s not special. this doesn’t affect you in anyway whatsoever objectively speaking. frankly, fuck your feelings. you’re doing exceedingly well. continue doing what you’re already doing. you do have oneitis, though, and a sidebar refresher wouldn’t hurt (though it isn’t necessary at this point). remember the basics. continue to self improve outside of work (are you fucking lifting?), game other women, push yourself to the point where you don’t have… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:57 AM |
| 19 | Ex-gf hired at my company“somehow” | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | EX LTR asks to grab lunchgreat idea. OP seriously consider this. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Am I being an insecure b*** or something is fishy?LMAO. dude. end the relationship. fix your life. don’t cohabitate. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Her IRL interactions are different to the way she texts and it's starting to get to me.listen kid. you’re suffering from oneitis. she can tell. her pussy senses are tingling. frankly, i’d delete her number from my phone and move on. completely erase her from memory. you can not negotiate desire. here’s the truth: she doesn’t want you bro. move on. now. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 10:11 PM |
| 3 | When to end LTR?realize this: whenever you end it, you will be the bad guy. don’t apologize for your desires. you want to end it. so do it. you can decide whether going on the trip will be a net positive for you. if it’s a net negative, then end it right now. don’t bullshit yourself here. know there’s never a right time. it won’t be easy. good luck. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a potential LTR?i don’t think you understand the comment you replied to. something is wrong. otherwise you wouldn’t be here posting. learn to trust and follow your instincts. that skill extends beyond this situation into all areas of life. something IS wrong here and it’s simply that you aren’t getting all that you want from this girl. it’s simple, really. either accept that she ain’t sucking your dick, or leave her for someone who will. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | MDMA Changed The Gamewhy do you insist on making so many assumptions? you should know you’re making a total ass of yourself rn. luckily for you OP deleted the post so others can’t see your sheer illogic on display. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 08:25 PM |
| 4 | MDMA Changed The Gamereads one account from a random guy “you redpillers are idiots”. who’s the idiot here, really? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Constant shit tests at worksmall talk. meaningless chatter. positive body language, smiling. talking about the weather, current events, sports, and how i “had fun” this weekend. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Constant shit tests at workyes, males and females. some guys are a lot better than me at keeping their cards close to their chest. i have a problem with shooting from the hip. one important rule of life is to know your audience and learn how to fit in. i’m very brash, opinionated and unconventional in many ways. most of what i say shocks your average corporate worker. i often rub some blue-pulled guys the wrong way as well. white knights are just as dangerous as feminists. that’s more a me problem, admittedly. but if you’… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Constant shit tests at workit’s a minefield you don’t want to enter. i’d only recommend it if it’s mixed company and you spend virtually all the time with the males. perception and reputation* are everything at work. you invite drama into your life when you mingle with female coworkers outside of work and there’s alcohol. i learned this lesson the hard way. in terms of shitting where you eat, the only way that i see this working is if the woman you’re dealing with has skin in the game (e.g. a boyfriend everyone knows abou… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 11:17 PM |
| 6 | Constant shit tests at workone more thing: you need employment abundance mentality. start looking for other jobs. then confront your boss respectfully and let her know that would like your relationship with her to be exclusively about work. she doesn’t need to know about your emotional state unless it impacts the quality of your work. and it shouldn’t. fuck your emotions. do your damn job. you’re in a FUCKED work environment. you need to get out asap. until then, deal with it like a god damn man. you only* tolerate what y… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 10:57 PM |
| 12 | Constant shit tests at workdon’t fuck your boss. stop going to happy hours with coworkers. why are you arguing with women especially coworkers about non-work related issues? don’t argue with women. why are you discussing your sexual interests/history with female coworkers? stop bantering with them beyond a few back and forth lobs. don’t talk to them at length about non-work related topics. don’t become a female and get sucked into workplace gossip. be confident. fuck their shit tests. yes they are testing your frame. are … | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 10:48 PM |
| 5 | For the Rage: stupidslutsclubthe sub OP mentioned is dedicated to turbosluttery. sluts seek out the space to talk about sluthood. we all know not every chick is a turbo slut. but there are more of them than most realize. and every chick is capable of being a turboslut for the right guy. no matter how you slice it, the stories like the one you cited happen frequently enough to where most men know of at least one chick like this. and so what if it’s a narrow slice who act out on their desires? AWALT. it doesn’t invalidate wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 08:53 PM |
| 5 | For the Rage: stupidslutsclubyou get it. you fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 06:45 PM |
| 7 | For the Rage: stupidslutsclubit’s worthless to you. that’s fine. in my comment i explain a red pilled way to interpret the content. do whatever the fuck you wanna do. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 04:22 PM |
| 78 | For the Rage: stupidslutsclubi respond oppositely to that sub (i’m subscribed). great sub. there’re* some other gems also. all this sub does is reinforce what we already know about women. use it as a reminder about the nature of the women in your life and use it to your advantage. you should rejoice, not rage because AWALT. this sub has helped me think more sexually (since women are more sexual than us) and stimulate my women better. edit: a lot of the guys here saying most the posts are fake are exposing their lack of expe… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the insecurities/jealousy from orbiters that come along with a hot girlhot girls tend to hoe the most, bro. but that’s not the issue. the issue is your over-investment emotionally in* one girl. just because she’s hot doesn’t mean you break the code. it’s just oneitis dude. don’t let her run the show. don’t allow hotness to melt your frame. get it together man. if you want hot chicks this is what you get. it’s your turn. enjoy it while it lasts. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Help with Club Night experiencethis is the most important piece of the story. by apologizing and agreeing with their faux outrage you showed low value and no frame. when you make bold moves, expect to be tested and hold frame. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Help with Club Night experiencewhen you say you “excused to” them what does that mean? | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 10:26 AM |
| 8 | Learning the power of Frame through Stripperswhen i was in college, a group of low value males i’d hang with occasionally used to get so hyped to go to the strip club (in the best city in the south for these clubs). i never went. still haven’t. instinctively, it always felt low value and repulsive to me even prior to red-pill awareness. people still look at me somewhat surprised when i tell them i struggle to imagine a more pointless and insidiously harmful activity to a healthy man. the ECs have demonstrated that going can be treated as a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 12:25 AM |
| 1 | FWB (10 months) invites me to her Halloween party. Bad idea?good man. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 11:33 PM |
| 2 | FWB (10 months) invites me to her Halloween party. Bad idea?halloween for most girls is absolutely a thinly veiled slutfest/attention-seeking exercise. so it seems it wasn’t a waste. had some fun and met other girls. instilled a little dread. well done. she’s just a FWB bro. plate. nbd. don’t over-invest in any way. hopefully you realized she wasn’t worth a post. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Cuff Me!what are you going on about? you’re being too literal. women don’t use “cuff me OR ELSE” as a threat to obtain male commitment from a high value male. she will transform into a unicorn for a high value male she wants commitment from. she would only dare explicitly asked to be cuffed if it’s a low value male who she knows is over invested in her so she can use him accordingly. you’re overthinking the usage of the term “cuff” (and your definition is wrong, it goes both ways). it’s mostly used in j… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else desires to fuck Low SMV guys' hot girlfriends?you triggered a lot of people. optimize your sexual strategy, bro. women will do whatever they fuck they wanna do. just be realistic about your safety. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | FWB (10 months) invites me to her Halloween party. Bad idea?“deal with” what, dude? did you end up going? you have oneitis for your FWB but are in denial. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Can't handle newfound attention from hotties because of my higher SMV (freezing up, pussying out, etc.)stumbled on this and was gonna ask if you were still a little bitch, but then i saw a post where you realized you had the T of a fat hooker. once that’s sorted, you’ll be the man you’re destined to be. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 01:40 PM |
| -3 | The Redpill- A Mild Rebukelol. this post should be removed. what a joke. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | The Truth About Marxist CanadaThis post doesn’t belong in this sub. Sprawling commentary that’s not actionable wrt male sexual strategy. What was the point of this? How is this relevant to TRP? What are we supposed to do with this? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | FR Club Hookupbro your life should reinforce it. you should be practicing it. take action. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | FR Club Hookuppreciate the breakdown. was curious about your size/appearance of strength. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | FR Club Hookuphe didn’t fuck up. he fucked. he was hanging with friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | FR Club Hookuphow long you been lifting? what’s your program? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/19 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Love Is A Weak Passioni don’t think you are but i have to ask: are you being sarcastic here. if not how do you define love | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | When a DNA Test Reveals Your Daughter Is Not Your Biological Childyou still have a lot to learn lol | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Just had a reminder of why you can not teach everyone about The Red Pillhow many times has this been discussed. why do guys in here insist on doing this. stop fucking running your mouth and run your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Let's Talk Pillow Talkyes, but make sure you trust her first ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Let's Talk Pillow Talkgood point. making a “genuine” compliment post sex will be taken more seriously, true. i’d just add that that tactic can be used to be machiavellian rather than genuinely complimenting the girl e.g to lead the girl on or sell her a dream to keep the plate spinning. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Let's Talk Pillow Talkbut you’re speaking to being on offense. the OP is discussing defensive strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Let's Talk Pillow Talki think you kinda missed the point though, dude. the point was not to speak unattractively after sex, not to be literally mute. it’s not a “binary” idea, it’s actually a very important one. you’re nitpicking and being pedantic unnecessarily. this is a message a lot of guys need to hear and internalize. it applies outside of the bedroom as well, but post-nut it’s a common, tricky terrain to navigate. a woman senses your vulnerability and will use your momentary weakness to dig her claws into, tes… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Let's Talk Pillow Talkhad a hoe accuse me of toxic masculinity last night as i smacked her ass and she laughed lmao | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/19 12:04 PM |
| 4 | You Have More Competition Than You Thinkthis post didn’t hit like you thought it would, fam. girls cheat. yes. we know this. but you flew across the country to fuck an average bitch for one night. that’s...not something i’d be proud to admit to the bros. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 04:58 PM |
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