Broken plate hit me up randomly.

wawakaka · 2019-11-28T19:01:47+00:00

Sounds like she got dumped and holidays are coming up

serynada · 2019-11-28T18:32:52+00:00

that’s fine to send. you set the frame here. watch her actions. if you wanna fuck, keep it simple and keep it about her getting fucked. if she gives you trouble, withdraw. don’t emotionally invest.

WIA20XX · 2019-11-28T19:06:32+00:00

Not that message.

You don't want to telegraph your superior position, because she'll punish herself by not getting fucked to spite you. The momentary ego boost, state change is what most of them are after.

This is more Game than pickup/red pill - but you want chicks to feel like they have the illusion of control, the illusion of power.

I don't care who you vote for, just lemme pick the candidates.

MoneyStreet94 · 2019-11-28T18:53:05+00:00

Hmm. I wouldnt have high expectations. She's probably been pumped and dumped and looking for other options.

alphakari · 2019-11-28T22:24:56+00:00

Personally, I'd play it slower. Maybe some small talk+push-pull to try and get her to invest a little in the conversation. The more receptive she is, the faster I go.

I know a lot of trp commenters are like "If I tell her to come fuck and she isn't usain bolting to my place, HARD NEXT." but in my experience basically gaming her nearly from scratch (depending on the baseline rapport) works better, if she knows from the jump you're a flirty guy. The moments of lull end up feeling to her like "usually he's flirting w. me by now, what's going on?"

prince0verit · 2019-11-28T19:57:43+00:00

This is why you don't ever consider plates to be fully broken. When they act out, maintain your frame and your boundaries. If they leave, that's fine. There is a good chance they will be back. Sometimes they need to go out in the simp world and play a while with men who will not spark real passion in them. Then when that doesn't work out, she will always think back on the guy that fucked her right and didn't let her walk all over him.

She hit you up because she's single again and needs some validation or a walk down good dick memory lane. If you do fuck her again, kick it up a notch and do it better than before. But always maintain your frame and boundaries. SHE came back to you. You are the one in charge, as always, and you will not compromise just because she walked away. In fact, if you do let her back in, make her lick your ass.

SeasonedRP · 2019-11-28T22:22:03+00:00

I think you handled it fine. The sarcastic response sounds to me like she wants to meet up so you did the right thing in telling her to come over. This subject can get tricky. Some former plates/girlfriends do this to get validation. They want you to propose meeting so they can know you still are interested in them, but they have no intention of following through. You have to try to get a feel for whether she really wants to meet or just get validation. If in doubt, my view is to go ahead and propose meeting.

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-11-28T20:32:38+00:00

Think that message was to save face after you gave her the “who dis” text.

Invite her over, escalate and smash.

kclanton80 · 2019-11-28T23:17:01+00:00

Let's catch up.....come over for a drink.

Title	Broken plate hit me up randomly.
Author	MoneyStreet94
Upvotes	9
Comments	17
Date	November 28, 2019 6:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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