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| 137 | Shannon Sharpe- a Teachable moment | kclanton80 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/25 04:48 PM |
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| 1 | The BlackPill isn't for you and this is whyFirst I will say...If you don't WANT to deal with women because you don't like their behavior. I have no complaints or problems with that. However... Most men who claim black pill or incel are just scared to keep trying. They grew up not talking to women and let it become a complex in their minds that they can't get one. I'm very attractive ...but have certainly been told to fuck off by women PLENTY of times. Been outright ignored..... Left on read... Ghosted.... dumped....cheated on....broken u… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/25 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayAbsolutely! There were always hints that it was there when he first started. Then slowly but surely it all came out.... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/25 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayLots of simping for sure. The beta males are a Huge problem. There's a great video on the psych hacks channel on YouTube. The doctor Orion talks about how beta males join forces with women to control alphas. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/25 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayYup I would have to agree. The only option then is for men to just turn their backs on women.....which has somewhat started to happen.. The next 20 years will be very interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/25 10:47 AM |
| 36 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayWhat men need to understand about women is that they do not operate from a position of fairness. They operate from a position of survival. As the weaker sex, their power lies in manipulation. Even the seemingly most rational and fair woman operates this way. So as men we will never be able to get them to "see things our way", or work towards actual equality or fairness. Even when they know deep down you are correct. The facade must be maintained to ensure the matriarchy continues. There will nev… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/25 07:37 PM |
| 6 | i dont get why you guys chose the "Red pill"It's not a choice really ..... You don't necessarily choose to wake up. Your lived experience leads to you waking up....and then to search for the truth. You know something is off long before you know anything about red or blue pills. Just like Neo. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | The Lie That Men Should Never Be Controlling (And Why Boundaries Are Needed To Maintain Masculine Frame)good post! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Emotional investment is created by ACTIONYes this works with a woman is is already attracted. However....You mentioned a woman thinking you are an unattractive piece of shit, then becoming interested if you make her invest. This is what I don't agree with. It's not going to build attraction, and she will be unwilling to invest if she isn't already attracted to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Emotional investment is created by ACTIONIs trying to find ways for her to invest in you not still indirect pursuit? This also would only apply to a woman who is in your regular sphere of association. A coworker.... Classmate.... Neighbor.....or girl in a social circle/ friend group . These associations are often best left untapped anyway.... A Classmate would be fine as it's temporary....I'm not so sure about the others. A friend group is fine but will certainly muddy the waters and cause potential conflict if your intent is something… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Emotional investment is created by ACTIONWhile this is a solid premise, and undoubtedly can work. I would advise men to not associate in any way with a woman that is not interested in them from the start. For one thing women are far better manipulators than men can ever hope to be. The potential later conquest of maybe gaining her attraction is simply not worth the investment of trying to find ways for her to invest in you. Nor will you ever experience the real genuine burning desire from her that you actually want from a woman. What y… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Painting a PictureYes they will absolutely see it as desperate...... And yes many women will go for it. However you still become the sucker in the situation. She's going to constantly be looking out for you to deliver upon what you promised.... Don't promise these women anything.... This is also how many men get caught up in allegations..... With busted out windows, and scratched up cars. When you meet a woman you should merely be offering sex... She is free to take it or leave it. It's the purest exchange a man … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/24 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Painting a PictureMen who are relationship, romance, or future driven are seen as weak. Men don't benefit from such things so desiring them points to your need to please a woman because of your lack of self esteem and options. Women are not stupid ....the can smell the desperation from a mile away. Spinning some fantasy to her is just trying way too hard.....and she will literally cring inside while pretending to like your " romantic side" Women want to drag YOU kicking and screaming towards commitment, relations… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/24 09:59 PM |
| 14 | Painting a PictureWhy would you ever want a woman to think you are romantic or that you have thoughts of the future? She is most turned on by your lack of care or concern for either of those things ... | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/24 11:38 PM |
| 2 | some cold approach trials1.Stop asking for social media contacts. It's a whole extra layer you have to fight through, and you are just competing with the other orbiter chumps. Act like a fan and she will treat you like one.....you are essentially asking if you can be her follower. That's not attractive .....a woman will gladly add to her followerq count. Respond a few times and forget you ever existed. ( Especially if you don't have a really good social media page yourself...) If the interaction is not going AMAZING....… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/24 01:15 AM |
| 2 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseI'm sorry that you have never had a woman be attracted to you ..... You seem very angry and frustrated. It's not all about the money....it never has been and it never will be. What it comes down to is so you make her set. The rich guy who pays her doesn't realize she is letting a guy who works at a gas station smash it for free because he is more of a man than he is. Money can buy you sex, but it will never buy you her respect or genuine attraction. The only resource I give to women is a small a… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseSugar babies are basically prostitutes. They are being paid for a service. We are talking about having genuine interest from woman....not paying them for their time. A woman who has genuine desire is not thinking about needing to get comfortable with you. she is thinking that she wants to fuck you. Why the hell are you doing research in sugar baby subs? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/24 11:08 AM |
| 1 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseYou don't think there's TONS of women going to a guys house on the day they matched to sleep with him? Comfort is all relative to the situation and woman of course... And yes SOME texting or a phone conversation is necessary. How could you even set up a date without doing that first? I think you are missing the point. If a woman wants to take an extended( more than one conversation) amount of time getting to know you before hand. It's because she isn't that enthusiastic about meeting you. OR she… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseAgreed! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/24 03:35 PM |
| 32 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseIf she is feeling you ...there is almost nothing you can do wrong.. If she is not feeling you, there is almost nothing you can do right. Comfort actually means: "I'm not attracted to you but I will give you the opportunity to chase after me. After all I have nothing else better to do, and I'm still a little depressed about the last guy not working out, so I need someone to boost my confidence by chasing me. If this guy really works hard to impress me....I might let him buy me some drinks and foo… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/24 01:54 PM |
| 22 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseWomen make rules for betas and break rules for alphas. If she is feeling you ...she will meet you in a dark alley in the middle of the hood.. If she is not.....she will find any excuse. Comfort is a lie. Women don't need to be comfortable with you.....they just need to be attracted to you. The same woman talking about needing comfort with one guy will leave a bar with a complete stranger and fuck him in his car. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/24 01:35 PM |
| 2 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongBeyond lost indeed. Thank you brother I will. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongTrue indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/24 08:14 AM |
| 3 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongThank you brother. Trust me...you can make it happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/24 12:16 AM |
| 11 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongIt's sad for sure because it's an uphill battle with women otherwise. Constantly trying to convince women to like you.... Taking them out on dinner dates. Texting back and forth for weeks on end..... It's just really not supposed to be that difficult when it's right... Like you said... If a woman doesn't have burning desire for you it's time to move on immediately. When she does have burning desire for you.... She will comply with what you want.. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/24 11:35 PM |
| 5 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongFacts!! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/24 09:30 PM |
| 9 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongWho said anything about sitting in the house? I meet ALL women out. No apps. And Again....I said a first date should be drinks at a bar near your house, or at your house because you have already discussed sex. Even if you don't have sex that first time. If you want to hustle backwards be my guest..... You do dinner and run around spending money on them because you have to trick. A woman should first know that your company is the benefit of her knowing you. Not what you can do for her or where yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/24 03:40 PM |
| 9 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongWhy would you want to invite a woman into your life that you just met. Just because you already do something regularly doesn't mean you need to invite somebody else into it. So you took a vacation every week and you happen to me to work coffee shop you would take her in vacation with you? That is precisely why the guys with the most money are the most taken advantage of. Always leading with their wallet instead of themselves. Because they are insecure.. I never said spending money on woman was l… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/24 03:23 PM |
| 26 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongI'm sorry that you never experienced being desired by a woman. That's why you think I'm full of shit. Whomever you think is the most beautiful woman in the world.....she has likely had a one night stand with a guy she met hours before hand. In some random places like a park or the back seat of a car..... You guys choose dinner out of weakness and fear..you are afraid that you are not enough on your own for a woman to want to spend time with. You fear missing an opportunity with that ONE girl... … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/24 02:59 PM |
| 51 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongYou did ok but you made some massive mistakes.... Don't take a girl on a dinner date unless you have already been sleeping with her for a while. It's not a good opportunity to touch her. Sitting and eating is not sexy ....and women dont often want sex after eating. Especially a girl you met on an app, where the probably she is just filtering through guys for free food and attention is very high. On top of that, agreeing to take her to dinner is putting her on a pedestal right away... The first d… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome redpill rage after learning the truth about female nature ?I think the only time you will feel rage is when you are not having success with women, or when your attention is directed towards merely one woman. Abundances the key. If you have four girls on deck ready to come and service you.... You simply won't be as concerned about one particular girl's solicism or hypergamy. Life is just a game and what the red pill does is finally give you the real rules to the game. Learn the rules then go out and play it.... But always remember that it's all a game. D… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you all think most women are bluepilled?I would not It call it mimicry.... Adopting some of their ideas or having your opinions about some things altered is not the same as trying to become that person. It's about trying to become a person the person would like. Maybe she takes an interest in a sport...cars or music he likes. More so to find ways to connect rather than become. Trying to be more of the type of girl he likes.....so then they can get what they want. Even if they don't actually like or believe much of it. Again this is ty… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you all think most women are bluepilled?Do I have evidence? I literally gave you a book to read ..... I also did not say they mimic their crush......please remove your assumptions from what I wrote. I said they adapt to the beliefs of the man they are dating if they seem him as strong , and as a leader. I said the severity of all behaviors I mentioned varies per woman but that they all have the tendencies. I literally already answered every question and objection you have in my initial response. Read it again....more carefully this ti… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/24 11:14 PM |
| 8 | Do you all think most women are bluepilled?Women are chameleons....they will do and say whatever benefits them in that moment. As the weaker sex....their primary objective is always their own survival and advancement. They will often adopt the views of their man if he is strong enough to follow....but change again once he is gone and they are with the next. So are they red or blue pilled ..? No they are always whatever benefits them At that time. They don't tend to follow a code like men....other than the protection of the sisterhood ove… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/24 04:52 PM |
| 12 | Don’t change who you are even if it gets you resultsWomen respond to confidence and assertiveness. They respond to men who make no apologies for what they want or who they are. They respond to men who have clearly defined boundaries, don't simp, and allow them to be themselves as well. I.e. She will be a slut for you if she knows you won't judge her for being one. If you can't do these things...... It doesn't matter if you are a billionaire or someone who plays video games in the basement all day long. If you CAN do these things...... You can get… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/24 05:01 PM |
| 25 | They really don't care about anything if they like youThe truth is.... They pretend to care that you have other women. Actually they want you to have other women.... Alphas have other women and they want to fuck alphas. They just don't want to seem like they are slutty... But honestly it's a huge relief for a woman when she knows you are sleeping with others. It's also a fun game for her to compete against the others and try to win your attention and affection. Even if you aren't sleeping with others you should always infer that you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/24 11:48 PM |
| 2 | If You Were Chris Hemsworth…absolutely....you should always be going after more. It puts you so at ease when dealing with each one....makes you patient and non needy. You can be free to allow them to chase after your attention | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/24 11:21 PM |
| 7 | If You Were Chris Hemsworth…You should have a backup....never be dealing with just one woman. I make a point to always start talking to new girls in pairs of two at least. Pursuing only one leads to desperate energy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | If You Were Chris Hemsworth…I will add just one thing ......never ever deal with only one. Dealing with one is worse than dealing with none. Dealing with one will have you desperate....... Dealing with many will keep you not caring. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/24 12:13 AM |
| 3 | My ex GF wanted some time, I gave it to her, now she wants to come back, I am fucking other girl.Thank you brother. I hope so as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/24 02:59 PM |
| 3 | My ex GF wanted some time, I gave it to her, now she wants to come back, I am fucking other girl.Absolutely! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/24 11:44 AM |
| 65 | My ex GF wanted some time, I gave it to her, now she wants to come back, I am fucking other girl.Correct.....she left to fuck another guy. Now she MIGHT come back.. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/24 04:10 AM |
| 95 | My ex GF wanted some time, I gave it to her, now she wants to come back, I am fucking other girl.Your ex wanted " time" to give her a chance to meet and fuck another guy in the other city. Likely guy she already knew.or has contact with before going. She did this so she could cheat guilt free because you guys were taking " space". Women do not ever need or want space unless they are thinking about leaving you, or have a nother guy they want a chance to pursue things with . If she's going to an entirely different city...... Isn't that space enough anyway?? Think about it.... The relationship… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/24 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Thank you for helping me find a 6-year LTR. It all ended just as you said it would.You truly dodged a bullet brother. I know it had to be painful, but it was the best thing that could have happened to you. I have seen first hand the despereation of so many women in loving relationships to bang chad. Especially because I have been chad for quite a while myself. Married women...ones in committed relationships with kids......engaged. You name it. One such recent woman truly blew my mind because she turned out to be married....and he was her first. Though he did not really have in… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/24 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Thank you for helping me find a 6-year LTR. It all ended just as you said it would.I believe you misunderstood the red pill from the start if you thought your best option was to marry a woman.... The lessons you learned, are pretty much what the red pill teaches, but you forced yourself to learn them through experience.... instead of just accepting them. You bucked against the red pill and tried to do YOUR version of the red pill. You developed oneit's....you married etc. I could only understand a red pill man attempting to get married for the sake of having children.... But w… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/24 04:47 PM |
| 23 | If your afraid to hit on women in public, your not 100% behind your own product. (Hitting on girls, is not scary. Part 2)If you can get over the fear ....there is a literal gold mine of women starving to be approached. I'm starting to see the desperation a bit..... guys really are staying Away. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/24 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Negging is DumbGood negging .... Youre a lightweight..... I bet you could never handle another shot. Bad negging....... You have a really big nose.... You should probably get some plastic surgery. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the better😂🥱 | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the betterNo I'm directly responding the what you said.... You said wanting sex with women is trying to act manly. So I inferered that you must not want sex with women.....and you think there is some wrong with being manly. What else could I infer from what you said? Also looking for a relationship on tinder is a blue pill move. It's just true. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the betterBro you were admittedly bantering back and for with this woman for multiple days. A waste of time. If you swallowed the pill you should have asked to meet after maybe 10 texts max. You should never have been in the situation to find out about her being a shitty helpless romantic or whatever she is supposed to be. 10-15 girls honestly isn't much. And is it 10...or 15? Theres a big difference between the two. Don't take it personally that you missed basic things you could have done to prevent the … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the betterThere's two clear rebuttals. Perhaps you dont know what one is ..... I guess you confused my laughing face with being upset....weird. Like I said you should join the blue pill sub. You would fit right in Wanting to sleep with a woman is being too concerned with being manly??? Perhaps the gay sub will be even better for you | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 08:30 PM |
| 2 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the betterFirst. .....last I checked.... Tinder is a HOOKUP app. 😂 Only simps go to tinder looking for relationships. Relationships with women who signed up for a hookup app....really good idea! Second ...I said from the start to send two or 3 messages and setup a date. Not to keep texting back and forth. So try again please....I think you should find the blue pill sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 08:08 PM |
| 5 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the betterMore importantly.....if he can't handle a simple shit test she is thinking...."how is even going to be able to manage setting up a date that leads to sex?" "How's he going to keep pushing the interaction until I give in.....giving me plausible deniability to give in to him on the first night?" "How's he going to hit this ass the way it needs to be hit.... Sounds like he's not used to getting any the ass? " Next... Meanwhile OP is thinking....how is the relationship going to work!? .....On TINDER… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 07:02 PM |
| 0 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the betterOp fumbled.....who cares About shit tests. And why would any man enter an interaction thinking about a relationship? That's feminine.... You should be think bout hitting that...and women who shit test are going to be some of the best in the bedroom. A shit test is great opening for building sexual tension. If you know how to handle one.... Otherwise you come off looking butthurt like Op. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 06:55 PM |
| 2 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the betterWomen DO shit test men they like... They don't bother at all with men they don't like. Not all women will shit test if your SMV is clearly higher and they don't want to risk making a mistake and going too far. They Will shit test to see if you are worth the time and are at least socially calibrated. This is really basic stuff.... Does this guy have any game? Will it be a waste of my time to go out with him? Will he even be able to close the deal? Has he ever even sniffed a vagina before? He look… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 06:47 PM |
| 2 | On Behaviour Patterns, Gut feeling, and why it's NOT your responsibility to change someone for the betterI just think you lack social calibration and experience. She made a joke...a basic shit test. You failed with flying colors. She unfollowed your social because she thought you ghosted. Again.....your fault. She didn't unmatch however.... because she wanted to leave the door open. She liked you! All of this is run of the mill female behavior 101. If you don't like, or want to deal with very basic female banter and playfulness....this is going to be really tough on you. This is a key reason why yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/24 06:00 PM |
| 12 | Alpha Widows and Dead Bedrooms is not entirely a choice for them.She.might barely tough that quality again......but that in no way will stop her from going out looking for it. Or kesbiyyou to find something better, that she inevitably won't find. Do not ever take any solace in being her best. It means absolutely nothing while you are with her. It might mean something to her 5 years after you split up.... And she's sick of riding the carousel once again. Don't be foolish enough to think there is some way to insulate yourself from female nature. You can stay as… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/24 09:04 PM |
| 19 | Alpha Widows and Dead Bedrooms is not entirely a choice for them.Not true......you are only her best until she has better. Don't think because you are currently the best that she has sexually that she won't want more . That's the very definition of their hypergamous nature. Always wondering if they can do better. Familiarity breeds contempt and eventually both of you will lose interest in regular sex As for Alpha widows .....that happens when she cannot find a more manly man than what she had. ....and it's far more about behavior that it is sex. She can have … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/24 08:52 PM |
| 9 | Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship.It honestly sounds like she sabotaged the relationship so she could get out. Her becoming more religious and pushing back on the way you wanted to do things was to cause conflict. Conflict that would lead to the end of the relationship. It was a less confrontational way of slowly pushing you out of her life. And a result of her feeling like you weren't her best option. You only seemed to plant your feet firmly in paying for things. Everything else you had wiggle room...and for some reason we're … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/24 07:13 PM |
| 2 | What would it take for the world to recover from the modern degeneracy (i.e feminine men, hypersexual society, hypersexual media, etc) that impacts men?War.... Or total societal collapse. not until the barbarians are at the gate will things change. Until such a time it's best to only focus on yourself. That's the only way to stay sane in this messed up world. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/23 05:44 PM |
| 3 | How should I handle this situation where a hookup was canceled but then uncancelled?I just don't see why you would want the situation like this to last long-term. The longer it lasts the messier it gets. There's too many women in the world to get caught up in some nonsense with a married one. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/23 07:30 PM |
| 3 | How should I handle this situation where a hookup was canceled but then uncancelled?It happens to the best of us! ... And believe me it's easier for me to say these things not being in the situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/23 05:34 PM |
| 6 | How should I handle this situation where a hookup was canceled but then uncancelled?You should stop acting like a beta and being so concerned about what a married woman is doing. She doesn't belong to you..... It's just your turn on occasion. Sending her the subtle signs of jealousy and insecurity is going to chase her away into the arms of a man who will fuck her good and then leave her alone until she's ready again. You were showing her that you cannot maturely handle this adult type situation. It doesn't matter what her plans were. You should have another option anyway to ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everYou are lost I know....its ok. Things will get better. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/23 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Don't be fooled by women from the East." they won't cheat on them"...........yet. Give it time. Also don't expect them to advertise it to you if and when they do. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everLike I said trp is not about hedonism. Saying that incells are getting laid is absolutely a contradiction....not a metaphor. You're making random assumptions about me that they're completely the opposite of what I have actually said here. But keep on using your rage to lash out against people based on your own feelings and shortcomings. It seems really weird for a person that hates the red pill to spend time on a red pill subreddit. But you claim other people have sad lives? Imagine how sad Life… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/23 12:10 PM |
| 2 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everSounds to me like maybe you miss your old life. An accomplishment really isn't relevant beyond the moment you achieve it. You can't get happy about things that you did three or four years ago. The problem is your state of your life right in this very moment. You don't feel like you're progressing towards anything worthwhile right now.... And perhaps you are not enjoying that relationship all that much. Having a lot of freedom and time and money is not really the source of happiness. Having somet… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/23 10:58 AM |
| 1 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everI honestly do think you know we've the slightest bit about any of it. You're speaking in generalities and echoing mainstream talking points. I'm confused as to why you are even here. And to think that the red pill is even mainly about women is willfully misunderstanding it. "A bunch of incels who get laid" talk about a massive contradiction 😂 | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everSeems you were able to have a lot of experiences very young. Family money? You really breezed by how you were able to do some of these things without much detail. That could be why you feel so empty. You might be lacking a true sense of accomplishment because of being on easy street. Just a wild guess. If I'm wrong.....I'm wrong. But damn it I'm rarely wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/23 11:40 PM |
| 5 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everFalse ....Trp only exposes the truth. It's up to you what you then do. You don't have to live a hedonistic life if you are red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Social NPC Part 2: She gave me her number, now what?Ask her to come to your place for a drink...... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/23 10:21 PM |
| 6 | Dread game causing my girlfriend’s mental health to spiral… Too far?I miss the part where you actually used dread game...... Berating her to find out her secrets is not Dread game. Her not showering or being interested in sex is not because she is obsessed with you..... It's because you have completely turned her off. I don't think you understand any of this the way you think you do. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Weird inexplicable observation I have noticed between different types of men when it comes to their opinions on MRA, TRP, etc.The first rule of fight club... Don't worry about the thoughts ideas and opinions of the sheep. You can't educate or wake anyone up no matter how hard you try. Use the knowledge you came to design your life and make things better for yourself. Now and then you will find someone like-minded that you can converse with....but it won't be often. Leave every one else alone to believe what they like. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | should I tell my father about the redpillWhat makes you an icel? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain back my confidenceProgression towards a worthwhile goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend's past showed up a hell of a hoe phase among other red flags. Advice on how to proceed with keeping her as a plate?Keeping her is a scarcity mindset. Just replace that 304.... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/23 09:29 PM |
| 67 | Shows signs of investment, then double-ghosts me? After 4 great datesIt's very common....and most likely she had another guy in the picture. VERY likely that she got back with and ex and had been looking to quickly replace him. Take relationship off of your status and stop conducting yourself as if you are looking for a relationship. Making plans for the future.....setting another date while on the first date.....not pushing for sex. All things that relationship minded guys do. So basically.....she has one option with you. A relationship. Get it? So she basically… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Get some means and get some hoes.Fair enough..nice chatting with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Get some means and get some hoes.Yes ideally a woman should be working.... but she should be working for her man. Her only boss should be him. Too many women are financial drains and liabilities.... Not assets to their man. Honestly though it's becoming incredibly difficult for a man to support a family with one salary. However this does not ever give a woman a legitimate excuse to come out of her feminine energy. As a man we are still superior to any woman... Rich or poor | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Get some means and get some hoes.It's very simple. A femine woman is a woman that follows her man's lead. That is not argumentative or confrontational. That knows her place in the relationship or situation. Will not complain about doing feminine things like cooking and cleaning etc. As the man will not complain about protecting his woman or having to do manly things like changing her tire etc...... That carries herself in a respectful manner, and has a more conservative style of dress. One that isn't constantly out in the stree… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Get some means and get some hoes.Walking Away is exactly what it means. Also, Any man who is satisfied by sex, but has to deal with poor behavior is weak. Where are these mythical women you were talking about who are super intelligent and bring multiple income streams into the house hahaha stop it. Besides men are not attracted to boss chicks. That won't change. Physical attraction and feminine behavior is what men look for. That's it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Get some means and get some hoes.I never mentioned dominance over women. I said SELF RESPECT and boundaries. I never mentioned using up your time. I said that he should value his own time. Spending more than a minimum amount of time with any woman is a waste. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/23 11:20 AM |
| 5 | Get some means and get some hoes.There's no revelation that having money can help you attract women. If you want to be a trick be a trick..... That game is as old as time.... You could have saved yourself an awful lot of words. Get rich and be a trick... done. The fact remains that its not going to be a feasible strategy for the majority of people. Nor is it even remotely close to being in the necessity to have women. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 04:54 PM |
| 6 | Get some means and get some hoes.Keep coping? I don't have to cope I have pussy whenever I want it. You're the one who is coping.... You guys buy into this prosperity hustle shit way too much. Most men are not going to be wealthy. Most men are not going to be able to get a yacht. Believing that you need those things to get a woman is a loser's mentality.. Yeah just wait 20 years until you get rich and then you can finally have a woman. Then you will have lots of money and absolutely no clue how to actually deal with a woman. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 03:42 PM |
| 26 | Get some means and get some hoes.Money is one thing certain women want to use men for....but men do not need money to get women. Self respect will beat out money every single time. If you lead with money, she will look at you like a sucker. Because she knows she is unworthy of your money. Achieving money and success is for you.... Wealthy man are some of the most cheated on and taken advantage of men on the planet. A man with self-respect....Self-confidence.... And that refuses to take any of her shit is always going to be more… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Pov: Your Goals Don't Align With Any Of Your WomenBoth girls are focused on their own path. You should do the same.. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Insecurities vs Life ExperienceWhat a ridiculous response. All of those things are hugely important and deciding on getting into a relationship with someone.. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/23 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Insecurities vs Life ExperienceI simply cannot imagine why 34 year-old man would ever date a 34-year-old woman..... Much less a 34-year-old single mommy. It's literally mind-blowing. No you should no keep her for a relationship. Cut bait and go find a girl in her early 29's that hasn't been through the ringer if you MUST be in a "relationship". I don't give a shit about the male friends aspect because you already jumped over 20 red flags before getting to that one. You're a man entering his prime.... And you want to select a … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/23 10:29 AM |
| 20 | IntimidationYou don't have to be more attractive than every man you see. You just have to meet a woman's threshold of attractiveness for what she likes. You say you have 25 lbs to lose..... You don't even know what you are going to look like. Stop ruminating before you even got the work done. If you think it's 25 lb in my experience more than likely it's 45 lbs. At the end of the day it's not going to come down to your money. Women like what they like..... Some will like you, and some won't. Just like every… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Advice RequestIt's very difficult to set boundaries after the relationship starts but you can try. I would not wait until she cross a boundary. Just tell her as soon as possible. Let her know that you can't take a woman seriously who crosses those boundaries, and for thing to continue between you she will have to choose. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/23 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Advice RequestNo because you can't blame people for breaking rules they were unaware of. You have to make it clear. You MUST wait for her to ask for a relationship. Then you tell her..... "Well I don't take women seriously who do these specifically things(clubbing social media etc). If we are on the same page then we can try a relationship (since she asked). It's the her choice to enter into the relationship under those terms or not. Remember you are not pushing for a relationship.....she is. A woman who does… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Advice RequestLike I said, you establish you boundaries before you take her seriously. If she violates your boundaries, you cut bait and move on. It doesn't have to be the first violation, but it also depends on the severity of the violation. Notice I did not tell him to leave his wife. I told him to further watch her behavior. If she continues to cross boundaries then he needs to leave. It not that complicated of a concept. If you start coming to work late everyday..... You're going to get fired. Sure they m… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Advice RequestYes it's a horrible move to confront them. It they behave in a way you don't like....you just move on with your life. You establish your rules and boundaries as you get to know her, and establish a relationship. If and when she chooses to violate them.....you leave her ass. It's just that simple. A woman who desires to be with you is going to try her best to never make you feel uncomfortable, or untrusting of her behavior. She will work to to the opposite so she can keep you. You will not have t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/23 07:47 PM |
| 9 | Advice RequestDo not argue with women.....you are the leader. State what you are going to do, and then do it. Arguing with a woman is like arguing with a rock in your back yard. Always emotions over logic with them. they will also pull out the "abuse card" at some point if you get divorced. Do not confront her about the guy. It makes you look weak. Never confront them about other men. If you question her behavior....you should just leave her. No discussion or confirmation needed. It sounds like this is an alr… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/23 03:07 AM |
| 21 | Age Doesn’t MatterMen need to remember that a man's peak is I my starting when a women's ends. I'm 43 years old and still attract women in their 20's. Most women think I'm 30 most. Take care of yourself and you can have a far longer physical leak that any woman could dream of. Also women are naturally attracted to men that are older than them. But you MUST take care of yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Thursday Night OutYup need to focus on indications of interest before spamming the approach button. Especially when at a bar or club. Finding a good position where you can be seen and not moving around too much is good. However if a chick wont so much as look at you twice in the venue....she isn't interested. I'm not anti approach....but there is a subtle art to it. Try and catch some eye contact before just appearing in front of a person. They will signal you if you are someone worth signaling. Your goal is to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/23 12:57 PM |
| 6 | I dont want to take the red pill, but its hard finding a reason not to.Hypergamy is definitely in overdrive and honestly......it's women's natural state. We can blame social media... We can blame feminism. Honestly though.... Those things just set them free. Monogamy and committed relationships were all a construct, and women are now abandoning them. They will continue to sleep with many men until the wall approaches and it's time to cash out with whatever they can secure. Take Silas in the fact that you are attractive enough for a girl to slip her number to you at… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/23 08:58 PM |
| 12 | [FR 5] Walmart hb8 I cold approached was willing to hangout, but I backpedalled as soon as she said she had a boyfriend. I threw it all away with that L response.Honestly....who cares if she has a boyfriend or not. It's just his turn....and if it's not you, eventually it will be someone else. A boyfriend isn't married....which also doesn't seem to matter. I like that you gave her your number, because I would have done that regardless. Put the ball in their court. There was no reason to say you aren't interested because of the boyfriend though . If you are scared to risk orbiting than you need more experience... How do you avoid orbiting? You immediately … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/23 11:41 AM |
| 28 | Feel Like You Missed Out on Your 20s?At 42 I can still pull women in their early 20's.....but you have to take care of yourself. Eat better...Stay lean. Hit the weights. Have a sense of style etc. It never too late for men....we gain value with age. At every point in life you should be able to have a woman 20 years younger. At 60 you can definitely get a 40 year old woman etc.. especially if you finances are in order, the world is your Oster. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Field Report at a "hotel"Did you make a move? You had her in your hotel room ..! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/23 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Am I over reacting?I don't think you are overeacting at all. Your gut feeling tells you when something is not right. Women are liars And the truth about any situation is dictated by how they feel about it in that very moment. She went on a date with the guy previously, and she knew it was a date. He is still pursuing her and she is allowing the pursuit. Yer she FEELS like it wasn't a date. So now supposedly it wasn't a date.... Because it makes her look better in your eyes. A woman knows how to cut a person from t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | The best age to start reading red pill!Red pill has to be seared with pain. After his first break up is a good time. Start dropping jewels in his ear. The reading material.....maybe highschool. But always remember...kids will follow what you do more than what you tell them. Be a strong example first. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/23 01:58 PM |
| 27 | My intolerance to shittests has grown out of proportion: weak frame or it just comes with maturity?There's absolutely a rhythm and reason to this if you know what to look for. Mostly a woman is going to make things easy for you and return your same energy. It's that's simple. She will be flirty.. submissive etc. She will ask YOU questions about yourself...trying to figure out what you like so she can try and be that. Yes for sure women just want something to do and they like taking dates with guys they aren't interested in. All so they can be chased after and get an ego boost. The test is rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/23 12:44 AM |
| 57 | My intolerance to shittests has grown out of proportion: weak frame or it just comes with maturity?These aren't really shit tests. These are low interest women that you have failed to properly vet for being interested. Girl one for example....you got her on a date. Then immediately pushed for a date the following week, and then the week after. Pursuing when you should have fallen back and waited for her to initiate. Whatever interest she had was quickly killed by your thirst and lack of other options. This is tennis.....you hit the ball she must hit the ball back to continue the match. The ot… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/23 11:47 PM |
| 4 | An Interesting Congruence TestWhy are you allowing a woman to wonder around your house first of all? You need to control the areas she has access too IF she is in your house. People will steal from you... Snoop through your things etc. Second....I don't see this as a test at all. It was an overreaction on her part....nothing more. You shouldn't have explained your entire life to make her feel better. Because you had to explain or address something doesn't mean there was a test involved. Seems like something you should have m… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Does my girlfriend think I'm beta? Am I beta?That's one part of it ......just one. And you don't remind her. You display she has to see it. You don't tell her you were talking to a girl at the gym. You talk to women in front of her..... Show don't tell. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 12:34 AM |
| 6 | Does my girlfriend think I'm beta? Am I beta?Being attractive means nothing if they don't have a constant reminder of your options. They have to be made to feel jealous on a regular basis to respect you. Treating someone well lowers their respect for you, oddly enough. Start spending time doing things without her. Get some friends to spend time with away from her. Cut back how often you see her to no more than once a week. Get Lazer focused on your goals. She knows she is your rop priority and you are too weak to put her in her place. Once… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 12:22 AM |
| 3 | TrustYeah he said a year like that REALLY meant something. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/23 08:14 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Update on the girl who ghosted me on the second date.There's nothing to feel useless about. It's something that all men have gone through. You live and you learn. Don't you even validated again by basically telling her you were attracted to her..... Do not give women any of your non-sexual attention. There's ever even a doubt that she's feeling you you immediately withdraw and keep it moving. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/23 04:43 PM |
| 17 | [FR] Update on the girl who ghosted me on the second date.First.... you should not have responded to the girl when she finally texted you. She only texted you to relieve her feelings of guilt and you gave her that out. F her. With how vulnerable you sound..... I think you need to take some time and get yourself together. Stop chasing after these 304's and focus on your life. You will meet women just living life and pursuing your goals. Get your ass in the gym. Clean up your diet. Fix the things that need to be worked on.....and heal a bit emotionally. … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Trying to improve my game while in a trip in NYCYou merely get to join all the other guys displaying the exact same thing. You are not unique. If she is attracted to you, then she will want you to have her number and will most likely make sure she gets yours as well right then and there. Her offering social media is a way of saying I'm not that interested but you can keep trying online..... I will allow you to chase me some more. Of course people can get laid from social media....but it's a stupid round about way of doing so with a person tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Trying to improve my game while in a trip in NYCWell you need to be brutally honest with yourself....and do an assessment. Talk with someone who will shoot with you straight. Look at some mens style blogs.... magazines.....pictures etc. Pick an aesthetic to go for.....women all have an aesthetic they like. Pick one that suits you best. Make sure you are working on your body and keep your body fat down. A slim chiseled face is more attractive. Think of yourself as a product that you are marketing. It's not about "being yourself"....it's about … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/23 03:07 AM |
| 9 | Trying to improve my game while in a trip in NYCAsking for or accepting social media is merely a chance to join the other orbitors in chasing "her highness". I.e. treating her like a celebrity. Women do the choosing and it doesn't really matter what you say to them if you are attractive enough. An approach is giving her an opportunity to choose you. So if she doesn't really seem interested it's rarely something you said wrong..... It's just likely that she wasn't physically attracted to you. To improve your game.... Focus on improving yoursel… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 10:10 PM |
| 2 | What Jonah Hill did wrongJonah did not vet properly...... And then when he found she was doing things that he did not like he tried to change her. He should have just walked away with no explanation. You have to let a ho be a ho. NEVER try and change them. Find a proper woman from the start..... And explain any boundaries you have before considering anything serious with them.. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 11:35 AM |
| 1 | She used dread game against meShe should be officially eliminated from ltr consideration for pulling this nonsense. If it's a test....it's bad. If it's real....it's WORSE. It's likely real and as women are taught today, she has been exploring her options the whole time. You want a woman that she's you as her tope choice from the start and is not exploring other options IF you have LTR interest. This woman is a plate....and a plate it's likely time for you to drop. You had your fun...when the bullshit starts move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/23 01:45 PM |
| 3 | she wants the "what are we" talk all the timeThat's a text book female lie for when they want to end a relationship. She dumped him because she was ready to move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 04:06 PM |
| 2 | she wants the "what are we" talk all the timeIt's time to move on from this situation. Nothing lasts forever...and she wants to advance the relationship. Just let it go. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Field Report: First Weeks Practicing Red PillI think you're too concerned with being in groups. You tried the first group and it didn't work so now you create another group. Sounds like you are doing too much to be social and accepted. Just do you and let things flow naturally. P.S if you are trying to get laid...... Being seen as the social butterfly can actually be a counterproductive in a controlled environment like the gym. This is because people will assume that everyone will know if they get into something with you. You want to be a … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with toxic in lawsYou should brake off with her and find someone who's family will accept you. As soon as she is a little tired of you, they will be pushing her to divorce you. Also remember that she come from that same family and the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Why would a man ever risk getting married to a modern woman? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Do girls NEVER help with life? Never ever??Men are a tool for female survival. They seek relationships and friendships to receive, not to give. The sooner a man can accept that, the better off her will be. A man gets what he wants out a relationship mostly up front. As the relationship gets more involved, the woman gets more an dmore of what she wants and the man gets less. Focus on yourself and what you want as.much as possible, and don't try to please women or make them happy. It's not possible for a woman to be happy for more than a s… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?Well never stop looking or women....thats the trick. When you have women, it actually becomes easier to meet them because you care less how you come off. When you have no women, your desperation shines through like the bat symbol in the night sky. Game is important for managing women, but it doesn't necessarily attract them. It's hard to fake a lack of desperation and that is the single most important aspect of game. It's simply a lack of neediness and a willlingness to walk away from any woman … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?Well a woman can be a status symbol only by her looks for a man. A Queen cannot make a king....when a woman has a lower status man, that man is looked down upon. Again...regardless of what she has going on in life, she is not going to elevate you with her finances. She might see you casually for a while and then move to the next when she wants something more serious. Simply enjoy them sexually but it doesn't do anything for your status. On top of that, you should not be bringing women around you… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 12:44 AM |
| 12 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?Brother you have to realize that there is no woman is out of your league, and that as a man, success is a MUCH more difficult thing to obtain. You can't sell your farts on Only fans and make thousands a month life your stripper girl. Most successful men do not reach that status until their 40's or 50's. Dont believe what you see on the web. Who you are now, is not who you can become. Do not compare yourself or judge yourself at this point in life because you can always become greater. You also s… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/23 11:53 PM |
| 22 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?I'm a little confused by how you are identifying being attracted to a motherly woman. You speak about them having their shit together........ That doesn't mean they're acting motherly towards you. Are they acting in a motherly way? Or do you merely like dating someone that has more going on than you? I think you get oneitis for these women who have their shit together because you are still insecure and inexperienced. You're still seeing them as some kind of unicorn that is not easily replaced. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/23 07:43 PM |
| 7 | I Broke a Crucial Rule of TRPBreak it off and LEAVE. Women come and go. Focus on yourself and your goals. This world is getting tougher and tougher to succeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/23 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Experience with girls and friends who are chads redpilled me more than any content creatorYup I was red pilled long before the red pill was even a thing. Just by life experiences. People like to knitpick over small details to discredit the philosophy, but the basic thinking about women is very sound. Not only that, but men have been "red pill" since.mwn and women have existed. Just read a few passages from the bible..... | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Woman are interested but life is still a mess.You just have to go for it. You do the thing.....and then you get the power. No amount of therapy is going to change that you have to decide to overcome your fear. YOU have to do that yourself. Go into the cave and slay the dragon. Stop trying to become perfect before you feel worthy. You are worthy now, and have been worthy long before now. Pick a damn girl and ask her to hang out. It's just that simple. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionI only read the first line of your essay. If a woman ends things with you there is nothing more to think about. You don't even need to know why. Grab your nuts and move on with life. Cut all contact going forward. There will be no friendship and no communication. And absolutely unfollow on social media. The end | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | The Lament of the Red Pilled BetaBrother you can do both..... The gods don't hate us that much. As long as you weren't busting off nuts everyday you can still see the benefits. I rettain as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | The Lament of the Red Pilled BetaI don't think there's anything wrong with wanting women. I would never want to get rid of the urge to want women. .... You Just want to swear off them all together? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Can you really see yourself with a (much) younger woman?Sorry to break it to you but they are the same when they get older.... So yes I have no problem dealing with younger women. Older women are just children in grown bodies,.with more demands and expectations. And diminished beauty. A woman who is not really interesting at 21 does not end up being interesting at 42. I have found complete AirHeads and their 40s and women that I can actually have a conversation with in their early twenties. At 42 I usually date 23 year olds. It's better than a post w… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | A little story.She is not interested in you....but likes your attention. She keeps re-engaging because she doesn't want to lose your attention and validation. She is inviting you out with her friends because friends are natural built-in cock blocks. It's a good way to continue to string you along while she surveys other options that she is actually interested in. Return to a purely professional interaction with her.... Be friendly and do not act but hurt. Do not ever ask her out again or discuss anything other… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/23 02:12 PM |
| 5 | The Lament of the Red Pilled BetaHere's the rule.....abundance. one woman is worse than no women. If you ever find yourself with only one woman in your life, you need to do something drastic to change that. Otherwise you're operating in scarcity and so scared to make a mistake that you make nothing but mistakes. Having more than one woman will ease the obsessive ruminating over your oneitis. Find another girl or two or 3 or 4...... Until she is just one of many on your radar. It's likely you already fucked.this situation up....… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/23 01:53 PM |
| 3 | The Lament of the Red Pilled BetaHe just lacks experience....and most importantly the pain. You can sharpen your ax every single day..... But unless you take it into battle or start chopping down trees it's all theory. Guys get too caught up in red pill theory. Gobbling up every little piece of information they can, but never putting it to practice. You have to get comfortable through repetition, and if he is 30 years old and still not comfortable with women he has long way to go. could take years of ups and downs.... Heartache… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | STOP Cold ApproachingReally solid post! I agree. Cold approach is not the way. Level up you character and women will choose. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | What is the fucking truth about women?Bro just stop.... take the L. Learn something. I may have just saved your entire life..... Accept the lesson. You are really still here talking about getting a phone number..... I almost feel bad for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 11:42 AM |
| -3 | What is the fucking truth about women?You can try and spin this a million ways...... anyone looking at our conversation knows the truth. Your game is weak. There's no one who has had any measure of success with women that would dare to use getting a phone number as an example of game. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | What is the fucking truth about women?When did I say cold approaching was chasing? I said it was an unreliable method for meeting women for sex. You'll get lots of phone numbers..... Instagram accounts and snapchats.......but very few will you ever see in person again. A lot of guys get fooled into thinking that they had success because a woman spoke with him for a few minutes and they got some contact information to become an orbiter.... That they are on the right track and soon they're going to start closing more of the situations… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 11:03 AM |
| -5 | What is the fucking truth about women?Thank you for admitting that I'm 100% correct. Again for your first scenario you got a phone number. Even though a phone number means absolutely nothing whatsoever. Woman will give a phone number to a man she has zero interest in after all. If she decided she did have some interest it had nothing to do with anything you said to her. A Lot of times women are just bored and will allow you to entertain them for a few minutes... Or she decided that you were the best available option at the time beca… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 11:02 AM |
| 2 | What is the fucking truth about women?Yes! Mr Tate says it so well in this video. Never saw this one before. Thank you sir. It's not about game. I would suggest for everyone in this thread to watch this. This is exactly what I meant. Walking around approaching thousands of women is pointless. Focus on improving yourself and women will gravitate to you everywhere you go. It doesn't mean you have to be a multimillionaire like Tate.... But the more boxes you can check off the better. Especially with things you can easily control. You c… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 10:46 AM |
| 0 | What is the fucking truth about women?Hahahha scenario one you get a phone number oh my GOD. That's simply incredible man a phone number hahahahahah. Bro let me bow down to you right now. You are truly the master of game... you got a phone number! Holy shit! Scenario 2 you get a kiss..... The hilarious thing is that you think somehow because you looked at her a certain way you got a kiss. She chose dummy. She allowed you to dance with her because she thought you were semi attractive. Her choice! Do you think that if you were a midge… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | What is the fucking truth about women?Let's be clear. I recommend becoming a man that women want to choose. Choosing signals, and warm approaches are what you want. Day or night has zero to do with whether an approach is warm or cold. It's only choosing signals, and you can get them anytime of day. Once you become a man that can actually get choosing signals then you have a little bit more leeway on attempting some cold approaches. But I still do not recommend the cold approach as a reliable method. It can be handy for learning to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 05:24 AM |
| 2 | What is the fucking truth about women?What about your hair and your style? You just started growing some facial hair this year? Have you been living under a rock? Women freaking love facial hair.. You want to meet women and when you finally decide to grow some facial hair you are doing it for yourself?. That's a good recipe for picking a style that's still not going to be liked by women. Here's what you need to understand about women. They all think the same. They like the same kinds of guys. The same kinds of styles..... And they h… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 05:01 AM |
| 2 | What is the fucking truth about women?Build it and they will come is exactly the point. Correct! Anyone who wants to attract women has got to focus the majority of their efforts on themselves. If you are not attractive enough there is almost nothing you can say that will be right... If you're very attractive there's almost nothing you can say that will be wrong.... Game is absolutely something you become and women can spot it from a block away. From your hair....to your coat.... to your shoes ...to the way you walk... to the way you… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 04:49 AM |
| 2 | What is the fucking truth about women?Face is uncommon....let's start there because you just totally passed that by. You aren't sure if you are attractive? You should know that....Do you have a good modern haircut? Rocking some facial hair? You make money.....but do you have good style? Can you dress? Do you look like a guy she wants to sleep with? Again women do the choosing. I have had many one night stands....and it was NEVER because I said something clever, or approached a bunch. In fact the more you talk, the more you turn them… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 04:40 AM |
| 5 | What is the fucking truth about women?Yes you can have success without choosing signals (there are times when she won't even see you first)....... But the women still do the choosing. If you are approaching and not having success it's because they are not choosing you.... They find you unacceptable when you approach. Please do not let an extended conversation or a phone number make you think that you have game or that they are interested. A woman will give out her phone number or her social media to lots of guys with no intention to… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 04:23 AM |
| 22 | What is the fucking truth about women?False .....that's why you approached 1000 women and slept with one. You have more success with women who weren't looking at you??? What success? That's why you are here asking why you aren't getting anywhere with what you are doing. You don't believe you're supposed to get choosing signals because you never get any..... Because you aren't worthy of getting any. FIX THAT. Did you really make this long post to try and defend your failing strategy? If you are not attracting women it's because you a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 04:13 AM |
| 146 | What is the fucking truth about women?Women do the choosing!!! Improve yourself to the point where women start sending choosing signals,.and then you approach. Approaching every woman is just spamming.....your main focus should be on becoming someone that women want to choose up on. That's the real game. There is no special combination of words you can say that make them attracted to you. Work on fitness, style,grooming, and have an abundant life. Activities.... groups etc. place yourself around women and you will meet them. Honestl… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/22 04:01 AM |
| 0 | Why don't women teach young girls anything valuable?I don't think it's true at all that most men will lie to get sex. That a very beta and feminist talking point. Women want sex as much as men do and often plot on the guy the first give it up to. This is how I first had sex.....I was ploted on by a neighborhood girl who kept showing up at my house. She told all my friends she was gonna to try it. I have never once had to tell a woman I loved her to sleep with her, and most often got sex within the first week or same night. Women later lie about h… | /r/MGTOW | 27/07/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Loki should be called 'Woki'I always wait for review now from trusted sources before watching anything.marvel. have skipped wandavison, and Loki. Did watch falcon and winter soldier but will skip black widow and everything in the near future. MCU is dead. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/21 04:05 PM |
| 9 | There's just one last thing I don't understand about women...They only care about time spent in that moment. Janet Jackson says...."what have you done for me lately!" I think It has something to do with hypergamy and them needing a man to survive. They are constantly scanning for weakness.... constantly evaluating if they made the right choice. All that matters is how they feel right now in this very moment because they are guided mainly by emotions. You could have given her a million dollars last week but if you left your socks on the floor today.....it'… | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/21 12:11 AM |
| 2 | What do you all do when you feel lonely?I put some time into hobbies | /r/MGTOW | 19/07/21 12:06 AM |
| 8 | Strong and independent!😂😂😂😂 | /r/MGTOW | 18/07/21 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Young lad having some issues with the black dogWhen you can find progress in an area you can't fully control.....turn to an area that you can. Get in the best fucking shape of your life. You will get out of it, whatever you put in. It something you control, you can see progress in on a regular basis which will make you feel fulfilled and happy. It's also the greatest stress and depression buster ever known to man. | /r/MGTOW | 14/07/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Photos from the "2021 Bring Your Child to Work Day"This should really be at home filming porn on only fans...the modern strip club. | /r/MGTOW | 14/07/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Ahhhh the little woman isn't happy with me.Beautiful! Seeing as though you took the time to talk with her....I probably would have gone one date and slept with her. THEN told her its not going to work between you too because " there's no connection" . Then wished her the best of luck. | /r/MGTOW | 13/07/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | My simp friend blew a month worth's of wages to throw a birthday party for his girlfriend. It wasn't enough, so he took out a loan.Men don't realize that what you do for them only counts for that day. They don't work like us. He is going to say in a few weeks when she is unhappy " but I threw you that big party....." She will look at him like .." that was weeks ago!!! What have you don't for me lately!?" And the higher you set the bar, the more you will have to do to beat out the last time. It best not to try and make them happy. They chase the guys that could give a shit about their happiness. | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/21 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Asking for insights: how about dating "child free" ladies?Dating.....go for it. marriage or cohabitation....... absolutely not. And always protect yourself. Never leave control of pregnancy to the woman. "Oops I got pregnant.... I know I said I didn't want a kid but......." | /r/MGTOW | 04/07/21 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Amazon’s tomorrow war .Totally agree. This movie was a freaking mess. The men were bad people... because reasons.... Two dad's who left their family for no reason. He didn't find a great career so he leaves his daughter that he loves wtf? His dad had PTSD and son hates him for it but still later decides he will also leave his family.....just because. Every woman was elite. Not only top notch scientists but also the best warriors. Cold calculating unflinching. While the main black guy was a massive coward ...and the ot… | /r/MGTOW | 04/07/21 12:55 PM |
| 9 | There's no such this as a 'single' woman.Facts! And often times the ones who stay I my stayed because they weren't capable of getting better | /r/MGTOW | 22/06/21 02:56 PM |
| – | Does any of this even matter if you’re a short guy?A. No you don't improve yourself thinking you can go back and win over a girl who rejected you. B. Yes It makes a massive difference to get in shape regardless of your height. If you can't be tall...be fit. You try and attain as many of the infinity stones as you can. Looks, money, status, style, game, etc... Even if you can't collect them all, having a few still makes you infinitely more powerful than the average beta chump. There's plenty of 5'5 guys slaying lots of ass. It just an insecurity … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 12:03 PM |
| 81 | There's no such this as a 'single' woman.There is also no such thing as a taken woman. For the right guy, she will leave said relationship, marriage, or whatever the hell else she has going with another guy. | /r/MGTOW | 22/06/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Timeframe between first and second dateSorry....yes make it this week. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Should I go to my first big work assignment, or a funeral?Go to work! You don't know him....and don't need to advance your relationship prematurely buy meeting and associating with her grieving family. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Friend of ours is being a bit too friendly with my girlfriend, tried to get him the phone numbers of a few hot girls, he refuses. How should I stop him cold from hitting on her?Why have you brought your neighbor into your life? Why are you introducing him to people. Your mistake was even becoming nthis guys friend.. Just cut it off. Tell your girl you don't like his behavior and dont want to socialize with him any more. Lead! | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Timeframe between first and second dateSince you already inquired about setting up the second date you shouldn't make it for this week. Waiting several days before asking for another date would have been the better option but since you already brought it up there's no need to delay. Get back in the saddle quickly | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 10 | I want to stop orbiting this girlYou would not be a dick by ghosting this girl. Even if you were though...... Sometimes in life you have to embrace being an asshole. That means putting yourself ahead of others feelings and prioritizing yourself and your feelings goals and desires. You are worried more about how she would feel to be ghosted....then about how you currently feel. That's ridiculous. That's the classic behaviors of a nice guy... And the very reason why she has no romantic interest in you. Practice being an asshole..… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Need advice/thoughts: My(40) girlfriend(20) of seven months doesn't want to work, just be a mom and wife.Her hyper obsession with her kids being the best at everything sounds narcissistic.... You don't think being from a social circle where women simply find God's take care of them is a bit of a red flag? Do you realize how much you're going to have to compete with those other girls husbands on a daily basis..... And how hard this woman is going to be to please. It's going to be damn near possible to keep up with the Joneses and make sure she gets every single thing she wants. I'm telling you it wi… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Need advice/thoughts: My(40) girlfriend(20) of seven months doesn't want to work, just be a mom and wife.If at any point she is unhappy during this time....she gets to walk away with your kids and half of your assets. Especially since she won't be earning ANYTHING. What type of person spends 4 years going to UCLA to be a housewife? She sounds a little bit crazy to be honest.... And I think you already know that clearly. I bet the sex is out of this freaking world..... Because with the crazy ones it always is. That's how they get you to consider keeping them. This sounds like a bad idea to me. You w… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 02:37 AM |
| 6 | Girl I've been seeing stated I only use her for sex, how should I proceed.Soft next.....plates break. She is wasting your time and now has twice turned you down for sex. Don't allow her any more non sexual attention. It would have helped to mix In a drink at a bar here or there before sleeping with her. Just so she has the illusion that she is not being completely used. Honestly....women come and go..its not always about trying to understand or fix the issue. Look for the next one and make her work if she wants to see you again. Be busy......put her on the back burner… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 02:24 AM |
| 10 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?The first divorce is a little bit harder. The next husband she will leave probably within three years... She'll become a more and more efficient black widow spider. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 3 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?You should cut off communication with her. She is still sending you pictures....keeping you in orbit. You are young enough that you can find another woman ten years younger. I'm curious about her family though....did she come from money? Both parents raised her? Did she ever express that she wanted children? This is a big 180° turn from a traditional woman to an Instagram thot....although I have seen it before. There must have been additional res flags early on that you missed. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Are fake tits a red flag?Are you a woman? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?Well said | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 03:07 AM |
| 6 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?Totally agree. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 34 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?Absolutely. I would never speak to her again. I can't believe he is still communicating with her, and looking at her pictures. Sounds like she is still using him from afar. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at HomeAmen brother. I find less and less motivation to " achieve something" for what? I have a good enough car....and all of my needs met. There is nothing I really want....not even a house. Make more money why? So I can afford some woman and some kids who won't respect or listen to me? I'm good. | /r/MGTOW | 21/06/21 02:37 AM |
| 50 | Ever see your ex and realize you dodged a bulletMy girlfriend from high school divorced her husband a few years ago. Has recently been hanging around a few of my friends and I bumped into her at a barbecue in the afternoon. She has three kids and is about 70 lb heavier..... I'm fit and in shape and still dating 23-year-olds at 40. She actually thought she was going to try and reconnect with me in the beginning until I showed her absolutely no interest whatsoever. My beta friend who holds the barbecue has even told me that we should be togethe… | /r/MGTOW | 21/06/21 02:27 AM |
| 12 | My friend is in an LTR and his gf does not want to take his last name or have the children take his last name if they marry.She doesn't see him as a top flight man. That's the only reason she won't take his name. She would easily take the last name of a man that she saw as an alpha. Your friend is going to be miserable in this marriage and it's very likely to end. Unfortunately there's absolutely nothing you can do about it. He is likely to ostracize you out of his life if you even suggest that his beautiful bride to be might be a worthless bitch. Sad but true. Say nothing. You don't need to compile a list of argumen… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:15 AM |
| 257 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?You lost your grip because your marriage was a partnership..... everything she wanted to try, you were ok with it. IG is always a death knell, and always a way for a woman to test the waters of her hypergamy. It sounds like she did not have much other purpose in life, and idle hands are the devil's playground. You got a traditional woman from a strict family......then encouraged/ allowed her to adopt the behaviors of a modern women. Once such exploration begins, it's hard to reign it in. You los… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Multiple IOIs in person but seems like another person on textText for logistics....and withdraw attention in person if she doesn't want to set a time to see you alone. She might want you to orbit her. Do not give women non sexual attention. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Should I even get a job?Yes....life needs to have some sort of purpose. You need a reason to get up in the morning. Turn that 1 million into 20. Get your real estate license maybe since you were left property. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl asked me to reach out moreShe will never loose attraction because she isnt hearing from you enough. Sounds like a power play in her Indication that you musy be the one to initiate the extra communication that she wants. Dont fall into her frame and let her dictate your behavior. Keep doing what you are doing. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 12:30 AM |
| 7 | First night smash second night shit tests galoreShould have left at the first sign of any disrespect. She liked you....but you made her wait a month to see you again. Now she is trying to pretend that she is somehow upgraded and revise history and make you work to get her back. She answered the call to make you jealous....and she might or might not be sleeping with him. He was probably an orbiter. The whole night was just a massive shit test by her to try and win some dignity back after you smashed and passed for a month. Hard next....there's… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 11:49 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend is attracted to another man, but doesn’t seem she will ever cheat. What should I do?This isn't a basic attraction. She is so attracted that she is mentioning him to you. Where does she know this guy from. Seems you are leaving out some key details intentionally. You are thinking of having a baby with someone you don't love.... ... The cognitive dissonance in your post is near epic proportions. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Are fake tits a red flag?In my opinion yes. Huge insecurities. Attention seeking behavior....and in my opinion self mutilation. Plate only. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Should I give a shit if a plate is fucking other guys, sending nudes to other guys?That's totally your decision how you feel. It's not up to us to decide. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?Sure they can find a man to lock them down. But not the type of man that they've been riding the carousel with for the past 20 years. They can find a beta bux all day who they won't love.... And will probably later divorce. Which you know actually is a pretty good deal for a woman Deep inside though.... They want something better. They want to lock down that guy they fucked at 21 at the rave in the back room... But there's no way he was going to settle for her. So no the wall is not a red pill c… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Second date planned : Should i wait for this girl to text me now or should i double text?Honestly I would wait for her to text on Monday. The fact that she had friends in for the weekend.... She might not be up for more socializing that day. Wait to see if she reaches out to you first on Monday. If she doesn't I will text her on Tuesday or Wednesday to set something up for later in the week. Don't be overly anxious. Be a man with options and a life who isn't sitting around waiting for the very second she comes free to see her. Also never try and set up the second date immediately af… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I break up with new GF?The past few days she has been saying..... Why are you spending so much damn time with her? Get her in that habit of giving you head if she is sore, or has her period. She is probably actually sore. Now if she refuses to give you head then you have a problem. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 11:56 AM |
| 3 | How long do you guys wait for a date to show up?Sounds like you lost in the deal by not having a little bit of patience. Women are always late. If she is expressing to you that she's on the way I don't see the big deal about waiting 20 minutes to get some ass. Especially not to go hoop at the gym with your bros You could have just teased her about being late and made her buy the smoothies. Done She's coming all the way from another city..... I would think they should earn her a little bit of leeway. You arrived late too.. Kinda dumb to just l… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 11:43 AM |
| 2 | My wife, 46 years old, of 17 years is having a virtual affair with her first love from 30 years ago. Do I blame myself?At this point the cause is not important. It's time to get out regardless of what the cause was. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Why is TRP so black and white?Your lack of reply says all I need to know. Everyone thinks they cracked the code because things are going well for 5 minutes. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 02:39 AM |
| -6 | Why is TRP so black and white?Hahaha how long have you been in this magical relationship? If you're not talking multiple years then you're not even remotely in a position to comment on what it takes to have a successful long-term relationship..... | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Are women getting better at hiding that they're fat?Just look at her face.....the face doesn't lie. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Missed an opportunity. How to recover it?Yup continue on as if nothing happened....unless she mentions something first. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Missed an opportunity. How to recover it?Damn that sucks....at least you went for it. Nothing to feel bad about. She missed out. Did she bother to say why she couldn't? I would have just had the number written down and handed it to her lie I said. It avoids the awkward situation of exchanging phone numbers in from of her colleagues and other customers. The point of the paper is to keep the interaction discrete. Then she has time to go off and think it over... Rather than relying on what her instinctive reaction is in that moment. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How to turn girl asking to apply sunscreen on their back into an opportunity?This is why you don't pretend to want friendship with women that you are interested in. Establish that you find them attractive and want something more from the start. As for social circle game....you go after people who wash Into your social circle but not the women directly in it. Those women see you as a friend because you waited too long. Perhaps you need to get out of the circle and meet some new people. Let yourself be a bit more scarce....so they appreciate when they actually do see you. … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Girl being petty how to respond?She is just trying to keep you in orbit. She is making rules for you...which means she sees you as beta. Hard next | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:19 PM |
| – | I get the number, but interest falls of the cliff when textingRead the interest level better from the first meeting. See if she wants to extend the interaction longer.....is she anxious to move on? Is she looking in your eyes. Play with her hair? Try giving them your number instead of asking for theirs. Put the ball.inntjeir court to show interest. The whole interaction can be shifted if she is reaching out to you. If there isn't strong interest...be content with having a conversation and not even asking for her number. Don't waste your time. Work on maxim… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Well, my colleague implied that I may be a creep? I am not sure if I am one?She would never say these things to a man she saw as attractive. ..... So figure out what you need to do to be seen differently by women. Don't speak to her anymore other than professionaly. These are they types of women that make false accusations.....just because you said the word pervert. Also a lame thing to say anyway. Avoid feminists at all costs in all walks of life. Both men and women. Don't discuss politics at work ever. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:10 PM |
| – | LTR "breaks up" with me multiple times a monthShe breaks up with you because she can sleep with other guys during those periods you aren't together. She makes up dumb shit to give her and excuse....then comes back. You are her beta bucks that she wants to keep while doing what she wants in the side. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to lose the last 10lbs. Just started lifting. What am i missing?Do nothing. Keep lifting. Your goal is to recomp your body. As you build muscle you will natrurally burn more fat. You are skinny fat because you have no muscle. You so t need to bulk, but just keep lifting. Also add 20-30 minutes of moderate cardio a day for health and some fat loss. Accept that this doesn't happen overnight. You just started lifting and your wondering why you haven't reached your goals yet? Should be obvious. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Missed an opportunity. How to recover it?Go back to the cafe and have your name and number written down on a piece of paper. Even better if you already have a business card or something..... The next time you see her if the interaction goes well simply hand her the paper..tell her to hit you up and leave. I would have gone right back and handed her the paper saying , " since i make your day better.." with my name and number. I have done this a number of times with great success. I would say over 50% of the time I have given the girl my… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | How often is too often to see a new plate and why?I think once a week....or once every two weeks is ideal. Attraction grows in space...... Give her time to miss you and give her time to let her mind run wild about where you are and what you're doing. Familiarity breeds contempt and boredom and the more often you see her...... The less likely she'll remain a plate over a long period of time. If I have my choice it would be once every two weeks but some women are a little more needy as they rarely have anything else going on in their lives. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 12:13 PM |
| -1 | My LTR has issues with me following new girls on InstagramHonestly...... She is 100% correct. You adding and looking at pictures of other random women is not good for your relationship. Instagram is actually the largest dating site in the world. People are sliding into each other's DMs all day everyday..... And she is right to be jealous and suspicious. If one of those girls you added slide into your DMs there is a high chance that you will go and smash if you had the chance. The same goes for her though.... I'm not sure what her activity is on Instagr… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | If I move to college with my girlfriend should I pay the apartment costsYour welcome brother. Good luck with whatever you decide. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Is this plate broken & approach to softnextingOkay so here is your mistake. You waited 24 hours to respond to her snap because you realize you needed to pull back. I think I'm understanding that correctly? Instead you should have just responded in about an hour then said hit me up when you're free again. People don't like being ignored and it's quite obvious when you are having constant communication and then stop for no reason. Pulling back attention is obviously wise but not when someone has reached out to you..... And things have been go… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:55 AM |
| 4 | How to turn girl asking to apply sunscreen on their back into an opportunity?Asking you to apply sunscreen is basically like her opening you....... So what you're really asking is how do I not fumble a situation where a girl approaches me and expresses interest? Chat with her for a minute and exchange numbers. Easy. You just had your hands all over her.... You're worried about continuing a conversation? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 5 | If I move to college with my girlfriend should I pay the apartment costsFirst of all moving in with someone kills all the mystery and kills all the distance between you. Distance in space is what helps to keep attraction alive. Your formerly exciting relationship suddenly becomes routine and mundane. Meanwhile she's going to be walking around her new university looking at all the guys. Getting invited to parties. Joining new social groups etc... You will pretty much be the outsider tag along boyfriend who is there but doesn't even go to the college... If you are not… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:42 AM |
| 4 | My fiancé has been reminding me that I’m a taken man.Honestly she's reminding you because if you keep going out you're going to cheat on her eventually. Which I have no problem with whatsoever. Who cares if she keeps reminding you. As long as she's not trying to restrict your movements you are good. This is what you signed up for after all. If you're not comfortable with it then you might need to ask yourself why you are getting married. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:30 AM |
| 10 | Did I just waste the best years of my life?Most of the friends you make in college will not be your friends in 10 years anyway. Life is what you make it. You can have plenty of friends and plenty of women if that's what you set out to do. Leaving with an engineering degree is a lot better than leaving with a few friends a couple STDs and maybe a baby on the way. Trust me man you are good. You are beyond good. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:28 AM |
| 3 | If I move to college with my girlfriend should I pay the apartment costsYour instincts to split up with her when she went to college was the right decision. You should follow that instinct. Do not move in with this girl. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:25 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with FWB jealousy?Do nothing.... enjoy her jealousy. As long as she is still fuxking you, there is no problem here. In fact she's likely still fucking you because you hit other options. Start being more available and watch how quickly she loses interest...... The fact that you're busy with others is what continues to keep her interested. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:23 AM |
| 4 | She'll give blowjobs and let me finger her, but wants to be in a committed relationship before she lets me fuck.Don't listen to this guy. Do as you wish. Trp is amoral. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 11:19 AM |
| 7 | She'll give blowjobs and let me finger her, but wants to be in a committed relationship before she lets me fuck.Keep seeing her while pursuing others. She might change her mind at any moment....she is a woman after all. You could be sleeping with her next week with no commitment. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 10:05 AM |
| 5 | I go out to dance with my girlfriend, guy “friend” of ours asks me in front of her if he can dance with her… what’s the best response?No response......just a look in his eye like" you must be fucking kidding....what made even think that would be a possibility?" Absolutely no words needed. Don't listen to the " it makes you look insecure" people. this is not mate guarding. It's a direct response to a dog trying to enter your yard. Mate guarding is seeing an attractive guy and quickly moving closer to your girl. Holding her hand....etc trying to display to those around that she is yours so you don't loose her. Dancing involves p… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | She told me she'd let me know after asking me to ask her out againSoft next. Don't play these games. Move on to the next. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | After her big work promotion, chubby wife doesn’t want sexDivorce. Take the hit to be happy. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Should you tell her you don't want a relationship?Most women are not going to ask you up front if you are looking for a relationship unless you are dealing with some used up tender thots or women quickly approaching the wall. You should avoid these women anyway. Never confirm or deny that you're looking for a relationship. You were just meeting new people and whatever comes comes. You're not against relationships and if the right person comes along you're open to one but you're not in search of a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 12:57 PM |
| 3 | New to TRP from Purplepilldebate - need some criticism on my "Ex LTR" and what i can do to protect myself and regain power within our dynamic and what red flags i missed (long post)You were dating a post wall alpha widow who saw you as a beta. Why would you want a woman almost 10 years older than you anyway? Look at this as a victory....you escaped possibly being married or having a child with this woman. Her ex was not abusive. Be just prioritized himself......they same way you should. You she how she is still hung up in him while you are hung up in her. Read up on the sidebar and books you ordered. I could not read your novel of every single detail. From your tldr, you n… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 09:59 AM |
| 2 | She looks down on me but still wants me?"I'm looking for a serious relationship" so much wrong with that statement. In what way has she shown she wants to branch to you? She currently has a boyfriend? So you are in her friend zone right now? Otherwise....for what reason are you regularly even communicating with her? Do not give women your non sexual attention. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 09:43 AM |
| 19 | Don’t bother with blue pillersNow imagine having a brother like this friend but Iike 5 times worse. Who is married to a fat feminist who won't take his last name, and call himself a feminist. Haven't spoken to him in over a year and it's been a great decision. These people just cannot be awakened from the matrix. It's sad. You have to let most of them go | /r/MGTOW | 17/06/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Accepting my fateIn what way are you sourcing women? If you are focused on the online shit then it's rough for many men. Try living a more interesting life where you meet people in real life and try to connect. You are 21.....you literally have like 30 years left where you can day women in their 20's. Relax....put in the work. Keep trying. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Girls at work dont like joking aroundYou are trying to flirt and they aren't interested in you.Its just that simple. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | how hard did i fuck up in this situation?You never get a second chance to make a first impression. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlThey just go anywhere in public where you can see attractive women. Women are usually comfortable approaching each other and chatting. Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Should we spin needy girls? What to do when she's needy?How needed are we talking? If you have purpose in your life you just continue to explain that you are busy and you will each out when you get a chance. Remember you set the tone for how things start from the beginning. Don't buy into her love bombing up front. You consciously control the pace with a needy girl. She often will complain....but if she isn't good with it she can leave. Don't change to keep her around. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | invited a girl out for drinks. she replied "how bout dinner and drinks!" smh"How about dinner and drinks" "No thanks drinks are enough for a first date. Let's see how we like each other first." Honestly that's a hard next for me anyway. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was dating says I make her feel more like a ‘friend’ than a romantic partner.Translation.....I'm not interested in you....and there is possibly someone else. Next...cut all contact and move on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:25 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlGo to a bar club restaurant....etc. pick a girl together and let your gf approach and do the work. It's essential that she like and be attracted to the girl. Your role is not to find the girl.....it easy for her to turn down your selection. Pick the girl together...then let her approach and handle all negations and logistics. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:23 PM |
| 6 | Ever since learning the red pill, I can’t stand normal people anymore, and I want to change thatRaising your consiouness is enlightening but dangerous. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | When do you comply and say FU to your employer?You are in training and you have already been late? You are refusing to stay after a bit for a meeting that's in regards to your training? Honestly you sound a bit entitled. Is this really an "IT" job? It sounds like a call center. Just deal with it and wait a bit before you start making conclusions about the job. You are still training after all. In the mean time look for another job. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Is a girl taking a Plan B pill enough of a contraceptive for you?Condom and pull even with the condom on. They break. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againNo.....do zero caffeine. It inhibits your ability to feel tired. The stuff they tell about it being out if your system after a certain time of day is a lie. If you can sleep....I do t even see why you would consider hesitating to try this. Also media fast. Get your mind settled and not thinking too much. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againI would also do a fast so your mind can settle. You are probably thinking too much. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againYes cut all caffeine. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's fair for a woman to end the LTR if you don't give her a valentine's day gift?Hahaha it his damn phone. Voice to text....it gets confused. I swear haha. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | LTR jokes about a threesomeNext time play it cool and ask probing questions. "OK do you have a guy in mind?" " When do you want to do it?" Then you can quickly get your question answered about if she was actually joking. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's fair for a woman to end the LTR if you don't give her a valentine's day gift?A woman would never break up with a guy over not getting a gift unless she didn't really care that much about the guy in the 1st place. If she sees the man as a great option.... he can shit on her stomach while she's sleeping and she won't leave him. Not giving a woman a gift is a great way to communicate to her that you were not head over hills with her and she has some work to do. This is actually the correct message to send them. A good Valentine's Day gift Would be something you benefit from… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 03:58 PM |
| 5 | The 6th sense4 seconds is pretty damn long. Walk up and say hey. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Going back for a 2nd degree at 28 leaving £55k job.I would try and find a way tonutilze your first degree. There has to be some way other than the police or military. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl makes excuse on 3rd dateJust tell her to let you know when she can meet up and wait. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Are bars and clubs worth going to if your a serious guy?You don't have to drink, and if you are attractive, women will come on to you. Yes...,go for the life experience, if nothing more. Great place to work on game. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Group of girls from my class hates my gutsThis is correct! | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Group of girls from my class hates my gutsThey like you. Tell then that if they want to suck your dick, they can just let you know instead of constantly trying to get on your nerves....then see which one takes the bait first. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Would you ever get married?No...because all the good qualities you mentioned are subject to change and womwn get incentive to leave. Relationships peak very early on and then start a slow downward spiral from there. Hopefully to plateau at a relatively high point but in most cases it's a low point. I'm very comfortable with long term relationships but not marriage. Marriage is basically a licence for a woman to not have to be on top of her game anymore. There's no incentive or requirement for them to behave because a divo… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 04:51 PM |
| 20 | How to keep bratty/control freak girlsShe sees you as beta. You are her plate. Show her that you don't need her around and can take it or leave it. The most powerful thing a woman must always know about a man is that he is willing to walk away from her is not a slave to having sex. Don't simp for her. Her :You're supposed to ask me if 6 works for me!!!. You: you know what...nevermind I'm going to make other plans. Soft next....then wait until she crawls back. It might be instant. Her " I was just kidding I still want to see you." Yo… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Does mentioning that she is a conservative on a dating app like Hinge, allude to the fact that she wouldn’t be down for casual sex ?Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas. Don't watch what she says pay attention to what she actually does. Pursue sex regardless..... | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Girl in Engineering Program with me kinda Hostile. Why?It was definitely the comment you made. It seemed innocent to you... but she could have seen it as implying that she was interested in you. So since that time she has been trying hard to show you that she is in fact not interested....even though she probably was. In her mind she could have heard this as.." you must have been interested in this stock...otherwise why are you stalking my page??" It's not really wise to tell anyone you've noticed that they've been looking at your page. Just take tha… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 01:14 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with boss at work who constantly undermines you?You need to read the 48 laws. Never outshine the master. He is intimidated by your excellence and feels insecure. You win by befriending him...giving him credit for your success, and fluffing his ego from time to time in front of others. The corporate world is very political and you win by making allies if your superiors. Then maybe he helps you get promoted and you move on from him. When he shit tests you...treat him like a woman. Laugh it off, agree and amplify. Never let him see it bothers yo… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Shit test or friend zone?"Ok we can spend some time out in nature...but come over Thursday night and have a drink with me." Place her in a sexual situation first and see if she bites. If she misses you so much...it should not be a second thought. If its a no....or she doesn't counter a different night. Soft next. When in doubt...always try an put them in an isolated situation where sex is clearly an option. You will very quickly have your answer. So not give this girl anymore non sexual attention. Either she is fucking … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 12:52 PM |
| 8 | Are fat people who don't work out, and who have reduced testosterone levels as a consequence, more like to be trans / non-binary etc?Lots of men have high estrogen levels because of weight, poor diet, the shitty processed food, diffent products they use etc.....but I think its also more of a mental condition. It used to be viewed as such in the psychiatric community. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 12:40 PM |
| 3 | disagreeing with a femaleHuge difference between a debate and an argument. I tend not to debate women because they think emotionally and not logically. However I make sure that I check a woman's behavior. Which can also lead to an argument but I'm not going to argue. I will make my correction of her behavior and leave it at that. Im telling her what I am not willing to accept and that's not really up for debate. For the most part i try and leave the phyisophcal and political debates alone. I prefer to use inception in t… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | I am 29 and she is 45, is this really that big of an age difference?Plate only | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | 2nd time reading No More Mr. Nice Guy - audio bookHow I found freedom in an unfree world. By Harry browne. Another one that profoundly changed me. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Plate asked to DTRYes but like you said...the goal was fucking. She wanted to take you on the first date....OK fine. However you have let that become the set precedent, which makes her think you want more. She would have been perfectly content just coming over and fucking. Now youyr already starting to ruin what might have been a good plate because of the standard you allowed to be set. You are spending too much time together on the date, and those dates are building investment from both sides (emotional Investme… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Plate asked to DTRThe real question is why are you taking a girl on dates that has fuxked a bunch of your friends etc..... Acting like a boyfriend then being surprised that she wants to know your intentions because you're acting like a boyfriend. This is a woman you should have been saying only for sexual purposes. There shouldn't even be anybody that's able to spot you 2 out in public together. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Older guys - LTR’s wanting to travel with friends or even aloneThis should be handled before the relationship starts. You express the things you would not be comfortable with and she has to agree to terms or no relationship. She must also ask you for the relationship, not you asking her. It's going to be hard to change things up now but tell her no. If she still wants to go, simply end the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againIf you consume any kind of caffeine,,,,stop immediately | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 09:37 PM |
| 14 | Need advice on LTR concerning moneyIf she is worth keeping she should understand that you are making less money. You should not have been supporting her in the first place....the relationship is a joint endeavor. This will be a very good test. Hopefully she passes but the fact the she was comfortable with you mainly footing the bill for things is not encouraging. There is no reason to be taking a woman on vacations regualry anyway. Just be up front about the situation. If the relationship ends they you are a lucky man for finding… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever felt bad for a LTR that left you?There's a long line of orbiters she could have married years ago. Don't feel bad for her hypergamy limiting her time and available options. She also could have opted to make the changes you mentioned to her. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I avoid getting into a relationship before college?I don't blame you one bit. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Hit 160 lbs at 5'9, should I keep going or cut?Fasted cardio will help but won't make a huge difference over fed cardio. If you are going to do fasted cardio, you should do lower intensity steady state cardio. A slow jog, incline walking, stair climber etc. Your energy won't be as good fasted although a stimulant like caffeine helps make up for that. Whatever you end up doing up make sure it's about 20 minutes a day. After about 10 minutes, you start burning fat directly even if you are not fasted. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Hit 160 lbs at 5'9, should I keep going or cut?Try adding cardio and doing nothing to your diet 20 min a day. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 10 | Should I avoid getting into a relationship before college?Avoid relationships until you're after 30 | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 11:02 PM |
| 37 | girl lied about her ageYou should have told her....see you in two weeks. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What is "aww" a sign of?If your beard is so long that people ask how you look without ot...it might be too long. Extremes are generally not attractive tonthe majority of people. Maybe just split the difference and go with a shorter beard. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Younger girlsBecause you card too much about other people's opinions. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 4 | should i text one last time or wait?She is trying to suck you back in so she can deny you, and feel like she won. She is not afraid to contact you, nor does she feel bad for anything she did. Its a trap. Stay away. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 12:13 AM |
| 5 | Doctor said I won't be able to do lifting anymoreFind a way around it. You dont have to do heavy squats deads and bench to build a body. Do more isolation movements. Use more machines instead of free weights, where your body is supported . Trust your own intuition about what you can handle. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | I shouldn't not accept her invitation to come to meet her friends.I agree 100% and there are some people I will simply never bring her around...even I we were married. Its important to be able to separate different parts of your life. I have a friend who's best friend was sleeping with his woman......well you guys hung out as a group all the time getting drunk, and his girl flirted heavy with all of us. He recognized it, but just kept bringing her around like a dummy. She was trash too, 4 of us could have banged her......but not if he was smart enough to never… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 10 | I shouldn't not accept her invitation to come to meet her friends.Why do people seek advice when they know they are not going to take it? No group dates unless you have already slept with the woman multiple times. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I end a great LTR over partners sexual past?Ita natural to feel this way. No one wants to thunk about and picture the multitude of guys your woman has been with and what they did. We are naturally territorial that way, and I also cannot handle seeing. Woman seriously with a high count. There is something especially disturbing about it if she feels comfortable to open about it, like it's no big deal. If she was.mkre discreet, you would have been fine. She kind of ruined things by being open. Then there's also the fact that having been so s… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop caring about what others thinkIt's an squired skull that you have to practice. It often comes more naturally with age and experience | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | LTR lied over something small, advice?Ok wasn't sure I don't have it. I would tell her to get her own. She needs to sever that connection | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Even if an ltr is good, in what cases would you still end it?You have a different Outlook on life and want different things out of life. She is unwilling to fall under your leadership and adapt to your point of view. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Would this still be classified as a beta provider?Included as little detail as possible to hopefully get the desired.."not a beta" response. If you pay for everything, you are a beta. Period. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | LTR lied over something small, advice?Doesn't Netflix make you update you password from time to time? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Red Meat ?Red meat topics are topics that quickly get people's attention. Kinda like the news leading with shootings and fires.....and THE PLAGUE!!!!!! So hypergamy for example would be a red meat topic. Something that easily gets guys riled up and paying attention. Women cheating as much as men would be a red meat topic. Paternity fraud....red meat. Only fans discussion....red meat. Divorce stories And discussion..... red meat Talking about lifting and improving your style would not be a red meat topic. … | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Hot wo correctly apologise when youre obviously wrong?You can admit where you were wrong....but you don't have to apologize. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Caught LTR lying, trusted my gut feeling and read her messagesDon't not expect to get the truth from her.....do what you need to do based on the information you have. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:34 PM |
| 9 | Why is it socialy acceptable for women to cheat with other women?The better question is.......what is not deemed socially acceptable for women. They are literally encouraged to do anything they want. Simps and white knights mostly enable these behaviors. Give them an inch, they take a mile. I had an argument with my brother one time who is a major simp and white knight. He actually told me that it was better if a woman had many sex partners before a guy had her because she would be able to perform better sexually. We don't talk anymore.....We see the world qu… | /r/MGTOW | 01/06/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | girl wants me to get more emotional and text moreThis is a sign you are doing quite well with her. Change nothing. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Best movies for Netflix and chill?Thrillers and scary movies. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | If a girl shows you interest after 3 years of not talking is she worried about her SMV going down or sees how your smv has gone up.Define interest? How has she shown it? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | help me figure this outYour cognitive dissonance is strong. You say women are not interesting but call mgtow's loosers for not wanting to deal with them. All while exclaiming that you're sick of dealling with them. Mgtows are not loosers. The have accessed the risk and benefits in dealing with women and decided that they are going to pass on that, or deal with them in a Limited fashion. There simply isn't that much difference between a red pill man and a mgtow. Both recognize female nature, they have just decided how … | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do y’all think people refuse to acknowledge this information?There's more comfort in the lies. Combined with a thorough dosage of brainwashing. This extends far far beyond female nature into nearly all aspects of society. Cypher just wants to enjoy his steak. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you tell potential tinder hookups you’re looking for casual prior to meeting up?Its better to display this with actions over words. Have them come over for a first date etc. Being a bit vague gives them plausible deniablity. Even if it's going to be purely sexual they at least want to feel like there was a possibility for more. Ease them in to the situations rather than telling them. They are more likely to go along with it. The goal is to get them in front of you, and you let your game handle it from there. Women are very emotional and reactionary....so they often turn the… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | The best way to handle a woman's interest in you when you don't want to have sex with her?She is not going to introduce you to her friends and other women if she wanted you first. You shouldn't have pursued something with her if you weren't feeling it. Then you actually could have just friendzoned her and possibly used her to meet others. Since you took steps for something more then pulled back, she is going to have a very bitchy attitude with you going forward. He'll hath no furry like a woman scorned. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Plate asking money and i refused.Mistake one.....the bitch line. Mistake two....admitting it was a mistake and trying to comfort her. If you would have left with no apology, then you would have kept the blame on her. She would have gotten over it and maybe even apologized. When you accepted blame, you shifted to ger frame. I would advise you to just ignore her going forward and only deal with her professionally. She sounds crazy anyway. Don't shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I use money to get enjoyment out of life?Maybe money can't give you the fulfillment you seek. You seem to have a very superficial life. Find some meaning outside of buying hookers and spending money. Some real purpose in life. Helping someone else is a good way to feel better. A life of enjoyable things is not a happy life. Find something to struggle over....to work towards. Learn something new...etc. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Should I make a power move in front of ex?Stay away from her op. Sacrifice bthe dance class and look for another one you enjoy.....or start your own. She will think you are there for her. And it will be very uncomfortable. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Girl from hinge wants me to come to her and her friend’s get together tonight.You should have talked with some of the other women first and been social. Display high value.... competition anxiety) dread. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it a redflag, when she had a sugar daddy and is antisocial?Yup like I said plate only. Have as much fun with her as you like but keep it casual...and most importantly continue to see other women. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Posting other girls on social media?Posting a picture in a cool place where women are is good.....posting a picture of you on a date..bad. Ex: Posting a picture of you on the Vegas strip, or at a pool party with women in the background.....good Posting a picture of you having dinner with a girl in Vegas....bad It's a subtle difference...but a significant one. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Tips for taking girl as soon as she walks in the door?Don't....lay back and play it cool. You seem thirsty if you tackle a chick the minute she walks in. Part of sex is the lead up to sex....don't rush the lead up. Let the seduction unfold slowly.....the anticipation is what gets them hot. She if you can allow her to initiate because she just can't wait anymore. This puts you in the power position. Calm your ass down. Why would you even be waiting for her before she gets home....again that's thirsty as hell. " I don't have anything better to do tha… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | what do you guys do when someone keeps disrespecting youI would also take a hard look in the mirror and figure out why people think I'm someone they cs, or should fuvk with. Then I would set about fixing those things. Step one LIFT. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Is it a redflag, when she had a sugar daddy and is antisocial?Honestly she was disqualified for me based on point one. She might be very submissive with you right now......by how long have you known her? Oftentimes people act one way to suck you in and the totally flip after you are attached to them. So who knows if her submissive behavior will continue. Look I know society has tried to normalize a lot of previously frowned upon shit, but that doesn't mean you have to go along with it. Who knows what else she may have done, or how many men she has slept wi… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it a redflag, when she had a sugar daddy and is antisocial?That's a pretty big red flag ....how many do you need? She was allowing a random man to support her financially for sex...and you think she is good ltr material? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Lifting advice. Breaking through plateaus.Increase reps. Increase workout frequency. Hit the stalled lifts more often....up to every single day. I busted a bench plateau by benching every day. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | What to say and act when a coworker asks about your salary and/or questions your position?People don't normally bask each other's salaries. You will be fine. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:51 AM |
| 3 | New LTR study abroad and going to clubThis is why you at boundaries at the START of the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Is building muscle necessary to gain SMV?Not a requirement but it helps, and it not just for the purpose of getting women. It makes you a better man.. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Women are more instinct-driven than menIt's sad man, I have definitely been there. Anything that goes against social programming and you are looked at as a crazy person or extremist. The best you can do sadly is mostly look out for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 8 | Is it a redflag, when she had a sugar daddy and is antisocial?Plate worthy only.. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Cougar GameYou need to make sure they know from the beginning that you're only interested in sex. You should not be trying to game a woman that's 12 years older than you. She might be trying for a buzzer beater...you need to be up front about not wanting a relationship | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 03:41 PM |
| 10 | How ought I handle the aftermath of cutting off a couple specific people in my social circles?The problem here is you have too many circles.....keep your circle small and tight. In my opinion....the more friends a person has, the more fake and superficial those extended relationships are. So just also cut out the people that are associated with the people you cut off. BIRDS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER. How different are those others.. you think they wouldn't do the same type of thing to you that the ones you cut off did???? Move on with your life and meet new people. Frequent new locatio… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 02:03 PM |
| 10 | Women are more instinct-driven than menYup you are in the right track. The truth is pretty much the opposite of what society, and media pushes on NEARLY EVERY issue. Not just male and female dynamics. Politics, social issues, all of it. Now once that sinks in for you, is when your mind is really blown. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Only seem to do well with talkative girls, how do I fix this?Perhaps You only do well with talkative girls because talking is a sign of attraction. The same woman who makes a conversation like pulling teeth, will talk another guys ear off. If a woman is talking...she is trying. You want a woman who is also trying. The ones who aren't trying usually just aren't into you like that... Yes there are exceptions.....but as a general rule. This is the best way to look at it. A woman who wants you will find SOME WAY to help out with the process. She is not going … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 4 | Will being disagreeable lower my game/SMV?If you take be an asshole too literally....you are probably going too far. It's more about living on your own terms, not being intentionally mean to people. As women as used to getting their way since birth. Any man who doesn't follow the same script is going to be called an asshole.....but not in the same sense as someone who walked by and pushed her down in a puddle of mud.....get it? There's a fine line you walk and perhaps you have strayed a but too far on the wrong side. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:44 PM |
| 16 | Low testosterone?All in your head | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Looks don’t matter as much as guys here think. Trust me.Looks always come first. You don't define for a woman what she finds physically attractive either. Sometimes it's not quite so obvious why a woman is attracted to man because they all have a type. He is still going to have to pass whatever her minimum threshold is for attractiveness. It doesn't mean he has to be the most attractive man she has ever seen. That's when other factors come into play. You also can't discount that some men are beta bucks and are simply around for what they can offer a … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Looks don’t matter as much as guys here think. Trust me.My thoughts exactly....ahhahhaa. What is "super fun!" Look s will always be first. Always. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 19 | Have I over-estimated the power of 'game'?Physical attraction is always king. ALWAYS. Either you make her wet.....or you don't. It's a tough pill to swallow for many men, which is why GAME is so easy to sell. Men think it's a cheat code for GETTING women NO....game is how you deal with/ manage women that you have already attracted. Women can be attracted to your money, your fame, your statur in a group hierarchy etc... But primarily....attraction is simply physical. Do you rise above her threshold for someone she would want to fuck. Jus… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | 0% ChanceWeddings are some of the best places to get laid. Just go there looking good and waut for ioi while being social with everyone | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Old plateIf you absolutely MUST see her. She only gets invites over for sex ( come over for a drink) Don't send the wrong message that you intend to date her. It's likely she reached back out because now she thinks you might be willing to be step daddy. You're better off avoiding this one anyway. Single moms can be quite risky and quite the headache. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I break this never ending cycle?Your fucking up on step 2.....you don't "get to know her" you clearly state your intentions with the girl from the start and she accepts or denies. You're becoming her friend and then wondering why she sees you as a friend. Tell her she has sexy lips...nice eyes(something that clearly implies you are not going to be a friend).....and you two need to hang out sometime soon. Right off top. No beating around the bush with bullshit small talk. She accepts.....you make a date and try to get physical.… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Did I overreact?I don't know man.... Why are you so concerned about showing a plate the sun set? That's boyfriend behavior. I don't want to see a plate before the sun is down most times. Women are late .... It's just what they do. They will always be late. Plates, wives, girlfriends late late late. An hour is not that big of a deal and she gave you at least a little notice. She was probably late, trying to make herself look good for you. If you had a reservation for a restaurant, or tickets for something that s… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How to reconcile nofap with spinning platesKegel exercises daily. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Why I keep going back to being an AFC with my girlfriend?Is this your first relationship? It's hard to jump to being red pill without life experience. Theory is great and all but sometimes you just have to go through enough shit to learn the hard way. If a woman ever told me she needed space I would simply end the relationship and give her all the space Then go on with my life and replace her with others. For some real growth you probably need to exit this relationship and learn to spin plates. Reading about how to play basketball doesn't make you a g… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Good friend dating my old plateYou're welcome man. It's shity when things happen like this. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Good friend dating my old plateIt's crazy because there's an equally large chance that he knows or doesn't know. If he is a bit blue pill like you said it's very likely that he knows and went along with it anyway because he is beta. Either way if you tell him he's going to direct his anger at you not her. She will make up some story about how you manipulated her and were abusive etc.,. And how it didn't really count blah blah blah You will come to learn that friends come and go. Your best bet here is to say nothing and just l… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Good friend dating my old plateBut her never you you got involved with her? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Good friend dating my old plateHow did he meet her? He knew you used to see her? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 11:37 AM |
| 1 | This woman i used to date told me "LJBF"If she's not laying you she's playing you. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Ass Smacking?Just ask her out again and make a move on the date. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Where in the US has a good balance of IT jobs and non-wokenessIt's about as close as you are going to get these days. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Where in the US has a good balance of IT jobs and non-wokenessTrue Austin is bad. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | You guys think I can pull a hot missionary or is this a ‘no-go’?Go for it....but stop wasting so much time. They loose interest quickly....tell her to come to your house. Tell you are attracted to her....be direct with her. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Ive got around 2-3x a week i can dedicate to gym. I want to get fairly big/lean, what are my options?Full body workout 3 x a week is your best option. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Where in the US has a good balance of IT jobs and non-wokenessTexas and Florida. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?Better to do this now, then to wait until you actually had more time in....or even worse a marriage and family. You absolutely made the right choice. Liberals in general are quite irrational and logic does not apply to their emotional cult like beliefs. It would have been one disagreement after another. Go get that gun, and head to the range. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?It's just her way of trying to lock you into a long term relationship. She has given herself freely to me who excited her and now is settling with you.....someone who excited her far less, but is safe and controllable. It's a raw deal and you should not accept it. How old is she? Pushing 30 I bet. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | ConfusedI'm not arguing with you to disagreeing that what you're saying is true | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedI think she gave you her insta to get a follower. You slid in her dms, and she of course did not respond. Don't believe for a second she gave you her number and you passed up reaching out directly because she might text you too much.... Then you come here to make a post about when she didn't respond.... instead of using the phone number a very attractive girl gave you to reach out to her..... Ok........yup sounds legit. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedIs her quote. embodying what is wild and real and raw. •joyously steeping in what stirs my soul✨ 🏳️🌈 Her account is private so all I see is a headshot. She looks good but that make me not believe you You a guy with "lots of charisma". This girl gave her phone number and you opted not to use it because she might text too much? So you Dm'd on her Instagram? Maybe I'm looking at the wrong profile....but I'm not believing. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedOk let's get back to my question. What would you rate this woman 1-10. Because your story is not adding up. Women don't care about you charisma. They care about if they are attracted to you. So either you're lying that she also gave you her phone number or you're dealing with a very physically unattractive woman. Otherwise you would not be worried about her having your phone number. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedI'm Talking about attractiveness too.... You mean to tell me you have multiple 8's 9 to 10s blowing up phone with text messages and you don't like it? So you connect with social media which is arguably even more invasive. Your story is not adding up.... Based purely on physical attractiveness....what would you aren't this girl we are talking about? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedConfirmed. So that's what it is. Try going after high quality and stop chasing a little hanging fruit. I guess I wouldn't want fours and fives having my phone number either | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedNo actually I wouldn't. If you have women texting you non-stop off the jump then you are dealing with very low quality . | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Confused"hey I have a really busy week at work but would.libe to see you Thursday night...does that work for you?" "Ok I will hit you up that afternoon" done | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedWhy? Look man your meeting strangers on the internet....you either assume the rail or not. You are not going to ask her to get checked for STDs without sleeping with her.....but you're scared to give her your phone number? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedGets phone number.......but messages on Instagram. 🤦🏾♂️ | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Girls being brand newThe real question is....why are you bringing a plate around your friends.....that's a girlfriend not a plate. Sounds like a major shit test to me. Testing your strength within the group, and with her. She was just showing off a bit....that you don't lead her..... etc. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Gained 11 pounds after 3 weeks of lifting?You are eating too much and have gotten fat. You are not holding 11 pounds of water. Look a little closer at your diet. What are you drinking also? When you weigh yourself also.makes a difference. If you weigh in empty 1st thing in the moynand weigh later after eating there is likely to be 5 pound difference...so be sure you are being consistent with when you weigh yourself. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Is there any exemptions from the " she is never yours, it's only your turn" ?I think there are exemptions.....it just the odds of you finding that situation are very rare. Some common things must be present if you even have a hope of making that happen. You must be one of her first 2-3 max sexual partners. Preferably the first. You must find her young before she has experience much life or sexual activity. She needs to have a present father whom she loves and has a good relationship with that leads the family It helps greatly if she has strong religous faith. You are pro… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Starting my fitness transformation journey next week, any RP tips?Do t get overwhelmed with programs, or results. Just focus on building the habit of going to the gym regularly. The rest will take care of itself as your grow and learn. The most import aspect of fitness is consistency. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Is this chick trying to get pregnant? Or am I just overthinking?Ummmmm.....run. Far far away. Delete and block. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 04:21 PM |
| 12 | She wants to Film a pornoI would make them agree not to show your face ..... nothing in this world stays hidden anymore. Just be the faceless dick.. pov etc | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 10 | Why is the female standard mode "I don't find you attractive"?Maybe you aren't that attractive.....are you fit? Good style? Great grooming? And are you being clear with your intentions from the start of the interaction? Now more than ever, you need to be maximizing whatever god gave you. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 12 | Is being jacked ever counter productive?Brother are you absolutely sure that the reason she left is what you think..... I don't think it was out of insecurity. I think if she was not attracted to your overly steroided look. Their classic " it's not you it's me" can be used in many different forms to end relationships Most people in general are not attracted to extremes other than for short sexual flings. Most women look at the bodybuilder steroid guy is someone who's overcompensating and doing too much. There's lots of room between be… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | first date no kiss.. am I fucked?Try not to set up afternoon dates...it makes it infinitely more difficult to set the mood to escalate. Also dont cock block yourself by agreeing to date before she has to be somewhere else. This is pedestalizing her because you just accepting and Fred moment you can get to see her. Make a woman clear time in the evening to see you. The setup for the date, and the high fives makes it seem like she was sending you a message that she sees you as a potential friend. Proceed with trying to set things… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Gf’s girlfriend texts me and criticizes my sex skills?Ask her friend to come show you how it's done | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:48 AM |
| 1 | I love the challenge but I am wasting my time on this one ?At this point......I would ask her to come over for a drink and to watch a movie. Let her know it's just the two of you, and see what she says. If she is hesitant...and mentions her boyfriend, she sees you as a friend. Then let her know that your not looking to be friends and that if she wants something more then she can hit you up. No.might even add that you not looking to ruin her relationship but you attracted to her etc.. Something along those lines. She is likely going to say....I thought w… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I love the challenge but I am wasting my time on this one ?You don't know where you stand because you are approaching the whole situation the wrong way. You have spent time with this girl 3 times and have yet to make a move. You invite her over with friends and cockblock yourself on the third time. You should have made a move night one. A girl with a bf wouldn't spend 1 on 1 time??? Of course she would, it's called friend zone. When she said she had a boyfriend you should have made it clear you had no interest in a friend. All night in the corner with a… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Chance encounter 7 years laterShoot your shot man. Nothing ventures nothing gained. At least you won't have to keep Wondering "what if". | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Cheating my LTR; PostNut Clarity gets super realIn my opinion me deserve multiple women. We are conditioned into think it's so wrong....but most women will turn a blind eye as long as you are discreet. Your shame comes from your years of blue pill programing and you fear of her reaction and sadness if she finds out, not because you think it's the wrong thing to do. Hey so you man. I would advise you let the other know that you have a relationship up front and protect yourself, but if you want some strange from time to.time, go for it. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | LTR of six months always gets crazy during period - broke up with me yeatersayWe can fix your blue pill behavior in the midst of this..read the sidebar. Why would you want a woman that goes crazy once a month anyway. Tell her to forget the week of " thoughts" and tell her it's over. Deal with the pain....and then get in with your life. She wants out.... instead of begging for her to stay, send her packing. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Broken plate. Did I go too far?You answered your question in the last paragraph. Sit tight and maybe she will get over it and come back.... | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Plate overly jealous after parting waysWhat she thinks, feels, or has to say is no longer your issue. Many may not agree with this but shiting where you eat also encompasses your social circle. It's great to bring in extended social circle for plates.... But people you're going to see all the time afterwards.... Not always the best choice as you're now seeing. Maybe distance yourself a bit from that circle, and let things cool off. Ironically enough this will increase her attraction for you even more. The new girl you can spend time … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | She's 'not interested in another romantic'^ This is the correct take | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | She's 'not interested in another romantic'Ehhh I'm more in the camp of this NOT being a shit test, and actually a sign of low interest. She threw up 2 barriers...covid...and not wanting anything romantic. She is not really challenging you or getting you qualify yourself( a shit test). She is just flatly stating that she doesn't have interest as plain as it can be said. Which makes me think it's likely she actually flakes anyway..... Either way this sounds like a " I have zero interest in you, but don't mind if you buy me a few drinks wh… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Is this also common for you guys in EU/US?This | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Signs you aren’t attractiveIf you have to ask the question...... | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Giving YOUR NumberI have done this many times and it can be very effective.. especially for a woman who seems on the fence about things. Put the ball in her court and go on with your life. It shows confidence and abundance. If she reaches out then you know she is actually interested...instead of having to chase after her. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | how to respond to ltr denying headYou keep asking......instead of telling her what to do. That's the problem. Then you reward her with attention, kisses and cuddles for acting bitchy. She isn't doing it because she doesn't respect you. So yes dread her while away. Maintain been little contact. The when you get back look her in her eyes and tell her....do not ask. If she says no, withdraw attention....leave. you're in a relationship to have your needs met. If she can't meet those needs you don't need to be in a relationship with … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Important to look your best 24/7?It's not gay....and you do care. You look much better I'm sure and you are communicating to people that you care...and are there for a purpose. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Important to look your best 24/7?I always try and look my best. When you look good, you feel good, and you never know who you might meet. You will feel self conscious in situations where you unexpectedly want to talk to or approach someone, and you are not at your best. How you look is a communication to the world about how you view yourself. A person who is sloppy doesn't have a high view of himself and neither will anyone else. You represent your "Brand, and you never get a second chance to make a first impression. Even at th… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people giving you the silent treatment? And how do you not let if affect you?You learn to not give a fuck....to care primarily about yourself, and things that are actually important. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Celebrity world, how to maintain frame?Pursue something in your life that makes you feel more worthy. Porgess toward a worthwhile goal will boost your confidence. You are scared at these events because you feel like a fraud....like someone is going to discover you don't belong there..... Well you so belong there, but you have to convince yourself that you so. Pick a MAJOR goal and work towards it as you progress, you will get more confident. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | About to go back at my father house to help him fight alcoholBrother go live your life. You cannot fix your father, he can only a decide to fix himself. Any lasting change has to come internally. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | EX gf making out with me right after breakupLots emotions when a relationship ends.....you kissed her and she granted you that last parting gift of allowing it for a while. It means nothing...it was just the conclusion of the relationship. Lots of relationships end with a final kiss or sex for the last time etc ...sometimes it even lingers a few weeks later with people still having sex etc...... It's best if you just move on. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | When is it okay to reconnect with old friendsAbsolutely! You will meet more people, and better people for your life. Use the alone time to grow. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 12:54 AM |
| 3 | We’ve been dating for a month but she wants to know more?Refuse to play the question game. Let her wonder all she likes. Removing the mystery too fast kills the attraction. Force her to peel back the layers over time. You dont owe her explanations about anything. She has to earn more information about you as time goes on if you see fit to tell her. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 4 | When is it okay to reconnect with old friendsDon't let loneliness send you back into bad situations. This is the same as trying g to rekindle with an ex woman. The same issues will still be there. Better to move on with life, grow and look for more healthy relationships. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Confused about STFU and No more Mr.Nice guy, request for adviceGood luck brother. Report back on how if goes if you want. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Confused about STFU and No more Mr.Nice guy, request for adviceI actually find value in arranged marriage so I see nothing against it. Try not to schedule calls....this is a relationship, not a business. Things need to be more spontaneous...no o e wants a regualry scheduled time to speak to someone. Just let's things flow as they will. As for dread...you have to find ways to make her jealous. You goout with friends. You have a life and hobbies outside of the relationship. You flirt with other women in front of her to show her other desire you. You SHOW thou… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 10:28 PM |
| 5 | Confused about STFU and No more Mr.Nice guy, request for adviceIs this an arranged marriage? Why are there video calls? Do you see her in person? You stfu and start displaying higher value, and using some dread. Disrespectful behavior....you say something immediately. That's the difference. Lack of interest is not really Disrespect....its probably your neediness that has lead to her being uninterested. A man should never ask a woman to video chat....thats a feminine request. Let her ask for thise types of things. Withdraw all attention....soft next. Go live… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Question for the LTR guysYou Must have friends hobbies and a life outside of the relationship. You must dread and make her jealous. You must keep yourself fit attractive and ever improving. Problem is...she might not do the same in return...and just enjoy your side of things. You need woman to work on herself as well | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Throwing a hail mary to see what happens and if I can pull this off, advice/any input appreciatedThat's awesome man glad to hear it. Simple and direct will always benefit you in life. Good luck with her! | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | checking on former FWB without sounding needy?There you go! Good luck | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Throwing a hail mary to see what happens and if I can pull this off, advice/any input appreciatedI'm glad it worked out. What did you do? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Ignore her? My old oneitis who I share a social circle with is sending me pics/videos on snapchat, I assume to try get me orbiting again?.Yes its possible. Increase respect and honor with absence. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | checking on former FWB without sounding needy?Ok so there's some important details you added. Don't block or delete her number. Never ever reach out to her first....but she can reach out to you. When she does....simply invite her over. Anytime she contacts you....just invite her over. Either she will come over, or she will stop bothering you with nonsense about her life. Don't pay attention to what she said before in the heat of the moment. Pursue sex with her when she reaches out....no small talk or text buddies. She must give you a reason… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Is this plausible deniability or low interest?Low interest..... She liked you.....so you got her insta and started chatting her up. Mistake one She should have come to you. Now you have been pursuing her when it should have been the other way around. Now she thinks she can put conditions on you because you have been chasing...like all the other simps You displayed some beta behavior and now that entitlement is coming out because you have shown her that you will pursue her regardless. She wanted a guy worth chasing after. A prize..and alpha.… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | LTR giving me silent treatment, trying new ways to deal with it. Advice?Soft next.....this is why you need a life outside of your ltr. She is punishing you now because you don't. There is zero dread in your relationship. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:28 PM |
| 6 | Is this girl a virgin?She is fat... | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | checking on former FWB without sounding needy?Delete this girls number and block her. She wants you as an orbiter to boost her self esteem. Fuck that. Don't not accept friendship with women that you really want to fuck. EVER | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Would she put me in the friendzone?Women don't friendzone men.......men accept being women's friends. Any woman that suggests you two are better as friends, you walk away from them. If she wants another guy....she is dead to you..... goodbye. Then move on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 0 | checking on former FWB without sounding needy?No....just no | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | No hookups textHow old is this woman? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Got Completely Ignored while Cold Approaching todayDon't get discouraged. Everyone has a bad day. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Tinder date wouldn't fuck but wanted to eat her out, said no and she left. Did I mess up?Damn thid was like the seahawks on the one yard line. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I break it to one of my best friends that he’s in a toxic relationship?No let him learm the hard way..he will resent you for telling him | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | “I can’t take you seriously”Goofy /funny guys are good for a laugh but women dont look at them sexually. How many comedians are sex symbols?? Or have even been throughout history? Strong silent type is preferred....with dry witty humor. Also the funny guy just tends to talk too damn much which is a very feminine trait, and an attention seeking/ needy behavior.... Also not attractive. They can't take you serious because you don't know when it's time to stop joking. It's fine to have some humor but it's not always appropriat… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Third date no sexI would be totally fine with a girl who just gave me blow jobs. As long as I'm getting off I'm good. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Frauding to my girlfriend of 1 yearYou care too much about what she thinks. Who cares..... | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | is pulling back the answer to all questions?Pull back is king yes. Men chase when things aren't going well which is usually the exact opposite of what you should do. Pulling back is a reminder to yourself and to her that you WILL NOT chase after her, and that you can and will REPLACE her if need be. It also teaches you to be less needy,.and gives you space to focus on other things. As you already should be. Heck you should even pull back sometimes when things are going well. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | LTR often questions whether I find her attractive.So very true..it's annoying as hell. I had to walk away from a few girls because of this..then they constantly want to talk about their "views". No thanks. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | LTR often questions whether I find her attractive.She sounds insecure. It's not your responsibility to make up for her insecurities. Maybe she needs to work on herself if she doesn't feel attractive. Is she fit? The offense of the comedy special also tells me a lot..sounds like she is a "modern woman" | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Disrespect from GFHard next. Once respect is lost....it's lost. I would never let any woman speak to me like that. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with the upcoming "summer of love"?Be attractive. Be in shape. Just like any other summer. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 12:21 AM |
| 7 | Girl asks me what I’m up to this weekendNo bringing friends along until after you have slept with her. The friend is a convenient buffer to avoid being alone with you. A trick often pulled by low interest women. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Bros before hoes...Forget the bros and the ho's. Your bros will leave for ho's anyway. DO YOU. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 12:17 AM |
| 2 | How do I introduce my younger brother to TRPThis is the way. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | I can be a boring date - how to change that?Part of that responsibility falls in her. You aren't there for her entertainment. She needs to also be trying to display to you that she is someone worth spending time with. A woman who doesn't talk and/ ask questions.of her own might have low interest. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of 3,5 years broke up with me. Having problems to get busy and not get caught up in my head trying to figure out how I fucked upHere is you biggest lesson to take away from this situation. Never listen to what women say....watch what they do. All that bullshit about ...she needed more love and attention.....is the classic female lie for " I'm not interested in you anymore". You should have ended this relationship a long time ago. Living together was the posion drip and once it took hold, nothing was going to fix it. Then you moved mere minutes apart......not muxh of a solution. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Forever remembered from pastSo how are people bringing it up to you? | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 03:45 PM |
| 7 | Forever remembered from pastExit this social circle permanently. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 03:37 PM |
| 2 | I've (25M) Been Lying to girlfriend (25F) of 1 yearJust tell her you got layed off recently.. this week. Problem solved. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Throwing a hail mary to see what happens and if I can pull this off, advice/any input appreciatedSo now your going to wait a whole week until you two are going your separate ways ......yup sounds like a brilliant plan to me...🤦🏾♂️ | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Throwing a hail mary to see what happens and if I can pull this off, advice/any input appreciatedThen why the hell do you feel you need a game. Just stop being a bitch...tell her she is cute and you two need to spend some time together before it's too late. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Throwing a hail mary to see what happens and if I can pull this off, advice/any input appreciatedI think she sees you as a friend. If you want to give it a try be direct. You don't have time to waste in dumb games..just be direct. Tell her you want to sleep with her. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 01:28 PM |
| 3 | How to get a girl to like you for more than sexWow....just wow | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Throwing a hail mary to see what happens and if I can pull this off, advice/any input appreciatedNo it won't work.....it worked for the other guy because he did it Immediately, and because that girl was actually attracted to him....the Snapchat block didn't start her attraction for him, it only increased it. You have been friends with girl 2 all this time, and now you want to pull a "I don't want a friend' trick. You are already her friend (her girlfriend really) so it's too late. You should have spent your time chatting up other women and displaying high value in front of her. Make your in… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | advice needed, gf doesn’t want an open relationshipWho says she has to agree to to open relationship? If you want to see others.....see others... How often do you even see this girl? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I withhold sex from my LTR?You need to find a way to create space between you. Get back to your old self. Spend time away from her doing cool shit. Fill her with dread the same way using is doing to you right now.. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 12:22 PM |
| 22 | Instagram useful for status?I think that how good your Instagram is ..mmis more important than how many followers you have. If you have great photos doing cool shit and displaying a good life you're going to get some bites. Women understand that men aren't out there surfing for followers the way that they do. Anyway if you focus on good content the followers should take care of themselves | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 12:17 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of the whole “If they don’t see your worth, they don’t deserve you” thought?Sure you can pm me. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of the whole “If they don’t see your worth, they don’t deserve you” thought?I think a lot of men have lost drive because it's becoming increasingly difficult to succeed in this country and very mediocre women now have extremely high standards. Sorry for my fat fingers and typos. I have many typing on This shitty touch screen and I tend to be long-winded. Yes I meant that most low status men know that their status is not that high and they don't chase after high status women. There used to be a time where average guys could get an average woman commensurate with his stat… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of the whole “If they don’t see your worth, they don’t deserve you” thought?I think you're connecting something to that philosophy that is really not representative of it's intent. That advice is 100% sound....and you actually should agree with it. It can still be "her loss" even if you haven't yet tapped into every drop your full potential. Maybe you dont have enough belif in your intrinsic value as a man and as a person to understand that. You stray into a woman's line of thinking if you're assuming that a man who has not maximized all of his potential is somehow unwo… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of the whole “If they don’t see your worth, they don’t deserve you” thought?I think you have made a false equivalency.......this assertion is a reach at best. You are where you are in life.....and it takes time for a man to improve himself. Where as women just have to be born. Not chasing after a woman who doesn't see anything in you, does not mean that you should not try and improve yourself. I don't think anyone is preaching that, and I'm not sure how you came to that conclusion. The red pill preaches to continually work on yourself. The BLUE PILL teaches people to ju… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What if you have no external value, but your internal value is sky high?I saw a special once about a homeless man in nyc who was getting chicks...... So there is your answerm you might not get every one you want though. But no one does. Work on the area where you are weak to improve you ability to attract more and keep them around longer. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Friend of ex at workAct professional. Say hi and keep it moving. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm new in TRP and I got a question.Behavior is better than words.....you don't tell them these things. You behave In a manner that reflects these things. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Gave an ultimatum to a girl i knew wasn't interested.. She declined.. I apologized and told her i didn't mean it because i am so damn lonelyDo some push ups..... And other calisthenics. Don't wait for your equipment to arrive. Go run too. Start today. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Gave an ultimatum to a girl i knew wasn't interested.. She declined.. I apologized and told her i didn't mean it because i am so damn lonelyStep one.....get off the dating apps. It's clearly not working. Try to connect with someone in person. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Oneitus for someone else while in a LTRLeave your tlr because your not that attracted to her, and it's going to difficult to plate an ltr but you can try. Do not promote the plate.....she has to ask to be promoted. That's how you set the stage for the relationship to be in your frame. Make sure the plate has been well vetted before hand. Sexual attraction alone does not make her worth an LTR. You need more plates to avoid this oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Oneitus for someone else while in a LTRYup we are supposed to be amoral here. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls leave when you imply that you are pleased by her?Because they start to think that you aren't the best they can do. If you are totally please by their medicare at best contribution....then they might be able to please an even greater man if they actually try. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "Are you cute?"Reply. .... Are YOU? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Gaining power backLeave her. You sound pretty young. Move on to the next....spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 11:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you stimulate a woman’s imaginings?Look good. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 11:03 AM |
| 2 | “Be yourself”You get more leeway when you are physically attractive, that's why your friend is winning. He sounds confident.....while you sound silly...goofy.. How old are you? Often times when you are young, the guy who is the most bold gets the women because everyone else is a scared bitch. That's why women go for older men from a young age. Freshman...senior etc. Work on making yourself more attractive. "Be yourself" is bullshit advice. Change yourself into a person you can be proud of, that women want to… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are there so many rude entitled bitches everywhere?I had to curse a woman out who practically jump out in the street to make me stop so she could cross with her mom and baby by a park one day. I sit stop but then she flailed her arms at my like I do something wrong even though I had stopped, and did not have to stop. I'm usually very calm and laid back but I too have been have experiencing this abundance of entitled, spoiled, ignorant, rude bitches And had to let her have it. They do it because they are completely protected by society and don't … | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Heartise on love. Does anyone get the message here?Dye your hair and get breast implants? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?https://youtu.be/HaSS0u0XppA Check this out | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?Well the football part is a huge start. The rest can be improved. Most guys are not drowning in it in highschool anyway. Be patient and it's definitely going to happen for you. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?Yup I think you're on the right track with that plan. As for the clothes, it not essential that your Clothes be expensive....but they should fit well and have decent style. Classic is better than trends, and shoes are EVERYTHING. Again they don't have to be expensive. Remember though.....women notice everything. This helps you to be a more attractive guy. Same with the haircut. It should be stylish...at least somewhat trendy. And cut at minimum every 2 weeks. Sloppy is not attractive. Learn to d… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Confused about this girlYou should wait until she asks to see you. What you should have said is....."let me know when you feel better and we will hang out" Anytime a woman cancels on me I like to put the ball firmly in her Court.... Especially if she is not offered an alternative day to reschedule. You tell her to simply let you know when she's feeling better and she is free.... Then you cut all contact with her. Even if that lasts for eternity. If she is interested in you.... she will reach back out to you. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 15 | "Don't you have a girlfriend?" shit testJust let her know that you have a girlfriend. Some women will go along with it, while others will not. It will save you some drama, and anger later if you let her know off top. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 8 | tips on how to text a girl over snapchat?Have you read the sidebar? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?I don't think it's necessary to bulk to build some.muscle and look better. Try your best to keep that body fat in check, you look much better at low body fat. And for a QB it's better to be quick than huge..just lift and put on muscle without a bulk....or you can do a lean bulk. Where you up you calorie Intake by a small amount. Looks of good.lean bulk info on YouTube. For aesthetics though.....always be lean. A 6 foot guy looks a million times better at 180-185 than he does at 200-210. Most of … | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?Absolutely they do it all the time....gain snap followers. Insta followers....and they show just enough attention to get you hooked. But if they dont do any of the things I mentioned above. They aren't really interested. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?They might be showing enough interest to keep you as an orbiter. If they're not showing you some type of sexual attraction then keep it moving and don't give them the time of day. If there is an actual attraction between the two of you then you make that known and you ask them to hang out. Never pretend to be on some friend type stuff..... That's what the betas and the orbiters do. It should never be a surprise to her that you are suddenly asking her out. Make sure there is a clear sexual attrac… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?They might hang out with the orbiter but you don't want that...... You have to stop going halfway with what your intentions are for these girls. If you're sexually attracted to them and you're trying to holler make that known. Asking him to hang out is doing the same thing that the orbiters do....be up front with them. Don't spray and pray as the say.....your spamming brother. Look for the ones that show interest in you. Chat up all the girls but don't pursue them.... Let the other girls see you… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test Or Just Using White Knight?Bro your the HS quarterback.....ignore these hoes and let them chase you. That's how this works in HS. Get that damn acne in check too for real. Try exfoliating your skin everyday. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 9 | Disrespect from GFs friendsYour girlfriend is the real problem here. She has zero respect for you....so in turn neither do her friends. What exactly did you do? What was she doing that made you loose trust? Perhaps you were justified..... You need to leave this relationship. When respect his lost, you have nothing. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl randomly gives you a suggestiom to improve your looks?Ok so when trying to attract higher smv women..it's important to leave no stone unturned. Your glasses are the first thing women see when they meet you.....so how they look has a huge impact on how the world sees you in general. If you have to wear glasses.....they better look DAMN good. That's something worth investing in. Maybe even just go with contacts if that's something that's possible for you. Women notice EVERYTHING. Don't do the hard word in everything else and neglect the (seemingly li… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | She said she was disappointed after I busted on her face, what now?I just do a few sets of 50 every day. Works beautifully | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | She said she was disappointed after I busted on her face, what now?I would say with the week. If you are doing them correctly. You will notice a difference. Either every day, or every other day. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | She said she was disappointed after I busted on her face, what now?Do your kegel exercises to strengthen you pelic floor muscles. This will help immensely with cumming too soon, and erection quality. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl randomly gives you a suggestiom to improve your looks?Now.....we must see what those glasses look like op. Honestly....you probably just need better glasses. Sounds like some sound advice. Ask her for some suggestions. Women can actually be an asset in certain circumstances. Women know what other women like. Like others have said above they probably said ," he is good looking but just needs to chang those glasses and he will do better. How have your results been with women lately? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Did I pass the shit test or come off as petty?Why is she even over when the guys are there? That's part of the problem. She is bitchy because you spend too much time with her. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | She said she was disappointed after I busted on her face, what now?Don't fuck her like a porno. Find one position and be steady with your movement and rythym. Best is on her back with her legs on your shoulders. Or her in top. This works better for girls who don't cum easily. One position, one rythym. I is the same reason she doesn't make you cum.P she is changing the rythym up way too much. Think about if you masturbate. You don't jerk for 30 seconds then stop and play with your balls for a minute. Then move to the bed. Then your chair....hang upside down.....… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What was the term for 27-33 yo female looking to lock-down a mate??Buzzer beaters! Hahaha | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Can being too assertive make people despise youYou came across too aggressive. You already had a plan before even discussing it with him. That made him immediately defensive. You did not spend much time building rapport and deciding on a course of action as a team. You basically said....I'm the leader. I made a plan....you can give me feedback if you want. Not a good way to start. He is not your subordinate. You two are on equal footing in this equation. You assumed to much and we know what happens when you assume right ..... Your approach w… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | She hit me and I should not have done this in returnI think the Snapchat part was when you went a bit overboard. ...you should have snapped her and told her she owes you a blowjob for misbehaving. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend playings little petty games when we’ve been fucking for a month straight.Why is she your girlfriend.....that's the problem. Your getting out of a marriage and have a girlfriend? You might be a bit to needy. You see her too much. You don't dread her....and sounds like you made her your girlfriend fast. She has low investment into this situation and doesn't feel the need to work very hard. Soft next and dread is what you need like some others have said. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do married men intensify bachelor men to marry?Misery loves company | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Does she want sex?Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Girls feel lack of chemistry?You are pursuing women who have low interest and attraction to you in the first place. They are agreeing to go on dates out of Borden...but giving you a chance to "wow" them. Stop doing this. How are you meeting these women? Apps?What types of dates are you going on? Chemistry is just a nice way of saying that there is no sexual attraction towards you. Nether your vibe, conversation skills, swag....non of it is working.(for that particular woman) doesn't necessarily mean there is something wrong… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Does she want sex?Yeah try and be busy if she is hitting you up everyday. "Hey just getting some work done, looking forward to Thursday (whatever day of date is) I will hit you up that afternoon". Q | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Does she want sex?The first flake is troublesome.....stop all the communication with her. Go quiet until (if) you two meet. Does she want sex? Who knows...go find out. But stop acting like a potential boyfriend with the constant communication. She will put you in the boyfriend box...which Meas no sex until you Jump through some hoops. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Why is the date game much easier for men in theirs 30s than 20s ?Your game is better. You care less and don't chase uninterested women as much. Your more of an actual man, and not a boy. More maturity. Often times better looks as you kind of.....figure it all out. Your style improves. Your confidence and security in yourself improves. You have more to talk about. You know more about the world. Your not surrounded by a bunch of bros 24/7. You have money to go do something fun with or without a woman. I could go on. Your just more of a real man. Granted.......t… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 5 | So I’ve technically been cheating on my new girlfriend, how do i let the other girls go?The real question is why are you in a relationship with a girl you have never spent time with .......that's some super simping right there. You could have easily kept things casual and still kept this girl. So some girl you never see has control of your dick but has never seen it.....now does that make sense? What to do about the others... I would keep it going with them....and demote your ltr to a plate. She should have had to earn that status over time and you handed it to her.... for what? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Wife mood swingHe should mirror her actions..... | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Did women change or man became betaBoth | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | girls saying they're into "toxic boys with issues". wtf does that even mean?Women want men who don't care about them. Someone to chase after. That gives them the tingles. You don't have to have enjoy tribal problems. Just be focused on yourself. An "asshole" is usually just a guy who is Dr figuring on his own, needs, wants, Desires and goals. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Am I about to regret some shit?Yup and that's the problem with these women....they have seen it all before. Heck she was married and didn't stay impressed for long. There is nothing you could do that is so special that she couldn't walk away from. So even if you married her, it would still just be your turn with her until she left or cheated. God forbid you two have a kid and things fall apart. If you're going to take that kind of risk with anyone. Make sure they have less red flags to start off with..... In modern times it's… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Am I about to regret some shit?Yeah that's tough......but you sleep much easier at night with that type of girl, and they pair bond and stay with you. Can't turn these ho's into housewives no matter how much we inadvertently start caring about them. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | See LTR of 1 year differently after she got tipsy and talked about her past. Myriad of red flags that I never would have guessed.Pretty massive red flags. She pretty much described her ride on the carousel to you.... I would not be able to get over it personally. Some don't mind this..... But I definitely could not accept this. So it's up to you to decide whether or not you move forward with her. It sounds like something you're going to have difficulty accepting. As a man in his early 30's you should be dealing with women in their early 20's anyway. A woman in her late 20s has likely spent a decade on the carousel and is … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Approaching girls at the gymJust say high and strike up a quick convo. Keep it short. Tell her you couldnt help but to come over and say high because you don't like to let opportunities pass by. It will either be a yes or no. They don't mind being approached....they know how this game works. Looking for idicators of interest and actually being in good shape (having decent gym attire) will help immensely. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Controlling or Emotionally detached?Never listen to way they SAY. Pay attention to what people DO . The fact is....she ignored you. Which means she is not interested. The controlling shit was just a way to keep you in orbit. You have seen this girl four or five times....and she doesn't even respond. Bro come on. NEXT her | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Am I about to regret some shit?Wow she cheated!? Haha man I understand....and especially with these types of women....the sex is always AMAZING. The keep themselves looking good too. But in the inside....you see there is something wrong. We convince ourselves that it will be different with us, or that we can fix them. We just can't. I'm glad you are seeing the light brother. It's going to hurt letting her walk....but that's ok. That's just part of being a man. Doing things that are painful because it's the right decision in t… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Am I about to regret some shit?Damn....she has been married too. Run brother run! Plates drop...it hurts for sure. Be glad you enjoyed your turn without having to go to family court. The woman cannot pair bond to you. I bet her first husband thought she was bonded to him ...and we see what happened. Let me guess. She says....he was a bad guy. Was abusive etc etc blah blah blah. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Am I about to regret some shit?Sometimes you just can't help it. They are attractive. The sex is good. You give yourself reasons to ignore the red flags. It happens to the best of us. But no matter what man it seems like you have a lot going for you. You're 30 years old and you have a house. The world is your oyster. It will hurt for a little while and then you will get over it. Future you will thank present you for not doing it. I mean were you planning on marrying this girl? Otherwise why would this even be a thought in you… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I about to regret some shit?Honestly looking back on the situation..... The girl had a lot of red flags that I was trying to deny and lie to myself about. I look back on it as one of the best decisions I have made in my life to not go. Just like with your situation..... If a woman sees you as the guy she wants to be with.... She's not going to walk away from you. She would stay Once a woman reaches 30..... She has had so many men in and out of her life. It's no longer a big deal when one of them leaves. That's why if you w… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Am I about to regret some shit?Bitter sweet indeed. I have had a similar situation with a girl that moved across the country. She asked me to move with her but then started acting distant and cold once she made the move. I was going to follow shortly after but then decided it would not be a good idea because of how her behavior quickly changed. Now it's been years since we've even spoken to each other. Sometimes it's better just to let something drop..... A move like this would only prolong the pain of it coming to an end....… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Am I about to regret some shit?I would not do this. She will loose massive respect for you upending your whole life and selling your damn house for her pussy. You will move and the situation will end shortly after you get there. Women often lead you to do things that will turn them off completely. If your so great then she should be willing to stay in the city you live in, not run back home to her friends and family. Also if your close to 30....why would you want a 30 year old woman? Find someone younger who hasn't been "gobb… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | My ex GF's best friendSHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU.... My god man.....you are obsessed with this girl. You're missing all of the enormous signs that she only sees you as a friend. She has become your oneitis and Im sure she has been so even when you were dating her friend. You have an extreme mindset of scarcity....getting this girl a job where you work. I have heard of shitting where you eat....but this is shitting somewhere else..bagging up that shit......and brining it home with you. What happens when a few months in, sh… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 2 | My ex GF's best friendThank you! I have been saying this on a weekly basis on this sub. No only are they not friends.....he sounds borderline obsessed with this girl. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 11:35 AM |
| 9 | What RP truth changed your entire life for the better?Powerful indeed. A man should choose her respect over her love at all times. Never try and please them....please yourself and she must follow. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:05 PM |
| 10 | Seeing GF currently once/twice a week; advice needed1-2 times is ideal. Less is more. Even when you have more times you should.keep things this way. Space is the most important thing to maintain a healthy relationship. Give a woman what she needs.....not what she THINKS she wants. Keep the space focus on your goals and purpose, and she will continue to chase after you. You want a woman chasing for more...that's the goal. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Why could I only spin one HB8 girl after 1.5 years of repill?You haven't found any others that were strongly attracted to you. You game isn't nearly as good as you think. This all mostly comes down to attraction. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 34 | What RP truth changed your entire life for the better?Women can't love you the way you want or expect for them to love you. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl seems more Interested in the idea of me instead of actually me. How do I handle this?Good plan! Good luck my friend. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl seems more Interested in the idea of me instead of actually me. How do I handle this?Worry about all that if it happens.....I'm betting it won't. If you made a date then try and go. Keep it casual and light....don't push for anything unless she does. Then just let it fade.. Have the attitude that either she starts to chase you or it's over. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How to smash her without asking her out?You're chasing after women that aren't attracted to you. None of the stuff has to be done perfectly...... People think they missed a step usually when they lose a girl that had no interest in them in the first place. A girl who says she's not looking for anything serious...... It's just not looking for anything with YOU. Look for girls at display very high interest in you.... | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | HELPThere you go.... And if when you end it she doesn't even seem to care that much..... You clearly have your answer then. A woman worth keeping is not going to make you go through stuff like this. Trying to figure out how she feels or what the problem is. A woman is supposed to be a benefit to your life not a source of stress. That's awesome that you're going to start a business and that's a great time to remove woman from your life all together for a little bit. You focus on leveling and the wome… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Hit on couple girls, but they had boyfriends. When they see me now they stare/glance very often. Why?You wouldn't be noticing them looking at you if you weren't also looking at them. They're probably just checking to see if you are still watching them for the validation of it.... Maybe even to see if they can make you approach them again and turn you down again for their self-confidence. Stop looking at both of them they both disappeared into thin Air. Find a new coffee shop to go to before the manager comes over and says you're making the girl feel uncomfortable...... | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | HELPYou should break up with her because she doesn't respect you. A woman who will do a pullback on you over some dumb s*** is running the relationship. Kick her to the curb and find a new one. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl seems more Interested in the idea of me instead of actually me. How do I handle this?Honestly......she is not interested in you. You kept to yourself and didn't chase after her which intrigued her. Now you have started chasing and the rose is off the bloom. Why haven't you asked her to meet in person ...you know a date.....instead of mundane texting about dumb shit? The best thing you can do is slowly fade away from this girl as if you never exchanged numbers. A girl who doesn't talk and ask questions is not interested. Your still hung up on her asking for your number as if a wo… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Weird friend zone situationYour welcome brother! Best of luck to you. Happy bday! | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Weird friend zone situationI would say not to date her because she doesn't see you as good enough as you are right now. You should not have to prove yourself to her, and wait for her to spend time dating and sleeping with other men to get a chance with her. If she doesn't want you now, then she doesn't have a physical attraction to you. She would possibly let you be a provider for her down the line. Why would you want to be someone's back up plan, and provider?? After she has rode the CC and banged chads? Then you just ge… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a therapistYou just have to keep trying until your social interaction improves. You realize what you are doing wrong. Just keep working at it. Improvement doesn't come overnight. Focus on improving your attractiveness. Gym, clothes, grooming. Also stop pursuing women that have low interest in you. You don't get second dates because you are chasing women who don't really like you. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you move on from the injustice when an old friend steals from you and there's nothing you can do?Let life handle it for you. Focus on living a good life. That's the best revenge. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:38 AM |
| 2 | How do I reply?Stop talking social.media from women. Save yourself some wasted time. If she won't give up her direct phone number, she is just inviting you to orbit her. This girl has zero interest in you... | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | How would you open a girl who is acting too "normal"I would realize that I girl I see everyday, but shows no signs of interest does not like me like that. I would try to remove her from that imaginary pedestal I have her on, and look for other options | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | I found the not existing unicornKeep her around around and fuck others on the side until you're ready to settle with her. IF you insist on being married...she might be a good choice. I do not personally recommend marriage but I understand that some people want marriage. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:29 AM |
| 3 | 26 looking to go back to school, I screwed up early on and need to start again. Any advice?Only go back if you want to pursue a high paying major. Most people will not even know your age. I went back to college late as well. You can slay some nice coeds while you are there. Just keep your head down, and do your work. Get out as fast as possible. I repeat do not do this unless you are going to an in demand high paying field. You can also take online, and night courses. The least if your worries should be your age. Honestly...no one cares. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Leaving my company, and my soon to be ex-boss is depriving my LTR of smartworking benefits out of spite. Should I drop all activities and leave right now?The person fucking up here is you and only you. First you decided to shit where you eat, and now you are sticking your nose in her business. About to burn a bridge because your little princess might have to take vacation days to go to her beach house. Oh my god! She is being oppressed. You sound beta as hell with this shit. Get her off the damn pedestal. What happens with her should not be your concern. Focus on your next move. Don't get yourself blackballed over some oneitis you have with this … | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Weird friend zone situationIf she sees you as talented....you might be her backup plan. She isn't attracted enough to date you now ...but if you become successful with your music.....she will want you because you're successful. So she is helping......that's why she keeps her social life private because she might want to date you down the line IF you become someone. Use her to get what you can out of her. Never ever date her. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 11:12 AM |
| 5 | Can someone explain this 6’0 vs 5’11 meme and fixation on 6 feet? Is this somehow the new cut off height?Your mistake is that you're expecting women to be logical. Don't ever do that | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | ex contacts me after being broken up for almost 4 monthsBravo to you for how you handled this and your growth. Ghost her like Patrick Swayze. She wants you back so you can be her good little beta chump again except this time without the sex. You can talk to her about all her problems and give her advice. Help her keep her life in order etc..... She misses all the things she used to do for her... And the attention and validation you used to give her. She needs it even more now that she likely just got out of another situation. She does not miss you. G… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 11:25 AM |
| 0 | Plate jokes about being pregnant, I dump her immediately - good decision?Seems a bit extreme.....just a joke. Now if she let it stretch out for extended period of time and had you believing she was going to see doctors etc.... Okay that's a different story. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Autistic text questionYou care too much | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | She keeps asking me if I fell in love with herYou just keep doing what your doing. You want her chasing your validation. Once she has it.......it doesn't mean anything anymore. The analogy I use is beating a video game. Once you beat it your interest goes down and you start to think about playing a different game. When you tell her you love her.... she beats the game. Then she is secure that she can possibly entertain other offers because she knows she has you already. To keep her playing the game.... Don't let her beat the game. Stick to w… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | When is the right time to textIf the woman is interested, it doesn't really matter. That's what the guys here seem to never get. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 01:39 PM |
| 10 | i had to call the sheriff on suicidal girlTwo words..... restraining order. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to girl trips and girls night out?Things you address before the relationship is agreed to.... | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | AdviceAgree and amplify! | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Need help with this girl from my gym.Tell her you will get a hotel room....ask her to meet you there. Just be straight forward. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Plate broke because of random friend of hers thinking Im toxic. Never met that friend. Future way of dealing with toxic friends of hers (that I've never met)?A woman that holds you in high esteem wouldn't let a fire breathing dragon keep her away from you. It wasn't because of her friend. She just isn't that into you. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Can blocking ex affect mutual circle?The mutual friends will be leaving you very soon....they will stay with her. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Is there ever too much alpha?Slapping a woman in 2020 during sex.... I can just see you on the stand now telling the Jury about how she asked for it to be rough. Not a risk I would ever take.... Even if she asked for it. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Should I message again on dating apps?Accept that you can't be perfect with what you say. Except that most women have borne lives and are merely on these dating apps to get attention and validation. They have no intention of going out on a date with anyone they meet on there even if they match and message with you for a bit. Sometimes it has nothing to do with what you are doing wrong. Only thing I see you here that's wrong is that you continue to pursue women on the internet. Get out into the real world | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Messaging girls you haven't fucked yet at night, low value?If it's a Friday or a Saturday..... absolutely low value. If they aren't with you. There is no reason to be trying to communicate with them those days. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Got oneitis for a maneater, broke frame by going ape shit when I got disrespected. Then begged.Learning experience. You need to go through this. Trp is much more effective when its not merely theory. You will be better next time. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | What to watch by Patrice o'nealYup I agree.... But you can still get the gist of what he is saying on there. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Playing into women's need for securityI think you answered your own question here. Yes you have to mix in the softer stuff just a bit. To keep them engaged.. they have to feel like there's potential for something more eventually.... You never promise or promote this idea... But you never outright deny it with your words or your actions. It's the mystery and the chase that keeps their emotions and their hamster spinning. If you tell them from the start that there's no game to even be played then they are not going to play the game. Y… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What to watch by Patrice o'nealThere are great segments on youtube that are already chopped up to get the red pill content, without having to listen to a full show etc. try a search there, and that should help. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Being "softer"Treat him like a king and you will be his queen. Try watching some old movies from when men were men, and women were women. He leads..you follow. You trust his decision making. You let him live his life without trying to shape him in any way. Your interactions with him are merely focused around trying to find ways to please him and being someone a man would enjoy spending time with. Look up Rhadha. Submissive wife happy life on youtube. She has some great tips for this. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/21 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone noticed that skinny and flatter girls are way more annoying than thicker girlsThey are all annoying | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 01:18 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend begging for validationAhh femenist......bingo. dad sounds like a beta. Your girl was the little spoiled princess who is used to constant attention and validation. I think you handled things okay. Honestly when she started with that stuff I would just ignore it..... And if she persisted I would send her home.. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend begging for validationDoes this girl have a present father in her life? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you maintain muscle mass with cardio and a caloric deficit?Cardio does not make you loose muscle. Look at nfl players. Cardio along with extreme calorie cutting diets.make you loose muscle. The key is to slowly drop calories and not try to loose weight too fast. Any more than a pound or two a week is going to be too much. Try and keep your protein intake relatively high and cut more calories from carbs that you do protein. Carbs are still essential for energy though so don't cut them out completely. Find a happy balance. Track what your eating at first … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 08:36 PM |
| 3 | How long should convos last when approaching girls?It all depends on the situation. One of you might have somewhere to be.....or you might see her walking in a park on a Saturday afternoon with the day free. Maybe it's in your lunch break at work and you have to move fast..a few words and exchange info.... It also depends on how well the interaction goes and if she is showing you that she wants it to continue. It could last anywhere from 30 seconds to several hours, and her leaving your place later that evening with cum stains on her dress...the… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 07:22 PM |
| 16 | My girlfriend was banging her landlord in college and he still lives in our town.So funny how quickly women label men a creep....but she was sleeping with him. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 07:16 PM |
| 23 | Any slick tricks to figure out if a girl is fat?A woman with a nice body will always include it in pictures. No body picture....no nice body. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps asking for money, I won't budge. What do?Next her.... you're continuing to build her confidence by seeing her without her putting out. You're basically allowing her to torture you and tease you | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who know who you were before discovering TRP?I don't.... | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Gf says I’m the only one who’s nice to youDon't expect them to make sense.....is her attraction still high for you? That's all you need to know. Logic is not their strong suit. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why does she say contrasting statements?Tell her " you could be next up for a short term relationship....." She is interested....make a damn move already. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 25 | Gold digger sticking around even though I don’t give her anything.In life you will find that doing the opposite of what another guy would do, or refusing what a woman wants you to do...is what will keep her around. Most women are looking for a man who will tell them no, that they can chase behind. A challenge. Tell a woman to leave.....she wants to stay. Too eager to see her ... suddenly she is busy. She is used to the stamps caving in and likes not having someone who is a push over. Like the guy above said.....next you should ask HER for money. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 9 | When you tell your LTR to keep you inform on something and she doesn’t (probably on purpose), what do you do? Do you address it?The problem here is that you are asking her to check in with you in the first place. If she is going to go do something without you, that is your time apart.....let it just be your time apart. No texts and calls to check in and update every few hours. You aren't each other parents. That type of behavior can be very needy, controlling and insecure. quite a turn off....even if you feel your doing it for the right reasons. Then when it doesn't happen the first time.....your upset at a missed expect… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Need helpTreat a plate like a plate. Why would you be face timing a plate? Nothing you can really do now. She will get over it or she won't. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Mother in law is being a selfish cunt and my LTR can’t see it… how do you deal with this?You be that man and tell your wife that you are going back on the train with, or without her. It sucks when women let their mom run their life, but you need to start acting like the leader. She will get angry and sulk, let her. Hold firm to your decision. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | A question about frame.It sounds like she is asking you to act more masculine which indicates that the relationship does not operate in your frame. She is instructing you on how to be a man......not in your frame. That fact that she is telling you what she likes....means you are not delivering or are somehow lacking....but I'm betting you try you best to make her happy. That there is the mistake, and th reason she feels comfortable enough to critique your behavior. You have put her on a pedestal. Good frame in a relat… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Ex text me how to tell LTR to apply dread?Display high value.....flirt with women in front of her. Be a top notch man...be fit.dress well Chase your purpose. This is how to dread. Mentioning that someone you used to fuck called you is only going to be a turn off. That's high school level dread game.... And it's not the least bit impressive. That's an obvious attempt to make her jealous and she will see right through it. I would advise against it | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Tips to Escalate with a Female Friend who has a boyfriend?Sounds like a good plan. Best of luck to you. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Tips to Escalate with a Female Friend who has a boyfriend?Well being as though you're the only guy who is interested in women.....I would say your rank is solid. It all comes down to how attractive the girls see you as. I have definitely banged multiple girls in a single friend group. I am attractive but what won the over was I was always talking with women outside of the friend.froup.whem.we hung out....then one by one they started throwing themselves at me.... especially after I slept with one of them. They thought I was attractive at first...but the… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Tips to Escalate with a Female Friend who has a boyfriend?Ok well if you do not spend one on one time( or text/snap etc), and only see her in groups, then she is an aquaintance(not a friend). That makes a big difference. Ok Makes more sense. You might just have a shot! Good luck One more thing you can try. The next time she's talking about she wishes she had some other guys to fool around with...... Tell her when she's ready she should let you know. That you are totally down for it. Say it discreetly to her when no one else can hear to imply that you k… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Tips to Escalate with a Female Friend who has a boyfriend?I didn't say you wanted a relationship. I said she would see you as wanting a relationship since you allowed yourself to just be a friend. Women are not stupid....she knows you are attracted to her...she knows you would sleep with her. They play stupid but they know. I understand you want a fwb....that's the point. That's why you two aren't friends and you are merely in her orbit. You are absolutely in the friend zone. It always by choice....it's always a choice.men.make to accept a " friendship… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | My SMV is increasing, but I’m still lacking heavily in experience with females. How do I get out of my own way/head?Just accept that potential rejection is a part of life and it's not that big of a deal. Rejection always feels better than not trying and having to wonder. Just walk up and say hi.....be outcome independent. You are just there to strike up a convo and be friendly. If there is chemistry, get the number, or give her yours. If not...say nice to meet you and keep it moving. To get yourself used to approaching people....start saying high to strangers....even men. Then start making small talk...."hey … | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Tips to Escalate with a Female Friend who has a boyfriend?Yet another example of why men and women are not friends. Your in the friendzone....you two are not friends. Friends don't want to secretly sleep with each other. No you should not game her. You should game other women to display high value and social proof in front of her. Let her make the first move if she wants to get involved with you. You treat her like a bratty kid sister that you're not really attracted to. This is how to raise her interest in you. To get this girl....you need to have ano… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on flirting with your hairdresser?This is shitting where you eat. Certainly not worth it for a clearly damaged woman that's a 6 | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Man Talk: What do you think it takes to be worthy of leading other men?Displaying a high proficiancy in the area you want to lead them in. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with mates hitting up girls your chatting to?Stop trying to show off for your friends... | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you ever regretted giving closure to some who wronged you?In life you have to learn to live with regrets. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been a follower of the Red pill for a couple years but my experience with my GF does not align with a lot of the theory hereLoL 11 months and you think that's a representation of how the relationship will continue forever? Wait until she gets some more life experience.... Your first paragraph says it all. She has a low notch count and comes from a conservative wholesome family. She could have completely different behavior even if she had been with two more guys before you. It's preached all the time that these are things you want to look for for a relationship. Your relationship is 100% in alignment with what the red… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 04:09 PM |
| 17 | Does dread work if she's not afraid to lose you?You put her on a pedestal. I can tell by how glowingly you talk about her. You should have been dreading her all along... . You don't wait until things go bad to start using dread..... But you can certainly give it a try. Honestly if a woman ever expressed even the slightest bit of being unsure she wanted to stay with me. I will be gone so fast to her head would spin. Have some self-respect. Why stay with someone and try and get their attraction back if they are unsure if they want you. If you h… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What is in for the society through the feminization of men.Control | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Reported my senior rep to HRI think a lawyer would be a better option for advice on this matter. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 12:02 PM |
| 2 | I'm thinking about telling my gf of this community. Did you ever tell a girl/woman of TRP? How did she react?You onlyy want to tell her because your hoping she will adopt the principles without you having to man up and put her in her place........ Women want you to have game.....they want you to just "get it" they don't want to feel like tactics are being used on them. They want a guy who is a natural at these things. Not only is she likely to be put off by these teachings...she will look at you as being weak, and weird for needing them. When you learn a magic trick...you don't go around showing everyo… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | She Ticks All my Boxes Bar 1A picture perfect illustration of oneitis creeping in. You found a fat whore and now want to wife her out if scarcity...... You must find more plates or let this girl go....do not pursue a relationship with this girl. One woman is worse than no women. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 09:52 AM |
| 5 | How to keep a good balance between being Goofy and Masculine?Don't be the goofy guy.......the goofy guy is usually the one that makes everyone laugh,and then goes home alone. Learn to quiet down.... Women like the strong silent type, not the guy trying to entertain everyone. Don't be a court jester. If you want women.... Focus on looking good first. That's half the battle Humor is good....dry humor is best. Goofy.......no. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Are any of you still scrolling this sub to figure out how to bag your oneitis?"When I went to hang out with a female friend".......mistake number one.....Men and women aren't friends. Hence your rotten time carrying their purses around while they talked about other chads. Focus on you work and your purpose. You will meet women on the way to that. Sometimes you really have to stop worrying aboutout women and focus on you. Get your ass in the gym... Crush you school work. You have decades to meet women. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Rewarding good behaviorLet her know casually....but only if she really does something exceedingly well. Bakes you a cake and wears sexy lingerie and let's you tie her up.... "You looked really sexy and that cake was delicious... That was amazing" if this behavior continues long term....then maybe reward her in some way that also benefits you. You let her join you at your favorite place to eat.... She Shows up looking half decent and gives you regular run of the mill sex. The fact that you saw her and had sex with her … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | am i being dramatic or should i withdraw attention from a girl ive been casually vettingGood luck! | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | am i being dramatic or should i withdraw attention from a girl ive been casually vettingIf she is planning an evening for you. It's likely to come up. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 5 | am i being dramatic or should i withdraw attention from a girl ive been casually vettingYou went too far. By telling her to see other guys....you confirmed you were seeing other girls. Never do this. It's supposed to be a mystery...you don't have to throw the no exclusively In their face. You got over confident You messed this situation up a bit. Now she will be fielding other offers... Play it cool and don't be so brash about seeing others in the future. If you really want the relationship then go for it soon. See if you can get her to bring it up again. Though I recommend you spi… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond ?Don't be subtle with women in relationships. Tell her you want to see her naked. There's no reason to beat around the bush or send her mixed signals. You want to fuck.....she has a man...she is going to either act like a ho.....or she ain't. You can loose a girl like this acting too slowly....being relationship minded etc. Take control...tell her what you want. She is either down for it, or she is not. But at least you find out quick and don't have to keep orbiting her. Her.mannis likely soft, a… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 0 | LTR doesn’t feel understoodThe root of the problem is that your incredibly weak, and the relationship operates completely in her frame. Her acting like a bitch will continue....and rise in direct proportion with your weakness. Especially nsince she has this new job....and now will think even higher if herself. New job....."hmm maybe it's time to upgrade to another man as well. Make it a habit to not listen to peoples words, but to pay attention to their actions. Especially with women. Her action....is that she is making a… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Is a woman never showing emotions a red flag?Is this a plate...or a relationship? Sounds like she has seen it all(many men) and has checked out on the emotion side. How old is she? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Just a little queryHow I found freedom in an unfree world. - Harry Browne. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | We’re in a pandemicYou ran into a nut job.....there's.many in the world today. Nothing you can do about it keep approaching. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 09:14 AM |
| 5 | Girl asked me out, now what?I mean... Is she attractive? You don't mention that .. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityYes! See there you go my friend. Now you're in the power position. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Everyone I know is Turning Against MeAbsolutely one if the best reads. You will be just fine. Keep grinding! | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Everyone I know is Turning Against MeStay on the path......the snake has to shed his old skin. This is the pain of your rebirth. Things will get better for you eventually. Law 2! Don't not place to much trust in friends for they are easily aroused to envy. This applies to family too. Your growth can be too much for them.....it makes them feel insecure....they will try and bring your down or keep you at your same level. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had any negative "zero date smash" experiences?Having them come right over does not necessarily mean you have to try and sleep with them.... Or that they have to sleep with you. Think of it as you inviting them over for an interview. It's a low investment way to see if you have any chemistry .. And to establish yourself as the lead person in the interaction. If you don't have them come right over... Meet for coffee or a drink at a location close to your spot. Then the logistics are right if you two do decide to go for more. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityYour welcome brother. Good Luck! | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityI would just tell her off the top. It will be better for your self esteem...and you won't have regrets or undue drama for telling her something else first. I have no problem with this morally...... It will just give you personally more power to tell her the truth upfront.... And insist she follow your lead. Rather than deceiving her just to get some of her pussy. Pussy isn't that special. What's special is getting compliance out of a woman. Get her to comply with your program | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysYeah don't do anything...that implies that you are threatened. This is solely her responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysShe can end the call..ask her friend not to facetime with him present. She can tell him that your a great guy and she will not tolerate the disrespect. All kinds of ways she can handle this. It's not your job to step in....a girl can and should handle this easily. Don't fall for the " I can't stop this from happening" routine. It's beyond easy for her to shut this down instantly. The real question is....why won't she do that. Is she too controlles by her friend? Likes the attention? These are th… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 12:53 AM |
| 3 | My GF’s best friend has a new boyfriend who keeps trying to set her up with guysIt's your girls responsibility to check this kind of behavior, and it's beyond easy for her to do so if she really wants to. How does he even have access to her? He has her phone number? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityYou should telln her the truth.....a girl who demands this will not be content with you saying you two are exclusive. She is going to want to investigate....and encroach on your time. She basically wants you to give her a relationship without the title... She might cause you to loose the other one.....that you like more. The more alpha thing to do would be to tell her that you will do whatever you want, and she can take it or leave it. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Is the "Crop" or Tommy Shelby hairstyle more masculine with or without a beard?With beard | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Quick advice on whether to bulk or cut?Cut about 20 lbs | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked, cited nervousness??No you have misunderstood what it means. A woman knows within seconds of seeing you if she finds you attractive. You're not likely going to game, bargain, or negotiate your way into her suddenly having genuine desire for you. I'm not saying this girl does not find him attractive at all, but she is not attracted enough, or interested enough to see him. She is likely still trying to field offers from guys she is more attracted to. Her being nervous is an excuse, not the truth. The same girl that c… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl flaked, cited nervousness??Cancels date the day before so they can text more first......leaves him on read........yup sounds like she was super interested to me. Your right! Cutting off like warm girls is smart. They very rarely suddenly gain interest. You can't negotiate attraction. You're way overestimating and overvaluing game. Physical attraction is King. Game is how you manage a woman that is already attracted to you. I'm not saying he has to be some alpha chad. He has to be attractive enough to her for her to actual… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Girl flaked, cited nervousness??It's far better to get experience quickly cutting off uninterested women, than orbiting them for practice. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | No spark meaning ?Sounds like you were shy and reserved..... | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Girl flaked, cited nervousness??Soft next is when you cut all communication unless she reaches out to you first. A soft neck with a girl you're sleeping with or have a relationship could also be cutting off communication for predetermine amount of time. Referred to as put in her on ice when you don't talk to her for a week. Hard next is when you move on from her completely whether she reaches out to you or not. You decide not to talk to her anymore. I was hard text this girl because it's clear she is not interested in you. Rem… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 04:07 PM |
| 3 | I would like to introduce some of my friends to the red pillYou said your friends....not your sister. Honestly you can share it with certain people but most will not understand. These ideas are pretty much 180 degrees from what society believes and people will honestly think you are crazy, and a bad "toxic" person. Use descretion. People like to label you in today's world and that label is hard to shake. They WILL also tell others about you beliefs. Reputation I everything guard it with your life. Imagine your sister making a social.media post about you … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 02:20 PM |
| 15 | I would like to introduce some of my friends to the red pillDo yourself a huge favor and never let the thought of doing that enter into your mind again. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever get sick of every reasonably attractive chick being taken?Try meeting women in real life. Everyone here complains about meeting women online.....there's a reason for that. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Not sure on how to proceed with one of the girls I'm pursuingWomen make rules for betas and break rules for alphas...... Your way overestimating the need for, or effectiveness of game. Game is for when the woman is already attracted to you. It doesn't attract her. Either you make her wet....or you don't. Ask her to hang out.....I dont want to her that she is shy and conservative bs. Go for it. If she says no.....just keeping pushing. She knew before you ever opened you mouth whether or not you were someone she would ever mess with. Ask ....so you can find… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 03:18 AM |
| 3 | How to cut off fake friends?Just fade away....nothing needs to be said to them. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 03:11 AM |
| 20 | Girl flaked, cited nervousness??Soft next her. The excuse is a lie...she just is not very interested. Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas......she is making rules about needing more texting first. She isn't the interested but wants you to keep orbiting her. Honestly I would hard next ... | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Should one never explicitly tell one of his plates that he has other girls?No you should not. There is nothing to gain and very much to loose. The mystery is what builds attraction. You want her to get a sense that your a man that has others by not being too available.... thirsty, or emotionally available. Game should be more invisible. Display thigh value ....don't talk about it. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Bringing a chick over and not having sexOneitis has been engaged. She wants to fuck.... Just fuck. That's the men's role.... It's her role to push for the other shit. Let thing unfold naturally. One day she will ask.....so what are we? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many people say TRP makes absurd inaccurate claims and assumptions about women’s behavior and intentions and is a toxic “rabbit hole” of misogyny when it is quite clearly the most grounded and logical ideology of any social movement?Bro....they even hated jesus. There's always haters.... if it's useful to you and has helped your life, then don't worry about the hate. Just don't talk about it with people. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many people say TRP makes absurd inaccurate claims and assumptions about women’s behavior and intentions and is a toxic “rabbit hole” of misogyny when it is quite clearly the most grounded and logical ideology of any social movement?Well said. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend never stops complaint about how she’s not pretty, sexy, beautiful, but she’s 10/10 looks wiseIgnore this bullshit. When she starts up, just walk away. Stop trying to make her life perfect......that's the real problem here. This is her trying to get attention and control you. Next time tell her ato workout harder and eat better, agree that she needs some work. Stop treating her like she is perfect. She knows she is not perfect. Women are disgusted by nice men who treat them as if they are perfect. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | how to re-introduce bdsm?Buy some handcuffs or restraints and use them the next time you see her. Being spontaneous is much better than discussion about it first. Be very mild the first time.......then get more adventurous as you go along. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Workouts that make it easier to pick-up & manhandle bitchesDate smaller bitches.....leave lizzo alone. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | My gf is complaining that I don’t call her pretty or beautiful?Dump her...then see how important it is for you to constantly validate her. Tel her to go find a guy that will kiss her ass because you're not going to do it. Then prepare for the best sex and most submissive behavior. She says and does thea things because she runs you, and she knows she can. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Do women value a man who is listening?Physical attraction is king. Work on being as physically attractive as you can be with what god gave you. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when a female says “can you make a girl finish tho?”Do you even have her phone number?? Sounds like orbiter bait... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | It’s fucked up how these dating apps work...You get off the app and start living in the real world again.... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeHow did you find out.....I'm curious? Also I dont believe for a second that she did not enjoy it. She is just saying that. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Plate drops. Held frame. She comes back 8 hours laterShould make her work a bit. She needs to do some things for you. Ok you can come overer but you need to make dinner. Have her cook for you from now on if she wants to see you....or she needs to bring you something. Should honestly nhabe her doing these things anyway to increase her investment in you. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 73 | Gf Dick picIf requested...it's totally fine. Never send if it has not been requested. Do not include your face | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever LTR a near-wall woman in your 20's?Hell no..... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Apparently saying "the only thing i need women for is sex" is considered hate speechThink as you want but act like others.... These are ideas you would have to express subtly and over time after you have already connected with a woman. Not as your general introduction to everyone. Only the women get cart blanche to say whatever they want in these apps. Take a break from online and try meeting someone in person. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Potential FWB with girl who's in a relationship, good or bad idea?Fuck her....but don't waste you time endlessly pursuing her trying to get her to cheat. Don't orbit her. If she wants to give it up then take it if you want....but don't spend time gamming this chick and gassing her head up. Also show her that you can keep things quiet....she is more likely to do it if you know how to keep things low key and don't get her caught up. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Where to find some good supermarket game?Stop drinking. Your only confident when your drunk....alcohol is a crutch you don't need. Thats why you game sucks outside of the bar. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 10 | Invite for drinks vs overIf she is responsive....stop taking so long to respond. She will grow annoyed with that eventually. I like to mirror behavior. If she is slow...I will be slow. If she is responsive I will be more responsive. It's a subtle teaching tool...if she wants faster communication then she needs to act faster as well. I will take just slightly longer than she takes to respond. If it takes her an hour...I wait 1.5 hours. If it takes her 5 min I respond in 7-10 min.... As for the " date"....don't overthink … | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What do I say to "what are we gonna do?" at 3amI have a great bottle if wine I want you to try at my place." "Come play cards with me, I can teach you a game" "I know it's late but I like to watch a movie to wind down from the evening, you should join me" | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:43 AM |
| 2 | I tried to break up with my ltr but now she flipped the script on meShe doesn't want to do a long distance relationship. There might be another guy in the picture that she wants to pursue. If she is needy and closed off like you said. She wants a guy that's going to be around her 24/7. So she's going to look for another one or already has an idea about another one. She will absolutely not be working on herself at all. Count yourself lucky that she finally did what you were unable to do the past two times. Disconnect from her and look for a new girl in your new t… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | 20M looking for advice on a girl that I kissed (but she lost interest)and might see again with some friends tonightThere you go! Good luck | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 09:44 AM |
| 2 | The more I improve the more hate from menMost of them can't stand to see you elevate and improve yourself. Honestly what I ended up doing is dropping a lot of my old friends ...and I no longer communicate with my brother. Best decisions I ever made. A personal is either a sail or an anchor to your life. Only keep the sails around. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 09:27 AM |
| 0 | LTR says I haven’t been showing effortShe wants out ....building her case with falsehoods. She knows you have tried, it's just excuses so she has something to blame other than the fact that she doesn't want the relationship anymore | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | "hold on I have to take this call" how to maintain frame during an approach?Yeah.....the truth can be that way sometimes.... | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 09:47 PM |
| 3 | "hold on I have to take this call" how to maintain frame during an approach?Relax man relax....every minute detail of an interaction can't be perfect. If she found you attractive you might have a shot, if not....you won't. It's really that simple. Was she physically attracted and does she like your vibe. Women know in 10 seconds if you are someone she would sleep with. That's mostly what you need to be concerned about. The fact that she took the call and said that she would not be free this week..... Kind of tells the whole story. Not really interested. She might take y… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | She changed the time of our dateSingle.moms will be late....cancel.....not be free for several weeks. Can't find a sitter. Have drama with dad. Many reasons to avoid them. I'd your going to deal with one expect and accept time changes. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 18 | The more I improve the more hate from menHave struggled with it my entire life actually. Every friend I had was jealous. My own brother was jealous. I did well.with women but I was humble about it. They could not stand it. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | 20M looking for advice on a girl that I kissed (but she lost interest)and might see again with some friends tonightYour mistake was making such a public spectical of kissing her on the dance floor. She might have been down for something, but that doesn't mean she wanted everyone to know... I always thought of kissing a girl on the dance floor or at the club a bit beta. It's like telling everyone there that she is so special that you have given up your whole night for her...and are so excited to meet her that you need to kiss her. Once you make that move and show everyone.....your kinda disqualifying yourself… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | I still do not understand why young women are attracted to bad boy types. Can someone explain?There's some other good points in this thread. I think what you mainly need to understand though is that women do not use logic first and foremost. Women are emotional creatures. Bad boys: are able to make them feel emotions. They take them on a roller coaster ride up and down. Does he like me? Does he not like me? Am I going to hear from him today? Where is he....what is he doing? Who are those women around him…..has he slept with any of them? All he does is use me for sex does he want somethin… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Trying to control sexFeed her a little bit of comfort to assuage her fears. Take her for ice cream one day.....then Fuck. In my opinion.... Proper plate maintenance demands that you occasionally give them something beyond just a dick. Say once a month.... It could be as simple as meeting at a bar before going back to your place. Women like to be out and they like to be seen.... Life is all about experiences for them and if you're only giving them one experience then they will get bored. Maybe even mix in getting a h… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How can I still seduce a colleague if she already knows about my wife?I don't care if you cheat on your wife.....but it's not a good idea to do so with a coworker. She went cold because she thought she was flirting with a single guy ...your other coworker doxed you and now it's done. Be glad she found out before you started cheating with her. If you want some side pussy.....get it outside of you place of employment. No pussy is worth ruining your life over. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Literally 0 motivation to improve myself, what to do?Try no fap, semen retention. Cut out activities that are giving you unearned dopamine hits. Social media...video games.....porn...... television.... alcohol..... Any other drug. Focus on activities that only pay off after a long time. Like building something. Repairing something.... What ever that old purpose was.... Get back to it. Until you find something else to replace it with. Your not likely depressed.... Your might be over stimulated with rewards from low value activities Which is causing… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | The broken condom dilemmaPull out even when wearing a condom. Preferably finish in their mouth. Do kegel exercises. I prefer never to cum during sex....she has to finish me after. Guess how many babies I have made....0 | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 02:33 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls go so crazy over guys they find attractive?Makki is not a dick...he is smart and has game. He doesn't give women attention and validation they haven't earned and is focused on himself. Women want to date men who are above them...... So he acts like he is above them( and he is.....here's a secret....so are you). It's all very simple. These are highly attractive traits to a woman. Don't ever be swayed by a woman's tears of manipulation. A woman is like a child and will cry and pout when she doesn't get her way. It doens't mean he has done … | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | How to hold my frame even in tough timesLook up stoicism... Amor fati would be one such example. Love your fate. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Need Help With my PhysiqueReps reps reps reps........ Higher reps for muscle. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What do you loathe about feminism ?There's nothing legit about it. Women had a sweet deal, and the government introduced feminism in order to double tax revenue. It was not a grass roots movement, and many women were not in favor of it . Read the book "the feminist lie". Everything in the country worked far better when one person worked and the other raised the family and took care of the home during the day. There's nothing women were being denied by not being able to go work stupid corporate jobs. Feminism has ravaged the black… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Guys with strong male bonds that have lasted decades. What do those look like?This has been almost my exact experience as well. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to confront woman's behavior or just ghost?Ghost.....and next time hit the eject button even faster. If I'm in a conversation and she takes hours to respond suddenly, without notice, or a good excuse when she messages back, then she is done. Instant soft next. If she reingages later she merely gets an offer to come offer for a drink. No small talk, no attention. If no, the soft next resumes. Rinse repeat. Investing more time and waiting is what made you angry to lash out, which is never good and actually gives her an excuse to not feel b… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Do guys do this intentionally to assert dominance around women?Ok give those things a try. Best of luck to you! | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Do guys do this intentionally to assert dominance around women?If you want to stop being see as a good friend.....then stop.looking like a guy who is only friend material. 95% of this comes down to pure physical attraction. If you aren't starting with maximizing whatever god gave you, then your doing it wrong. Get in shape....low body fat makes you much better looking, and more like someone....you know.....they would like to see without clothes. See how that works. Stop thinking " hey I'm a super cool guy", and focus on becoming and attractive guy. Pro tip:… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Do guys do this intentionally to assert dominance around women?She hooked up with that guy because she was more attracted to him than you. That's all. "Often a guy" a friend of yours......or random guys just asking you to do shit? If your not seen in a high enough level in your social circle, maybe you need a new social circle.... You might also need to takes some steps to build your confidence, and maybe even change your look up some... Are you lifting? Good style? Good haircut? Carry yourself with confidence? Do a self assessment and be brutally honest ab… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Once a girl sees you as a bitch, is there any going back?Focus much less in her and much more in your own life. Create some distance.....see her much less. Spend time with other people and stop letting your world revolve around her. Lift! Maybe learn a martial art. Shoot some guns. Engage in more manly things and try to kill the old image she might have of you. Do all this and you might have a shot....but there is no erasing the past mistakes. Show some growth. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 11:49 PM |
| 2 | LTR downgraded me?I just think the relationship wasn't what she expected and wants out. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How can I cold text a girl?Just don't.... | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | When did you find the red pill? What was your red pill moment?Highschool. Snoop dog doggystyle album. Watching my brother be a simp. Having my highschool girlfriend go away to college and end the relationship after her first year. I know what she was doing....but i was too🤷🏾♂️ | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Shitting where you eatDo some google searches every morning before work. Look for situations where guys ruined their lives by messing with women at work. Look up youtube videos as well. Keep reinforcing in your mind that it is a bad idea. As a matter of fact I got you right here bro. Minister Jap! https://youtu.be/IGePSU1kQ6g | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Calling vs texting girlsA call in the beginning can go a long way. Then text for logistics after that. Alot is lost in texting someone. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you get back with girls when they start to chase after you leave?Damn you made a post about "if she comes back." Damn man where is your focus at? You are still very much hung up on this girl. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Inactive on dating apps for a few days / weeks : keep my profile visible or hidden?Wow....... | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Toxic menMost of the women aren't worthy of being treated like they matter and they know it... Why is a man toxic because he treats a woman like she doesn't matter? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Do you think people should have to post proof to their claims?Welcome to the internet sir. You must be new around these parts. Use common sense and if something doesn't seem right....then just move on. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a strange girlScarcity mindset. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Longterm gf showing alot of disinterestYour welcome brother . Best of luck to you! | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Longterm gf showing alot of disinterestThese are the reasons she is loosing interest most likely... All the stuff you mentioned above. You need to workout at home. 130 pounds is way too small at 5'10. You confidence is shot. That's why she is controlling you. Your frame is weak and she has taken over. You need to find some ways to build your confidence. Meet some new people. Get back to working out. Maybe just leave the relationship all together..... You can't dread someone if they look at you as being weak. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | My friend was getting married next week... his girl basically left him at the altar.Do nothing...tell him nothing. Experience is now his teacher. Sounds like another red pill man has been birthed. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Longterm gf showing alot of disinterestSo then why stay with her.? It sounds like you're not enjoying the relationship anymore. It sounds like even though you have been using dread game. You have lost frame with her. She's being really demanding and controlling..... And you have been going along with it. Dread doesn't work when you're incongruent in the rest of your relationship behaviors. If you follow her lead when she's around, you are not behaving like someone who would do anything on the side anyway. Another word she's not threa… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Longterm gf showing alot of disinterestIf you're doing things like flying to another country and taking pictures with other women.... And she still is not affected at all. I would say there's another guy in the picture. Sounds like you took things to such an extreme that you turned her numb. If one week you beat me up with a baseball bat and then the next week you merely slap me in the face. The slap is not going to feel so bad. Sounds like you over dreaded her to the point where she just stopped caring. Sounds like it would be wise … | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | I catch feelings easily & quick. How to stop that?Stop directing your attention at one woman at A time. One woman is worse than no women. Multiple women cultivated an attitude of abundance. One woman cultivates an attitude of scarcity | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Longterm gf showing alot of disinterestShe is resistant to dread game.......no she is not. How have you used dread? It sounds like you went soft in the relationship, and no she is bored of you. She "beat the game" as I like to call it. Slayed the final end boss of your manliness, got control , And now she doesn't want to play anymore. End things with her. Rediscover your manhood. Move on | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How can you have a ''strong work ethic'' in something that you don't even like doing?You trian yourself to like it by letting it be your primary source of dopamine, and cutting out other activities bthat give you dopamine with low effort. Video games social media etc. Look up Alex becker on youtube. Nightmare mode. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:02 AM |
| 5 | One-Sided ExclusivityOk well your her best option AT THE MOMENT. You.wanting to keep seeing others raised that value a bit as well. Most guys fall head over heels from the girl wants a relationship, so that displayed high value to an extent....or a belief that your value is higher than hers. Do not expect for this to last though.....the key will be maintaining your current frame and not getting softer. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a MentorFitness. Style. Grooming. Purpose. Read sidebar. Max them all. Done. That will be $1,000,000 | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 3 | One-Sided ExclusivityHow attractive is plate? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 13 | Do y'all ever do dates on a Saturday?Wtf....... Saturday is "for the boys?" What are you 15 years old? Jesus man. Go on the Saturday date. Saturday is when people have free time.....maybe you have heard of it ??? Its when people usually don't have to go work to earn money.....sound familiar? You really made a post about this shit..... | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | LTR slapped meHARD NEXT. You're her little bitch.... She even gets to slap you when you don't behave. Save yourself some self respect and move on. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | My brother is turning into his certifiably insane wife's bitch, what can I do to wake him up?Let him go. It's his journey.....maybe he will wake up on his own later. Some people need harsh life lessons first to come to a realization | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What is a Good Way to Converse with the Old Chad You Run Into From High School?How about just don't.... | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 3 | GF recently got cancer. I was planning to end things leading up to this and now don't know how to do so without being the bad guy.Sometimes in life you have to be willing to be viewed as the bad guy or an asshole. It's just part of life. If you stick with her this could be years of your life still with her.... | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me she not tryna fuck, would i be an asshole for ghosting her?"She has been wanting me to Fuck her for a while" How long is a while??? Always pay attention not peoples actions, not their words. Ghost her....she is an attention whore. She was dangling a carrot over you to get attention so she could feel good about herself. Delete her off your snap and pursue other women. And like rollo says. A woman who makes you wait for sex...the sex is never worth the wait. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | I have a sex addictionI mean are these quality women?? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Hang out with plate with no sex?No! A plate is for sex. She will actually loose respect for you if you want to see her without the possibility of sex. Tell her to hit you up when she is felling better. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was dating for 3 months dumped me over gunsDefinitely never contact her again. She is batshit crazy liberal. Be glad she is gone... | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | What do you do if you feel like the girl you are seeing is being egotistical?You knock her off the pedestal slowly....but you don't have to shove her off. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Best 4 day Split for gainzFull body daily....or full body every other day. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you buy a house with a friend?No No No No.No.No.No No. Did I mention NO!? Your always great friends with someone right up until you aren't. Or until one of you becomes a beta chuck.for a woman and suddenly wants out, or wants you out. I have seen this very thing happen between two good friends and it was a disaster. One friend moved to the state with other friend. They buy a house together. Friend sets up recently relocated friend with his old jump off plate because dude hasn't had any pussy latelyand she is a smut. Friend g… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 3 | How to game a girl at the church?Bible study and chill invite.... | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Women are weird"So im friends with this girl"......here's you problem. Make your intentions clear from the very beginning. Men need to stop pretending we want to be friends, hoping to fall into some pussy one day. She is not weird.....your just in the friend zone. Your her friend. She doesn't want any more than that. Good on you to block her and move on. Lesson learned. Be up front with your intentions, there will be no more wasted uber rides. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Swallowed The Pill- Mind Is In Shock. Any Advice On How To Proceed With This Scenario ⬇️Your welcome! Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Swallowed The Pill- Mind Is In Shock. Any Advice On How To Proceed With This Scenario ⬇️If you enjoy the conversation, then you can continue it. Just know that there is a very high likely good that this will fade long before September. If it doesn't fade and you actually meet, it's highly likely that you two.might not hit it off in person. Keep some contact with her if you want but focus on.meeting other women who you can actually see. This girl should be placed far on the back burner. Don't get invested in her and start to develop feelings for a girl that you have never met. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 08:29 AM |
| 2 | LTR downgraded me?Of course it's the truth. " I can't handle a relationship and full time job" translation....your too needy, require too much attention. When things were casual it was just occasional fun. Now you have gone soft. What happened to that exciting guy who would just call me for sex!? Why else would things break down so quickly after making it official. When they worked fine for a longer period of time when it was casual. It has nothing to do with her busy life. She didn't like the way you behaved in … | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Ex constantly messaging and FaceTiming me since breakup. She broke it off with me. What does she want?You can't really Alpha widow a woman who left you......she hasn't found a new guy yet and wants to keep you in orbit for validation, and in case she decides to circle back to you down the line. If she can't find better. She didn't leave because you weren't giving time and attention. That's just a standard lie women use when they are done with you. You got lazy complacent, and likely needy in the relationship. That's why she left. When it was casual it was fun and exciting.... after the commitmen… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Guilt mixed anger towards your BP but loyal friends. How do you deal with it?Maybe it's time for new friends. Nothing lasts forever. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Ignore her? My old oneitis who I share a social circle with is sending me pics/videos on snapchat, I assume to try get me orbiting again?.Not responding to her snaps is not going to cause drama.....keep ignoring her. She will start to wonder what has gotten into and how you have so easily moved past her. She will become even more flirtatious when she sees you. On the other hand if you start responding, she will turn cold. Yes she wants you to orbit bevay she misses the validation if being chased by you. Don't give her ANY validation. In fact....why are you even still connected with her snap? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | LTR downgraded me?You got too needy and unfocused on your own goals in the relationship. She liked when things were casual and wants to go back to that. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | what tools MUST EVERY RED PILLED MAN have?Good luck brother you will be just fine | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 2 | I accidentally told my dad about trp.Inception- planting an idea in someone's mind is difficult but not impossible. The subject usually needs to believe that the idea came from them. Maybe your riding in the car and one of the less controversial podcasts happens to be playing for a bit. Then you turn it off...." Sorry dad I know your not into this stuff. Leave breadcrumbs....for him to follow. No guarantee it works....but if he gets enough lightbulb moments like we did, perhaps he gives it some credence. Hey dad I read that. Ball b… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | what tools MUST EVERY RED PILLED MAN have?Wait you have the norelco 7000 trimmer......a real res pill.mannwould only use the 9000. Dude you are never going to get laid now! Seriously don't overcomplicate this shit. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Women who ask about someone's ethnic make-up or race?They aren't ghosting because of his race. They are ghosting because his game is weak. A woman who wasn't interested wouldn't even bother to ask your race. I get that question all the time and its usually when a woman has very high attraction. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 4 | She become distant after she knew other woman wants to be with me.Well then you need to focus on making yourself into a more attractive option.... Do you lift weights? Have good style? Good haircut and top notch grooming? Good teeth? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you meet a chick who doesn’t have snap?Asked her to text you a full length picture. She is likely fat, otherwise she would show her body. If you meet, just make if a coffee date. You can bail out in 15 minutes if you have to. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | She become distant after she knew other woman wants to be with me.Try and only pursue women that seem to have high interest in you. Learn to quickly move on to the next woman, and don't chase after them. I'd you haven't had sex with her, dread is not going to be nearly as effective. The woman has to be somewhat emotionaly invested in you to feel potential dread over loosing you. That's the only way it works. Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 7 | She become distant after she knew other woman wants to be with me.She acts like this now because your behavior at first doesn't match the image you are trying to show her now. She thinks she is above you because that's how you treat her. So when you have the nerve to interact with another woman, she is ready to disappear, because she doesn't think you are worth competing for. She was giving you a slim opportunity to compete for HER. A chance to maybe have a relationship with her as her beta bux. It's best to let this one go. You think she is better than you, a… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 8 | How to stop giving a fuck what other people think?Try removing old people who no longer serve you from your life and reinvent yourself around new people. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Accused of cheating by LTR’s friendsSoft next your ltr until she stops listening to her dumb friends and listens to you. The more you explain yourself and chase her forgiveness, the worse off you will be | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?Like I said...all you have done is compare marriage to other dissimilar things. The flawed structure is yours... If you want to marry go for it. You don't need anyone's approval here. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?Where is the flaw in the structure? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?You believe becoming some ultimate alpha will spare you from divorce? Again your not listing an reasins why you disagree with the premise on marriage. Other than comparing it to other things that don't actually invole managing a relationship with one person for the rest of your life. It's not an apples to apples comparison. Marriages can work, they just tend not to. And this that do work aren't always the happiest. The advice to avoid marriage is sound. If someone told you that you had a 50% cha… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?Well why does that argument not hold water in you opinion? The divorce rate is 50%. You believe becoming.some ultimate alpha will spare you from a potential divorce? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Coworkers are rude to me and they think I'm virginHow about a move? It's a great way to shake up your life. Move to a new city where no one knows you and establish a new identify for yourself | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 4 | My current mindset is telling me that showing a little jealousy is good, am I wrong?You should have a focus away from her that doesn't allow you to even be concerned with such things. This displays high value on your part Even taking the time to acknowledge her talking about guys flirting with her is holding her up as the prize in the relationship. If your jealous....then your threatened by these guys..which means you don't feel fully worthy of her, or aknowledge.that she might be able to do better than you. If you're showing her that you think she might be able to find someone… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Plate flaked 3x after inviting her to come with me at hotel.Stop arranging the hotel before you have solid plans. Women usually need a little bit of notice because they don't like having days where they have nothing to do. So if you're already at the hotel and you text her.... It's unlikely that she's sitting home doing nothing and you just come right over. Since she is flaked on you three times though..... I would soft next and wait until she reaches out to you first. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl i've been seeing is suddenly testing me..?So nothing.....soft next until her behavior resumes or she fades away. Next time stop with the constant communication. It seems she got annoyed because you took a little while to get back to her..... Now she's doing the same thing and acting distant. If you two would have used texting for logistics in the first place it would not have been so obvious that suddenly one of you took a little too long to respond. Some maintenance texts here and there are fine..... Constant communication all day ever… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 3 | My current mindset is telling me that showing a little jealousy is good, am I wrong?No showing jealousy is not a good thing and it puts her on a pedestal. A better response would have been ending the conversation and soft nexting her. I gotta go handle some things......then radio silence. Women tell you these things to make you jealous and to see how wrapped up in them you are. You obviously pretty wrapped up by the fact that you're willing to enter into a relationship with a girl who lives in another city. Well you should be doing is finding ways to make her jealous. That's wh… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How to gauge if she’s DTF?You showed your sexual intent by asking her out to dinner...... Now you just need to handle it like anyone you would have met online Isolate escalate. Next time stop asking women out to dinner for a first date. Tell her to come over for a drink or meet at the bar for a drink. Dinner is too much of an investment... | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 2 | GF of 5 months is pissed at me for virtually nothing. What should I do?This is a textbook situation to employ the soft next. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:52 PM |
| 2 | GF of 5 months is pissed at me for virtually nothing. What should I do?Soft next her. Cut all communication for a week. This is a shit test and a manipulative power play. She's trying to turn you into an obedient little beta just because she gives you some pussy. The most important aspect of any relationship is a woman knowing that the guy can walk away from her if she misbehaves. Give her a taste of what that will feel like. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | She texted me again after > 2 weeksYou text her back, and ask her to come to your place. No date.....come over. If she says no...next | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | My LTR of 5 years can no longer handle me sleeping with other women. Do I close the relationshipMaintain relationships with people who want the same thing as you. If you want to continue seeing other women and she is no longer okay with that, then end the relationship. If you compromise and close the relationship to make her happy...... Then you will no longer be happy. So you'll be giving up your own happiness for her happiness..... This is a mistake. Your own happiness should come first....just end things with her and continue to enjoy your life. Maybe she will have a second thought abou… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted ex disrupting my shifts at workLeave the job, find a new pool. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 88 | Why do we care about average people in some areas but not others?The concern is not just about the potential failure of the marriage. The concern is the lack of benefit for a man in actually being married. Just because you might be able to make a marriage last does not necessarily mean it will be a happy,fulfilling, or fruitful Union. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Plate wants me to nut inside of her.It feels great.......but you still should not do it. Ever....unless you want a baby. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Gym, how to react to this particularly set of circumstancesWell these are not hard and fast rules....just Things that could be an issue. If it seems to work for you and doesn't bother you, or hinder your workout then go for it. But since you said you thought about limiting how much she can come....maybe it is bothering you, or messing up your routine a bit. For me...it just does not work. And my workouts tend to be on the longer side. It got to the point where I didn't want one girl to even come do her own routine, because she would be done..... and kin… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting shit tested at workFacts! | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Gym, how to react to this particularly set of circumstancesI agree 100%. I can't be stopping to teach you shit and correcting your form all day. It ruins your own workout. I have had women I was seeing pay me to train them at times I wasn't doing my own workout, or outside of the gym. If I'm seeing a woman and she asks, that's always my response now.....you can pay me. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Gym, how to react to this particularly set of circumstancesJesus 🤦🏾♂️. That's such a bad look. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 7 | Gym, how to react to this particularly set of circumstanceshttps://youtu.be/QQgZP0iIaCk Here you go my friend. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 09:44 PM |
| 20 | Gym, how to react to this particularly set of circumstancesThink about it in terms of the animal kingdom. There's a good video on youtube about the behavior of alpha males, and they look at apes and humans as a comparison. The betas go around trying their best not to offend anyone....they never make eye contact. They basically try to appear as if they are not a threat to anyone. I understand minding your own....and just doing your workout....but you have to understand what this behavior communicates to everyone else around you. Especially since you have… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Keep getting shit tested at workThis is what men do.... especially in construction type jobs. They give each other shit all day, every day. Fire shots back at them. Laugh off the ones they fire at you. Don't be too sensitive or let them see that it bothers you. Steel sharpens steel.....let it make you tougher. Fire back. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Gym, how to react to this particularly set of circumstancesI added a bit more to my first response. Check back there again for a bit more. If you want. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 65 | Gym, how to react to this particularly set of circumstancesI seriously cringe at every guy that works out with his girlfriend. She usually has completely different goals, and you end up compromising your workout focusing on "training" her. Deep down she realizes this....and it is a somewhat beta behavior. You end up getting her in tip too shape for the next guy....while you don't make much progress. Your also giving of beta vibes in the gym if this guy thinks he can invade your space and eye your woman. It's giving her way too much attention and placing… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 5 | What is the right balance with mate-guarding with a girlfriend?You didn't loose relationships because you didn't mate guard. That's just the excused they gave you when they wanted to leave. Women make up all kinds of shit about why they want out, and their favorite lie is some combination of " you didn't show me that you cared enough!!" A woman should guard herself as you said above. A woman who loves, respects, and revere's you is not going to to spend time entertaining other men's advances. Especially not in your face where you would feel the need or oppo… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 26 | Does having tattoos (as a man) repel good quality women?Women want a player/ bad boy type. They ALL do....then they want to turn him into a relationship guy. They want a man that can have/ has had many woman but chooses them. As long as your not tatted on your face or just look like a circus performer.....your probably fine. You might catch shit if she comes from a very conservative family.....but that's just likely to make her want you more. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Online dating : I want to get to know you before we date, are those girls just time waster ?Yes time wasters | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Loyal beta or be more alpha and risk losing her.She is using you....your a sugar daddy nwhongets no sugar. Move on | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Plate accused of sexual harassment by dudeNo one cares when women do stuff to men. Your name won't be smeared......but I'm betting she did what she is accused of. Do nothing..... continue to enjoy the weekend sex...it.move on. Do not ltr. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How much can last the anger fase? 6 years has passed since a toxic woman rejected me in the worst way, ran a smear campaign about me and now is happily living with her sugar daddy 40 years older than her.Why are you still following her life? Of course that makes you angry. Remove all reminders of her away from you. Pictures. Block her phone number. Delete all social media. You're literally driving yourself nuts. You are the one causing it | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 7 | How to be essential member to friend groups?Start your own new group. Your place in the hierarchy of that group is already set. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 01:57 AM |
| 0 | Girls as friendsHow old are you? If your so certain that being friends with a woman is great idea, what are you asking here for? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | When a girl dump a men, why do they want the men to feel completely devasted about it?They want to known that the man is below them and that they can go upgrade. A man who does not care thinks he can do better anyway which hurts her ego. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Does it look insecure to ask LTR what she's doing Saturday night?Don't not ask her... this is likely a test. Go ghost that day......and soft next. When she reaches out to you, ask how her day was. If she doesn't tell you what she did, end the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Would Like Some Opinions (older 27 YO+ preferred)First date was in her area....invite her to your area. If her interest is high, she will have no problem coming to your area. Get her accustomed to sharing travel responsibilities. Invite her to dinner and cook something at your place. Have her bring something, and maybe help you cook. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else prefer to hang out with girl alone vs group setting?Always alone. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Best way to handle saboteur orbiter?Certainly don't spend time around him. And ignore. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | What’s worse - a girl who regularly goes on girl’s night out with her single friends, or a girl who basically has only male friends and keeps hella orbiters?If I could not find a girl that did neither then I would not have a relationship with a woman. I can be single. I'm not going to compromise either thing ever. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Girls as friendsIs this girl attractive? She is cool to be around ...and you have no desire for more than a friendship? Your not being completely honest. No this doesn't rsukt in a lack respect...they just put you in the friend category and call you to change their tire, move their couch, or get advice about the guy they are sleeping with. Sounds like a great deal for you.....enjoy. Women are fine as aquaintainces......not friends. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 11 | LTR says im too dominant?If she is naturally submissive, and she is saying this ..then your probably going overboard playing the alpha male character. Relax a bit If she is a modern "empowered woman" then she is probably trying to break your frame a bit. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Taysocial tinder bio hack?Fuck covid....approach. I have done it.....it's tougher, but it can be done. Tinder sucks, we alrey know that. Try something else. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do we lose frame over the time of an LTRBecause maintaining frame takes constant effort...... Especially since they are constantly trying to break your frame to be sure that you are a worthwhile male. It's easy to fall into her frame and let her lead a bit....as they are constantly angling and manipulating for control. Also, because the behavior isnt natural to most men these days because of how we have been conditioned to be betas. It takes years of experience and conditioning for these behaviors to become second nature. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird adding somebody on social media from online school if we haven't interacted?Talk to her after class. Get her phone number...tell her she is cute and you want to get to know her. Ask on an date escalate. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what I did wrongYour peer review sounds like a shit idea with no practical purpose or anything to be gained from it. Don't do useless shit like that where there is high risk and little reward. You are most likely permanently burned with some of these girls. There's this thing called Incoming freshman though.....I hear they are pretty great. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How to manouver around friend asking for a favour?Ask them to pay....the you have a side hustle going. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Got HB9 plate, How do I stop myself from slipping up into thinking about marriage?Keep time spent together limited. The more you invest..,the more attached you will be. Also see other women at the same time, not just her. Don't let her sleep over. ...no morning cuddles and shit. A plate has to be treated like a plate. Just because nyou call her a plate doesn't mean you aren't treating her like a girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Using concealer to mask acne?Expholiate your skin daily and you won't break out. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Is Bill Burr the only celebrity who is openly Red Pilled?The ones who are really quiet are more conservative but know their careers are at risk. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | I have become really desentized, cant process normal things and everyday conversations. I'm taking a lot of efforts but dont know what the fuck is wrong with me.Ok be patient....it usually takes about 3 months to fully feel the benefits. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | I have become really desentized, cant process normal things and everyday conversations. I'm taking a lot of efforts but dont know what the fuck is wrong with me.Try no fap | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what is the end goal of cancel culture?It's to make everyone comply with the liberal mob without question, no.matter how far their luncay goes. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Fucking women with a child?It's not recommended....but do as you wish. Lots of red pill gives on youtube giving good in depth videos on why this could be a bad idea. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Getting Worse Results w Women Despite Grinding Hard For 5 Years and Improving Every Aspect of My Life.You need to cold approach. Online dating sucks. Every other post on this sub is someone struggling with dating apps | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 01:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about daygame for 40 years men in good shape?It works. Go for it. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 4 | If men love virgins why do they leave them?The meet them before they are ready to settle down. A man doesn't want to stay with the same girl he meets when he is 18. forever. A woman's value decreases as her sexual partner count increases. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 11:55 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with the guy friends?Ok makes sense...but if you do t want to meet him. I would just tell her that. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with the guy friends?The real question is why would you let a girl that has conditions in her life that you're not comfortable with? Don't meet him. You don't need to. Just tell her you don't want to meet. You don't need to have a relationship with her friends. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Do we make it harder for us to have sex with women using pickup?Yes it's mostly about physical attraction between the two people. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 19 | Feels weird seeing friends getting houses and babiesIf feels weird....but they secretly envy your life. They will never say it.....and will act as if something is wrong with you, all to make themselves feel better. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | When should I call or text her after I took her number?There's no hard and fast rule......it will largely be dependent on how the interaction went and the woman's level of interest. Sometimes a few days after.....sometimes immediately (minutes). If you absolutely had to have a specific rule......I would say text her the day after meeting her. What you say....and how you manage frame will be more important than how soon you text her. In my opinion, sooner will be better than later. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Red flag?Damn this give LOVES attention. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Need advice with a Bear.Only one way to find out | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Need advice with a Bear.If she is still around.. . Calling you a cunt is a shit test. If she is still engaged, then your doing something right. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Question about liftingIf your not trying to be an Olympic power lifter, the amount or weight just isn't as important as people make it seem. Reps build muscle mass. Making the muscle contract. Don't not compromise form. Once you injured.....you aren't making any progress and sliding backwards. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | What songs encapsulate red pill ideology?Snoop dog doggy style album....was my red pill education. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:03 PM |
| 12 | Girl didn't bring money to dateIn the future you make sure the date is inexpensive enough that it doesn't matter. That's why the coffee date has become such a great idea. Meet for a cup of coffee, and feel out her interest, and chemistry. Second date maybe a drink at the bar. This also shows you have standards and don't take everyone woman you meet out for dinner. If she won't agree to something small like coffee then she isn't interested enough. This girl just wanted a free evening from you. If a woman pushes for a dinner da… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 05:57 PM |
| 5 | 3 dates for s3xForget about what she is saying her rule is. Just go by your own rule. My rule is the second date or I'm out... So in this case I would see her twice, and see if I can get her to break her rule. (Date 1 coffe.....date two a drink at the bar.) If she doesn't break her rule.... I will stick to my rule and eject after the second date....soft next.... Hopefully by that time she should be into you enough that she comes crawling back..... At that point you agree to see her again .....but she's just co… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | has anyone approached while on a run?Opportunities usually it come around once. If you see an opportunity just go for it. The pain of not trying will.kargely outweigh and consequences from trying. So if she gets mad or blows you off.....who cares. At least you took the shot. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 05:36 PM |
| 10 | Need advice with a Bear.Sounds like the type of girl where you mostly have to focus on treating her like shit as much as possible.....sad but true. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl didn't bring money to dateWas this a first date? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Why would a woman who earns more than me be interested?Physical attraction trump's everything.....at all times.....in every situation. Physical attraction is king. Not money, not success, not status. If she looks at you and she gets wet....you can be a trash collector and get that ass. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How to meet 10s?Don't let one bouncer at one bar stop you. If you look at this sub it always the same problem......can't get good tinder girls. ....or whatever app. Approach in real life. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like there are 10x more guys than girls in dating?You spoke to every woman in the world? Keep trying. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Watching a process changes it - what does it mean?The text for logistic rule is just taken too literally. There is nothing wrong with some playful banter through text....or even a random maintenance text even when your not trying to see her. The point is not to be some text buddy who is orbiting her. You use text as a tool to get to a date ( a meeting) and your strategy can vary based in the woman your dealing with. It's a rule for newbies to accentuate the fact that they should not become an orbiter....push for a date. For someone more experie… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I keep running into the same cycle. They're super into me then they go cold all of the sudden, no warning. How do I react when they go cold? Is them going cold a shit test?God damn I am good. Yep see sir this is your problem. Life is not a porno..... I know people talk all kinds of s*** on this forum.... But you have to have somewhat of a delicate touch in the way you implement your game. I had a loyal plate for about 3 years that would come give me amazing sex on the regular. One time I decided I was going to pull my cell phone out and tape her during sex without asking. She noticed but didn't say anything. Didn't complain. But things fell apart shortly after tha… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Should I buy the car, or invest the money?Rich guys with f-types get their girlfriends fucked by guys with 2010 civics all the time. Save your cash....life is a long journey. Pace yourself....delayed gratification. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you need a good social circle to meet girls?Absolutely not. See pretty girl....walk over...say hi. Exchange phone number. Go on date. Escalate. Did I list social circle anywhere in there.......? Social circle is a way to meet women. Just like riding your bike is a way to get to work. So is taking the bus. Driving your car. Or flying in a helicopter. If you have a great social circle take advantage. If you don't..... Meet girls on your own. Honestly it's even more effective.... Women like to do their dirt in private. Not for all of their f… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Bagging 8/10+ girls on tinder?Try approaching women in real life. Men seem alergic to actually doing that these days. Tinder should not be your primary game. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Taysocial tinder bio hack?I haven't booked at it. I'm just saying you dont need to pay for some program to learn to get women. See pretty girl.....walk up say high. Lift weights. Get fit. Dress nice. Have a job. This shit is not that difficult. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Watching a process changes it - what does it mean?If I understand your question correctly....maybe I'm not sure. I would relate it to a classical piano player versus someone who is a composer..... Or even someone who doesn't play piano but has learned how to create melodies, beats, songs off of instict, trial, and error. The classical piano player often struggles to step outside of the Ridgid confines of their technique. This would relate to game in the sense that many on here follow the rules of the red pill so strictly that they can't see the… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Taysocial tinder bio hack?Fuck no | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I keep running into the same cycle. They're super into me then they go cold all of the sudden, no warning. How do I react when they go cold? Is them going cold a shit test?Maybe your being too transparent....your making your intentions a little too clear and cut and dry. Women like to feel like there could be a chance for something more....even if they know it's mainly about sex. If she is calling you an f boy... She gets that you only wanted sex and gave it to you but doesn't want to get sucked in. You're possibly making it too obvious to them that sex is their only option with you. You might need to be a little bit more vague and give them some comfort... Some p… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I keep running into the same cycle. They're super into me then they go cold all of the sudden, no warning. How do I react when they go cold? Is them going cold a shit test?So you're getting sex but they leave after? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How to get over that social anxiety and build mental frameYou just have to face your fears and then you will find the courage. You have to slay the dragon. The courage comes after you take the step though.... Not before. Do the thing and you shall have the power. You just have to step out on faith. Then do it over and over again. Things aren't as difficult and scarry as they seem to be in our minds. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like there are 10x more guys than girls in dating?Because your using the internet. Out in the world things are different. Come out and get some sun. Approach someone. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Am I a pussy for wanting to run away at 20?What the heck are you so depressed about at 20 years old | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Very reliable girl but she never initiates us meeting?How often do you see her? If you're very consistent in hitting her up and setting up plans... She has no need to initiate. If it's that pressing to you that she initiate take some time off from seeing her and wait until she contacts you first. I don't see any issue here. A king summons his concubine when he's ready. The concubine waits until summoned. As long as she doesn't flake and always makes herself available... this is an ideal situation. This is your ego driving you crazy. Thinking of the… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Blowjobs and sex advice, just hungry and lostThe problem here is your behavior. You need to dread her, and give her something to chase after. Want her to give you blowjob's........act uninterested in even having sex with her. Go out with the boys. She isn't searing you because now your just dad ...and your safe. The attraction has decreased. Nest time instead of asking for her to do it. Put your hand under her chin and tilt her head toward yours. Look her in the eyes and say " suck this dick" firmly. She will do it. Not..." Hey....you used… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining a soft next vs putting a feeler after a bit of a lack of interestDon't take her to the party.....don't bring sand to the beach. She could waste your whole night again and cockblock you from others. Ask her to have some drinks with you again at her place or yours...start the evening much earlier. if she agrees= try again If she says no, or counter offers a "date" = soft next She has one option with you. A rematch of the first night. If she isn't with it, move on. Don't let her try and pump the breaks and make you jump through hoops. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I keep running into the same cycle. They're super into me then they go cold all of the sudden, no warning. How do I react when they go cold? Is them going cold a shit test?Where are you meeting them. Are these tinder girls? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Plate wants Sex with girlsStep 1 stop betting for ltr Step 2 ask to be included with nother girls. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How to break a plateYou tell her the exact same thing you just told us in your question. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Crazy chick next door - to bang or not to bangGreat story! Did you call your friend a cute hahahah. Um....I think I'm in the camp of don't not Fuck. Maintain a loosen friendship with those chicks, and you can fuck one if her friends that comes to visit/ party later. The she can go home. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What was this?Eject!!!! And just because she said she was rapped, doesn't mean it happened. False accusations happen all the time and you might face the same dealing with this girl. What's your body count? Something a very promiscuous girl would say...and most likely a shit test. How did you answer? She face timed because she is unsure about you. From the vibe you gave off .. she isn't sure if you are an alpha or a beta. The FaceTime call was to make sure she is not about to waste her time going out with you. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 2 | LTR wants to break up because of rare datesBreak up with her. Not going out is just her excuse..women never admit that they just want to move on. Her threats to break up are just her practicing for the real thing. She just doesn't want to be seen as the bad guy. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 04:59 PM |
| 3 | I matched with the manager of my gymI used to think messing with women at the gym especially workers was a bad idea. Remember though....turnover at gyms is extremely high. I say go for it. At worst you just have to ignore her after. Make an agreement that you two will act like adults if, and when things end. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Might ghost this girl I’m meant to be meeting. Any advice appreciatedYup I have no problem with that. She would do it to you in a heartbeat. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you text right after hooking up?I would shoot her a text about half way through your trip. Shoot the shit for 5 minutes....remind her what day your coming back and set something up for shortly after you return. "Ok well I will be back Thursday, maybe we can meet up that weekend. (No firm day) " make the plan when you return if you want and if your both free. I don't like the plan dates more than a day or two in advance.... Just some light communication for maintenance. You're just letting her know that you haven't dropped off … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | I started weed because of this whole COVID 19 shit, not sure if bad?If your not sure if it's bad ......that means it certainly has not clearly been something that's good. Have you become a better more effective person at achieving what you want in life since you started smoking weed.....or have you moved more in the opposite direction. If it's not moving you forward, it's holding you back. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Are these too many red flags for a LTR?I couldn't even get past red flag number one. Jesus..... | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | When a girl you've fucked texts you "what are you doing?" is she tryna come over or just get attention?All that matters is what your trying to do. If she hits you up and you want to fuxk......ask to see her. If she doesn't make herself available to see you...then end the conversation. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:43 AM |
| 1 | How often do you lie to girls to fuck?😂👏👏👏👏 | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Might ghost this girl I’m meant to be meeting. Any advice appreciatedMan I can't blame you at all. Sometimes the sex isn't worth all the other bullshit that comes along with it. If you dont want it..... don't go for it. I think it does wonders for your self esteem to pass up on sex honestly. Taking women and pussy off the pedestal. Heck.....try a little experiment and tell her that your not into having sex right now. See what she says....it would probably be the first and only time she has heard that in her life. Getting turned down for sex. Kudos to you for real… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Do girls not realize that they're judged based on their looks rather than their achievements?These are women who are usually looking for relationships. So they are advertising what they THINK makes them a viable long term partner for a man. Of course nthese are women who are moving close to the wall or are post wall,.and should probably be avoided. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Should i hit up my ex's old friend?Worth the risk.....? What risk!? You don't talk to your ex. Who cares what she will think if she finds out. If you want to go for it, give it a try. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:23 AM |
| 2 | I got jealous about my now plate ex LTRNo...not maybe later......never. Those feelings will come right back if you decide to try and plate her later. There's millions of women in this world..... You should just look for some new ones. Once you have invested heavily in someone... You're not going to be okay with them sleeping around with other people most likely. This happens even with plates eventually for most guys..... You start to get attached to them. You would most likely be better off just starting with something fresh. Delete … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 10:44 AM |
| 1 | She almost never texts me first but always down to hang out and it confuses me big timeSounds like your getting feelings for this girl and need her to like you.....there is no reason to communicate with a plate in between times your having sex. Or at least the conversation should be minimal. If your getting sex on demand, it doesn't matter who makes the call.....you summon her, she comes(or cums). Sounds like how a man should want it. Take your ego out of things and stop worrying about whether or not she chases after you. You want sex.....your getting sex when you request it with … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Does a Pullback Work with Low-Interest girlsTypically no....pulling back will no raise the attraction of a low interest woman. Ask her for a face to face meeting of some kind. If she says no, or doesn't counter offer another day in the very near future, you cut bait and move on. you can't negotiate attraction. Texting back and forth is not going to raise her interest. Either she is into, or she is not. Pull back is for high interest women.....typically ones you are already sleeping with. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 10:27 AM |
| 4 | I got jealous about my now plate ex LTRIt's unwise to plate a woman you were in a relationship with.....as you are now seeing immediately upon trying it. I think the solution should be crystal clear to you at this point. Move on....delete her from your life. Find new women. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Has TRP lost track of itself?Trp is not a religion where everyone is encouraged to live the exact same way. It presents the truth of things, and with that truth, you decide how you want your life to go. The sub answers questions based on how others have decided they want their life to go. Typically those who ask questions are looking for strategies for making their vision happen, not to have the vision decided for them. Some still want to try relationships or marriage. Others want plates. Some men don't want to deal with wo… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 10:17 AM |
| 0 | GF no longer gets wet during sexShe is not attracted to you anymore. It happens. Maybe end the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 09:41 AM |
| 7 | Tinder "let's talk a little more before meeting"yesir this is the way. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Is frame really everything?Frame is how you manage the woman or women once you have them. it's not necessarily the thing that attracts them in the first place. Physical attraction is still King | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Friend of mine is in an online "relationship" with many red flagsDo nothing....... Let it crash and burn. People have to learn some way | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Is lifting for me?Yes it is | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Ungratefulness to the MAXI agree | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | When to ask her out?Yup that would work | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 3 | My roommate is an alcoholic and I'm looking for advice on what to do about it.Damn....well then that's even better. Kick the friend out. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 37 | Ungratefulness to the MAXAs sad as this sounds...intelligent ( or one's who think they are...is she honestly all that intelligent?)women don't make for good wives. When choosing a wife, you should look for a woman that knows and accepts her role...even over her beauty. You fell for her beauty....let's be honest. You would have done better with a Starbucks barrista.....no debt and likely more cooperative. Now you have an entitled woman who isn't earning enough, or now feels her debt is your responsibility. You should sta… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 14 | Ungratefulness to the MAXSheesh...man you should get out! It's not going to get better. What made you want to marry her? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 56 | Ungratefulness to the MAXDivorce!!!!!! Men need to treat marriage as modern women do....like a business decision... because that's what it is. She won't change her name until you add her to the house......why do you think that is? So she has more claim to it after you pay off her loans.and she divorce's you. She sounds like an entitled mess. Cut your losses and get out now while the hit to your wallet won't be as bad. You have no kids to fight over, or pay child support for. Go live your life as a free man and enjoy you… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | People get angry with me when I don't understand something right awayWow you are in for a treat then! Enjoy! Report back if you want. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:08 PM |
| 6 | My roommate is an alcoholic and I'm looking for advice on what to do about it.Have a talk with him man to man. If he doesn't correct some of his behaviors, it time for you to move. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | People get angry with me when I don't understand something right awayCasino Royale. 300. Fight Club. Tombstone. Gladiator. Oceans 11. The Departed. Casino. Heat. Goodfellas. Scarface. The Godfather. Rockin rolla. Sin city. Unforgiven. Hateful 8. No country for old men. The Revenant. Django unchained. Inglorious bastards. Resivuor dogs. A few of my favorites. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Got the phone number! Now what?Invite to your place | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | People get angry with me when I don't understand something right awayThere you go! Just assert yourself and follow your instincts. Allow the real you to come out. I used to be very much like you...much of this can go away with age and experience. Watch some movies of assertive male characters and how they handle these situations.. mostly older movies. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it beta to get a girl to introduce you to her friend instead of approaching directly?It's not super beta.....but it is putting her on a pedestal. That a guy from another college is so into her that her is trying to connect. Try asking your friend if you can go visit that school with her the next time she goes. Just because you want to check it out. Don't make it about the friend at all. Then gauge her interest when you meet her. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 3 | People get angry with me when I don't understand something right awayYou lift 5 days a week.....but do you have muscle? People pick on you because they can. It's that simple. Try staring them in the eye the next time the say or do something disrespectful....no words. Don't blink or turn away until they do. This sends a powerful message. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Is it beta to get a girl to introduce you to her friend instead of approaching directly?So you saw a picture of a girl you never met and thought she was cute.....now have decided to chase after her from far away.. Yes it's beta. At most....tell your friend you think the girl is cute....or tell her to invite the girl for a party or something. Why do you have a female friend anyway? Unless this girl is a 10...try and meet some girls near you. Approach them. If you friend brings the other girl around one day then you can try and chat her up. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 6 | People get angry with me when I don't understand something right awayGo lift some fucking weights. You need to build some confidence | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Shut test over text. Being called a bitchNext time your fucking her from behind....grab her hair and spank her...."so you like to call me a bitch huh?" Then wear her ass out. Leave her ass red from being spanked | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:28 PM |
| -1 | How to Start with MMA?Find a good gym....sign up for classes. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:25 PM |
| 6 | She says she feels bad for sending nudesA better reply would have been...." Very nice...lets get together Friday" "your mirror needs cleaning" is a shit response, and is the very reason why she now feels bad about sending the pictures. Put two and two together 🤦🏾♂️ Guys misinterpret rp info and take it way too literally. I know it's a classic common response.....but not for nudes. If your already sleeping with a girl and she keeps sending selfies for attention.....then yes maybe you respond with something like that. You need her to h… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Asked a chick out, she couldn’t make the days I suggested but she showed interest...Hit me up when your free is just fine for a low interest woman. Then soft next and move on with your life. If she was interested...she would offer a different day. A woman who actually has interest will have no problem reaching out to you when she is free. If she doesn't, it's only because she wasn't interested. This one isn't interested but is encouraging you to orbit by saying " I would love to!" ......do not orbit. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | When to ask her out?Text her.. ..it's not a marriage proposal. Don't do it front of everyone. Keep things discreet....show you can be private. high school girls will go far with you if they know you can keep your mouth shut. Everyone doesn't need to know that you two.kight kinda seeing each other. Talk to some other girls after the game. Show some social proof. Read the sidebar. Don't make it your goal to get in a relationship just have fun | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Very simple texting questionYou might meet another girl at the event.....social proof. Let her witness you in action that night and see if she shows some interest. Get some other girls phone numbers right in front of her if possible.....this is your time to shine. No better opportunity to have lots of women's attention on you than at an event you organized. Also....fuck dinner. It is a shit date idea, unless one of you is cooking it at each other's home before sex. I never do dinner with a woman I'm not already sleeping wi… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to gain 1cm length with stretching ?An Inversion table can usually add almost an inch of height be decompressing to disks in you back, but has to be done regularly. gains will be lost if not used continually. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Is it advisable to validate and give generous compliments to your plate/fwb?Use compliments sparingly and only when truly deserved. Like training a dog or a seal....they only get the treat when they behave correctly and perform the trick. Don't reward for the sake of rewarding. Use your compliments as a reward for truly great behavior. If your complimenting her looks....let it be when she wears some lingerie in the bed room, or truly makes herself look amazing. Not everyday outfits etc. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 01:07 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with guys trying to disrespect me in front of my gf or amogHorrible advice.....let's get OP sent to jail! | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with guys trying to disrespect me in front of my gf or amogDon't ltr a girl who has orbiters, or won't cut them off when she enters a relationship. Your relationship is completely in her frame. You should hard next this girl. There is only room for one man in a woman's life, unless it's family. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | LTR mad at me over girls on my feed, but has dozens of orbiters on hers.Do nothing....and next time don't spend time trying to figure out what's bothering her. If she isn't going to let you know then go on about your day. It's not your job to fix her mood. Next.....allow her to be jealous. This is good for the relationship. Don't agree to remove girls from your feed, or admit to anything being wrong with it. Use it as dread....although real girls in real life are a far better form of dread game. Flirting in front of her etc If she brings it up again, tell her " if y… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Girl has a boyfriend who lives 5h away and yet asks to hang out in the eveningDon't go on the walk....just invite her over. This will go a long way toward getting you your answer. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Newcomer to TRP, broke up with Ex GF after she revealed her past (24M)That shit would be a major turn off to me. You should hard next. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | When should i escalate into violence?Your the only one who seemed confused so again, it's you who lacks comphension skills. Meanwhile others upvoted, and no one disagreed. Everything I said was the absolute truth. Perhaps your in the wrong sub if you do. This isnt the beta simp sub. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue women with initial low interest?It's a "hell yes!" Or it's a no. Don't waste time on low interest women. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Can’t really seem to pull chicks on datesJust try talking with more women in general. Use that app as a last resort. Things happen best in the real world. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Long time reader, need advice if yall dont mindJust relax and try and enjoy yourself. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a kid when I talk to adults even if I'm 28; what to do?Talk to more adults more often......then you won't feel this way. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Can hard nexting sometimes be too much? Or it's always right in cases like this?I honestly would need to know more about what she did.....but if she did a lot of disrespectful stuff, its only because you stayed around too long and allowed it. At the first sign of nonsense, you should have been gone. I mean it's no big deal for you to tell her about herself. Next time though, just check out sooner. First sign of low interest in gone... silently. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 08:47 AM |
| 5 | Girls dont reply on TinderTry meeting women in real life | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Help! Alleged Sexual AssaultDamn this girl set you up....this was her plan all along. I would look for a men's rights lawyer and ask for a consultation. I would file a defamation lawsuit against her. A kiss on the cheek in not sexual assault. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | LTR ghosted me - surprising u-turnThis was a massive comfort test that you passed. Don't fail now....ghost her right back and move in with your life. On to the next, hopefully less crazy girl. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Ex girlfriend wants to plate herself, why?You should not plate her. Move on. She wants to keep her hooks in you. All the relationship drama will still be there. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Getting girls numbers is easy, but I can’t seem to get a first dateYour welcome! | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl explained that in her teens she was texting others while in a relationship (to feel untouchable)Look for someone who doesn't do this from the start. It's not going to change as they age. Those who like attention thrive on it, and some women need it much more than others. Dressing in overly sexual attire all the time would be a huge sign. Lots of makeup, lots of social media pictures etc. More reserved, conservative women do still exist. They are indeed hard to find. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Getting girls numbers is easy, but I can’t seem to get a first dateTry asking for a date when you first meet them(after talking for a bit). "Hey your kinda cool.. would you like to get a drink with me this weekend and continue this conversation? Ok what's your number, or...take my number. When you reach out, its merely to set the details for the date. Hey let meet on Friday a xyz....I'm going to be there around 9. Learn to better gauge whether a woman is actually interested and if you have some chemistry when you meet them. A woman will give out her number all … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | How would you respond to this tinder chick? Help me lock her down.It honestly comes down to the woman, and her level of interest. Many guys here are chasing after women with mediocre interest in them.....which leads to frustration. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | At what age did you start getting pussy with ease?18 for me....I was a virgin until 17 and then I figured it out. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Do any of you think some of the things in the side-bar are outdated?Name something specific.....but I would say no. Female nature has always been the same, and it's always going to be the same. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:52 PM |
| 0 | How would you respond to this tinder chick? Help me lock her down.There you go! | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Did anyone turn an ex gf into a plate?Don't let these women circle back to you. It makes you look weak, and like you haven't progressed since them. If for no other reason......have some pride and self respect. Aside from all the other issues.....I don't ever want a woman back that has been off dealing with other men. I just don't need sex that badly. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:48 PM |
| -1 | Little brotherDon't let the little pumk beat you hahhaha. Crush him mercilessly. You should be an ideal for him to chase and try to live up to. Teach him that nothing is easy in life and nothing is going to be handed to him. If he is anrgy.... good! That's where motivation comes from. If he can beat you for the next 10 years.....so be it. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.Beautiful!! Enjoy | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Passed shit test but still rejectedShe did yes...... But this is a perfect case study for why its said that you use text messaging just for logistics. That same joke in person or over the phone probably would have ended in her laughing. Through text it falls flat.....or your context is misunderstood | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.Yes I think you have haha. Being straight forward and aggressive can definitely work with women. That would have been a better approach from the start.... Instead of ending things.....be even more aggressive. sometimes women aren't quite sure where you're coming from...this can lead to them playing even more games because they don't know whether you're putting them in a relationship category or a sex category. so you basically came out and told her that you put her in a sex category and she is d… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.We have all been there at some point and in these days we live in, it can be very frustrating dealing with women's games when it's hard to even meet someone in the first place. Fucking covid. I have honestly done the same thing a couple times this past year with the lockdown. I didn't officially cut anything off with them..... I just soft nexted... And a few girls I even deleted and blocked their number.... Again not mentioning it to them. In this case though you had to clear in...... You just h… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | How would you respond to this tinder chick? Help me lock her down.I added a bit in and edit. Refer back to my first response. Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 6 | How would you respond to this tinder chick? Help me lock her down.Your work is done. Don't over game her. Ask for her number or give her yours and set up a date. If she refuses.... soft next. You have a few missteps in these text messages that could have been taken the wrong way. She is happily playing along though.... and it's not because you're laying down some great game. Her interest just SEEMS to be high. The more you keep talking..... The more likely it's going to be that you say something that turns her off. She says 8/10 You: ok well lets meet for a dr… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:49 PM |
| -5 | Why do attractive feminine women date other women?It's trendy to try out stuff like this. She will probably be back on guys before long. Then she can virtue signal about being part of the alphabet group..... | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.She was laying out the crumbs because she was enjoying the game.....sometimes you just have to play the game a bit. women feel better about themselves if they don't say hey come over and fuck tomorrow.... especially with a new guy. They like the game..... Honestly I'm not saying a completely lost situation. The fact that she wrote you back and said that she really liked you says something.... Try just apologizing and going at it again.... People often cool off after a couple of days. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 3 | why am I acting so autisticYou're dating a woman that you feel is better than you. you're walking around on eggshells because you think if you say the wrong thing she might leave you. Which in turn makes you end up saying the wrong thing anyway. she might also be reinforcing these beliefs through her own behavior....and lack of interest. You need to shake things up in the relationship. This has to do with your life. There's nothing happening in your life that's making you feel confident enough. You don't feel worthy of th… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 4 | why am I acting so autisticYes you do | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:31 PM |
| 14 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.Nudes and my house will be free next week is not good enough for you.....? Damn you do like to work fast... Honestly no you didn't handle any of it well. you should have just cut contact and soft nexted if she was driving you that crazy. women have to call and text and give reasons that they don't want to see you anymore..... Men just turn their backs and walk away. Especially with a girl you don't even have a relationship with. Again.... I don't see how nudes and asking you to come over the fol… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Dread vs ComfortA lack of comfort and panicking over the potential loss of the relationship would not make her distant. MUCH More detail is needed here. How did you resume the relationship.....was it "I love you baby please take me back?" If so...thats why she is acting distant. It sounds like at some point in this interaction you showed weakness ... That turned her off. Trying to manufacture some dread out of the blue is going to be an obvious ploy that she will see through. Just do nothing for now and let it … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Passed shit test but still rejectedOk that etxra detail makes a difference. She just wasn't interested, but she was willing to let you chase after her for a bit. Your humor was totally lost on her as it often is in text messages and she got angry. It sounds possibly like English isn't even her first language..... This one is just one of those things......I would advise you try meeting women in real life. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Passed shit test but still rejectedThis wasn't a shit test...it was a straight up rejection. You were likely just orbiting her, because she seemed straight up baffled that you would even asked her out . You did not make your intentions clear from the start, or make them sexual from the start. How long were you communicating with her? How did you meet her? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl if she's extremely introverted and has never been in a relationship?I would recommend you use the farm system. Just like in baseball, you put players in the minor leagues while they are getting more seasoning and maturing into players. Meanwhile you have your other players that are ready for prime time. So you put her in the minor leagues and slow game her while she matures. You don't give her an abundance of time or attention, and you focus on finding players that are ready for the major leagues. You keep her around in the background and have fun with other wom… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell my LTR I'm "rich"?You saved 200k a year removed from college? What do you do? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 01:04 PM |
| 21 | Do females really like being treated poorly, or is it rather that they are more likely to put up with mistreatment from somebody they are highly attracted to/ into?It's simple.....a man who doesn't care about how he speaks to or treats a woman must think he is above her. Women want a man that is above them, and this lack of carrying and brazen attitude signals that. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | quick question: is saying "I admire you" to my LTR a bad thing?I think it's bad .... because she wants to admire her man. Don't give her reason to start thinking about whether or not she admires you. This may end up in her looking for a guy she can admire. You don't need to be an open book for women. If you love her....you don't need to tell her. Admire her....don't need to tell her. Love and admire in your own mind. Telling women these things tend to.turn them off more than anything. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Broken plate trying passive forms to get my attention/boomerang back in?May e she just wants more of your money.....this is a reach. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Is smoking an alpha thing to do?An alpha wouldn't care About others opinions on him smoking or anything else. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?What do you like about her other than proximity? Would you miss, and hope to find another person like her if she were gone? She sounds insufferable. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Fucking Ex-Plates Sister. Lie or nah?If you want to sneak some pussy and have the whole thing blow up in your face after then go for it. I'm not one to judge....but this will not end well. She is not going to be ok that her sister was your plate most likely....on the off chance she is ok with it....that condition would likely in come with you telling her first, not having her find out later. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | What is the stupidest things women do to flirt?Calling us gay. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The more I lift the less women I attract?Maybe your coming off as a try hard....overdoing it..... | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Date idea, getting drunk and walking around town?If a woman is truly interested in you it doesn't matter what you ask her to do. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Finding that spot between simp and dickI think men often over analize their problems on here. What it boils down to is your pursuing women that just aren't very interested in you. You don't have to behave perfectly to get a woman. Stop chasing after girls that don't seem as excited to spend time with you as you are with them. Then you won't be wondering if you found the perfect ratio between simp and dick. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 3 | "I wouldn't cheat on you even if you stayed away longer"I think it was a low-key way to make you think that she could cheat so you would come home faster. This girl seems very manipulative and likes to play games. She also has an extreme need to be in control. I think you should leave her.....but not because she is cheating while you are gone. Though.....she seems like she would cheat and blame you for some dumb reason like "well you were gone too long." Sounds like she has some major narcissistic tendencies.....the sex is great but it usually is wit… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 3 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?Sounds like a great girl 🤦🏾♂️ | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | The best way to know if a girl is serious about meeting is asking for her numberThat's just one girl....there are always outliers. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | I want to be a rapper, but I fear that if I rap as the blue-pill loser I was for most of my past (especially at the start of my career) then that's who I'll always be to people. Should I just go forward anyways?Rappers traditionally become popular off of their skills.... Not about what they rap about specifically. There have been popular rappers that talk about all different sorts of things. just do you and don't expect that because you're doing something you enjoy you have to be incredibly popular or Rich. If you're doing it for the love of rapping just be authentic. if you follow the news or look on YouTube, a white rapper with tattoos named Tom McDonald has been very popular as of late rapping about… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you LTR a girl that was previously someones elses plate?No I would not Date a woman that was someones plate, and don't believe the nonsense that the guys on here spew that every woman has had a thousand dicks by age 18. Quality women are indeed much harder to find but they still exist. You likely won't find them on tinder though, or in a club or bar. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How to forgive yourself for behaving very creepy and being exposed publicly and handle the loss of reputation? Feeling down.You forgive yourself for making a mistake and move on with your life. you stay away from anyone that wants to remind you of your past mistakes. you decide to make better decisions in the future and understand that all humans are flawed and do dumb shit sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Found out plate was hitting on my exI don't think anybody else's opinion is really relevant here. If it bothers you then walk away from the skank. If it doesn't then keep having sex with her..... | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this correctlyYou have done well sir! You don't have to block her phone number but I would definitely remove her from any social media. you don't want to be staring at her images reminiscing about the times you had. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do they always come back?Yes always........ And I mean always. The ones who haven't yet come back.... still might. I just had my ex-girlfriend from high school try and rekindle a relationship after she divorced her husband. 23 years later 🙄🤦🏾♂️. With an extra 70 lb and three kids in tow. Meanwhile I'm looking at her 18 year old daughter like... I would date you.... But not your fat ass mom. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Friend of 20 years takes ex’s sideYour best course of action is to just move on with your life without any of these three people in it. It honestly sucks what happened.... But the great thing about it is you know where your relationship stands with John. Men get weak for women and for pussy..... He sounds like a bit of a blue pill jump anyway. your red pill life was always going to rub him and his wife the wrong way eventually. Cut your losses lick your wounds and move on. In the future make sure you keep your relationships sepa… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me I’m difficult to gauge + deep questions about my lifeShe's trying to gauge you because she is looking at you for a long-term relationship. Her thoughts may not have been towards a relationship in the beginning but your willingness to chat her up for a month before actually seeing her has put you in the potential boyfriend role. It's a good thing if you want a relationship. It's a bad thing if you're looking for a plate. at this point she is probably not going to accept just being a plate after you slow gamed her for a month. if that's what you wan… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | How best can I profit from universityWhat you should focus on is finding a good major that will pay you well when you leave University. Everything else should come after that. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Moving to new city no friends here. Live alone or roommates?A roommate should never be a goal. If you need one for financial purposes then fine. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | When should i escalate into violence?I'm sorry that you lack comprehension skills..... Please refer me to a direct quote from anything I wrote here that says there is ever a good reason to grab or touch a woman. What I said is that men take it as a sign that women are making themselves available when they dress slutty. That those were the types of women who are more likely to get this type of attention. I did not condone or say it was a good idea for anyone to touch someone. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | The best way to know if a girl is serious about meeting is asking for her numberIf she is letting you hit it then her interest is high. Had you given her your number, she would have reached out to you. Has you not chased after her, she would have reached out to you. you don't have experience in women chasing because you never give them room to chase.... | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Found out current plate potential LTR is still using TinderWhy would you think a tinder girl could ever be ltr potential anyway. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:46 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with judgmental family?You don't have to deal with anyone that makes you unhappy or uncomfortable. Even family. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:32 AM |
| 2 | When should i escalate into violence?This men are extremely few and far between. Your speaking about outliers. I have spent plenty of time in clubs and the main cause of a guy approaching a woman that came with someone is her throwing signals and slighly flirting with other men. Have had women flirt with me that came with guys tons of times. Have also seen tons of fights break out because of this. I have not seen large groups of guys just walking around grabbing women's asses. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:29 AM |
| 3 | The best way to know if a girl is serious about meeting is asking for her numberFlase! That's the whole point! You should be interacting with women that have high interest in you. A woman that wouldn't call you is not that interested. That's why so many of you guys are always posting shit about " I thought this woman had high interest!! What happened!?" | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | When should i escalate into violence?Yeah....its actually very true. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | When should i escalate into violence?Never said being dressed a certain way was a good reason to grab a woman..... however it is usually THE reason. The way a woman dresses is communication to the world. Women and blue pill men don't want to accept that as truth but it's truth. Its unlikely that you will see a woman dresses conservatively being grabbed. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Should I marry an older woman?Do you honestly think she will.narry you without an iron clad pre nup.....hell no. Do not marry. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | The Sex God Method claims that your LTR has no reason to cheat if you are the best fuck she's ever had in her life, is this true?I would place dread game, maintaining frame, and her always knowing your willing to walk away from her at a moments notice far above giving her the best sex. Hell pimps kept women in pocket without even having sex with them. Your attitude is most important. It's not if you the best sex.....it's if your the best MAN she has met. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 01:07 AM |
| 4 | When should i escalate into violence?Men don't usually do this unless the woman is acting out of pocket, sending signals.....or is dresses like a complete slut. In all three instances this would be your girlfriends fault, and your fault for lack of control over her. Men don't go grabbing on women and making sexaul gestures to women who are dressed and behaving with class and self respect. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | The best way to know if a girl is serious about meeting is asking for her numberI find this to be true. Although a number still doesn't gurantee anything, it's the closet thing you can get to direct contact with her. Although giving out a snap has become so common even a girl that's interested will sometimes do this by default. Its on you to refuse that and seek the number, or give her your number instead. My preferred method is giving a woman my number and letting her contact me if she is actually interested. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How often do I see ltr per weekI would say no more than twice a week. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How to be Fun at Parties?Work the whole room. Say high, ask a few questions and then move on. Longer longer if you have a spark with someone, leave faster if the seem uninterested. It not complicated By the 2nd or third person all of your anxiety will be gone. You don't have to try and be a fun person...just mostly be yourself ( within reason) keep the conversation light. No heavy or serious topics. Small talk chit chat. Hey what's your name.... Where are you from..... What's it like there..... What do you do for fun...… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | (Update, thank you guys) Girl says "I can't wait until we go out" the day before she posts "date night" on her story with another guy. Hard next?"Months ago I made it clear my intentions of where I wanted to take the relationship"..........jesus. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I stand out in a group of new people without doing too much?Go talk to people instead of blabbing about yourself.... Ask them questions. This is called working the room. spend a little time with each person just asking them questions and finding out information about them. before you know it you have met and interacted with every person that the party and have not done anything attention-seeking. better yet .....everyone including the women have seen you interacting with everyone at the party. This will raise your value and possibly make one of the peopl… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Finding hotter plate its only solution for not catching oneitis?The solution for not catching oneitis is to not spend too much time or direct too much attention to one woman. Always have a minimum of two women that you're directing your attention toward and ideally three. Finally do not spend too much time money or attention with said woman. Oneitis comes from too much investment | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Condom Disposal - How to avoid sperm stealing - Iron Rule of Tomassi #5Tie like a balloon..... put in Pocket.....throw out window on the way home. a homeless woman might sperm Jack you but she will never find you.... | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | LTR has gone nuts...Jesus..... So you met a BPD woman with extreme narcissistic personality disorder and you've been trying to change her ever since........ Run far away as fast as possible...... | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Can hard nexting sometimes be too much? Or it's always right in cases like this?Why would you have to tell her you don't want to see her. Just stop communicating with her. There was zero reason to give her a report on why you don't want to talk to her anymore. If she fucked your friend.....you can tell her to duck off. Flakes....soft next. No reason to burn the bridge on a flake. Anyway just move on...your likely in a dry spell and now the past seems so glorious. It's not. You will have better down the line. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Bad Sexual EpisodeDon't make is a big deal and she won't either | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | shit testing or she looking for an orbiter or both?I think you handled her shit tests pretty well. Just keep swating them away and escalating. Be sure to continue to not give her any non sexual attention. In response to her pictures. " Hit me up when your free" then soft next. When she reaches out again....your only trying to set a date(a drink). Keep that small talk limited. Your a high value man, with other options and no time for the run around. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Is a girl with too many hard kinks unfit for a LTR? Why?YOU want to be the one to introduce her to those things. I never understand why guys on here find extremely experienced women (whores)attractive for a potential ltr just because it the first time the had some good sex. Enjoy the sex, but you don not commit to these women or make them a big part of your life. Besides the red flags....do you honestly want to date a woman that has been pipes out by some many guys that she now has to be beaten and whipped to be properly aroused? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Plates become boring and clingy once in LTRDropping their friends and spending time with you is good. That means she is not off somewhere being convinced to suck another guys dick on girls night. Just don't spend all of YOUR time with her. There's a good balance that can be found....but a woman focusing her attention on you in a relationship is supposed to be what you want.... | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Ex putting herself in orbit.Just to see if you will come chasing after her. DON'T! | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What Am I doing wrong?Try to be more agressive when you meet them....push for more that same night....isolate.... escalate. If she won't allow herself to be isolated with you even for a few minutes, she isn't interested....don't even ask for the number. Move on to another target. Women will galdly waste your whole evening just to feel like a guy was chasing after them. A phone number should be a LAST resort. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Girls I date won't have sex with me.Your giving off a boyfriend vibe by dating them. That's why they make you wait. Meet for a drink once or twice and if they don't close.... move on quickly. Also be more agressive and act more entitled to them. Women can sense when you don't actually feel worthy of them. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Recommendation for BodyTry putting in more than two months of effort and get back to us. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Approaching at a universityIt's no one's business why you are there. Do you! If someone isn't paying your bills or sucking your dick, their questions are irrelevant. You're there because you want to be. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How to not give a fuck about anyone's opinion?It takes practice that's for sure. It's something that will come.more naturally with age and experience. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever overdosed on the Red Pill with a girl, and it backfired?What part about the red pill tell you to talk about past conquests with women? Don't blame trp on your mistake. It preaches the opposite of this. Your supposed to display high value and let them wonder.....never giving a straight answer even if they ask. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Met a woman last night, amazing chemistry, now blocked! Why?Went back to her Boyfriend | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Left the ball in her court and she asked when I’m free.. surely too early to lockdown a date for next week?I agree that arranging long in advance is a bad idea. It should always be a day or two away in my opinion. Make sure you set up an interaction that gives you an opportunity to escalate. Must be in the evening. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I'm paranoid my ltr is cheating on me with my room mate/long time friend.Dump them both. Don't wait or look for confirmation that what you think is true. If your suspicious....that enough to know that they aren't acting respectfully towards you. Flirting and shit. Dump both | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Ex gf still reaching outOnly read the title of your post. Block your ex and move on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How I respond to this ?Tell her your running naked through the streets. Agree and amplify. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | She said there's no spark anymore.Tell her you agree......no spark......not really attracted to her. Then watch her chase after you. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Am I still holding on to blue pill? Are AWLT?What are her red flags? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Girls crying in front of youCrying is an attempt to manipulate you. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | FWB dances with friend while drunk and almost makes out with himLet this be a lesson to you that men and women are not friends. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test or what ??Look up narcissistic personality disorder. Brace yourself. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 4 | A very special relationshipYour coming on too strong. She likely wanted sex and you think this is a "special relationship!" Cool your jets and back off. Let her come to you. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | My brother keeps teasing my girlfriend... how can I make him stop out for being a disrespectful fuck?The real question is why have you " brought your girlfriend into your family?" Why does he even have much access to her? Why is she spending so much time around your family? Seems like there's a fairly obvious and easy solution to remedy this. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | My country still has super strict quarantine laws... Have lost hopeStop stalking ex's social media. block her. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 5 | High interest girl I was talking to suddenly pulled back?Talking to????? Did you ever spend time with her in person? Women can seem to have high interest because they like attention. If she wasn't receptive to seeing you in person, low interest. If she immediately bailed because you wanted to take it slow....then her interest was not high. Also....you don't need to be so open about what you want. Make her work to find that out. Saying you want you take it slow is communicating that YOU want a relationship, not her.... | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | What are the basic IOIs?Ec is for woman to display interest in you. It's a choosing signal. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What are the basic IOIs?What makes you think that? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What are the basic IOIs?Eye contact is king. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 10:12 PM |
| -1 | LTR wants me to meet friends... Including guy friendsWhy are you dating a girl with male friends.... | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Reward or punish female jealousy?Anytime! | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Reward or punish female jealousy?You do nothing about female jealousy. The relationship only works if she has a reason to be jealous. As soon as a woman is not jealous she loses interest. If you give no reason to be jealous, she then starts to disrespect. Which is why she had no problem telling you about her side Dick. She didnt respect you. So do nothing....except trying to continue to make her jealous. She has a bit of respect for you now, and your seeing the difference. Enjoy it....foster it....revel in it. Keep her jealous … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:14 PM |
| 4 | How can I maintain frame when I’m too sentimental.How old are you? Much of this will naturally go away with age, and experience. Recognizing that there are things you want to change is the first step to changing them. Try and step out of your comfort zone, this will help to build your confidence. I was very much the same as you, but now I don't really care what anyone thinks of me. If you have a friend group....GET AWAY FROM THEM. When you meet new people you can start on fresh footing and be whoever you want to be. Remind yourself that you don… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked on getting drinks because of uni work, soft next or reinviteExactly because coming back around your friends with her is declaring to everyone that you guys are hooking up. Women these days are certainly easier to hook up with... that doesn't mean that they don't want you to be more discreet while doing it. Did you sleep with her? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 09:54 AM |
| 2 | About to break things off with LTR of almost a year, encouragement appreciated.<sup>this</sup> is the way! | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Not bait: Are women turned off by high bodycounts at a young age?Jesus.......why would you even need to tell them your body count? And no it does not turn them off. Women want what other women want. You should be a man that seems like he gets many women. You DO NOT confirm or deny with actual details though. Keep your private shit private. Don't be an open book for women. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:41 AM |
| 1 | How bad is it to go "MIA" around friends?You aren't married to your friends. Going MIA often increases the respect they have for you. Read the 48 laws of power. Do you, if you have other shit going on or don't feel like seeing them, so be it. People come and go in life. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with women apologizingWell how did you feel about the amount of talking she did? Womwn talk a lot when they are interested honestly, and you want her to.keep talking. You ask questions and let her do.most of the talking. Teasing can work...but I would just say " I didn't even really notice, let meet up next week. I will let you know when I'm free " | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend kept bragging about another guyDump that bitch. You CAN next her. Don't be a slave to some pussy. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl flaked on getting drinks because of uni work, soft next or reinviteHer coming to see you where she has mutual friends is also an issue. Its like announcing to everyone right from the start that something might be happening between the two of you. But like you said she is not a fuck yes, so moving on is wise. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I internalise TRP.Time and more experience. You learn to hit a fastball after you have seen it 1000 times. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you initiate a branch swing when she is basically giving you the green light but hasn’t dumped him yet?Details would help answer this question. What do you consider, the green light? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Not having social media, benificial?I have deleted all social media, and I'm better off for it. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Advice on hanging out with this girl and turning it into something more?Absolutely having female friends is blue pill as hell. You dont want to be her friend...but accept it as a consolation prize while she deals with other guys. Yes that's blue pill. Men and women are not friends. There's always one side pretending, that really wants something more. ALWAYS. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Friends avoiding me and deliberately not inviting me to hang out and I don't know why. [19/M]Use absence to increase respect and honor. Maybe it's time to move on from them and grow. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching a girl a second time?Your never approached her in the first place hahhaha. She asked you for help, and jts likely all she wanted.. but Yes approach for the first time when you see her again. Gym game works better this way anyway. Building some rapport first. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:08 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with women apologizingI swear some of you need instructions on how to go to the bathroom. Don't over think this. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Girl flaked on getting drinks because of uni work, soft next or reinviteSoft next....why would you invite her to go clubbing? That is where you meet women, not bring women you want to sleep with. Try something more simple next time. A night of drinking and clubbing is a big investment from her, for someone she isn't sleeping with. Meeting somewhere for a quick drink, or inviting her over to your plave even would have been better. Drinking and clubbing can throw you off your routine for several days after. Could be part of why she declined. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 08:00 AM |
| 2 | My Friend has Messed up a Key Opportunity. What do I do here?Stop going out with him. Maybe hang out and do other things or just move on from him. Do not continue to go out with him. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 03:09 PM |
| 3 | TRP way to turn plate into LTRShe has to ask first. That's the trp way. You become a man she wants to chase after and make her own. That she can't help practically begging for a relationship from. That way things operate in your frame, and you set the ground rules and conditions upon which you will enter into a relationship | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What traits do you think a "leader" of any kind should have? How should they hold themselves, and interact with others?I think most importantly, a leader sets an example first. If you want to lead, and be looked at with respect, you have to walk the walk. There's a reason that the leader on sports teams is usually its best player. Become the best player first. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How to score IG Models?Its easier if you meet one in real life. Cutting through the endless hord of betas chasing after her is near impossible. It helps though if you have a verified account. That gets attention. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Advice on whether to soft next or notHARD next. Why would you ltr a woman that you know was the plate of another man while you were seeing her. Where is your self respect? What level of respect do you think she will have for you.... knowing that you knew she was a plate. None. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Is buying a house a good idea? My reason for still living at home @ 25.I would say do stay at home and save.....but Don't buy a house. Save that cash and keep planning for the future. Use that cash for investments.....or if you do buy a property....don't live there. Rent it to someone else. The American dream is a scam to.make people batteries for the system. You dont EVER NEED to own a home. Stack that cash and flip it. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Plate Ghosted Plans Last MinuteSounds like she really only wanted to see if she still had access to you. Once you showed her that you had strong interest, she lost interest. Don't be so quick to welcome back strays. You want to display to them that your life is getting better and that your time isn't just an open book for them to jump in at any time. Next time make a woman who has been gone wait for an opportunity to see you. When she wanders back in, tell her your busy this week and will let her know if your free next week. … | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Avoid getting feelingsFirst...stay the hell off of their social media. This leads to a pedestalization of their currated content. Nex lint the time you spend with them, and the time you communicate with them. More time, more attention, more investment will to more feelings. Have your time together, then go your separate ways until you set up a time to see each other again. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Great chemistry, great conversation, lots of laughs. But she doesn’t text me back the next day?First you texted her way too soon....the next morning.....that's thirsty. A Should have let that breathe a few days. What did you text her? She just isn't interested. Women are spoiled for choice these days. Soft next and move on | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl (20F) ignores me (24M) after she seemed interested?It not that she is disappointed you didn't ask her out. That is just ridiculous. She just isn't interested. Women like attention....they live boring lives. She humoured you for a day and she moved on. You should not have sat with her so long that first time meeting her...that's thirsty, needy behavior. That puts pressure on her that another interaction is going to be super long.... and that you don't have other options. You basically had her locked in at her table. She might have been interested… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Is there anyting wrong with having a girlfriend?A relationship bcan certainly nslow down your life's progress as women take up a lot of time and focus. If I could do it all again I would spend all of my 20's only spinning plates and chasing my goals. Do whatever makes you happy though. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Tried to schedule something but she flaked, what did I do wrong?You didn't do anything wrong. Her interest just wasn't that high in you and she decided to blow you off. Just chalk this one up and move on. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Need advice about break up with LtrI'm not going to look at your screenshots. You're 16 years old and you should not be spending the rest of your life with this girl. Things just end. Look at it as an opportunity to grow and move on. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Can't last in bed, any advice?Kegels | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:57 AM |
| 37 | Nuclear ego hitStop keeping tabs on women you aren't seeing anymore | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Plate of 5 months leavesThat wasn't your plate....that was your girlfriend. a plate has to be treated like a plate to actually be a plate. Just calling a girl a plate does not make her a plate. She had a relationship with your family....... Seriously..... A plate is a woman that you use for sex and fun. She ran off because you kept behaving like you wanted something more than that. Just be patient if she might come back around..... But use this as a learning experience. there is no reason that a woman you are not inten… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | LTR keeps male friends doing favors for herIf she is ok with correcting the behavior...just make her get ride of the male friends. I don't think she is cheating.....she would be this open about getting rid of the guys if she was. So just left her know that you won't date a girl with male friends. Then she has a choice to make. Sounds like she will listen and do the right thing hopefully. If she says no, I would move on and end it. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I am still 'too nice', and see manipulative assholes around me score pussy after pussy by playing mindgames on insecure girls. Should I learn from them?Well just remember.. .. every story has two sides. Women often over inflate stories about guys. Just because you saw a few texts doesn't tell the whole story. If she is self harming..those are HER issues. That's not something a mentally healthy person does. They would just leave, or not be involved with that type of person from the start. I would bet he is not nearly as devious as you think he is. Did you ever talk with him about it and get his side? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Girls who like to dominate the conversation and talk nonstop with everyone. How do you handle ?You spend time thinking and observing. So many men here can't solve their issues because they don't do enough of either. When you speak less, what you say will carry that much more weight. It's feminine to be constantly blabbering, it's just what they do. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I am still 'too nice', and see manipulative assholes around me score pussy after pussy by playing mindgames on insecure girls. Should I learn from them?How do you know he does all of these things? Did he tell you? Blackmail to shut up about emotional abuse is quite an accusation.....can you explain that. This is a friend of yours? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I am still 'too nice', and see manipulative assholes around me score pussy after pussy by playing mindgames on insecure girls. Should I learn from them?Your problem is you think these "assholes" are manipulative but not the women they plating. most guys would love to be nice to women and get good results from it. It just doesn't work that way. Stop looking at women as he's perfect little angels that men manipulate. Women are far more manipulative than any man you have ever met in your life. So yes you should learn from them. I mean what the hell do you think the red pill is. You are here on the sub.... go read the manipulated Man by Esther vela… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | female desire, or what does actually turn a woman on?Physical attraction trump's all. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Plate has gone radio-silent after seeing me talk to other girls.Anytime! | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Plate has gone radio-silent after seeing me talk to other girls.Also....never bring up a relationship. The woman must ALWAYS ask for the relationship. Then you can set the rules and things can operate in your frame, not hers. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Plate has gone radio-silent after seeing me talk to other girls.Yup and either way.....it's not your problem, or your fault. So do not chase after her. Lay back and wait. Kick your feet up and relax. She WILL return. Maybe by then you won't even want her to....go talk to that other girl.... | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wants to know all of my whereabouts and activities on the days that I don't see her. How much should I tell her?Your allowing this relationship to run on her frame. That's the reason she even has the balls to ask something like that of you. You need to toughen up and act like the leader, not the follower. There is no reason you need to give reports to anyone, much less some woman. So yes definitely set the boundary that you won't be reporting on your movements. Sounds like a comfort test to me. You do what she says and you fail the test. A guy who follows what his girlfriend asks quickly becomes boring an… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Plate has gone radio-silent after seeing me talk to other girls.Just be patient and wait for her to come back. Do not reach out to her again. She will feel competition anxiety kick in and come back vying for your attention. It sounds like you were merely talking to another girl. I don't see the big deal here. If she is not your girlfriend, she has no right to be jealous. Keep pursuing others in the meantime. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Recently divorced my wife. How can I combat these feelings of jealousy?Anytime! | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Has a female friendship ever fizzled out because you opened up about problems?First....why would you be friends with a woman? Next.....women don't care about men's feelings. When you are a woman's friend you are essentially HER girlfriend. It's all about her. There is nothing especially interesting, or useful about having a woman as a friend anyway. Cut your losses and move on | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it that bad being the "stable" option for women if you are able to elicit arousal from them early?So deciphering through what you're actually saying.... You want to date younger hotter a girls. if you have everything going for you that you say.... that should not be a problem. Are you actually pursuing younger hotter girls? In what way are you pursuing them? Young women like older men...but I think you're more comfortable approaching and talking to the class of woman that you're currently having. you're not stepping out of your comfort zone to go after what you want so you now think that the… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 63 | Recently divorced my wife. How can I combat these feelings of jealousy?She can get laid easier RIGHT NOW....but all that will change soon. Things will be much better for you long term. Jesus man she had like an exact diagram of every red flag to look out for..... I'm glad you got out of that situation. stop worrying about who she can get sex with, you should just be thankful that you made it out relatively unscathed from your divorce. Stop placing sex in such a high regard. So she can get men to sleep with her.... Almost any woman can, it's just the way it goes. Th… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | How come hypergamy can't get them the man they want?Disney and society have given women unreal expectations. Even the grade school lunch lady thinks she deserves a millionaire with ripped abs, a 10 inch dick, and the culinary skills of a five-star chef. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How did you find out about TRP community?Snoop dog. Doggy style album. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Can’t decide what to doI think it's worth it for your freedom, but honestly I would take which ever position that is best in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Does love from a women exist for a man?Absolutely.... And I would attribute that to a high level of physical attraction. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Does love from a women exist for a man?I would add that women love the status you give to them in the eyes of their friends, family, and society. Not to say to the man has to be rich. But a woman is only seen as being as good as the man she can't attract. Man status can come from his career, attractiveness, and his value to her life. She wants to be able to brag about her man in some type of way... And have approval from others. as we already know they don't just love us for WHO we are. They love us for WHAT we are. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't follow or post her bf on social media?Simple. She hasn't posted him because she's advertising herself for a potential upgrade or some side dick. You could have been the side dick until you started talking about your feelings. She didn't feel guilty.... she was worried that you wouldn't be able to handle it if she gave you some because of your "feelings". | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:28 PM |
| 4 | What's her motives?I realized you weren't in bed. ....and yes not being aggressive when a girl is throwing herself at you can make you look and inexperienced. I'm not saying you did the wrong thing, I can certainly understand not wanting to fool around with a girl who is drunk. I'm just letting you know how it might look in her eyes most likely. What you were thinking what she was thinking are two different things. If she keeps refusing to see you or be alone with you just move on. At this point it doesn't matter … | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Can’t decide what to doWhich job sets you up better for future opportunities? I would say go with a consulting job because it will get you out of your comfort zone, and most importantly out of the house. You will make more money. You'll be able to do tons of networking and meeting new people which is essential when you're starting your career. if you're an analyst you're likely going to be stuck behind a desk somewhere day after day. Consulting could help to set you up for the rest of your life because you're going to… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | What's her motives?She is not interested. Your giving way too much importance to to a drunk encounter. Very often times women will give you 1 shot, and if you mess it up they loose interest. She probably wanted a more experienced guy and since you showed yourself not to be one, she assumed you will not be aggressive in every other encounter. Especially if the two of you ended up in the bed. Chalk this one up to a missed opportunity. We all have lots of them. You will get the next one. Soft nest like you said and s… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about video games?Gammingnis like alcohol. It can be ok if done responsibly....it just atha most people are no able to control themselves and use moderation. If you schedule certain time periods...this can help. Even if you take 3 weeks off and then have one big gaming weekend. Something like that. I do think it's far better than wasting time on social media and perhaps even better than the rabbit hole of youtube. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Pandemic oneitis, attachment and neediness...Stop focusing on one woman at a time. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 10:03 AM |
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