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You shouldn't be shook by her trying to make you jealous, but that doesn't mean you can't judge her for it. Whenever a girl does something like this, it reduces the cap on the level of commitment she can ever get from you. I wouldn't want the mother of my children to do stuff like this. Also "exclusively dating" isn't a thing. The boundary between a fwb and a gf/bf is the exclusivity. You not acting coochy-coo with the bitch ain't the deciding factor here. The fact you aren't pursuing other wome…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:06 AM
2

· Why playing the love/sex game is funnier and healthier than being alone (for her)? You think these hoes are single? Most bitches worth fucking ain't alone.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 10:12 PM
5

I specified beholden to a drug. There's a difference between enjoying something and being a slave to it, and OP is implying there isn't a path forward that isn't beneath the boot of a substance.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:34 AM
15

I don't accept your premise that you have to be beholden to a drug to get through life. Your ancestors almost certainly survived far more miserable existences.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:03 PM
-3

Had a text convo Already fuckin up
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:41 PM
1

You hide it from women you wanna fuck/want to see you as a man. Also men don't kill themselves because they hide the emotions. They do it cause they're in a life they don't think is worth living.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:35 AM
2

you've got too much tard energy to pull it off.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:59 PM
2

Seems like the type of bitch that's testing how much she can give you the run around. Not sure if she's actually a flake or not, but sounds like she's an annoying bint. With girls like this, I think there are only two real options: You keep playing it like you're playing it until she stops fucking around and just makes it easy to actually set something up without any bullshit side comments/excuses. Eventually she might get tired of her own bs and act right. If she never does, she'd be too high m…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:45 AM
1

thinks she’s just a booty call This is her devaluing what ya'll already have. By not denying the claim that being your booty call is something small, you've already fallen into her frame. But denying that without the plate breaking takes some finesse. What takes less finesse is just outright b.sing a bread trail of potential commitment. I told her not to answer no calls or talk to any guys while she’s over here. Kinda faggy. What, you think you're gonna touch ball sacks over the phone? She's lit…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:13 AM
4

Realized that I find spinning plates and random ONS kinda meaningless Wasn't supposed to be meaningful. Was supposed to be fun. Deriving meaning from women is a lost cause.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:13 AM
1

Fwb without the benefits.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:12 AM
3

Juice is clearly not worth the squeeze here. There's a lot of unchecked arrogance on this bitch's part that makes her okay with just sucking your commitment dry for a year or more without ever satisfying your needs as a man. Don't get it twisted, it's probably your fault though. You're probably super coochy coo with the bitch. can’t leave at the same time. Yeah you can, you're just too much of a simp to do it.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:00 PM
209

Go for having a good time rather than hoping for one particular outcome.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:48 PM
1

Gilf fetish probably.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:47 PM
2

If you didn't make an impression before getting the number, don't be surprised when they're squeamish.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:43 AM
2

If you didn't make an impression before getting the number, don't be surprised when they're squeamish.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:41 AM
-1

Didn't you post about this already? Why are you being such a faggot about this issue you have
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:12 AM
14

You get used to it. The fact of the matter is, this all stems from you not usually fucking hot bitches, so you're not used to what happens around hot bitches. It's also an objectively feminine frame to attach your value to what anyone other than you does. Nothing she does with another man ought to be relevant to your ego. As for the other men "not respecting" you. Mannnn. They're just other soldiers out there trying to get their dick wet. That's just not being used to people coveting your shit. …
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:47 PM
1

Fixing diet did more for me for that type of shit than anything else.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:57 AM
2

Most blue pill shit I've heard on this site in forever. Literally claiming reality doesn't matter. "Just a mindset." Lmao Enjoy that fake matrix steak buddy.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:17 AM
1

Thanks for being the perfect test-tard to prove my point. If Brad Pitt or whoever fucking guy at the top of the pyramid has his "head on a swivel checking out every piece of ass," he doesn't stop being Brad Pitt, doofus. Being alpha isn't a sexual strategy. Just makes him blue pill. Sorta like you.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:36 AM
1

So you polarized with 5 women. Jsyk that's basically 3 days of effort max.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 06:29 PM
7

Sounds like they enjoy pussy, and enjoy expressing that sexuality. I don't know in what world that is beta. You and a bunch of the other losers in here who like to shit on other men are conflating blue pill and beta. Beta= Low on the hierarchy. Blue pill= Doesn't see the world for what it is.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 06:17 PM
-8

Actions. You sound like an insecure faggot btw.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:26 AM
5

Cause it was never about you fucking her friend. It was about control, and she didn't even know it was about that until she had it. Being willing to accept the premise that her feelings are a good reason for you to sacrifice for her is admission of a degree of passive commitment. She got her victory, and then cashed out her winnings by retconing the idea that she could be jealous about you.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:22 AM
1

Text that you'll be a bit late before you walk out the house. Lack of response= Hard next. Response telling you she's flaking= Reschedule/Next depending on tone of response. Confirmation that it's still on is self explanatory.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:43 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 02:14 PM
1

we've hit it off but she doeant want to meet yet. "not meeting" and "hitting it off" seem mutually exclusive. have you even heard her voice? If you haven't seen her in a non-picture, I'd pin this on her having gained weight during quarantine or something, and being concerned about that. Could easily be sending you old nudes, or even be a cat fish if you've yet to actually see her in motion.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 08:56 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:18 PM
1

Nah, that's amazing medicine for a girl like this. She'll think twice before making that particular complaint again. Granted might be helping another soldier out in the field and not you, but that isn't a bad thing. I'd probably respond calling her a drama queen, and assume I'm not hearing anything back, but that's my vibe. I call bitches out. I'd say for most people just no response or "K." lol
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:08 AM
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Yes. Staying with the bitch will just remind you of mistakes you made and make you stagnate. Also girls just want that so that they can ween themselves off of you without their weak ass frame being shook. It's an in-between point for transitioning to another cock, assuming she's not already bouncing on a new one. Also might just be to give her time to get promoted from plate to gf without feeling adrift.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:58 AM
1

Any attempt to make a complaint via text gets a joke. If she calls me out on deflecting everything with jokes, she gets told my policy. I don't take complaints via text. If she ain't serious enough about an issue that she can't let me hear the emotion in her voice when she says it, then I don't care either. If she goes as far as coming correct with an issue, right tone of voice, then I'll usually just address it. Usually I don't recommend explaining yourself to a ho, but if I sense shenanigans, …
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:54 AM
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imagine becoming exclusive with a notch count of 2.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:31 AM
7

Think it's understandable. Guys crave variety.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:30 AM
1

At your age, I think that reaction is par for the course. Especially with the bitch who took your virginity. IMO this sort of reaction is a result of not understanding what a woman's purity is. Your reaction only makes sense in the context of elevating pure women the way some of the undercover blue pills in here do sometimes. To be totally clear, there is a difference, and it does matter, but the anxiety you have over it is a consequence of typical blue pill idolatry of women. The logic isn't ba…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:20 AM
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I wonder why pair bonding for life at the age of 20 wouldn't be the most exciting experience ever. One can only ponder.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:55 PM
1

It was obvious from my first reply that I didn't care to answer his question for reasons that should be clear by now in this thread. If that rustles your jimmies so much, go ahead and report it.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:04 PM
1

The only place in the world where you don't have to play the game is a battlefield. You can change the flavor of game from "PC" culture to say, sharia culture, or asian culture, or maybe some eastern european culture, but so long as people are talking and not killing, there is a POLITICAL game, and a CORRECT way to play it.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:36 PM
1

You don't understand what playing the game even means, do you? Look up Machiavelli. Maybe read a book.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:27 PM
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You're oversensitive. She probably does do shit that needs checking (as all women do,) but your radar is shit. You don't have enough experience. You know how to fix that. “oh ya i’m sure it’s hard not to 😉” Why would this piss you off? It's flirting. You mad you validated her and she didn't validate you back? If that's the case, you're a loser who dabbles in covert contracts. so i’ve been acting normal, but texting her way less. until she hit me with this You're a tard. You were upset, applied d…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:22 PM
1

Failing to attack my point. Political correctness on the individual level is about virtue signaling. Virtue signaling is an action based in a desire to broadcast something about both your position on a hierarchy, and the values of said hierarchy. It is a social game, and failure to play it properly proves you're a social retard.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 05:48 PM
2

Had super strong sexual chemistry right off the bat. Polarizing early is good, but in my experience going too hard sexual in text convos before first date will backfire in the logistics planning. It's better over phone or video if at all. The only time I've had this result in a non-flake is if I wasn't planning on fucking the bitch to begin with. As a result of my not giving a fuck, I'd never ask about logistics altogether cause the bitch was just someone I'd text dirty shit to. Eventually she'd…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:31 PM
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A girl typically shit tests because she wants to have fun. That's the conscious side of that. She's poking your frame to see if it breaks, and doing that is a good time. When you start to fail is when she does it consciously to break you if she's a cunt. If she isn't a cunt she'll just give you the cold shoulder/treat you like a toddler or invalid. The unconscious side of this shit test is your reaction says a lot about your place in the social hierarchy, and bitches are sensitive to that stuff.…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:20 PM
2

Learn to play the game. Political correctness is just one big shit test where people burn each other at the stake when they prove they don't know how to play.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:48 PM
2

What a faggy frame The whole point of shit tests is to weed you out if you can be shook by a little girl. You're so shook by them that you're looking for ways to avoid them outright. Here's how. Find an ugly bitch with low self esteem who was probably going to die without a single fuck.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:08 PM
1

Must be nice to have so few obligations that you have time to think about a random ho.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:05 PM
2

Would you choose to move in with her again, given what you know now?
/r/askTRP12/06/20 04:49 PM
1

You going to tell us why you have no money and a shitty car? Oh wait, if you did that, it'd be obvious what you have to do.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:00 PM
4

Are you getting anything out of living together?
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:41 PM
1

red-pill tactics (dread) don’t work even if there is attraction. I resent this idea that its just a tactic. It can be a tactic, but that's not the strongest frame for applying dread. Withdrawing attention because your attention is better placed elsewhere is always going to be better than withdrawing attention to try and get a bitch to chase it. Anyways, it doesn't "work" for any number of reasons that amount to her maintenance being too high. There are a lot of reasons that could happen.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:27 PM
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"So. Why haven't we ever fucked?" And just have the conversation, ideally in a cocky-funny way. Don't force the conversation. If she tries to escape it, let her. Don't be solemn about it. Just ask like you were wondering why ya'll never bumped uglies. Don't hedge it by asking if you can ask a question. Don't be like "So I was wondering blah blah blah." Just ask. If you text this to her you're a fag and I hope your balls shrivel up on some egyptian plague shit. In person, or not at all. Do not un…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:11 AM
3

Nah a girl will just toss shit like that out, especially if its worked once or twice. Girls have boundless courage over text, it's part of why text game isn't worth investing too much into. They'll say shit they could never say over a phone call, video call, or in person, cause we'd hear their squeeky voices act all cunty and laugh our asses off. Obviously higher SMV reduces that shit, but it isn't the reason it happens. A shit test isn't a sign of low SMV.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:40 AM
2

Only time I got dick problems is when I'm on a heavy cut, and if I'm trying too hard to please the girl I'm with and not myself. IE: Too much one sided foreplay cause I don't wanna accept I put in all this work to get this bitch into bed and she turns out to be a shitty fuck.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 12:44 AM
2

You are only able to think about these things because of the luxury you live in.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:50 PM
8

They send it to like 20 people. I usually bite once just to briefly make some shitty small talk. The first time you answer something like this, she'll usually invest a little bit, as she's still figuring out what you're like. Then I respond to shit like that sparsely from there on, basically only as a lead-in to starting a phone call/video call to build a path towards meeting n fuckin. I don't bother if I'm not feeling the interest though. Like if it's just a shot in the dark, I have better chan…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:42 AM
1

You don't feel like you deserve better than a girl like her.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:33 AM
1

They're probably giving you shit just to give you shit. I doubt if you pinned them down and asked them if studying is for losers they'd actually say yes. Get over yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:18 PM
4

This question comes from this bitch's frame and I resent you for asking it. Pushing is just shit like you're making out with her, and then you initiate the stop. Or you make fun of her about some shit she isn't insecure about (doesn't even have to be true). Or you have a witty comeback. Body language of a push is generally turning away from her. Good teasing is always a sign of social intelligence if you really wanna fucking make it about that, but that's not why a bitch likes it.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:14 PM
1

There are a lot of reasons YOU would be disgusted. IMO the most common reasons for giving a shit about this: STD knowledge. Objectively higher chance you catch a disease. If you never learned about STD's, the empirical foundation for giving a fuck about this would be weak in our evidence based society. Cultural norms: If your guy friend gets with a loose bitch, you immediately think less of him. Edit: Felt this could use more clarification. Guys who fuck loose bitches often get pinned as guys wi…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:49 PM
8

I chew women out for suggesting what I have to do. I don't believe in changing at a woman's request. They never respect you for it. They will take credit for your new behavior, and they will be disgusted by it. Ever heard "I want him to just know!" That's not to say there isn't any advise from women that is useful. They're pretty good at picking out clothes. They're useful for fucking OTHER women. Bad precedent. They are never right. A woman cultivates a frame around their current emotions. They…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:15 PM
1

Yeah it's the way a girl acts when she starts to tear a man down. Shit's definitely lost when it reaches that point. Only move from there is to exit. If you reconnect with her it has be while you have a plate (potential plates doesn't count,) or she'll just drag you back down. It's the journey for them. They find a guy they like, they break him, and then they move onto another guy the moment they've broken him enough that they won't regret dipping. The alternative for them is being alpha widowed…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:11 AM
1

Like you make a joke, and she gives you shit like "you know you're not funny right?" And maybe you fail the shit test or even if you don't, she's holding frame on it cause you ain't throw her in the trash for it. As a consequence, cause you like the bitch, maybe you tell less jokes and develop your humor less because of it ie: stagnate.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:02 PM
2

Fair enough. If you believe in this programming thing and have a roadmap for how it might play out, that's fine. (IE: It isn't just some "ok im gonna know the coding language and then ill be a programmer.") GL at your interview.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:31 PM
2

Definitely not someone you want to be the mother of your children, nor do you want her to be the only chick you fuck cause she's probably gonna fuck other dudes. Could be an okay mattress. Like she's mouthy, but that's just something you can use as practice. Good plate, maybe FWB material if you can tame the cunt in her. If you can't ever seem to manage her, and the oneitis becomes a problem, dump her just for the sake of avoiding her causing you to stagnate. You'll know the oneitis is a problem…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:22 PM
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You don't work out enough. Every day something physical. Even on rest days you should be stretching. Should probably go back to college or join a trade school realistically. "Just started learning programming" sounds very wishy washy as a stranger who doesn't know you. At minimum you should get a job, even a shitty job. It doesn't sound like you have any actual obligations, which is what the above 2 suggestions are to amend. Guessing your diet is trash.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:16 PM
1

You sound like a little bitch.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:08 PM
2

Eh, probably NRE (new relationship energy) dying a bit or more likely a shit test. Maybe losing out to her NRE with some other guy. It'll be more easy to know what's what later. I'd just give her time to miss me, and then hit her with a plan to do some fun stuff after a couple of days since the last contact. When I was younger I used to think if I wasn't talking to a girl every day, I was leaving something on the table. Later I realized it's way more fun to talk to a girl every half-week->2 week…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:54 PM
4

Listen to some jocko willink.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:45 PM
1

Sports counts as working out. Reduce lifts a bit in favor of it.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:43 PM
4

Getting tingles for another man, and no fear for the consequences of losing their current man.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:05 PM
1

mashallah This means congratulations/wow/good job. Don't say that when you walk up to them, unless you specifically mean it to complement them for what they're wearing or some shit. salam aleikum Should do it. They MIGHT think you're a white guy being weird, but should be easy to clarify. Being able to speak arabic would also help. Particularly with proper pronunciation. Mentioning going to the mosque to pray or talking about ramadan in small talk would also broadcast it. (Idk if you're a muslim…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:57 PM
2

Talking about the girlfriends you cheated on her with before. Who gives a fuck if a bitch is wrong or right? Idk why you're even coming here for moral judgements. It's petty for sure, but frankly I get the energy she's coming from way more than I understand you thinking you're entitled to any honor or respect from ho's you get caught lying to.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 09:32 PM
10

Morally? Yeah. Sounds like you buy into your own bullshit which is pretty brain dead too. I'm not gonna knock the baiting bitches with LTR as a tactic, but you're a dumb motherfucker for being somehow surprised when these bitches find out and get mad. Which I guess fits because it's even more retarded to then beg back a bitch who took revenge on you for cheating. Begging for any bitch is already one level of stupid. Begging back one who tried to fuck with you after the fact is a whole other leve…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 09:22 PM
3

I see you're just gonna be vague as fuck for no reason, to the point that you're going to reference Tyson fucking Fury like that clarifies anything for anyone, instead of just saying what she does. Say what she's doing that's pissing you off.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:44 PM
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No. More relevantly, it's always bitch-made to crave the attention she gives to orbiters too.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:23 PM
4

What the fuck does struggle with low mood even mean? Say what she's doing that's pissing you off. Or are you so stuck on her having an alleged N-Count of sub 5 that you don't wanna admit she's periodically a cunt? Hell, maybe she isn't a cunt and you're just an easily annoyed retard, but how the fuck is anyone gonna tell you if she's dump-worthy if you don't explain what the fuck she's doing wrong?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:04 PM
1

Yeah guess people better not invite a girl to their house without suggesting her friend come along?????? Don't be a pussy.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 06:58 PM
2

The older you get, the less weirded out girls get. Realistically it only matters if she was still at the point where she's figuring you out. Like if she's not only on the fence but leaning on telling you to fuck off, that might push her over the edge, but once a girl's interested she won't give a fuck about any of that shit.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:14 PM
2

Whenever girls are wishy washy, just reply back with what they said. IE: "I'll see." "You'll see?" If she doesn't give something more firm, either don't answer or immediately roll with something along the lines of, "You seem busy, let's figure it out another day." You can put a little more bravado in if it's a phone call though, and say something like "We're both busy people blah blah blah," but over text i'm not a fan of schemes that are too deep. Then either hit her up in a couple days (4 seem…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 03:57 PM
4

ASD. Look it up in the main sub.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:44 PM
2

Beholden to the actions of others. IE: Not happy unless someone does x, or y. Makes you toxic. Can only control yourself. No excuses. Can. Only. Control. Yourself. Plan accordingly. Or don't. I like bitter and angry people tbh. But if you want to stop, that's what needs to change in your approach.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:38 PM
1

Too invested in a bitch you only met once. Shit's creepy bro.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:36 PM
1

Higher SMV than your hand for sure.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:34 PM
1

Me and you both know the only reason you did that was because you were afraid she'd say no out of fear if you wanted her to come alone.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:16 PM
4

Rioting makes you look poor and stupid.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:19 AM
2

and if she wants, to bring a friend. You're so afraid on a bitch's behalf. Like you think everyone assumes you're a rapist or some shit.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:01 AM
3

She's obsessing and is uncomfortable. The moment you take her back, she'll be comfortable, but she won't be happy. She'll realize that, and she'll lead the relationship on until she finds a branch to swing on. Once she does, she'll be able to end the relationship on her terms. Just tell her that isn't a good idea, or don't respond at all. Don't rub it in, you'll just feel like a shitter later for pointlessly being a dick, unless you're a sociopath in which case go ahead idc. Don't take your own …
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:56 AM
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They don't like it. But girls don't want to like. They want to feel.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:53 AM
1

"Being affected is unattractive" is a stronger claim than "being unaffected is attractive." Sure, if you don't respond to something, a girl's hamster might work her up, but in my experience that's only if she's already obsessed over you/invested on some level. Guys who are affected by everything are annoying. They look like they have a panic attack when you call their name, turning to face you at mach 7. You ask them a question and they never give you a simple answer, so you start to dread needi…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:52 AM
3

So when I was younger I had a smidge of shopping addiction. Nothing serious, but in my teens while my siblings saved their $300/month allowance and bought cars in two years, I not only had 300 or less in my bank account at any given time, but I was usually 500-1000 bucks in debt on my credit card. Here's what got me out of that mindset: If you don't already have it, try and learn to enjoy watching your savings go up. Learning to enjoy the pile of money grow is what converted me from a spender to…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:09 PM
1

She's post-wall. Any of the guys who don't have that shit, even the beta dudes, generally want a younger woman than 30
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:25 PM
0

Yes, you're too sensitive.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:36 PM
1

Virgins are not the best practice, but you get practice wherever you find it cause you talk to everyone. The way it goes is she inches her boundary a bit forward with one guy until she gets sick of him, then pushes that boundary further with the next guy. If the SMV difference is far enough, she'll push that boundary hella far and do whatever to try and keep him around. Realistically she isn't gonna be a great plate, so get that shit outta your head. Even if you get her to put out TOMORROW, she'…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:53 PM
1

Hold frame. Let her hamster do the arguing. Not be in a position where you need to win an argument with a woman you're fucking by having other women you fuck.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:03 PM
6

There aren't any parties worth going to that have 17 year olds. But yeah, SMV too low. Raise it.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:27 PM
2

Sounds like she's lying to impress you? Should already be assuming all bitches lie anyways, so this shouldn't be much of a revelation. Just don't put yourself in a position where you need her to tell you the truth (IE: LTR/condomless sex/etc.)
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:16 PM
1

I don't understand why her going to a protest has anything to do with you. Because she didn't listen when you told her not to go or some shit? Idk why you gave a fuck to begin with. If it's on that whole symbolic "but muh sacrifice," then you're virtue signalling just as hard as her because realistically her going out is not the make or break here. If it's so divorced from your values or some shit, then I guess check out of the relationship and find some other bitch when the pandemic dies down. …
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:13 PM
1

Go with the flow is usually code for "I don't know what I want. I don't know what makes me happy." Chaos is usually the end result. Ofc sometimes chaos IS what you want. What's life without a little chaos? But unmoderated chaos ain't what bitches want. For them that's a roller coaster with no bar. They just want the roller coaster. They don't wanna fly to the moon. Anyways, regarding the girl. Here's the reality, any nice bitch you might meet is just at the start of their journey through life. A…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 12:58 PM
2

Past consumes only people who aren't concerned enough with the present and future. Solution isn't to stop thinking, it's to have something better to think about. If you have time to ponder for long about past shit you did, you're not doing enough now.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:34 AM
1

Yeah, all girls are either free at the days you specify, or they're attention whores. Retard.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 12:38 AM
1

How do you know its cause she was ugly?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 11:17 PM
2

Your task at hand isn't exhausting enough.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 09:32 PM
1

I know more 5'7 guys who kill it than don't. Not only that, but most of them barely work out, and the ones that do do even better. Granted I don't hang out with losers, so maybe don't be a fucking loser.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 08:52 PM
2

Not worth poisoning the friend circle by spinning this FWB to the absolute brink. I'd tell her something along the lines that I don't think we see eye to eye, and then basically start making a break-up speech. I'm a fan of Uncle V's usual go-to tropes. You can find it in his comments. (I'd link you but I don't fucking remember how to spell his username.) Basic jist is to break it off on some "I want the best for you" shit. Sounds like you got oneitis a bit, so shouldn't be hard to do the method …
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:14 PM
2

I'd just give well wishes and keep it friendly and short, then hit her up when it's actually possible to set a date. Maybe if I felt like I needed to pour some oil onto the fire, I'd tell her to send me pics or some shit just to polarize. Edit: Ofc, if she's hard chasing overtly, then I might do something else. But realistically just being chill and low investment is what I'd go for in most of these kinds of situations.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:00 PM
8

Eh. My parents only stopped doing shit like that after I didn't say a word to them for two years. Not saying you should do that, but that's my experience with it.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:46 PM
1

Just hit her up in a month when she's back. No point in anything but trying to make the connection real with a bitch you meet on a dating app. That's not gonna happen while she's outta town. Until it's tangible, it's all dust in the wind.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:41 PM
1

Yeah, this overcompensating ass response definitely doesn't prove my point. You're the one who admits to feeling guilty. Only reason you would is you don't think the current situation is a good deal for them, which leads back to you not thinking highly enough about yourself.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:42 AM
2

Self esteem too low to feel indignant about the proposal that since they love you, you should never fuck any of the billions of eligible women in the world. If you were at a job interview and they were all like "You got the job! I just need you to sign here and promise you won't ever make money in any way except through us." Even if you DIDN'T have a side hustle, you'd be annoyed at the suggestion, no? Probably also conflating your wanting the best for them with guilt. You can want the best for …
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:03 AM
1

Social circle game is king when you can't afford to burn bridges.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:59 AM
1

It wasn't an insult. I'm saying there's no such thing as a great person who didn't become great watching someone else. There's value in playing a basketball game with Michael Jordan that isn't from scoring the winning basket. What, are you just going to surround yourself with mediocre people so that you don't feel slighted by people who are better than you? Great people surround themselves with other great people.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:50 AM
1

That that surprises you is exactly my point. You don't understand how to appreciate excellence, so you'll never be excellent. At anything.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:39 AM
1

It's the story of a beautiful girl on a pedestal who is either in the wrong relationship, or hasn't found a relationship. She's pursued by a funny handsome guy who doesn't act like he knows his worth. Is it really that confusing?
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:58 PM
1

For who am I gonna try and make a flaky bitch less flaky? Next dude down the line? Assuming its even possible. I just judge them for it, and take it into account when sorting out my priorities. By judge them, I mean it makes them less attractive to me, like finding out she smokes or some shit.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:49 PM
4

Every post about an LTR on askTRP should include the reason you have an LTR instead of 3-5 plates. If this was a plate or a FWB, I'd be asking you why the fuck are ya'll hanging out enough for her to fill your head with the dumb shit her orbiter/side piece says to her. Hang out and then get the fuck out instead of playing girlfriend. Which is all to say listening to this type of shit is what she wants out of your commitment, so hope its worth it. She wants this guy who's just there to listen to …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:30 PM
2

Part of the game. Could MAYBE stand to lay more groundwork about the type of date. A bit of hype work about the place ya'll are going to. Like flowery words bout it being a chill bar, or having good burgers or some shit.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:21 PM
5

Eventually, thanks to social media, my plates became wise to each others existence. After the dust had settled, I opted to promote one girl to LTR and dump the rest. My concern here would be that the way bitches cheat, they look for excuses to do it without feeling guilty. I've seen too many ho's cheat saying the guy cheated first. IE: They didn't want to break up until after they cheated as well. Seems to taint the exclusivity. She forgave me for all of the lying I had done about having other p…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:18 PM
1

Sounds like you struggle with matching your internal frame with the frame you put out. Like you don't have an internal justification for the dickishness you put out there. But there is a reason you put that out there, right? Maybe to be funny, in which case, she's a buzzkill who is twisting what you're doing, which is bringing laughter, into something she can take as a chance to play moral arbiter. She tries to raise her position, using moral high ground as an excuse to enjoy controlling someone…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:42 PM
1

You're a hater is what's wrong. When you're in the midst of greatness, your first reaction is to just give up. "Can't be the best, so I might as well be the worst." The kind of guy who'd turn down a game with michael jordan because you know you'd lose. If you had a son, and he went to jui jitsu, but wasn't as high a belt as some younger kid, would you not see the issue with him quitting over it? Does a good king give a fuck if his advisor is better at managing money, or his general is better at …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:09 PM
2

Guessing you've never fucked a virgin before.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:42 PM
3

My take on that is a bitch being a virgin ain't a positive. It doesn't make her special. No unicorns exist. It's more that being a whore disqualifies for LTR. But yes, I was basically saying that a woman's decision to be a slut shouldn't deplete you as a man. If your plate is out fucking, that doesn't have an impact on a man's worth. For it to have that impact the way these guys fear being a cuck allow it to is a feminine frame. It's the way a girl thinks when a guy desires strange.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:39 PM
1

AWALT. Back to the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:25 PM
2

If a 5 year old says he doesn't like your shirt, do you care? Ofc not. Same shit with women.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:07 AM
5

Why are you worrying about some shit that hasn't happened? You should be more concerned with how shitty your internal frame is that some girl judging your appearance in your imagination has you this shook. Instead you're here asking about whether or not they'll judge you so that you feel validated if some guy in here tells you they won't, because you've already decided in advance that their stank ass opinions matter. Appearances matter of course, but bitches don't know shit. Don't ever concede t…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:49 AM
2

The "good enough" "bad enough" shit is blue pill fantasy, and it's how women perceive themselves when a man wants to fuck other bitches. This is exactly what I'm talking about. It's a feminine frame. And it makes sense for women to care about our exclusivity. If we're out fucking around, we might impregnate some bitch and now the resources are split between multiple families. It's their nature to try and curtail our desire to fuck new pussy. They feel like they aren't a real woman if they can't …
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:33 AM
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So you need validation from some bitch (via her not fucking other dudes) to feel like a man. Got it. This is what I mean. Too many people here refuse to accept that there is no red pill frame that includes being beholden to the what a woman does or doesn't do. If a bitch doesn't want to be exclusive, it just makes her an easier plate to spin. If you agreed to be exclusive and she breaks it, great, now you can go back to fucking other bitches.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:15 AM
2

Too worried about being wrong, and not enough familiarity with being proven right when the majority is wrong. If you argue about shit that can't be proven, then you're arguing about shit that isn't of consequence. Quit it faggot. Or at least realize the best strategy with that type of shit is gonna be to act like a filthy Machiavellian politician, which is gross to non-sociopaths, but I respect the skill. If it's shit that matters, in the end if you're consistently right people will naturally le…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:34 AM
1

This is one of those things you should ask an insightful real life person who knows what you look and sound like. No way askTRP has an answer for you without you revealing that shit. Description isn't enough, it's an energy.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:28 AM
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Saying you care if a plate fucks another dude because you don't want to be a cuck is just another way of saying you want commitment from women, and is a feminine frame by consequence. If you're just worried about STDs, or just have an ego thing about not wanting your toys played with, I get it, but if your concern is the realization girls are attracted to more than one guy, then you're just tryna live in a fantasy land. The plate who's exclusive to you doesn't have a better pussy than the one wh…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:11 AM
2

What makes you think they're beta AF in person? I'm betting you're conflating blue pill with beta. A person can believe blue pill shit and be alpha by their actions, and vice versa.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:29 AM
2

Lifting matters.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:08 PM
1

I play long game if it's with girls I pretty much have to see.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:04 PM
0

The post-workout high usually evens it out for me if I go hard. It's also less significant for me if I'm on a bulk.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:55 PM
1

Same thing other girls like. They just need you to have your own place so they don't get caught.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:03 AM
9

Middle eastern and Indian fathers attach their honor to what their daughters do with their body, and then use religion/cultural norms to justify bullying them into preserving their fathers honor. Obviously these girls still fuck. Just they hide it from their family.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:56 AM
0

Learn to read, bitch. He thinks taking a girl out on a date while she's getting pipe from some guy makes you a beta/cuck.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:37 AM
4

Being blue pill, at its core, is not seeing reality. It's choosing a fantasy. You're so utterly terrified of being seen as a cuck that you don't even know what it means anymore. A cuck raises a kid that isn't theirs. That's it. A beta is someone who is low on the hierarchy of value. That's it.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:52 AM
1

If you can't talk to multiple women, don't be surprised when you get desperate for just one.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:22 PM
3

I'm not interested in hookups - I want to be emotionally involved with someone. What do you guys do? Not have blue pill goals, for one.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:18 PM
1

How do I communicate value and attract beautiful women without becoming a beta bucks? The same way you would if you weren't rich.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:12 PM
1

Don't contact oneitis's from your old BP days until you don't have to askTRP if you should.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:08 PM
1

When a girl confronts your frame, just look for the arrogance and stupidity and you'll always find it. If a girl is at the point where she thinks she can imply what you can or can't do, it's best she learn a lesson about that early. If she can't accept that, she'd be a shitty plate.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:00 PM
7

If you keep doing pathetic shit, don't be surprised when you can't stop feeling pathetic internally.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:46 PM
3

Personally, I'd wanna know even though I also probably wouldn't give a shit about the actual underlying thing being told. Lies by omission are still lies in my book. I don't cut people out for it, but knowing a person is willing to lie by omission does lower my expectations for them. It's not that big of a deal though. In the end it's on me if I get oneitis for a ho. I'd tell though, just because as a rule I've found if I keep a secret from a mutual friend on a bitch's behalf, the bitch inevitab…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:39 PM
1

You need to have more women (and friends in general) you talk to so that you don't feel the need to try so hard to win over one specific girl. They can tell when you're desperate. In terms of this specific girl, realistically what I think will happen is every time you try to step outside the neat little box she believes you belong in, she'll drag you back with comments that make you feel like expressing your sexuality is not okay. She won't do it maliciously, it's just a woman's nature. She has …
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:16 AM
6

Everyone already covered that you're being sponged for attention. You also suck ass at flirting. Wtf is she supposed to say to any of that shit? All pull and no push. No risks, just adulation. It's not only obvious you like her, but it's obvious she doesn't have to like you back. Your texts wreak of that "I'm so afraid she'll stop talking to me," energy. Not to mention you tried to get a little more overtly sexually charged over text when you've had plenty of opportunities over calls (and in per…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:28 AM
1

So you want to reject someone but don't want them to feel rejected. It's no surprise that the answers you're getting either criticize your purpose (why you tryna be nice to these hoes) or tell you to lie. Either you bend the painful thing to make it easier to swallow, or you don't bother. Giving it straight isn't gonna ever be some satisfaction. Possibly hurts even more than if you just ghosted them depending on the bitch. I'ma go with the former btw. Your decision to take responsibility for her…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:11 AM
1

I don't shit on the idea of moving on. I shit on the idea that the appropriate response to being invited to drink with her and her best friend is to overreact and tell her to hop on his dick, or fuck off. Good game is subtler than that. On the subject of abundance, that's not really meaningful here. Yes, if he had 10 hotter bitches on his jock, he'd have no time for this one. That doesn't change that there's no reason given to burn this one. He shouldn't be AFRAID to burn this one, but I don't s…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:10 PM
1

I wouldn't go to that unless I was tryna get in on her social circle to network more. If she isn't your kind of people (IE: You wouldn't talk to her cept to fuck) then I wouldn't go to that shit. I'd just decline and suggest an alternative. The hardass response some of these guys are putting out to this is incel as fuck tho. Be chill. If ya'll can't come to an agreement, no need to be a baby about it. Just say ya'll will figure something out another day. The fact some of these guys are suggestin…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:40 AM
4

The sort of intrigue a girl has for something like that isn't really sexual. A girl doesn't get wet thinking about all the weird places you fucked, unless it tells the story without you telling it. IE: Fucked in a classroom. Fucked at work. If it hasn't worked for you, just save it for the actual date as conversation filler.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:24 AM
2

Getting over a girl doesn't mean you have amnesia.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:12 AM
3

1-2 is reserved for shit like deformities, old people, morbidly obese, acid wounds, and burn victims. I'd not put up a fight if people felt those should just flat out be in the negatives though.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:10 AM
9

Easier, low self-esteem, and/or has bad game and knows he has bad game. Though generally speaking, any girl who gets the dick hard'll do for a guy who isn't thinking about the societal implications. (IE: Being embarassed to be seen in public with the uggo.) You stuff a dude on an island as the only man with 10 bitches of each SMV (1-10) and he's gonna fuck every girl on that island who can get him hard, which is probably from 3 and up if you include booze. He's not just gonna commit to the 10 ca…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:46 PM
2

Personally, I'd go with something like "I can get to know him another time." Or something to that effect. If she's stubborn about it, just play it like ya'll just don't see eye to eye and it won't work out. Pushing too hard against a girl's social connections rarely works, and it's also way too overt to imply you will never meet her brother. It's sort of like if a girl says she'll never do oral. Can go flirtier with it on some "meeting the family already?" type shit too, but I don't like it over…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:50 PM
5

No.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:41 PM
0

This sort of shit test is mostly about not saying the wrong thing, cause it's easy to answer this test in the wrong way if you're retarded.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 03:29 AM
24

A woman's value isn't like our value. There are only two things men care about deep down: Is she hot. How much maintanence? Some men convince themselves they're attracted to a woman with a good personality, but the reason they like those women is because they require less energy per conversation. As it turns out the closer the personality draws towards being a slut (but only for you,) the more we "like" their personality. Short of a fat fetish, no one's getting hard for whales because of how muc…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 06:35 AM
3

Could be who knows what, but here's my take: Girls get a lot of anxiety after the first time you fuck. This reads to me like her responding to that anxiety by ditching you before you ditch her. Especially with the bit about her saying its cause you didn't message her. The same way girls struggle with being demoted in commitment, we struggle with having sexual boundaries put back into place. So here's the timeline: -Second date fuck. -She gets nervous wondering wtf is gonna happen now. -Ya'll don…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:22 AM
2

I only text game if the girl reaches out to me frequently via text/snap. Texting for logistics when logistics aren't possible/when a girl is high interest and is borderline pursuing me makes me look desperate or uninterested respectively.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 09:45 PM
4

Depends what you want to happen. My response to something like this is extreme and unorthodox. My preferred way of doing things is I encourage girls to go off with dudes, and even to let me know about it for three reasons: Kills oneitis. So she feels safe telling me how many dudes she's fuckin and can cut her out if I think she's gonna get me herpes or some shit. That comfort in knowing she can be a slut around me is also useful. Is the exact opposite of mate-guarding, which is hard for her hams…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 09:40 PM
2

She could be lying, but I'ma talk under the assumption she's telling the truth, bc if she's just lying it don't fucking matter cause she didn't even need to. Plates being exclusive is just a prerequisite for promotion, not a req. to be a plate. Anyways, my take on this is you don't have enough information from just what she said. You need to see what she does next. It should be said that girls frame is so fluid that she could intend one of these at first, and then flip to some other shit, which …
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:47 PM
1

Seems fine, but probably assume the plate will break cause it sounds like she's gonna go for an LTR. If she might think you're exclusive because of the way ya'll reconnected, that's even more likely. Nothing to apologize for obviously. You can drop a bitch for no reason and then hit her up the next day asking to smash and she still wouldn't deserve an apology. A man's time and attention is the most valuable thing he has, and if a girl makes you feel some type of way about giving it to her, that'…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:32 PM
2

Plate material is she gets your dick hard and isn't high maintenance. There is a brief addiction to toxic relationships young men and women go through. I think it's sort of like how a toddler acts out to test the rules. A peaceful, pleasant relationship doesn't give the constant feedback about right or wrong that a toxic relationship does. A toxic relationship also has a lot of struggles for dominance that can be fun to contend in. Too many of course. A relationship that's too easy can feel like…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:18 PM
40

You don't believe you're worth a better bitch.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 12:08 AM
1

Cross that bridge when you come to it. There's a lot to enjoy about the pursuit that can't replace sex, but is still worth having. You really gonna live a life where a girl never giggles at your jokes, sits on your lap, and gets all anxious for your attention? You don't have to go for gold. Hell, if you don't come off that desperate for it, it'll probably make it easier to get. If you don't wanna make a false promise of a pipe you can't lay, then don't make it. No point in adopting a frame that …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:42 PM
0

Get a pack of condoms, and literally sit there and waste the entire box practicing, tard.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:57 AM
1

If every girl you meet is an "attention whore," you're the problem. IOI doesn't mean she's ready to go out with you. Only means approach is a no-brainer. Your game is probably shit. Go work on shit like learning how to tell a story, show social proof, tease, kino, push and pull.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:51 AM
19

Thanks is fine, though on its own doesn't push it forward. Something I like is "Thanks, I get that a lot." With a sort of genuine appreciation type tone for the thanks, and a " I like that movie too." intonation for the rest. If it'll come out canned from you, it's still not bad because girls aren't deterred by fuck boys contrary to the shit they get, but coming off real leaves more options on the table. "I know." Isn't bad. It's probably better than I feel like it is. Ever see a line so often o…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:22 AM
3

"Hehehe, if I become her orbiter ON PURPOSE then she'll fuck me." -You
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:03 AM
3

Control thing. When girls are like "just be honest with me" what they actually are saying is "I need a way to know if I control you." At no point does she explain why the fuck it would be beneficial for you to tell her everything u do. All she does is lie about the obvious negative, saying she can handle it. Lying is the highest success rate move if u wanna keep hitting it. If you wanna fix her frame tho, you gotta go in ready to take an L Realistically, shes volatile af tho. Shes clearly experi…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:57 AM
1

Taking shit tests personally is low value. Only toddlers and invalids don't get tested, and only bitches who are desperate don't test.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:52 AM
1

Low self-esteem.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:47 AM
1

Why reply to someone telling you to fuck off? If she's bluffing, nothing is going to call that bluff harder than a non-response, because her hamster will build you up as this guy who instantly moved on. Even if that wasn't true, talking to a literal stranger has a higher success chance than a random ho who already rejected you.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:41 AM
1

Don't do something unless you have the frame to back it up.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:33 AM
9

Good leader. The kind of guy men want to follow. Kind of guy who'd make a good grandfather. Ideally, humanitarian in the best way, rather than the virtue signally B.P way. B.P men are kind out of terror of what will happen if they're selfish. Someone who is kind even though they don't have to be signals how high up the hierarchy they are that they can spare that energy for their fellow man. But in the end, assuming I even had a daughter, if she's determined to fuck up her life, there's only so m…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 11:41 PM
1

My take on this is you probably have loser friends (Assuming you have friends at all.) If all your friends were overachievers, and you were at the bottom of that hierarchy, I don't think you'd be as content. It's easy to underachieve when you're insulated from the social consequences of being at the bottom of the pack. An ugly person cares most about how ugly they are when they contemplate going outside.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:07 PM
3

First of all, if she doesn't want to hang with you, no amount of bullying is going to change that. A bitch whose forcing herself to stick around is not fun. Plus, even if you tried, you don't want to contest anything she potentially does for self-benefit. Standing between her and her goals is the way a man starved for pussy acts. Second, if you had other bitches you wouldn't care. You'd just drop her in the hierarchy for being flaky. Which really is all there is to do about this. Maybe she'll se…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:21 PM
-1

Nah this isn't true. Girls are competitive, and lack any sort of scruples about competing with people below them. (In fact its the only people they compete with.) The thing that holds her back isn't that she thinks you're at the level of the fatty. It's that she might be worried about the social blow back from betraying her fatty friend.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:55 AM
1

You aren't good at teasing, so she's only down when she's drunk and working herself up.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:30 PM
2

Main downside was gone with the advent of abortion, ie: having an undesired child.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:18 AM
1

She flipped out and told me that no girl would want to date me if I gave them a no guy friend ultimatum Not really important to heed this. Girls say shit like this just knee jerk out of insecurity. These hoes don't know what girls will and won't date. What she's actually saying is "OMG DON'T REJECT ME. I REJECT YOU FIRST!11 actually..ACTUALLY, ALL GIRLS REJECT U!!!" Dw bout it. Most girls that have guy friends are somewhat promiscuous This isn't necessarily true. What is always true is girls wit…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 03:28 AM
71

You think no one tests the strong? You might not be a pussy, but you're socially retarded. Only invalids and toddlers don't get tested. Stop taking it personally and learn to play the game. And don't listen to the autists in here who think they're above it. They're no different from the fatties trying to shame gym goers. There's fun to be had in finding your way around the social landscape.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 02:49 AM
11

Sounds like she's got a quicker wit than you + shit tests. You have to realize that she isn't talking from some actual point. Bitches with a quick mouth are just looking for weakness and jumping at it, but women in general don't ever have a core underlying philosophy. Yet you seem to be looking for one. But yeah, she's a cunt. The way a girl treats the men she's most comfortable around reflects the end game for any man she eventually ends up with.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:27 AM
13

It's okay to not like a chatty bitch.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:21 AM
2

When a girl is high interest like that, make it a habit to cut the schemes and work towards logistics.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:20 PM
3

Makes it worse if we're talking about the official marriage kind of thing. If we're talking about getting married (as in she can call you her husband and she has a ring) but no papers, then no difference in the long term. Marriage gives you absolutely nothing of value, and gives her security she couldn't possibly earn. It's the opposite of dread. It is bringing the government into your relationship to give her comfort. You gain nothing from it, and stand to lose a great deal.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:22 PM
1

Yeah, toss her in the bin. Something overt like this, ya just tell her you wanna see other people, and let the dice roll. If she still sticks around, great, if not, great. DO NOT ADMIT THAT THE TIK TOK IS WHY. That's just food for the hamster to start spinning it like "wow he's so controlling." Nah, just tell her how its gonna be so that she doesn't have that options of framing it some type of way. Shouldn't have forbid it to begin with, though. Just judge these ho's for what they are while lett…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:07 PM
21

I would just start roasting a girl who acted like that. Which works for me. There are a lot of good answers for this, but roasting a bitch works for me. I just pick at something to crush the foundations of her arrogant ass frame. Maybe she's a short bitch. Maybe her hair is dry. Hell I'll just make shit up, like that she has hairy armpits or some shit. Doesn't work over text though. She needs to be on the spot. Roasting over text just makes them lean back, think of how to act like a queen, and t…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:34 PM
-1

Yes, it's a lot. The question is stupid though. LTR is never worth it by default. Blue pill ass pursuit.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:59 PM
2

Now, although I have advanced in my career, and since then doubled my salary, my mental and physical health is not how it was before... i gained belly fat that i cant seem to get rid of, i am constantly stressed, easily triggered and irritated. patience level 0 for any kind of crap, i instantly get triggered. Symptoms of bad inner frame, which is the consequence of the loss of physique. You don't get that feeling you get when you look yourself in the mirror anymore. Maybe you don't shit on yours…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:29 PM
5

Oversensitive faggot.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:19 PM
4

Best answer. It's not usually written overtly as one of the responses to shit tests, but I'm a big fan of undermining a woman's dumbass frame and providing an alternative superior one for her to adopt. "Give her an option." As Patrice put it.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:51 PM
0

More pathetic that you need to ask us for validation about it. Bitch, if you have an argument, then just own that argument lmfao. Have some goddamn frame.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:44 PM
0

Aww. Poor baby. :(
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:42 PM
0

cuz he fucked an uggo
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:56 PM
3

Sounds like you want to date a man.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:56 AM
0

Only girls without people to talk to don't gossip.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:12 AM
7

Yep. Your mistake wasn't cutting her out. It was the blue pill stuff before that. If you keep her in your life, she'll hold you down to the weakest she's seen you act. It's just what bitches do. Remove all means of contact, and reinvent yourself every day.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:38 AM
2

She probably covered food for your bitch or some shit. What exactly do you stand to lose if she cheats on you? If you are dissatisfied with giving this girl your exclusivity, then take it back.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:28 AM
1

Idk what to tell you then. GL bud.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:15 AM
1

Meh, she's being a little bitch for some reason. Maybe a girlfriend gassed her up. Maybe some other dude is dicking her down. Maybe she's annoyed with the baby. One thing is certain. It definitely isn't that you fucked up, but for some reason you've let her convince you that's the case with how much you're lingering on this. This is so obviously a soft-next. Let her stew in her stupidity. Do not give ground until you have reason to believe she has doubted her retarded ass frame. When she has, do…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:02 AM
2

Ask your dad for the health insurance information. Tell him you're calling an ambulance. If he says no, apply for medicaid managed healthcare as an independent, and once it goes through, tell him not to list you as a dependent because you applied for medicaid as an independent. Meanwhile, call 911. Tell them your symptoms. When they ask for your insurance info, tell them you applied for medicaid but the info hasn't come through yet. Regardless, the bill isn't sent to collection immediately typic…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:43 AM
1

Was this the right approach? How can we answer this if we don't know whether you were right? For all we know, you were saying some shit so dumb that he was right to just ridicule you the whole time.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:25 AM
4

"can I be honest. I feel I've upset you in the last couple of weeks?" Admitting you don't know what's in her head never works. Girls don't see it as a chance to open up to you. Women frame isn't stable. SHE doesn't even know why she's been dry yet. Probably just wanted to bait the exact reaction you gave her. She was grilling me on what reason I had for asking that This is her pressing her victory. She wants to yank out admissions that you value her shitty unstable ass opinion. Bro, she does NOT…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:34 PM
2

Good luck with the grief. I couldn't imagine how that feels. I do know though that that ho was definitely not worth giving up all the other pussy in the world if she can't handle you taking even a week to handle some shit. I think it's also a lesson in how much contact you can let a bitch get accustomed to. Early on I'd talk to even plates every single day. Now it's every 3 days to 2 weeks, and it's the bitches who I only talk to once every 1-2 weeks that last the longest. When a girl talks to y…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:16 PM
1

Stop reacting to ho frame. There's learning from your fuckups, and then there's letting their frame affect you.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:08 PM
1

I only get like that in two situations: Feel like shit. Maybe cause I took melatonin the day before or skipped a gym day. Idk. Fill in the blank. Not meeting new people. The first is just whatever. It's like bad weather when it isn't my fault. The second is stagnation. Being around the same people, those people get used to your b.s, or your bitch can sense you hang out with her 75% of the time, so she can tell she's the arbiter of whether you're interesting or not in terms of feedback from outsi…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:03 PM
1

Just lean hard on the fact you gotta take care of your family. Unless she falls hard for some random scrub, the plate won't break. Even if it does, she'll probably hit you up again at some point. Also ignore the retards in the comments. Don't risk your parents for some thot.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:31 PM
4

Yes, you're sensitive, wtf?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:22 PM
0

Oh. You don't understand english. L E A R N T O S P E A K A M E R I C A N.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:13 PM
2

Look up David Goggins, "Can't Hurt me" audiobook. Just leave it in your ears.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:12 PM
3

why would you ever get in relationships with them? Her job to convince me. If she never tries, then I'll be right as rain because I'll get what I want without ever needing to commit. Better for her that way too, because if I commit without her earning it, she'll never appreciate it. You can say this is beta thought... but it’s simply the truth of the situation. You have to acknowledge that through pure “red-pilled” logic you will be cheated on. Who cares what a woman does with her body? So long …
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:51 AM
2

Need askTRP to tell you how to judge people? Figure her out u autist. Lmao.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:42 PM
2

Are you successful, and do you make money?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:35 PM
1

If you're exclusive it's an LTR.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:28 PM
7

Are you asking me how to get your oneitis? The answer is you don't try unless you want to waste your fucking time.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:59 AM
10

“unless you want to be in a relationship we have nothing to talk about” Oneitis alert. You'd take her back after she dumped you for some short distance dick.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:34 AM
2

Way to miss the point, dipshit. You're gonna be a father with a woman who threatens to vacuum your kid out her pussy to get her way. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:24 AM
1

You are having a kid with a woman who bullies you out your frame with an abortion. And you're worried about cheating of all things?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 09:33 PM
2

She can't blame you for her inability to do her own school work, so she picks a fight over you ignoring her as way to vent. Just be glad you ain't her man cause if she got one, he's probably miserable. The fact that she has the balls to give shit to a guy she ain't even know says how miserable she'd make a guy she was actually comfy with. Steer clear. She's high maintenance.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:52 PM
1

Why are you all so beholden to what women do with their pussies? But for STDs, it doesn't matter. I get why women care if we cheat. We might go off and start another family, but if they cheat, wtf happens to you?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:05 PM
9

All girls lie.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:45 AM
1

I mean she could be. Why does it matter though? Because one day she's gonna fuck, and she's not gonna be any better or worse a person for it. Whether you're before that point or after that point in her life hardly matters. She's still the girl who'd spread her legs for someone who isn't you. Whether she hasn't met that person yet, or already did hardly matters. Virgin pursuit is just ancient fears of being cucked+honor society fear of being judged for having a slut for a daughter. But DNA tests …
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:32 AM
2

You care way too much about the outcome. Maybe because she's gotten comfy enough to burn you for doing something as innocent as telling a joke. Reset. Just do what you think would be fun. It's hard to regret something like that. If she can't accept a frame as simple and pure as a guy trying to have a good time, she's not worth it. Yeah it's probably because of you if shit falls through, but you don't learn so that you can salvage it with the same chick. To begin with, she'll sense you switching …
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:14 PM
1

Playing petty games will corrupt your internal frame. You might be able to convince her you weren't petty, but you won't be able to convince yourself. That's not to say dread is petty. There's value in both respecting yourself, and challenging her when she takes a shitty frame like "I'm gonna scrutinize every joke you make so that every interaction with me is a competition." Advocate for yourself, so that she can advocate for herself. Part of the reason the rude fuckboy gets the girl is because …
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:32 PM
13

Idle hands.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:09 AM
1

Not enough experience understanding how temporary rejection is. When an NBA player loses a game, he doesn't think "I'm never going to win another game again." (unless they're on the knicks.)
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:07 AM
20

This is a test for her as much as it is for you. Life inevitably contains tragedy like this. How she handles seeing you this way is important. It's still a test on you too, that doesn't mean you can just let life go and say, drown yourself in ice cream and gain 200 lbs, but that if you trip up and she pops like a soap bubble, it just means she's not good enough to be the queen in your castle. That said, it's up to you if you decide to test her. If you want to be realistic, insulating her from th…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:05 AM
1

Not a good text conversation. No matter what you say, she'll mull it over till she convinces herself she hates it just so that she doesn't have to contend with it.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:00 AM
1

Ehhh. I mean I get the urge to, but I hold myself back for logical reasons, same way I hold myself back from going in raw. Not tryna catch some shit. Some guys are worried they're gonna lick a girl who's getting some other dick though. I mean, I get that, but strikes me as being beholden to what happens to her pussy, whereas I'd rather have a frame that's impervious to whatever she decides to do with her body.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:54 AM
1

Do esteemable things. Take responsibility for something outside of yourself if you can't seem to get anything out of helping yourself. IE: Get a pet, volunteer, fix your family, etc. Consider if your standards for yourself may be too high in the short term if you actually are killing it and are just not taking credit. Find something competitive to participate in.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:39 AM
2

How's she asking for compliments? Like is she being a cunt about it or does she sound actually sad? There's a way a girl asks this that can be basically a shit test/she got some shit in her head from one of her girlfriends. Then there's that she feels insecure and identifies you as an outside entity that can resolve that insecurity for her. (A bit codependent, but not arrogance at least.)
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:37 AM
1

Look up finsta
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:47 PM
8

They find a man who is better than them, then as the relationship progresses, they love him but also resent that you are better. At the same time. It causes them psychological agony to be uncertain about their worthiness of your time and effort, so they either get you to commit, or make you low value enough that they are okay with you not giving them your resources. What they don't realize is they don't want a man they don't have that agony with because that emotion is how they know they're with…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:33 PM
2

Don't want to be culpable for pursuing their own happiness.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:28 PM
5

Personally, the line here is if I think they're saying it because they want me to change. As opposed to just poking fun and probably would even be a little put off if I did change. In the former, the root here is disdain for me coupled with the arrogance to assume they are in a position to pressure me. In the latter, the reason they're doing it has nothing to do with me. You can see it very clearly in say, the way a comedian makes fun of another comedian on a podcast. You can tell they were just…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:49 AM
3

Hope he's happy. Hope he stays happy. What else is there to say? I'm too far down mount everest to worry about someone on a different mountain.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:19 AM
40

I don't punish plates for being flaky directly, because if I do, then it implies I want her to feel obligated to show up. People in general don't like to feel obligated to do something, and it takes something away from what they're doing when they feel like they're doing something they don't want to do. Indirectly though, I just register in my head each time they flake that I can't expect anything from them, and that passively leads to them falling down the pecking order. Similarly, if a girl is…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:31 PM
1

What was the joke?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:14 PM
1

Only reason your accent would be make or break is if your personality is so dull that it's all they notice about you. (At least in the U.K) But if it bothers you so much, get speech classes.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:49 PM
11

Wrap it up. Have fun.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:22 AM
3

Eh. Could be anything. My first instinct is that she's basically soft nexting you to get a reaction. The temptation is to meet her inconsistency with your own inconsistency. IE: Soft nexting HER. That'll get her, right? I'm not a fan of mirroring. Yes, go talk to other girls and be busy with other stuff. You already should've been doing that. But trying to manipulate her so clumsily and from a frame of frustration is the same loser shit she's trying to play on you. It's also why so many guys her…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:43 AM
1

Putting innocence on a pedestal. Put that girl into one that's prettier, or one with a different upbringing, and she'll be as much a ho as any other girl. Liking a girl for her innocence is like a girl choosing someone cause they inherited a lot of money. Only thing that matters is actions. The tangible value. If a girl doesn't add enough value to justify rejecting the value all the other women in your life add, she isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:07 PM
1

If your child walked around thinking of nobody, whose fault is that, the child's or the parent's? If your friend's wife is being a cunt, and your friend says and does nothing, wouldn't you feel betrayed? If you wanna keep fucking her as a plate cause she's hot, I'd probably do the same, but the only reason ANY girl acts like that is cause the men in her life let her. Granted, probably to bang her.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:42 AM
10

Not being shook here matters more than anything you really say. So long as how you act communicates that, that's most important. Some guys can do the ignore thing, whereas other guys look butthurt like they're sulking when they ignore people. A&A is a good catchall. Here's the line: "If I keep hanging with you, definitely." Pressure Flip that you seemed to prefer seems too tryhard to me, but maybe that works for your style. I like pressure flip when you have established social proof, or have som…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:59 PM
0

You've never been asked?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:26 AM
3

Eh. Just one word her and be dry. Energy is that you're just being polite because you don't expect much from a conversation with her. If she sets you up to make a pass, go for it, but don't bother if she isn't high interest after she already gave you the "just a friend" speech. If you want, you can just throw down a grenade and blow it up just to see if something can come of the ashes, which'd be basically being more overt about the fact you're not interested in anything platonic. When you say t…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:22 AM
0

This is a whole lot of blaming her for shit that's all your fault. Just learn for the next bitch, bitch.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:29 AM
-1

Lie.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:25 AM
1

Sounds like you don't have a problem yet. If you assume there will be a problem, you put that into the world. When it comes down to it, problems in a relationship arrive from the woman. You have to let them arrive from her, or else your frame will be too liquid.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:16 AM
2

Women seek commitment like we seek pussy. Elevating their future relationship to "True Love (tm)" makes it all the more special in her head when she gets that commitment. This is especially necessary for her when the guy's commitment isn't really worth that much (ie: beta bux.) Similarly, it lets her downplay it when she doesn't get the commitment of a man whose commitment actually is worth it. Doesn't matter that Brad Pitt pumped and dumped her. She didn't love him. For a woman, these sorts of …
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:11 PM
1

Depends on the root of the disrespect. (Not to discount you're perfectly within your rights to dump a bitch for being annoying.) Focus on actions, emotions, and what she seems to expect you to tolerate while also continuing to invest in her. Spike her when she starts to get too confident your investment is not reliant on her continued good behavior. Keep an eye out for malevolence/arrogance as opposed to anxiety, laziness, trying to be funny, etc.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:49 AM
2

Eh. I tried to experiment a bit with my plates. I concluded all I want from them is sex, and when I know I'm not going to get it, my instinct to dump a bitch is just too strong. The contact feels forced, and I'm not a good enough actor to hide that it is. Not that a couple wouldn't break quarantine for me, but I regularly meet my elderly parents, who I'd rather not risk for pussy. So I've decided to just fabricate that I'm busy looking after my social circle. Told them a fake noble story, and I …
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:56 AM
3

It's not the fact you have morals that is the issue. Being able to designate when someone is righteous is a part of social intelligence, which is a part of emotional intelligence. Your problem here is that you don't know who you're supposed to point the gun at. There are two people to blame here, and neither of them are the guy you replied to. First person is the girl who cheated on her fiance. It's her job to honor her future spouse's commitment, not Dive45's. Second person is the dude she's ma…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:04 AM
2

Congratulations brother. New pussy is back on the menu. I'm happy for you. Withdraw your commitment without letting the fact she betrayed it justify resenting her. Resentment is useful for the blind idiot who needs to see, but beyond that it's really an unpleasant place to be. It represents her owning real estate in your mind. Withdrawing your commitment means you're going to explore fucking other women, and won't spend time tending to her feelings and needs, but for when it suits you, such as w…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:56 AM
6

No I can't. It takes advanced pimping to keep a plate for more than a year or two if she isn't a loser. I don't use the word pimping arbitrarily here, I literally mean it's the same type of game that a pimp plays when he gets a bitch to turn tricks and give him the cash. (Not counting the physical intimidation factor ofc.) It's not gonna work as some phrase. If it happens, it's going to be either that she's fucked up in some way, your SMV is so much higher that she just wants an in into your lif…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:26 AM
2

I mean sure, but that's true bout pretty much anything with bitches. Point I'm communicating to OP is that having a monster cock solves zero problems for him. He just wants it for the ego. Practically speaking, if he had one he'd probably get tired of having to teach bitches to take it in the same way a model gets tired of getting complimented on her looks all day.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:20 AM
5

Play the role of someone who is hopeful for ms. right. Draw on romance in the bedroom when its appropriate. IE: Get her to admit she has a crush on you/likes you/loves you. This isn't something you do the first night. This comes after she actually likes you, not before. Make absurdity jokes that hint at your commitment being possible. IE: Wow you can make cereal? Marry me. Theme here is obvious. You draw on that fantasy of commitment to elevate the moment you're in, but never ACTUALLY take steps…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:45 AM
1

It's always our fault. Bc women aren't incapable of responsibility, but their pussies get dry when they do, and we like em wet.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:56 AM
6

I know a dude with a 9 incher, and he has trouble keeping girls around cuz shit's too brutal. Big dicks are like roller coasters. Medium dicks are a nice stroll in a sports car. It's okay to not be kingdom ka or whatever the fuck its called.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:22 AM
2

Get it through your head that not only is she is not salvageable, but that if you remain able to contact her, she will drag you back down to her previous image of you. There is no fixing what you have with this bitch, and she will severely impair your ability to reinvent yourself even if she came back. Burn the bridge with her, and her children. Remove everything related to her existence. No closure for anyone. That ship sailed when she went to go fuck another guy. They shouldn't be able to cont…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:24 PM
110

i said i hinted i wasnt looking for anything serious When you say something like this, a girl will by default feel like a loser if she's your something casual if she was raised even remotely decently. (Or even if like your girl, she was raised by the streets and is now wary of guys like you.) Maybe you say it because you want to be honest, or maybe you say it because it gets you off to emulate some FR you read on here. But realize that the game for a woman is commitment, and by outright shutting…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:57 PM
2

Juijitsu. Money so that you actually have control over your life. Therapy because you seem generally more neurotic than the average guy. Maybe check your testosterone.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:48 PM
2

Bait to get you to hang yourself. When a girl responds "?" "What?" "Wdym?" Or tells you you're confusing without being specific. She is giving you rope to hang yourself. The smarter the woman, the more well hidden the rope (One of the many reasons smart girls are high maintanence), but pretty much any woman of any social mastery does this. How is this rope to hang yourself? She's looking for you to give her something she can bounce off of to move her agenda. It can be that you act beta, and now …
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:58 AM
3

Ehhhh. You don't know much about Americans, huh?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:40 AM
3

Do you think she's going to fuck herself with a wad of 20's?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:21 AM
3

Fix your morning. Find something that will put you in the right state of mind when you wake up. Something I did for a while was I'd have an audiobook ready to play right next to my pillow on my phone, and would also use my phone as my alarm so that I'd be forced to pick it up. It wasn't even a motivational audiobook. Anything like that can take its place. It could be play some music, or eat even just have a fucking piece of gum to shove in your mouth in the morning. Just something about doing so…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:30 AM
1

Accurate, but imprecise. All women are capable of that behavior, yeah. Even women who don't, would in another life though, so don't go hamming up a bitch who doesn't. They'd all be like that, just like any one of us could've been a hitler youth or a rapist caveman.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:25 AM
5

She doesn't care about their appearance/smv. She cares that you like them, and everything she says is just flailing and then looking at you to decide reality based on how you react. This is what bitches do. They, with zero frame whatsoever, give you shit, and then pick a side based on how well you respond. A girl's frame is liquid and twists itself to whatever story makes her feel good about herself. All you need to do is show your frame, that these plates make you happy and will make you happy …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:32 PM
2

It's not a disorder if it doesn't impede your life.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:38 PM
2

Lie about it. Abundance is much harder to show to a girl who knows you're a virgin.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:36 PM
2

This is the funniest post I've ever read. Oh my god I'm cracking up. Your blue pill ass boyfriend just pressured you into a relationship I'm DYING. LMFAO. Anyways, you shouldn't have left the room. The fuck would they do? Should've grilled your retarded friends over what the fuck they think they're doing without your permission to someone YOU brought. Don't let other people take what ought to have been delegated. If they want to serve your best interests, they shouldn't have an issue with coming…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:39 AM
5

Personally I don't care if someone is manipulative or whatever. I just object when it comes from the wrong place/misunderstanding of established TRP principles. It's not a moral criticism. I'm criticizing their masculinity. Recent example: Person asks about why a bitch would care if you nexted her. The core reason for nexting isn't manipulation. The root of nexting isn't to get her to care. It's to stop investing in a bitch who is squandering your investment. Everything else is extra. Most of th…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:20 AM
2

Dunno then. GL
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:54 PM
3

This sorta psuedo-asexuality is common in people raised in religious households. Especially if they're taught sex is only for reproduction, and the idea of say, your parents learning you fuck casually or before marriage brings you anxiety.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:41 PM
3

Meh. Yes, if you live in a city where her uncle is going to bash your head in with a pipe if you fuck her and don't marry her, you might have to tread more carefully. So what? Would advice related on how to deal with adultery related arsonists be more up your alley?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:39 PM
1

A woman's exclusivity is worthless. It feels exactly the same fucking a girl with no guys v.s a girl with guys, but for the fact that chances are the girl with no guys is uglier and more work.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:27 PM
1

Wtf are you even on about
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:22 PM
1

Bloating is intended. You're supposed to feel bloated after eating more than you usually eat. Gassing.. I mean that's whatever. Doesn't sound like a reason not to eat. Unless you vomit, you can eat more.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:42 PM
1

Did you have a religious upbringing?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:13 PM
2

Just leave it and initiate contact when covid dies down. Assume you'll have to game from scratch, and cultivate some excitement for that. Girls leaving you on read legit doesn't matter. They do it for who knows how many reasons. Worry about if she is willing to turn up when she doesn't have any excuse not to. Insofar as the LMR/ASD thing goes, you probably could stand to get better at teasing a bitch. Rethink your escalation routine. Just use her as practice for that, or withdraw attention next …
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:34 AM
2

Left on read multiple times. Girls don't do that with guys they're into. Yes they do. Girls shit test this way all the time.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:29 AM
3

Guys in here value a woman's exclusivity way too much. If a girl walked up to me and said "I won't fuck any other guys so that you love me." I feel literally nothing about that. It's an actually worthless sacrifice, but for the non-emotional benefit of decreased chance of STD. The reason our exclusivity is valuable is because women lose a great deal when at any moment after having their child, we can go start another family and divert our resources and attention to that new family. This will be …
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:07 AM
1

There are way too many virgins in this thread.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 09:45 PM
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First of all, women do have options but they are too afraid to pursue. They dont want to get rejected. So all they know how to do is wait or act slutty. Second, nexting isnt some manipulation tactic. It doesn't matter whether she cares or not. Third, girls care about it precisely as much as you would if your LTR who you live with told you she doesn't want to suck dick anymore. Girls game is about acquiring and trivializing commitment. Soft next makes her feel like she both lost your commitment a…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:48 PM
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Not a shit test. She was trying to be sexy and got cold feet.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:05 AM
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You don't know whether what another dude does is or isn't working. You only know what works for you. Any guy who fucks isn't blowing bitches up to rubber necks like you.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:20 AM
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Look at you, so desperate to find someone to give your exclusivity away to. You're still a faggot. Why are you thinking about LTR with a bitch before you've even fucked them?
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:47 PM
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Just turn it into rage and pump out some push ups or some shit. Every time. Make it have a positive impact on your life.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:17 PM
1

Cultivate an admiration for order well-crafted.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:02 AM
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Probably some shit she learned looking up how to be sexy online.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:00 AM
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Your premise is trash. Do you think that someone who has been brave his whole life wouldn't have to muster courage to not be a pussy? Previous achievement doesn't guarantee future achievement.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:30 PM
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Play it casual or you risk elevating it. If it's going to be escalated to a conflict, let her be the one to take it there. Realize that the fact it may escalate into a conflict stems significantly from the fact you dilly dallied.You treated it like it was going to be a fight, and she's going to read that energy. If she does escalate it, first deal with the bad behavior. Conversation doesn't move forward until she acts like someone who actually wants the best for both of you instead of someone ju…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:38 AM
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Only validate girls who've invested IN THE MOMENT. You can't reward a dog for a trick he did 10 minutes ago. You reward immediately or don't expect improvements in behavior. (And possibly expect to have baited her into bad behavior.) That means the fact that she validated you or whatever the fuck a billion years ago doesn't matter. I know this is a difficult subject for us men to grasp, because loyalty is a big thing for us, but girls don't think like that. They just have what they feel and rati…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:14 AM
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Bunch of fags in here. All of them framed in absolute TERROR that this bitch might give her pussy to someone else. Type of bitches to give their exclusivity to a plate (and thereby LTR them) just so that they stop hopping on strange dick. WHO GIVES A FUCK?? What does her giving her pussy away mean except an opportunity to bust out the champagne because new pussy is back on the menu? Here's what you do. You flirt with other women, and you do this no matter whether she's behaving or misbehaving ca…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 05:04 PM
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Too afraid of the outcome.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:36 PM
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Do you not know what a shit test is?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:24 AM
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Do you think a beta has the balls to tell a girl he's going to fuck her? Beta action here is being like "Omg ur soo beautiful." It's too polarizing. It forces the girl to ante up. Either she plays along with it, or she confronts the frame. Either way you win here, because her showing you the goods is way more than you could ever commit over the phone.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:32 PM
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Whenever a girl suggests you find another girl, even in jest, the only available move is to walk away and do it. There is zero alternative. You walk out the room and go do it. Sex is like a fork at a restaurant. It's not special, but it is essential. That she doesn't want to fuck you says she doesn't desire you sexually, but values your company. Girls are totally willing to lock themselves down with a teddy bear as an alternative to being single, so that they have someone to make them not feel l…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:20 PM
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Part of it is recognizing how retarded someone else's frame is. A lot of people have let themselves be taught the whole "assume everyone who disagrees with you might be right." But this amounts to "assume you might be wrong." And there's value in this when everyone is being intellectually honest. This attitude is something you should take with someone you MUST build rapport with (say, a customer) or someone whose earned your respect (an elder, a companion, etc.) BUT NOT WITH FUCKING WOMEN. Women…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:10 AM
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Blue pill just means you don't believe in reality and live in a fantasy world. Doesn't mean you can't woo a lady as a blue pill. It's just going to be an accident, and probably in large part a consequence of some powerful effort by her hamster to reject her instincts. Plenty of blue pill men are the center of their nerd circle, for example, and often get chosen by the low self esteem bitches in there. Plenty of women also behave for a very long time till they get married and have kids. At that m…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:58 AM
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Due to paternity tests, quality men gain nothing from a woman's exclusivity, but for less chance of STD's. Tell me the reason a man asks, and I'll explain to you how it admits to a weakness of character/absence of masculinity.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:53 AM
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Fuck other women. Stop trying to control this one. Every moment you spend acting like the jealous faggot, you elevate this (probably) orbiter. Now texting this guy is gonna be some fun thing for her. If you aren't savvy enough to teach a bitch the value of your exclusivity, then stop giving it away so easily. Make her fight for it, so that when she has it she actually understands that it's on her to keep it.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:36 AM
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Didn't sell it well enough. Probably came off as arbitrary, and it wouldn't surprise me if for you it's just about the ego of having a girl walk around like that. Girls can sense when we're on a power trip. A man on a power trip is a man who's overcompensating for a lack of power by being tyrannical. It's the demeanor of a leader not usually in control of things, and so they abuse it to get their money's worth. Asking her to do it "sweetly" is also a net negative. If you ask her like a g, then a…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:13 AM
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Instead of trying to dominate these girls when your inner frame is shit, why not solve the reason your frame is shit.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 08:04 AM
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No such thing as a man who doesn't feel like shit some days. The desire to tune everyone out is just a subtle way of saying you're shifting the blame for your past mistakes on other people. Which, idk. Maybe somewhat valid, but certainly worthless. It draws from how other people affect your mood. But the dependence on your mood is a core impediment to your progress. Mood is a fickle thing. Some days you're going to wake up, feel like shit for no reason at all. You claim to want to grow, but your…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:56 PM
1

So downsides downsides downsides. Are you ever going to actually get to telling us why you think anyone should ever live with a woman?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:37 PM
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Try going into a sales meeting and telling the customer how you fucked your bitch wife six ways to hell last night. An interaction with a customer isn't a conversation, it's a negotiation/transaction. Talking about that in a negotiation is like taking a shit at the dinner table. askTRP isn't a dinner table, it's a male space. Not only that, but you can fuck women and spin plates without having blatant disrespect. And now you're back to policing conversation like a woman.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:33 PM
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Still comes across as immature Vaginal frame. Policing conversations is what women do.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:36 PM
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and personality that I'm looking for. You don't know their personality. You only know the image they put out and seem very easily fooled by it. All this dumb analysis about ethots Maybe meet some people in real life wtf. Why do you know so much about these bitches. Unreal. Cut off all ways you have to even know these girls exist, and then fill the void. it's hard to meet girls/people in your mid-20s. No it isn't. You just don't. Well I guess hard right now because corona. And it really stops me …
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:05 PM
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I can't believe you didn't mention the most relevant concerns: It's much harder to fuck other women if she's in your place. It's also much harder to just walk away if she lives with you, and as we know, women have no gratitude for men who can't walk away. She will emotionally profit from you by your presence one way or another, and she will gain it for free. Even if you're fighting. If you aren't fighting, just having you around will make her less lonely and more secure. If you ARE fighting, she…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:44 PM
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Most important thing is she sees you as a sexual creature. The rest will arise naturally, but slowly, as a result of escalation and building of intimacy/rapport (comfort). Just take more pride in the small victories than you would with a ho, in the same way that kissing a girl whose never been kissed before is more impressive than kissing one who kisses everyone. To be clear, that doesn't mean you take her frame. She's going to be uncomfortable, and probably going to self-sabotage to protect her…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:24 PM
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Make an effort to do something that sucks every day.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:55 PM
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I can't believe you shat on the usual talk here so that you can swoon over your obscure paki/indian celebrities.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:52 PM
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The insecurity is real.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:49 PM
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Yikes. The horde of scarred man-children projecting their fears of getting cheated on again are here. If OP can convince her to fuck, he's done the bf a favor, you tards. It's her job to be faithful, not OP's.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:06 AM
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Just because you have other plates doesn't mean you can't get oneitis. She's making you unhappy with her behavior, but you're holding onto her because of past good behavior. Not that I'm surprised when she says shit like that. If you want the tests to stop, you either leave her, you dread her, or you attempt to teach her. First one's obvious. Second is the typical withdraw attention until she stops acting out. Third is convincing her that you guys are happier as plates. Which is kind of what the…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:54 AM
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This is two things: She has a healthy anxiety over the fact that your affection/attention is tentative. Good for you. Nothing really wrong with this. All women p.much feel this way with men whose opinion they care for. More malignant is the potential underlying implication that this is being framed as a bad thing that you have to answer for. If you acknowledge it, you might solidify that frame in her mind just because it's a place for her to defensively fall to, but it's something to keep your e…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:02 AM
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Sounds like your day sucked. Lets make it better by [insert x fun activity.] If she tries to just tell you about how much she misses him and shit, just act bored. If she keeps doing it, get distant. Don't tell her why. She'll figure out that you aren't interested in hearing her whine about her ex. What you are interested in is doing some cool shit to get her mind off it. That's what's on the table from you if you wanna actually fuck her. You might be thinking that's some cold shit, and that's th…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:38 PM
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She acted like a cunt to try and manipulate you towards any number of circumstances she'd be satisfied with. You did the correct thing, and said fuck you're frame, option C, bitch. I'm out. She doesn't regret what she wanted. She regrets that she went out like a cunt. She wants to feel like she was a good person in the end, and that's what this message is. It's not a claim she'll stop being a cunt. She sent you that for her benefit, and that benefit was she needed a way to quiet the voice inside…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:27 PM
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There is a benefit to the physical activity itself that goes beyond actually becoming stronger or actually getting bigger. The hormonal benefits for example. It's also just a brain dead way to do something beneficial for yourself. Some things take complex thinking to accomplish. Those kind of complex goals are easy to get lost in approaching, but lifting is just performing a movement. There's a reason "Go become a doctor/lawyer/business owner/etc" isn't a part of the sidebar, while lifting is ru…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:50 AM
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My bet is they feel like a cuck adoring/supporting a woman they know for certain is getting the dick, as opposed to a girl they think isn't getting any.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:44 AM
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You need more boyfriends.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:29 AM
2

If you liked it, you wouldn't be here asking how to change it.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:25 PM
2

If she isn't desirable like this, why are you with her?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:24 PM
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Depends where I meet them. If it's in a place where the norm is assuming everyone who talks to you wants to fuck you, then I don't acknowledge it when she says she has a boyfriend and game like normal. If I meet them at like college, I'd play it more slow. Ask questions like what they would do if their boyfriend asked for an open relationship. Also stuff like what's the worst thing they've done. Ask if they've ever been cheated on/what would they do if they were cheated on. If she implies she mi…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:03 PM
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Less is only more when she desires more. IE: Desires the end to a lull in the conversation, so she talks more and thereby invests more. If she desires nothing from you, less isn't gonna change that. Stop looking for an excuse not to ask bitches out. Better to throw a game like that out the window and be bold. If a girl says no to hanging out with you twice, never talk to her again. "But but what about female friends? Aren't they useful?" Not ones who can't even stand to hang out with you.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:12 AM
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"Good."
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:48 PM
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Black pillers are basically guys who can only fathom attraction from the male perspective. For us, no amount of intelligence or competence will make an ugly girl more fuckable. Some guys will hamster that a girl's personality makes the girl more attractive. But then if you pay attention, you'll notice the only time this happens is when a girl's personality makes fucking them easier. IE: Slut, or slut adjacent qualities. A girl who is easy to talk to is low cost per conversation. You don't gotta …
/r/askTRP31/03/20 08:27 AM
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Are you 21 or 11
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:59 PM
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The hardest thing to remember is to pull back. Don't just push. A girl might want you sexually, but that all fades when the discomfort becomes noticeable to her. I don't care if it's brad pitt, or whatever hot guy. If he just comes at her like an aggressive rapist, she's going to be too uncomfortable to consent. Don't try to compound victory after victory. IE: She's letting you touch her thigh, doesn't mean she's ready for you to just pin her down and shove your fingers three knuckles deep. Inst…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:59 PM
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Do you verbally tell them Yes. IME hinting at shit doesn't make it sexier for her to actually do it. Better to be bold/arrogant about it. If she says no, just laugh and tell her her mouth was probably too dirty anyways/any other passing of the shit test.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:23 AM
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A&A: "Yeah, [insert exaggerated description of how destroyed you are by her absence]" Comfort: "Don't make me admit it."
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:57 AM
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You gotta realize that the shit women put us through is not their fault. Civilization was made by men to tame men, not women. Holding it personally against a woman is like holding a cat accountable for shedding all over your house. It's just what they do. A dog will take advantage of you if you let it, and so will a woman. But when you see someone being taken advantage of by their dog, you know it's that owner's fault. Same thing with women. If they're misbehaving, it's either your fault, or the…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:22 AM
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Yeah you're right. You should probably just give up.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:23 AM
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Video chat. Tease her bit by bit into revealing more and more. Don't expect much the first time. Don't bully her into it either. Make it like a joke, sorta like shock comedy. Like you're asking her to do something as a show of your audacity, or to see how she'll react, rather than because you actually give a shit if she shows you. If you aren't someone they already like talking to, don't bother. Nudes are sometimes harder to get than pussy, cause it has actual consequences.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:16 AM
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Get rich. Be competent. Also lifting isn't just to look good, fool. It'd be worth doing even if it didn't make girls wet. BJJ isn't just to win in fights. You don't understand the value of anything it seems. Only what you don't have. Very vaginal.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:12 AM
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Venting to her will feel like telling your boss how shitty your job is and hoping he's cool enough to shoot the shit with you about it. And maybe he is cool enough. Or tries to be. So you keep whining to him. Eventually he stops caring about being cool and starts getting annoyed with you for it. At least with venting to your boss, there's some chance he has some wisdom to guide you. Women don't even have that.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:47 AM
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If she wants to go report the retard for sexual assault, I'd probably stand next to her while she did. If she was a friends with benefits, I might look after her a bit, but only if I feel like she needs it. Gotta leave space for her to be a big girl and take care of herself. If she expects me to fight him, or if she starts a fight with him, I'm walking out the door. Not trying to stumble into a darwin award overreacting to a narcissist.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:50 PM
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I'd wait for corona to settle down. Because if you get a moderate interest reply where she's conveying interest and engaging you, but is not so interested that she'll see you during corona, you got a lot of deadspace. But if you weren't gonna try and game her up from moderate interest either way, may as well shoot the shot.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:27 AM
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Yes. Because your image of a quality girl is blue pill to the core. AWALT. Just because you find a girl who hasn't ho'd doesn't mean she wouldn't have ho'd, or won't ho in the future. You are clinging to some fuzzy bullshit that actually would not have even made you happy if you actually got it. If you found a quality woman you wouldn't even know what to do with her. You're still plugged in.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:35 AM
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Not OP. Arabs seperate genders pretty brutally. Even in U.S if you go to a muslim private school it's not uncommon to find high schoolers whose only convo with a woman is with their mother/family.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:33 PM
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Whenever you hear a woman declare how it's going to be, your first instinct should be to deny the foundation of her attempt to seize leadership. "If you want to see other women, tell me Goodbye and go ahead." Why do you have to listen to her? This is just her flailing to show she's willing to walk away, except here's the squeeze. Women can handle it if you walk away from them, but they really struggle to make the choice to walk away from you without you giving them some impetus. By taking either…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 08:40 PM
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"No, I'm not doing any of that." Even if you are. Just be stern and to the point. Goal here is to make them feel like their efforts were wasted, not to make them feel like they annoyed you. They don't care about if they annoyed you. If anything it lets them feel like a victim. Ie: Just trying to help!!! You take away what they want, which is the opportunity to take your problems and use it as an opportunity to steal your potential success. Not to put you down really, more to raise themselves up.…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 05:45 PM
1

Are your conversations trash?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 05:39 PM
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You see pursuit the way a woman sees themselves pursuing. Let me teach you how men see pursuit. Being pursued by a man only means you're more valuable than his hand. We don't need women to be valuable to pursue them. We just need them to be fuckable. A woman needs us to be valuable to pursue us, and it takes quite a bit of SMV, coupled with comfort on your part, for her to feel she ought to pursue. Even then, she'll feel like a loser along the same vein as what a guy feels when he DOESN'T pursue…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 05:17 PM
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Still got blue pill goals.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 05:01 PM
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You asked her for exclusivity. You can dress it up in "sexual possessive" or whatever, but what you actually did was inform her that what she does with her body matters to you. You're talking about female calibration, but I think it's you who's calibrating. Idk if you think that shit's kinky or something, but it makes zero sense to me why you'd deign to tell her that. That said, who the fuck knows if the plate broke, or if she just took it as random dirty talk. Maybe she forgot by now.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:01 AM
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Young girls don't think they're good enough for a doctor or a lawyer. Their lack of preference for them is a defense mechanism against being alpha widowed. (Bet that's a term you haven't heard in a while.) It's also self-sabotage because they assume they'd reject her. Similar stuff happens with bodybuilders. You have to understand that for women, their plot goes like this: Be opened by a man they perceive as better than them-->Get their commitment--> Break that man down until she feels he's wors…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:07 AM
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It's eerie how you can just feel it. This super subtle low muscle tone is the dead give away. (IE: Large difference between resting face and an actual facial expression. Even their face muscles are degenerating.) It's the energy a man gives off when he's in his 40's and ultra-low Testosterone. Not even effeminate. Just.. sad.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 10:08 PM
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Looks contribute to a certain impression. Blue pill behavior proves her impression wrong. You hear it all the time. Girls bitch about a hot (beta) guy they got with, then 3 months later she's like "This guy ain't shit." That's what good looking beta gets you.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:24 PM
1

So block her and stop forgiving yourself for using your free time to day dream about her.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:54 PM
1

If you want size in an efficient way, you probably need some gear to make it weighted. Also nothing wrong with cardio. If its good for mma fighters, its alpha enough for you. Stamina is important in the bedroom and for lifting when you're too busy to just have 5 min rest periods between every set.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:40 PM
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but not being exclusive means... I'm getting cucked? If you're exclusive and she isn't, you're a cuck. If you aren't talking to other women cause you spend all your time giving this girl attention, you're a cuck. Also it sounds like you want exclusivity just so that she doesn't fuck other dudes. Retarded scarcity mentality shit. getting drunk here was acceptable in the context that she had her some shit going on in her life). No it isn't? Getting drunk isn't a healthy coping mechanism. Stop maki…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:03 AM
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I got fucked academically too. Why isn't this post about how to fix your life? All this shit putting it on this bitch you got oneitis for. A bitch occupies the mind for two reasons: Things are either going so well that you're just looking for problems, or things are going so poorly that you're running away from the real ones. She isn't even blocked on your shit. You probably wake up look at your phone and get depressed every time you haven't gotten a text from her. Why the fuck can she even cont…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:26 AM
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Read. Write about what you read.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:04 AM
1

Gonna obliterate a reading list I've procrastinated for a while. The Prince Faust Lord of the Rings (Yeah yeah, but fuck you, I didn't watch the movies and I wanna know why everything is based on this shit.) Analects of Confucius The Canterbury Tales
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:02 AM
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Vaginal thought process. This idea that your outside circumstance is that fucking important. It matters but you're not at the point where it ought to. Three people ago, your ancestors shat in the streets. Do you think they were just piles of depression over it? Stop being a faggot. You aren't especially genetically different from people with SO MUCH WORSE than what you had, so clearly it's the nurture that's turned you into such a fucking pussy. Read a book. Learn a skill. Be a fucking man. Wahh…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 06:31 AM
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Meh. It's kinda clumsy, but it's probably better than being her orbiter. Go talk to other women. If you don't have the motivation, block her. You're talking to her from the perspective of being rejected, which is why you're butthurt. A better frame is that she's losing your interest. Which leads to my suspicion that your actual frame that led you and her to this point is you actually enjoy talking about dumb shit with her. Maybe cause you're lonely or you can feel the tug to be her orbiter, and …
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:15 AM
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If you open the car door for a girl 10 times in a row, and then suddenly stop doing it, she's going to get mad at you. Her brain interprets it as a sudden inability to trust that you will do x or y for her. To put it in the equivalent for how it feels for us, it's as though she put up new boundaries on sex that weren't there before. The equivalent for us is like if she tells you outta nowhere she doesn't wanna do doggy style. Doesn't mean you're wrong to be clear. Just like you shouldn't rape a …
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:57 AM
1

Meh. You don't know what crazy people you'll meet. No point starting shit with people unless the victory is actually worthwhile. Don't start fights without at least knowing your enemy. Literally just playing the lottery hoping it isn't some retard.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:47 PM
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Things that add to smv in your profile and pics. -Nice smile nice face nice fashion nice haircut clean look -pictures w preselection (w hot people) -hire a tinder photographer (get some nice clothes first) -pictures with social proof (traveling, pets count. Bio depends on your energy. Play into it or push against it if your energy is unattractive.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:19 PM
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Have a roast ready for everyone you meet. But don't roast your boss you dumb chucklefuck. The fact this is occupying space in your mind is more of a problem than you not having shit to say. Weak frame.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:56 AM
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Not a ONS if she has access your contact info.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:52 AM
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Girls really don't care if you're a misogynist in real life, unless they can leverage it to damage your reputation (Which is only really possible in work settings.)
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:10 AM
1

Boundaries are for what she does with/to YOU. Not what she does with other people. Can't control that to begin with, and the attempt makes you look like a faggot. The mixed signals is cause guys in these sorta forums are terrified of being called a cuck.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:07 AM
1

Personally, I tend to get girls to be open to me about their shit, and then when they ask me about my shit, I ask them how they would like it if I told people about her. Yet to find a girl be cool with the idea of me bragging about fucking her brains out. (And if I did, that's some next level ho shit. I'd drop em on the fucking spot cause god damn.) It ain't exactly easy for my ego, but knowing if she's currently fucking around is useful for me for health reasons, and comprehending sudden bursts…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:53 AM
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So whats the issue??
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:46 AM
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In other words, you're afraid you're gonna talk to a woman whose already getting her mind blown by chad. Quit being a pussy. If you were talking to enough women, one single unavailable woman wouldn't end up weighing on your mind. Literally all it takes to plate a bitch is to find ONE girl who says yes. Then suddenly you have a bitch to fuck for a couple of months.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 09:38 AM
1

Female friends are useful if you don't get oneitis for them.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:59 PM
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You're jealous of women? Why? They bleed out their pussies every month and have to sit when they pee. Their lives are emotional turmoil. We're stronger than them, smarter than them, funnier than them, more creative than them. All they got on us is they look good and that's cause WE like the way they look. Everything good about a woman comes from us. Literally, guys decided they liked big thighs 10 years ago, and women got btfo'd since. Meanwhile, there are literal hobos slaying out there. Every …
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:40 PM
1

Time and attention is given in the initial pursuit just as a logistical necessity of the fact the quality of our SMV is indeterminable at a glance. Women take in the whole instead of just appearance like us, and also aren't capable of pursuing, and part of our appeal to them is the emotions we illicit. The issue here isn't giving time and attention to a plate. Ain't no plate that gets no time and attention. It's the claim she spread her legs FOR that time and attention. For Alpha Fucks: She spre…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:47 PM
3

Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:16 PM
8

I mean you don't gotta drop her for this. All women do this. You're never gonna find a non-double-talking bitch. Pimping comes from getting so good at handling shit like this that you can get a girl to be your plate for way longer than she really ought to. All girls shit test. All girls need to make plays on our manhood. They love men who are better than them, but also hate being worse than you. Though TRP usually just advises raising your SMV so high you have a constant rotation, which isn't so…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:10 PM
18

Tl;DR: I love this post. It's a perfect example of why we're better than women. It's exactly the kind of double talk bullshit women do. Girl: I was just wondering what you would call me and you I immediately come to TRP and find a post about this same situation and copied some of his texts almost identically Me: haha not sure, it’s a little too early... don’t you think? Don't articulate a girl's words for her. She didn't actually even say anything yet. Force her to put her frame into words, or s…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 03:04 PM
1

Have you tried rolling up your window? Don't talk to people who have nothing to offer you unless you've made your peace with being magnanimous with your time. Look at the price you payed for engaging with this guy. He now occupies space in your mind.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:31 PM
2

Pick a guy with a body you want. If they were in your situation, would they succumb? If you don't want to be average, don't take average chump excuses. There are either always excuses or there are none.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:16 AM
3

When someone is in a place of righteousness you needa redirect their frame, not attack it head on, because they're basically prepping to shove their frame down your throat. Instead you give him a different way to feel important, so that he can vent his righteousness in a way that serves you. They've thought already of how they're going to respond if you deny them.Most you can really do is steal the victory from them. Say all the bad shit they're going to say before they say it. Make their threat…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:03 AM
1

Taking it too personal like a faggot. You're coming at this by begging her for it. Did you think gaming ends when she became your LTR? Nah. This isn't even that hard. All you need to do is get her into it. Here's how you get a girl to want you to fuck her in the ass. You just do butt adjacent shit in the bedroom until she's curious about it of her own volition. Deny foul play if she accuses you. Move your finger near it. Eventually finger her ass. Dirty talk about it. If ya'll aren't able to go …
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:42 AM
1

I notice you didn't say this old gf was hot. She's a plain jane, huh? EDIT: Anyways, oneitis is the diagnosis. AWALT. A woman's journey is to find a high SMV man and convince herself she's better than him. It's in their nature to knock us down a peg. With you, she probably wouldn't feel like she could do that until you showed a crack in your SMV, or married her, bringing her to the point where she can take nothing more from you. Women who are like this aren't bad or disqualified. All women are l…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:47 AM
4

She did it out of fear you'd leave. She does not get tingles from you, and she won't for YOU because with you she linked sex with commitment. IE: She fucks you so that you'll stay, not because she's attracted to you. That is beta bucks path. That's why she waited for you to LTR her before telling you about her alleged lack of interest. Her lack of interest isn't in sex. It's in sex WITH YOU. That or she has a medical problem, but the end result is the same. She don't wanna fuck you out of desire…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:35 AM
1

Don't assume she didn't respond. It's possible it was something like a video chat, and he communicated via gmail chat, for example because she didn't wanna unmute and let her roommates hear or some shit. Regardless, any woman not fucking other dudes before you commit to her is probably ugly, a virgin, or a loser realistically. Don't stop fucking other women obviously, but other men desiring a woman who spreads her legs for you is a compliment to you, not a threat. You're fucking a girl other men…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:30 AM
1

Are the same jokes immature, or are you just so disgusted by your past self that remnants of your past trigger you?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:30 AM
6

Wait until there's a visible crack in the armor if you want to repair it. Any earlier and she'll be too headstrong. When a girl pulls back, you pull back harder. There isn't another choice. Even if you chase her and she accepts while in the afterglow of victory, she'll not respect you properly even as a friend. Because you rewarded anti-social manipulative behavior. If no crack appears, just hit her up like nothing is weird to chill, but like a year from now. Meanwhile, continue to lead a life y…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:06 PM
8

What would you do if your hypothetical daughter acted like this towards you?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:22 PM
1

Probably took some pictures for one guy and decided to expand the business to you too. Maybe the guy got her horny and went to sleep.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:51 PM
4

These sorta things are what I find myself only learning by experience, because women are experts at subtly pushing boundaries in a way that put it on you to correct the situation. The only way I can sound authentic in addressing these sorts of things is abrasively chewing them out (with some jokes and shit mixed in.) Though I'm sure quite a few people are good at doing it while sugarcoating, which I'd recommend if that's your steeze. The thing is, you need to be righteous here. Your frame needs …
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:34 PM
2

Don't dissect texts. Waste of time. Ive seen high interest girls be omega excited but then text like theyre dead inside, and vice versa. Girls are constantly manipulating the perception others have of them. Even the plainest of janes do it over text. There is only one relevant factor: compliance. Did they respond? If yes, the game is on and there is an unknowable amount of interest.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:18 PM
1

Stop overthinking it. Be cool. This is not an attractive place to be.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:11 PM
2

When we had texted previously during the week, she did complain I didnt text her enough, and when I texted her more, she texted less. I chew women out the moment I notice they're trying to overtly put me in a box. It doesn't matter if they're right or wrong. It's not her place. If I can't figure the fuck she wants on my own, then she should just fucking leave me for the magical man who can decipher her stupid ass.The audacity of trying to tell me what to do and how to act is unreal, and I immedi…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:06 AM
1

Need more girls in your phone to text.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:55 AM
2

Get a midget fetish. Of course you're fucked on dating apps. Shit's 95% looks based, and they can filter by height. Have you tried cold approaching? Probably not, because you're over here talking about tinder failures.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:52 AM
19

Blessed with zero fucks given for mistakes of my past. I think it's cause I'm so hard on myself when I fuck up in the present, or the near past. The only TRP related errors that rub me the wrong way long term always seem to be where I'm too nice to a girl. But what it comes down to was I'm annoyed about the lack of gratitude from em afterwards, so I get this irrational wish I didn't do it. It's just not in a women's nature to be grateful, and it's not in mine to do good things for the ungrateful…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:48 AM
1

Only the non-perishables are really flying off the shelves in my neck of the woods (NYC). Perishables are going quick, but they're being restocked quick too.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 11:39 PM
1

Good time for social proof imo. Crisis are an opportunity to show you're an ally worth having. Some random text of well-wishes might be worse than nothing at all though, so measure properly. People are going to ask what you did during the quarantine. Have an answer.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 09:19 PM
1

I didn't say only low-mid tier women develop or use those techniques. Judt that they in particular tend to do so more frequently as a means to signal they're easier than pretty girls. (Whether they know it or don't) I'm saying the value of those things to us men is it makes gaming those women easier. Not the quality of their character as they might believe/dudes embarrassed about dating 4's might lead us to believe.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:52 PM
2

You don't sound happy. Pursuing women isn't gonna change that. Our happiness trickles down to them, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:45 AM
8

Well yeah. There is no greater IOI than a girl approaching you. Game isn't for high interest girls. It's for low interest ones. And mid-low tier women develop other skills to net high value men. Namely they do things to make a guy feel like she's easy, although the girl herself probably just thinks of it as her personality being what netted him. But nah. Funny bitches. Bubbly bitches. Talkative bitches. All those things aren't effective sexual strategies because of their desirability as traits i…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:35 AM
2

No such thing as a plate that doesn't get validated. But you can let her drive shotgun without giving the keys. It's a game. She's chasing a high, and it's over once you tell her anything that makes her think she doesn't need to chase. Push and pull.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:30 AM
3

Just a shit test. It's not her being cocky. She is correct. You would fuck her. Cocky isn't what she's doing. What she's doing is trying to overtly confirm her intuition for the satisfaction. She doesn't even know if you just go like "Yeah totally hur hurr" She won't want to fuck you (At least as much. Tbh most girls with high enough interest to send nudes will give you a lot of wiggle room. ) In that specific case, I'd lead into dirty talk and go for a meet literally that day. But that might no…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:12 AM
10

Your frame is in shambles. You fix that most reliably by being someone you actually like. Most of that is gonna be lifting and shit, but some part of that is claiming the parts of you that you ought to be proud of but aren't. You're still in college, so you don't really have a career or serious job, which means you don't have a place in your community. Need to make friends who belong to you and you belong with. If you feel like a leech on society, then do something for society. If you feel weak,…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:07 PM
1

Do you have friends?
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:03 PM
1

Girls don't approach 10/10 guys. They're too afraid. IOI's out the wazoo though. They approach guys who look like they fit in.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:13 PM
2

If a girl is showing high interest, you're past the point of game. The whole point of game is to make a girl from low interest->high interest. At that point, it's just a matter of logistics, LMR, and raising sexual tension. Not really in need of game from there.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:29 PM
2

You sound beholden to it.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:24 PM
1

Guys finally get control of their life after high school, and then are met with women at their peak smv. They're struggling to find their way in life while girls are born with the only thing men actually care about. Sure, some impressive nurture on the part of their parents might be the cherry on top, but no guy's picking a 300 lb fatty (fetishists aside) just because she got a good personality. A girl is never going to be as attractive to a man as she was when she was 18-22, unless she squander…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:18 PM
1

Why not just go find a fit girl and make her your girlfriend? If you can't, your girl will probably leave/cheat on you after getting a tight bod anyways. If she doesn't already have interest, nothing you can do can fix that. You can help someone only when they decide they want to be helped.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:28 PM
2

Just have a plan to do some low investment shit that's easy for them to be like "EHHH wtf why not?" Playing basketball is a go-to for me.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:47 PM
0

I think there might be other reasons to hide wealth. But if its to get her to like you for you, that enterprise is futile at the jump.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 07:42 PM
10

She's never going to like you for you. She's not capable of understanding you. She only knows what she feels and what the hamster tells her she has to believe to maintain the emotional storm that is her existence. Guys get tricked into thinking girls like them for what they truly are inside because they're believing what the girl's hamster is doing. When a girl is in a relationship, the hamster is constantly spinning majestic tales about how amazing she is for netting you. One of those tales inv…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:28 PM
1

Just tell her you have some old people in your life u need to avoid giving corona, so you cant go.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 02:37 PM
1

Take responsibility if you fucked up, but don't let her be your mother. You fucking up doesn't give her any authority.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 02:35 PM
2

Are they ugly? Rate them from 1-30. 1-10 is ugly bitches, so 10 would be a girl who is as pretty as an ugly bitch can get. 11-20 average bitches. 21-30 pretty bitches. I find this works better than 1-10 cause on 1-10 no one ever rates a girl below average.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:30 AM
1

You want an LTR. That's why you're pressuring her not to go there.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:21 PM
1

Girls are bad at math. The fatal flaw in all female sexual strategy is the fact they all pursue the top 20%. There just aren't enough high SMV men to go around, and it's for that reason it's even possible to spin plates.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:06 PM
1

By not getting oneitis like you.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:00 PM
5

Your frame is weak.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:56 PM
1

Would be weirder if they didn't.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:24 PM
-1

But why whine about it.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:05 AM
3

Women don't need to think that you love them. Only that it's possible for you to love them. If you are flaunting your plan to only spin plates, women lose their goal. It makes them feel like orbiters. Our game is pussy. Their game is our love/commitment (Which really are both the same thing because the expression of our love is commitment traditionally.) That said, you can frame your way around things so that they still feel like they are important to you while knowing your dating strategy, but …
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:03 AM
8

Why women do it isn't the question. The actual question is "why do men do it less?" Righteousness is a frame that men conceived for the sake of their mothers, sisters, daughters, and wives. It's a way for us to be prideful about not following our more barbaric instincts. Women don't need to be righteous to survive, but an unrighteous man isn't trustworthy. Untrustworthy men are dangerous. You'll note that women don't actually mind that much being around unrighteous people, provided they don't fe…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:58 AM
2

Should probably just chew her out for pursuing an unhealthy line of inquiry for no reason. You haven't taught her that there is no treasure for her to find if she digs. Her energy is better placed in enriching your lives. Make it really obvious that if she wasn't so focused on this, you'd both be happier. She probably has some fucked up woman reason for why she's doing that. Find it, and then beat her over the head with it. She'll probably try and shame you for not just telling her. Call you dis…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:32 AM
2

Trust me, bitches are so insecure about how their pussy looks they won't care what your dick looks like so long as it's clean and not diseased. If it has never been a problem, don't assume it will be. If they ask, tell them it's a birth mark. It's a slight lie, but it's just a lie to avoid having to explain the whole vitiligo shit. May as well be a birth mark anyways. Bet some bitches will even think its cute. Women aren't as visual as us. Once they feel like they like us, they hamster our visua…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:47 AM
34

Imagine whining that your gym isn't a sausage fest.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:43 AM
16

You get pride by being competent.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 10:10 PM
16

I bet your stamina and flexibility is trash. Go for a run. Do some stretches. Become a ninja. Or see if some other gym is open and has a weekly trial period.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:18 PM
1

Not enough information. Anxiety about what? You worried you gonna get cheated on? Do you still have that sense that some women would never cheat? You gotta find what exact scenario you're afraid of here if you're gonna explore the flaw in your frame.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:18 PM
1

You get out of that mindset by realizing what the type of person calling people cliche and cringy gets out of it. In essence, they see an opportunity to frame you down while framing themselves up. This isn't someone you need to fear. Sure you might make a shitty joke sometimes, but an ally can still play off of a shitty joke, or at least have some playful banter about it. Would you shit on your friends if they said whatever cliche cringy shit? If you would, you're just a shitty friend. You'll no…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:10 PM
0

It's not like they're like that as a consequence of malevolence. It's like being mad at a dog for shedding.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:04 PM
2

He also says he'd be glad if she did because it would be his excuse to fuck other women. He made the concession of her fucking other men in the context of a MFM threesome because he did not feel he could righteously justify a FFM threesome otherwise. Your assumption is she would've stayed someone beyond FWB to him if she did go and fuck that other man. Regardless. Cuck is someone who unknowingly raises another man's child, gives exclusivity to a non-exclusive woman, or gets off to another man fu…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:25 AM
31

Sure. She can laugh about your pathetic text with the guy actually fucking her. Spread some laughs, clown.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:24 PM
26

Women give dating advice based on what they want/wanted to happen to themselves. But they don't want it based on a logistical understanding of what would happen. They want it based on how good it would make them feel if it did happen. In this case, it would send their ego to the moon. If you didn't have to didn't have to do anything to get pussy, would you do anything? Even if the bitch with the pussy was hot as fuck? Probably not. Same applies to our commitment. It doesn't matter how competent …
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:10 AM
1

In other words, she's a 3/10, and you're embarrassed to be seen in public with her. Just lie. She'll be happier not having the truth.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:05 AM
1

Competence and a genuine desire for the best things to come to them.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:57 AM
2

Go to the gym, let yourself get mad about it, cuss the bitch out in your head while you put a bar over your head.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 02:35 AM
7

You wasn't supposed to approach bitches if you got a runny nose anyways. Insofar as risking yourself, don't be a pussy. This shit only kills old and weak people. You're a young man, faggot. Sooner you get it, sooner you can have an immunity.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:55 AM
1

They don't have the skills to pursue men out of their league, and even if they did, wouldn't be able to handle the loss if they opened their hearts to a man they can't reliably replace. It's also one of the reasons a girl chooses to cheat on a high quality man. She can't handle the anxiety of failing to worm her way to the position she craves (IE: wife) and learned at some point in her life that it's easier to deal with if she fucks other dudes.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:58 PM
8

Us guys have an ego about everything in our sphere of influence. We're territorial like that. If you relate the emotions you feel when a girl talks bout other dudes to the what you'd feel in the unga bunga caveman days, and reduce those feelings to the root you'll see what I mean. Nowadays we process our shit (which isn't necessarily a bad thing its just what we do.) The way you process it is instead of giving up or pushing back on the validity of your possessiveness, you decide "fuck this bitch…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:48 PM
8

Possessive is a better word. You don't like when people play with your toys. Ego thing
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:23 PM
2

Why would you ask out people in your class when you can literally ask out girls not in your class on campus (if you're in college) or in the cafeteria (if you're in high school)?
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:18 PM
-1

If you wouldn't fuck a hot girl because she's on social media, you're a faggot. If the reason this bothers you is because you're hunting for an LTR, you're trying to use TRP for blue pill goals. A.K.A you're a faggot.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:19 AM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:03 AM
1

You don't pass a shit test by answering her question with an actual answer. This is really sad.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:59 AM
4

She felt like you didn't get pussy. Don't assume bitches are confident about anything. They really aren't. They're insecure messes. If she actually thought there was no chance you get ass, she wouldn't have asked. She would've pitied you. The asking was a shit test. One you clearly failed internally. Probably externally too.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:29 AM
3

Only reason to play with girls in a setting where you're forced to meet is a lack of abundance outside of those places. Otherwise, the consequences would have deterred your horny ass. Just be friends with the girl. If you leave, you can make a play. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:20 AM
3

Not really. Not unless they've been around the block quite a bit.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:08 AM
2

You think women see you the way men see women. You're wrong. Men are visual. If we think a girl is ugly, our dick just won't get hard for her. We'll be disgusted with ourselves for having to resort to her. The only thing an ugly girl can do for us pump our ego and make us feel guilty for not liking her no matter how funny, smart, or talented she is. On the other hand, women see us for the whole package, or what they perceive to be the whole package. They care about what they feel, not how we loo…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:56 AM
2

Just fake the sexual experience. Unlike lying on your resume, there are no consequences.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:37 AM
3

Strong dislike. At first they might feel dreaded over the guilt for being cunty, but when they see you're tolerating them, the self-censorship wanes. Because the act of tolerating their flaws is at its core what they vye for. They want to do as little for your commitment as they possibly can. The irony is your commitment means something to them only when they fight for it. Don't let them be annoying for free. A woman chases a man by filtering herself. When she's annoying with no push back, she d…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:24 PM
1

Frame battles over text are utterly worthless. Even if you hold frame, she'll at best feel like a pushover. Notably different from passing a shit test in person, which excites her. Better not to play. Be flexible or decide to nyx the meet altogether in a way that suggests interest in trying to make it work sone other time. The other option I guess is to toss the board and respond in a risky way, which I don't dislike but might burn options a little carelessly.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 09:58 PM
1

Do you have an annoying voice?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:39 PM
3

Why the fuck isn't what he did in the post?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:38 PM
12

It's fun for them. Typing a message like that makes them feel like they've gone out and hit on some girls, even if they don't get a response. They're anonymous here too, so a rejection online is painless. Especially so if that rejection is just being ignored. Sometimes they'll even get a response. Something like "That's so sweet!" You can imagine what they get out of it in that context.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:19 PM
4

Just make friends with people in your class in college. Both guys and girls. Social circle game is better for a classroom setting because if you get rejected there actually are consequences. They literally have to show up every class. That damage will magnify if this girl gossips to people in that same class. If you want to pick up girls in college with less risk for rejection, cold approach girls on campus outside of class/meet them in clubs.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:55 AM
2

Women aren't built to be grateful. They're built to constantly vye for more, especially when they didn't work as hard as thry could for what they have. Gratitude is a form of righteousness and righteousness is a masculine frame that women don't have need for. Gratitude is something a leader has for a follower, not the ither way around.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 11:06 PM
1

Easier to join an established group than to create one.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:24 PM
1

God damn lmfao.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:32 AM
5

Make friend-->"Been to any good parties lately?" Just make friends, and ask people about it like you would ask about their major or some shit. Bonus points if you have a good story about a party you've been to. Shouldn't linger on it obviously, but just add it to the stuff you shoot the shit about.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:23 AM
5

Plus, you'll probably end up eating more
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:21 AM
1

Someone's insecure about his flaccid cock.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:19 AM
1

"I know" is great because it forces a girl to ante up about her opinion about you. Either she'll think your SMV is too low to say shit like that and dip, or more likely, she'll hamster her way into your frame. If it's middle of the road, she'll shit test you, which just gives you an opportunity to pass a shit test.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:18 AM
7

That isn't self-deprecation. That's A&A.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:13 AM
14

Imagine having frame battles over text. Imagine entering her frame over text. Imagine letting an LTR believe not only is sex not important to you, but also playing chicken with that LTR on the subject. Your partner said that your time and affection as of yet is not as important as her pussy, and you just accept that. You should've been offended at the implication. Imagine thinking this silly bitch is wifey. You're a clown.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:02 AM
1

Lift your ass to the grocery store and buy some vegetables god damn.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 12:51 AM
2

Make a move. If she isn't into you, you aren't going to change that over text to begin with. Plan a date--> Tell her that you want to make plans to meet this week/next week--> On affirmative reply make said plans--> If she says yes, next time you text her should be on the day. Bout an hour before the plans, say you're running late a couple of minutes. When she gives a non-affirmative reply, assess the cause of the issue. Is the issue logical or emotional? If it's logical, offer a logical solutio…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:28 PM
2

Age 21 v.s 18= No difference really. Average age of a person who gets into med school is around 24-26, when most people would assume it's 21-22. At that age no one will even treat you different. If it really bothers you, just lie about your age. Failing out of college This is a problem. Sit down and decide on something to do with your life. If you can't, pick something that doesn't need much planning. Pick a trade or some shit. If you want to go back to college and go do something fancier, you c…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:53 PM
2

Micro-managers are neurotic guys who can't sit still without overthinking things. Basically acts like a fussy mother. They feed off the opportunity to steal accomplishments from others. They get off on being THE GUY PEOPLE ALWAYS ASK FOR HELP. It's their identity. Traditional response to a micromanaging BOSS is to overload them with so much information that they wish you'd leave them alone. Idk if doing that with him, as it doesn't sound like he's your boss, might make him feel more important an…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:31 PM
1

I struggle with girls in racial cliques in general. Even ones for my own race cause I just feel gross participating in the circle jerk. If a girl makes friends of all races, they're pretty much the same as any other race, barring certain cultural stuff. But I find the cultural stuff is always a logistical obstacle, not an emotional one. Whereas if a girl is in a clique, my theory is that she can't handle a conversation where she doesn't use being of the same race as a crutch, and so the only in …
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:23 PM
3

if she isn't a text away from coming over, not worth it.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:14 PM
2

It's a dog's nature to leave hair everywhere. Don't mean we can't love bitches.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 03:44 AM
12

Nah, all women lie. She doesn't even know she's lying. Women are manipulative and make plays against our manhood just by their nature. It's the animal in them, and faulting them for it is like getting mad at the scorpion for stinging you. You aren't ever gonna find a bitch who doesn't hedge herself. If you want a partner who puts themselves on the line, better install grindr.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:50 AM
36

Should be noted this isn't ASD. This is her making a play for commitment. Hence her trying to shame you for only hitting her up for booty calls, as though that makes you a bad person. Wouldn't be surprised if she was b.sing about the seeing someone else shit considering what she said right after. Either way, this is just a plate breaking. Probably not even permanently. This ho ain't healthy enough to keep a man judging by how she broached her beef, so she'll probably be back.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:46 AM
80

Historically we go around and around with whatever it is that we do. She wants this to change. And I'm not sure what has changed over the years, but since the last time we spoke/hung out I can't stop thinking about you. She has romanticized the idea of something changing for herself, and is describing the situation in a way that makes you feel important. It's pretty much ruining my life. More ego pumping. Communicates the psychological agony of this fantasy not coming true. I don't want anything…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:46 PM
3

You only care about this distinction because you're afraid of rejection, or want a go sign to do some over the top creepy shit that justifies a fear of rejection.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 10:22 PM
2

but nothing that couldn’t be construed as just a bit of fun. It's key that, especially when you aren't alone with a girl, that you maintain a degree of plausible deniability. This is something a lot of us guys struggle with for a variety of reasons.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 02:57 PM
0

Lazy.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:41 AM
1

Replace her with 5 girls. If you can't, find out why and fix it.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:59 PM
5

Soft next to me sounds too clumsy for a non-open LTR. Because you're not fucking other women, so it's basically choosing to leave the LTR adrift, when your job is to lead it. If you're not planning on cheating, I'd recommend you make a more overt shift to friends with benefits/plate by telling her you want to take a break. She might split right there though. If you ARE planning on cheating, then there's nothing else to do. Go fuck other women, and treat her like a plate/fwb till she finds out. Y…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:19 PM
3

It's not that they can't. They don't want to. Cept for bitches who want to dabble in what it's like to be a man. But even those girls wanna be able to pull back to their true nature at any moment.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:10 PM
17

If you want to have a libido, don't masturbate. If you need to get some shit done and you've got your head in the clouds day dreaming bout hoes, masturbate.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:09 PM
2

What was the reason?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:13 PM
2

Not enough evidence to do anything. If you wanna be Machiavellian bout it, you can befriend her and wait for a more overt move on her part. Recording conversations is pretty easy too.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:03 AM
8

A lot of partying This isn't really fun for most men. A lot of money is lost, and the environment itself is hectic. There's a reason a lot of the guys who thrive in those environments look like losers. It just isn't a sustainable fantasy. It's the type of shit people who buy lottery tickets dream up.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:59 AM
3

Not necessarily true. Girls that high up have the luxury of experimenting. They'll test the shitters every once in a while, especially because society tells them they're supposed to like the dopey lovey dovey dad bod guy. Just ends in a train wreck.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 02:52 PM
1

Idk how long you got, but if you got time, whenever she brings it up wear a face of disgust like she said she expects you to lick another man's cum off her titties. Use emotional words like disgusting and gross to talk about it, instead of trying to appeal to the logical side of her. If you really want, you can try and teach her that self-esteem comes from finding yourself to be esteemable, not by paying a doctor to put fun bags in your chest. Can't really control her though. If she goes down th…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 02:48 PM
2

Your frame is weak from the rejection because you aren't calling another girl afterwards. Not because of her. A strong frame is at it's weakest when it isn't tested, not when it's tested. Weak frame isn't caused by tests to it. Tests just reveal it.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:02 AM
2

95% of women ain't gonna just take a downgrade from GF to plate with zero explanation, and the last 5% are girls who don't get passes elsewhere. Your advice is contradictory, and an unpragmatic waste of pussy: Don’t confront her, it will do nothing but make her cover her tracks more. meanwhile... Plate her. Who gives a shit if she covers her tracks more if he's gonna plate her? There is zero loss to informing her of her fuck up.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:02 AM
2

If the girls are in a group, you have to play group game and open the group itself. That, or push your luck. Either way stop being a bitch and push through the rejection.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:19 PM
2

Tell her what you found, ask her if she has anything to say about it, and then don't argue about it. If she does anything but immediately rectify it, tell her you need a break to think about it. Even if she did fix it, just walk out the room and let her feel like a piece of shit. Betting she won't fix it till you tell her you want a break though. Be stoic about it, don't give her any emotion she can lift off with. When you pin a girl down, she looks for how you can be wrong too. From there, star…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:12 PM
16

Try it. Report back results.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:22 PM
4

Who gives a shit what they like? Here's what you should be worried about. Lotta these bitches wanna act like they're 18 year old girls, acting coy and teasy and shit. They're eager to capture how easily they could waste a man's time back in the day. Ain't no one wanna wait for a bitch approaching retirement to give it up. They're even less likely than the 20 year old bitches to fuck you just cause you let them waste your time. They also prefer 30+ year old men, but those are men who've generally…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 11:41 PM
1

Women like those kinds of guys because they want to be the girl they're nice to. IE: There's a story there in being the girl who's special. If you aren't already that type that sparks that feeling in her, faking it is not gonna work. There's also just better ways to make her feel important because you chose her. IE: By being better than her.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:26 PM
3

Holy shit, my world is crushed. Not internalizing AWALT You gotta be able to be strong in the face of the fact that at any time any woman you're with can decide to get dicked with a smile on their face. There is no way to be certain it won't happen. Your job is to use your time effectively. It's not her job to stop you from wasting time on her hoe ass. It isn't her fault, it's always yours. If I were you, I'd start getting some side. If the idea of that exhausts you, it's cause you don't believe…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:16 PM
6

Here's something for you to try to get good at. Small talk with a girl for 10 minutes. Talk about anything. Random bullshit. If you got nothing, watch like 3 documentaries, and something popular on netflix. Run through random topics till you find something for HER to talk about. Family, work, dance, whatever. Once you are confident you can talk about dumb shit for 10 minutes, start looking for opportunities during that dumb shit to sexualize the conversation. Basically make a dirty/risky joke ba…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:07 PM
1

Ahh. Kk
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:30 AM
1

I mean what better example for a protective instinct kicking in for your woman than if she's raped? If you want a milder one, we can go with "Guy you thought was your friend slapped your LTR's ass."
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:28 AM
6

So a guy from your job rapes the mother of your children, and you don't think you'd feel any emotional response to defend what you've claimed? I ain't saying you should get yourself sent to prison, that's your business. Instincts ain't end all be all, but if you don't feel nothin, that's just you not having the natural response to being disrespected. And if your response to that is "hurr durr I ain't gonna have chilren wit no thot" that doesn't mean you can't get possessive over women. It's that…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:18 AM
6

Men are possessive, and we don't like our things touched. That's our "protective instinct." This is how I know I'm right: Think of something in your room that you don't use, but that you value as yours. Maybe you haven't even seen it in years. Like I still got my n64 from when I was a kid. Now imagine if someone stole that shit. The fury you'd have in you. Us guys are just like that about p.much everything we take charge of. That fury + a desire to take care of our shit= our protective instinct.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:08 AM
1

Depression is too big a catch all to really narrow down wtf you're talking about. Do you feel dissatisfied with yourself/like a piece of shit? Do you feel like no one likes you? Are you just surface unhappy? Do you feel physically weak? Do you feel lazy? What the fuck is it that you feel that you are calling depression?
/r/askTRP27/02/20 02:24 AM
3

I get the fantasy of having kids, but I just can't imagine the woman who can live up to it. Realistically I see myself just being like "Fuck this bitch, and her kids too."
/r/askTRP26/02/20 06:23 PM
2

What allegiance do you have to the spreading of a random genetic code you didn't choose to have?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:46 PM
9

The fact you have an issue with not one, but three women, says it's you, not them. Quit being a fucking creeper retard. A job isn't the place to push your frame on other people. Know your place.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:39 PM
1

Here's what you do. Don't ever flinch on the idea that this was normal sex. Communicate nonverbally as though she's hinting you secretly go out to jerk off hobos, but do not outright call her crazy. Do not give her anything to react to. Women aren't able to spurn their own righteousness without some sort of impetus. They need something to direct the movie starring themselves. Be a shitty actor in that movie. The ego will make you want to righteously stand up to her. That would be how you play a …
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:16 AM
2

Because bitches like you use it as a manipulation tactic, and don't know how to not only lead but convince a bitch into wanting to be led.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:44 AM
3

You just tell her you understand and move on. Plates break, and tbh this isn't a bad way for this one to break. Chances are she'll be right back unless she gets into a solid LTR.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:11 PM
4

Cut your text sizes in half. Literally every text you send that is two sentences, or includes a comma can be cut in half. "Something's come up so I might be 10 minutes late is that ok" "Might be 10 mins late" "Why are you nervous? I don't bite." "I don't bite. " "Ok let me know if you get worse, otherwise I'll see you later." "See you later."
/r/askTRP24/02/20 12:08 PM
1

You probably stopped gaming her because you got her to put out. Common mistake for newbies. Know how bitches complain about how guys change when they get laid? That's what they're talking about. Game never fucking ends. Without the flirting and courting, girls become too aware that all you wanna do is fuck them, and that makes them feel pressured because they like your company but they start to feel like the only way to keep it is to put out. That's when it decays to something transnational, whi…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 11:29 AM
5

Autistic pedophile
/r/askTRP24/02/20 10:55 AM
3

“I’d ask you to open the Uber door for me, but you’re not nice enough for that”. This was a comfort test. This wasn't a test of your frame.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:17 AM
2

Thank you, I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 05:50 PM
4

You don't want to maintain conversation because you aren't good at maintaining conversation. You aren't good at maintaining conversation because you're either boring, or have some sort of hangup involving telling stories about yourself.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:18 PM
6

Mind talking briefly about the logistics of your India trip? Where are you spending money, what research did you do and how? I always daydream about visiting a place like that for a similar purpose, but I get stuck not knowing where to start.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:11 PM
1

Plates break. She probably won't till she at least gets a side guy.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:32 PM
2

Yeah. Doing hard things is pretty hard.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:29 AM
7

Your appearance isn't game. Ugly people aren't devoid of game. Take it as a challenge to get better at gaming without relying on appearance.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 05:03 AM
1

The responses were a mistake. When a girl wrongs you, you do not under any circumstances tell her it's no problem. You let it go. You don't let her see if you're butthurt. But you don't absolve her. You can tease her about it. You can tell her you understand and move on. You can tell her first beer's on her. You can next her. There are a lot of viable answers, none if which include telling her wasting your time is okay. Absolving a ho arbitrarily when she wrongs you communicates that you are so …
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:19 PM
1

She doesn't want you to be needy. She wants to not want you. Specifically, wanting someone when they aren't there is painful when a girl ain't got other irons in the fire. She hamsters this pain as a consequence of your absence. If you act needy, she will be more comfortable but also will be less attracted. There is a balance. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:06 PM
1

People talk to people they want something from. There is no greater sign that someone thinks nothing of you than when they don't talk to you. No one wants anything from you.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:26 AM
3

Doesn't really matter if you lead her on if she isn't gonna wreak havoc on your life.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:15 PM
7

Basically chew her out, but with a non-serious tone.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:11 PM
24

I'd probably tease the hell out of a girl if she actually overtly admitted to trying to manipulate me. Ofc all women are manipulators, but if a girl admits it and she doesn't get at least a spike for it, she'll do worse shit later in my experience. Because she'll think you didn't notice, or that when you do notice, she'll be forgiven for it.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 03:42 PM
79

Doesn't matter, but if there's potential for drama, you can nip that in the bud (At the risk of the plate breaking earlier) by taking some time to inform her that you aren't looking for anything serious. Vibe should be righteous in that you're taking the time to make sure she isn't being led on. Doing this makes it more likely the plate will break for obvious reasons, but it'll also make it less likely there'll be drama if she's a core part of your friend circle. Only bothering to mention this c…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:26 PM
2

And spend a lot of time thinking about him.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:50 PM
5

Are you sure you aren't orbiting him?
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:02 PM
3

If he isn't investing, he isn't orbiting. You don't know if he's investing or not. Orbiter is a term for orbiters so that they recognize when they're wasting their time, not for random trp dorks to label randos they don't even know.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:59 PM
1

Means the plate might break soon. How soon and whether she cheats on her new guy depends on the RNG of her other options.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:51 PM
-2

Try sleeping, and eating. I hear those things make people feel pretty good.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:46 PM
8

Autist
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:04 PM
1

Probably worried it'd fuck up what she thinks ya'll have. Still doesn't really explain why it would fuck it up.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:47 PM
1

They know older people don't use it and will maybe even find it weird if you participate so much in the social media game as an older man. I'm 26, and girls aren't really surprised if I tell them I don't use social media unless they don't know I'm 26. (I do look more like 21 when I don't rock the beard.)
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:35 AM
1

Older you look, the more they feel self-conscious about asking you to get on social media.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:08 AM
1

Very easy. When a girl says something like that, repeat what they said back to them, and add a question mark. So in this case, "Maybe?" Frame is you're not gonna wait around for her to figure out when to pencil you in. If she's too busy or too uninterested to make plans, then it's just not worth your energy. If she frame battles you too aggressively, she is either a guaranteed waste of time, or you did not game her well enough/have high enough SMV in her eyes before asking her out.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:42 AM
1

I'd just play it like I evaluated them to be cool enough to hang with sometime. I don't think you really need to polarize here before getting the number. It's not some cold approach where you need to make an impression. You can polarize later.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:58 AM
1

What exactly are you concerned about here? Does your best friend give a shit? Do you feel like she lied to you? Tbh this doesn't seem like something that matters but for if it will cause drama between you and your boi.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:56 AM
1

Have you tried just getting contact info so that you can isolate that way? Sounds like by DJing you'll have enough social proof to be able to get a decent few of these chicks out just like that. She'll also feel like it's the second date probably, so she'll feel less slutty putting out.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:53 AM
2

She had previous reservations going in, and was going to decide based on how that date went. Girl's don't just abandon people out of nowhere without having given it some serious thought. In fact, it wouldn't surprise me if she texted you after a month if she happens to not find anyone better. Those previous reservations could just be typical plate shit that has nothing to do with you, or could be something that is your fault.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:29 AM
6

You type like you're afraid of the possibility you may have to play a numbers game. Get over it. Even if you want to have a higher percent conversion, the best way to get good at doing that is blowing it with a lot of women while also being a quality man. Stop compromising yourself in a desperate attempt to bargain your way out of what it is to pursue woman as a man. Give less of a fuck. Stop padding your texts with shit like ", I like you." You don't even know this bitch.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:52 AM
2

Mission is what you decide to do with your life. You're the one projecting a grandeur to it as a pre-requisite. Mission can be as simple as "I wanna be a cool ass doctor and live in mansion with a nice car." It's what you want to do with your life, and what adventure you wanna go on. That isn't incompatible with an existentialist view of the world.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:47 AM
1

Being an attention whore is probably the real cause of this. It's sorta the equivalent of your LTR scarfing down your entire birthday cake by herself. Yeah, she wronged you, but she probably did it because she's a glutton. Still, she'd probably be about as much effort to fix as a hardcore fatty.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 10:40 PM
1

yeah i can retard. what we like is abstract by nature plus everything that isn't supernatural is natural dipshit.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:50 AM
2

cuz that isn't what it communicates anymore. it communicates you're a subhuman pos who has no idea how to be happy. checks out.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:40 AM
1

you only live once
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:12 AM
1

Plenty of girls either love brown guys, or will hamster a new found love of brown guys pending on whether or not you act like a stereotypical brown bitch. Just look clean, fashionable, and be stoic. Most unattractive shit i see from brown dudes is yall fucking talk too much.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:06 AM
2

Women feel emotional pain for no reason other than a lack of need not to. Being a woman's tampon means being her way of subsisting in spite of that emotional leakage.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:58 AM
1

Girl trying to find a comfortable frame.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:16 PM
5

Talk to girls who aren't her. Especially in that same class.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:41 PM
2

If a girl is a shitty texter, I default to logistics only to save time. Sounds to me like she's trying to wrangle an orbiter though.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:03 PM
5

When you demote her, don't tell her what you're doing. Just treat her like a plate/fwb.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:30 PM
2

I mean if she's my LTR for longer than a minute, then she's either on board with my bullshit, or I fucked up. If she doesn't already realize that my exclusivity is a gift that is permanently tentative on her good behavior, then I promoted her too early.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:39 AM
46

If it was a problem before, it ain't now. Daddy kink hittin hard.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:04 AM
2

Bulking: Unpopular opinion. Honestly, it's okay to experiment. Sometimes you need to learn something the hard way. Just make sure if you do an experiment, stick with it for a month unless it's super batshit retarded so that you actually learn the lesson. If you don't think you need to learn the sugar lesson, then man up, dedicate 10 hours of a sunday to sorting out a beginner meal prep routine. Expect to throw out a lot of food that first week if you're a little bitch. It's the price of your inv…
/r/askTRP13/02/20 10:46 PM
21

Don't bring it up. If she brings it up, just act like you don't remember, but that it doesn't sound like you. Drink less.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 10:38 PM
1

Philosophizing about what to enjoy sounds like the best way to enjoy everything less for TRP's primary audience.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 10:36 PM
3

Try volunteering. It's like 1-4 hours of time dedicated exclusively to other people. See how you feel about it at the end.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:18 PM
1

can't make anyone do anything.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:17 PM
2

just do wtf you want. it's this type of pointless overthinking that will make you regret what you do no matter what you choose. so long as you make your decisions with righteous fervor towards bettering your life, you'll be able to forgive yourself if you make the wrong decisions.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:14 PM
6

"You'll be my accomplice."
/r/askTRP13/02/20 12:40 AM
1

Were you even busy or were you offended she declined your initial choice?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:04 PM
3

Just pull back. Act as though you told her and she said no. Start flirting with other girls if you haven't. It's not that hard to find a girl who isn't doing that. She's responsible for her own behavior. Including the lack of wisdom that informs it. If she asks, you're free to inform her that you find the company she keeps unattractive. Don't tell her what she can do to keep you. Let her come up with it on her own.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:36 PM
2

If you have a place to yourself, are fit, and have a vehicle, you're instantly top 90% of single guys in NY.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:40 AM
1

If you aren't wasting your time you aren't simping. Female friends are useful.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:38 AM
2

Blue chew.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:36 AM
16

No point commenting on this post. This guy is gonna get divorce raped bc his plan is not to fuck till after marriage. GL with that retard. Imagine thinking any 18 year old girl who'd get with a 30 year old is a virgin, much less would want a 30 year old virgin.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:47 AM
1

The fact your were inflexible made her uncomfortable. If you're going to hold your frame on logistical B.S, it should actually be important. Forcing a specific day isn't that important, much less forcing a specific time. Once a girl's down to actually show up, it's just logistics. Frame battles over text aren't ideal. You pushed really hard for 20:30 that day when you should've just offered a different day. Personally I like to give two different days from the get-go, then if they decline those,…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:42 AM
1

She'll enjoy your company more if you don't.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:51 PM
8

Hard next. Lose the number and cut all means of contact.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:25 PM
2

P.much just ask her out. Or better yet, read the sidebar if you don't know what polarizing is.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:21 PM
4

I'ma respond to both your replies to me in this one. Who gives a shit what she's thinking? All I'm thinking about is how much time it costs me to do what I'm doing, and how I can have fun with it. Polarize by removing ability to deflect from the interaction being one where something will actually happen. P.much just ask her out. Or hell, you can tell her "I'ma call you. R u busy?" And see how that shit goes. Realistically just make some fucking moves.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:02 PM
12

Lmao 90+???? Yes, this is an attention whore. She isn't worth your time. She will give you the run around 100%. Maybe you can pull it off eventually but it's gonna be so much fucking work for no added benefit. Ain't no pussy that good. Maybe you can text occasionally, but realistically just polarize super hard and force a decision.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 08:48 PM
2

I act as if it didn't happen. The time I take to respond back just depends on my mood, not on how long she took. The mere fact she responded means she has some degree of interest. Maybe not in sex, and maybe it's merely out of conditioned societal pressure to not be an unreceptive cunt, but still a form of interest. It takes so little investment to text a bitch to make plans. It's like minutes out of your day. If she's playing the waiting game, she's doing what she needs to do to enjoy herself, …
/r/askTRP09/02/20 08:43 PM
4

Wouldn't surprise me if she is fucking or has fucked a few of them. Or maybe she's one of those "It doesn't count if I only let em finger fuck me" type bitches. Guys start doing it because they think they have a chance/got nothing else. They stay because society tells them they're a piece of shit if they only value the only valuable thing a woman has (pussy.)
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:59 PM
3

People say words to each other all the fucking time at loud ass concerts. You just don't have full on conversations. Legit could just tap on her shoulder, hold your hand out and ask "DANCE?" And it'd feel less weird for her than some random dude putting their hand on her hip.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:27 PM
8

Tried actually saying something (yes, even with the loud ass music) instead of making your first move a groping ya gross motherfucker? lmao
/r/askTRP09/02/20 03:34 PM
8

What, like got raped? A guy grab her titty? Assault's too vague.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:58 PM
1

Let her find out. Let the drama happen, and then maintain frame through it. Either the plate will break, or she'll survive your training and become a more perfect ho. She'll find you more attractive knowing you're gaming, not less.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 03:01 AM
5

Keto is aggressive. It's good for people who need to lose weight fast without affecting muscle. That ain't you. You probably got no real muscle to speak of. Lift, Sleep, eat a lot of meat, but also a non-insignificant amount of healthy carbs/fats. Adjust as your body informs you to. Chances are just eating healthy will make you lose weight though, because you probably won't have the same appetite you had for sugar.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:57 AM
1

Could just not invite him to drinking events.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:53 AM
4

"Why have you being ignoring me" "Come over and remind me why I shouldn't." IMO, this is a comfort test though, so the answer should ultimately provide some sort of stability. Admittedly, I ain't that great at these. "I saw you put something on FB/Snapchat" "Stalkers are adorable." IMO this one is a shit test. Hallmark of a comfort test is she feels like a slut/loser if you fail. Hallmark of a shit test is she loses attraction for you if you fail.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:43 AM
1

Till a guy who isn't a pussy is allowed to talk to her, simp.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:26 AM
0

Only until she's legal.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:20 AM
2

You're her orbiter.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:15 AM
1

Pussy.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:13 AM
1

Have you asked her out?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:11 AM
4

Kino/ask them out.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:52 AM
4

You don't agree and amplify a roast unless it's actually in good fun. Playing along when you're getting bukkake'd by the group is like opening your mouth. You burn everyone around you to the floor. Bring everyone laughing with you. Don't even address the whatever they said, you roast back. Bad hairline? Weird ears? Uneven nostrils? Dumb voice, shitty teeth, bad smile. Whatever you see, rip into them one by one. Don't go too far or you're gonna get your ass beat. I can tell you ain't clever, so c…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:00 AM
8

All that matters is you look like you fit in. For a lot of people, smiling all the time doesn't suit them. Girls are repelled by men who don't look like they "get it."
/r/askTRP08/02/20 11:08 PM
1

That's probably why then. You didn't actually wanna fuck. You wanted a friend. Just do the same shit you do when you game to make friends, minus the polarization. Don't go past very low tier kino.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:06 PM
2

Are you lonely? Sounds like you cared more about the conversation than actually getting laid.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:49 PM
1

I mean sounds like you're a bitch and she wants you to not be a bitch. She might not have a leg to stand on, but she's right that you suck. Improve yourself, and dump her for a better ho. Whichever order you feel like, bitch.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:41 PM
6

Monk. Mode. At least you aren't 28.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:36 PM
5

Only a cuck if you aren't fucking other girls. IE: Are committed to this one ho, but she ain't committed to you. Don't mistake the decreased SMV of a woman who fucks around (Decreased because she's less available to YOU, is more likely to be diseased, etc.) with what being cucked is. Being cucked is about loss of time and investment. Whether that be because you stopped playing the field for this bitch, or because you're raising some other dude's baby. Possessiveness over a woman is an illusion. …
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:26 PM
3

That's just a bitch's way of inviting you out without risking the chance you'll assume that she's promising sex. The way girls show interest makes more sense when you realize it goes through the filter of "I want to be able to change my mind later if I want to, in case you're unattractive and don't understand when no means no/no means yes/yes means yes." Obviously don't build your entire life around this avenue, but the hardest part is always getting the girl to come out on the actual fucking da…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:44 PM
5

Everyone on here seems to bitch about club sluts which strikes me odd given the point of TRP is ultimately to get sex. TRP doesn't tell you what to do. It tells you what the world is, and by extension how to do what you want to do as it relates to the sexual marketplace. It doesn't tell you your goals. If your goal is an LTR, then yeah, club bitches ain't the play.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:42 PM
5

Expand social circle, and improve yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually (Get wiser. Read some books.) Not just one of them. All of them. Don't think that if you don't fuck 18 year old girls now you'll never get to. You aren't a woman. You're a man, and you will peak somewhere around 35-55. Probably earlier since you're ahead of most of your peers.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:39 PM
8

Side note: if the convo runs dry, and she also isn’t working to talk, she probably isn’t interested and is only being quiet hoping that you get bored and let her leave. Lots of girls are just shy. Participating in conversation isn't the only IOI in the world. Don't fucking assume girls aren't interested lmao. Just polarize and find out. New guys like OP will just take advice like this as an excuse to abort approaches.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:57 PM
0

That's like saying the way to get over your favorite ice cream no longer being produced is to find a tastier ice cream. No. You just forget about it naturally cause it's not that important lmfao. The only reason he still cares is in his mind he still feels like there's some action he could take to fuck this girl again. To begin with, these hoes legit don't fucking matter that much. ESPECIALLY not whether they're a fucking career woman lmfao. Being rich and busy doesn't increase a woman's SMV. If…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:44 PM
1

I went three weeks without texting her to gauge her interest LMAO bullshit. You went three weeks without texting her as a manipulation tactic, because you were butt hurt she wasn't give you attention via texting you for attention the way other needy girls do.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:24 PM
1

Some guy praised her once for it, and now she's chasing that high. She can survive the possibility you'll call her a slut because she still has the memory of impressing that one guy.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:12 PM
2

Very brief, no real info answer. Absurd answer (Ie: Had lunch with Obama.) Maybe a slight snippet into something kinda cool you did, even if it wasn't that day. (Had a great quesadilla, etc.) Or just plain ignore the question and talk about something else. Can also pressure flip. Absurd answer is the funnest, but also encourages her to ask that question to get a laugh. Variety is important. Can also, obviously, tell a story, if you actually have any.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:09 PM
9

‘ It’s a bit ‘’naaah’’ that we’re texting only to arrange dates and hanging up, and when we do see each other we’re either drinking or having sex or drinking and having sex’ and ‘ I think it can be much more fun and exciting then that’ If all ya'll do is drink and have sex, she's a plate, not a FWB. ‘ Maybe it’s possible that you have nothing to tell me and share something’ Shit test When I asked her if she meant that she wants something more out of us she was ‘ I thought it would flow naturaly’…
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:30 PM
2

"Yeah that's cool. [insert logistics]. See you then." Possibly more than one text depending on the nature of the logistics.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:22 PM
2

33% of the girls you add on snapchat off tinder fuck you, or 33% agree to add you on snap?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:51 AM
1

If you withdraw social attention as a manipulation tactic, she's going to know something is up even if she folds. You withdraw attention because she isn't who you want her to be and you have better things to do. It isn't to make her into who you want her to be, it's a reaction to what she is. If you don't have better things to do, then you're a loser.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:44 AM
1

I was. Not right now though.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:08 AM
6

She isn't attracted to you. She wants a friend though, and likes the attention. Probably has other sources of dick.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 11:39 AM
10

a load of bullshit. Welcome to the language of women. There's a reason it's called game. People who know how to speak covertly and leave plausible deniability show they know how to play the game. It's fun for them to not know 100% what you're going for. You say everyone knows x or y, but that type of logic is no match for a woman's ability to hamster small percentage bullshit. So long as you don't speak covertly for the reason a woman does (fear), it's not really that big of a deal.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:11 PM
1

My backup workout for when I'm abusing logistical truths to make bitchmade decisions is running bc I hate running, and you can do it literally whenever (winter too, you pussy) at whatever intensity you want, so the only excuse is if you've got arthritis or some shit. Even then, maybe stop being a bitch and cut off your useless appendages. Parapalegics are running nowadays.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 07:29 AM
2

You're shitty in bed.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:25 PM
7

Men make women attractive. Our image of what we want them to be is what they're trying to live up to. They ain't really inherently anything special.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:23 PM
0

Depends on the context. If it's obvious they're bouta fuck, like it's in her bedroom, that's just disrespectful and honestly bizarre on the same level as incels sending bitches random dick pics. If the guy is shirtless at the club for example, it's a pretty basic shit test. Which you don't have to take shit from anyone, but the correct frame for ghosting someone after an excessive shit test isn't emotional. It should be like you just discovered she had HIV as opposed to discovering your wife is …
/r/askTRP01/02/20 07:30 PM
3

Why are you asking? If you're here looking for excuses not to learn it, you probably won't even if you tried.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:47 PM
1

I just tell girls I don't want to add them till I get to know them better. Really throws them off, because they aren't expecting to get rejected lmfao. Ngl it doesn't get you closer into their panties, but it's really funny. Though if you're fucking her, don't say that cause that'll make the plate break reaaaaal fast. Just pressure flip it.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:35 AM
8

Realize she can fuck 100 people this year and your life is genuinely not different than if she didn't. Genuinely release yourself from the stupid story you're telling yourself. It's not real. It's just the monkey brain trying to motivate you to do some barbarian shit. Go give something better for the monkey brain to do and it'll focus on that instead of the lies. Something difficult is usually a good option. Do you think some guy in the middle of running an ultra marathon gives even a billionth …
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:28 AM
1

I'm in a small town though like 50k people in it. R u retarded?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 02:53 AM
1

Sure. Can be as simple as a "Haha. Yeah. Alright weirdo." Can be as overt as something like, "Then we definitely wouldn't work out." The way you say the latter also impacts how overt it is too. All sarcastic and it's a solid tease/push in response to her attempt to imply it would be okay for her to try and control the relationship. More serious would obviously be more risky, but risky=polarizing, and if you wanna filter control freaks, or just filter in general, polarization is ideal.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:29 AM
1

Who knows. Lots of times I've been given the snap so she can send me nudes/be filthier on the phone. Most of the time she wants to just snap you and start a snap streak with you.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 12:02 AM
2

Being magnanimous, even to low quality people, is magnetic. Just keep it shallow.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:43 AM
1

Prove you can actually be social and outgoing before implying you're more comfortable being quiet. You don't know that you're more comfortable being quiet because you've never been social and outgoing. You've ATTEMPTED to be social and outgoing, and that attempt was uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:17 AM
3

I immediately make fun of any "I like to be in control" stuff. As though a 6 year old said it. I find it's important to leak out a hint of the idea that she can't make you do shit at the first sign of something like that. Very covertly though, ideally. Realistically, if you dropped a girl everytime she said some sketchy shit, you'd only be dating squirrely liar hoes. IE: What most blue pill men who don't know AWALT perceive to be a unicorn.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:24 AM
3

I meannn. Only reason a girl is good in bed is because another man taught her. Though I can understand not wanting to teach a hoe or if said hoe can't be taught.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:21 AM
2

Personally, I like bi girls. They understand the bullshit women pull more than straight girls do because they've pursued women.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 02:18 AM
5

Gonna have some amoral prose here. Idc to argue about it w you sluts. Can always use both text and snap. Don't treat streaks or snapchat as a way to get pussy. Treat it as a tool for developing your social circle. Streaks: Makes someone feel like if they don't send you a snap every day, they are slighting you. Very good for essentially having a social stepping stone convince themselves to invest in you every day. While you can get laid investing in a bitch like this, the bitch will be very high …
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:53 AM
5

Meh, just become a big muscley lumberjack looking fuck if getting ripped doesn't lose your moobs. no one will bother you about your man boobs if you can grab them by their ankles and tear them in half.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:34 AM
1

Yes. Because giving women tingles is fun in and of itself for me, and is just a niche form of social circle game anyways.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 11:55 PM
4

You're making the mistake of thinking the shit tests/comfort tests ever stop. They do not. They don't come because she's low quality. They come because you're high quality relative to her. All women who don't open their legs for everyone do this shit bc its how they prod the relationship to either break, move in her favor, or force you to remind her why she's the follower.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:02 PM
0

Blue pill men don't chase women plural. They get oneitis, and don't have the social stamina to pursue multiple women. Sounds like a guy who understands or has stumbled into college social circle game. Should also be said that the average college women typically ain't in relationships for dick, but for social status. IE: Yet to hop on the cock carousel.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:45 PM
6

Realistically that's just a shit test to deter non-naturals, with a tinge of criticism of frame. Two things to glean: They want you to tease because it's fun, not to seduce. It's only emotional manipulation if you do it to affect them, rather than to enjoy yourself. IE: Don't do shit from someone else's frame. Non-naturals are a gross narrative. No erotic novel has mentions of a guy's spergy years, unless those years were in middle school.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 12:44 PM
3

Considering the reason she left you, what she misses about you isn't your dick.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:40 AM
10

Mid 20s In general, I like to call by the time I've had the third text interaction. I just text "Are you busy rn?" If they say no, I call em and just start chatting. Maybe if they're the squirrely type, I'll text something like "KK, I'ma call you in 10 mins." Most girls know the deal though. Most are facetiming and shit. I screen girls who make it awkward, because those girls will make everything new to them awkward. Those girls are a massive investment for no gain anyways, so I relegate those k…
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:12 AM
17

I'd get some side, and not really hide it either. Probably hint at the end of the exclusivity, or even outright inform her before I even found another bitch just cause I don't like lying about it. The solution to a bitch causing problems is most easily fixed by finding another bitch.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:50 AM
1

Idk if you should message or not. Probably doesn't matter really. I'll say though that when a girl goes like "maybe" or "i'll see" or any of that shit, I just send them what they said, and add a question mark. If they send me back anything wishy washy I just treat it like they said no. Probably reply with "Sounds like you're busy. Maybe some other time." If she's committed to the project, she'll stop playing coy at that point, sensing that if she doesn't do anything she probably won't hear from …
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:32 PM
6

You hate it cause you suck at it. It's boring because you're boring.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:14 PM
1

Learn how to read.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:47 PM
2

Was honestly fine till you had a panic attack because she didn't respond. It was a retarded text, but it legit didn't matter. You made it matter with your trash damage control. And stop telling bitches when you're done texting them. Just stop texting them.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:18 AM
3

Are you fucking them?
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:11 AM
8

You may not recall how trash 19~ year old guys are on average. Guys are probably at their lowest point SMV wise relative to most women at that age. (With 19 year old girls basically being as hot as they're ever going to be unless they're fat and lose weight later.) All their time has been consumed (for good, but still consumed) by their high school education, and they literally just got the power to control what the fuck they do with their day. We don't care if a woman just sits around watching …
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:09 AM
1

Regular looking incorrect. girls ain't as visual as us. it matters and makes it easier, and is one of the most basic things you can work on while also being retarded, but it isn't the end all be all. girls only care about how someone makes them feel. literally nothing else matters to them until they have children.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:06 AM
1

scarcity due to small town. just enjoy what you have while putting all your emotional energy into getting out of that small town.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:06 PM
1

We work in a group and will be for the next two years Don't do a damn thing.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:03 PM
1

That's what her orbiters are for. If she has none, it means you're dating some antisocial/low quality bitch.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:41 PM
1

Am sorta poor overall. Fixing this will open up your options.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:47 AM
2

When a woman asks a direct question to ask for information about your intentions, any real answer will increase comfort, but send tension straight to the floor. Potentially can also brick the relationship depending on the content. She enjoys not knowing your intentions but also resents the power it means you hold over her. Give a funny answer that doesn't tell her anything. Preferably one that also continues to leave doubt about whether you'll actually fuck her if she asks you to come over. A mo…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:41 PM
19

Maybe hold off on this till you see if Trump wins 2020 lmfao.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:36 PM
4

Be more risky. People, not just women, will in generally gravitate to someone whose bold but awkward over someone too cowardly to risk looking ridiculous. Drop the walls. People are mostly harmless and you can survive the ones that mean you harm if you aren't retarded.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:31 PM
1

Aside from top tier women, women don't get to choose who they end up with really. This is different from choosing who fucks them. Pretty much any women low or high quality can get laid. Even average women can find some high quality guy on the hunt for something easy. They don't really have the skills to be picky with who stays with them though. Only who fucks them. The only real move women have is to be kind, be slutty, and be pretty. Men don't really parse who they hunt on any other metric. The…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:17 PM
1

You just go hang, and in general be quality. If you ask, it's weird.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:14 PM
2

Number close doesn't mean much unless you leave an impression. Easiest way to do that is to have spent a significant time with the girl before getting the number. Proximity and time lower the difficulty for that, but obviously you can do things to be funnier/more interesting/more attractive at the jump. Learn some jokes, get better at telling stories, lift and look better. Also maybe just focus on making just platonic friends who are women. The easiest lays I've ever had are from women I met thr…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 07:25 AM
1

Just assume she's getting dicked down by another dude and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 10:36 PM
11

There is not a single thing you've said that you do here that the red pill told you to do. Maybe stop enjoying the smell of your farts and get your life together?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:44 PM
0

The only effective frame here for guys who aren't much higher SMV than their woman is "Wow, is this girl actually going to give me an excuse to fuck other women? The only reason I've been resisting other pussy is because I love this bitch." IE: That your exclusivity is something she earned. If she doesn't feel that way, you messed up somewhere. Be generally curious and ask after it. You do not want her to feel like she's being interrogated or investigated, cause then she'll just lie to you. And …
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:12 PM
1

Polarize more. When a girl comes crawling back, the temptation can be to hold back. It's actually the other way around. That's the moment you can take the biggest risk because she just did something that's liable to get her rejected.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:38 PM
3

Never seen a more picture perfect example of a request for the blue pill.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:26 PM
2

If she's at the point of pursuing you, I'd ask her to come over with some barely plausibly deniable excuse. IE: watch x new thing on y streaming service. Shorter the text the better.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 05:34 AM
2

Make sure to wrap it up. Have fun.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:56 PM
1

Pussy. Worry about it if it happens.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:18 PM
5

Probably treat the low sex drive as a health issue, if you're concerned about it. While TRP touches on testosterone and all that, that isn't the central concern of it, so it's not useful for you here.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:10 PM
1

Clown is the person who desperately needs the laugh. The goal isn't to get them to laugh. It's to genuinely enjoy the moment you are in regardless of the actions of those around you, where possible. One of the ways you do that is by making whatever they said asinine ie: Agree and amplify. You can also enjoy it by flipping it towards them, or if it's impossible to enjoy it, you walk away and go do something more interesting. The whole point of the shit test is to shake your frame, and part of any…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:06 PM
1

I usually flat out admit that I'm seeing other people when asked. I don't answer how many, what their names are, how I met them, etc. I get tests regularly, and often times will make a thing out of getting tested with a girl, which kind of deals with the concern for sexual health thing. As a side note, while logistically I totally understand the concern, in practice, I find that questions about sexual health from women come in two forms: From women who've gotten diseases. From women who haven't …
/r/askTRP08/01/20 02:13 AM
0

Don't really need to explain why you can't do your place. Only pertinent information is it wouldn't work. If she's shit testing you by asking (And she might not be, could just be her working out the logistics), say something obviously untrue to pass it. Otherwise, yeah, pretty much.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:49 PM
1

Meh. Just means it's not logistically probable you'll bring a girl home the first day you talk to them. If you're meeting them at the gym, class, or job, it's probably not a good idea to try and polarize hard enough to bed them the first day anyways. Plenty of girls are more comfortable having a guy over rather than going over to someone else's house. The worst case scenario is you get a number of a receptive girl you can reconnect with when you actually do have a place. Maybe just start with tr…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:44 PM
0

It would be 10x easier for women. If they gamed. But most don't. Which is why we're the prize, even if they ought to have the advantage abundance-wise. Most just do a whole lot of waiting. Cause even if they get rejected 10x less frequently, they still dread it.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 06:17 PM
9

Yes. Cause all she can do is react to you. Bitches can't control their emotions. But you decided to be attractive to her. How dare you?
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:08 AM
2

How did she disrespect you?
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:12 AM
9

Just like the swimmers you spilled into your pants. 😭
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:39 AM
4

Are you an idiot? Apparently as much as the guy was. He recommended I pay for blue balls You're totally alpha dood. LMFAO. Someone's semen soaked jimmies are rattled.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:31 AM
3

I like snapchat. Girls feel more comfy following your lead to their happier sluttier with the security it provides. Not a fan of insta, but I also am not the guy you're trying to be. I don't got 1000 followers or w.e.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:32 AM
9

Because it's hilarious. You waddled home with jizz in your pants after paying a woman for not-pussy lmfao.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:22 AM
2

...Or she'll think you're really excited about your religious commitments. Which many people legit are. It's just not a good move unless she already has reason to believe that's ridiculous. These are 16 year olds.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:06 AM
9

Got me off You realize getting off is cumming right? They're laughing at you for jizzing in your pants, not for the erection.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:16 AM
4

This is too easy to fuck up and have her legit believe you are saving it until marriage.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:38 PM
11

No girl is attracted to a man because of his virginity, but some girls already attracted to a guy will hamster the virginity as something attractive. Generally unattractive though. Lie about it.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:56 PM
1

You're only 20? Something tells me you don't actually know what the dating scene is really like then. You're probably not even considered an option for girls 21-30. Being with multiple women who will know about each other isn't about hiding it.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:35 AM
1

Gotta be ready to take an L. That's literally it. The more losses you take for your principles, the more natural it'll be.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:33 AM
1

Notice how all the things you mentioned about yourself are things a man might want in a woman with the sole exception of good job. Pretty to look at and not a bad fuck.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:31 AM
2

Not particularly different from when you meet a guy who's just unreachable at his field of study. When nature and nurture come together just right.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:29 PM
9

In my experience (All anecdotal. Guy asked what I think, this is what I think,) those women are: Pros: Funnier. Hold up more of the weight of the conversations. Easier to fuck/plate in the first place. Sluttier/filthier in bed. Easier to make plans with. Cons: More difficult to dread depending on the quality of the guys. When they feel dread from one guy, they jump to the next guy down the totem pole. Plate breaks quicker but is also more likely to restart up again. Shit tests are more difficult…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:45 PM
1

I'd probably just have short text exchanges every so often. Like just some banter before ending it at it's height with a "Hey have a good wednesday" type shit. But that's my energy, I got that "takes care of you" attitude. If you think being ruder, cockier, or whatever the fuck'll keep her into you, use your best judgement. It's so low maintanence to do that. Sure she'll get some attention/validation outta that, but that's not too bad of an exchange if she's fucking.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:40 PM
4

Probably has some dude ignoring her and is putting out feelers for a guy to give her attention in the meanwhile. No girl puts you into orbiter status. They can make statements and try to imply that's where you belong, but you decide what you do. What you do depends on what you want. Ignoring her is the safe thing though.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:17 PM
2

Ain't really looking to do this, but how do you even do this? Where do you find these women?
/r/askTRP01/01/20 08:14 PM
2

Needs to find a social-6. An okay looking bitch who loves the sound of her voice, and ask her some questions when they fuck. In fact, maybe he shouldn't even try to fuck this bitch the first time. Should just get good at foreplay/teasing, fingering, and maybe eating pussy.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 08:12 PM
1

Saying you wanna fuck her isn't really dirty talk. Just stating the obvious really. I guess it's good dirty talk filler though in between some actual dirty talk. It's not really a good starter for dirty talk. My preference for starting dirty talk by text is to test the waters by twisting some shit she said to be sexual, or asking what she's wearing. Just like, something low investment that is the dirty talk equivalent of a hand on the knee. If it's in person, words are the enemy early on.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 08:04 PM
1

It could be. So could giving attention. It's the context that matters. A guy who occasionally texts a girl who fucks him whenever he asks ain't a simp. Personally, I like when a girl falls for me. Makes the sex way better imo. Showing a bit back can be a way to basically give her permission to gift me her soul.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 07:45 AM
6

Pretty much. Could go for something a little less distant if you sense she's too uncomfy, like "You've got good taste."
/r/askTRP01/01/20 04:04 AM
4

Like they don't know how to be happy, and need you to teach them by leading by example. So maybe not like they're a child. More like a bored teenager at a barbecue.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 03:12 AM
25

Some guys are just like "logistics only bro." Personally, I think that leaves a lot on the table, cause texting is so low investment and is a good way to cause dread in other women who see you do it. Here's how I go about texting as a whole. I'm consistently inconsistent. If she's expecting a mushy response, she's not getting one. If she's expect a teasy response, maybe I'll just be short and logistical. If she is a little too certain I'm going to respond fast, I respond slow. If she expects a s…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 02:27 AM
1

Devil is in the details. Who you are, who your boss is, etc.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 02:12 AM
1

Use teasing and polarization to make the transaction less covert. If you make it totally visible, the magic and social dance is over though. She will poke at the dynamic between you two with shit tests and failing leads to her knowing she can breach the contract. Breaches of contract should lead to some form of reprisal. Realize she enjoys figuring out how things are and making the effort to nail them down to some place comfortable. Women are social creatures. The same way dudes might like rough…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 02:09 AM
1

Treat miserable people like they have a contagious disease. Because they do. You treat em nice and they latch onto you. Then if you back away you risk retaliation due to resentment. Too much negative potential energy.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 02:02 AM
3

Assume there's another guy she's vying for, and do what you want with that information. As a rule I also don't accept "maybe" as an answer for holiday plans. My usual way to pressure that is to just repeat what they said back to them with a question mark, if it's by text. If they double down, I treat it like a no and tell em maybe some other time. If it's by call or in person, I'll just really quick without even thinking about it answer like they said no, "Aight maybe next time." If they're seri…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:52 AM
1

What, like a random girl in the street?
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:43 AM
0

I'd rather be a guy with a shitty nose than the guy with a nose job. At least with teeth, I get it. It's your smile, and you want that to have a kind of effect. If people don't comment about your nose in jest, you're either fine or have boring friends.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:37 AM
7

I noticed the only time I gave a shit about being alone is when I got no other problems. I remember this one time I was so in my head about some bitch oneitis hanging out with some other dude on some holiday while I was by myself. My grades were perfect, was getting A+'s in classes where the average grade was a C. I just got back an acceptance from a competitive volunteering position I really needed for Med school. Ran 3 miles without breaks for the first time. By all rights, I should've been ov…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:18 AM
2

It's a fetish for some dudes and girls to leave the nut in there. So yeah, typical thinking with the dick type shit.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:04 AM
2

If you really need to, don't be afraid to commit/orbit for 6 months to your oneitis unicorn so you can really fucking see that AWALT. If that's what you need, go, use the basic tips to get into a girl's panties, and then learn first hand how far you have to climb instead of just having it as some theory on a message board. Especially if you actually do find yourself just innately disposed to thinking of women as these innocent little flowers.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:11 AM
14

I don't understand why people think they can determine if a dude is a beta orbiter. The purpose of the term beta orbiter is so that you can know if you're orbiting. You're not going to be able to tell if someone else is orbiting because you don't know wtf is happening. All the damn time these dudes people think are orbiting are just other guys who are fucking the girl. Why the fuck would they blow the girl's reputation up in front of your bitch ass.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:16 PM
1

Logistics and general logic based fears built up by upbringing are the obstacles. Sometimes in the process of dealing with these obstacles, she loses portions of her interest just because the effort might be unattractive. Though often if she's really fucking down, she'll start plotting to remove obstacles past the first encounter. A girl can find you drop dead gorgeous at first sight, but she's not gonna stop giving her valedictorian speech to get dicked in front of the dean.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:40 AM
6

Well yeah, women can game men. It's easier for them to do obviously, but you see it a lot with sociable mid-tier women. My suspicion is they tend to get laid more than hot women do too. Not that that's much of an accomplishment for a bitch.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 08:11 AM
1

No, it is unacceptable. So says your reddit daddy.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 08:06 AM
6

The only girls who don't shit test are girls who sleep with literally everyone. Shit tests are how girls weed out weak men.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 05:56 AM
3

I'd joke about it in a "why does your car smell bad" sort of way, and see how she responds.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 05:55 AM
3

Don't pollute your immediate social circle. Tread carefully around family friends. Literally billions of women out there who aren't socially related to your fucking mother.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 05:19 AM
7

If you're defining alpha widow as girls who've been with celebrities, probably not. Too many hot girls in L.A. Thousands more legal every day. If you mean hot girls who've been with hot guys, probably. Girls date up, and if they're hot, it isn't hard for them to get plated by a guy you'd consider alpha.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:16 AM
3

You're withdrawing attention almost certainly was perceived as being butthurt. If she's insecure or percieves your SMV to be much higher than her's, she'll hamster it as her being at fault, but if she's actually a 9 that's not likely. More realistically, she'll probably just enjoy the fact she turned you down, because you didn't act in a way that gave her anything else to enjoy. To begin with, LMR at its core is a type of comfort test, not a shit test. Answering a comfort test like its a shit te…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:28 PM
7

A pessimist is useless. People like to say dumb shit like "I'm not a pessimist I'm a realist." or some pussy shit like "But this way my feelies dont get injured if I hope and I get disappointed." It doesn't accomplish anything. A man works with what he has. People have worked with less and done more than you'll ever do. No one likes whiny bitches.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 06:16 PM
2

Be more willing to accept L's. If your percieved SMV drops so what. It's going to drop regardless if you stagnate, which is what you're doing by avoiding these opportunities to improve. Better to burn it for improvement instead of letting it rot.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:33 PM
1

Everyone knows you aren't a good "conversationalist" already, including your Gf. Pussy.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:12 PM
2

Maybe be a little more risky with it? Tbh I'm not a big fan of the only texting for logistics thing, unless you're on the older side or have already saturated your social circle. It also denies a lot of opportunity for experimentation that I think is useful early on.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:16 AM
7

Stop defining your goals by what women want. The answer to what women want is always "more." Look at yourself, and set realistic, tangible goals. Maybe start with the tire of lard around your ass.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 05:23 AM
2

I brought up how she said she wanted to date me ??? So she implied high interest in the past, and your decision is to use that to try and reject her? Pathetic. Only reason you'd do that is to soothe your damaged ego. She'll realize that sooner or later, if she didn't realize it instantly.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:09 AM
1

Has nothing to do with making you blue pill. She's just insecure and emotional. Ignore her demands, because they're irrelevant. Even if you listen to them, she'll hamster the reason she still resents the situation as because you didn't pre-emptively deal with it. Her beef is she lacks comfort in those moments of great discomfort. Nothing else. Give that comfort, ideally before she starts doing dumb shit like requesting you tell your mom to cut people out. If she responds ungratefully to that com…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:55 AM
2

Not you, so I wouldn't know, but my worry here would be that your bio would give instant free comfort to those women, rather than force them to come to you for it. On the other hand, maybe there are hordes of these women just assuming you're unavailable to them, and not even turning up for the comfort. Should probably just try it for 6 months, see how it goes. Maybe report back.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:46 AM
2

A massage is sensual. It's not filthy. You asked about why they don't dirty talk, or move like sluts. Not why you don't get off to giving girls free spa days.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:13 AM
5

If these are first night lays or one night stands, it's not really something that ought to occupy you too much. Just inch filthier over time, and they'll follow your lead, even if at first it doesn't seem like it. If it's just some girl you're kinda talking to, being the flirty touchy-feely guy works best for this because she'll never feel like she's filthier than you. Frame should be something like "I'm here in the mud having a great time, and you know you'd enjoy making a mess too."
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:02 AM
8

Probably didn't build enough comfort yet. Helps to have already dirty talked even just by text, and for them to know how sexy you find the way they move their bodies. Girls need permission to act as slutty as they're capable of.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:45 AM
1

I'm short. And I'm Frustrated due to it. They can tell. And they assume that of you before you say a word.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:39 AM
11

No. In my experience funny girls are great at dirty talk. Some are almost too good at it to the point it might be hard to keep up if you aren't ready for it. If you want a girl who doesn't have stiff movements in bed, find a girl who took dance classes growing up.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:32 AM
1

You not going to college?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:28 AM
14

There are strong women, just everyone around them treats them like men.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 02:54 AM
2

Nothing to recover from really. No girl who was into you is going to be deterred by you saying something like this occasionally, and any girl with low interest isn't going to fall to some irretrievable low, because all you did was validate her. Just pay more attention and be a more attractive person. It's not fun for girls to get texts like that, and I hope you aren't enjoying sending it.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 02:51 AM
3

Girls like this are easiest to game by gaming their friends. The less directly you raise your SMV in her eyes the better. Alternatively, playing it really risky with some aggressive push pull might work if you happen to do it at a time she's receptive. Not to say it can't be done another way, but personally seems too much work any other way unless she percieves your SMV to be much higher than her's from the jump.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 02:44 AM
5

Simp thinks a woman being emotional justifies having a temper tantrum.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:53 PM
1

Only matters if you're trying to be perceived as a good provider. If that's what you want, then yeah, your 20 year old girl would probably be better off finding a thirty five year old sugar daddy.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:43 PM
14

Simp has a temper tantrum
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:23 PM
1

I'd focus on strength goals over aesthetics.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 10:03 AM
6

If you want to know if she's down from her first response, send something risky. If you already think you have her just on the fact she right swiped you/you have much higher SMV, look up OmLaLa's tinder guide.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:08 AM
3

Eh, then just let her, or don't fuck her if you're so incompatible. I don't think there is actually a TRP magic trick for this. Maybe some guy in the comments'll accuse you of being a short fairy boy that girls wanna peg, or some other shit to justify her not getting horny if you're the dominant one. Personally, I don't think TRP is geared towards fixing this sort of thing.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:12 AM
7

Does that means she stops you when you try to be in control? Lot of girls like to be a really aggressive tease, and then have you turn the tables on them. Who knows though. If you aren't enjoying the sex don't have it.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:52 AM
3

I'd inch in with some safe word discussion at some point during a sexually charged conversation. Shouldn't be serious. Should start along the lines of "so do you know what a safe word is?/have you ever had a safe word?"
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:49 AM
3

Teasing is push. Comfort is pull. When you tease too much, give comfort to pull back. When a girl gets too comfy (hopefully before that) , roast her a little. I usually have some bullets in the chamber prepped in advance for both occasions if this isn't literally first conversation. Caliber of the bullet depends on the severity of the situation. Just be careful because it's easy to fall into the habit of giving too much comfort not to pull them back, but because its easier and nicer than teasing…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:47 AM
1

It's not a shit test, but how you respond to it still matters.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:25 AM
5

My opinion on this isn't on proven waters over an LTR as long as yours, but it is what works for me. As a rule I deny intimacy when the primary reason she wants to know is curiosity. I basically am forthcoming otherwise. Imo, when a girl asks something out of curiosity, she's having more fun not knowing the answer.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:23 AM
1

Have female friends who aren't your girl.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:13 AM
31

Damn, her eyes must be real nice to get you so worked up over her commitment to you. Have you guys even kissed, or does she need to wine and dine you first to show you she's not like those other girls?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:54 PM
36

Just to be clear, you think a girl you haven't LTR'd or even fucked still talking to other guys is disrespect? Or is it just that they don't protect you from that knowledge, because that's even more retarded.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:12 PM
65

So you fail shit tests and are really sensitive
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:57 PM
1

1) Way too concerned with what will happen. You're so cautious about taking risks that the idea of an old guy being like "I'm good, thanks" terrifies you. Solved by taking risks so that you realize that people will generally respect the clumsily bold over the mistake-less coward. 2) The kind of people who'd make a big deal out of your voice are the kind of people that would find anything to jab at. Talk and act like a man, and whatever it sounds like, that'll just be objectively what a man sound…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:56 PM
2

Too much self-respect might be the nice way of saying you can't take a joke.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 02:40 AM
1

GL
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:01 AM
1

Depends on your gym availability and when they open. For me, earliest time the gym opens is 5:30, so I wake at 4:30. My obligations need me out the door at 11 (Ie: Already showered, stuff prepped), and I get back home from the gym around 8. What I know is when I don't wake up before 7, my mood is just that bit worse because even if I have an excuse, feels like I already failed once that day. There is something really powerful about hearing your alarm, not hitting snooze, and getting up to do wha…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:56 AM
1

Best way to incorporate lifting in college is to conquer your mornings.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:48 AM
3

Giving girls attention isn't the problem. There's no such thing as a plate that doesn't get some attention. The problem is giving attention for no gain. It's not clear she isn't willing to sleep with him. If he really wants to be certain before walking out the door, he can brute force this and make clear to her in some way or another that he wants them to hang alone. If she's not about it, she'll decline. Alternatively he can go with all their friends and just game her like its a group. If he's …
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:04 AM
1

You can reveal weaknesses you've conquered, in the right context. It can't sound like whining. It should sound practically like you're bragging. If you are gonna talk about an unsolved or work-in-progress weakness, it should be a weakness that is already evident to everyone (for example, if you're a fat fuck and you're being put on the spot about it,) or they should have to work to get it out of you to the point that by the time you say it, they're so relieved you shared it with them that they d…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:02 PM
2

You meet this chick once every week or two weeks? Only talk once every few days? Doesn't sound like an LTR, and doesn't surprise me that she'd rather use the short time ya'll have to try and vie for more attention. Probably gets amped up by her friends to boot, bc what ya'll got sounds like friends w benefits + exclusivity. Most guys probably spend more time with plates than you do with this chick. Should probably just demote to plate and get more girls. If all you want is an LTR for the conveni…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:59 PM
9

What was she supposed to do, giggle and be like "haha, yeah im gonna be a whale." Your jokes are trash buddy. It's called "push-pull", not "shove her into the grand canyon for daring to enjoy popcorn next to you." If you're gonna insult her, have some kind of pull to reel her back in, or insult her about something asinine. You feel like you did something wrong cause you insulted her for no reason. The only funny part about it is the audacity of saying something so stupid on a date, but that's la…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:25 PM
-1

I'd give it a day, text a single question mark, and if she doesn't bite call it quits. To be clear, biting means answering at all. If she answers, but doesn't agree to meet, that just means she's low interest but not no interest. If we meet in person and seem to vibe, I'd consider that a reset. Lots of guys on here hate on double texting, but realistically that's just advice aimed at newbies because newbies need to overcompensate to avoid looking needie. Also the price of being rejected on a new…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:00 PM
1

Depending on the girl, it's a shit test or a comfort test. It's a good thing in the context of the alternative for most dudes being that they don't know you have a sexual side. Chances are you come off as very forward compared to most college dudes. Which shouldn't surprise you.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:50 PM
5

Cause its easier this way.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:28 PM
4

Personally, I'd play it slower. Maybe some small talk+push-pull to try and get her to invest a little in the conversation. The more receptive she is, the faster I go. I know a lot of trp commenters are like "If I tell her to come fuck and she isn't usain bolting to my place, HARD NEXT." but in my experience basically gaming her nearly from scratch (depending on the baseline rapport) works better, if she knows from the jump you're a flirty guy. The moments of lull end up feeling to her like "usua…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 10:24 PM
1

Frame should be "Oh thank god. I might not have to be exclusive with her anymore." I think telling her she shouldn't be sneaky was a mistake. She can and will do what she wants. Instead the angle should be something like reassuring her that she can do what she wants, and then right at the end you slide in that you can do what you want too. It should be subtle, and not emphasized at all because if she senses energy, what it'll come off is a really obvious attempt at reverse psychology. Put just e…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 09:19 PM
5

If you weren't worried about your dick, you'd probably be stressing bout some other bullshit. If you were going out to play basketball with friends, would it bother you to know you're never going to play like Lebron? Or if you had asthma, would that mean you should never do anything athletic? There are guys with better excuses than you out there slaying. You don't get shit done by just happening to have no excuse. Everyone feels like they have an excuse. There's always an excuse not to do someth…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 07:54 PM
5

??? what, you think they're going to try and kick your ass or something?
/r/askTRP28/11/19 12:35 PM
4

Just focus on your lifts. Prove to yourself you won't let this dumb shit be an excuse for you not to. AMOG matters when you're gaming, or in your social circle.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 12:06 PM
2

For an opener over bumble? I'd just answer with a question. Something like, "Is spontaneity important for you?" Then I'd play off the new info I get out of that. Even if they answer indirectly, it's still usable info. Gives more room to establish the set. Amused mastery isn't a bad idea tho. Off the top of my head, something like: "The other day I [insert obvious non-spontaneous or absurdly unrealistic spontaneous act]. So I'd say a [High number if non-spontaneous, low number if very spontaneous…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:53 AM
3

personally i'd rather they think i was a fuck boy than that i'm totally fine just not having sex until mistress decides its sufficiently holy.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:44 PM
2

No one will respect you more for choosing to be celibate on behalf of this girl you haven't done anything with. She won't be grateful for it, nor should she be. Social rep does matter in college, but I find it hard to believe your social group is just going to explode if you fuck someone else while single.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:29 PM
–

an edgy person is a fake alpha (not in the previously beta now alpha sense, but in the "this is a beta pretending to be an alpha sense.") that's been noticed. its someone who's a dick for reasons other than not giving a fuck. their identity has been felt as shallow, and their behavior begins to feel predictable (regardless of whether it is or isn't.)
/r/askTRP20/06/16 03:58 PM
1

half expected a guide on how to feed your woman chicken breast. im not sure which i would've preferred.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 02:18 AM
1

Don't have a solution, but to add to your question, bc I'm interested about this as well, is I get the vibe that sometimes they aren't trying to get under your skin, but rather showing how much they can get away with without any direct retaliation. My best response to this kind of attitude is being overtly kind in response, in a "kill him with kindness" sort of way. Curious what other people think.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 11:46 PM
1

I don't have a problem if they say they have a boyfriend. Lots of easy answers mentioned all over the thread. What's tricky for me is the appropriate response to them dropping the fact they have a boyfriend while delivering a totally separate piece of news. "Do anything over spring break?" "Yeah! I went to Niagara falls w/ my boyfriend. You?" I'll probably respond to this with what I did over spring break, cause thats the flow of the conversation, but I can't help but suspect there's an opportun…
/r/askTRP18/06/16 11:38 PM
7

Big fan of the third one. Maybe my community's dynamics differ from ya'lls but if someone answered with something like some of the others ("Nope I'm a real dick." or "Nah, I'm a fucking asshole.") in my circle, you'd just be perceived as a guy trying really hard to be edgy, and get roasted to a crisp. "My mom thinks so." keeps the part where you judge yourself out of it, and keeps your personal appraisal or desired appraisal of yourself hidden.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 11:22 PM
1

Depends on how americanized she is, if she's mildly frustrated wearing a hijab all the time, etc. That said, arab immigrant fathers are ultra protective of their honor, provided vicariously by their daughters. Real talk, have heard fathers tell their daughter to do things from drop out of college to telling them over the phone that they intend to burn the house down on account of them dating a black dude. It really depends how immersed in her culture/religion she is. In the end though, if you gi…
/r/askTRP18/06/16 03:39 AM
2

talking with this girl for a few months things started going well. sounds a lot like you're an orbiter, and you just keep latching onto hope at every opportunity
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:54 PM
2

non-negotiable. i can't imagine dieting properly without doing my own groceries. make sure not to binge after you break your fast.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 01:21 AM
1

is this all happening by text
/r/askTRP14/06/16 01:02 AM
2

personally, i was approximately as obese as your are currently (maybe 10 lbs less? but i definitely hit 230 at some point.) If you were anything like me, lifting is intimidating to you atm, and your discipline is not up to dealing with that. Make going to the gym, even if it isn't to lift, your first step. 3 times a week, every week. if you have to do machines to convince yourself, or if cardio is less intimidating, w.e. For me, my biggest hurdle was building routines. Then begin to move on from…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 12:54 AM
1

make sure not to neglect your triceps. they are what make arms look larger, and make the biceps seem so massive
/r/askTRP12/06/16 11:48 PM
2

This. The beginner's rule for 5 rep sets is when you feel like you can do a sixth, it's time to up the weight.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 03:19 PM
1

Any suggestions on how to effectively incorporate avocados into your diet? I have a problem of them going rotten because I have to wait for them to ripen from the market
/r/askTRP11/06/16 02:57 AM
1

these study methods, imo, are like approaching the material like you have a mountain of coal to shovel. math and science are aspects of reality, and there's a reason many times your professors will say you shouldn't be memorizing this, and that if you understand it you won't need to memorize it. focus on your intuition more than your direct memory. intuition isn't just a thing you either have or you don't. it's developed over your life. things feel right or wrong based on your experience. that's…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 02:22 AM
2

im not sure this was a shit test. feels to me more like an effort to take the decision to be a slut out of her hands and into yours. great answer either way though.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:46 AM
1

all the easier to ignore. just escalate. you have no reason not to unless you want to get into her social circle or something.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:25 AM
2

you'll only know if its the truth if you escalate. act like she said some random b.s about her pet dog or some other inane shit when she talks about her bf. (ie: ignore/talk about something more interesting/etc)
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:50 AM
1

ignore. she said it to see your reaction. even a snarky one will validate her, cause she'll internally twist whatever you send her into you feeling some way about it.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:35 AM
1

too many variables. would be easier with a picture of you to just tell you what they find intimidating, but i wouldn't recommend posting it on this subreddit
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:59 PM
1

I guess? You're acting under the assumption you can get her back. It's not an action you do, like hammering a nail. Even if you could get her back, it would just fall apart anyways. She'd always go back to your loss of frame where you called her a skank ho. But there's a better women out there objectively, and better women than those women. Presumably, you also have a mission, which ought to always matter more than any woman anyways.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:11 PM
1

realize there's a better girl out there. doesn't really matter how. usually people say fuck ten women to do that, cause along the path you'll realize whatever girl you have oneitis for wasn't really all that special. but acknowledging it, at least logically, is the first step to acknowledging it emotionally
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:59 PM
3

unless you're being amotg'd by a guy, or some other sort of direct competition shit is going on, i find nothing is lost by being the first to look away from a dude. unless there's an internal frame issue at play. back when i was practicing maintaining eye contact, cause in my culture eye contact isn't big, i did get a bit dismayed looking away from a dude cause it made me feel like i lost or some shit. consider if that's what's going on with you.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:51 PM
1

nah she isn't. but she was my lab partner and in my chem class, where i had this much prettier girl trying v. hard to turn me into her orbiter (only hmu for favors, and p.flaky otherwise) I stuck around and kept friendly, but didn't do anything that took me out of my way cause I could tell the way she hung around me made good preselection. was doing a study group once, and the girl i mention in the post bailed on it when she asked who was coming, and i told her that girl was.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:39 PM
1

mostly because in person she's v. bubbly, and i enjoy being around that personality, but yeah thats p.much what i'm thinking too. thanks
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:01 PM
1

yeah thats the sense im getting too. thanks bro
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:01 PM
1

Break on friendly terms would probably be the ideal. If you want to, although this does tread the morality line, leave some hint that the reason you're not commiting has nothing to do with her and more to do with you. Ie: I'm not really looking for anything serious right now. A more skillfully worded version of the above would also include some bait that implies you might be ready to commit to HER someday.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 03:19 AM
1

depends on how nice and full your facial hair is. if it looks like you're trying to make something happen that you were never meant to make happen, its a bit like a fat girl squeezing into tiny clothing
/r/askTRP11/04/16 11:25 AM
1

Just leaving it as "You should assume I'm seeing other people." is better I think.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 09:06 PM
9

I'd be sad if TRP got too popular. Sexual strategy might get too meta.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 01:27 AM
1

Do you game your male friends? If you do, stop it. If you don't, there's something about you that stands in the way of you earning respect. Find out what it is.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:45 PM
1

why did you tell them you dislike the porn industry? in my experience, dissenting opinions are not worth giving unless it's the atmosphere in the group for it (Ie: The group is respectable, and think for themselves, etc), you're asked for it, or it's one on one.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:40 PM
1

the point is to ultimately show she could consent, and did, or that your client had sufficient reason to believe she could. you'll only be able to form that argument with context i imagine.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:06 AM
1

means their social circle does shit like that. i consider it a general snapshot of who they chill with. even if they themselves aren't all attention whorey, or whatever other tropes. it's the mark of a follower imo. no one in circles that don't do that shit does that shit. circles aren't just in real life anymore though. internet counts too.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:02 AM
3

monk mode is dedicating all available time to self-improvement. it's not a bad idea to strike up a conversation with a woman, or with anyone if you don't have something you could be doing in that moment to improve yourself. in fact, it's probably a good idea so your social skills don't atrophy. but monk mode is about going hard on self-improvement because it's desperately needed. that doesn't mean not talking to a girl who's at your group salsa lesson or w/e
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:09 PM
1

Yeah, stronglifts is not a bad place to start. Consider adding dips and pull ups, and eventually look into improving your flexibility. If you've never lifted with a barbell before, don't just straight into strong lifts unless you have a pretty empty gym to just practice in for a couple of hours, or someone to help you get your form down. You'll get a bit overwhelmed, and might get lazy on making sure your form is on point, but because you don't feel pain lifting with just the barbell, will think…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:55 PM
1

Ask your doctor/ ask if your doctor knows a doctor who could help you with this stuff. if your doctor is cool with it, practice form with a broom stick or some shit that is light but resembles a bar bell. Really hammer in the getting below parallel thing. something that also never gets mentioned that you might be able to work on is flexibility. something i'm doing atm is sitting in a squat position for 30 mins a day (broken up). it's a lot harder than you think. Back nuetral, feet flat on the gr…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 05:23 AM
1

i wouldn't count on it.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:16 PM
3

yeah, salt, mozarella, parm, overly processed flour, oil, more salt, tomato sauce. idk, i feel like a bitch when i eat shit like that. I feel most masculine when I've not even taken a cheat day in 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 03:05 PM
1

feels like someone who's either too interesting (severe minority), or someone who's outrageously desperate to be interesting.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:44 PM
1

personally, i strongly believe the company you keep affects you. even as a friend, i don't think a girl like that is healthy company.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:38 PM
1

lies by omission aren't lies. with stuff like relationships/life-related investments, it's not on everyone you meet to make sure your impression of what you're getting is accurate. it's not his job to make sure she isn't being treated like a slut.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:30 PM
2

he doesn't say he's going to the park. he tells the girls they're meeting somewhere, and then going to the park is something they do.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 03:29 PM
1

"i was taught by the blind monks of costco, and I'll thank you not to insult my sifu."
/r/askTRP20/02/16 10:40 PM
1

just go for it like you don't care if it doesn't work out, because that isn't what your life revolves around. if you've been following trp in aspects aside from PUA, you've been lifting. acquiring good healthy hobbies, etc. its ok if she says stop. you stop, and try again later/soft next. i have suspicions though that you have inner frame issues unrelated to sex/women though. "Keeping a girl interested?" ????? If she finds you attractive, all you have to do is say practically anything that isn't…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 06:18 AM
3

please look into what sociopathy, and narcissism actually are. your assessments will make you miserable, because they're absurd. Machiavellians aren't people who fuck people over. they're people predisposed to being exceptional at fucking people over via manipulation. the assumption with your concern for his disappearances is you are entitled to knowledge about those things. if he gave it to you, it would be a privilege, and something to be cherished, but that he doesn't isn't a sign of anything…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 04:32 AM
1

try starting conversations with asking her to do something for you. if you wanna be cheeky, ask something ridiculous, but otherwise just make it a favor. initial feel you should be giving off is you didn't decide to talk to her because of her appearance, etc, but because you want that thing done.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 01:58 AM
2

yeah i usually take me feeling jealous about a girl as a sign of budding oneitis, and just initiate the soft next.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 10:26 PM
5

if you tell them, you make it important.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 06:50 AM
4

i mean a fwb is defined as a plate you do non-sex stuff with. that said, she's obviously shit testing you. agree and amplify if this is in person. ignore if it's by text. agree and amplify by text while also letting texts bake tend to make it look like you spent a while trying to think up how to respond in my experience.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 01:36 PM
8

girls talk with their friends. men do things with their friends. when you look at the pinnacle ideal sort of girl clique, things like book clubs come to mind if you're generous. when you do the same for men, you see sports teams, outdoorsy clubs, members of the same tightly bonded platoon. when a girl talks with a guy for hours on end, it's because she sees him like she sees her girlfriend. that's why your friends can't even get numbers. don't focus on the conversation or on connecting. focus on…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:01 PM
2

are you trying to connect with her cause you want to fuck her or because you want to be her friend?
/r/askTRP10/02/16 03:50 PM
3

your small talk's problem is related to your concern she'll lose attention. if she loses attention, it means she isn't into you. girls aren't that in the clouds. they are as struck with anxiety when speaking to someone new as you are, at least at your age/unless she's a social butterfly (which if she was into you, she'd have the skills to fill any silences all on her own, and the issue for you would be framing the conversation, not having it.) your frame is in shambles across the board: No man w…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 01:35 PM
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There is a lot to dissect here, but more than anything else: You talk too much. Both in text, and in person. Like I could not imagine you saying more things than you do. You come off deeply terrified of either the pain she will feel if she fails to keep up her half of the conversation, or if she feels you're too awkward as a result of silence. you need to be natural. not just her, but people need to feel like you're behaving the way you are, even when you're faking it till you make it. but befor…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:07 AM
1

someone should correct me if i'm wrong, as game is something i've personally only recently made serious strides in improving, but that sounds like a complete lack of game. disclaimers aside, i think you have serious improvements to make. you mention acting like a normal person, but normal men don't get laid very often at all. (hence AFC- average fucking chump) try re-reading the side bar, maybe reading some of the top field reports/red pill theory posts in the main sub. re-examine your game. wom…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 03:01 AM
1

describe your "game."
/r/askTRP10/02/16 01:09 AM
1

if you can't work, and you don't have money for hobbies, try volunteering. it builds your resume, and you'll meet new people if you get around. don't go with the frame of "i'm gonna make friends!!!!" though. go with the intention of being a dependable person, and just be sociable in the way a dependable person is as you do it. there are probably other stuff too, but don't think of things as "i need to fix this." nothing gets fixed. you just make things better slowly until you stop really feeling…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 07:35 PM
2

presumably there are 1 or 2 (or maybe all?) people in the group who organizes get togethers like going to a barbecue or some shit. become one of the guys who creates these events and invites people. it feels tremendously better when your friend circle surrounds you rather than you trying to enter the circle. that aside, if things are so bad, don't destroy yourself with stress over it. you're 16, which means you are already way ahead of others. if you haven't yet, focus on your career, on your fi…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 07:31 PM
1

you mention 6+ years, but the amount of time spent improving yourself isn't really what matters. it's what you did. so where are you now? the intuition i'm getting if you've actually gone through serious 6+ years of improvement is you have the misfortune of a snaggletooth or some shit.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 07:22 PM
1

lined up doesn't this imply she thinks there's exclusivity? like it suggests that she thinks that you won't fuck anyone else if she fucks you.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 04:14 AM
1

I used to have something similar where regardless of the social situation I'd just have this joker-grin on my face. I only noticed when some guy posted up on facebook a video of my friend circle, me included, and i was just deeply surprised. i fixed it by going into a few social situations with the goal of just not smiling period, even if something funny happens. i found out the reason why i kept smiling was i was deep down afraid of what it would be like if i didn't smile. it's similar to why s…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 11:51 PM
1

people drink to gain social confidence. If it helps with your goals, why the fuck would it be stupid? it's a crutch. it implies he can't do it without x, or y, when he can. it'd just be harder.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 04:36 PM
1

Technically, you could make the same argument about alcohol. Granted it also has health related problems, but even if it didn't, its place as a social crutch represents a safe zone that needs to be destroyed with raw discipline.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 02:57 AM
1

Try something different. If you usually do 8-12 reps, try raising the weight and do 6 for a session. Your body is exceptionally good at getting really honed in on being good at what you're doing as opposed to getting strong generally, which is what weight training is intended to do. So you gotta throw curve balls to keep yourself generally stimulated.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 02:55 AM
2

would recommend waiting to see how this vasagel thing turns out since it's allegedly reversible, and it's coming out in 1-2 years.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 02:53 AM
1

never heard this before. could you give an example?
/r/askTRP02/02/16 01:33 AM
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girlfriend has been shit testing me HARD tells me i'm going so slow when i play board games. is on edge when i drive word? a shit test is a test to see if you'll take her shit. is this rly giving you shit? being on edge when you drive isn't some test dude. even girls aren't that asinine to subconsciously fear for their lives in order to test if the men around them will take their b.s. amused mastery is probably the best response to her saying you're going slow in a bored game. as a side note, i'…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:17 AM
2

i don't think there's much value in evaluating your SMV beyond two appraisals: -Monk mode necessary NOW OR -Not good enough Never stop pushing yourself.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 12:28 AM
1

Feels oneitisy. You've already invested too much in her if you're thinking about her, and how to have her enough to be posting on asktrp asking for tips and tricks. That investment is better spent in [insert typical TRP shit you're probably not perfect on]
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:33 AM
3

I don't think it's bad to have too much dread as long as you bring it down and then back up like a roller coaster of feels.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:31 PM
2

If there is something for you to learn here, the best way to learn it is in the field. Regardless of what you choose, you should stick to TRP principles with slight tinges of beta for maintenance. Obviously you shouldn't marry her and that's not what you're asking about, but live life, man. If you're concerned she may #wastehistime2016, then clearly she isn't good enough for an LTR. But if she is making you happier than you would be outside of an LTR with her, then there's on some level a reason…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 02:12 AM
2

Abs is p.safe. I'd probably send a pic of my armpit and act as though I sent a dick pic. "More where that came from. ;)" idk, i'd just have fun with it. not a fan of sending pics of my dick.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 03:22 AM
3

Even if you bulk, you'll just need to cut. Even if you cut, you'll decide to bulk again eventually. The order doesn't matter much because it's a life style. Once you reach your goal, you ought to create a new goal. Personally, in your circumstance, I'd cut till I was 180-190ish over the course of 2 months. Depending on what I looked like, I'd either continue to cut till I reached around BF 15%, or I really felt like I was getting way too weak. From there I'd just decide based on what that ends u…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 02:06 PM
1

"Thanks" is the best response. I wouldn't say you want to be said to look like the typical engineering student, but you're not fixing that impression with any response. Next best thing is owning your career choice and being so proud of it you would love for people to see it in you immediately. Meanwhile lift. Eat more. Go into a bulk till you're 180, cut to 10-15% BF, then go into another cycle. Rinse repeat.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 08:11 PM
3

Just got a nutribullet, and it has made including vegetables and fruits a lot more bad ass/easy. Easy to clean, easy to use, quick. Add egg whites, and that's breakfast in less than 10 minutes. Just like lifting, when it comes to cooking, focus on your form. Take the extra 2 seconds of forethought to organize yourself. Prepare your ingredients in advance, get your utensils ready. If something feels inconvenient to the point of putting you off, chances are someone invented a way to make it simple…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 03:15 AM
1

Wear some nice boots. Lifts are a bad move. It looks weird and wrong.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 03:07 AM
3

You feel fake in your texts.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:43 PM
1

TRP isn't saying mislead women. It doesn't say not to mislead them either. I'm not saying mislead women. I'm not saying don't mislead them. What is said though is if OP's goal is continuing to have no strings attached sex, saying it directly will probably kill her attraction for him, even if she does want no-strings attached sex. The TRP community doesn't pass the kind of moral judgments you seem to want it to, and I'm guessing that disgusts you, but TRP isn't about morality. It's about reality,…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:58 PM
2

TRP is amoral. A "RP relationship" is just a relationship where the guy doesn't get jipped. It can be one where the woman doesn't either, and it can be one where she does. It's not really something TRP comments on. TRP isn't ever going to tell you to "do x so that this woman doesn't feel misled." It also won't tell you to mislead women either. It'll just tell you what happens if you do x, v.s if you do y. But TRP at it's core is immoral. It's not about telling you what to do or how to live. It's…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:11 PM
3

i was going to ask about what if they were obviously of different ethnicity, but that's hilarious.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:49 PM
2

just because its a test doesn't mean it's not a real attempt at finding out your intentions. just that it shouldn't be treated, in the red pill lens, as something that is irrelevant to the woman's attraction towards you, such that any answer or means of response will effectively communicate what you want communicated.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:03 AM
1

You immediately lose the respect of a woman when she comes to the realization she is more willing to let the relationship die than you are. Even if you are willing to let him preserve his one-itis for this girl/can't get over his one-itis, he'll still be much happier the moment he behaves as though his commitment to her is deeply conditional on her behavior.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:54 AM
3

might be a comfort test if they recently fucked for the first time. depends on the context. its a test either way though.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:49 AM
3

being firm with men doesn't work. it works with women cause the sense they get is you'll walk away if they don't listen. men don't give a shit if you walk away? especially if it's in the context of you trying to control them. you seem to be being vague about how they target you, which makes me suspect you have weaknesses in your life or character that actually can be targeted. which isn't something to be embarrassed about if true, but if it is true, you should take it upon yourself to eliminate …
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:11 PM
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I suspect you misunderstand. Point of the eye patch isn't to hide the eye. It's to correct the lazy eye. Forcing the lazy eye to be the one that sees (covering the good eye), is a way of fixing lazy eye.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:05 PM
1

solid 7-8 hours in a row. REM sleep is the goal, and that takes extended periods of sleep to muster consistently.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:40 AM
1

how many dudes she's had sex with.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:19 AM
2

your goal isn't to lift, your goal is build the routine of lifting. it's easy to change the amount you lift, and your routine at the gym. all it takes is doing a different thing, but the hard part is actually doing the thing. decrease your gym load tremendously if you're so lacking in discipline. make your goal not to do x at the gym 3 times a week, but to just be at the gym 3 times a week. it can just be to do 10 push ups, and go walk for a bit. then start to increase what you do do at the gym.…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:16 AM
3

once you've had sex with a girl, assuming it didn't suck, you're in the zone opposing from the friend zone. just like its borderline impossible to leave the friend zone once you've been pigeon holed there, it's really hard for her to put you into the friend zone once you guys have had sex. edit: especially since fucking you won't add to her n-count anymore.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:42 AM
2

In other words, make her feel like she'd be a slut if she let herself get taken advantage of after a break up.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:37 PM
2

Idk about the other stuff, but at the part about the dude telling you to go to hell. Don't brag around men. Even if you aren't bragging, unless it's solicited, don't. There are some people who are bros who'll be positive, but all in all I find it leads to a variety of negative images. Also bragging implies you want validation. (Solicitations might be like them asking you how you're doing at the gym, or like you guys are catching up and obviously talking about things you're happy about will bring…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 07:21 PM
1

seen this before. alpha widow.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 12:21 AM
1

judge her for who she is, not who you want her to be. it feels like you're starting from a place of "i need to stop her from cheating." when i don't think TRP would recommend LTRing any woman where them cheating is a concern. it sounds like you're too invested, and need to pull back. flirt with more women, do more. don't try to change her when it's something like this.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 12:20 AM
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it sounds like you have confused faking it till you make it, to faking it being the goal. the reason you leave is because it emulates the behavior of an ultra busy alpha man who can't just sit there and bathe in the sea of complacent emotions women often do. meanwhile, you ought to be working so that it is genuinely inconvenient for you to have to stay the night because of how much you're losing. not because you want inconvenience, but because there's a reason why women yearn for the type of man…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 12:01 AM
1

was it easy to get her to put out? if so, this is a red flag, and your gut is warning you that "thar b dragons ahead." if it wasn't, don't sweat it. sweating it makes it more likely something will happen.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 10:32 PM
2

act natural. like the first time you go shopping at a super market, you just have to act like someone who belongs. that tends to occupy the mind, and you slip back like someone practicing posture, but you just gotta reorient your mind's posture so it isn't crooked and unstable, until it stays that way.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:45 PM
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disclaimer: im not an expert. you said an awful lot for someone who feels there's nothing to discuss here. not to say i don't get it, but that's the atmosphere of your response to this imo. it's not your job to convince her you weren't trying to spite her. it's also futile to try. it's not your job to justify the trade, although if whatever she bought you was something deeply intimate and sentimental, you probably did fuck up by selling it and getting caught. consider how you want her to feel ab…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:23 AM
1

treat him like you'd treat anyone who behaved like that around you. don't confront him unless he seriously holds you in incredible regard.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:41 PM
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sounds like she's just riding the CC. she's 20 years old, and probably hasn't really even considered the wall. edit: also it's not accurate to say she has RP mentality. RP mentality applied to women is something similar to the sidebar in the RP women subreddit. how she's behaving is the blue pill equivalent for women.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:37 PM
4

Is your career/life-mission in order? If not, bring it into order. Building hobbies/misc. skills is I think a good idea too. Currently trying to pick up playing pool and bowling on a somewhat decent level.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:39 AM
1

She chose you of her own volition. Presumably you didn't rape her. You hold zero responsibility for her presumably sober decision to cheat on her boyfriend. Your "crime" is best worded as follows: You were willing to reveal to the ether the willingness of this woman to cheat on a man who gave her commitment. Personally, if I were the guy who's girlfriend you fucked, I'd prolly high five you, and say farewell to her. Thanks for showing me what a mistake it was to commit to her. It seems bullyish …
/r/askTRP27/12/15 05:48 AM
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Not to imply I'm disparaging your decision to have an open LTR, but what is an open LTR v.s a plate? sounds like friends with benefits.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 04:40 AM
1

My father immigrated from the middle east. He sends money to my grandparents. Is this an option for you?
/r/askTRP27/12/15 04:35 AM
1

only cook for yourself. remove from your home b.s. when you do groceries, you'll be tempted to get shitty stuff, but that's once a week. if you don't do groceries and always buy food from outside, you will be tempted at every single meal. if you over eat in terms of volume, your stomach is too big and will need to shrink. it's going to hurt. that's okay. you will survive. if there's nothing unhealthy in the house, it should be easy to deal with. the real trouble is if you've got shit all over th…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:21 AM
1

In other words you want to do to her what women do to orbiters. (Get sex without giving commitment is the male equivalent of getting commitment without giving sex.) Which w/e, you do you. Good luck though. The same way a 35+ year old man eventually realizes he's miserable and that he's been beta bucks, she'll eventually realize she's miserable unless ya'll are really lucky and the stars align such that she gets a beta bucks and ya'll never get caught in any serious capacity.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 10:38 PM
5

tinder is a hook up app. girls have raised standards for hook ups, and guys have dropped standards.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:18 PM
1

Personally, I had this problem I had fixed for me in my blue pill days when this girl noticed I don't look her in the eye often. She was bothered cause in her opinion her eyes are her best feature, and she disliked not being looked at. She tells me to just look, and that she won't be bothered by it. To stare if I feel like it. For whatever reason I'd always had this anxiety like as though I had a 2 second timer whenever I looked into someone's eyes or something bad was going to happen. Next time…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 07:51 AM
1

because if you have the discipline of a 12 year old, clearly that means you have the discipline of a shaolin monk. you've been hamstering this entire thread. do what you have to do, or accept the consequences. if you don't want to do anything interesting when you don't find it interesting, then accept you just aren't willing to do what you have to do to be interesting. or i guess hamster some more.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:14 AM
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ITT: a guy who thinks he's entitled to a world that's interesting for him. you lack discipline. a lot of what you do isn't about liking it. it's about doing it even if you don't feel like it.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:56 AM
1

"hey. are you busy xxxxx" and immediately after, probably before she responds, "come bowling/xxxxx with me" if she says nah but doesn't reschedule, just be cool and let it be for now. if she says no and reschedules, thats fine. if she says yes, then obviously that's fine. all you really need to do is hang out and do something active. pursue, and if your SMV is higher than her BF by enough to surmount the slut points she'll feel at the notion of cheating on him, you'll be able to escalate. expect…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:14 AM
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something similar where she says im way better than her or some shit. i don't feel like this is a shit test. she probably genuinely feels that way. that said, you sorta want her to feel that way? she just doesn't realize part of why she's attracted to you is she feels that way, and if it goes away she won't be as attracted/attracted to you. ignoring is best imo because it averts the risk of her being too persistent, or escalating. amused mastery, agree and escalate, etc would just make her feel …
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:03 AM
4

you're being a bitch. "I want her around more than she wants to be around." you either deserve better than any woman who isn't attracted to you, or shouldn't even be plating women, much less LTRing them, until you do deserve better. i can't say more than that cause you aren't specific, but holy shit man get a grip.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:39 AM
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don't respond, and just ignore it. she or you will eventually send a text about doing something productive.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:37 AM
1

how long between the first text and your response
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:16 AM
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sounds like you imagine being red pill as something you only do when you wanna get laid, and can't muster up the soul to be red pill around a 5.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 09:54 AM
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This is gonna be tough love here dude: You're not entitled to being invited to their plans. You have scarce mentality. If you like them as people aside from this, create plans, and invite them to it. It SOUNDS though like for some reason or another, they aren't that about you. You should ALWAYS be making new friends and never stagnating. Don't confront them, you'll just look like a bitch cause they'll all look at each other like "why is he making a big deal outta this?" They'd also be right. Why…
/r/askTRP20/12/15 05:38 AM
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Rules 16: Use absence to increase respect. You don't need to be in her head as the guy who texted her some funny shit. You wanna be in her head as the guy who gave her tingles a couple nights/weeks ago. Exceptions exist though, but as I understand it it's also to avoid having text be the way to communicate anything of emotional substance. Meeting up is better. You're there in person, you can kino, etc. Phone calls are good too if you have a deep voice.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:48 AM
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You took the frame, but did nothing with it. Decide on your frame, and hold it.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:36 AM
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Meet and interact with more women, ideally closing. If you can't, work on yourself until you can, aka monk mode. You'll realize she isn't that special, and get over her. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 01:19 PM
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..That's the wrong answer even if it's a comfort test. If it's a comfort test, comfort her without giving her what she specifically asked for. There's no reason for him to satisfy the arbitrary specific whim that she be praised on facebook. What she wants is validation, and she had a whim about how she wants it. She doesn't realize if her whim is satisfied, it has greater effects on her feelings for itsme74 than just satisfying her need to be validated. This all assuming she's an innocent naive …
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:26 PM
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