TLDR: plates start requesting more from me , I don’t give it and feel tremendous guilt

Something I’ve been running into since becoming red pill . I have multiple plates and obviously some of them are looking for something more serious . The guilt tripping always makes me fold . Puts me in beta mode where I care too much about their feelings. I still do what I want but then I have to deal my own mental Consequences . Their heartbreak hurts my heart in way . I’m red pill aware enough to understand that’s how women get you into a relationship from just casual sex and that it’s all manipulation and mind games but it always works on me . I just recently started getting women after going through my own self improvement process and right now my goal is to run up the numbers . I want to try it all black girl , blonde , Asian, fat girls,milfs . Anything you can think off. But worrying about feelings of plates has held me back . In terms of not going too long without seeing them , calling and etc . Doing the dumb shit they want to do and etc then I pretty much fuck other girls around that but it’s difficult with work and gym and etc cause I obviously prioritize that first. How do I become a more heartless sleezebag ? Girls that just want sex don’t have this effect on me we have a great time no simping on my part. But when they really like me it starts to feel like a obligation.