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ddd1337/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:25 PM
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Part of chilling for her is satisfying her man. Testing how I would react to denial of sex is not healthy chilling. When she was having periods we weren't having sex.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 06:25 AM
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Turning 23 in few weeks. Finished uni, got full-time job recently and looking for flat with my friend. Long time ago needed to move out and learn to be undependable, she says I can't leave her cause she will be alone. She is divorced and if I leave she will be all alone, but if I do it later she will be only older, she is almost 60yo now. My brother who is almost 27 leaves in the same house but in the same flat with grandmother and I see how both of them killed his masculinity cause we didn't ha…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:33 PM
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Omg dude. That's some real wisdom to be honest. I've been losing girls lately very easily, cause I always run the same cold (RedPill) game and it isin't working, they most likely don't see me as Chad. I gotta start giving them more comfort probably. I'm being labeled as "fuckboy" which is lower than Chad.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:08 PM
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yeah, krakow is great, warsaw has good girls as well but worse place to party than Krakow. Also PRAGUE is a must visit for every person.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:59 PM
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By the way I tried one more time in the morning while we were cuddling, I was poking her ass with my boner, 2 times tried to put her hand on my dick but she withdrew it.She was pretty cuddly at the morning, biting my ear and shit. That's of course not what I was hoping for that night. Thank you
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:42 PM
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Thanks for your answer. Should I let her know that we could meet one more time at my place or is it hard next and she is the one who needs to reinitiate contact?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:34 PM
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Wasn't public. Isolated forest/park. At night. If she let me I'd fuck her there. But I couldn't undress her, far from sex. We ended kissing each other body/chest and that's it. 2nd date at her place was even less action, 2 times got rejected after very short making out (less than 1 minute).
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:21 PM
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As a guy who has been smoking weed a lot 2 years ago, stop while you can. It fucks you.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:06 PM
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It's man's job to escalate. Throwing in "you owe me a dinner" is low effort and he won't lose anything.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:10 PM
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if she likes him she will if she doesn't she won't and he will have less questions like that
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:33 PM
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Thanks dude, appreciate the work
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:51 AM
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Yeah. I mean it. But your comment is funny :D
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:55 PM
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yeah its nice, but it's sometimes better to not make yourself a boyfriend material with these kinds of dates.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:37 PM
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love summer time cause i just do picnics with new girls non stop. 1 on 1 date, easy to escalate physically and cuddle, even possible to fuck her if place is isolated and it's night time. Unfortunately, it's more expensive than regular "come to my place" or "coffee/bar" date. Cause you need to buy some wine or champagne and fruits. Going only alcohol is alright, making her buy all the snacks is also alright, but that's still more expensive than 1-2 beers at bar. Also you are dependent on the weat…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:34 PM
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Appreciate the answer. I'm definitely missing both quality and fun books in my life at the moment. Also gotta get back to meditation. Thank you, your words are saved and heard. Planning my next course of actions, your books are included. Social media and internet is quote big addiction for me as well. You are on point.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:54 PM
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Buy lelo hex condoms, they are great
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:48 AM
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Appreciate the time you took to give us that info. By solid logistics you mean you always go on a date with car? Even if you are going to drink at bar? Also nice thing with 3 different venues, that really makes her more comfortable with you and you get more social proof and she understands you do shit in your life. As to condoms, I never fuck without wrapping it up. And yup I have more than one condom cause I like going multiple rounds.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:39 PM
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Been reading it a lot lately. Thanks dude. You are very on point.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:23 PM
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Stupid question but I'll ask. Have there been situations where you weren't able to get sex on the 1st date but got it on the 2nd or 3rd? I just can't understand what's the difference for girl to fuck on the first date or 3rd date, cause my escalation doesn't change, probably attraction level with more dates going only decreases, she just gets more comfortable with me on the proceeding dates, but being comfortable doesn't mean attracted. Do you escalate differently if the 1st date wasn't successf…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:30 PM
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Thanks dude for putting it this way. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:08 PM
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Is it possible that even if you turned her on on the first date and made her wet with kisses on the neck and etc. she will still reject sex cause it's only the first date? I had girl wet on the first date but couldn't get sex, so curious is it some power play from her or I just wasn't good enough for her? I never speak about sex (unless verbally escalating) and kino is my favorite thing to do so I take it slow.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:10 PM
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You suck if you just went for the kiss lol. Were you cuddling? Were you touching her tights? Were you touching her shoulders, back, hands? Were you kissing her neck, ears, chest before the kiss on the lips? You didn't build any sexual tension and you went for the kiss?
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:26 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:41 PM
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I've heard from some guys that they are able to get erection just by talking to a girl and when the kiss is going on they already have a boner. So if kiss is going on and the girl is putting hand on your crotch and it's only semi hard, it would be sad if she assumed that's the maximum dick length. Dude. Just by writing it I realized how badly I am overthinking that situation.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:08 AM
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Yeah, I've got your idea. Thanks
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:00 AM
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I'm still not very experienced when it comes to sex related things. To be honest I was shocked when I felt her jeans are wet. I was building sexual attraction for whole date, didn't know I can make girl so wet just by kissing her body and neck, I wasn't even rushing with lips, I made her want me to kiss her, by touching my lips with her, but not going for the kiss. And yes bro, you are right, feeling her being wet did turn me on a little bit, but still not the maximum boner unfortunately.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 09:27 AM
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But how you managed to still kiss them? Shit when I'm not attracted to the girl I automatically feel depressed for wasting my and her time, even though she enjoys it. Despite that there is inner voice saying that it doesn't matter if this time she isn't my type it's better fucking her than not fucking anyone at all.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 10:12 PM
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Oh no. I won't even promote those 6s to fwbs, I don't want to be seen in public with them.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:28 PM
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Have cold approached a girl few days ago at mcdonalds line, it turned out she is 30 y.o. and I thought she is much younger, so we had a laugh for 10 minutes and went our ways. Yesterday tried to pick up number of a girl who worked at shoe store, I've been told she is taken, lame excuse or truth who knows, bought my shoes and left. I'm definitely getting back to cold-approaches soon, but tinder offers some options, and since I haven't fucked in a long time and haven't put my sidebar knowledge in …
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:25 PM
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Lol. nice one
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:47 AM
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Thanks for reminding me about the number game. The more approaches I do inevitably the more rejects I will get. Truth.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:47 PM
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You are right my dude. I'm just too fast jumping to conclusions. Getting rejected by girl I perceived lower status than me really hit my ego. Gotta watch words I say, maybe that makes me less apealing. Edit: reply was directed to the first guy, but whatever
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:44 PM
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Yea, by phrasing it your way you are pressuring yourself to perform. Don't pressure yourself like that. Girls know sometimes guys have got problems, she will give you another chance and if she doesn't that's still ok. Nothing bad happened. Stop watching porn and masturbating. Edit: she did blowjob? But you couldn't get it up? What? She did blowjob on soft dick? That's not a blowjob.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 11:10 AM
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If it's 50/50 it is called gambling.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:00 AM
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What language? Just finished bachelor in field I don't like. Thinking about learning coding
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:33 PM
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For me 2 days is a max. But if your schedules work, let it be. Btw that's why you do it only 2 days in advance, no need to chat with her. I had same thing happen to me, couldn't find free day with one girl, we agreed 5 days in advance. She seemed highly interest, I didn't write for that whole time, even though before agreeing the date we were chatting. On the date I wrote her location and time and she just ignored it. These fucking beta orbiters chat till the exact date so girls get used to it.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:39 AM
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Best possible answer. Straight facts. Love this community.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:43 AM
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Chat a little bit and ask her out. Then escalate in person. If not interested just ignore or give uninterested answers.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:41 AM
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What? Braces are indicator that you have money and you are interested in straightening your teeth and you care about your appearance.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:44 PM
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lol, what a shitty opener. she doesn't even know you and you talk about dating? You gotta read sidebar bro
/r/askTRP09/06/20 11:01 AM
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I see your point. Most of my approaches were when I and the girl were in stationary positions. On buses, bus stops, stores and etc. While me and the girl were heading somewhere, even in the same direction it was much harder to handle the talk. Still I kinda disagree with you. IMO venues is only 5-10% of the approach, everything comes to your smv and your quality of the approach and small-talk itself. I never ask for girl's number straight away and I never say compliments and shit while opening h…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:48 AM
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Wow, it's so unbelievable for me, cause that has never happened to me. And I'm 5'7 guy with 5-6 out of 10 looks. Yes they are not always in the mood and not always interested but that's alright. How do you open them? I just say hi, what's your name. And we have a conversation from that. If they say ask what was the purpose of that, I say: just to talk. If they still are a little bit shocked and assume what I want to sell something and I'm sketchy I just say: Do guys nowadays don't approach girls…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 08:32 AM
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True. Easier to talk cause people in USA know how to maintain a small-talk. People in other countries are more closed and are worse at small-talks. But still. Not all of them. As on entitled part. I think most girls are entitled just because of social media and constant attention they get from it. Same in every country. I will never make any excuses until I max out my SMV or until I get good at game..
/r/askTRP09/06/20 08:05 AM
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I'm from Lithuania, been to Warsaw and Krakow, very fun cities. Girls seemed fun as well, although we were night-clubbing. But they looked same as Lithuanian girls by their behaviour. Every time someone says So day game is almost inexistent I assume that that person hasn't even approached more than 10 girls in his life. Approaching is hard only for one reason. It needs guts. If you don't have them or if you are not courageous enough you won't succeed in it, just because you won't do it. If you h…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:41 AM
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I'm from Lithuania, before covid I've been cold approaching some girls. First approaches were awkward but that's how we learn, others were more fun and successful. Even though girls looked shocked at first when I approached them, they were still happy afterwards and even few of them contacted me first. There is one thing I'll agree with you more girls live in a fantasies and they want to lock their man into relationship, they don't understand that plate/fwb type of relationship can work, so they…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:35 AM
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True af here. They want emotional roller coaster.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:49 AM
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Woman wants a man who is better than her. That's it. When he is better he ain't chasing her.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:46 AM
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Slim fit a little bit better than skinny fit for me. But you do you. Depends on your overall style, your overall build, how your legs look.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:47 PM
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Ugly girl with great body is still ugly to me. On the other hand ugly guy with great physique can still smash.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:25 PM
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As the guy who has been lifting and dieting seriously and as the guy who has seen some fitness coaches going from stickmans to bears and then to fit guys. As their face was also gaining and losing weight. Black Pill is bullshit. Good nutrition and sports do make you more attractive, they can change how people view you, we as guys are more lucky than girls, cause we aren't only viewed by our face. Unless we are shreks. People see whole package - frame, face, style, physique, status, social proof.…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:20 AM
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Got a friend who smokes weed few weeks daily, few weeks weekly, he spins alright looking girls and is a god when it comes to clubbing and is very hard working student and employee, so already is building his career. My opinion? He still operates fine in real life even with drugs but I think he would strive for much more if he didn't. I have addictive personality, so I lost 1 year because of drugs, That's why people suggest not starting it at all, you can lose much more than you will ever win. Bu…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:48 PM
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Don't do a lot of drugs and alcohol. That makes you less hungry for valuable things. Edit: I'm surprised my comment blew up. This community is best thing I have found lately. People below me wrote also great things including books, education, style, clothing, haircut, learning to save money as early as possible and learning how to manage their own finances. EACH of these things is a must. Also lifting and nutrition. After becoming bigger and fitter people behave with me differently. From time to…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:23 PM
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English is my 3rd language, so sorry for it being poor. First minutes is for building some friendly rapport. Of course you can start escalating sexually and it can work if she is really attracted to your looks but I'd rather speak about something fun in 10-15 minutes. You can buy hookah to make girls a little bit more comfy at your places or you give them a drink. Better to not ask if she wants to drink you just say "you gonna drink wine or you want my special cocktail" with a playful tone. If s…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:37 AM
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You were too desperate. She was already leaving and you went for another make out. Really? She got dose of your attention for free and didn't bring anything to the table. That wasn't her little sis. That was her friend. Girls do something like this to be able to bail out if needed. She clearly used her emergency exit there. If you really turned her on she'd definitely stay at your place for 10 more minutes to get fucked. Stupid question she used was just to drag out time. You said 20 minutes was…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:01 AM
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You are right.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:16 PM
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I understood man. As I said I took full responsibility for my actions and accepted their decisions to cut me out of their circle. I was asking about general situations - what is the line which people cross and you shouldn't ever forgive them. My situation isn't that serious.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:37 PM
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Where is that line between cutting them off for disrespect and giving another chance? People change, but only few of them.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:45 PM
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Right. As we all.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:27 PM
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He yesterday told our mutual friend that he missed me and was sad I didn't want to meet him. You are probably right about broadening social circle, it has some pros in it. As to alcohol, I understood that it kills my mood for next day, same as weed, makes me a vegetable. As all my thoughts are right now to improving my financial situation and projects I will take after finishing my bachelor thesis I've decided to cut those things and I have never really needed them while partying, since 2 beers …
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:22 PM
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Realised that. Haven't been drinking anything stronger than occasional beer or wine for more than 9 months.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 11:51 AM
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From time to time I go to clubs and bars, actively use tinder, have professional photos made for it, I assume I'm good at texting and sexting. But man. Cold approaches is king. The most fun thing I've done lately. Girls usually are the first to initiate the contact after we have exchanged contacts. Of course first times were shit but that's how we learn, we fail, we learn, then we fail again, then we learn even more. Looking forward to getting back at it when covid things are over.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:41 PM
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How many cold approaches have you done in 2020 before covid?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:32 PM
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damn, nice, you do it before receiving bj or you just dip in cause you want it?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:14 PM
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Follow up question: what date is it appropriate for eating a pussy? You shouldn't go too soon if you don't want to get STDs I assume, but I sometimes get better erection if I eat her out during foreplay.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:46 AM
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No selfies. Photoshoots. Pictures doing something fun. Pictures with beautiful people around you. It will build some worth. You guys don't know shit about online game if you think pictures are the only thing important. Stories are much more important now. They can show your real worth. They can show your real activities. They can show how much fun you are having in your life. Your voice as well. Also stories is a free card for girls to write you. Girls rarely open guys on their own. But story is…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 09:28 AM
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Tell me more details in personal message.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:51 PM
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Yup, they've got insurance.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:58 PM
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I see your point. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:58 PM
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I've hit on busses and bus stations, pretty succesful to be honest. Hitting while they were at work didnt go well at all.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:51 AM
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Corey Worthington
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:13 PM
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It's not tinder there every message is important. It's cold approach. First sentence doesn't matter, that matters is that you'll be able to build from conversation.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:42 PM
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If you've ever talked to a woman, you would knows Women are not that friendly or open to random conversation that's complete opposite, for the right guy they are more than willing to stop that they were doing and have a some talk an attractive woman lol
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:40 PM
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or Hi, what's your name
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:28 PM
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Hi
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:27 PM
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We haven't talked about it yet. But as we were speaking she mentioned she doesn't own a car. Taxi would be around 10 bucks.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:13 AM
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I mean, I'm just one of 7 guys trying to bring her home. Why would she pay for it on her own if she doesn't know what she is going to get? That's just the first time. If I had to pay for the girl I have already fucked that would mean I'm not good enough if she isn't spending her money. Edit: I'd show my SMV face to face
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:56 AM
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Girls always fuck on 3rd date? What? Is that a rule? I have stopped going on dates if 2nd date didn't end up with sex. Same with kiss, if no kisses on 2 dates when I'm done there.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:59 PM
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Props on getting them home without even touching on dates. I love some escalation on dates, you must be high smv if they came to your house by just speaking, well played
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:06 AM
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Welcome back!
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:18 AM
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by assuming things about her, she either agrees or says you are not right, but it's still more entertaining than question-answeri don't slide into dms on instagram, i use tinder, i just checked my messages - only 3% of them have question mark, if you are in the situation there you have to ask a question means you are boring and don't know how to keep texting witty and playful.I can't give you any specific advices, you got to read some tutorials, unfortunately rp doesn't have anything good on tex…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:52 PM
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She: I like getting myself some croissants and coffee early in the morning, that's like my little thing. He: you sound like 80% of my colleagues OR i see, let me tell you that it isn't just yours little thing, my whole office does it explanation: while i was working at previous job all my colleagues before the work were eating donuts and drinking coffee, but thats just an example for you bro you shouldn't repeat that the girl has said and you should almost never ask her questions (unless she was…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:59 PM
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If they are really playing that silly game. You can follow up with the question: tell me about something you are proud of, excluding job and looks. After that question bitches get the idea that they have done nothing in their lives.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:36 AM
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Ahahah that's so funny
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:33 AM
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I didn't know this is a job interview
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:32 AM
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as I said nothing related to drugs and black market
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:30 PM
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They won't be punished for it and I could, that's the difference
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:49 PM
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I love girls but this has zero correlation to them, I don't discuss money income with them lol
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:06 PM
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Sure. I always say that if someone has a vision, a dream for business or even something not connected with money and has to spend 24 hours a day to work on it in order to fulfill his dream then he definitely should go for it. If you find something that makes you leap out of bed every morning and requires your full-time on it you can sacrifice everything for it: girls, gym, friends and other activities because you already found something much better, in that particular time it is okay to stop was…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:57 AM
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Money can spread girl's legs but it can't make pussy wet. Feeling that you are wanted and desired is a part of sex itself. Fucking escorts is same as masturbation to some extend, you are just there to fulfill your needs because you are not good enough to do it the real way. I love hunting, I love gaming, I love seducing, that gives purpose to sex. That makes me feel good. But I'd lie if I said that I don't feel bad and depressed when things don't go my way. But it's your life, you decide that's …
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:46 AM
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Agreed. But have a question. What does make bedroom terrible? Garbage around? Dust? Lots of unnecessary things taking all space? Smell of sweat? Unorganized clothes? Im keeping my room pretty clean, but it's poorly planned imo, don't have expensive bed with comfy pillows, don't have minimalistic table, chair is worn out a bit, wall has little hole in it, dont remember how it happened, maybe I through something. I mean that's the difference between terrible bedroom and just poor one? I'll definit…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 04:10 PM
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Thanks dude, appreciate the long write.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:53 PM
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I feel you bro. I'm 22, finishing degree. And right now I'm at such point there I think that is even the purpose of my hunt and there is nowhere I can bring chick home. I remember turning down chicks at girl cause we had nowhere to go and I had dates there we were passionly making out and I bringin them home would be easy but I just hadn't there to go. Not having a car doesn't help us as well. But it's only my problem, I'm a man and I should be responsible for logistics.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:46 PM
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You probably misread, I have never brought anyone home. My parents wouldn't care if I brought someone. But I care and the girl would probably care. Can't imagine sleeping with girl when my mom or dad is behind the wall hearing everything. I live in a 3 room flat. If I was living in a house that would probably be another story. Edit: if your parents are the problem just move out. I'd probably say 8-9 out of 10 situations guy should move out if he is above 20. That gives only good things. You shou…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:37 PM
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22 and finishing uni now. Still living with my mom, all the hookups, ons I had were at girl's place or party, I have never had girl at my place and heck how many hookups I couldn't get cause I had 0 logistics (i dont have a car). The older I grow the more shame I feel when people ask where I live. Moving out should be my next step for sure, but still need to figure out my money income, get my degree.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:00 PM
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Stupid question my god. My parents got me them when I was younger. People get them in their mid 20s and early 30s. Fuck that anybody thinks. I don't give a flying fuck if a person is wearing them, it just shows that person has money and is interested in their own looks, that's a great sign. Have made out with many girls while wearing them. Nothing personal but with that insecurity you are long way to becoming red. Conclusion: FUCKING DO THEM. The earlier the better. Noone will give a fuck. And t…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:44 PM
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Guys here will jump me but I think little comfort is always needed, even with plates or the girls you haven't fucked yet. You should be able to to differ neediness, lack of abundance with comfort. Nothing bad if sometimes you are the one writing first and there is nothing bad if once in a while you ask how her day is going. Giving comfort can drag you into her territory and her frame, that's why you should be careful with it, but if you know how to give it properly and still make her hamster spi…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:52 PM
2

say dont we look good together (pointing at yourself and other guy). Follow up: you think you could stand a chance against him? She will probably answer: oh no, you two look great You: sad, I don't like girls who are not confident in themselves
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:35 PM
1

doing that. But I meant this pressure sucks. I can't physically shoot ALL of my shots and I can't approach too many girls at club, If I'm getting rejected I'm not looking appealing to others. Probably the problem is that my game is still weak if percentage of success is small and that's the main problem.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:08 PM
2

you still need to be aroused by yourself when you use cialis, it isin't viagra. Cialis helps you to maintain erection and makes it stronger. Also it makes it easier to go for another rounds. Viagra just flows blood to your penis, either you want it or not. If you had addiction with porn and masturbation that could be the problem. Or you already have pretty strong erection and you dick works just fine on its own and you dont need cialis. Im not a doctor, just my two cents
/r/askTRP16/04/20 09:55 PM
4

Cool, good luck with that :)
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:26 PM
1

Nice. Im not native english speaker, so I don't completely get that job, you do ads for people?
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:21 PM
5

what is your business? just curious dude
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:18 PM
5

You need variety of emotions in your photos, some serious, and some with smile on your face. Only selfies is very bad, you need someone to make photo of you and quality is also very important, you lack in it. But there is one thing which is good for you. You look great, both body and face, but i'd highly recommend you to add photo where you are smiling. First photo - delete it Second photo - delete if, funny face, bad quality, nice body. But listen here, it's enough to post your body once. Third…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:05 PM
8

he is not
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:02 PM
0

How do you propose that idea?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:02 PM
-1

I don't give, I value my privacy, but on the other hand I have never had LTR I trusted 100% and who knew everything about me. Just wanted to know that's RP intake on it. My only RP friend told me if it's serious LTR she becomes closer than your friends and parents and she already knows most things going in your head so it doesn't matter if she has password.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:01 PM
1

My bad, with visible tattoos I meant those who are seen for everybody, like forearms, calves, thights, biceps. Not talking about freakish girls who do tattoos on neck, stomach and wrists.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:03 AM
8

Lol don't say it
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:08 AM
3

books dude
/r/askTRP17/03/20 12:32 AM
7

beingamannotadayjob gave you some going points google vin de carlo escalation ladder, there is 16 pages sldeshare When you are at the bar or coffee sit near her, not in front of her. As date goes long sit closer and closer to her, after hour your legs and shoulders should be touching, hold strong eye contact, look at her lips, touch her from time to time, fix her hair, inspect her jewelry, that should be excuse to touch her hands, arms and ears, at one point you will be just able to put your han…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:35 PM
2

In my opinion if she takes coffee and you take beer it's kinda strange. But my opinion can be false.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:40 AM
6

Your dates don't lead to anything because you don't build sexual tension. I have never gave that advice, but dude, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:36 AM
1

85% of people become less attractive when they open their mouths, both girls and boys. Most people are boring and don't have any value in their lives, other people do have value but they have zero knowledge how to communicate and it is very boring to listen to them. I have cold approached some girls recently and can tell you that most of them become less attractive when they start speaking. So my dude don't worry about that shit, we are boring, but that girl was just too dumb and she said it, th…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:00 PM
2

You don't need gym to lose weight. You just need to burn more calories than you eat. That's it. Download myfitnesspal app, it will help to track your calories. I love gym and 100% would suggest going to it, but I want to make sure that fat is being lost in kitchen. To burn calories walking is enough.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:03 PM
6

Have been cold approaching lately and tried different openers and can say that's the best for sure. Hi, what's your name.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:59 PM
6

Try app Headspace, it will give you only start,but you will understand basics
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:57 AM
1

I had never had serious LTR and there is one plate I wanted to promote her to fwb and then ltr if she is worthy, but she is ok with fucking and not talking about anything serious, so I assumed she is just not interested.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:40 AM
5

Did you live in a house or a flat? I live in a 3 room flat, I can hear other person speaking or bed squeaking, can't imagine bringing someone home and fucking then my mom is sleeping in other room.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 04:20 PM
1

Yeah, I rank muay thai above boxing as well, but imo you shouldn't cross out bjj so easily. If it's 1 on 1 if the person wants the fight will always end on the ground and it's territory of BJJ (Khabib is example). If I were in OP's place I'd go to sambo. If that's not an option BJJ for sure.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:55 AM
5

same here, I know only one guy whom I'd call at least near RP and he has very strong father figure
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:24 PM
0

You are right, that's nothing. But 0 out of 3 times approaching girls at their workplace. Ant 9 out of 10 while just cold approaching.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:17 PM
2

Bring home Dicarlo escalation ladder
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:56 PM
1

Now I get better quality girls and I still swipe wisely, percentage of better looking girls is much higher now then I swipe only good ones. I spent more time swiping and I get less matches now but that's alright for me, since I'm super picky.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 10:01 AM
2

In that way you are fucking up your elo, I was the same, reinstalled tinder now swiping only on good girls
/r/askTRP21/02/20 09:07 AM
1

Thanks for your respone. At first I was trying to escalate verbally, but she felt uncomfortable talking about sex and relationships, but I wasn't randomly bringing this topics. Also I wasn't rushing with kino, I was waiting for positive response for my every step. I think she liked the cuddling part. I completely agree with you that bar isin't best place to isolate, there were a lot of people around us, it's my fault failing this part, should have picked more comfy or less crowded bar so she wou…
/r/askTRP20/02/20 08:41 AM
3

Get good sleep before the day. Forget you have the phone, you can even turn it off so it doesn't distract you. Be friendly with new colleagues, smile and say hi if you make eye contact. But don't rush to speak with them, when they would want to speak with you, they will reach out. Speak less than necessary. Work your ass off like there is no tomorrow, but make it seem natural and effortless. If you don't understand something ask the damn questions, don't pretend you know everything. Good luck. I…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 09:11 AM
3

I find people who have control other their lives and are independent sexy. Doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. Have heard that girls also find it sexy when the guy is cooking for them. It's a win win situation even if she doesn't show up you are cooking something delicious for yourself, if she shows up you are showing yourself in a good light. If she says she is not going to guys' houses on the first date say that it is not a date and you are not fucking her, it's a cooking contest and she i…
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:14 PM
2

Being rich can be not an answer, but being poor is definitely a low point in everyone's life.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 04:48 PM
3

Money and time? That's one hour and 2 beers. But still I agree, time to get dressed and for logistics. If you sense it could work just invite her to your's place and say that you are cooking today something interesing and she can join for a glass of wine.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 04:27 PM
2

Nice one
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:42 AM
2

Both of your suggestions are bullshit. Say "Good things come when you do things you haven't done before" or "Good for you, I was about to call you every hour and ask how you do" Edit: but fucking hell build some rapport before asking for dates or numbers, you seem very needy that way and you are one of 10 dudes who have asked for her number today. Of course you can say why would I waste my time, 1 out of 20 girls will come and fuck me after 2 messages, but I'd rather build some rapport, exchange…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 07:08 PM
9

Be ready for massive shit tests
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:53 PM
4

Some people here have zero life experience and give their opinions based only on what they have read in TRP. They think everything is black and white, life isin't. But there is one thing I'm going to agree, 1-2 flakes is maximum to next her. Edit: as I see it's her second flake already, in my experience I can say that almost every girl who flaked by telling me she is sick just wasn't interested, if you really want to give her another shot, you don't have what to lose, you can go for it. But I su…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:01 PM
1

Every situation is different, but imo texting only for logistics is like 10 year out of date rule. Via text girl can see if you can tingle her brain and if you have any value. Especially now, when you haven't even met her. But texting needs skills, you need to be witty and texting shouldn't be overdone.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:58 PM
1

I will say more. He probably didn't even escalate at all and tingled her sexual feelings. To the OP: could be anything, she got hit by bus, lion ate her, ex came back, some other girl told something bad about you, literally anything bro, now it's not your business. Keep reading sidebar and learning how date should go, kino and escalation are the only ways to find out if girl is into you.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:42 PM
4

True, girls squirt from fingering cause you can bend your fingers in order to touch right spots, not liking oral sex is alright, cause not all the girls have good pussy taste, but upping hand game is a must.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:17 AM
3

True as hell, talking with 3 different girls at the moment and when one girl goes cold or when I do some mistakes for example don't pass comfort tests instead of trying to figure out how not to lose her I have other 2 girls on my mind and I know what I'm not running out of pussy supply. I remember one great quote from RedPill : "0 girls or 5 girls it doesn't matter, but you should never have 1"
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:10 PM
2

I completely agree with your questions looking for a LTR, but I think question about parents should be after job, hobbies, confidence and finance. What I am saying that these questions should have order, some are more important than others, I know you didn't write them in order, but just my 5 cents :)Secondly, if she passed positively all the above questions but she didn't grow up in healthy family that would be much better if she grew up in healthy family, but wouldn't be good in all of the abo…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:36 PM
3

I agree that not having a good father and the person you can look up to has negative effect on anyone, but why guys can still change themselves for better and girls can't?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 12:25 PM
2

You didn't get my question. I think you could raise a boy, since you are a man. But could you give valuable upbringing to a girl? I think a girl needs a woman in her childhood.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 02:02 PM
3

Just curious, will you be able to raise the girl alone?
/r/askTRP29/01/20 05:48 AM
1

Just got 2 numbers today. I'm not cold approach expert, maybe have done around 20 in past year, but hell, that thing is like drug, the more I cold approach the more desire I have to do it again. I have approached girls who turned out to be in LTR, I have approached girls who gave me fake numbers, I have approached girls who then contacted me first and and asked me out. I still have plenty room to grow, but once you make those first steps everything is going to become easier and easier. YOU JUST …
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:16 PM
1

perfect answer
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:19 AM
2

And what if other party has evidence of him cheating?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:09 AM
1

My god, how can people say such bold statements, that's why you should take anything from here with grain of salt, cause people think every situation is black and white, but life isin't. Her behaviour wasn't alright and mature at all, she should deal with her problems on her own and don't put them on other people. The guy below wrote you the perfect answer.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:05 AM
1

okay, my bad, speaking from personal and friends' perspective
/r/askTRP23/01/20 10:24 PM
1

try cialis, no headache as from viagra, when it gets hard it wont go soft easily
/r/askTRP23/01/20 10:10 PM
1

Dude you are very right. Recently he is acting more and more shitty towards everyone. While I completely agree with other guys that I should mind only my business, on the other hand that's very funny how people jump to conclusions of me being white knight for the girl I have seen only one time in my life and she is hb4-5 at best for me, same for him probably, that's why he dumped her, I was just asking morality of the actions. Pathetic how many people here think that life is black and white and …
/r/askTRP23/01/20 09:33 AM
-3

Lol. I'm close to that guy, he would have told me that. He said what he just wanted to break up.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:47 PM
1

that's not very bad answer imo, but I still think it's weak. It shows that you reacted to her actions and you shouldn't do that, you should act, not react.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 11:05 PM
1

agreed, her hamster should spin why you act as nothing has happened, that shows abundance which is sexy
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:58 PM
0

That girl wouldn't be my LTR. That's why I said don't promote anyone to that status.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:11 AM
1

I have ok beard myself, but I still sometime think about purchasing it, you have only one live, why don't see how you look with beard? If you won't like your looks with beard just stop using it. Beard needs attention and you just can't let it be on its own, you gotta find good barber to keep it right and gotta buy trimmers to fix it when you need. You can check minoxbeards subreddit, guys post their result there
/r/askTRP16/01/20 11:09 PM
22

You fucked up when you showed that you care. You should have told her that male strip club is also on your list and you could go together. Now go read sidebar and stop promoting every girl with dumb wishes to LTR.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 11:05 PM
3

Well, now when the date is already set I wouldn't suggest chatting a lot, wait till you meet and then escalate, it's easy to fuck up things now. Since she wants to be sexual over text, be sexual. "While you were eating I've been gaining experience in other activities"
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:56 PM
1

I'm 22 and in the same boat. I can assure you and say that you are right, weed and porn is very destructive combination. First of all, you need to battle them and then brick by brick build better habits as gym, meditation and other things which work for you.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:30 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:11 PM
2

Oh I see, call pollice, imo police wouldn't give a shit
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:09 PM
1

You'd just started throwing punches?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:04 PM
2

They apologized, not us
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:54 PM
3

Thank your for you answer
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:52 PM
2

~18-20 y.o. Have seen recently how people are loosing hands and fingers go to 5 different directions.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:18 PM
3

Nah dude, beat up is not the best option, best option imo is to put the guy on the ground and make him cry, in that case you have put 0 physical damage to him, police can't do anything to you and the guy will never touch you again. Judo and Sambo is much better for street fights. But as I said I don't even consider beating up anyone, unless they touch me first.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:12 PM
4

When I was the one who left with eye bruise I was ashamed in my strength, If other guy left with broken nose I felt euphoric for one hour but always came to the realization that If the guy knew how to throw punches or how to throw people I wouldn't stand a chance.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 08:34 PM
1

True. I never approach for the number. I approach to check if she is worth my time. If after speaking I see she is worth my time I ask for the number and she is more interested in meeting then.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:57 PM
9

don't approach her at work, give her 50% of attention she gives you, act as nothing happened, let that be the lesson to never shit where you eat. I have learned it the hard way as well
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:35 PM
3

check lelo hex condoms, there is no need to it raw imo
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:05 PM
1

how do you it was the only reason?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:03 PM
3

True my man, I see dudes here gets so lazy and don't want to do some work. By investing a little bit more to make her comfortable would definitely help. She already did max she could to be seen interested if she needs to put more work she will probably just consider to next that guy herself. It's much easier for girl to find fuckbuddy that it is for guy. Unless he is god in her eyes, but that's another story.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:15 PM
9

Act as you are not interested, don't give her any attention and she will leave you
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:13 PM
2

true, found it
/r/askTRP23/10/19 05:52 PM
1

is there any pdf on the internet of that book?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:01 PM
1

Stop asking questions and just escalate. I'd ignore her for sometime, both in class and via text and then would start again in person but not for so long and just invite her to my place again.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:56 PM
1

he meant you are a pussy cause you can't say no. not a pussy wouldn't fear if others thought he is a pussy Serious: if you already stated that you wont participate in that activity you better stand by your words, don't let her think she can change your mind
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:53 PM
1

Agreed. I can have fun with my friends at my place, at their place, at football field, at car, smoke weed, go to gym together, hike, I don't need loud music to have fun with my boys.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 06:53 PM
2

Was dancing with one girl this friday night, couldn't really isolate her so I didn't escalate too much and had to leave since my friends didn't like that place, despite that 5 last minutes were very passionate, she couldn't leave her hands of me while we danced and it looked like she was melting in my arms. We exchanged social networks, she instantly added me, but after I contacted her it took very long for her to respond and she said she is working the night I suggested her to meet, after few t…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:44 PM
1

By going to doctor. Dunno what's wrong with my back as well so seeing doctor in few hours
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:32 AM
6

depengs on the frame they are chatting, but cutie definetely is, everything else is right
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:14 PM
4

if you want and chick is worth your time why not, if sleep is more important you don't. You are the man, you decide what you want.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:01 PM
2

but he isn't really orbiting her, he doesn't write first, he keeps texting to minimum, he sometimes ignores, lately she is the one talking about dates, but he can't really ask her, since she is outside the town and she wants to be in touch all the fucking time
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:35 PM
1

as you know some girls wont answer you back no matter what message you have wrote, they just wont, but usually a lot of reply to that message tho.. Dude it's just an opening message, 99% of time it won't put you instantly in bed with her, just throw something you like and is appropriate and you are good to go ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:10 PM
2

You look so good that I wouldn't mind you if you stole my blanket while asleep. Sounds shitty in english, but you got the idea
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:51 PM
15

she says she doesn't and asks you again the same question
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:26 PM
10

Speak less than necessary.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:25 AM
1

and? not that i'm interested in that she is doing in her daily life, but if she answers something that can mean she will be also busy later that night I don't ask her on a date.Edit: i can't out of nowhere ask if she wants to meet
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:46 PM
1

Just explain your actions calmly and honestly, be confident and that you did and that you say, like there was no point in that interview in the first place. If boss condemns your actions just say that then you won't do that again, don't act like you care nor try to justify yourself, cause you'll lose frame. If that would be job you carried about then that's another story. You can still be looking for other jobs, that won't hurt you and help you see what places are free at the moment.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:03 PM
1

That was kinda happening in my country good 3-5 years ago. 16-18ish girls carried way too much about guy's social networks, followers and etc. It was a bit harder for a guy who is not popular on social media to make girls grind you. Now when I'm 21 it seems that people care less about social media, as long as they are interested in you. But if you try to game girls through instagram, tinder and etc. it's of course great advantage to have good social medias.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 12:18 PM
2

Imo it's too long, you definitely shouldn't try too hard, girls feel when guys are desperate. I'd write something like this: there is no need in looking for something romantic with the person you just met, I said I wanted to meet up with you and have good time You can wait for other guys' responses
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:35 PM
3

You can't just propose what you are looking for fuck buddies, she doesn't need to know your true intentions, unless you are in person or if it's tinder and you are just trying to hook up. Since she sent you best wishes, it doesn't seem that she is interested in continuing your communication.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 10:55 PM
2

what was it?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:12 PM
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