So I had this new plate which I met only twice, she then went on vacation out of town for a month.

we stayed no contact during this time, about 10 days ago i messaged her to meet and she told me she is still away. i said "cool - msg me when you back" and she said "sure"

now it's been about 5 days since she is back and haven't heard from her, should I just assume she lost interest and soft next?

messaging her again to meet after I told her to msg me when she is back will surly look weak as fuck?