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This works for me everytime. Dont take it serious, dont reciprocate, be unexpressive as if this extra bs is draining the energy out of you to interact with her. I mean either make a joke out of her attitude (self amuse) or just be a wet sock conversationally (dont get emotional or even bother justifying her by defending against this angsty bs) She will realize you arent playing ball and will come around.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:39 PM
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Solid. Also, meditate. Helps with focus and mindset substantially.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 04:23 PM
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Im choosing a degree atm. Googled fastest growing occupations and clicked the blm link. Then i filtered that to the 70k and above occupations and am sorting through those.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 12:32 PM
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The Jew fears the masculine lifestyle
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:37 PM
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Nofap is most effective up to 72 hrs for me. After that i begin having performance issues. No idea why that is
/r/askTRP24/08/18 02:36 PM
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The two arent mutually exclusive. Trp philosophies are tantamount to a productive and smooth ltr.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 09:28 AM
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"Yes. But they finish first in the end" lol. Hes got a point yknow. First to finish raising all of her little illegitimate children. I shit you not a year ago my own mom was telling me to stop working out. Just the other day she started laughing to me about how "noodly" my arms used to be. Why could that be? They fear of the unknown?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 09:16 AM
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Reassure yourself continually while being productive that your time could not be better used in that moment. Get engrossed in the activity by clearing your mind if the past and future (mindful meditation). Remove easy access to these dopamine bumps. Disconnect and put your power cables in another room. Put your phone on battery saving mode. Stay out of the house. The 5 second method (counting down from 5 and starting a task when you reach number 1) When youre struggling to begin a task, clear yo…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:21 PM
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Your smv continues to rise if you work on it. With women their youth and beauty are their main tools in attracting a mate. With men its their personalities, frame, professional success, fitness, maturity etc, things that typically get better with age and work. Obviously youth and beauty doesnt quite work the same. Save for fitness. Never stop working at something and the years wont wither you away.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:44 PM
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Yes. Dont get the government involved during this political climate and the forseeable future. Just fucking dont. Not even prenups are future proof. Any cucked judge can flip that shit without a sweat.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 10:54 AM
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Thats President Trump, pal.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 10:49 AM
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Hear, hear.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 10:46 AM
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Alright noggin, alright, alright. Maybe you could try coming at it from a self amused angle. Ask her inane bullshit questions as you would the boys sitting around drinking beers. Things like "if you could choose between...." "what would you do if..." etc. Try and prove/debunk any premonitions you may have about her based off anything about her like her clothes or some valley girl way she talks. Anything that pops into your head. If she goes onto some tangent youre struggling to stop yourself fro…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:51 AM
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Sorry sweaty. Taking accountability for your actions is definitely the white thing to do here. Now put your hands behind your back.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/18 07:01 PM
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Get abundance. In my situation I keep about 3-5 plates at a time. There was one in particular that I can say I love, but in my abundance, I am not willing to give up my lifestyle to lock her down. She'll tell me about her sex life and to begin with I did/will get jealous but had enough safety net to keep it in check. Plus I want the best for her so i'll stay on good terms when she'll get into relationships and resume hanging out when she isn't in one. I'm not a proponent for bottling up your emo…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:53 PM
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The whole "I won't see her again let's go balls to the wall" mentality is spot on the right attitude. Plus sex will sometimes suck the first time with someone new so don't get down on yourself, happens to me time to time even now. Especially if you've been out of the game as long as you have. Don't sweat yourself. Being vague, particularly with your place of employment was a very good move. Builds mystery insanely, especially if you don't give in. As for being reluctant to cuddle etc i can't say…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:41 AM
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Call her out by asking her if she's trying to hit on you with an apalled tone and a half scowl on your face
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:20 AM
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Call her out by asking her if shes trying to hit on you
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:19 AM
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Agree. Absolutely 100% too ambiguous.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:41 PM
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What should you do? Stop worrying and read the sidebar. Not necessarily in that order.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:09 AM
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I sees a pattern i points it out. Sounds like a plan, let us know how it goes. Deliver for us OP
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:29 AM
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Shes putting that ass on a plate for you. She didnt tell you because she didnt want to fizzle any possibility of mysterious out-of-her-control (plausible deniability) circumstances landing her in your bed and whoops your peepee inside of her. The other side of the coin being if she gets caught cheating the possibility of a rape accusation becomes exponentially greater. I say keep her around for pre-selection purposes and nothing more.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:24 AM
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Its no secret that being desired by other women makes you significantly more attractive to your SO. I receive the same treatment albeit her teasing me about it with concerned undertones. I like to think of it as a huge IOI. With proper conditioning and light comfort providing it helps keep her in a submissive and subserviant role where the only thing i have to do is decide on enchiladas or ceviche for dinner. And stay erect while she sucks me off after.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:08 AM
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Pretty much. IOI would be her proposing a time she's available. At this juncture one of your only moves is to keep on living a productive life. So do that.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:01 AM
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There is very little you could do in retaliation that would benefit you outside of outchiding him in a playful friendly manner. If you react to him negatively in any way it sends clear signals that he has control over you, that he has the power to aggravate you. In front of females, absopositively do NOT give him any attention, treat him like a nobody, and if you must let it be dismissive/assertive at most.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:50 AM
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Dread game. Don't express concern. Give her rope see if she hangs herself with it as they say.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:02 AM
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A chick flick that didn't hit with the chicks. Obviously a retargeting of demographics in this franchise. Whatever.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/18 06:09 AM
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Do it and report back to us. Take some video evidence for yourself to cover your ass.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:48 AM
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The womans shitty acting gave this one away
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/18 04:30 PM
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I do this often. Dont lie but dont give away info. If she likes you a lot she wont want to know but your guys' status will imply it. Ask her "so youre okay being fwb?" If she says yes you may resume with a clean conscience.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:57 AM
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"Hey id love to go bowling but i dont have enough money to cover the both of us. Lets go (x) instead?"
/r/askTRP25/07/18 07:42 PM
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Poke around for casual examples of what the far left espouse their nu males should be. White male guilt is powerful in their circles.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:50 AM
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Heh. Shouldve taken more karaté 👌
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/18 11:29 AM
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If its a lost cause you wont be messaged first while youre going no contact For future reference use humor or agree+amplify to take the tension out of her "alternatives" statement. Sounds like things got too real for her with the amount of time you were spending together.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:13 PM
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Mindful meditation.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:10 PM
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"Makeapp" was making the rounds last year. Its an application that digitally renders makeup off. Works pretty good, google it for some entertainment. The Rachel Maddow one is top shelf
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:19 PM
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Muscle is essentially another dense source of calories. Start a business, use profits to dooms day prep. Any other excuses to not have aspirations?
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:49 AM
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If you can manage accessing the confident part of your character when the chips are down, you will improve more thoroughly. If you dont work on it, no amount of muscle and money will grant it to you. Take it from me.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:17 AM
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Movie dates were my finishing move. Highly successful. They were allllllways my second/third date though so i cant testify to first date movie dates. Depends on how much rapport you guys have built up.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 11:39 AM
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Absolutely do not hit her up if she didnt reschedule. That is a clear sign of lack of interest. Op go no contact until she initiates if that is the case.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 11:18 AM
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4th date should be cooking dinner at your place. Tell her to bring the wine. Obviously youre done taking her out until things move along.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 11:16 AM
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professor of Sociology behaving self entitled and blaming others for her difficulties. It adds up nicely.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/18 10:06 AM
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Ya she do
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/18 10:03 AM
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Used to have basically the same issue. Try fully immersing yourself in the curiosity, murk and mire, and consequences of what youre about to do to her. Sounds like youre internally convincing yourself out of it.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:54 AM
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Purple pills have a vital role in society for sure. Back into the end of my lefty days Sargon was the most fringe right id heard by far, and was palatable and not insulting
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:30 AM
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Wasnt sure if i was the only one that notices gays guarding their female friends.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 05:21 AM
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Imho a proper passing would've been fun and playful not betaish. Idve gone something like "idk how ill take it this will be my first time (of this happening)"
/r/askTRP27/05/18 10:09 PM
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Find something to be grateful for every day. I'm grateful for my health, family's health, family, etc.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:17 AM
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Get the 12 rules for life: an antidote to chaos. Frame isnt developed directly but through your peace and confidence in yourself. Confidence can be fostered by challenging yourself, living your truths, and by simply remembering to stand up straight even when it feels not much is going right. Positive frame of mind begins with your body language. It sends positive signals to your brain and it sends "im not an easy mark" to everyone else. If youre not signed up to audible yet you can enroll and us…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:05 PM
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Develop internal frame. When your actions have so much rock-steady conviction behind them, people around you will be predisposed to believe the intent behind them. When you seem unsure of everything you do, as if you are waiting for the approval of everyone around you, they will also doubt them. Develop internal frame, have conviction and decisiveness in all of your actions.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:34 AM
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TRP endorsed-level advice.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:19 AM
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2 times: "ok when you get some time off give me a call! Have a nice day." Leaves the door open, ends the supplicative attention giving.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:49 AM
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Rp tends to speak in definites, "awalt" is prime example. Its important to remember while reading that everything is undertone "statistical most". Whatever youre doing, keep at
/r/askTRP19/04/18 03:31 AM
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Being emotional is handy when connecting with someone, allows access to empathy allowing you to be more involved and have better conversation as well as picking up on social cues and vibes allowing you to adjust your behavior accordingly.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:35 PM
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Give her time to miss you. As Corey Wayne says, tennis is a 2 player sport. Dont be the loser that runs back and forth across both sides of the net to keep the game going.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:40 AM
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He seems to forget that love is in fact a male trait; "Women will never love you the way you deserve." Alphas simply meet a higher criteria than your run of the mill low smv.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 07:32 PM
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You may be coming off needy. Off to the sidebar with ye'.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:34 PM
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Though i like your approach you could try getting more to the point "nice to hear from you id love to see you again when are you free?". Not necessarily stepping into her frame or being an asshole. Simply getting to the point
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:09 PM
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Lmao. Congratulations on the slump bust, buddy
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:57 AM
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I had a girl use this on me in middle school who had a big crush on me but I wouldn't give any play whatsoever. She's pursuing you, keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:56 AM
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My stupid ass got the roles reversed, yeah man sounds like it's in the bag handily. You got this. To hedge bets of any attention whoring, escalate in private not over "eggs with friends" wtf
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:55 AM
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If the above was copy/paste then I can tell you with %95 certainty that she knows you're into her. Go all in with your chips. EDIT: I'm a dumbass, disregard comment entirely.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:08 AM
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"We should pretend we're dating" has got to be the cringiest indirect way of telling someone you like them in existence. Also don't let your friends be there when you guys are cooking eggs. Say they bounced or something.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:07 AM
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Go to backpage, craigslist, etc. Do maintain plausible deniability though. "Madame how much would you charge for full service shakespeariean reading for an hour of your time? wink wink"
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:05 AM
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I know a swinger couple, the male will sometimes get jelly over her promiscuity. She revealed to me she isnt bothered when he is but was quite unhappy when his sexual relations with a female turned into text conversations. Women are more worried about your emotional connections withother women over if youre banging them is the gist.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:25 PM
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Why care what a woman you're not pursuing a relationship with thinks?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 10:53 PM
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There you go. If anything you should be feeling better about it. As Westwood said, Sara would've been grateful in different circumstances.You're a bang-up guy and you can recognize injustices. Nothing to be mad at Cunt or Sara about. (She's just fucking dumb)
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 07:04 AM
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This is precisely why I've made it personal policy to not interject in other people's drama. There's much more undercurrent and background to people's interpersonal relationships to step in (unless necessary)
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 07:01 AM
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She doesnt need a ride unless she asks. And even then she better say please. What i mean is dont go out of your way to do favors if you can help it.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 11:38 AM
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In my experience the real sluts blend into society. Attention whores dress it up.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:42 PM
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All I can do is pass on what Patrice O'Neal would do to women's things whenever they'd "accidentally" leave it at his place: Throw it away. Shampoo, brushes, clothing: Throw it out. If she gives you shit about it, play it off as just doing some cleaning and her stuff must've accidentally ended up in a pile of garbage that you picked up. Done.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:05 PM
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If dread doesnt work, if you are no longer capable of altering her frame of mind with your lack of affection, it may already be in decline. Either cut ties while the ball is still in your court or experiment until your turn is over.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:51 AM
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Ive been experimenting with actually relishing the good times we (my former ltr) had. Its been working relatively well. In not doing so you are in essence bottling it up until it spills over which is the involuntary thoughts of her you are having. Try it for a day and see how it affects your frame of mind.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:25 AM
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Rabbit hole of worth-reading knowledge. Excellent post, thanks. EDIT: Been considering writing a piece on not arguing with women but your Memorial Day Cuckout post puts it better than I could.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:58 AM
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Don't show your buttons (what makes you angry) to females under any circumstances. They feed off the emotion and can serve quite nicely to fill a lull in their day just like a cat with a ball of yarn. Emotional outbursts are best left to females; rational logical reasoning is the male specialty.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:04 AM
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I've attempted introducing RP to a few coworkers, every one ended in badly, one even lashing out at me for it. Just don't do it. If they're ready, discuss some theories, feed it to them slowly and see how they respond and receive it. Don't try and give them the whole damn pill at once is what I've learned.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 11:55 PM
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I swear they secretly feed off that shit.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:39 PM
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As a personal preference, in situations like these instead of ghosting the girl, use it to experiment and sharpen skills. See what works and use her as an unknowing sparring partner, even if it is ignoring her as you are doing. In some small way it's taking control back. If you can stomach it, try riding it gracefully to the bottom. But of course you can leave any time you want if it becomes too toxic.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:03 AM
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I use social media mainly for the chat function, posting roughly once a month just to keep family and friends updated on whatever neato thing i've been up to. (And for toxic shitposting mainly on private pages but that's a hobby) I think it's great to be able to go cold on it as it harbors some narcissistic and vapid tendencies in oneself that are really best left undeveloped, because at the end of the day no one cares how cool you are. Good on you on that front. You can apparently download the …
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:16 AM
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Sheiit. Tough one. Consider downgrading her to a plate if you want to keep her around. Consider bringing it up before her trip. In the meantime start grinding away on tinder, setting up the foundation to a harem, hit the gym, get on track to abundance, all that good sidebar shit. From what I've seen in the comments this has been a long time coming.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:39 AM
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Looks are mostly a foot in the door. If you're awkward/boring they'll only get you so far. Work on your frame, confidence, charisma as they will be and generally are far more important. (Sidebar)
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:56 AM
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Absolutely this. Don't premeditate, act upon your will.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:33 AM
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If theres a way to rebound from that i've yet to find it.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:53 PM
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I wouldnt even advise warning her or even saying anything along the lines of "well you did x so now im doing this". Make up some neutral excuse and maybe casually bring up the Possibility of maybe perhaps such and such date in the future. Plates dont need information.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:18 PM
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If you meet up with her and she is not willing to give up that ass after a bit of hanging out, BE PREPARED TO CUT HER OFF IMMEDIATELY. Do NOT be an emotional tampon. Also do not apologize and explain yourself unless absolutely necessary as it will make you seem out of control of your own actions and put you on the defensive. Have an emotional barrier up and expect the worst, this is key of you want to maintain frame in your interactions with her. Have a goal (that nostalgia fuck) and predetermin…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:02 AM
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Ive been hung up on a girl for years and it only gets harder with time. Lately ive been experimenting with dwelling on things i enjoyed and miss about her; those big eyes, body, the way she mangles words on purpose to sound cute. I already know why i broke up with her in the first place and why i don't like her yet my mind would always go back. It's been surprisingly helpful to ponder the good times and tire myself of them, ultimately letting them rest.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 10:37 AM
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One of my plates is a self ascribed feminist. She knows i'm a chauvinist pede and I grief her politics regularly. She gives me that ass on command. Fuck it do it.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 08:38 AM
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Her final question can be classified as a form of shit test (she KNOWS why you brought her over) and your uncreative reply was a total failure of said shit test. Read the sidebar, read here to better understand why you failed. In her mind you outright called her a slut.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 08:26 AM
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To flip it back all I could recommend is the brute force of your personality. It begins with not fearing her retaliating (withholding sex, silent treatment, other bs) which is again difficult without having more stuff going on in your life. If you're legitimately afraid of losing her, build yourself up, reconnect with old friends, start to build a network in case you have to cut her loose. Back to personality, this may not be the best way but if she switches it back to herself, flip it right on …
/r/askTRP28/02/18 07:38 AM
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Thanks pal. (Hold alt+type 11 on the num. pad btw)
/r/askTRP28/02/18 07:30 AM
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ASD has been a recurring theme here. In fact this was the second time I had her butt naked in my bed refusing sex. I sum it up to my weak escalation game and lack of clarity in not being interested in a committed relationship.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:19 AM
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I just had a minor epiphany of some fucking up I just did with my main plate. Didn't hit her up for a couple of weeks including vday. Hit her up a few days ago, helped her install some shelves (i wanted to learn how, worked out for both of us but still a weak move) Just yesterday I decided to take her on a pricey make-up dinner. Afterwards she drops hints (I gotta go to sleep early today) as we are driving back as she had a job she had to get up early for and rebuffed sex for the first time in e…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 11:08 AM
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Do you have friends? How active is your life in terms of working towards professional goals, hobby goals, etc goals? How deep are you in TRP principles in your day-to-day? If you have to keep your conversations to her running her mouth and you telling her what to do around the house, so be it. Save your chit chat about your daily achievements for the guys. I have a pal that is more self-centered in many ways, drove me crazy as he would brush off some stuff I wanted to talk about. Eventually I re…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:52 AM
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"She even had him help move and she barely even talked to him. " I'm not doubting you, but females are uncannily effective at putting on fronts to curb doubt hence "got off the phone with her ex" shortly after. As someone has already mentioned, he's a backup dick. Should you be concerned? I wouldn't, because if you become concerned you're losing your frame. If you're the superman (in comparison) you say you are, she will believe it too. The only way to get her to "stop" would be for her to come …
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:34 AM
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My most serious relationship began as an LDR and that was the happiest we were. Just accept the fact that unless she's more of a hermit, there is a very real possibility she will find someone else and your turn will be over. Sounds like you have the right mindset so far, so enjoy the ride, try not to get emotional and jealous along the way, and let it take it's natural course. Good luck.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:29 AM
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It's no water off my back to shoot her an ultimatum. Problem is finding a way to phrase it lol.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:42 AM
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You put it better than i could. Ghost, limit damage control to those who will actually believe you, and weather the storm. There's nothing more you can really do. People will believe who they want to believe in a situation like this.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:41 AM
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Try and find commonalities for each of the times you possess this IDGAF attitude. The cookie cutter response is simply to be on your mission in life, whatever that may be, in order to harbor an sense of abundance. That includes gaming, talking to, dating so many girls that losing one is a small loss. If you're talking to one girl on tinder, if she shuts you down it's a %100 loss and it's back from scratch. If you're talking to 5 at a time losing one or even 3 isn't as close to as big a loss. Jus…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:23 AM
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You fell into her frame. The longer you chase her and fail to take a hint the more validation you inadvertently give her. Even if you get some petty win on her she is already so engorged on your validation it will slide off of her like water off a duck's back. Drop it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:42 PM
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Nice. I've been in this bad habit of tindering fervently for 2 days and then ducking out for a couple of months. I just don't fucking care for texting people one smidgen. I'll have to give this one text stuff a try. Will follow up if I remember to.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 09:16 AM
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As someone who's moved annually for work, from my perspective it's important to begin reinventing yourself well in advance as it's not possible to do a 180 on a dime.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:06 AM
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I think it's exceptional perspective to frame "rug pulling" as more of a "lapse in game" on your part instead of attributing the rug pulling as some sort of mind fuck game females play which is a toxic frame of mind to think. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:04 AM
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I was thinking the same thing regarding rides. Nothing bothers me about a plate having a BB to help her out for me (lol).
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 07:38 AM
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Practicing minimalism, the "penny saved is penny earned" mentality are top notch. Patting myself on the back here but here goes. My first job, living with my dad, I decided to start buying my own food, but other than that my expenditures were sparse. At the end of my 2 months I had saved approximately %75 of my earnings, enough to buy my first car and subsist for several months. Joined military, saved approximately %70+ of my earnings after 5 years, I'm coming up on a year of unemployment and am…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 09:52 PM
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I read it in more of a "he's clearly getting puss, I want to be queen bitch and find out for myself what's so great."
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 11:09 AM
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I interpret "unfaithful" in this sense as a man whose demeanor conveys that his genes are hotly contested. More specifically, a man who acts like he fucks, and basically carries that pre-validation (that having a hot female at your side gives you) along with him in his attitude alone.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 11:07 AM
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"I PAID FOR THE DATE. I DESERVE this." right.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 10:45 AM
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Can confirm. An aire of mystery (e.g. not spilling all the beans at the first question) will almost always win out. Many men wouldn't put a ring on a woman who spreads her legs at the drop of your witty fun-having hat and women know this. If you start putting too many provider signals out inadvertently, she may switch gears on your ass. A good FR I read a while ago had a wealthy man with a secondary beater apartment to take his 1NS's to as he had a pattern of women LMR'ing like crazy when walkin…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 07:29 AM
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I've noticed this. After half a decade in the military I finally returned home with plenty of money in the savings account. Bought a nice sports car, was pretty smug with myself tbqh. Did not wet panties at all as the source of my confidence was pretty much worn on my sleeve. Similarly the specialty I was working in had me travelling all over the world working in an exclusive capacity with my fellow servicemembers. I noticed divulging what I did would simply never work out (I imagine it would co…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 07:21 AM
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Thats who i was thinking this post was really for: his ex.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 09:00 PM
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Jordan B Peterson goes on quite a bit about embracing your dark side so that you may familiarize, control, and mete it out when necessary. As you pointed out, knowing and controlling your dark side has it so you dont need to use it. This applies down to the simplest social interaction. If you prop yourself as a rug people will eventually step on you. It takes energy for people not to take advantage of you when you keep yourself on all 4's waiting to be fucked. The path of least resistance applie…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 06:38 PM
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The other week some dickhead posted a theory obviously full of shit. And trying to be edgy and new, countering established trp theory, shit had over 200 upvotes. This page is becoming filled with too many bluepills taking up the front page with with brand new shit trying to be original.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:36 PM
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Ive been learning this at varying rates for years. Every time i'll realize to keep it to myself just a little bit more, ill discover just the same later on. Can't figure out how to format a document? Look up the references and leave the manager alone. Minor or majorly embarassing fuck up? Damage control, learn from it and don't red face complain about your incompetence to friends for consolation (or a good ribbing). Suffering in silence is not only powerful in constructing a firmer inner frame b…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 07:40 AM
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As an autistic hotboi 7 i can assure you your post is not accurate.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 12:49 AM
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Thank you for this well constructed post. These high horse riding "do it for yourself" fellows seem to have forgotten where and what (men) they are. Goals and motives are what keep us engaged. If youre truly not motivated by females unsub trp and drink exclusively from bodybuilding/selfimprive/hobby boards. Trp is about many things, a chief component being understanding the opposite sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 11:16 AM
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Something about a certain type of bitchiness (e.g. spicy latina) makes it more of a fun game when I can tell exactly what they're doing. For each his own.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 11:45 PM
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Reminds me of a friend of a friend, was a fantastic boxer with possibility of getting a scholarship. Loses his virginity to a hog faced conniving tramp and knocks her up in one fell swoop. Stopped boxing and gets regularly berated by both her and her family. Guy is nice as can be and built like a greek god to boot. Shame really, now his sole purpose in life is to work all hours of the week to support this hog and be the best father he can given the circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 10:49 PM
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The emotional detachment you portray of women is stunningly spot on for me. You, the male, are the commodity. Women are able to exercise a level of disconnect that I'm still coming to terms to. Excellent analogy.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 06:59 AM
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I agree with you, OP. I can pull a chick within a week or two off Tinder but can absolutely not approach IRL. It's a big disparity, crutch even. But heck, I'm not complaining.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:26 AM
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I upvoted strictly for the confused chuckling I got out of it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:23 AM
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I stopped seeing gains since highschool but even gymming consecutively for a few weeks/months will have people noticing. Feels good man.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 05:10 AM
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The real lesson's in the comments. +
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:56 PM
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I'm glad you decided to orate the whole video as my speakers aren't working right now haha.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:52 PM
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I think the context he was denying her in was a carrot-on-the-stick, keep her begging with no real intention on ever giving her that carrot.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:26 PM
1

What if the beautiful friend moonlight's as a classy hooker?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 10:03 PM
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Had a dramatic FWB cut off contact for some menial reason (she couldn't find one other than our spark just stopped) so she ended up blocking me on FB. You rage you lose and imo that was a rage on her part, and she got the last word in by default.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:25 PM
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Having an aptly put, "Sparring partner" is absolutely invaluable! Keep her around! Until she becomes more burden than benefit anyways.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:56 AM
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Aye. One of the things that took me a little bit to realize is that the PUA advice doesn't come into effect until you focus ON YOURSELF, get yourself in a good state of mind, and then move from there.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 02:18 AM
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'rah brother. Would I stay for that life? Me personally, I might, but not for wealth alone. Depends on how far out of control she is. If you're at the brink of divorcing her, might as well run roughshod and take it by the reigns, take back the power until either she breaks it off or you end up somewhere comfortable. But in the meantime, take the cautionary tales and prepare for potential divorce rape or rape accusations. If you are beyond ever loving her again, break it off. But in the meantime,…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 10:35 AM
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I have a friend whom I wouldn't say "pokes holes" per se, more is in competition as I've excelled and surpassed him. His competition and demeanor was actually one of the driving forces behind me lifting dedicated for 2 years once upon a time. At what point, for you, did their shit tests become a cut-them-out-of-your-life offense?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:46 AM
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Whatever you do, HIRE A LAWYER. DO NOT UTTER A SYLLABLE WITHOUT YOUR LAWYER'S CONSULTATION. A dollar here means 10 dollars saved for your future. It has to be done. IT HAS TO BE DONE. HIRE A LAWYER.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:40 AM
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"Not mental masturbation" tbh I learn more from these I fucked up posts more every now and again. Thanks for posting.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:40 AM
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I've been in Lithuania for going on 10 months and all I've screwed is a 3.5 pseudoporker. I have a 7 on the line playing games but after our first date, failed invite to the house i was catsitting at, i've refused to humor another date and I've laid on with the negs/assholing my way out of shit tests. She's fucking dying to see me again. Now i'm making it clear that next time we hang out, it's beer and movies at my place. She's at a "we'll see,". I'm debating as to whether go on a date with her …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:08 AM
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I actually have a thing for butterfaces, they fuck you like they mean it. I've left a date with a 7 or finished fucking one and then moved on to a date with a 4 before. I like having variety.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:04 AM
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As someone with RBF, it is indeed always mistaken for angst. Not an emo though.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:00 AM
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You realize that's what FR's are for? They have flairs for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 07:33 PM
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Bud's 5'4", swole, and a pleasant guy to be around. I wouldn't say he's more attractive than me and i'm over 6 feet and in good shape, but the fact that he comes from abundance and is a thrill to be around has girls I've pursued and failed at in the past putty in his hands.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 11:52 AM
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Not hating or anything, guy seems A as hell but this reeks of paid actresses.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 10:58 AM
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I'd say it's time to network and meet new girls/use her as a wingwoman. You're in pretty deep, if you can't network through her it might be time to ditch it. EDIT: Also her overt "you're in the friendzone" comments are shit tests and should be dealt with as such.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 10:54 AM
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Sounds like you have your opinion set, don't join.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 10:36 AM
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As a gear head I thoroughly enjoyed this. Spot on as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:21 PM
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In Bolivia we had something I'd call a "Hooker hotel" which was fantastic as it was about $15 an hour and was literally a block from my house. (I wasn't hiring hookers for those of you wondering) I think at the price you're paying, and I assume you're paying around $50, after the date and your time is all cashed in, out of pocket you might as well have gone to a brothel. Your $250/month budget is pretty up there.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 12:15 PM
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As he said, show interest but hold frame. I think it's salvageable, and her shitty attitude at you is a shit test in itself.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:34 AM
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If you get nervous as it gets closer, convince her to come "Just for a movie" or whatever else you think would fit for the moment. That way it'll alleviate your internal pressure, and if you start to feel like smashing, she's already in your house. I used to have that problem too, so set low expectations which works to your advantage in more ways than one.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:30 AM
1

Amazon bro. Can get some for like $15.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:24 AM
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I find myself constantly making old mistakes and almost completely relearning things with the posts on here. Definitely need to be taking notes.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:17 AM
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This. And to caveat, I can't believe how many girls are DTF until they end up ghosting me when I'm home on leave.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:10 AM
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Sounds to me like you've recently come to terms with being ugly after hitting the gym for a while bro.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:00 AM
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I read a story a while ago about a guy contemplating renting a shitbox apartment to prevent the LMR and ASD that comes with a woman realizing a man is LTR material. On another note I'm kind of the same boat, as a relatively new redpiller I'm having more difficulty than ever before. Probably the incongruency as I work on shifting gears with the RP teachings.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:58 PM
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Though a black guy listening to crystal castles would be a story in itself.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:56 PM
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I don't know the whole story but he certainly could've made a "come to my house" ultimatum type of deal before disregarding it completely. Then again attention vacuums can be quite dick-deflating imo.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:55 PM
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Well that answers that question. But what happened between the tears and her coming to terms with blowing you?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:53 PM
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How do you play that down when she's at YOUR house and won't put out? Seems sketchier to kick her out than "Alright I'm going home. Later."
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:31 PM
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"All you care about is sex!" "Yep. :)"
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:26 PM
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This. My friend is a natural and is all too familiar with pushing through ASD and LMR, coincidentally has in fact had a couple of rape accusations, one of which the girl actually shoved the door shut to stop me from walking in on them shagging.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:10 PM
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Very good read. As a GLL in the service as well, fit and what not, I have a lot of difficulty due to my personality and not implementing the things you mentioned here. Having passion and your own strong frame is absolute key. I actually try and refrain from letting them know my actual job and profession as it comes off as humble bragging and qualifying to them, which I have learned never helps my game. You just about covered everything but this video gives tremendous perspective from a female PU…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 10:51 PM
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This video goes into it pretty well. (From the sounds of it, you may have seen it already)
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 09:58 PM
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I find that with a lot of new ideas, it takes time for them to germinate in anyone's mind. perhaps he has some more dropping/rock bottom finding to remember your suggestion and eventually take that first step. Or he could just remain in his ever-shrinking comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 09:23 PM
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I had a similar situation with some australian tourists in Bolivia I happened to get solicited for cocaine from (sketchy but one was a really old woman/lesbian/teacher in Australia). I tell them I don't know but I'm going to another bar if they want to join me and this woman is a total machine at chatting girls up, talking to them and in turn introducing me. If you have lesbian friends they can be quality wing women.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 07:36 PM
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Perhaps you have some incongruencies in other interactions you have with her that trigger her to give you more tests?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 01:02 AM
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Santa Cruz, Bolivia. If you're in the area might as well just go to Brazil anyways.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 08:12 AM
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Nice ones. I was bouncing this idea in my head in ways to reply to flakes. Just double down on the asshole is my mantra in this country of frigid bitches.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 10:51 AM
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I was in a city (renowned slutty city btw, worked great) where I would hit them with the overt "Hey I'm here for 2 days, looking for someone to show me around." copy paste across a few hotties. Overwhelming 33% success "Sure let's do something tonight" etc. Had to flake on all of them when a girl deciding to live on the wild side decided to come straight to my hotel room for some thrashing. I couldn't believe it either. Shame lithuania isn't like that.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 10:49 AM
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Lol that was a rollercoaster. I think you could've handled it better. Once you bested her by flaking, ball's in your court, make a move.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 10:46 AM
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I agree with Stoic. Very well constructed, references and all. I had something like this happen to me, young buck fresh into the military and my bud's concubine-esque sister decides to give me my first taste of pussy out of basic. It was good though the circumstances weren't ideal, hasn't reciprocated since. She just hit 30 and is probably looking for that provider any day now.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 10:35 AM
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This page is definitely not humble, but the most jam-packed with arrogance I think I've seen on the Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 03:22 PM
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Glad I read this post, I realize that with hook ups and FWB's I tend to become possessive and validation-seeking in that I will become affectionate, ask them if they're hooking up with other guys, maintain infrequent contact to keep them under my thumb per se. Just need to redirect my abundance mentality, learn to apply it to all facets big and small and you'll be a tank.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 02:11 PM
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Excellent FR. Also kudos on the parenthesis'd parts. Up to now I'd only read about compliance testing in a female-to-male context which brings a question. If she didn't step off with you when you grabbed her hand (resistance or outright shaking of the head) what would your next steps have been?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 02:05 PM
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Just don't even answer her texts anymore unless they are really important questions or they are about logistics. This.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 04:06 PM
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make her keep her keys somewhere you can get them? Or just bang her already. If you aren't trying to smash her then post this question to another page.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 04:04 PM
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How do your dates go, do you go from flirty to qualifying to rapport to some seduction/suggestive flirting? From what little you've said it sounds like you have no problem coming up and building rapport and flirting, so where do you think you get hung up? Edit: ALSO. Dates, many PUA's suggest against big ticket dinners (fancy dinners etc) keep it casual, go for coffee or some quick breakfast at a walk in diner, keep it light. The lighter the less desperate you seem, the more abundance frame you …
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:53 PM
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I suppose I could do more to not make sex a big deal. I think my biggest hurdle is just learning to let loose and be an actively good time having guy. (Also using "near virgin" was used to paint a picture, such as how girls with limited/no sexual experience, especially in their twenties, definitely are going to be a little more cagey about fucking some guy they met that week)
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:42 PM
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"near" virgin was used solely to paint a picture of where she's coming from. Hasn't been laid in 4 years, obviously the walls are going to be up. Any takers? My question wasn't "guise is this girl actually telling the truth" or "do u think she like me" it's how do you put a girl at ease who has reservations about putting out. She's obviously attracted if she's messaging me more than me her, that's why I didn't title this thread that way.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:40 PM
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You handled it well but I'd suggest using your fingers next time you have a lull in erections. Gets her closer to the line. Maybe even invest in a cock ring.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:52 AM
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Crazier shit? So you guys eskimo bro? Maybe get his consent beforehand. At least put that seed into his mind that she's hitting on you and that you want to act on it. Maybe if you're lucky word will get to her and it'll be a win win.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:31 AM
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Fuck these "You're a shit friend," comments. Your situation is one that we'll all likely face at one point or another and i've been that guy that ended up taking the bait and doing it, luckily it didn't destroy our friendship so here's my take. Friends, especially your long time buddy, is more rare and valuable than 5 girls IMO. Lasting friendships don't come around quite as often as the bar slags and cocktail dress whores. Apparently it wouldn't break your friendship up, that in mind, would it …
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:28 AM
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Thanks for the references, new tool for the toolbox.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 04:23 AM
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Solid post. Though some apes in the chat seem to have trouble coping with the primal mind that exists in all humans.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:33 PM
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Way to put a question mark when there isn't a question.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:32 PM
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I am quite surprised by the lack of any humour or charm but the length your afforementioned professional display picture was able to take you. Well done indeed.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:31 PM
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Being assertive and level headed vs being passive are two very different approaches.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:25 AM
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The lack of punctuation yet solid advice made me read this in a monotone robot voice.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 09:35 AM
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I'm in Lithuania ATM and the general consensus is these women are 5's who act like 8's. I'd like to say they have no reason to pursue western men like myself seeing as their minimum wage is less than half of the US i'm inclined to believe otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:35 AM
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I have found the holy grail of nihilism in this rich hidden subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:25 AM
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How so? He's all but mastered dominating and mitigating losses in marital quarrels, he puts himself second to no female, and he married a bombshell whom he keeps her spending in check. He obviously gravitates towards the nuclear marriage (home maker wife, provider male) which honestly I don't see much wrong with. It's his by his own conscious/calculated decision/preference and he ultimately is in charge of how much he is okay with ceding in his relationship. I don't see how the meme in this sub …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:22 AM
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I don't necessarily see the negative in that. My pop scooped himself a mid 20's latina (my mother) in his 50's and proceeded to muck it up by corralling bar hoochies until their marriage disintegrated, now he's living out his later golden years in a lonely depression (his kids have since moved out). As a new member of this forum, describe what you think went wrong there and how he could've sustained a red pill lifestyle. I see myself eventually following the same path and see marriage as the nuc…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:17 AM
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My dad took the unfortunate path you described and I see myself following in his footsteps. Thing is I have trouble drumming up the passion to try and bond with people. Just not something I have the patience for.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 08:33 AM
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As someone who fits as a lonewolf but sees the benefit of having a circle, I agree with this post. I spend the majority of my time alone, but once in a while going out with some friends and being generally rowdy really adds spice to your off time.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 08:28 AM
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Yo can I get some rational people to comment here? I'm quickly redpilling away from the subpar community members of this subreddit and I need a life ring.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 05:02 AM
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I feel like everyone here must listen to Bill Burr's gold digging whore rants.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 06:20 PM
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My favorite video on the subject would have to be Art of Manliness' Brad Pitt Rule
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 09:53 PM
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