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Yeah I know. I did my own thing while she was busy with school. Spent more time with my friends. Went out to bars and casinos. I didn't know what else to do. Not going to sit around waiting for her to be done. I gave her her space. I guess she took it the wrong way.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:20 PM
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yeah she's actually done with school and starting rotations.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:18 PM
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Yes the human mind can be a bitch
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:17 PM
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We didn't spend much time together. So a little lack of sex yes. Not as much communication. She was acting distant. So was I. I'm stubborn so I hate to be the one to initiate anything. I do try to stick with the ⅓ rule. But I just let it all get to my head and broke things off with her
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:16 PM
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Yes that is why I'm second guessing what I did.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:13 PM
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Of course I was into her. I entered an LTR with her. Yes I know. I have to stop second guessing what I did.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:30 AM
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Yeah the withdrawal sucks. Hopefully it passes fast. Trying to keep busy during the day and try not to think much about it
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:29 AM
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I had already told her to come over either Friday or Sunday. She went to a concert today Friday and Sunday is Mother's Day. Shut down on both days. She then asked me when I'll be free during the week. Not too happy about having to wait this long for sex. I can't keep pushing because I'd sound desperate
/r/askTRP12/05/18 07:07 AM
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This makes sense. Thanks man. Yeah I'm going to have to make a decision soon. See how she acts the next time I hang out with her.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 07:00 AM
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I don't have plates right now. Demoted one plate last week. Just a crazy ex chasing me that I want no part of. I am trying to keep busy. Working out but the shift of power seems to be going in her favor and it's fucking w my head a little. I never set boundaries with her. I told her she can do whatever she wants to do because if a female wants to cheat she will. But now that is making me over thinking and I don't know if I should put my foot down now and tell her if she wants to be my girl she n…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:56 PM
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So where do I go from here. Is this considered manipulation on her part ?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:17 PM
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She texted me when I was on my way there asking what I was doing. I think she wanted to meet up that day. I told her I was going to Atlantic City. She played it cool and then sent me a random Snapchat pic later that night holding a beer. Pretty much just throwing it in my face saying that she can also go out and do her own thing. So idk if it was the AC trip that's got her acting up
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:13 PM
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Hahaha. There's a very thin line with that needle though. If I come off just a bit too strong trying to show that I'm with girls. It's a fail
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:57 PM
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yeah I know right
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:54 PM
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Yeah I need to dread a bit I guess. She's being so calm and cool about everything that I feel like it wouldn't spark any jealousy whatsoever. Might be because of male orbiters that are gassing up her ego. I went to Atantic city last weekend with some friends. No reaction whatsoever. She played it perfectly.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:40 PM
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That doesn't sound needy though? She'll prob go back to "i asked you to hang out next week!" I don't want to sound more petty and desperate and have to tell her that I need my balls drained every 3 days
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:35 PM
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That could be. But I think she's just playing games. Maybe testing me idk. She was the one that pushed 90% of the time. I didn't find a good balance. Didn't reciprocate much. So now she's pulling a bit and wants me to do some chasing. I've already told her to bring her ass over and she goes back to ignoring me for an hour until she answers me with "I want to babe. I want to fuck you right now. I'm studying" (she's in medical school)
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:32 PM
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Well I don't know what time the concert is even ending. She lives 30 minutes away so I don't think she'd come over if it ends late. Plus I have work tomorrow morning. I told her my balls don't empty by themselves so yeah. I'm not gonna say more than that because Ill sound desperate.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:23 PM
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Yeah it sounds like it but for some reason I feel like I didn't pass it. I don't know I'm probably overthinking it.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:48 PM
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I think telling her I was approached by another woman sounds bad. I think it's better if she sees it herself while we are out. But for every girl that approaches me 5 guys will approach her haha. And yeah surrounding myself with attractive females sounds good
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:25 PM
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How do you let her subtly know other girls are hitting on you. Two months ago I had sort of a fwb and a plate. Things were different back then. My now LTR sensed it. It's like she was able to smell it. She knew I had options and had competition. She saw me happy. No worries. Not giving a fuck. She was able to tell that I had an abundance mentality because I did have abundance.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:44 AM
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I felt like it was a power play on her end. She was happy. She got what she wanted. Me telling her to come back to bed made her feel good. Then yeah I took her clothes off and we banged
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:36 AM
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You're right. I appreciate the honesty. I need to disconnect and worry about shit that I can control
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:51 AM
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Yes. Interesting stuff you pointed out. I see you're going through a similar situation. I do realize that I am having trouble with giving her an "emotional rollercoaster" I will fall back these next couple of days and wait out to see if she re-initiates. If she does I will set up the next couple of dates and observe her behavior. About the competition anxiety. You're saying you should never claim the relationship monogamous? Last week when she came over she asked me as she grabbed my dick "is th…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:45 AM
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Yeah that seems like the right idea. Wait it out and see what happens. Thanks
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:28 AM
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Thanks for your feedback. And yes she is my LTR. I do give her attention for the most part when we are together. What do you mean reward her because she's giving me her time and affection ? I'm also giving her my time. Sometimes I feel like if I start giving her more attention and or affection I start to seem needy.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:23 PM
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I appreciate your feedback. A couple of questions. I just feel like she's pulling away right now and if I push I enter her frame so I don't know how to go about this. I haven't seen her since Friday. She's usually the one to chase and ask to see me. Is my lack of comfort making her pull away as I hang her out to dry and act cold? Good point on connecting comfort/validation with sex. What are some examples of her behaving good that I should reward with comfort though? But yeah as of right now idk…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:37 PM
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So dread game ?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:13 AM
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You're right. Good points. I appreciate it
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:22 PM
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I'm just trying to find a good balance I guess of showing that I care without seeming like a bitch.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:02 PM
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I told her I was seeing someone else when we started talking so there wouldn't be any problems down the line. The last time we met when we went our different ways she said that she had never felt like she wasn't good enough for someone (since I was still fucking the other girl) and that maybe I didn't like her enough... so does that mean she wanted my commitment ? And saw how I wasn't dropping the other girl for her and decided to walk away. Idk
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:22 PM
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What do you mean? She knew I was seeing another girl.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:08 PM
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Yea I agree bro. It's nice to have a smart faithful chick w a cool sense of humor that you get along with
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:40 PM
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Yeah man but she never admitted to wanting commitment. She made it sound like she just didn't want to be in the way of me and the other girl and that it seemed like I wasn't completely happy with any of them. She came out with this last night. Didn't see it coming. Give her props tho. She stepped up and spoke up about how she felt
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:55 PM
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Yeah. She was a great catch. And yeah it may be a little oneitis but I never let her know that. I always kept frame and she knew I had options
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:52 PM
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That is true. I appreciate it man
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:48 PM
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Girl 2 was probably better LTR material than the other girl. We had better chemistry and the same sense of humor. I didn't mind having her around.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:16 PM
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That's true. I guess because she was one of smartest chick I've ever been around. Soon to be a Dr and very goal oriented
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:13 PM
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That's what I did. I kept frame. But yea Having another girl and all it still sucked that I had to let this one go
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:11 PM
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Thanks for the reply man I appreciate it. She basically said how she didn't want to feel like she was in the middle of me and the other girl. So we parted ways last night. I kept frame but it's been in the back of my Mind all day today and I feel like it will be for a while. Got a little burnt. Didn't see it coming. I know if I hit her up now I will lose frame.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:10 PM
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Yeah that's true. I guess she felt like she was in the middle of me and this other girl and wanted no part in being a side chick or a plate. I'm over thinking this cause she's prob the most rational and smartest chick I've known.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:04 PM
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