DrPsychGainz Archive

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1	How many of you have read this passage of scripture up close? All of this has nothing to do with women having butch hairstyles. And I agree with the sentiment that just posting the verse without any prompt, thoughts, or questions from the OP is not so helpful. In many relationships, the woman is the face of the household. She is the brand and who people think of when referencing that home. This is not correct. But it is also the man's fault for not being enough of a leader to inspire others to acknowledge his competent leadership. In the further verses ref…	/r/RPChristians	05/11/22 06:29 PM
2	Cuddles ain't free vs Kino Needy cuddles is also "I'm sorry I stared at the waitress's butt and you are upset now so I want to distract you with paying attention to you now" energy.	/r/askMRP	30/08/21 11:24 PM
0	Are gay men welcome here? https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2012.02785.x Some interpret the information as saying rather than women being more promiscuous, they were more outgoing, casual, and had less gynecologic issues which led to overall having more children.	/r/RPChristians	24/08/21 12:00 AM
-5	Are gay men welcome here? There is a "gay gene" that, when passed onto a female, makes her very promiscuous, almost pathologically. When males have that gene, they are attracted to aggression and masculine physicality. The reproductive value of that gene could be that a family would have high fertility in the females whose children would be supported by their homosexual uncles (who also tend to have higher IQs than their straight male counterparts). Just some scientific basis to add on to the whole "trauma" theory that D…	/r/RPChristians	23/08/21 10:07 PM
7	What the fuck happened? Girlfriend after 3 months? Unfuck yourself Marine! You shouldn't entertain any LTR unless you're a senior SSGT and maybe doing your 20 years. Otherwise don't do it at all. If somehow, you're actually an officer, then yes, you need to be married to get above captain. But highly doubt you are. And you have to ensure that you've served > 10 years prior to marriage so she won't be entitled to half your retirement because you were too stupid to control yourself.	/r/askMRP	18/08/21 02:12 AM
3	Advice and prayers needed This woman will either take everything from you when you finally start enjoying the results of your hard work or be a sub par partner compared to what you'd be able to cultivate with a different woman after fixing yourself. She is not fertile soil and already open about the separation. It will be a blessing if you start fixing yourself and she abandons the marriage during that time. I can't even imagine how I could've made it through intern year if I married a Jezebel.	/r/RPChristians	15/06/21 06:40 PM
8	Is it medical or am I still a beta? IF it is medical... Fibromyalgia is a pain in the ass because by the time they have it, they have YEARS of cycling negative thought/sensation patterns that are almost impossible to reverse without drastic change/necessity. And it is a response to your years of behavior which has been expounded upon here. Short of growing 6 inches taller, gaining 50 pounds of muscle, having a purpose, and likely attracting other women passively/moving on for 6 months or more, she will not overcome this WITH YOU, …	/r/askMRP	02/06/21 08:09 PM
1	Married and Struggling Wrong question. Is it is worthwhile or likely is the correct question. The answer is likely no. When you have significant mood disturbance and a shitty life situation you need to rely on math, probability, and observable reality to help justify living one extra day and building yourself up. The fact that you are mathematically worthless to a hospital is a blessing in this case, so move on to actionable shit to worry about.	/r/RPChristians	06/05/21 11:00 PM
2	Married and Struggling Hospitals don't sue poor, mentally ill patients. They send bills that eventually get sold to collections agencies at 15-25% of their value and drop the case. The collections agencies have NO legal recourse to forcibly take the bill, but if they can harass and guilt you somehow into paying the whole bill, they make a massive profit. So just ignore phone calls and make no statements regarding you having any obligation to pay. You have no responsibility to interact with collections at all. Focus on…	/r/RPChristians	05/05/21 03:45 PM
5	How do I find an RPChristian man to date? He who findeth a wife... Meaning you must be a wife before he finds you. Which implies being visible and obvious. Which implies being in the right place. Which is probably church. You will need to actively and directly work with a couples ministry or pastor and your elders. If you don't have that, that is a problem. Traits of a wife are pretty easy to find in Scripture, but hard to actually embody, especially if you were susceptible to feminism. Additionally, you should be ready to discuss your …	/r/RPChristians	09/04/21 06:59 AM
1	My Daughters Rules for Dating My Daughter. Great job with everything you're doing so far. I plan on going a bit further by using my professional network to funnel eligible suitors when my daughters become teens so that I'll be chaperoning and teaching dating etiquette to 12-year-olds instead of college-aged kids. Would be great to have the boy have his own chaperone to coach him on proper behavior as well and if things go well, chaperones can distance themselves together and get to know the family comprehensively instead of just being a …	/r/RPChristians	06/04/21 10:28 PM
2	Bipolar So much "her" and "she". And it seems like you are hinting at possible infidelity on her part. You should get familiar with r/RPChristians if faith is more than functionally virtue signaling to your community. They would be less harsh over there with their word choices, but significantly more strict with God's standard (ie. fornication, adultery, being unequally yoked, making her your disciple, etc.). If you did not make a covenant with her and turned a virgin into a harlot, that would be differ…	/r/askMRP	10/02/21 04:37 PM
3	Help with motivation Citicoline and N-acetyl-L-tyrosine (NALT) will help provide substrates for the downregulated neurotransmitters while you recover. If the NALT causes headaches, you can try L-tyrosine instead. Will modify the suck from physical pain to financial pain.	/r/RPChristians	10/02/21 02:43 PM
1	Bipolar I suspect you are confusing bipolar and borderline. One is a medical condition where her central nervous system is literally overclocked for > 1 week at a time and then be burnt out for a few months and depressed. While common, this is rarely what people discuss online regarding people that should not be in relationships. Bipolar = DIGFAST (Distractibility, Impulsivity, Grandiosity, Flight of Ideas/racing thoughts, Activity increase [goal-oriented, socially, sexually, occupation, etc.], Sleep de…	/r/askMRP	10/02/21 02:27 PM
1	Need to diversify lifting regimen A good electronic muscle stimulator has helped me break a plateau when systematically used to cover for the training gaps from focusing on the big 3 lifts. The simulation also affects your neuronal growth so your baseline tone increases. YMMV.	/r/RPChristians	09/02/21 03:40 AM
9	Should I leave my home? I addressed your issue partly (based on the very limited information I had) when you were on your other account. With this new info, there is enough here to warrant an evaluation for bipolar II. I wish people would only smoke weed after age ~25. There is significant evidence that it precipitates psychotic disorders, mood disorders, and exacerbates negative adverse childhood experiences. I am not talking about "mood swings", which is what most people mistake bipolar for. This is "DIGFAST" - distr…	/r/RPChristians	31/01/21 10:30 PM
5	Please pray for me I'm scared God will judge me. Is this a real question? Your post history looks as if you currently use and have likely were younger than 26 when smoking. You have near infinite knowledge in your hand (phone) and are asking me to clarify some basic information that has been known since the 70's? There are consequences to blocking the development of your frontal lobe and entorhinal cortex (which normally slows down in the mid-20's). How much is childhood and how much is weed? No one will know, but you have/had control over one…	/r/RPChristians	31/01/21 07:16 PM
16	Please pray for me I'm scared God will judge me. Sounds like cannibis-induced amotivational syndrome as well as living under a narcissist mother. Stop cooking your frontal lobe, you're only making things worse. Something is wrong with everyone and actively making it worse + decreasing your ability to use your brain is not helpful.	/r/RPChristians	31/01/21 05:28 PM
2	Recently divorced - I don't know how to vet women without sleeping with them (is it even possible?) Oh... wow. I confused the R's of red pill. That was Roosh V. My apologies.	/r/RPChristians	28/01/21 07:22 PM
3	Recently divorced - I don't know how to vet women without sleeping with them (is it even possible?) Or I want to say that Gen 2:24 used "echad" when describing one flesh (plural oneness) and that polygyny is not forbidden. I'm not endorsing it, just acknowledging that sinful behaviors do not have guidelines so while it is not ideal, it is not sin. Therefore, if this man was abandoned by an unequally yoked woman, he does not have any obligation to pursue her if it goes against his mission. And that marrying again is not forbidden since he technically can have more than one wife. But I expect th…	/r/RPChristians	27/01/21 10:13 PM
3	Recently divorced - I don't know how to vet women without sleeping with them (is it even possible?) Adultery is defined by the status of the woman. A man is not an adulterer unless he lay with a married woman. Since a non-virgin woman is not automatically bound to a man without a covenant, she's just a good ol' fashioned harlot. OP is a fornicator, but not adulterer unless the woman is married.	/r/RPChristians	27/01/21 09:43 PM
3	Recently divorced - I don't know how to vet women without sleeping with them (is it even possible?) That rule is weak. What if you have 4 dates in 1 week? Or see her once a month for 4 months? Those are very different scenarios and may cost the same in terms of money, but the 2nd allows more passive intel gathering through social media or texts. Another thing to consider is Rollo recently attesting to being a repentant Christian. (whoops... Roosh V is the guy, related somewhat, but my bad). Otherwise, it is easy to reconcile. Control yourself and develop a system where you can vet in 3-6 dates…	/r/RPChristians	27/01/21 09:35 PM
5	Recently divorced - I don't know how to vet women without sleeping with them (is it even possible?) Besides not having a repentant heart for God, if we address your question directly: As a man, sexual compatibility matters only to the degree you are weak as a leader. Women will generally bend and adjust to the man in the same way a bonsai tree must be tied down in different ways to get the shape you want. Different types of trees will be harder to shape, but if you are not skilled at shaping, then it makes sense you would look to have a fully shaped bonsai tree. What are the odds that a random…	/r/RPChristians	27/01/21 02:37 PM
3	Will you circumcise your sons? And the Plasti-bell has a much higher infection rate due to biofilm-forming organisms loving plastic surfaces. But yes, wounds and trauma are not a good way to welcome a boy into the world	/r/RPChristians	02/01/21 08:58 PM
8	Will you circumcise your sons? Google "Stanford nursery complications circumcision" for a list. Studies cumulatively estimate 10-15% likelihood of at least 1 complication. Some of those complications would likely cause emotional scarring during puberty or whenever the boy becomes sexually active.	/r/RPChristians	01/01/21 08:04 PM
9	Will you circumcise your sons? Perverted control freaks. Weirdly enough, I find the mothers are often more adamant about having it done than the fathers. I get the whole "he's going to look like me" "reason", but when you think about it, that's kinda gay. It doesn't have a justifiable medical indication and can be socially more normal at best and medically/sexually/psychologically crippling at worst.	/r/RPChristians	01/01/21 04:52 PM
5	Will you circumcise your sons? The 8th day was because Rabbis noticed that babies bled significantly less at that point. Of course, we now know it's because the infant gut microbiome becomes capable of producing enough vitamin K to control hemorrhage at that point. And it is considered a purely cosmetic procedure from a medical standpoint. We don't do mastectomies to prevent cancer in baby girls and the penile cancer actually has a 2 dose vaccine that makes the procedure useless except in cases with recurrent balanitis. It al…	/r/RPChristians	01/01/21 04:45 PM
2	I revealed to my wife I was molested, and she’s no longer attracted to me. I read the whole thing. Whatever she was feeling or thinking about you existed months before the final reveal. Your confession conveniently slapped the "gay" label on it that will be nearly impossible to remove. When women aren't attracted, they look for ANY reason to overtly disqualify the man and don't stop until they can justify it emotionally. You literally need to trash and rebuild her concept of you skillfully and in such a small time frame for this to be "salvaged". What can you do? Cerem…	/r/askMRP	27/12/20 01:16 PM
31	Things were nuked but not by me. You have no idea how fortunate you are that you can have the cleanest of breaks and the potential to spend 15 years building your own kingdom before having any reason to start screening/interviewing for a 1st mate on your ship. If you are so hell bent on not being alone because you can't handle the voices that you hear in the quiet of solitude reminding you of how much of a faggot you are, listen to guys like Rian Stone or Kevin Samuels so that you are equipped to be a high value male - while al…	/r/askMRP	15/11/20 02:42 PM
1	Advice for feeling guilty for wanting to break up Having done the med school thing myself, I'd say that if OP is even just barely passing his classes, the 50-90 hours required per week to do this means he HAS a worthwhile mission purely from hours invested. It isn't an idol, it is a monster that we're trying to overcome and put behind us. Generally, it is well-understood that true relationships should not be pursued unless the partner is in a similar pathway (shared suffering like boot camp trauma), or in the active support role. What appears t…	/r/RPChristians	21/10/20 10:59 PM
1	Advice for feeling guilty for wanting to break up This will get harder to deal with during intern year and she will likely balloon even more during her licensing exams as well. It seems that with the 1000 foot rope analogy of her personal development trailing your progress, she may actually have a 5 mile rope. If you have made it clear that it is predominantly fatness/sloth that is the issue and she has not made changes, it will probably be easier to end, but I suspect you have not been direct with this. If it is beyond the weight issue, that's…	/r/RPChristians	12/10/20 01:13 AM
0	Does Love Only Exist for Alphas? I just had my 3rd kid and would be considered an almost perfect role model for young males at my church, having married within it at a young age and joining a profession that is generally well-respected globally. And that was after military service. You can decide where that puts me in relation to yourself. But it sounds like one of us is further ahead if "love" is the goal. I see it every day when my daughters run to me to show me a bug or when my son passes out in my arms. So yes, if you maint…	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/20 12:02 PM
-1	Does Love Only Exist for Alphas? Almost everyone wants to be loved? I have yet to meet any man who did not have a significant amount of narcissistic delusion that a woman could "love" them in the way that they wanted (ie. exactly the same way blue pill men "love" their oneitis because the sexes tend to project what they want from their partner). Narcissism is broadly refusing or being unable to change a paradigm in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. Once you actually become a high value man AND become your own m…	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/20 02:53 AM
4	Born again Christian beauty looking for a high value man. Can anyone help her? Stables are for like... horses and shit	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/08/20 10:12 PM
3	Born again Christian beauty looking for a high value man. Can anyone help her? An extremely affluent man (Patrick Bet-David) was explaining how he was raising his daughters on a podcast and randomly included how "kids" (referring to his wife and daughters) would have to learn how to ride horses because it makes them not be intimidated by men. It somewhat makes sense, but also prompted me to recall every person I have met who actively enjoys anything about horses being at least a little crazy. YouTube link to the horseshit	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/08/20 10:11 PM
4	Anyone wants to help a young, beautiful, independent swan out? You have plenty of food so... No thanks	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/08/20 01:24 AM
3	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend MRP has complete clarity on personality disorders. You clearly cannot comprehend, which is what Horns is referring to by predicting and commenting on your DEERing. It is clear that mental illness is significant if it directly and predominantly causes dysfunction in the family of origin, in public, AND around authority figures like police or clergy. This is mostly mania and schizophrenia. The schizophrenic will see demons or react to internal stimuli regardless of who they are around. The Cluster…	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 02:38 PM
2	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend Yeah... a LARPing POS is trying to lecture a doctor on mental illness. It isn't about conveniently being able to check off boxes. It is about being able to holistically exclude every other more likely scenario as being the root cause. It is more likely that YOU are the faggot rather than her being a special brand of 5% of all cluster B. Fuck off.	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 01:31 PM
2	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend OP learned a new term to DEER the failure away. This is not covert narcissism. It's pure borderline personality that OP's autism failed to recognize. It's okay. Every attractive woman has the tools to shift in and out of shit behavior depending on who she is around, especially if she's not screaming at you in front of authority figures or family members. Covert narcissism is when the "cool chick" you marry has had numerous affairs with men for narc supply and when you find out, the reality appea…	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 12:11 PM
2	Do I tell her? Or do I just continue to stfu, lift and read the sidebar Something to factor besides the obvious is the sex dynamic of your children. If you are asking for help here, it is likely that cohabitation is a possibility in the future. Assuming her boys are teens, the described scenario is probably the worst situation possible. The only way a single father with daughters can benefit from dating a single mother in medium/long term is if the single mother has the same # +/- 1 of daughters in a similar age range. The whole unrelated cohabitating males problem …	/r/askMRP	29/07/20 03:53 PM
2	Married with Children I glanced over the ages originally and just realized how fucked he is based on the wife being a non-doctor having their first kid at ~36 and not having the basic baby rabies urge to at least get the kid past toddlerhood. The daughter may model her mother's shit behavior so he may actually want the wife to fuck off while out of line of sight of the daughter. Or cut his losses since it's one kid only so far and they tend to take more effort to prevent from being like mommy.	/r/askMRP	22/07/20 04:46 PM
9	Married with Children Had to almost formally train the wife to parent correctly. My MIL is a somatic narcissist and withheld affection but also inflicted zero physical abuse. First step was to seed the initial motivation and exercise her prospective foresight by introducing her to seriously thinking about her 40s to 80s. This happened when we were twenty years old. My wife HATES being contacted by her mother for almost any reason and I had her think about what would happen when the roles reverse with our future kids.…	/r/askMRP	22/07/20 04:19 PM
17	Keeping Frame And Dealing With Orbiters At the next time it (social media) naturally comes up in conversation, you can just say "oh... So we're acting like we're single. Got it." Leave it at that and let her self-correct. At this point, you can train her in objective morality by treating things that test your boundaries as her also implicitly giving YOU freedom to violate the same boundary she has. She'll eventually apply empathy to every morally questionable action she takes. Or she'll branch swing. Whatever	/r/askMRP	18/07/20 01:34 PM
1	On The Societal Shift's Increasing Pace: Gen Z Will Drive The Stake This millennial remembers when an entire generation disappeared from everyone's conscious mind (Gen X). Not as funny as yelling "Boomer" I guess	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/20 11:43 PM
3	Religious Gf of 4 years broke up with me a month ago. Messaged me today that she wants to get back together. But she doesn't not want any sex during the relationship. Need advice? Marriage is a covenant followed by sex. You could argue that you were possibly married and she abandoned the marriage (and possibly was getting some strange while you were broken up). Just more things to consider.	/r/RPChristians	02/07/20 12:54 AM
2	Opportunity to marry a virgin and "good girl" Her primary duties to take care of the household - plans on getting her masters. Islamic families who are very cultured - 3 tabs LSD. Square your circles more please. You can't possibly lead your pseudo-unicorn into providing value because your mission appears to be esoteric garbage. Being better than you were yesterday is meaningless without metrics. And you likely haven't identified which metrics are worth using to judge your value. Can you find a mentor in real life who is what and where you …	/r/askMRP	27/06/20 05:50 PM
6	"Your" woman likely has strange cock in her The dopamine kibbles they receive from lesser men kissing their ass DOES provide them with value, even though they usually ARE aware of how short-term it is and how quickly they can build a tolerance to it. Doesn't stop them in the least.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/20 11:54 PM
17	F40+ Gets Musty Taco Smashed Into By 20+ Dudes In 2 Years & Complains They Ghost. Probably After Finding Out Everyone’s Had A Turn On The Portapotty. Her malapropism suede me to her side of the story	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/05/20 01:02 PM
1	What to do about my dad? Unless he has Lewy body dementia, a series of mini-strokes, or Alzheimer's, for your own peace, you need to do whatever it takes to get the bitterness out of your thoughts. I had a similarly detestable father, except rather than sloth, he was an adulterer/deceiver who also trained me to steal and decrease my empathy. Ultimately, you will likely separate as much as possible and do great things in life and only when he is at death's door will he reach out to you. You want to be in the position whe…	/r/RPChristians	11/05/20 11:17 PM
2	What to do about my dad? 1 Timothy 3:2-5 comes to mind here. Your situation sucks, but we are warned against cursing our parents more so than to directly serve or obey. I wonder if you truly knew that he was beyond helping if things would bother you as much. It sounds like you're going through the stages of grief over the loss of how you wish your father would be - currently in anger. If you have come to him in order to discuss the problems a few times and he's rebuffed you, you can simply just go your own way and leave…	/r/RPChristians	11/05/20 10:51 PM
3	Discovered an inappropriate relationship You clearly have no idea what you're talking about. Even if she wanted, she could not tell anyone WHY she's doing anything - any more than an alcoholic tell you why they keep going to the ER after binging. You cannot have any productive interaction until she is 100% cold turkey off her dopamine. And like he's said, she refuses. He is 100% doing the right thing based on what he has shared in his OYS and here. The only reason I have been able to attempt reconciliation with my wife's whoring is tha…	/r/RPChristians	11/05/20 02:51 AM
2	How does one avoid becoming a slave ? It's just not widely known. It is extremely similar to "foreign exchange student", except it was designed to help young people (mostly women) to become a temporary family member and have a cultural exchange. In most places in the USA, you'd get room and board plus minimum $200/week and $500/year in tuition paid for by the family. Many will lend you a car and phone, but it really depends on the age and number of kids you're dealing with, as well as if they are home-schooled or enrolled. In places…	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/20 01:08 AM
4	How does one avoid becoming a slave ? You can go to aupair.com to post an ad and look for families. You'll have to understand basic visa requirements and look up tutorials on YouTube how to prevent your application from getting denied by the embassy (usually by attesting that you intend to return to your country. There are ways to work around this.). I'm sponsoring a Russian schoolteacher to help while I start a new job and to have extra passive dread game with the wife. So yes, people accept strangers and it's easier when you are y…	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/20 12:53 AM
2	How does one avoid becoming a slave ? This is an "extreme" option: Be a male au pair for a single mother in a country you eventually want to immigrate to. This can last 6 months to 2 years, if you want. Ideally, she has a son and will want you to serve as a strong, male role model who will teach the boy your language. You can usually save money while doing this, take some courses, and consider switching to the J-1 student visa or K-1 "marrying" some low-risk chick to extend your stay or do something else, if you want. Countries like…	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/20 12:35 AM
13	Marine catches his girlfriend messaging guys on Tinder, including a coworker who lives down the hall. This Devildog certainly ISN'T "Unsuccessfully Coping With The Natural Beauty of Infidelity" when he kicks her out of his life and publicly shames her. It depends on your unit. He's either motor T or airwing because it's Iwakuni. Definitely more relaxed.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/05/20 07:36 PM
29	Marine catches his girlfriend messaging guys on Tinder, including a coworker who lives down the hall. This Devildog certainly ISN'T "Unsuccessfully Coping With The Natural Beauty of Infidelity" when he kicks her out of his life and publicly shames her. The Uniform Code of Military Justice is a separate system that allows double jeopardy of actual crimes and will prosecute a service member for infidelity because it violates the UCMJ. It is a powerful court of "public opinion" that can throw people in jail with a lower standard of proof to convict.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/05/20 07:34 PM
100	Marine catches his girlfriend messaging guys on Tinder, including a coworker who lives down the hall. This Devildog certainly ISN'T "Unsuccessfully Coping With The Natural Beauty of Infidelity" when he kicks her out of his life and publicly shames her. Unfortunately, he's on Iwakuni, the USMC base on mainland Japan so it likely won't affect her carousel riding very much. But yeah, it definitely helps guard against vague non-judicial punishment or court martialing.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/05/20 06:23 PM
3	Discovered an inappropriate relationship The prime targets are single mothers with daughters. We had two daughters when my wife was cheating on me with different men, including one who dated her mother, who was 20 years his senior and he groomed my wife to be promiscuous as a 12 year old (he was 21 at the time). I told her that her choices would inevitably doom our daughters to be sexually abused by a future fuckboy (that she would introduce into the home) seeking the classic single-mother + teen daughter combo JUST LIKE SHE EXPERIENCE…	/r/RPChristians	09/05/20 04:11 AM
11	Discovered an inappropriate relationship She's clearly addicted to SOMETHING about the whole situation. It took my serial cheating wife one month to stop compulsively keeping contact after professing to be "100% committed to our marriage" and promising no contact. And there was still deception about similar infidelity-related behavior for 3 months. And after all that plus intensive therapy and appropriate dread and my "social distancing", she's barely a few months free from being an unrepentant animal. Something that sucks is that I kn…	/r/RPChristians	08/05/20 10:35 PM
5	Discovered an inappropriate relationship When you consider the overwhelming likelihood that ALL emotional cheating will eventually become physical at the earliest convenience, it seems OP is taking very appropriate action. He is dealing with a textbook example of Matt 5:28, but with a gender swap. F that. In the 1% chance nothing has occurred, it is likely just her waiting for enough plausible deniability to permit consummation (a friend's wedding with an open bar, a work trip, etc).	/r/RPChristians	08/05/20 10:19 PM
7	Discovered an inappropriate relationship How long until you serve papers? In my state, you go from serving and then an obligatory 6 month period before it can be finalized. Therefore, it makes sense that serving is one of the very first steps here since you can gather evidence and whatnot while you wait. But if it's easier timewise to divorce, you may have other "protective" steps to take such as logging your childcare activities to have a papertrail to justify getting the level of custody you want.	/r/RPChristians	08/05/20 06:14 PM
15	Social Media Mastery - Social Proof, Status, & Pre-Selection! posted by throwaway account	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/20 01:31 AM
5	Sidebar is same one as on other two subs? MRP is RP on hard mode. With RP, you are only "part-time". You can still binge videogames, abuse substances, or generally be a POS when at home solo. For MRP, it is an objectively much more difficult because you are captaining a ship and are "on" 24/7. She lives with you and sees when you are being lazy or a hypocrite. It is also harder to start over due to kids/legal system. Thus, MRP sidebar is different and broader.	/r/askMRP	26/04/20 09:37 PM
3	Need some advice, long post. And apologize for the scatter brain The things you left out are noted in Rule 2. ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc. Include those so we can help you better. Your described situation is 95% similar to my …	/r/RPChristians	26/04/20 05:08 PM
7	Let's Have a Little Talk About Respect Where does he say for men to treat their wives in this manner, which would also require him to treat himself as if he were an empty-headed bit of fluff? The likelihood of such a woman choosing to be with a man who is below her is low, making your exact scenario less feasible. But then you say probably not going to get very far with her which means you're talking about a non-marital relationship. If a woman is doing what I think all men should be doing, I see no reason to hold her in higher estee…	/r/RPChristians	18/04/20 12:30 PM
2	Dilemma...boyfriend is now spinning plates but now I am feeling weird. Is this unilateral non-monogamy or are you also given a free pass? I'm just curious and don't see many situations with unilaterally open relationships without the man being extremely high value or there being a lot of deception.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/20 05:54 PM
1	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? A lot of my med school classmates directly cause high attrition rate of admin because they keep dating them and then bringing them along with them to residency. I thought this would be frowned upon, but apparently not. So maybe admin clerk for a med school is the way to go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/20 03:02 PM
1	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? This is similar to my mindset. Rian Stone videos on YouTube helped me gain a healthy amount of self-responsibility and move past bitterness. I'm just raising competent, likable kids and holding the wife to higher standards than before and periodically evaluating my character through all of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/20 12:51 AM
4	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? Yeah. After military, church life, and now medicine, I'm not going to give a selfish woman the power to take almost 30 years of consistent character and bring it down to her level. F that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/20 12:19 AM
4	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? Because having two daughters and only ONE OTHER MALE in the immediate family with zero examples of healthy females is already a screwed situation. The upcoming child is a boy, which was a gamble, but what I wanted. There is no way I would get married ever again so whether she stays or leaves, I got what I wanted. Despite her shit performance as a wife, as a mother, she is still better than 80% of mothers in my social circle and is pulling her weight with my complicated homeschooling method (Mont…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/20 12:06 AM
2	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? True. As a student, I previously wouldn't even consider a woman who was less than a 7 because I assess myself as a 6 at worst. But I know that limits me. The best chance for a woman to get a boost in points is church attendance and being active and exhibiting supportive behavior. This unfortunately is lower yield though because many doctors are too busy/tired to attend church even if they're believers. The route of pursuing nursing is also viable, but it is a LOT of work and kind of a calling du…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 11:48 PM
3	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? Yep. Paternity tested them same day I found out. Kids were intentionally timed with LH testing and basal temperature readings. They also look more like my ethnicity than hers or any of the possible partners so it was low probability. Always STD test, including trichomonas, as well. Follow up in 3 months in case she lies about stopping her activity during "reconciliation".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 11:32 PM
3	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? Yeah, I did. The extra sucky thing is that a guy I deployed with was going through a divorce because HIS wife cheated early during that same deployment and I was victim blaming him a bit. I feel disgusted with myself when I think about it. Luckily he had no kids when he got out and is doing much better now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 09:03 PM
5	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? A combination of Asian family and EVERYONE in our social circle knowing about everything at a moderately detailed level makes her ability to fight me in divorce court a lot lower than normal. They all support me because I spent years courting her in church since being a teen and even the church supports the idea of divorce + 100% custody (very rare nowadays). I can be patient and hide away money intelligently while continuing to make sure she ends up with little social support if she decides to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 09:02 PM
2	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? Not exactly. Cheating requires deception. Though she does not deserve my honesty, I like to minimize regret in later life so I'll find the happy medium between telling too much and lying by omission. No matter how perfect she might be in the future, I cannot trust her as much as another person who hasn't repeatedly betrayed me. So that means she's going to forever be at FWB status AT MOST. The biological stepmother is the only acceptable role I can keep her for - until the next time she's dishon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 08:57 PM
7	You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life? My wife was this almost perfectly to a T, but had a 7-8 face. But did none of the work for 9 years. Worked hard to do just enough to not warrant enough of my direct attention to address the issue. Still cheated on me with 8 guys while I was deployed and again in college and in med school. Now that we have 2 kids and another on the way, NOW she wants to find God, be a supportive housewife, and actually competently watch/homeschool the kids while I start residency. We're in our late 20s and I have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/20 08:21 PM
3	Godliness isn't sexy Straight up groomed to be promiscuous as a teen by her widowed mother's boyfriend who was 15 years younger than the mom and 9 years older than her. Of course, this was hidden from me until years into the marriage. Weed addiction definitely facilitated her behavior. Fast forward to now, I'm starting medical residency 2000 miles from her lifelong home and the stay/go plan is to have her continue to be the biological stepmother. I'll have an attractive au pair helping her out while also serving as …	/r/RPChristians	13/04/20 03:02 PM
4	Godliness isn't sexy When I had been powerlifting for over a year and had a noticeably different body composition, my wife said she wanted to spend more time with me outside of the home so I suggested the gym. At the same time, she was switching to majoring in Kinesiology (from nursing), but in her universe, women only did cardio. Showing her pictures of Pauline Nordin, a model who lifts intensely without losing femininity and explaining that it would be delusional to think that she could look more jacked with less …	/r/RPChristians	13/04/20 01:59 PM