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Yoo I really appreciate his input and you sending it to him. That girl got back to me but he makes some really good points and I hate the way most of what I said sounds out loud. I consulted ChatGPT for the coffee one and agree it sounds qualitative and off putting.
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:29 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. I felt that my text “maybe we should get you outa there sometime” was too wishy washy. In NYC I usually make firm plans or say “we should get a coffee sometime” which works for the most part. What I’ve been feeling upset with though is that the two girls (and others this happens with) seem genuinely cool and I’d like to meet them. There aren’t as many women in the state that I’m from so it feels like fewer chances. I’d love to meet one or both of the girls from my post but…
/r/seduction24/05/25 03:09 PM
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Yo thanks for the reply. Yeah radio silence wit girl 2. Usually I don’t text when I’m not in the area or trying to setup a date. Will keep that in mind with sending one message only and a specific date Question about your comment on first girl— are you saying I was texting too much? (To me it felt like that at the end for sure.) I set it loosely because she reached out so I figured if she’s interested shed bite then we could setup a firm date. It sucks most when they reach out. I text back, then…
/r/seduction24/05/25 05:01 AM
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Hey definitely down. Am based in in Brooklyn but not hard to get into the city. 29m active and approach some. Always way more fun with a buddy
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:09 AM
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I've recently ditched them and had luck meeting some great girls irl (much cooler and more attractive than my matches online). Keep getting out there and it will happen
/r/seduction18/10/24 01:35 AM
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Thank you just deleted everything minus the dating apps yesterday and bought power of now. Will be deleting those soon too
/r/seduction17/07/24 04:47 PM
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Would you mind linking me with one of the ones you’re talking about?
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:27 PM
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Haha totally get that. It’s funny because I’ll race motorcycles and recently sailed across an ocean but approaching women and many social situations still freak me the fuck out. I think your point of doing it a ton in a week or more span is a great idea though.
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:55 AM
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That would be awesome I’ll DM you
/r/seduction01/07/24 08:09 PM
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Would you be going out by yourself or with friends mostly?
/r/seduction30/06/24 10:56 PM
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I can confirm that sitting side by side helps so much. Was on a date the other day and switched to sitting across from each other. Way to formal and feels like an interview. Question for you: what do you typically talk about with the women you’re on dates with?
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:26 PM
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Yeah thank you for the positive affirmation. It’s just been a lot of hinge dates where I can see myself dating or into the person initially but it just drops off after that. I don’t know how I can get past that right now
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:55 PM
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That’s funny. I wish I was having your experience instead lol. Hookups are fun but I’m definitely to a point where I’m looking for more in a person and potential partner. I don’t know what I’m doing or how to improve to make those connections stronger. But definitely want to get there and will (trying to manifest it lol)
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:52 PM
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Dude don’t worry. I did the same thing. Just for perspective I dated a girl for 2 months 4 months ago. It was great and we both really liked each other. I was dating around while with her and got into my head and didn’t tell her and became very anxious. We agreed to go our separate ways but I didn’t really want to and didn’t know how to tell her where I was coming from. I texted her on and off not even asking to hang out, but instead a bunch of nice guy bullshit I would never say in person. I ev…
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:34 AM
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Better to jump in than sit on the sidelines
/r/seduction07/08/21 01:50 AM
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I’m honestly not sad and haven’t been. Just been way in my head and lost my “power” or whatever. Would really like to see her so I can come to my senses and actually be sad or at least get over it
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:23 PM
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It’s funny, the only time I asked her to meet up in person she said she still stood by going separate ways and I said I didn’t dispute it but asked her to walk anyways. She didn’t get it and I don’t even know why I asked
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:02 PM
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Yeah it’s really bad. I’ve been so in my head about this and just go in circles
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:44 PM
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hey __. sorry for all that. was on some other dates while seeing you. kinda just liked you tbh. let me know if you wanna go on a date sometime you’re free and wanna have fun/start fresh irl. if not nbd
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:58 AM
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No it doesn’t lol. Have never texted a girl anything remotely close to this. She did try to break up with me once in person and i spun it around
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:50 AM
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that is great advice. Thank you:)
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:30 AM
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honestly that's a good idea and what you said is very true. She said we needed to go separate ways and shouldn't communicate. I was being super weird over text and apologizing for shit i didn't have to and saying nice guy things I didn't mean and wouldn't say irl. (Can't blame her)
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:24 AM
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What do ya'll think of this? ​ "Hey ___, mean no invasion of your privacy sending this but can I buy you a coffee , state my piece and you can reject me in person? Would be fun to see you. can’t really wrap my brain around texting and I can get over this"
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:55 AM
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no lol get laid enough. I want to be in love. I'm 26, haven't been yet. I really liked this gal and fucked it up
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:06 AM
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That's so true. I've wasted nearly two months constantly thinking about it. Not even sad just been in my head the whole time about miscommunications that I am fixated on addressing. And you're totally right about it ruining charisma. Fuck everything you said is spot on
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:04 AM
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Right. I've just been way the fuck in my head with this and mostly fixate on the texting bullshit and what I could still say. In real life everything was cool and I have a way easier time communicating that way. Any ideas on how to facilitate a meetup via message?
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:02 AM
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Tell me what you think or critique this shit plz: "Hey ___, mean no intrusion of your privacy sending this but would love to get a coffee with you and say a couple things. I'm around but messenger is cool too" ​ sounds pretty weird to me but idk what the fuck to do
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:00 AM
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hahaha thank you. Other options as in girls? Yes I actually have a few girls I see fairly regularly but I'm tired of being a shitty player and I want the real thing
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:58 PM
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I said a bunch of nice guy bullshit I didn't mean over text like "i don't want any hard feelings" and shit. She probably would have been down to meet back up but I kinda blew the opportunity and regret it and have been way stuck on it
/r/seduction05/07/21 10:47 PM
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you are correct. I really want to let go. I'm usually not that clingy but I've given that impression via text and it really bothers me
/r/seduction05/07/21 10:41 PM
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Jesus dude this is so helpful. Have a lot of social anxiety that derailed a relationship recently. What was your emdr experience like?
/r/seduction21/05/21 03:11 AM
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