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| 9 | Learning material on body language | DrSwishenstein | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 11:10 PM | |
| 1 | Anyone have an opinion on this guy's take on release in a set? | DrSwishenstein | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 01:38 AM |
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| 2 | Competing with a natural"A Players recruit A players." -Steve Jobs Couldn't agree more. If your the best and he's the best it makes sense that you should team up as bros. Having bros is way more fun that battling rivals. | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have an opinion on this guy's take on release in a set?I've heard of using body language to indicate that your about to leave or disinterested in a set (head in body and feet out or something like it) but this poster goes all the way and will walk away from sets , with the expectation that he'll get pulled back. Is this a part of anyone's game and do they remember how they got good at doing it? | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Pre-Game Huddle?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1q81_k0l4-A Have fun, make direct eye contact with everyone, make friends, don't over imbibe, and win for you. | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Confession of an AFC. blew $100 trying to lay a hookerI'm impressed by your honesty but I'm not smart enough to know how to respond. In my opinion drinking to extreme excess, paying strangers money for sex to the point of being financially destitute, and putting yourself in a situation where other people are using crack cocaine are all really self destructive behaviors and I think without knowing anything that whatever is going on in your life is a lot more complex than a physical desire for sexual contact. People on this sub generally report break… | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 09:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about this? LPT: "...Would you like some company?" is the ultimate pick-up line for either gender.Open question: Where can I read more about "locking in" routines? its a term I'm unfamiliar with. | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 09:06 PM |
| 2 | How to Be Assertive | The Art of ManlinessA part of the article submitted by Indianbro encourages increased used of "I" statements when expressing your feelings (e.g. replacing “You’re so needy and controlling.” with “I feel frustrated when you make me feel guilty for hanging out with my friends.”) In this context it seems appropriate, the speaker turns an attack of someone else into a sincere expression of their own feelings. In general I've strived to purge I statements from my personal vocabulary in favor of "we" statements; especial… | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm a British guy with solid bar/club game who's flying out to Chicago for a week. However...Go see the White Sox and get day tanked? Not a good idea for raking, but probably the nicest way to spend an afternoon in Chicago. In general Chicago is a terrible place to go bar hopping if you're under 21. Horrible laws force bar and restaurant owners to ID people aggressively or face stiff monetary penalties. I used to drink at Buddy Guy's before I was 21 because I had a cousin who knew a guy who worked there, so like "entboarder" said, you'll need to find someone who has a cozy relationship … | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 09:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Approaching women around campus with two AFCs following meThe Fat Boys? AFCs? Never. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74MTIBbn4uI Seriously though, great field report. At first I thought it was going to read about you complaining about AFCs blowing up your shit; but you controlled frames and led like a boss. I've got nothing deep or constructive, but nice, hombre. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there a list of best videos?Sorry for the wait. I agree that the hardest part of using any material, maybe videos especially is that it's very hard to make it actionable. I've never found infield videos to be helpful because to me every situation is so unique that trying to rebuild one from a video is absurd [I'm sure if thats the right word?]. The best thing to take , IMO , from infield videos is how people who are good at interacting and comfortable hold themselves. I saw a Mystery infield video once, and even though I w… | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to ask "would you like to go out again?" at the close of a date, or through text/call a day or more after?I agree and disagree. I think your 100% right that leading is the right way to go. Saying something at the end of a date before you go like "I will see you again soon" and leaving it at that is good. Anyways you kissed the girl, shit is a lock. Dave, my disagree is that I think seddit vocab is useful when used in discussion on this forum and others like it. Its clear and concise which is useful. Additionally it may be depersonalizing, because it forces the user to recognize that certain steps in… | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 02:17 PM |
| 0 | Tips for picking up college chicks?Ha. Treat them like people I guess and talk to them? I got a number recently after opening a conversation by asking a girl what her minor is. Is it a boring question, yeah, but a lot of people have hilarious minors that are more indicative of what they like than what they're professionally interested in. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Is there a list of best videos?Meth, I think that might be a little extreme. Stuff like that is great training wheels. It at least gives someone an idea of what self-proclaimed successful pickup artist and gurus are doing. Carmelo Anthony said "the best way to get better at basketball is to play more basketball". But watching the NBA as a kid helped him develop an identity as a ball player. Not a really apt comparison, but I think its a fun and easy to use quote. Anyways, your core idea is right, learning material is useless … | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 11:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A New Leaf, pt. 3: Mixed BagMeh, let the kid live I guess. Making tough approaches is worthwhile and they'll get better over time. Ways where you're right: I agree that eye contact free approaching isn't going to yield results. At the resturaunt he surprised that girl. If someone did that to me I wouldn't like it, and I'm a dude. Also, hitting on your coworkers is going to blow up in your face, probably. The best thing you can do is put them in your friend zone to use as social proof going out after work. Places for improv… | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 03:41 PM |
| 6 | What's the difference between a shit test and a girl straight up not into you?I respectfully disconcur. I think something like that is a textbook shit test. If she didnt like him and wanted to be an ass she could either ignore him or be rude. This is neither, she gave a poke and our main man slipped up this time. The girl wanted to verbally play. | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 05:45 AM |
| 3 | I know a lot about inner game, I am pretty confident with myself and I am decent with women , but my most recent plateau is that I don't really know the nuts and bolts, the how to, step by step process of picking up women. Anybody else feel the same? Any advice?I really liked the Mystery Method book. At the very least, Mystery writes you an outline of how to go from attraction to closing. Even if your personality and confidence are tight already, its good to flip through. He breaks getting a woman your interested in down to a progression of attraction then comfort then seduction. If your looking for a step by step guide on what to mechanically do, this is it. | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Best Modernised Mystery-style compendium on seduction?Nice man. Where are you at where your trying to separate from Mystery. My understanding is that he's still the gold standard source for aspiring and accomplished technicians. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 01:38 PM |
| 4 | Best Modernised Mystery-style compendium on seduction?Interesting. If you've absorbed and used Mystery material and are looking for more I don't know where to direct you. I really enjoyed the Blueprint Decoded audio tapes. I could pop them in my ears while I went running and arrive all sweaty and enlightened. Some one else will hopefully post a good "outer game" recommendation. I've just been dying to give them a positive review. If anyone is avoiding Mystery's products because they feel that they're outdated I think they're on the wrong track. Peo… | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 12:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Warning: Long! #/K-Close, dealt with an AMOG and an AFC, intentionally said no to F-Close (explanation within)You nailed it hombre. Can you share the videos or elaborate on handling an AMOG in a cool good feelings for everyone way. I follow the spirit of what your saying but wish I could have more detail. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 10:46 PM |
| 3 | I recently re-read some of the old The Game, Mystery Method, type stuff...Thanks man. I thoroughly enjoyed the jezabel article, behavior like that is bizzare. At least his van is cool. I agree with you that having sexual validation as one's raison d'etre is an easy way to set up for failure/misery/whatever and I really agree with you about the vocab thing. You should cultivate a "positivity" discussion in another thread. It sounds like you have a well developed opinion on it that would be valuable because it runs counter to a lot of r/seddit discussion. | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 03:40 AM |
| 1 | What Does it Mean to be a Man?"A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man." -Don Corleone | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 01:15 AM |
| 2 | I recently re-read some of the old The Game, Mystery Method, type stuff...Wow dude, I like the passion with which you take down RSD. I just enjoyed a couple of RSD audio tapes that left me feeling very positive bout RSD as an approach to pickup. I'm curious about what works for you and the process through which you honed in on it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Awesome FR from an old pua forum post, story of how a man scored an HB10 model and dealt with a cock-blockerI liked that he made an effort to introduce her to his home first. I dont know if Ive read that before but its smart. Its a cool story that may or may not be true and there are bits and pieces that I think are reminders that winners remember to do the little things. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 12:17 AM |
| 2 | How to make a girl choose you over another good-looking, funny and accomplished guy?Great comment. I rarely stop and think that if I don't know what it is that I'm chasing I'm not going to find it. Muchos snaps hombre. | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Would this work as a good approach?buddhaburn its the truth the. no one on this sub can tell you if its good. you have to actually try. | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my confidence back?Bro. I can't solve your girl problems but I can give you good medical school advice. It doesn't matter that you didn't get in this year. It sucks yeah, I feel for you. The only thing you can do now is get back on the horse. Shitty MCATs? Sit again. Really bad grades? Do a post bac. Boring extracurriculars? Publish in a journal or do humanitarian shit. As for your confidence? Man, don't let bullshit become your whole identity. No Doctor school yet? Get your EMT - B and tell girls you're a medic. … | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Learning material on body languageThanks. I posted the stupid way and searched for what I was looking for after the fact. Here's a link to a seddit cliff notesing of the book. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/g94wr/book_of_body_language_summary/ From the cliff notes some stuff seemed really worthwhile and otherstuff seemed made up (e.g. the phallic cylinder IOI). Maybe I'm an idiot, but it definitely seems worth a read regardless. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 12:33 AM |
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