Would this work as a good approach?

Donald_Fuck · 2013-08-05T11:18:59+00:00

I can only ever see this working if your body language is A+. Anything but and she is likely to feel creeped out. That line itself feels like a creepy thing to ask someone you don't know. It would be better to simply introduce yourself and see how she responds first. If she responds positively then I guess the conversation should take a normal course. If she were to ever ask why you were talking to her then I would say something a long the lines of "I wanted to find out if you were as interesting as you look" or "I saw a beautiful woman and I just had to introduce myself."

2013-08-05T13:40:58+00:00

Try it several times, and report back.

VMikeL · 2013-08-05T14:02:47+00:00

Be more casual. The whole gaze into her eyes, and shaking her hand before you speak is super intense, and border line creepy (I can feel it in my spine just reading it).

Liamblake · 2013-08-06T01:53:15+00:00

No its cringy. Just say hi. Your opener isn't what determines her interest. No self respecting woman thinks "he just called me interesting...time to hop on his dick"

DrSwishenstein · 2013-08-06T05:34:06+00:00

Try it and come back. Stop being a bitch.

changeh · 2013-08-05T12:30:38+00:00

From listening to Adam Lyons it really depends on the situation. He makes a good point on room dynamics. If you ignore everyone in the room, walk up to the back where the HB10 is and go "Who do you think lies more?" she's gonna know you're hitting on them.

From my opinion, you may come off as creepy unless you're smooth as hell. If people like Gambler take 45 minutes to work on a single girl then take your time. Don't feel the need to rush a set because rushing causes mistakes.

I recommend watching a few Adam Lyons video, it's completely blown my mind and added that extra factor in gaming.

col998 · 2013-08-05T16:07:21+00:00

I feel like it should be friendlier. Maybe walk up and say "Hey, I wanted to introduce myself and find out if you are as interesting as you look."

Maybe, as I write it i still think it's hit or miss.

2013-08-05T17:56:36+00:00

I can see this yielding 99 terrible results to 1 successful one. Don't try and play yourself up on the intro: read the room, approach, touch her arm and say hello.

alfamale · 2013-08-05T21:25:56+00:00

nope

angry_dave · 2013-08-05T21:28:28+00:00

Everything can work but just the fact alone that you posted this thread shows that you don't have the confidence in it to make it work. Stop trying to write a romance novel and just go talk to some of the other humans

recyclablebantha · 2013-08-06T07:30:21+00:00

After seeing the girl I want at a party/club/amusement park.

I then walk up to her and gaze into her eyes, still making strong eye contact.

I shake her hand,

I gently hold her hand and move in closer

while still holding her hand I ask "are you as interesting as you look?"

Anytime you're putting together some plan in your head, it's NEVER going to play out as well in real life as you think it would.

You're better off working on creating a better mindset, then looking for specific steps to an approach. The best mindset leads to spontaneous approaches that can't be planned for.

2013-08-07T04:08:34+00:00

Just try it?

And try to think of her as another person you're meeting, and not if it will "work."

Would this work as a good approach?

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buddhaburn its the truth the. no one on this sub can tell you if its good. you have to actually try.

Title	Would this work as a good approach?
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