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| 2 | Stealing girls from other guysWomen aren't property, it's not like defending the guy who stole your TV. | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 07:15 PM |
| 193 | "Hey, look at me.""look at you! You're getting laid!" | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 01:13 PM |
| 6 | Have any of you expirenced people not liking you for trying to learn seduction?Don't explain it. Don't talk about it. I don't know why but there's a huge stigma against trying to get better at social interaction, and ironically, the most hostility comes from people who are sick of people who are bad at it. You'd think they'd be happy that someone wants to learn how to not be a creep? Basically you're supposed to just 'have it' or not even try, so if you're in the middle area you've just got to keep it to yourself. This isn't necessarily a serious reply, more of an "I feel … | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 02:44 AM |
| 22 | What are some red flags on an unhealthy woman that a man should keep an eye out for?If McDonalds says they close at 11 is that a red flag if I'm looking for a Big Mac at 12? | /r/seduction | 21/02/16 09:58 PM |
| 0 | A woman moved into my building Saturday. We talked, things went well and I got her number. I want to take her out this weekend but I do not know where. Also I'm not sure if I should keep it casual or show interest. And not sure when i should text and ask. Any advice?Well you definitely made the right call asking a bunch of strangers on the internet if the museum would bore her, rather than asking the person herself. What women love more than anything is pre-calculated interactions and they utterly hate spontaneity and being treated like their opinion holds value. You're on the right track! | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 07:45 PM |
| 10 | A woman moved into my building Saturday. We talked, things went well and I got her number. I want to take her out this weekend but I do not know where. Also I'm not sure if I should keep it casual or show interest. And not sure when i should text and ask. Any advice?As an expert in women who just moved into buildings I can field this one. Take her to a park, women in buildings love parks. 75% casual 25% serious, mind these figures carefully they are important. You should text her precisely 72 hours after initial contact. If you tarry on the text, adjust casual/serious ratio by 1% for every ten minutes until it reaches 50/50. Add baking soda and stir. When it's done the pastry should be golden brown. | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 06:14 PM |
| 8 | Girl seems interested, what should I doWhat the actual fuck "A girl said she wants to go to an event with me. Should I ask her to go with me or is it too late?" I know this sub is designed to help people with poor social skills but man this couldn't be made any easier for you. Stop overthinking things, she's not some mystical pony or a lockbox you have to press the right buttons in the right order to get it to open. She's a person and she speaks English (well, presumably) so just use your words to say the thing you want to say and sh… | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 05:40 PM |
| 7 | Tried the "Wait..." line on a date,I mean, the kiss is the first big step between 'we're bros and having a good time and its nice to spend time with such cool friends' and 'sexual interest I want to do stuff with my body to their body'. You don't make out with your homies. It's often really easy to slide from K to F, and sliding into K is 90% of the battle so I can see why so many people consider it to be a big deal | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 12:10 AM |
| 16 | Tried the "Wait..." line on a date,Weak. You don't 'try' kissing someone, you kiss someone. Outcome independence and all that. It's semantic but saying 'I wanna try this goofy stunt LOL' before you kiss someone is a lot less romantic than saying 'hold up' and going for it | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 12:07 AM |
| 14 | Tried the "Wait..." line on a date,Just make sure you say 'muthafucka' at some point | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 12:05 AM |
| 8 | Any good hookup sites besides tinder and Craigslist?Yeah but then you're waiting on your friend's friend's party while there are bars full of women every night | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 04:15 PM |
| 58 | Least Sentimental "First Kiss" Story EverIf you're 17 and never kissed a girl I'm not convinced you know what "fuck me eyes" look like | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 06:44 PM |
| 8 | Least Sentimental "First Kiss" Story EverWhy do all these kids keep posting shit like "yeh I kissed some girl and now I have to tell her I'm not looking for a long term committed relationship, fuck me right?" | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Some stuff I've noticedListen up you clowns this 14-year-old is going to tell you how it is with women | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 09:10 PM |
| 6 | Girls who say they're ugly... But obviously aren'tI recommend they grow a sweet beard like me | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 11:35 AM |
| 5 | [FR] steaming pile of failure with a HB5Keep in mind getting in with a girl who's working publicly is a tough game to play. They're not acting like themselves, they're on the job, its a lot harder to read their body language and responses and so on and they're often showing you way more attention and laughing at more jokes than they would be if they weren't getting paid. Also, they get hit on all day every day by the worst type of guys (especially gym clerks, imagine the amount of testosterone that passes by her desk) so it's also tou… | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Can you guys suggest good dressing style ?A pair of jeans that fit well and a plain button-up shirt in a colour of your choosing are literally all you need | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Rule 1: Be Attractive. Rule 2: Don't be Unattractive.I've tried explaining this before when someone on reddit parrots that phrase as a way to illustrate the futility of it. Really, the phrase tells you everything you need to know, but a lot of people have trouble distinguishing 'attractive' from 'Men's Health cover model' or understanding that there is so much more to attraction than physical looks | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 12:11 PM |
| 2 | At a small party. I feel pretty awkward since I'm not talking at allWell shit, first step would be to put your phone down and interact with the humans | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 08:18 AM |
| 3 | What is with security guards.I was a security guard for six years and can confirm that no girl is actually interested in security guards | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 02:46 AM |
| 6 | Feel out of place in clubs, don't know how to have funWhy are you hanging out at clubs if you don't like hanging out in clubs? | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 10:34 PM |
| 9 | What would be the point of not telling me she has a boyfriend?Basically treat it as a positive as if she is saying "hey you did everything correct and if I didn't have a boyfriend you'd have me bending over, pulling up my skirt ready for your cock". This is why I don't get why girls try to deflect unwanted guys with the 'I have a boyfriend' spiel. This is literally what they're saying- the guy would totally have a chance, if not for that pesky boyfriend. I mean, I defer to women's judgement, because they get hit on by creepy men a lot more often than I do,… | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 10:19 AM |
| 4 | help a brother outDamn dude, you're a teenager, you're supposed to be a nervous wreck at the best of times. This is when you do all your awkward shit that you look back on later and say 'damn, I'm glad I'm not that much of an ass anymore'. I'll give you the same advice I'd give anyone though. Develop your hobbies, find your passions, get really good at something tangible that you can look at and say 'fuck yeah I made that'. Become self-critical and identify your personal strengths and faults, work to fix the faul… | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 07:57 AM |
| 67 | "All guys want is sex" shit test'One time when I was in Europe with my ex-' 'STOP DWELLING ON THESE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS' | /r/seduction | 26/02/15 07:05 AM |
| 4 | /r/seduction hits 200K subscribers"Dear seddit here's the last four texts between me and this girl I met last week, please provide a complete psychological breakdown of said girl and produce for me the perfect combination of words and symbols to text her that will make her want to sleep with me ASAP" | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Take all these basic questions to /r/AskSeddit"here's a transcription of the last eight texts between me and this one girl I'm obviously hung up on. Please analyze her psychology and provide me with the magic string of words to text her to make her suddenly attracted to me" Yeah this sub took a dive lately | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 11:33 PM |
| 17 | Female journalist challenged to date 60 men in 2 months details 10 mistakes men make on first dates. Thought you guys might find this interesting.That's exactly what the guy you replied to just said except specifically about hunting fish. | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Asking the lady to a dateYou.. ask her? To go somewhere with you? You have this in the bag dude, you're overthinking it. Just pick something to do, say 'hey you should come do this thing with me tomorrow', it's literally that easy. Don't say 'want to go on a date sometime', have a time and place in mind. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 01:04 AM |
| 2 | How would you close this Okcupid convo?If OP's profile is, like, seriously tight as fuck, then he could get away with telling her to come out on the 4th message. Otherwise, you're right, there was virtually no dialogue exchanged here and if the girl didn't add the tongue-face thing on the end of the last message he wouldn't think he had a shot in hell. Don't dally too long because she seems like a lady lacking in attention span but yeah warm up the pot a little bit before you just reappear and tell her to come out somewhere. Women ha… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?at gf's bored posting dank memes | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?I haven't heard anyone say 'prolly' since MSN messenger | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 06:11 AM |
| 12 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?"if she smokes, she pokes" | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 06:09 AM |
| 11 | Could "What's your name?" be an effective opening line?to see if she is interested in learning yours If you walk up and ask her point blank if she's interested in knowing you, you're operating based on your looks alone. If your looks alone will get a girl to want to know you, then you can say 'flam flam zolla zoop' and it will be an effective opener | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 09:35 AM |
| 1 | It's ridiculous how much of a difference having hair makesNah it's probably because you casually say things like 'faggot' | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Just came back from a party a bit drunkYou made out with two girls in one night and you think you're doing something wrong? | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 05:54 PM |
| 9 | How sexual during a date?Make jokes about how big your dick is...? NEVER, unless you're goddamn hilarious. Nonfunny guys run the market on big dick jokes. She's heard piles of big dick jokes from guys she would never fuck, and you'll be one of them if your big dick joke isn't the best damn big dick joke ever. You're better off making small dick jokes, actually. It'd be more unexpected, makes you more vulnerable, and might actually create interest in just what your sausage monster looks like I generally don't get too voc… | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 07:50 PM |
| -8 | The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshit/r/itwasatiredandclicheresponse | /r/seduction | 18/09/14 05:19 AM |
| 4 | How to dress provacative while living at home after college?Are you trying to seduce your parents? | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 08:11 PM |
| 1 | What does she mean about energy?Energy is basically your heart rate. If you're a bouncing-off-the-walls type, that's high energy, whereas if you're more reserved and soft-spoken that's low energy. Think Carrot Top and James Bond. Neither is necessarily better than the other (er, except in this example where James Bond is obviously better than Carrot Top), it's about calibration. Approaching a low-energy mixed set with a high-energy frame could make you stand out amongst the boring-by-comparison guys in the set, or could make y… | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 07:44 AM |
| 2 | FR - Failed seducing Tinder single motherJust because you didn't fuck her the first day you met her doesn't mean you "failed". SNLs are as much about the woman's personality as it is about your ability. I'd say the date went pretty well and to not try to cast a negative light on it | /r/seduction | 03/08/14 12:15 AM |
| 1 | I hate the way I sound when I speak...any tips for having a calmer, deeper, more confident drawl?Ar-TUH oh man I really like where you're coming from but I CAN'T BLOODY STAND when people talk like this. It strikes me as such a valleygirl-thing. Oh my GOD-uh! It's like their voice keeps making sound-uh, after their mouth has stopped making words-uh! | /r/seduction | 31/05/14 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Are there any *actually* good free dating websites? Or are the only ones worth anything expensive? e.g. eHarmony.I mean, a lot of people are fucked up, but yeah OP is probably one of them | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Girls-Noob needs advice!Don't ever refer to her as a 'female' Do something a little more emotionally stimulating than watching a trial Realize that you guys are young and therefore insane and a lot of what is good for mature rational women will go right over a 17-year-old girl's head Don't get hung up on this one girl you're into, that way lies madness. Just try to be as fun with her as you can and if it doesn't work out the way you hoped don't dwell on it and go find someone else who actually digs you | /r/seduction | 20/05/14 01:41 PM |
| 4 | I don't have much to work with, should I start approaching now, or get my life taken care of first?Yeah sure, wait until you're in better shape. Then wait until you have a better place to live. Then wait until you have nicer clothes. Then wait until you have a dog named Sparky. Then wait until it's a Thursday and the date is a prime number. Then wait until you can come up with another few reasons to put this off. Or you can just start getting out of your comfort zone now. Maybe talking to girls with the intention of having sex with them is intimidating for you right now, and that's fine. How … | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 12:28 AM |
| 12 | I am a bad shit-test taker. Can someone explain to me "agree and amplify" for someone who seems to be completely clueless?You could intricately describe your plan to chop her up into cubes and make a stew out of her as long as you do it with a chuckle and a smile. Chuckle and a smile are the keys to the kingdom | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 07:06 PM |
| 12 | Simple question about smiling.K so there's a face you have to learn which you should basically put on at all times. It's the "I find something really funny but nobody else gets it" face. It's kind of a smile but more of an overall aloofness. Ever run into someone that just seems happy to be alive? That's the attitude you want to project. Think of some dumb funny thing that happened or you saw on reddit or something, something that makes you chuckle but you can't really explain. Now you're making the face! Now, when you walk … | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Develop a routine: 3 things I do every single day before work for Inner GameWhy do all these seddit folks sound like preachers Because seduction is, despite what its name implies, about bettering oneself and overcoming social issues. The women are just a happy side benefit. This post is directly about inner game, which is 100% not about women and 100% about yourself. So yeah, it might come off a bit preachy, but this is the kind of motivation some people need to get out of bed in the morning and make something of themselves | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 09:46 AM |
| 7 | What do you do when a girl says asks you to entertain her?Still treat it as a shit test because the result is the same. She wants you to dance, monkey. But you ain't no monkey. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 05:31 PM |
| 5 | An observation.That's kinda the whole point. Women are people, right? Success with women is about not treating them like some special unicorn and just being totally comfortable with them and being a funny charming guy at the same time | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Would this work as a good approach?Everything can work but just the fact alone that you posted this thread shows that you don't have the confidence in it to make it work. Stop trying to write a romance novel and just go talk to some of the other humans | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Embarrassing harsh rejections, post yours.Wait, what? She looked at your profile first for some reason, so you looked at hers, and she messaged you days later telling you to move along, citing your one photo of you at a golf course? That is almost psychotic | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 09:11 AM |
| 2 | PUA has destroyed my trust in women, but I still want to settle down with someoneYour shit just blew my mind–brain. In a, 'if we haven't, then what the fuck is the point' way | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 09:48 AM |
| 0 | Just say HI!I read this thinking 'oh god on what planet is it this easy'. HI works in places like this, elsewise, you need something to say AFTER 'hi' | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Newbie field report. How could I have done better?Surprisingly good for a first timer, but "You're very pretty. Are you single?" cringe This is a bad move for the following reasons. You don't know each other at all, aside from what each other looks like. You don't even know her name, or her interests, or hobbies, or anything, and you're making her decide right then and there if she wants to be hit on by you. If you're physically attractive, and I mean really physically attractive, then you might be able to make that work, but you ain't, so you … | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 12:48 AM |
| 2 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..What exactly do you mean by 'super into' someone? Someone you've hung out with a few times, or someone you're dating (as in, seeing regularly, kissing, preferably having sex)? If it's someone you're dating then it's okay to show your hand a little. There's not as much game to it because the hard part is over. If it's someone you've hung out with a few times and haven't kissed or anything, then holy shit calm yourself and certainly don't outwardly state that you really like them. It'll be clear b… | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 12:16 AM |
| 2 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..This is tough. When you actually like someone you naturally want things to work out well with them and sometimes they don't and it stinks. But the good news is that shit is fleeting and goes away pretty fast once you get your mind off of her. As it pertains to how you treat the girl, you can give a fuck and still maintain outcome independence. If it's someone you're trying to date, showing you can give a fuck is a good thing. Just don't smother them and don't act clingy, that's the unattractive … | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 11:41 PM |
| 6 | How can I start and keep a conversation on facebook chat?Remember that the dynamic is not like sending e-mails or that kind of paragraph-form message. It's a chat, so keep it like a conversation and type the way you speak. This is a hard point for some people, where grammar and punctuation doesn't have to be English-class perfect it just has to serve your tone. To that end, just start typing and go. Come at her with a story about something funny that happened today and be self-sufficiently hilarious. Once she gets invested in the conversation it's gam… | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Interesting situation. Need help asap!This is what I'd do. Just game the friend. Friend tells original girl how funny and charming you are. Now you have two for the price of one! Also, /r/askseddit is where to post questions about specific girls | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 11:54 PM |
| 82 | you and a lady are hooking up once every few weeks, and you go out to see a movie, you run into some of your mutual friends and they try to peg you as girlfriend and boyfriendAgree and amplify is how you get out of any awkward scenario. I've used "Girlfriend? We've been married for years! We've got our second on the way, where have you been?" numerous times, which opens up flirty avenues with the girl where now you can act like a married couple for the evening | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 11:40 AM |
| 20 | Asking girl if she would like to go on a date, she replies "sure, if you play your cards right". Shit test? Hoop? What is this.It's either a bad idea or a really good idea | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 12:15 PM |
| 20 | Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Areyou should say exactly that but with no words so don't say anything just smile and start groping | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 12:03 AM |
| 3 | How does one maintain rapport through text game in between dates?At the risk of sounding hail-technology-ish yeah it's bad, a lot of girls lately use text as primary method of communication and if you get close then not texting for a day is bizarre and distant and what's his problemy. It's one of those calibration things where you have to feel out how much each girl likes to text I've sent "I just saw an elderly Asian gentleman on the streetcar wearing an umbrella hat a la Bill Murray in Space Jam, and I'm not sure that he knows how rad he is" to girls I have… | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 10:54 PM |
| 2 | How does one maintain rapport through text game in between dates?Little one-liners and funny observations. You don't need to tell entire stories or have detailed conversations, just check in, drop some charm, and check out. Don't feel the need to respond to every message, or to respond right away. If a few days go by and they text you first, be somewhat enthusiastic with your response | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 08:44 PM |
| 24 | What do you guys respond to "tell me about yourself"?I support the notion that you should always have a plethora of things to be able to say about yourself, but sometimes the sheer vagueness of the question is what makes it so hard to answer. Did you see the video on the front page a few days back where a girl was asked to name a woman, any woman, for a dollar and she stumbled? If she was asked to name a woman singer or politician or whatever it'd be way easier to think of something. "Myself" is a vast topic, of which I am the world's foremost exp… | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 05:44 AM |
| 10 | How should i go about calling a girl out on her texting while with me?Or it'll become the most boring date in the history of dating and you'll both leave like 'well... bye!' | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How important is a sense of humor?This is good advice, I was going to say the same thing. I notice it in myself, when I go on a Family Guy bender I start talking like Peter or whatever the case is. Spend a bit of time watching some people be funny and you will start talking funny | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 01:34 PM |
| 2 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..I actually don't think the 'friend zone' is a myth per se but it's a concept that has become quite distorted from its original meaning. It's supposed to illustrate to guys the necessity of being bold and making your intentions clear early, so the girl considers you a romantic option instead of a new pal. The term was ruined by the Nice Guys who didn't learn a thing from it and use it as another way to blame women for all their failures ("I'm too nice women just friendzone me") but yeah, we're bo… | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 06:23 AM |
| 43 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..That feeling is called Outcome Independence and it's basically the key to a happy life. Date a girl when you find one you really want to date, as you've noticed that doesn't actually come up that often | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:11 AM |
| 10 | I came here because I wanted a girlfriend..Wat | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:09 AM |
| 1 | "So, are you any good at first kisses?"I don't see why not, it's the same function either way | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 05:37 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Later you'll cringe about moment briefly, before three girls text you wanting to hang out Saturday, know what I mean | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 08:05 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)A lot of people miss the "kiss me" vibe, or talk themselves out of it, which is why you'll hear that kind of talk a lot. Yes, a lot of this has to be filtered out and you should only take what is applicable. Keep in mind, when a good kiss is about to happen, both parties know in advance. Don't just lunge for the kiss, be flirty, grab her belt, pull her to you, that kind of thing, make it clear to her what's about to happen and if she doesn't want it she will end the chain early and it will actua… | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:49 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Woah woah son. That's a paddlin'. Why would a bunch of geeks on the internet know what that specific girl wants at that specific moment than you do? Don't ignore the vibe. The vibe is KEY. We just try to teach you how to read the vibes. "This PUA shit" didn't fuck up your potential dates, you did. | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:14 AM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)how we would be as a couple She says this in person? "We'll be a terrible couple if you keep not kissing me" and grab her by the god damn belt and pull her in. | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:09 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I know you feel like you need to verbally end things but you really don't. If she doesn't have the time then I wouldn't even bother mentioning it, just move on. Maybe she calls you in 3 weeks (asking why you haven't talked, you say "you seemed busy"), maybe she doesn't, your only job here is to shrug. | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:05 AM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Be cool as a goddamn cucumber. Girls get approached on the train all the time and their bitchshields are high because they're trapped there. If they've got headphones in, ignore. If you get them to start talking to you, sit back in your seat like you're not getting up any time soon. I try to stay positive but at this point you're looking for an IOI that she even wants you to keep talking to her, so getting a number deserves a shinier medal than F-closing a girl from a bar | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:00 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Never, through real life or anecdote or threads on reddit about this exact topic, have I heard of a girl getting naked with a guy, seeing his penis, laughing and walking out. | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 06:54 AM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I've never gotten it either but apparently some girls whip it out when they start showing affection towards someone. It's because they've had too many encounters with clingy guys who think having sex once enters them into a relationship. To which my response would be "damn girl, I don't even remember yo name" | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 06:46 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Think quality over quantity. Don't just give her a lot of eyes, give her the eyes. | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Had three dates with a girl, have some questionsSettle down on her for a sec because you're thinking too hard. I strongly recommend trying to meet a few other girls just to remind yourself that this girl does not require your all-or-nothing attention. Text her in a bit with something to actually say, make some humorous observation and like Moz said about 'we should go to such and such' as opposed to 'so, uh, wanna hang out soon?' | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 06:42 PM |
| 5 | If a girl keeps looking at/touching your hands during flirting, it's apparently a very big sign of "I want them in my pants!"."So much... Dexterity..." | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 02:47 AM |
| 1 | After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions?The point of your story isn't to tell the story. You're just interacting and making jokes and having fun and the story is the vehicle for that. So don't worry about making it through the story in one piece, maybe you stumble across a piece of the story that requires an explanation to fit in right, and that explanation ends up being a hilarious story of its own, and you're having a dynamic fluid conversation about nothing in particular. This is comfortable and not typical of a random bar dude hit… | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Phone ConversationCall it as you see it. If the conversation is forced and you're really just trying to meet up so you can run 'in person' game then get off quick. But, spending 25 minutes talking and laughing with you can make you really stick out in her brain and make her more excited to see you. Basically, end the conversation before a 'Soooo...' happens. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 06:09 PM |
| 12 | Tips for initiating kino when you're the one who has been approached?Inspect her outfit. It puts you in the position of control. Feel her shirt fabric with your finger and thumb, ask 'so, is this actually comfortable?' and if she isn't recoiling in horror move on to rings/bracelets, so now you're holding her hand. If she's still into it then say 'oh, but this BELT (grab the belt) has GOT to go' and she'll laugh and you pull her into you and then use your damn imagination for once, uncle angry dave isn't going to teach you how to smooch a missus | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What's your golden bullet(things you tell yourself/do) against oneitis and jealousy?spend 30 minutes on /r/creepyPMs and /r/cringepics and remind yourself you're better than these people. And if you're not, then it's a good time to start acting like it | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 07:52 AM |
| 12 | Favorite one-liners that always get a laughwhat | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 02:59 PM |
| 2 | What's your one rule?I believe that rule was that he doesn't kill people edit: also a good rule to have | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 03:23 PM |
| 29 | Field Report: Challenge given by a Redditor to open with a ridiculous line. Challenge accepted.Dude, dude. Even I kinda want to go home with you after reading that | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 03:26 AM |
| 18 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.He didn't make fun of her, he made a joke, she said something stupid, the people around them found it funny. What's he supposed to do, tell them all to stop laughing and respect the whoosh because he's trying to get laid? | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 08:36 PM |
| 3 | [kinda FR] Blew it big time yesterday"Listen, my friends are going and I should go with, but it's been great, if you give me your number I promise I'll only text 80 times a day" | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Are Clubs Really The Best Place to Pick Up Girls? It seems Impossible [FR]To put it simply I'm a big angry longhaired broke metal dude with greasy clothes and aggressive demeanour. I dislike club music, and the atmosphere, and the people found within. I have been to clubs and enjoyed myself but I'd rather find anything else to do with my time | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 07:59 PM |
| 11 | Are Clubs Really The Best Place to Pick Up Girls? It seems Impossible [FR]If a club isn't your jam (it certainly isn't mine) then don't try to force it. It seems clear that you were off your game because you were trying to act cool and confident in an environment you weren't comfortable in. Club game is highly nonverbal, because it's so damn loud, so confident body language is king and that's hard to fake if you're uncomfortable. So you're into the rock stuff? Go out to some local shows, with actual bands. Big shows are even harder than clubs but local shows are quiet… | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 03:52 PM |
| 4 | [FR] "So, have you ever messed around with lesbians before?"Surprised nobody's in here harping at you for deceiving and straightup lying to these girls. Good work seddit! Have some fun with it! I read everything spoken by you in the worst russian accent I could think of and it was entertaining as fuck | /r/seduction | 07/01/13 02:09 PM |
| 1 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?Nothing's a big deal if you frame correctly. You could murder a girl's parents in front of her and come out looking alright if you somehow frame it correctly | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 02:37 AM |
| 1 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?Sorry I was making a joke sorry if I offended you. Sorry | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 04:43 AM |
| 8 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?Because now they 'know' (feel like) you're running routines on them, and that you do this to other girls too. She suddenly stops being involved in a conversation with a human and starts being the subject of some guy's best attempt to wow the ladies. It's impersonal and makes it really hard to form a bond with the person | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 04:40 AM |
| 1 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?The Canada is strong in this one | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 04:14 AM |
| 7 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?pro tip, it's neither of these things | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 07:10 PM |
| 2 | So I went up to a lady state trooper...This is one of those 'I cant believe you even did that but if you had pulled it off you would have been a hero' stories | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 01:40 PM |
| 2 | What was your big breakthrough moment?For sure but I was doing 5x2h a week on a powerlifting routine. It was overkill | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 03:40 AM |
| 6 | What was your big breakthrough moment?I spent most of a year clocking all of my free hours either in a gym, online or out at a bar talking to women. Close to zero success, couple of numbers. I fucked up my knee doing something unrelated and couldn't walk for a few months, so I got out of my gym routine and got potbellied and jiggly again but with all this time back on my hands I got reinvested in my musical shit which I had been neglecting. Suddenly I had things to talk about that didn't involve lifting heavy things and drinking bee… | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 07:32 PM |
| 4 | What's the difference between a courtesy smile and a romantic interest smile?People subconsciously sense legitimate smiles/laughs and are inclined to smile/laugh along. So when you're actually laughing at something hilarious in your head and you smile at someone, they'll smile back. You're not smiling 'at them' you're just smiling and there's nothing creepy about someone enjoying their life Okay so walking around grinning like an idiot could be creepy. But you get the idea | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 03:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Text Game - Building attraction - Flake on her before she can on youBro you use words like 'bro' and 'faggot' I don't think you're really one to judge how one speaks I mean I didn't like the winky-tongue-sticky-outey emoticons either but chill dude | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 02:01 PM |
| 4 | What behaviours should I call her out on? This is current sticking point for me I think.I've gotten kicked out of places over that last maneuver | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Start using womens hairdressersTotally smart (though I can't apply it as I haven't cut my hair in 9 years) Can I add 7)? Better haircut! Girls are meticulous about this stuff and they can tell when something like that is good or not. Lasting effect after you leave the shop. Everybody listen to this guy | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 06:37 PM |
| 3 | If she's Awkward After Rejecting You, You Win!Disagreeing because this is seddit. We talk at great length about brief 3-second interactions analyzing body language and tonality as if it were the complete works of Shakespeare. OP clearly cares about his observation but that doesn't mean he's hung up on the woman | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 04:42 AM |
| 1 | I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome"Everybody thinks they're right about everything they do. That's why they do it | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 07:53 AM |
| 3 | How to make it clear you are interested in her sexually, without looking like a perv?"We should have sex" works surprisingly well | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 06:08 AM |
| 13 | How to talk about sex with girls?How have you not gotten laid yet with wisdom like this edit; phone-reddit told me you were OP. well now I feel dumb | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 04:03 PM |
| 38 | How to talk about sex with girls?Bad news when they say 'what about you' and OP is like uhhhh | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 08:54 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Proving a point: Sometimes it just doesn't matter what your opener is.One of those PUA-seminar guys (I forget which) had a part of his lesson where he would walk around picking up girls using the opener 'my elbow kinda hurts' and that's it. Total nonsense, say it like a boss and you're in | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Why You Should Resist Online DatingPrecisely this, I find it's a great atmosphere to just practice being funny when you otherwise would be alone (I go on from work all the time, and getting paid to talk to girls rules). The odds are really stacked for men, so you need to be clever and interesting and funny and really stand out in order to get any sort of response and that shit helps later when you're at a bar trying to carry on conversation with someone you just met. I find knowing that you're good at making interesting conversat… | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Resist Online DatingThis is a forum for men about women. Stereotypes and blanket statements fly off the walls around here and every thread is half-full of people not seeing the point and just criticizing word choice | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Resist Online Datingwe are united on the internet by sharing disdain for uniting with people on the internet! | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 02:21 PM |
| 1 | A line to use when you overdo neggingI like it but I don't like it, seems a little long and harsh, but I can see how it would work with the right tone. It's a good sentiment though. I'm kind of an asshole sometimes because I think I'm hilarious, so I've dealt with this quite a bit, and don't underestimate the hail mary of "you're right, that was fucked up, I'm sorry. What flavour cake do you prefer?" | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 11:12 AM |
| 0 | "Will you take a picture of us?" A shit test?"I'm not much of a photographer, but I can try to capture your good side" Not a shit test per se but you can gain or lose ground over it | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 10:54 AM |
| 3 | "Will you take a picture of us?" A shit test?really backfire in certain environments | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 10:51 AM |
| 7 | The one thought changed everything for me.If I may offer a counterpoint, A lot of lonely people are hung up on wanting 'a girlfriend'. They lay awake in bed thinking of this person, who does not actually exist, as they are creating it in their minds. This magical creature who can fill that hole that they have, and would have these traits, and watch these movies, cook this type of food, etc. This is bullshit because it's like getting really depressed over how they cancelled Seinfeld. Those new episodes might've been junk, you'll never kn… | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Working on my texting game, let me know how I'm doin'?One trick is to pre-empt whatever you don't want her to say to you ("no romantic undertones" or "I say no to dates" in this case) by saying it to HER. "We should grab drinks on Saturday. Don't bring your sassy romance into this though, I just want to have some laughs" she can't stay frigid after that, because you just blew HER out. You show up for the date as a smashing respectable gentleman and she'll be putty | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Working on my texting game, let me know how I'm doin'?Ding ding ding, don't show your cards til you can read her pokerface. If she starts dropping IOIs you can start incorporating these terms but it's really easy to scare off girls by mentioning things like romance and dating. You'd have better luck asking what she's wearing and telling her what you want to do to her | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 09:44 AM |
| 1 | I need Seddit's advice on how to build a profile on OKCFirst you have to love to talk about yourself. You can't have one of these 'uhhhhh hehehe i don really kno what to write... ask me ;)' profiles because that just doesn't work for fellas. Self-summary should not be hard if you have passion in your life Be unique and funny. Check out what other guys' profiles are like, pay attention when girls' profiles mention typical shit that every guy does (topless bathroom shots are apparently a thing) and don't do those things Don't just list off your favour… | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 03:28 PM |
| -1 | Simple opener, works 99% of the timeAw, your mother teach you that one? What's next hotshot, asking to buy her a drink? edit: that was mean. Let me be more constructive: "Hi" is not an opener, it's a pleasantry, you still have to have something to say after that "Hi". Furthermore, you get judged for offering this kind of non-advice because of the swathes of people whose romantic advice consists of 'be yourself' and 'just say hi' who feel like there's something inherently wrong with thinking about how humans interact. I wouldn't go… | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Being alpha and contextYeah, actually | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Girls sometimes tell me that I'm not exciting and I get the vibe that they think I'm boring. How do I become more exciting and interesting?I've got friends that would blow you under the table if you started talking about egyptian history | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 02:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with other guys who subtly treat you disrespectfully?Australia hate it when people call you mate That must be... brutal | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 01:56 PM |
| 2 | The defensive attitude women have when out is starting to wear so thin on me...If girls smiled at every guy that said something to them about their body their cheeks would eventually fall off | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you still sometimes feel that a particular girl is clearly "out of your league"?You had a friend just like me eh? Stereotyping indeed. No it's not about music, but I appreciate you at least asking the question before assuming the answer. Yes I talk to these types, and I've dated these types, enough to notice trends where compatibility is negligible and attraction stagnates. Is it that farfetched to say that in general, the catholic-raised quiet vegan lawyer girl who gets up at 5am every day to do yoga, wouldn't be very compatible with a potsmoking horny longhair who comes h… | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 01:44 PM |
| 3 | The defensive attitude women have when out is starting to wear so thin on me...Seriously if this were just some girl then this thread would be in askreddit with a long whiny post title and 1400 upvotes from foreveralone neckbeards This dude sounds like your annoying grade school friend who loses a game and claims he "wasn't even trying" | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 01:14 PM |
| 1 | The defensive attitude women have when out is starting to wear so thin on me...Slippery slope. It's true that being specific is good when giving compliments, but a lot of girls still get pretty defensive over it A good explanation I heard was that girls are way more interested in hearing compliments about things they did that day, like a haircut or shirt or makeup job, than they are about things they can't control (eyes fall into that category) | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it.Let's talk about inner game here for a second. Why are you coming to us with this opener that you've found to be 100% successful, and asking us if it's any good or not? If it's working then it's working dude, if I said that line I probably would get blown out. You don't have to bring this little piece of knowledge before the PUA Consul and get it approved by the elders before you're allowed to get laid saying it Change yer frame son. You're a talented charming motherfucker with a piece of wisdom… | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Do you still sometimes feel that a particular girl is clearly "out of your league"?I'm not fucking 3 new girls a week or anything, but I've got my harem and I've got the knowledge that if I meet somebody new, I'm charming and they'll like me. I could set up dates with different girls every night next week by sending a few texts. There's always room to improve but I'm pretty sure I'm doing something right | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Do you still sometimes feel that a particular girl is clearly "out of your league"?Lmao no man I said metal dude not whiny emo dude | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 02:18 AM |
| 148 | Do you still sometimes feel that a particular girl is clearly "out of your league"?I've found that there are certainly 'types' but to call them 'leagues' indicates that one's better than the other. Fuck em! Im a greasy metal dude who swears and reeks of cigarettes, I know there's a certain 'type' I'm after and a certain 'type' who are into guys like me (happily it's a tight venn diagram) but would I rather be some popped-collar club douche so that I could pick up that 'type' of girl? Fuck no As far as leagues within girls my 'type', fuck no I'm the best at what I do for miles … | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 02:54 PM |
| 11 | Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females?Love it. 'Why are you holding that pencil in your teeth' 'BECAUSE ITS MAKING ME HAPPY' | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 09:26 AM |
| 14 | Cold ApproachesYou can also use this as a joke way later, like in text game 'who is this again?' or when introducing her to people 'this is... sarah' and using a different name with everyone (which then can lead to a hilarious moment later when people get confused) just for the love of god make it clear to her that you do remember her name | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:55 AM |
| 5 | Cold ApproachesNerdy girl at the coffee shop with the bad haircut would probably love it though, as long as you can both sit through the first 6-10 minutes of awkward conversation | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:50 AM |
| 7 | Cold ApproachesIf direct is your deal then yeah this is pretty good, counteracts the "why is this guy talking to me?" and "is he just going to stay here?" bitch shields | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:48 AM |
| 8 | Cold Approachessee now what's the problem with this approach? I'd date the fuck out of someone who had the card ready and everything | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:47 AM |
| 27 | Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females?pretty much all of seduction is having excellent mental health and not having a skin disease | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females?I believe there's some physiological thing where smiling, dancing, and generally acting happy actually makes you feel happy when you're not | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females?Agreed on everything. Personal vouch for #2, I started responding with 'excellent' at work years ago and your interactions really get better and people remember you for always being 'excellent' | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Looks Don't Matterdonnie you're out of your element | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 03:24 AM |
| 13 | Looks Don't MatterGuys need to be more realistic with themselves about what makes women attractive to them. It's easy to say 'yeah she's hot, I'd fuck her' but if she's boring or annoying or generally has a shitty personality you're not going to want to clock the hours necessary to make that happen. Girls do the same thing, except they've all experienced an abundance of attractive men trying to get in their pants and have more of an understanding that the personality is what's really interesting. Remember, after … | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 11:42 PM |
| 4 | Looks Don't Matterhttp://www.lab1663.net/images/yoda_why_you_fail.jpg | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Negs only work if you're funny.Well yeah. If you're good at attracting women then you'll attract women. If you're not then you're going to get blown out a few times. My point was that girls literally know the word 'neg' and what it means. They've become aware that insecure men will try to insult them as a means of lowering their value, which has raised the bitch-shield. This makes it even harder to get a good neg through and ups the likelihood that you can get called out on specifically 'negging' and not just being an asshole… | /r/seduction | 07/11/12 09:14 AM |
| 1 | First date today, forgot her name, what's my best plan of action?This is amazing. I use this shit ALL the time, but not just to remember people's names. If a joke doesn't land properly and the girl gets a bit pissed you can clear the whole situation by comically overreacting and saying 'okay, that was bad, let's try this again- Hi, my name is angry_dave' with a handshake, and they chuckle and will generally take it from there. Works with girls you just met or girls you've known for years | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 06:07 PM |
| 1 | First date today, forgot her name, what's my best plan of action?seriously doesn't anybody hang out with people who aren't dicks | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Text/phone game: Airplane mode is your friendYeah, go to a sub like r/seduction and learn up, because that's what a sub like that is for | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 05:45 PM |
| 8 | Negs only work if you're funny.The jig's up on the negging. Too many dudes latched onto the concept and did exactly what you say (I went a bit overboard at first too but learned quick) and now girls are wise to the game. They know what a 'neg' is and can immediately identify when some idiot comes up and tries to neg. So yeah, everyone back off and just be cool for a bit, the ladies are getting pissed | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 05:44 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]What that thread was full of was great examples of people using the concepts taught here badly. How many moves that the girls mentioned sounded familiar? There was negging, DHVs, DLVs, qualifiers, disqualifiers, the whole gamut, but they were received badly, whether it be due to the guy's delivery or the girl's receptiveness to that approach. THIS IS A HUGE LESSON. Again it rings true that you can say anything you want, as long as you say it well. You need to constantly calibrate yourself and be… | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?what | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 02:32 AM |
| 5 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?With me it was actually when I stopped going to the gym. I injured my knee (doing something else, not lifting) and couldn't walk properly for a few months so I got out of the routine, and once I stopped spending 2h a day in a room being sweaty, I had a lot of free time to do other things with my life- Other things that make for way better conversation and are more interesting and relatable than telling girls you spend all your free time lifting weights. Fitness is important and I long to get bac… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 05:53 PM |
| 8 | I've heard "building and breaking rapport" a lot lately, can anyone elaborate/explain?Building rapport is simple enough, you relate to them on common ground and become friends. Breaking rapport is about separating you from the pack, being the only guy that hasn't just 'oh my god you love this inconsequential product? ME TOO!!' to everything she's said. If she's the type of woman who is used to having things handed to her, intentionally disagreeing can be one of the hotter things you can do | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Field tested opener that's been working great for me!You make a good point for sure, and 'Hi' SHOULD be all you need, but again, what do you say after that? Literally right after 'Hi'. Say it's a girl on a bench or something. I'm asking, not trying to make a point | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Field tested opener that's been working great for me!The second one. "It's not lying, it's flirting" comes to mind. Girls like to flirt too- and there should be way more elements to your game than your opener for her to keep in her memory. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Field tested opener that's been working great for me!Okay hotshot, what do you say after she says 'Hi' back? 'How are you?' Got any other tricks up your sleeve, Fabio? The point of an opener (canned or otherwise) is to get around the shield everyone has up that prevents them from having a normal conversation with a stranger. Walking up and saying 'Hi' for no reason triggers the defenses and she'll be so skeptical that you don't have much of a shot at having a real interaction. It might feel forced to walk up to somebody and drop an entire situatio… | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Field tested opener that's been working great for me!only if you break rule 2: don't be unattractive | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 10:30 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Passing shit tests will get you laid.You wouldn't take that shit from a stranger, so why take it from a stranger with a vagina? Buh-buh-buh-BINGO Girls are totally attuned to picking up on when a guy is doing something for no other reason than that they're a girl, and it's a pathetic behaviour all around. This is why offering your seat to a perfectly-capable girl on the bus, or walking up to a pretty girl and offering to buy her a drink never gets you laid | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 10:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Seducing an Alpha Turkish girl."executive moustache decisions" | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 06:57 PM |
| 3 | To be honest whenever I meet Alpha guys they annoy me because I don't like how they just seem rude and douche-y to me. Is there any way to get over this?Fuck yeah bro | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 05:22 PM |
| 4 | To be honest whenever I meet Alpha guys they annoy me because I don't like how they just seem rude and douche-y to me. Is there any way to get over this?Took me a long time to learn that you don't ALWAYS have to call other people out on their bullshit, particularly if the overall goal is to make friends with and/or fuck these people | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being odd?'lighten up, here's a joke about nukes'? This is what I'm saying man, I'm as pessimistic as you are and I'm sick of all these damn humans running around and could really go for watching the entire world get obliterated, but everything you've posted in this thread is less about you or your girls and more about this animosity you have for everyone else. Fuck 'em, they ARE stupid, you should never have to wonder if speaking properly and having well-developed opinions is a bad thing. Take that brain… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with being odd?Dude, you're cool, but you seem to be harboring some serious resentment for the people around you. You have your entire life to realise that most people around you are barely functional as human beings and if you start focusing so heavily on it at that age you're going to end up with a lot of rage when you really get out into the world. I know the internet is a safe place to vent and I do it all the time, but understand that if this is how you talk about people, then people will see YOU as the s… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 02:49 AM |
| -2 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"So what if it is? So what if it were real? It's not relevant to us if this man is getting laid or not, and the underlying lesson is solid. When someone starts a joke with "a priest and a rabbi walk into a bar", do you call them a liar or just enjoy the joke? | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:56 PM |
| 1 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"How.... how? How do you know how horny your family members are? And how do you find out if a girl has a 'wild' mom? It's not very often a post in seddit actually astounds me | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Never buy her a drinkI usually laugh like she said something preposterous, like "Hahaha why would I do that? We're not even married!" If she presses it, you can ask "do you deserve it?" and suddenly she has to qualify herself to you, to which you can say something like "good points but I'm not sold. Maybe if you got me a drink I'd feel more generous" | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Girl starts to talk about another guy, what do I do in this type of situation?I really like the point you're making here. A lot of people waste their brain fantasizing about people that don't exist and are just ideas pieced together, like photoshopping a car and then being sad that you can't have it. It's possible that there's someone out there that fits the description, but spending all day wishing for that person to come along is plain depressing | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl starts to talk about another guy, what do I do in this type of situation?Meh, people suggest a lot of things, and like anything else in this sub you have to take it all with a grain of salt, apply it to your own life and see what works and what doesn't. Personally, I remember that idea "ehh I'll just slowly creep my hand onto her body and hope she doesn't pull away" from my AFC days so I identify it as an uncomfortable error, and if I feel awkward then it's a guarantee that she feels way more awkward | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 09:48 PM |
| 6 | Girl starts to talk about another guy, what do I do in this type of situation?You were golden at first, the hand-on-the-thigh "AND THEN HE SAID THIS!" is a great way to get some kino in but don't keep going back for it. Holding it for a longer and longer period isn't escalation and she can hear your brain going "holy shit I can't believe she's letting me do this!". If she didn't flinch when you put your hand on her thigh, then that's all you need ot know, focus on real escalation. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm Giving Away My Baby.I think the line you wrote, whether you intend it to or not, would convey bragging and is generally pretty cheesy. Your phone can be a conversational device but it has to be something a bit more unique or funny than "I bought this new toy" or "this bus app sucks" | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 09:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm Giving Away My Baby.Doesn't everyone though? When was the last time you said 'mm, that chick is so boring, I totally want to plow her brains out' | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm Giving Away My Baby.The bus is a tricky scenario because girls have their defenses up as they're trapped in a vessel with leery guys. I think the best way to not immediately come off creepy is to have the 'I'm absolutely bursting over this and need to tell somebody' vibe. This could be over something simple like the lady in front's funny hat, theres nothing wrong with seeming easily exciteable (a lot of girls are, and find that sort of personality comforting) | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm Giving Away My Baby.Don't reach for the phone, man! Especially not to randomly show her a simple app that most people with smartphones that take the bus have and playing up that you're a balla with your brand new iphone is just plain douchey | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 05:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm Giving Away My Baby.Actually very apt way to indicate why sometimes you can just walk up and say anything and if you're smug enough it will get you where you want to go | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 05:42 PM |
| 1 | I'm Giving Away My Baby.Disagree. Never be bored. The old saw "you're only bored if you're boring" is pretty accurate. You should be so damn excited about something that she can't help but want to know what the buzz is about | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 05:25 PM |
| 6 | [FR] (kindof) Went out tonight, but it didn't feel like the girls were interested.This is a big deal. Picking up girls isn't about the girl, it's about you. If you're out and genuinely enjoying yourself, talking to everyone, sharing laughs, being jovial, the girls come up on their own because they want in on whatever's so exciting | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 03:53 AM |
| 3 | AA is nothing. Escalation Anxiety is what needs to be overcome. Here's, IMO, how.Caring less means your expectations are lower, which means you CAN'T fuck up. This is not a bad mindset to have | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 08:20 AM |
| 61 | BallsOn second thought, let's not do this | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 06:20 PM |
| 45 | BallsHe's talking about having a little bit of Monica in your life | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 06:06 PM |
| 72 | BallsFlirting should feel like breathing. Absolutely! If I may quote Lou Bega, "to me flirting is just like a sport... now let me bring in the trumpet" | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:34 PM |
| 2 | To all of the 13-16yr olds on seddit.NLP is based on bringing back feelings the girl has felt in the past (feelings of love, horniness, whatever) and inserting yourself into these memories. Ross Jeffries himself admits that the methods wouldn't work (on a technical level) on someone that hasn't experienced these before | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:28 PM |
| 1 | To all of the 13-16yr olds on seddit.Any advice on how to be better with women has to be adapted to your own life. A lot of club game doesn't apply to me because I don't go to clubs. Fashion tips are irrelevant because metal shows aren't the place to worry about how your shirts are layered or if your belt matches your shoes (it's all black anyway). So you learn what the concept is trying to teach you, apply what you can, and discard the rest. 15-year-old girls may be a category, but success doesn't come from compartmentalizing your… | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:14 PM |
| 12 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)Not if you're watching TV and she decides to rip your pants off 'he raped me by being so dashedly handsome!' | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 08:21 AM |
| 1 | I've never been in this position...I hate to be that guy but what are the chances your buddy is fucking with you? | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Met a Girl in Canada, how do I keep her attracted to me?sorry but you can't say broskie in Canada. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Met a Girl in Canada, how do I keep her attracted to me?Many Canadian males have great success with bacon wrapping | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 06:44 AM |
| 7 | Is being honest okay?Same for the guy. He probably woke up in the morning and felt like a dick | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 06:37 AM |
| 36 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)What more do you need to know? Girl says no, you stop everything and do something else. When she asks why say it's cool but it's just a turnoff. Suddenly women are naked | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 06:32 AM |
| 9 | Why Looks Don't MatterExcept there isnt a standardized definition on what is considered 'attractive'. People cant even agree with themselves over it. You might hate the tomboy look on a girl, until you meet one that rocks it so hard you cant not feel attracted. That girl never said 'im not attractive. guys dont like me because I don't look like Jessica Alba'. She embraces herself, and is so happy doing so it draws you in with her. You can exude that too, but it starts with yourself. I believe this is what the OP was … | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Negative, we dated for bout 2.5 months with plenty of oral and crotch-rubbing-together-ing, just never actually stuck it in because chick was fucked | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?THAT is intense | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 09:03 AM |
| 22 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?I got it from a girl i dated for 2 months but didnt have sex with. Shitty deal, right? Short end of both sticks. I was pissed for a while (after we broke up and i got some much-needed fucking done, new girl tells me shes got it and i gave it to her, i say wtf call old girl, her response '...i didnt think youd get it!' made me see red) and I felt the shame and as i was just getting rolling on the seduction thing, was depressed as hell imagining my sex life was going down the tubes. Life moved on,… | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 08:06 AM |
| 4 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?As if there wasnt enough fucking wrong with that practice now theyre killing the babies after giving them herpes blowjobs | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 07:53 AM |
| 15 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?public region Jesus man, put that shit away, youre in public | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 07:47 AM |
| 10 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Maybe silly is the wrong word, but herpes really isnt as big of a deal as its made out to be. Burning your hand sucks worse for longer and happens much more frequently than outbreaks occur. It's gross because it IS an STI but the bigger problem for soneone who has it is the stigma and how that affects you personally (see examples everywhere in this thread of people thinking a localised rash is the worst thing to happen in their life) | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Complex situation, need advanced tips.This seems simple. Invite her out alone? | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Texting questionOveranalyzing. 'What if she DOESNT want to fuck?' is a pointless question. Chick just sent you a pic of her crotch, roll with it! ...but be COOL about rolling with it. Dont say HUBBA HUBBA WAN2 FUK, say something more casual but lewd. "Looks like you missed a spot shaving, or are you going for a european thing lately?" Will make her blush and suddenly youre talking about her vagina | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 01:42 PM |
| 17 | Girls talking about other guys in front of youThis is my response every time, made into a joke. "Hmm, yeah hes pretty hot, but check out his friend, yowza! I should set you up with them" blows a chick's mind so hard she'll forget who she's talking about. Don't EVER compare yourself to these guys, and dont make it seem like youre taking it personally. When youre talking to a girl, you dont stop being attracted to other girls, so dont get mad when they do it too | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 01:36 PM |
| 73 | I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMA"What else do you like about me?" A+, can be used to counter pretty much any shit-test insult. Never read your work, but I already like your style | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 03:12 AM |
| -1 | "Aww, you're so sweet/cute!" Seddit, how do I react to this?This is also awesome and lets you pull the schtick without having to explain to everyone on the street and in the bar why you're wearing a cape | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 03:48 PM |
| -5 | "Aww, you're so sweet/cute!" Seddit, how do I react to this?I fuckin love this. Get a shirt made with a superman-esque 'DD' logo (cape too if youre really into the idea) and rock this image! I wish i could drive (and thus be designated to do so at some point) so I could try this | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 03:04 PM |
| 1 | 'You look like you could kill someone'I actually really like this post because it shows that all these 'PUA' tricks (the negging, attempts at DHVs, forced kino) that these guys she describes are using really don't work if the person who's trying them is inherently creepy. You did what was natural to you and she could see that. If you tried these lines or tricks ('you should smile more' and then lose at an arm wrestle? BASIC SHIT) it would come off like the forced routine that it is This is why people always say it comes down to 'bei… | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Giving your number vs. getting their number. Pros and cons?"I know! I keep a small rectangular device with buttons on it in my pocket most of the time. When I press certain buttons in a certain order, I can talk with anyone in the world! And if they have a similar device they can press their buttons in a different order and talk to me. It's really something" Used it (or something like it) many times and it's never failed me. They either ask for my number or give me theirs. But yeah the important thing to remember is that it's more important that they ge… | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Self-Deprecating Humor - Yay or Nay?I'm of the mind that when you're trying to impress someone you just met, steer entirely clear of jokes designed to insult others. If you just met someone and saw them being a bitch to all their friends, you wouldn't want to stick around either. However there are ways to have fun at someone's expense (including yourself) without coming off this way, and done well they can definitely help your comfort levels Being able to make fun of yourself is important. If you make an error, say something incor… | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 09:04 AM |
| 4 | 5 cures for approach anxietyFor real I would blow the guy to find out what's wrong with the peas. The last paragraph validated the entire post | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 06:28 PM |
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