Draegur Archive

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2	Female Dating Strategy Thank you for making my day. Replies like yours are my favorite thing on reddit \<sup>_\</sup>^ As for how I came to where I am, it's been a loooooooong road and I only remember a few of the signposts: Reading Robert A. Heinlein's "The Moon is a Harsh Mistress" challenged my patriarchal monogamist upbringing by illustrating a society where humans had to get over those traits in order to survive, and presented a scenario far more egalitarian than I was ever taught. This TED Talk "Are we sexual om…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:27 PM
8	My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement? I'm 35, definitely carrying a densely-packed griefcase, and it certainly is the biggest reason I've metaphorically taken myself off the shelves of the relationship market. If my plate is already full trying to take care of myself and my ailing parents, attempting to become yet one more person's biggest source of emotional support would be frankly irresponsible, not just to me but to them as well. But then again I am but one individual. My situation is anecdote, not necessarily data. At best, thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 06:06 AM
2	Female Dating Strategy That is a very kind message and I appreciate it greatly - I also really enjoy the metaphor you employed. But I think the root of the problem is that I was using terms that were too harsh at the time while I was coming to grips with some things. Your metaphor of describing relationships in terms of housing is also useful in that it gives me room to better explain where I'm at: Acquiring a house is an astonishingly overwhelming responsibility. Not only would I have to worry about a mortgage, there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 01:40 AM
1	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? And then, because nobody has any money left to spend, all the businesses that refuse to hire anyone can go fucking die too :D	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 02:55 AM
21	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? Indeed. I believe you're right; we'll just develop coping strategies. We'll probably form parasocial relationships between one another's digital simulacra. By that, I mean: people will instead invest their attentions into the fictional agents they've created to represent themselves in social media, and the perceived relationships their fictional agents appear to have with other fictional agents. Your accounts on twitter, insta, tiktok, reddit, youtube, and especially facebook will become role pl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 08:38 AM
5	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? "Where are you from? No, where are 'your people' really from?" Ugh. Puuuuke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 08:28 AM
19	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? A baby bust. The birth rate is going to dip even further below the sustainable replacement threshold than it is already. The population will shrink as boomers and Gen-X'ers die off. There's going to be a massive worker shortage. The thing is, as far as how millennials will "respond" to these outcomes... I believe we simply won't. "Baby bust? Literally the exact opposite of a baby boom? First of all: HA HA, FUCK the baby boomers. We are literally undoing EVERYTHING they ever stood for. Rot In Pie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 08:21 AM
6	CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men. First, I appreciate that your reply sounds very patient, because I was going for a humorous tone even though the content was quite irreverant. You would have been justified to get snippy at me, and I respect that you didn't. So I'm going to do my best to give you as complete and reasoned-out reply as I can. Now, the actual response: I'll admit that "sounding intellectual" is not actually an inherent property of the term "reductionist" itself. The connotation arises, instead, from people who use …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 08:06 AM
0	CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men. whoof. Well, it sounds like what he picked up on within what you actually did write was: "...men feeling good about themselves relies on oppressing women, ..." And it's necessary to highlight that exact section of verbiage, because even though you DID preface the phrase with an "If" to make it conditional, that conditionality doesn't relevantly influence the remainder of your statement and therefore comes off as weasel-wordy, a phrasing that one would use if one wanted others to just accept one'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 06:49 AM
5	CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men. You clearly have a tendency to use vapid and empty intellectual-sounding buzzwords like "reductionist" :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 06:31 AM
4	Female Dating Strategy I'm proud of them. It's beautiful to see. I'm also worried for them, because sometimes unhealthy factors can 'force' people together and it would be terribly sad if they wound up abusing one another out of some misguided implication that they "have to", thrust upon them by traditions or even their own irrational animal impulses. If I try to imagine a scenario where I'm cuddling someone, my empathy puts me in this hypothetical individual's shoes and forces me to ask myself if they're okay, if the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 04:52 AM
8	Female Dating Strategy Those who still assume they were invited are stuck pounding on the door angry that no one is letting them in. Meanwhile, I've walked away and found other places I'd like to go. There are no more locked doors blocking me. I'm not punishing myself. I have forgiven myself, and I am no longer on the hook. They are trapped, and I am not. Therefore, I am free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 03:59 AM
3	Female Dating Strategy Oh. I don’t think we owe each other nothing. I think that attitude is why incels and terrorists are killing us. People deserve dignity and respect and social connection. An interesting angle, and I appreciate it, because it raises questions worthy of discussion. I think I can agree with you that bad things happen when people don't receive a basic modicum of dignity, respect, and social connection. But the reason I got to my conclusion is that I sort of flipped the causality around. Yes, there IS…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 03:49 AM
2	Female Dating Strategy I appreciate that, and I'm grateful to see you're looking out for others as you are. Thank you for stepping up to be a better example of humanity. But let me reassure you, I'm okay! "No value" is only referring to the context of the male gender role in the committed relationship market. People do still want me around in the other areas of my life; I merely won't be wasting anyone's time in the romantic arena.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 01:37 AM
2	Female Dating Strategy Honestly, unironically, it strikes me as the most efficient path because it just removes SO MUCH friction and skips a TON of drama. No conflict, no bullshit, no games. We're humans who owe each other nothing. The air is clear. It actually is liberating. Sometimes it feels like "I'm a <this> who fucks <that>" is all some people care about. It's almost as though MAYBE if everyone realized that their whole freaking personality is not defined by who they want to have sex with, they would be a lot le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 01:25 AM
1	If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either. Well TRPers have a reputation for hypocrisy (going from "women are too prudish" to "women are whores" in the same breath for instance) so... I can't really take their anecdotes without an entire shaker of salt. Have a TTS bot spout random phrases for long enough and some of those phrases may even happen to sound as though they describe reality; it doesn't make for a reliable source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 09:48 AM
1	Q4M: Would you have sex with an escort that someone else paid for? ... nope. I'd feel gross about it. Even if she were the one who approached me and indicated that she'd been paid in advance, the only response I conceive of having is, "well, you really don't have to. If there's literally anything else you'd rather do, please by all means go on ahead." If she insists to spend the time with me, all that will happen is we hang out. Let's go ONE MORE "if" further. If she's dead set on initiating physical contact for some reason, I dunno let's assume work ethic or s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 09:35 AM
2	Q4M: Would you leave your girlfriend if you could have casual sex elsewhere? My mind went all over the place with hypothetical conditions, but I realized I'm getting away from your question. I'll try to keep it simple: No, I would not leave my partner for casual sex no matter how 'available' it is. Losing a partner is too great a cost, full stop. If my partner told me she did not want to be romantically involved anymore, it would be a catastrophic loss and I would have a difficult time continuing to associate with her. Let me pose at least one more situation though: If m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 09:25 AM
1	If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either. ... shouldn't the consquences and causes of that sense of entitlement both be bigger concerns than the entitlement itself? The reason the false entitlement exists is because of vestigial (maladaptive, even) traditions still being taught to boys. The consequences of those pathological traditions are aggressive / competitive / violent behavioral conditioning that end up manifesting, in ways that should surprise absolutely no one, aggression and violence! Like, no shit this is how someone lashes ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 09:01 AM
2	If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either. to you That right there illustrates the inherently subjective nature of tastes and preferences. To one person 5'8" is average. To another, it might be tall. To another, it might be short. All in all, I wish people didn't care about height at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 08:50 AM
1	If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either. but... why would you hate yourself for being bisexual? It's always been my view that bisexuality is awesome. It maximizes for potential relationship canditates. Personally, I wish I were bi... I can't change it, it's not a choice, but I am happy for the people who are and I... I really ... I really wish you hadn't felt so bad about it, i know you didn't get to choose to feel that way, it just stings that it sounds like nobody was there to tell you you're valid and worthwhile and appreciated. I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 08:43 AM
1	If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either. It doesn't sound like they were justifying socially destructive behaviors, but merely proposing an explanation for WHY this phenomenon occurs; an explanation which happens to fall EXTREMELY short of accurate. Comparing loneliness in adulthood to childhood neglect is definitely flawed, certainly, but I do see why they'd mistakenly make such a conjecture. Proverbially speaking, they're the same "direction", but it is NOT AT ALL the same "magnitude". A child being neglected is an example of abuse b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 08:33 AM
38	Female Dating Strategy I posted this elsewhere, but I feel like this is speaking to the exact same conclusion I eventually came to: I've somewhat embraced the "no value male" identity it sounds sad, but, reality does not owe us gratification. Radical acceptance has zero-summed it for me. I didn't "lose" anything, I just ... recognized what I never had. And now I've moved on. It honestly took a load of stress off my shoulders. Just kinda' wrote myself off as a loss in the reproductive market and now I'm simply no longe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 07:59 AM
1	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. Ooh I didn't think to look for such a subreddit but I'm glad you shared it, thank you!	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 06:22 AM
4	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. ... that's a much more succinct way of putting it than I did, definitely! XD	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 05:14 AM
0	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. hey thanks for the feedback! What you wrote is valid! This is definitely a thing that is indeed happening! I think the reason it's happening, though, is because of the niche that biology and statistical mechanics created, which "female" specimens of a species fill: In nature, for better or for worse, female specimens are burdened with greater opportunity costs, such as: when a male selects a partner, it takes a couple minutes. When a female selects a partner, it ties them up for the whole gestat…	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 05:13 AM
5	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. If by that you mean "you need to not provoke people's disapproval", then sure, but unless they're going out of their way to disrupt your life their opinion doesn't really matter. At my job, for instance, I'm filling a niche. I'm not wowing anybody right now except with my willingness to be here on the days, and at the times, that nobody else wants (weekend graveyard shift). I'm not ingratiating myself; I'm merely intercepting inconvenience that others don't want to handle and otherwise keeping m…	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 04:59 AM
30	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. this is a practical demonstration of the acronym attached to the term "SIMP" Sucker (who) Idolizes Mediocre Pussy Anyone who would idolize someone so selfish yet so lacking self-awareness would be a sucker.	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 04:19 AM
2	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. hey now no need to kinkshame /s	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 04:18 AM
12	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. At first I thought you were about to say "Them being shitty people doesn't mean you can assume they're men." ngl i'm just a teensy bit disappointed XD	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 04:17 AM
11	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. The problem will sort itself out. I'm looking at it in economic terms. The behaviors motivated by their community artificially increase scarcity by gatekeeping companionship behind a bunch of ultimatums and other arbitrary conditions, but this is a bubble. There will be a 'market correction'. Perhaps it's morbid curiosity but I'd love to see an outcome where men adopt and internalize the "low value male" or "no value male" identity. If partners dry up, the bubble will burst. Getting it over with…	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 04:07 AM
4	Thots don't understand the meaning of independence. i dunno, i kinda embraced the "no value male" identity it sounds sad, but, reality does not owe us gratification. Radical acceptance has zero-summed it for me. I didn't "lose" anything, I just ... recognized what I never had. And now I've moved on. It honestly took a load of stress off my shoulders. Just kinda' wrote myself off as a loss in the reproductive market and now I'm simply no longer concerning myself with the subject. I'm free. I'm free to focus on other things. If reproduction was the…	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/03/21 02:57 AM
3	You should support me because I am also XX Toxic femininity.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/12/20 04:15 PM
1	You should support me because I am also XX I think girls who are xy need the support more anyway.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/12/20 04:13 PM
3	Just witnessed murder on this Twitter thread. That's because they think she's in their league. Probably because she is...?	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/12/20 07:04 PM
1	How to destroy a feminist in 2 minutes personally i think the terms "male privilege", "toxic masculinity", and "patriarchy" are sabotage, planted by people who want to blind us to what's really going on by giving us the same old false dichotomy horse shit to bicker over. it just so happens, though, that those responsible for all that shit turned out to be the most aggressive, most violent, most manipulative, most competitive, least empathetic individuals. Could these individuals be women? It's certainly possible that some of them are…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/07/20 04:24 PM
2	How to destroy a feminist in 2 minutes The set of traditions that treat men as expendable pawns good for nothing but toiling and dying is the same one that treats women like livestock good for nothing but breeding and housekeeping. You can call it something else if the word "patriarchy" triggers you. But it's still there, forcing everyone into categorized boxes and making you miserable. The set of traits comprising competition, aggression, dominance, and territorialism are a boot, stamping on your face, and your father's, and your gr…	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/07/20 09:20 AM
1	Thot p-a-t-r-o-l-l-e-d That kind of PERSON has a bunch of suckers lined up to leech off of. Their crotch configuration has little to do with it. If a dude said what the person in the picture did, he'd be a thot too.	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/05/20 10:40 AM
0	Just curious! oh boy there are several things to unpack here. Being considered too feeble and soft to be any good as soldiers by your own civilization's government and leadership isn't an 'advantage'. The policy that enables this entire system to exist in the first place is shitty and nobody should have to be drafted ever in the first place, If such an infrastructure must exist, though, it should draw male and female citizens equally. There hasn't even been a draft in place since the boomers were teenagers in…	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/01/20 06:05 AM
1	So uhhh LGBT rights, right? Excuse you my hand identifies as female	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/12/19 08:14 AM
1	He has a very special name Nope, fucker still wants sex, but will now coincidentally fire you for "failing to meet professional expectations" or some other bullshit fuckery excuse if you don't happen to commit.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/12/19 03:10 AM
-6	Supporting women It's not a dude thing, It's not a chick thing, Closing the fucking toilet lid is a SMART THING. Prevents aerosolizing of contaminants Reduces evaporative loss of water Blocks unintended foreign objects from falling in A distant extra bonus is that now everybody has equal responsibility.	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/11/19 05:17 AM
1	Straight women should be jailed at 18 and take an exam of being a decent human being to get out. -That wouldn't sound right for 40k people now, would it? It's called public school	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 02:35 AM
1	DenieD He was never the woman they married. The woman they married was an act, a ghost, a mirage... a dude's desperate attempt to convince himself that the girl body around him actually belonged. Except in OP's example, she's lying about being trans just to fuck with someone who is supposed to be able to trust her, which is a pretty fucking hideous thing to do so she should get to packing those bags sooner rather than later.	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/07/19 03:54 PM
0	DenieD "While this does not in any way diminish your value as a person, I'm sure you understand that sexual orientation is not a choice; I did not choose to possess a predisposition for attraction to feminine reproductive characteristics, it is simply my genes. And while I will be proud to support you in your transition, I'm afraid it would be dishonest and unfair to us both for me to attempt to 'pretend' as though I'm attracted to a man. It is no one's fault that I would not be a good fit as a romanti…	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/07/19 03:44 PM
0	w̵̛̛̳̥̺̫̟͍͈͚͓̤̝̒̄̇̂̄̽̚͜͝ͅh̴̢̲͉̽͗͂a̵̪̝̯͆͂̄̈́̾̿̓̊͝t̴̝͚̠̱͍̩̤͈̹̤̻̻̽̅͛̈̋͐̉̍̓̀͝ Hitting people is bad no matter what the context. Yes, even if "they started it". Yes, even if it's a dude. Retaliation creates escalation.	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/03/19 05:09 AM
9	"Check Your Privilege" MGTOW means pre-emptively accommodating women's retroactive revocations of consent by declining to engage in the first place. Men, Going Their Own Way. Y'know?	/r/MGTOW	30/01/18 01:31 PM
1	She wants rights Yeah, it kind of does sound reminiscent of /r/im14andthisisdeep material	/r/PussyPassDenied	16/09/16 05:43 AM
1	Bodycam Footage Exonerates an Officer Accused of Groping a Woman During a Traffic Stop....Now She's Facing False Report Charges Fuck yeah! NICE! The beautiful thing about body cams is they actually give us a REAL source of schadenfreude.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/11/15 05:02 AM
0	Replacing "men" with "Jews" in feminist Anita Sarkeesian's tweets is quite revealing... waitwaitwait. Okay I thought you made an excellent point here, and I was about to link this image somewhere, but jews aren't what the SJWs bundle with their "oppression axis of evil", but rather it would be whites. And sadly, this whole argument really loses momentum when it reads: "There's no such thing as racism against whites. That's because racism is prejudice + power. Whites are the dominant race with power in society." I'm not saying this would be ethically right, or that I like it. It is …	/r/MensRights	26/01/15 04:33 PM
-14	Train a society of men that the only acceptable option is to be "the nice guy". But.. If they notice that it works against them in dating that must mean they only want sex. So berate and chastise them You are making the assumption that I think either side here is right. How can I adopt either side when both groups of you people hate so much?	/r/MensRights	17/05/13 01:45 PM
-13	Train a society of men that the only acceptable option is to be "the nice guy". But.. If they notice that it works against them in dating that must mean they only want sex. So berate and chastise them ... Actually that might be it. Typical. Some jerk posing as a woman online in the hopes he snags a 'hot lesbian' or some shit. This shit is why I choose to not even make my gender an issue when I chat with someone under non-rp circumstances. When I'm out of character, they don't need to know one damned thing about my personal life or they might metagame. The claim of misandry was likely just a cover story to keep me from outing them as male. I don't think I've ever 'outed' someone, but I can't c…	/r/MensRights	17/05/13 01:41 PM
-24	Train a society of men that the only acceptable option is to be "the nice guy". But.. If they notice that it works against them in dating that must mean they only want sex. So berate and chastise them What is "pretending this is a science paper in middle school" supposed to mean, anyway?	/r/MensRights	17/05/13 06:37 AM
-57	Train a society of men that the only acceptable option is to be "the nice guy". But.. If they notice that it works against them in dating that must mean they only want sex. So berate and chastise them _> Why is it so unbelievable to consider that there are people who both happen to hate male humans whom also happen to be female humans? Just because there are some humans that are female who intensely dislike humans that are male does not have any bearing on anyone's self worth or their other social dynamics... ...even if it is kind of disheartening when someone stops talking to me because of what gender they think I am.	/r/MensRights	17/05/13 05:30 AM
3	I... I don't even... shit. I don't even usually COME here and I can tell that this line of reasoning is fucking stupid. You know why? Godwin's law. NOTHING. IS EVER. AS BAD. AS NAZIS. You don't go around comparing shit to the Nazi party. You don't fucking disrespect the souls of the millions of people they murdered. I am overwhelmed by how much of a piece of shit that 'alllie' person is.	/r/MensRights	23/01/13 01:26 PM