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Why? It isn’t helping you get laid lol
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:28 AM
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Just as a rule don’t donate your time and hard earned skills to randoms for free. Why were you helping out a random?
/r/seduction21/10/24 07:13 PM
1

You know pickup is for 18 years and up right?
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:47 PM
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A women’s prudishness is not an indicator of how good she will be in an ltr. The only indication of how good any woman will be in an ltr is if she respects your boundaries and provides appropriate value.
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:00 PM
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Does it matter if they are already turning white? I had the same opinion about using minoxidil for hair loss but I realized if it was going to go away anyway without treatment then it ultimately didn’t matter if the treatment would worse the effects if I went off it.
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:47 PM
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I use clippers usually don’t get nicked
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:39 PM
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I think you're feeling bad because society tells you that dating certain types of adult women is wrong. What you are feeling is called toxic shame. Try to really figure out is it the 18 year or is it the fact society expects you to be in an LTR with a women 26-34. To me it seem like you're depressed because you feel like you should be living the scripted life yet you aren't. I think you should consider maybe a white picket fence and 2.5 kids isn't what you want
/r/seduction07/08/24 12:04 AM
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Well you basically just kneecapped yourself. Paying to play really messes with your view on women. Get in the gym lift heavy then if you still feel depressed seek a professional.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:23 PM
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A few things to chew on. Have you read the sidebar at all? Your post reads like one big covert contract with the core idea being if I do all these things to become a high value guy my gf will marry me and I’ll have a problem free life. You haven’t even lived to together in an apartment yet you’re already molding your life to provide for her. Heck your alternative goal is to provide for your parents. I find it strange that your mission is basically to become the best provider that ever maned. It …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/24 01:12 PM
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This isn’t a neg. A neg is a playful insult usually when guys don’t know each other and the interaction goes similarly to this is more of an amog. Specifically this question is called a double bind which are questions that typically are meant to force you to choose from two bad options. An example of this would be “when did you stop hitting your wife,” both answers make you look guilty. You can respond in three ways to double binds but generally speaking the goal is to not answer the double bind…
/r/seduction02/08/24 10:09 AM
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Just make friends for the night at the bar and wingman each other.
/r/seduction24/07/24 02:21 AM
0

You probably would benefit from reading no more mister nice guy
/r/seduction17/07/24 11:24 AM
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No unless you know the people you’re basically going to smaller club with shitty drink selection.
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:35 PM
9

People have house parties outside of college. Make some friends at the bar.
/r/seduction10/07/24 12:48 AM
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It really is for the average guy. In reality anything below the average is just as rare as being above it.
/r/seduction08/07/24 11:03 AM
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First get rid of the idea that women’s sex drives are high and low. Women have a reactive sex drive that reflects how attracted they are to you. She appears low sex drive because you don’t spark attraction in her. This could be due to multiple things but the basics are looks(style fitness hygiene)and game(flirting and getting an emotional rise out of her). Reexaime how you act in your relationship and how you’re taking care of yourself. You’ll be able to figure out where you’re lacking. Second, …
/r/seduction08/07/24 12:29 AM
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High/low sex drive women are a myth women have a reactive sex drive. If she’s into you she’ll try to match your drive if she isn’t she won’t. Usually when guys use these terms they only consider how receptive to sexual advances a woman is to them. Depending on how they respond they generalize this into their overall desire for any sexual activity. Instead of blaming the girl for having a bad sex drive ask yourself are you actually attractive enough to inspire high desire.
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:29 PM
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Models are some the most insecure people.
/r/seduction27/06/24 02:35 PM
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A tall woman is as insecure about her height as a short man.
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:35 AM
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I think the issue is your idea of hoeflation is most people don’t self improve. In fact it’s never been easier to be in the top bracket. You might have to work hard but no one will stop you. Seriously if you work in an office start dressing nicer and you’ll notice how no men are trying to dress nice and stay within a respectable bmi. Bar to be above average is low
/r/seduction18/06/24 10:30 AM
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You failed a shit test
/r/seduction14/06/24 03:46 PM
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What a dog shit post. You’re whining about not being able to pick up girls and you don’t give examples. You haven’t written about situations you been in to get feedback. I don’t know anything useful about you and this post only tells me you have money to waste. Do you even want help or do you want to whinge about yourself. At least give me an idea of what you have done to make yourself more attractive.
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:31 PM
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Okay long distance relationships aren’t really relationships. So good job dropping them. You’re definitely not helping yourself sourcing women if you don’t go to bars, clubs, and cafés to approach women in addition to online dating. Especially with your stats you should be able to double your dates. The issue with online dating is girls are overwhelmed with choices. Making it easy to forget about you because you’re just a picture on a screen. Which is why it’s harder to convert a match into a da…
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:16 PM
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How I’m I suppose to give you advice if you don’t give me a specific situation you want feedback on. I can’t tell you why you’re not keeping girls around if you don’t tell me how you interacted with the ones that fell through. The only thing I can comment on is style. Style is pretty easy to improve as a guy. Spend a weekend or two researching through YouTube men’s style guides for a starting point. Learn some basic color theory to match outfits and clothes to your skin color. Get some jewelry a…
/r/seduction08/06/24 10:14 PM
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The issue is you are asking for their schedule. Instead try setting a date and time first then adjusting as she says yes or no to your offers. Example “hey you’re fun we should met at x place at x time Wednesday.” If she says she’s not free during your first time frame ask when she is free this week. If she’s not a time waster and actually wants to date she’ll give you her schedule or even better give a counteroffer. Typically girls hate having to make decisions so make the decisions easy for th…
/r/seduction01/06/24 11:07 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:03 AM
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Do more things. Going through your post history you seem to be stuck in your head. You could try reading no more mister nice guy by dr glover. It basically made for guys like you. Also you’re bad at asking questions. How are you supposed to get help if you can’t clearly write out your specific issue. This question is a shitty question because it’s vaguely asking 5 different questions which boil down to hey fix my shitty life. Come back when you have an actual question to ask.
/r/seduction24/05/24 11:27 PM
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You do realize girls date guys who live at home. You do realize girls bring guys over to their place to hookup. I currently live at home and all the girls I have been on dates with and hooked up with have not given a flying fuck that I live at home. Most girls are living at home too and if they like you enough some will sneak you into their parent’s home just for a taste. I am not going to sugar coat it you’re probably not going to get laid as much as you would if you optimize your logistics you…
/r/seduction24/05/24 02:57 PM
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She just wanted validation. Girls sometimes just want to know they still got it and will do things like this to see if they could still bag a guy. You sound stuck on this girl. If I were you I would cut her out of my life and focus on my current girl or getting more girls. She’s your ex for a damn good reason
/r/seduction23/05/24 08:40 PM
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You’re practicing the wrong thing. Your goal is to get laid. Practicing flirting with people you’re comfortable with and know will not help you in flirting and approaching people you don’t know. You need to go out in the field practice with any pickup routine, that’s how you improve your skill. There is no way to prep beyond having a routine and your goal is to memorize it then execute it. Then you need to write down what you did analyze it and ideally post it in communities like this for outsid…
/r/seduction23/05/24 05:43 PM
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I don’t know what your situation is with your wife. I assume that she lets you sleep with other people and you let her sleep with other people and you don’t mix the groups. If that’s the case then why do the other girl’s feelings matter? Her feelings are her responsibility not yours. As long as you’re upfront that this is only for sex you aren’t responsible for her wasting time. As long as you provide the enough information to make an informed decision it’s her choice. On the other hand if you a…
/r/seduction23/05/24 05:26 PM
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I would make it private and just be upfront with the girls if they wanted a relationship. Otherwise your relationship status isn’t their business.
/r/seduction23/05/24 03:35 PM
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No reason to lie about it. If you’re comfortable in your arrangement you shouldn’t feel the need to hid it. If I were you I would change it to private because it isn’t really other people’s business what my relationship status is. I would however be upfront with the girls if they ask or if I planned on making this into a relationship beyond just me and her.
/r/seduction23/05/24 03:30 PM
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This is a common problem once you start becoming attractive and get compliments from others. Not knowing how to respond because you still have the fat kid mindset. Just respond to it like it’s a shit test. You could respond with something cocky and funny or acknowledge it using amused mastery. For example the 40 year old you could have responded “only if you promise to give me candy after” or with the cashier you could have responded “I know.”
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:49 PM
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Dude this is literally a brain rot level take.
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:34 PM
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This is just you coping. None of the things you mentioned involve you picking up girls. Pickup is a very narrow thing and it’s not being adventurous. Being adventurous can be a great add-on but being adventurous isn’t pickup. If your primary goal is to be with a bunch of women you need to design a life that allows for it and practice your pickup skills. First if you want to optimize your life to pickup girls you’re going to want to live in a city, this assumes you already work out/groom/dress li…
/r/seduction17/05/24 11:11 AM
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Yeah it’s fine these are training wheels. You could ask someone to hangout the first time you meet. The 3 meeting thing is usually the time it takes for a shy person like you to feel comfortable enough to ask.
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:56 PM
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You need three points of contact. If you’re already in a situation where you’re going to meet the same person often you wait until you have interacted 3 times. If you feel like they would be interesting to be friends with invite them out to do something outside of the context you normally meet in. Do this semi regularly and you have built a friendship. Very similar to dating you have to be one to take lead in making friendships happen otherwise they won’t.
/r/seduction14/05/24 10:29 AM
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If you can’t be open with someone then what’s the point of considering them a friend? You’re suppose to be able to be open with your friends. If I have to act like their boyfriend without even getting the benefit of sex isn’t that a bad deal for me? It’s similar to when a girl is a fwb where I get the benefit of sex without having to act like her boyfriend. It’s a bad deal for her because she’s acting like my girlfriend without getting the benefit of my commitment.
/r/seduction14/05/24 10:04 AM
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No, you got with a bi woman
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:49 PM
0

New Account with one post ever. This must be real guys.
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:25 PM
2

Maybe lay off the porn. I find the less I watch the more I desire women.
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:44 PM
2

You’re asexual otherwise get your testosterone levels checked
/r/seduction25/04/24 01:07 AM
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By defending yourself you validate her frame. Think about this way if your 5 year old niece calls you poopy head and you treat that as a serious insult instead of responding dismissively you have subconsciously confirmed you are in fact a poopy head.
/r/seduction18/04/24 07:14 PM
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I hear we are popular in Japan
/r/seduction15/04/24 07:16 PM
2

Why don’t you approach the women at the metal concerts?
/r/seduction15/04/24 03:05 PM
2

Honestly, your instincts will kick in so don’t worry too much about being a good lover. Instead realize that trying to be perfect/good is a nice guy behavior that you’ll shed. I remember the first time I got laid I was nervous about not preforming because this girl seemed to have way more experience then my virgin ass. Instead I found out she was just as self conscious as me about herself not being up to standard, apologizing for having A cups and shuch. Mind you I am standing at full mast the w…
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:43 PM
1

Why would I play tennis with her when I want to play baseball
/r/seduction04/02/24 12:09 AM
2

Yes, because the point is to get you to realize that your time and attention aren't free. This is also to get you out of the oneitis mindset. The fact you aren't filtering out these girls for ones that are more high interest speaks volumes about your inner game.
/r/seduction04/02/24 12:07 AM
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