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Draken3000/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:31 PM
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I think the point is that these women take it a step further and accuse these men of being bad people, usually to their faces, over something you accurately describe as being perfectly fine. THAT is the problem. You can be hurt, but that doesn’t make the man a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:28 PM
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Self reported data Aaaaand you’ve lost me immediately, people lie out the ass about their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:59 PM
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Cuz life is unfair 🤷🏻‍♂️. Nowhere is it being argued that this shit is fair and balanced, this is how to succeed. And how to succeed may not be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:46 PM
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Nah mate you’re projecting, or perhaps just misunderstanding/misconstruing. Its not “the second I’m not in great shape she’ll dump me” because I’ve already fluctuated up and down a few times in that manner and we’re still together lol. Its “looks matter and they get you in the door”. If you can’t meet someone’s looks threshold then nothing is gonna happen, that’s all.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:19 PM
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Hi, dude who partook in casual sex before getting in a relationship here. Blackpill is pretty real imo, but like most pills there are always exceptions. Anyway, I got redpilled about 6 years ago, and found success because I had the “goods” that made the redpill approach work for me. If you don’t, then the blackpill seems to be the way. I have no doubt in my mind that my GF wouldn’t be as into me if I was in worse shape/had a less attractive face/was shorter. Those physical prerequisites are what…
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:37 PM
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Lmfao that’s like condensing an entire religion down to a single tenant and claiming that single tenant is why people don’t like a religion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:34 PM
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Christ, what a shocker that you had trouble with your original approach, I wouldn’t commit to you either if that was how you treated me as a man 😂. Btw, none of what you listed is “pick me” behavior, its just modern decency in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:32 PM
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The cat isn’t the focus of that. What is basically being said is “you’re going to end up with only cats because you couldn’t keep a man” with the assumption that only having cats for company is an undesirable outcome. If growing old alone with no one but your cats for companionship is fine by you, then no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:07 PM
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For sure, the problem is that no one knows why someone does it except themselves and it’s extremely easy to just claim any of the things you listed while simultaneously keeping the real reason secret lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:56 PM
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Yeah, to get the guy they want. That’s technically “for them” y’know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:45 PM
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Right?? Smells like a misandrist to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:47 PM
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God the author of that page is such a piece of work, fuckin hell. Definitely power tripping on her shitty little blog. Another “women can do no wrong and anything they feel is valid” types. Regardless, this stuff is disconcerting. How are men supposed to hold relationships with women when they can get decades into it, have kids, and not be attracted to their husband the WHOLE time? I get why men are checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:38 PM
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I see your point, but I actually think you have it wrong. The original comment’s point stands not because women don’t face as much risk, but precisely because they DO face more risks. Keyword: face, not take. So, learning or acting to preemptively avoid certain risks (via prejudice) IS an effeminate trait because, due to facing more risks as the weaker sex, women naturally need more defense mechanisms. Hence, the original comment is logically sound in my opinion. Prejudice is an effeminate trait…
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 10:26 PM
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Your sources are NatGeo, google bloody images, and fucking TIKTOK lmfao you’re on some other type of weird shit.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 09:20 PM
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Idk mang, seems pretty logically consistent to me. Prejudice develops as a preemptive, protective measure against perceived potential harm from humans with X trait. Disqualifying rather than taking risk lines up with the original comment’s logic just fine to me. Maybe provide counter arguments?
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 09:19 PM
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I think people misconstrue the word “should” with “deserve/owed” over what I think most people mean, which is closer to “statistical probability”. As in, a man who is considered generally physically attractive SHOULD have no trouble getting laid/into a relationship (as in, given the described factors to be true, the odds are in his favor to achieve said results). I do not think people mean “they deserve things because they are attractive”.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 04:16 PM
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Nah you seem pretty dumb yourself mate and you’re here too 🥱
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:25 PM
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You originally said “it isn’t a thing” I gave an example of it being a thing, you moved the goalposts to “how often”. Very straightforward. I wasn’t trying to prove anything regarding frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:39 PM
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Moving the goal posts much?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:25 PM
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I mean if you’re giving me free reign to contrive any scenario I want, having consistent unprotected sex with strangers to the point that you’ve collected multiple STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:15 PM
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You can overindulge in just about anything, c’mon now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:08 PM
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I think you’re wrong, there’s plenty of observable truth in OP’s post and I think its a good write up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:18 PM
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Way to prove OP’s point lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:16 PM
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Good shit, I think you’ve encapsulated things pretty well. Especially the differences between men and women, what they want, and how neither owes the other anything. Solid post 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:15 PM
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Yeah, can’t argue with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:36 PM
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See that’s the thing, you take the idea too literally. Its not some deliberate, coordinated effort by loads of people. Rather, there is deliberate effort by some, and unconscious or thoughtless parroting of ideas by others. Too much of this sort of thing is presumed to be hyper-deliberate imo when a lot of it is either unconscious or emotion-based.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:34 PM
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I think this comparison holds up just fine if you approach it, y’know, fairly and with nuance (hard for a lot of folks on this sub, I know). Obviously OP isn’t saying all people are either prophets or elites or whatnot, its a comparison of ideologies in a general sense and I think it works. People get too hung up on the specifics of an analogy like this (“people aren’t elite space aliens dude what are you smoking” versus the actual point of “this IRL group reminds me of this fictional group for …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:45 PM
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I mean, maybe? Who is to say they aren’t? One big point of this post is that the lying is done on purpose, or rather the deliberate diversion from the truth to prevent outcomes that the “prophets” don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:38 PM
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I feel like those inclined to be racist, will be. No one who is super not racist is gonna hear some racist shit online and go “huh, actually, maybe I DO hate minorities”. Suppressing the speech of the racist doesn’t prevent that, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:32 PM
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I genuinely never thought of this way and it makes plenty of sense to me lol good write up.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 07:08 PM
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You left out “often even in cases where a woman shouldn’t be protected, especially if it somehow reflects poorly on women as a group” which is part of the problem.
/r/AllPillDebate24/06/23 05:35 PM
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You might just be the most based mod I’ve ever seen lmao
/r/AllPillDebate24/06/23 05:33 PM
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This is all so blatantly observably true that it absolutely blows my mind that people don’t see it/agree. Women need men WAY more than men need women and its not even remotely close.
/r/AllPillDebate24/06/23 05:32 PM
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Hell, maybe! I’m still not quite sure what your overall point is but I think whatever it is, it isn’t something deliberate.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 11:47 PM
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No, I just think you’re completely lost in the sauce, mate. There hasn’t been any sort of concentrated effort to “brainwash” the masses into finding white people more attractive than black people. Assuming its true, why isn’t possible that it simply just “is”? Is it so impossible to believe that not all people are created equal, and that certain races may be more universally attractive than others? That isn’t at all to say that every person of X race is more attractive than every person of Y rac…
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 10:57 PM
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“Scientific racism to brainwash people” Lmfao ok bud
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 10:29 PM
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Reductive, very binary thought experiments like this are kind of a waste of time imo. There is so much more that goes into partner preference than strict “this or that” type shit.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 05:20 PM
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Nobody but the dumbest of the dumb think personality doesn’t matter, those that do are an insignificant portion of people.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 05:19 PM
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They will never reach the full privileges, what few there are, because those privileges typically come from possessing a biologically male body, which they do not have. I also disagree that FtM experiences are so far removed from the average man’s that they are an entirely different thing. If you get treated like a man before anyone even knows you’re trans, that is akin to experiencing those things as a biological man.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 05:04 PM
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God I wish more of the world subscribed to this philosophy, genuinely. I hate how so many humans prefer comfortable lies over the truth.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 05:01 PM
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Probably because those women transitioning to men either are or perceive themselves to be deficient in some way. Remember that just because you’re playing on tutorial mode doesn’t mean you can’t still suck at the the game regardless (or perceive yourself sucking at the game). Its very much outlined in OP’s post. Those trans men perceived life as a man as better, when it really wasn’t. They WERE living on tutorial mode and STILL failing in some way, believing that if they transitioned they would …
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 04:59 PM
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Bruh the intelligence distribution thing is old as fuck but in the “settled” way, not the outdated way. On the bell curve of intellect, men make up the extreme ends (thus a “wider” bell) and women are more concentrated in the middle with fewer outliers in either direction (thus a “narrower” bell). I remember learning that shit in high school, its nothing new.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/23 07:17 PM
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I’m pretty sure lowered T levels doesn’t undo the previously built up muscle mass and bone density from spending the majority of his life as a male? Don’t know for sure though, could be wrong.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/23 07:14 PM
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“The S word” Oh christ, go live some more life kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:40 PM
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Bwahaha oh man, you gotta laugh or else its just too sad. They really have no idea how biased they really are…
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 02:51 PM
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You should charge these pills rent cuz they’re living in your head for free m8 lmfao
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 10:40 PM
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Yup, its just cope all the way down. Gotta feel better about yourself somehow and delusion is the route of choice for lots of people.
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 03:11 PM
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Weird cuz my last comment in that chain to you is response-less 🤔
/r/BlackPillScience18/04/23 05:25 PM
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Now I KNOW you’re not out here calling someone out for not replying when you ran from our exchange in this thread. Where is YOUR answer to me then, if a lack of a response is proof of victory for you? 🤔
/r/BlackPillScience18/04/23 04:18 PM
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Ehh not necessarily. I’m in a relationship right now, but if it didn’t work out I’d proly resemble a MGTOW for a while as it just wouldn’t be worth it to start over with someone new, at least not for several more years, if ever. While I’m sure there are some incel MGTOW, I think there is also a sizable number of them who are jaded after failed relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 02:10 PM
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sigh One google search, thirty seconds of reading. https://caufsociety.com/why-are-most-homeless-people-men/#:~:text=Other%20reasons%20include%20men%20have,to%20be%20prioritized%20for%20housing. Mental illness, lack of support, refusal of support (which is NOT refusing to sell your body but refusing to get help), and more are all listed. Stop being such a misandrist loser.
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/23 01:44 PM
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Because there are a litany of other reasons but seeing your other replies, I know I’d be wasting my time laying them out to someone who genuinely thinks there are more homeless men because they won’t sell their bodies lmao. Go do some reading instead of declaring your personal speculations as facts.
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/23 01:41 PM
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You’re disconnected from reality if you think the only reason there are more homeless men is that they won’t do sex work lmfao get out of here.
/r/BlackPillScience15/04/23 01:34 PM
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Even if it is, my stance stands. Even one person unjustly punished by this shit is an outrage.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/23 10:12 PM
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Thank GOD, now lets do it even more. Stamp out this false claim bullshit before what little faith is left in our judicial system is gone.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/23 06:48 PM
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Then get a better phrase.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/23 06:46 PM
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He seems to have a problem with people labeling something an ideology when it isn’t. Was pretty clear, dunno what part you’re struggling with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:52 PM
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Ok, now do the rest? One bad study so they’re all bad? Skimming through the rest of the links, including quotes by OP, most seem to draw conclusions so idk if you’re “they didn’t even draw any conclusions” point stands there?
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 02:37 PM
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Water is wet, and other surprising news later this evening. Ok that’s not terribly original of me but yeah, I think more stuff like this needs to be done. The pro-women, anti-men hypocrisy of not just reddit, but almost all social media platforms has been tiresome for like a decade now.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 09:56 PM
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Well look who is projecting now, assuming I have “conservative brain rot”. In fact, you kinda just proved my point. The whiners whine because they wish they were winners and they’re not. They would be just as terrible if they were on top, left AND right sides of the political isle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:42 PM
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I don’t think you know what that word means lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:29 PM
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Nah more I’m pushing back on the notion that you’re presenting that there is no way his partner could possibly be ok with such an arrangement when clearly it’s something that women can be fine with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:35 PM
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I meant more that the movement has been bastardized in much the same way as the RP has over time, but I don’t think we’ll agree about that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:34 PM
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Weirdly enough one could make the same argument about feminism 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:17 PM
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You can’t be serious lmfao. This is like a white person saying “I’ve never experienced any issues with racism, black people around me never seemed to deal with it so what’s this struggle they’re on about?” You don’t have to search very far to find all the things men are struggling with, in fact there are examples all over this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:16 PM
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Working on your feet for ten hours and using the money you earn from doing that to bankroll your partner’s life so they don’t have to work is “doing nothing” to you? Lmao get a grip, assuming the other dude is telling the truth then his girl is probably perfectly fine with the comparative lack of hard work to provide for herself that she has to do. She isn’t foolish or naive to agree to that, she sees it as a win for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:14 PM
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Bold of you to assume that those spaces aren’t identical in that they would also absolutely seize the chance to be “top dog on the pile of inequality” if they could lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:10 PM
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Most maintenance jobs, most trash collection jobs, most construction jobs, etc etc. Oh also the fact that women are even able to do most of the things they do outside of women-exclusive things like giving birth are because of men and their efforts/sacrifices throughout history. If you only look at the world through the modern lens then you’re being massively disingenuous and divorced from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:41 PM
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On your last point, that hardly seems exclusive to men. Women appraise others for value just as much, hell if not more imo. So what’s your point there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:07 PM
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Men have BEEN sacrificing for society. A chunk of worthless leeches masquerading as men doesn’t change the fact that it IS men who protect and provide. Like gtfo of here with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:03 PM
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You probably didn’t mean it as blithely as it sounds lol because I’m a guy and I’m with you. Its not really a secret or surprise anymore that, when it comes to suicide attempts, women do the “cry for help” version that is less likely to actually kill them more than men. Men do the “Yep I’m done” version more often, which looks like gunshots to the head, hanging, jumping off bridges/buildings, etc Women tend to do things like pills, which CAN kill you but carry a higher chance of survival/being s…
/r/BlackPillScience03/03/23 07:58 PM
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Its kinda amazing, isn’t it? The arrogance? The certainty? The outrage? When she doesn’t even know how the system she lives off of works, she’s just mad because you dared shine an unflattering light on women. Its no wonder men are giving up on them.
/r/AllPillDebate03/03/23 01:53 PM
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She has no idea how any of this even works, she’s just being tribalistic for womens’ sake. Definitely part of the problem.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 10:42 PM
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You’re an actual NPC. “Errr durr I’m getting roasted alive here, how can I bring this back? Aha! Connect him to Trump! That’ll show em!” Utterly pathetic, you don’t have any counter arguments to the guy but you’re emotionally invested, so you’re jumping to the classic fallback of attempting to shame.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 10:40 PM
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Ok but are they? Will they? Survey says, no, they don’t and won’t. What is “more and more”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:51 PM
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Bingo, I said as much just above.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:36 PM
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Not what he said, and a vast oversimplification of the entire idea. Women, by and large, CHOOSE to give all that up in favor of family and home making. They PREFER it that way. This isn’t controversial or new, look into it if you don’t believe me. It doesn’t matter because it doesn’t matter to women. That stuff matters more to men both personally and externally. There are few high earning women who are satisfied with a stay at home father while they slave away at their career. Its not that it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:36 PM
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No, its an extreme that some men MIGHT go to in a world that was upfront to him. Specifically, its not hard to imagine a mentally ill, incel-like dude flying off the rails if every woman he met shot him down because he was physically unattractive or short or something else he really doesn’t have control over. Hell, many mass shooters did what they did because they were bullied in some way. That doesn’t make it justified, I’m just pointing out cause and effect. Despair is a helluva drug. Anguish …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:31 PM
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Yeah and where does that translate into anyone proclaiming “therefore men have license to be shitty to women”? I genuinely don’t understand how THAT was your conclusion to that.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 07:54 PM
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I don’t think anyone was saying that?
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 07:49 PM
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You seem to have missed my point (and misused the term “red herring” but whatever you say chief) and perhaps I could have added the following to help make it clear: TRP, like almost all things, isn’t a monolith. The “gurus” scamming people are just a subset of folks who decided to try and peddle the tools I mentioned to people who have no need of them, or can’t use them outright. That is one of the immoral uses I briefly touched on. In that same vein, TRP losing steam as it gains mainstream acce…
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 06:40 PM
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Then you’re living in “Idealism Land” my friend, and the unfortunate truth of the matter is that Idealism isn’t always (or even often) conducive to reality. Basically you can think or feel how you believe things SHOULD be all you want, it doesn’t mean it can translate into anything real. There are certain areas where this is more or less flexible, as I’m definitely not going to say idealism never works for ANYTHING ever, that would be absurd. However what I AM saying is “how things should be” in…
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 06:20 PM
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Well here’s the unfortunate truth of not just the red pill, but human reproduction in general: There will always be losers. There will always be a chunk of the population who will not be selected by someone else. There will always be those who “don’t get it” or are just a particular combination of unfortunate traits that ends up meaning they never reproduce. NO sexual/relationship strategy is “for” everyone, as there will ALWAYS be those reproductive “losers”. That’s the thing that I think a lot…
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 06:12 PM
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Other people have correctly pointed out that its ultimately women who control who gets to fuck, so its on them to police this shit. If they don’t, they can’t really complain about men capitalizing because why wouldn’t they?
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 05:52 PM
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What does that have to do with the point that women control who gets sex?
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 05:51 PM
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What statement? What are women right about?
/r/AllPillDebate19/02/23 09:46 PM
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Physical beauty is the barrier to entry, it matters a whole lot. You could be the kindest, most fun, most optimal partner in the world, but if you don’t pass a person’s looks-threshold? Its not happening. Physical beauty matters a ton.
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 08:55 PM
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I think you nailed it with your first sentence haha except I think you may be extrapolating what you think my approach is/would be incorrectly. You’re completely correct about parents being a safe haven…to a point. There IS a line where, eventually, the overly kind (or otherwise called enabling) parent needs to step back and realize their kid needs a kick in the ass. Part of the reason people (not even just kids) get to that point is because they know or believe the kind parent wont ever actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:56 PM
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You meant it facetiously but honestly that other guy is right, this is probably the most based thing you’ve posted here. Dudes need that sort of tough love, especially if its, y’know, coming from a valid place. If a mother’s son IS a fat neckbeard who does nothing but play video games all day, she would on fact be doing the right thing by trying to make him aware of the fact that he’s being a colossal fuck up lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:00 PM
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I don’t think it’s necessarily dying because its “wrong” but rather because not everyone could/will find success with it. Sort of like how not everyone can become rich, no matter how many books/guides you read, no matter how much of or how little money you have at the start of your “journey”, there will be a sizable population that just can’t/won’t succeed. TRP is the same, imo. I think it’s message was never for ALL men, how could it be? I think it was to wake certain types of men up to the tru…
/r/AllPillDebate19/12/22 02:08 PM
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You have no clue at all what you’re talking about and its always astonishing to me how confidently wrong some people can be. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:28 PM
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Your statements certainly weren’t clear lmao and you can claim so all you want, doesn’t make it accurate. Think whatever you want then, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:47 PM
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Yup, its a shockingly common thing. Women will throw out an entire idea, discredit an entire point, just because they didn’t like ONE part of it or how ONE part of it was framed. Even if they ultimately agree with it! It’s practically lunacy and I’ll never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:25 PM
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Shit, better go tell my girlfriend I have no positive regard for her. Had no idea myself, this is going to be so sad 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:38 PM
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Lmfao excellent retort, very well argued. You can’t disprove his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:33 PM
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You have no good retort, he’s got a point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:59 AM
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What its worth to them is irrelevant is what he’s saying. The exchange is “equal”, sex for sex. Women think their sex is worth more than a man’s, and that’s why they come away feeling used. Why don’t the men feel used? Because they don’t put extra value on their sex. Sex for sex, equal exchange on paper. That’s all he’s saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:58 AM
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This post reads a lot like projection. I definitely see more women than men refusing to concede on valid points about their gender, and I definitely see more men acknowledging the things women say about men. That doesn’t mean there aren’t plenty of men who don’t give any ground, sure, but I think the ratio is skewed towards women. Just my two cents 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:58 PM
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Right? I always know I’m about to read an awful take when I see that username lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:17 AM
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Lol I feel you, I just haven’t seen it often at all myself. Those dudes making those claims would be lacking the aforementioned two brain cells 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:29 PM
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No one with two brain cells to rub together is claiming that women become looser through lots of sex. If they were then yes, you would maybe be making a point with this post. However, the prevailing discourse around n-count is that it is a reflection of a woman’s values, her ability to assess potential partners, the behaviors she engages in, and whether or not she is “easy” to get in bed (this matters to most men when it comes to a potential LTR). It has also been backed through research and stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:13 PM
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OP sucks and just wants to be validated in her shit opinion, waste of a thread. Everyone has a right to boundaries and if you want to fuck around almost solely because your partner’s perfectly fine sized dick isn’t enough for you then that is your problem and I’d dump you too. Fuckin cake eaters man, worst kind of people. “What do you meaaaaan I can’t have it all the ways I want? Whyyyyy, your boundaries are stupidddd and you should just change them to suit what I wannnnnt” Christ, your poor bf …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:37 PM
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If you like your situation then its not applicable to you, so no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:25 AM
19

You could at least google the fallacy so you know what you’re talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:55 AM
2

Its infuriatingly common, you see a lot of it when it comes to things like weight as well. All the excuses in the world, when in reality for 99% of overweight people it is a simple matter of eating less and moving more. Its not any more complicated than that. Is it easy? Nope, but it IS simple. This is the same shit. All it ever is is an excuse to not try. Maddening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:25 PM
1

Its the whataboutism that is the biggest de-railer of these types of conversations in my opinion, and it happens in real life a lot too. People in general have an extremely hard time separating “we are talking about this specific issue” from “we think our side has done nothing wrong”. No, we aren’t talking about what men do that are shitty when we raise a criticism of women, we’re talking about THAT criticism. The same applies vice versa. If a guy goes “I think women do X and it’s unfair” that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:29 PM
1

Yep, but I’m aware of that and try to move through those conversations accordingly. Its shocking to me how people are often unable to recognize their hypocrisy about the way they think and the opinions they hold. That and the selective replies coupled with the typical “bad label cudgel” makes me think that people really just wanna feel morally righteous and have something they consider evil to fight, or some shit. I love taking the opportunity to say “there is a person out there just like you, a…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 07:17 PM
3

I actually was honest about my opinions and the trigger that caused them to further develop (TRP) with my current GF before we became official. I wouldn’t want anyone who held strong opinions about that stuff to try and date me, and I honestly wouldn’t bother on the flip side either. I think presentation is important, as well as focusing on what YOU align with. I’m fresh off of having an exchange about TRP on another thread so its on my mind haha. You can’t just be like “I’m black pilled, look i…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 05:08 PM
8

Its already been said, but for me personally yeah it was the being lied to my whole teenage/young adult life on what to do regarding women, what they want, what attracts them, etc. I’m extremely “reality” oriented though, so others might be more mad about other parts of it. For me it was more of a “I could have been doing so much better, earlier, if I had known all this shit when i SHOULD have been told it”. The time lost to an incorrect mindset regarding women that I could never get back. All t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:29 PM
10

Because loads of people do it on here and it’s impossible to tell which way you meant it from the raw text. I’m not invested in this reply or anything, just explaining why he might have thought that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:21 PM
11

Nah they’re saying there’s a whole lot of hypocrisy surrounding those notions of not treating X group of people with an immutable trait poorly simply because of the fact, that’s all. You’re extrapolating the quid pro quo opinion from nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:15 PM
3

I even called that, they proved my point with their response lmfao
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/22 02:35 PM
5

Lmfao aight then, stay dumb mate 👍
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 02:43 PM
9

Like the other guy said, you’re asking BP redditors, of course you’re gonna get BP answers. But a couple of other issues with thinking the askmen is representative of what you call “normal” men. First, prove it? Just because its a large sample size doesn’t mean you have any way of determining which “pill” ideology the majority of that sample aligns with (yes I know that applies to my first statement too, getting to my logic shortly). You’re making an incredible leap to assume they’re all “normal…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 02:35 PM
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You seem to be falling into the typical fallacy of conflating all those things you listed as being present in the same dude, to start. Second, you’re falling into the other typical fallacy of representing those arguments at their most extreme and illogical, rather than the actual more common reasonable versions of them that most people of that persuasion hold. I’ve also been here a few years now and I agree we’ve seen more bullshit posts and arguments, but to attribute that to men here as a whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:41 PM
1

Then like I said, just save it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:15 PM
1

Damn could you miss the point any harder? I’m not hurt at all, I’m pointing out that this is a debate sub and comments like yours and that other lady’s add nothing at all of value to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:00 PM
3

Bruh these are the comments, and the ones from the cat lady, that I’m talking about that ruin the discourse in this sub. You didn’t contribute anything to the discussion, just levied mockery at the guy you’re replying to. At least he’s using his experience to debate (keyword) his point here, and only resorted to insults in response to them being used on him. Stop this shit, if you don’t have a proper retort to the point then save your energy 😂. And don’t say your insult is the retort, you can ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:36 PM
1

I’m with flaky, that doesn’t matter to the whole pill thing. Its in reference to the broadest interpretation of that scene where Morpheus “wakes Neo up” to reality. That’s all red pill is referencing, it isn’t any deeper than that.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 01:25 PM
1

Gotta be real here, it does sound like reaching. I’ve heard other interpretations of what movies are about with similar reasoning that get scoffed at as “seems like reaching”. And if the creators didn’t outright say it was about being trans all along and not just an “endorsement of a reading” as you said, I’m with the other guy in that its extremely easy to make such a claim 20 years later for, essentially, modern clout/relevance. If it turns out they really did mean it that way all along then s…
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 01:23 PM
3

See I don’t even disagree with you on principle, the punishment is absolutely egregious, and I think this whole thing ultimately boils down to a matter of personal opinion/taste. Do I think she DESERVES 9 years for having weed on her? Absolutely not. But do I have much sympathy for her? Also no, for all the reasons outlined above. You’re more outraged about it and that’s fine. I, and perhaps many people in this thread given the amount of responses that lean that way, just don’t feel all that bad…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/22 08:48 PM
4

No and that’s not the point I’m making. Regardless of whether the law is fair or not, its there, it exists, and it isn’t going to change (at least not in any timeframe that matters to this conversation). To then go to that country knowing full well they have draconian punishments for things like weed WITH weed is downright foolish and you can’t really be mad about it cuz its not like you didn’t know. Another example that maybe will help frame the point better for you. If a white dude strolled in…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/22 08:07 PM
5

For sure, that’s why its a comparison and not an equation. The comparison is meant to help you understand the overarching idea, they’re not MEANT to be 1 to 1.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/22 07:01 PM
15

Its less the severity of the punishment in relation to the crime and more that she knew what the law was and tried to just…ignore it and believe she’d be fine? That’s the point, the flagrant disregard for the law, that people are now shrugging about. No its not a fair punishment, but like some other people have said its like seeing someone climb into the bear enclosure at the zoo. Its not really “fair” that the bear mauls you to death, but you knew that was possible and climbed in anyway. Couple…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/22 06:12 PM
3

Yup. I’ve been going through the struggle with my GF haha. I try to explain to her that there is a difference between someone shaming her and someone saying something true that causes her to feel shame. The latter is not that person’s fault, its yours for feeling ashamed. Just because you FEEL something doesn’t mean the other person IS doing that thing to you. Just because you feel shamed/offended doesn’t mean what the person said IS shaming or offensive. Your example with Fresh and Fit is spot …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:15 PM
4

Dude that shit drives me absolutely BONKERS lmfao. So the important part, the message itself, you agree with, you just don’t like the delivery? What? And now the guy delivering the message is a bad person/asshole in your eyes, even though you AGREE with him? Absolutely insane and every time I have to deal with it I feel my sanity cracking lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:06 PM
4

Back in college I once had a female friend who I was very attracted to and wanted to sleep with have me drive her to meet her hookup lmfao. Whether she realized or not, she went full “mask off” on women’s nature right in front of me, and it planted the seed. It wasn’t for another like two years before I had another experience with a chick where afterwards I couldn’t escape this pervasive feeling that I had fucked up in some way. Shortly after that I, as many do, stumbled upon TRP. I spent the ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:19 PM
10

I’m so amped at the existence of JustPearlyThings haha I’ve held the opinion for the longest time that its gonna have to be other women that drive TRP messages home to women, and that it would only be a matter of time before a capable, determined RP woman took it up. Love her vids, and the difference in womens’ responses to her compared to men RP creators is staggering lmao. When its coming from another woman suddenly they listen and can suppress their emotional responses better. I hope she’s ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:06 PM
8

I agree with you except for the body positivity thing, I’ve definitely noticed a shift in its messaging and its strayed from simply “not shaming people for being fat”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:07 AM
2

I don’t think that’s the case at all, and rather rude to imply that it’s improbable for people to interpret a different way when we have multiple people agreeing that it could have been interpreted that way. Get off your high horse lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:03 AM
2

Except its not…since multiple people took it to mean masculinity in general. No one else knew that’s how she defined it, how could we?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:55 AM
0

Umm…ok? Idk why you’re tossing so much attitude around about it, like its fine that you wrote something that was worded in a way that gave an impression you didn’t mean to. Happens to everyone, no need to be hostile about it 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:04 AM
2

Nah they’re right, the way you worded that absolutely gives the impression that you think bi-sexual men aren’t typically “uber macho” (so…masculine? Like it’s basically the same thing, just a different word). Either that or it implies you think that uber macho men aren’t typically bisexual. Maybe it was just poor wording to represent your views, but the person who replied to you isn’t mistaken to interpret it that way. I know I did too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:00 PM
1

Hey i’m glad I could help you feel that way haha. Personally I’m a bit of an “energy/emotion mirror” when it comes to online discussions. I’m all for playing ball and having respectful conversations where I might not agree (or partially agree, mostly agree, etc) with someone, but if/when things start getting nasty, condescending, mocking, insulting, etc is when I just start dishing it right back. I know its not the “right” thing to do but eh 🤷🏻‍♂️. I would love if most discussions went as well a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:50 PM
3

That all makes a lot of sense and like I said, I don’t necessarily disagree that everything you just said are factors that go into the “ick” feeling. I just can’t get away from this nagging feeling that your explanation isn’t the WHOLE thing, ya know? It just feels like there is something else to it outside of cultural/societal influence. Two things stood out to me in your comment that got me thinking again haha. First, regarding the protective feelings that babies evoke in humans. Idk if there …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:31 PM
3

For sure, thank you for the responses haha. Its interesting to me that you see it as men trying to justify it as more than an emotional response, because i’ve only ever interpreted it AS an emotional response, with some probability stuff thrown in to support the emotional response, and I’ve viewed it as other men just trying to explain said emotional response. But I guess I can understand why it might come across that way to someone just reading it, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:11 PM
3

Oh yeah, the fact that there is such diversity of opinion/feeling across the genders on n-count supports your point strongly enough for me to agree haha. I don’t know if I completely agree that the aversion to promiscuity is ENTIRELY conditioned though. As I elaborated in another comment, this is not some hard-line idea that I think is “true” or whatever, its speculation/wondering. I’ve felt the “ick” regarding promiscuity since I was old enough to conceptualize the idea. No one came and told me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:08 PM
2

I think that’s definitely part of it too! Most “pill” concepts can’t really effectively be boiled down, I’ve noticed. The boiled down statements are only palatable when you have enough of an overall, in-depth understanding of the “expanded” definition behind the phrase. N-count is one of those concepts that almost HAS to be elaborated on in-depth to make sense to most people. I think its why there is such a divide and conflict around the terms and phrases, because the people hearing them don’t k…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:54 PM
3

All fair enough! Its not an idea i’m, like, hard engaging with and viewing as “accurate”, more just wondering/speculating haha. The whole “high n-count giving an ick feeling” phenomenon is something I’ve grappled with for as long as I can remember. No one told me promiscuity was “bad”, the ick feeling was just…there when I was finally old enough to conceptualize the whole thing. So I’ve always been interested in the n-count discussion and what it all means. No amount of attempts at conscious-con…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:48 PM
10

I think that’s kind of the whole point of men caring about n-count? That a high count in a woman GENERALLY comes packaged with those bad behaviors (for the man/in his eyes) and the existence of those behaviors and what they could lead to is what influences men to not choose said woman? I guess that might be confusing so i’ll put it another way. There’s a reason that many men have an innate distaste for highly promiscuous women, but I’ve started to wonder. How DID our ancestors know? Why is it th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:04 PM
2

Spot on, i’m with ya here. Most of the proposed solutions like the ones you mentioned (prostitution, sex dolls) are really only band-aid fixes imo, I agree with you there, they don’t solve the underlying problem. I think a crucial component of intimacy that is often overlooked or otherwise ignored/denied is the fact of it being given WILLINGLY and proactively, without an incentive like money. Every other form of attaining it will come with some level of truth in the back of someone’s mind tellin…
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/22 06:39 PM
1

Yes and no. I don’t think they know, like, consciously in the way you describe it. I think they’ve been conditioned to hear certain words and phrases and the use one of a set of equally conditioned replies. “You’re not entitled to sex” being one of them.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/22 02:59 PM
1

Honestly, regardless of anything else in this thread, I actually think this is closest to the truth. I would argue its the same with any pill that isn’t blue, really. If those ideas became mainstream and suddenly more men were clued in to women’s sexuality and all the ways they use it than men who weren’t clued in, suddenly the world would be a whole lot more “fair” for them. And boy would they hate that lmfao so yeah, I actually agree with this comment completely. The reason I prefer to take th…
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/22 02:58 PM
0

Its not offensive, its creepy and weird dude. Dead giveaway you’re an incel or a weirdo if you refer to anyone to their face or in a group setting as a male or female outside of, like, a strictly scientific conversation where everyone is agreeing with/using the term as well. The “if this upsets you you’re wrong” attitude is also likely contributing to your incel status.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/22 02:41 PM
0

Homie, men and women don’t like to be labeled male and female, even if its “a word that is used all over”. So is bitch, asshole, cunt, etc, but do people like being referred to as these things? Same difference. Just use man and woman as a start haha
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/22 01:21 PM
1

I completely agree, and I definitely wouldn’t say RPers are guilt free of the behavior either. I’m with you that it should be standard practice to provide sources for wide claims. Keep up the great work!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:10 PM
2

I think some people who engage in certain types of arguments surrounding n-count are morons, yes, but that’s not my issue. Its the presumption that anyone who doesn’t hold a strict “it doesn’t matter” opinion on it is automatically someone to be disparaged, mocked, insulted, etc. I guess its adjacent to two wrongs don’t make a right coupled with a touch of “becoming the very thing you swore to destroy”. If you’re only ever operating in full on attack mode when it comes to these topics, you’re on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:09 PM
3

You’re projecting people’s reasons for holding those views, you’re not the arbiter who decides why people hold a view. Personally I think promiscuity in general isn’t a good thing for both men and women, as it has real, studied, negative effects on both sexes. The odd outlier who doesn’t experience those negative effects are moot points in the wake of the numbers that do experience them. I view it as not good for you in the same way that junk food isn’t good for you. I’m not shaming you for eati…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:02 PM
1

I mean this in the most non-personally aggressive way I could possibly say it - so what? That’s still a poor reason to engage in it completely unprompted, and even then it doesn’t change the problem nature of the tone and remarks themselves. Understanding where a certain behavior comes from doesn’t make it any more ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:59 PM
5

Holy shit dude you’re doing God’s work by putting in this effort. I went through every single link and I’m staggered by the accuracy of your claim. I’ve felt a similar way but just haven’t been able to muster up the energy and dedication to do what you’ve done here. Blue pills really don’t back their bad faith arguments up at ALL. Its all just impotent rage and attempts to smear TRP. I’m not saying TRP is perfect (far from it) or doesn’t have its loons (it absolutely does) but it’s nowhere near …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:49 PM
7

See its shit like this comment that I think loads of people are tired of. You have a valid point BURIED in condescension and almost certainly hypocritical body shaming and it makes people, myself included, not want to give you any regard no matter how accurate or valid the point is. If you stripped out the condescension and shaming you’d have a good comment but christ its like some of you just can’t help yourselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:40 PM
3

I mean, what are you trying to respond with, in what way, and why? Do you just not agree and want a counter argument, or do you want to agree but are struggling to find reasons that will help you? My personal opinion is that whether or not you need a relationship to be happy is a person to person thing. However, if you’re sad and miserable with your life before finding a partner, the relationship isn’t likely to “make you happy”. It can help facilitate it, but being “happy” is still ultimately s…
/r/AllPillDebate19/10/22 05:25 PM
2

Right? I don’t talk about porn EVER and this is the only social media I use with any amount of “seriousness” (E.G, leaving this comment). She’s stereotyping just as bad as any other woman who doesn’t get it 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:04 PM
0

Holy shit dude just hold the L
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:39 AM
2

Shit sorry, lemme correct - “No one with the mental maturity past a 20 year old and the intellectual capacity above a 10 year old would un-ironically hold such beliefs” 😂
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/22 12:32 AM
9

Nope, she said that a subset of women have a (false) perception that its ok to harass men because they think it doesn’t bother men the way it bothers women. Its literally more an indictment of women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:25 AM
0

I’ve been reading your comments and you’re genuinely unhinged mate, get some help. I have valid objections, I just saw how you responded to the other guy and its clear you’re not rational or even as remotely intelligent as you believe yourself to be. Basically, I’m not gonna bother trying to convince a lunatic that they’re spouting lunatic shit lmfao good luck out there
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/22 12:10 AM
2

Valid according to who? You? And your infallible, completely comprehensive knowledge of all things men do and do not contribute to? You realize half the shit you listed women can do as well, right? Maybe they don’t do it as often as men but if you genuinely believe it would all just disappear you’re delusional. You also have a hilarious level of faith in women and what they can and cannot (or are and are not willing to) do. You must be a teenager or something because no one over 20 would serious…
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/22 12:03 AM
5

You’re a lunatic if you really believe this is the way to take things, good lord 😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 11:40 PM
3

Sure, I don’t even disbelieve you, but for the typical discourse of this sub you’re proly gonna get reactions of that nature when you’re “embodying” (for lack of a better word) a common hypocritical talking point that is brought up by men. The “I totally prefer shorter dudes and just happen to be fucking a tall one” trope. Even if you’re being 100% real, lotta folks aren’t gonna believe you, or take the fact as a tacit admission that you’re “full of it”, in their eyes anyway. Just two cents, lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:07 PM
6

You being with a tall guy invalidates any claim to “preferring short dudes” when you ended up with a tall one (for something like FWB anyway). Hair color is not a typical dealbreaker for men (I also have a thing for redheads, my girlfriend is a natural brunette), height is a dealbreaker for women. Even if your claim is true, why would anyone believe it based on the evidence you provided? That’s essentially all that is being pointed out, and yes the defensiveness is expected anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:52 PM
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No one is saying that, we’re saying promiscuous likely equals a greater chance of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:17 PM
3

Have they actually achieved any of those things, though? Or do they claim them as goals? Because if they’re actively achieving those things I’d love to see some proof, seriously. All of the things you listed sound like ideals they claim to strive for or believe they’re pushing back against, but claiming/believing is not the same as actually achieving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:16 PM
1

Idk if you meant to reply to me but i’ll go ahead anyway haha. Sure, if you consistently have an experience with a certain type of person I don’t blame anyone for being wary. However Unabashedly and automatically discarding someone’s opinion SOLELY because of immutable characteristics they have such as race, gender, etc IS prejudiced and while not necessarily “bad” depending on context it IS 100% foolish and prejudiced to do so. You have no idea what they’re actually going to say, you might alig…
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:18 PM
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Un-ironic use of the sigma label, opinion discarded lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:09 PM
3

Who is saying anything about women justifying their behavior? The majority of discourse I see is whether or not women (and men on the flipside) do the things that are discussed, and how best to navigate that reality as a man/protect yourself and your values. Its not monolithic or foolproof, its just things to keep in mind as you try to date. The same way that educating yourself about the dangers of hiking wont necessarily prevent you from getting bit by a snake or falling down some rocks. Howeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:07 PM
1

Eat shit, you’re part of the problem. At least the person you responded to offered actual advice, wtf does your shitty attempt at a “lol incel” dunk contribute other than to the problem of men’s issues being reduced to “must be an incel hehe”? You think that’s gonna help pull him out of that mindset? Hell no, so fuck off, christ
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:11 PM
1

I mean, not thrilled cuz I had a crush on the classic Ariel as a kid and wanted it to be portrayed that way, but otherwise unbothered? I wasn’t expecting much back but even this is impressively irrelevant to the point lmao
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 12:54 AM
3

Not even giving the media a chance solely because of the race of the person speaking sounds pretty prejudiced to me. If you wanna nit pick the word “prejudiced” we can substitute it for plain old racism if you’d prefer lol. And no, i’m not talking about systemic racism, I mean plain old racism. If you caught a white person saying the equivalent of “you’re black, so I wont even hear your opinion because I’ve already decided its not worthwhile” you’d cry racism all day and night. But yeah, its ok …
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 10:18 PM
10

“Wanting to evolve” does not mean evolution occurs. Evolution is adaptation and happens whether we choose it to or not, and we certainly can’t truly control it at the species level. It is not unreasonable to believe that we, as a species, have NOT evolved past certain things, not enough time has passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:56 PM
3

Facts right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:28 PM
5

Ffs my guy scroll up and click the friggin links and read 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:39 PM
5

Sure, not arguing against that fact, I’m more trying to highlight how such comments discredit the sub. When someone doesn’t have a legitimate counterpoint other than “lol this guy is clearly an autistic incel MGTOW MRA 13 year old” then the assumption is that you don’t actually have a counter. Even if what they are saying is easily verifiably wrong, ya still gotta DO it or else YOU look like the loser, not the guy making the stupid point. I haven’t checked back in on this thread since I commente…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:32 PM
5

ITT: People throwing buzz word insults at OP instead of, y’know, doing what the sub is named after. Yall just sound like hit dogs when you come in angry and insulting instead of shutting down the point with a refutation or better one lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:09 PM
1

I mean, yeah, you’re right. I really don’t have any part of that comment that I disagree with. More steps on the journey. Thanks for the insight, you fucking fuck lol
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:30 PM
1

Thanks for this, you’re right and I agree. It was simply a little jarring, and I felt some of his reply was unwarranted but like I said, I’m still working on reconditioning my mind. The comments on this post have all, in different ways, been helpful and it was needed.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:31 PM
0

Hey, thanks for explanation, it was way more helpful than “you arrogant white knight”. I know Fereally is an EC and is killing it out there, and thats great for him. Not all of us are there yet, and on an ask sub people tend to expect, you know, answers to the questions they post. Not name calling lmao. I’m perfectly fine with criticism, so long as its objectively helpful.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:58 PM
0

Honestly, I’d believe it that my T is low, I’ve never got it checked and I might do it.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:33 AM
0

Aight, good to know but does this help with my question at all or did you really just take time out of your day to call a stranger autistic for the way they asked a question?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:21 AM
1

I like this take, and I find it hella interesting that you can read something, agree with it, and still struggle to alter your internal feelings to match that agreement. I’m still a work in progress for sure, thank you for the reply.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:59 PM
-1

Bro I appreciate the response but I think you’re jumping to conclusions, you couldn’t possibly know me enough to call me those things from a few paragraphs of text. I’m not going to get into replying to everything you said cuz I know its not accurate, and other people are providing better, less overly judgmental replies.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:57 PM
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You’re right, and I’m trying to overcome it. Guess I just needed some sort of feedback on these thoughts, thank you.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:37 PM
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Thanks mate, this is a good answer and I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:36 PM
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Lol fair enough, that’s another thing I try to tell myself. “Don’t disqualify yourself, let her do it” but its not working as a cure all for these pesky feelings lmao
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:09 PM
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I’m not saying I think I know what’s best, where did you get that? I’m saying that I’m having mental hangups about spinning plates when I suspect they’re looking for/expecting it to become an LTR. It makes me feel guilty, like I’m leading then on or something. I don’t see what you mean by this comment.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:07 PM
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Thanks man, I agree. I have been trying to flip like that in my head, I guess I need to hear it from someone else.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:52 PM
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Cant believe this bullshit. I just discovered TRP a few weeks ago, but i’ve already seem improvements in my life by following the guidance there. Absolutely ridiculous.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:41 PM
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