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Speaking from experience, ldrs only work temporarily, you can't do it forever. I did a 4 hour drive LTR for 8 months and it was manageable, but a lot comes down to the quality of the girl, and at the time we had the freedom to stay at each other's place for a week or so at a time which helped. If you aren't doing a face to face at least every 2 weeks it won't last, and there has to be an end in sight, otherwise you will slowly see her lose attraction, and God forbid she meets a guy with all the …
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:38 PM
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If she says it there is nothing wrong with saying it back, I usually only say it first if she had a bad day or something or is generally sad and it always cheers her up, sort of in a "we love eachother, thats all we need, nothing else matters" way accompanied by a hug and forehead kiss, it has to be more than just saying the words. But don't overdo it, always make sure you tell her you love her less than she tells you. I know its a stupid game but it can't be the other way around or she will los…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:51 PM
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I think the definitive answer here is what does she do after sex? Is she cuddly, satisfied, happy? Or does she get dressed and fuck off? If she isn't at least alluding to wanting an LTR with you after 2 months that is not a great sign for the future. If she isn't initiating contact with you, that is again a bad sign. But hey, you aren't locked into anything so by all means game other chicks, it will get your abundance mentality back. Maybe you will also find a chick who you enjoy fucking more be…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 04:12 AM
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Well what do you actually do all day? As long as it was something semi-productive just tell her the truth but if all you did was play video games I wouldn't reccomend spilling that.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:41 AM
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Stop watching porn, I was reliant on drugs for over a year before I could finally fuck without them and it was all because of porn and masturbating with deathgrip 2x a day for 10 years. Secondly, what are you doing to try to make her cum? Most girls can only cum from fingers, try putting your hand in a palm facing her body position, with your middle finger (eventually graduating to 2 once shes warmed up) inside while simultaneously putting a bit of pressure above her pussy with your palm, this s…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:38 AM
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You went from a non lifter to deadlifting 405 in 7 months? Calling bullshit on that unless you're on gear
/r/askTRP19/08/19 04:54 AM
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You sound like me last year. I was literally to a T like you it is kinda eery. During high school and college the hottest girls were chasing me, and I wanted them back but was too pussy to make a move. This came off as disinterest to them which only increased attraction, so I was getting invites to hang out with these girls but I decided I'd rather play video games and not deal with the non routine scenario. What it took for me to get my head out of my ass was meeting a girl who I liked both phy…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:11 PM
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Every nerd girl I know is either flat chested or a hambeast which doesnt count
/r/askTRP23/06/19 03:02 PM
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That is what she wants, but the thing is you cant really fuck around with that kind of thing in a non-vetted non-ltr.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:14 PM
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Doesn't work for everyone, I have a fucking massive head (to the point where no non-custom baseball cap comes even remotely close to fitting). I went bald once, I looked like an alien
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:12 PM
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fuck it, what do you have to lose
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:01 AM
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deload a bit (like 10-15%) and work your way back up, and eat more
/r/askTRP21/06/19 10:19 PM
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Yeah but what if all girls have this fetish, but these "acceptable" ltr candidates just don't own up to it.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 01:17 AM
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she wants to fuck you, the fact she didnt tell you to fuck off when you were clearly hitting on her says that loud and clear. Doesn't matter whether she actually has a bf or not AWALT
/r/askTRP29/03/19 03:01 AM
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my lifts are Deadlift 220lbs Bench Press 155lbs Squat 200lbs are those 1rm's? If so those are rookie numbers, keep bulking, you are nowhere near big enough to cut. I'd start to cut once you're squatting 350
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:57 PM
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I've been in this scenario exactly, she will be back, just let her go, don't be needy but don't be an asshole either. If this were an LTR I would say to throw her a bone and say you care about her because this is kind of a comfort/shit test hybrid, in that it originates from a comfort test from her insecurity due to her finally realizing that she is the one more invested, but she takes the opportunity to make it a shit test too because this triggers her to want to reevaluate your alphaness. Chic…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 03:39 AM
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she wants to fuck you is what she wants, I have been in your shoes and what happened was she wanted a relationship and was making absolutely sure I would take her when she took the leap of faith and broke up with her current bf
/r/askTRP07/02/19 11:55 PM
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you are probably just a late bloomer, if you really want go to an endocrinologist and get your growth hormone tested. Its what I did, and if I didn't I'd be 5'6 not 6'0
/r/askTRP07/02/19 09:28 PM
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ur fine just try again, my ltr was the same way in the initial dates, she is conservative latina too
/r/askTRP07/02/19 09:14 PM
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Read sex god method Personal lines I have had good success with, note dirty talk only really works if you say it with the right inflection and are dominant: any sort of filling talk like "I'm gonna stretch out that tight little hole" in my experience ALL girls love when I say I'm going to cum inside them, even if I don't just the thought drives them wild. "I'm going to fill your little pussy with my cum" or "I'm going to explode inside that tight pussy and watch it drip out of you" or "Your puss…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:41 AM
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Because when you are talking to customers you will probably never see them again and if you mess up who cares, you are getting paid. When you are in college and have classes with these girls its a different story, especially if you already know the girl in some capacity. You need to recognize that when you are graduated none of this shit will matter
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:31 AM
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Nice.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:50 PM
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thanks for the response, relieving to hear it got better. Makes me wonder what this even stems from, I doubt cavemen dealt with this.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:49 PM
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Sounds like my gf, same relationship duration and behavior. Think of everything she says as having "right now, and if you keep doing as you are doing". You best believe if you lose your job or get fat things will go downhill.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:40 PM
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Keep telling yourself you don't have oneitis
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:30 AM
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maybe, but I gotta try it at least once.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 08:17 PM
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your voice is fine dude, everyone's voice sounds weird to their own ears.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:42 PM
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LMAO, sorry but it looks like you have a house arrest bracelet on each ankle. Now I see why you were reluctant, but if you like it, who gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:12 PM
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its a fucking piece of clothing not your social security #, why so secretive there buck?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:50 PM
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My theory is it is some evolutionary thing that the women would take care of the wounded hunters and warriors, so if you are attractive otherwise but become temporarily incapacitated there is some weird primal attraction to you.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 04:37 AM
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At your weight you should aim for 2-3 lbs lost per week, any more than that and you will be losing too much muscle.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:08 AM
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You're an artist
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:25 AM
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Ehh, I think you'd be jumping the gun to end it, especially if this has been planned a long time in advance and the relationship is as good as you say it is. 2 weeks is not that long, a short enough time that she will still be attached to you. I would let her go, be supportive, you have been dating for 1.5 years it is pretty weak to think and verbalize fear of cheating and at this point there should be some trust established. If she comes back and is acting wierd or suddenly doesn't want sex THE…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:07 PM
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BRZs aren't all wheel drive
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:01 PM
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If you are certain that he is no threat to you just let it happen, taking any action other than breaking up is beta and will only harm your ltr. But still its disrespectful, if you accepted an offer to be trained by another chick how would she feel? I'd start being open to other options.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 12:14 AM
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Is he a threat (higher SMV than you)?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:47 PM
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I was the "possible orbiter", we were making out in my car in the gym parking lot after the 3rd session
/r/askTRP16/01/19 10:26 PM
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Don't throw a good woman away for a chance at a hypothetical better one. What are you a hypergamous woman? You probably only think you can do better because of the preselection she provides.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:00 PM
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Shes checked out, its over. Major disrespect, she knows what shes doing.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:46 PM
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As long as she compliments you more than you compliment her
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:42 PM
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Lift hard for a year, stronglifts 5x5. I have geeky interests and have a gf, just don't sperg about it them to her, lots of chicks find "nerdy" (AKA attractive introvert) super hot. The keyword is ATTRACTIVE, so go lift, you will love it after a month I promise.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:57 AM
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Sure, there is profit but engineering isnt exactly exciting and with a good work/life balance. Source: Mechanical Engineer
/r/askTRP02/01/19 12:35 AM
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Yeah, my ltr wants it like 4 times a day and without drugs i can only do 2
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:35 PM
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Its simple and you would have to do something insanely stupid to mess this up as she has very high interest. Set a date, and gtfo the phone, only text if she initiates until the date. Say youre busy and how you will talk on (insert day of date) if she reaches out. Its important you set a date asap or you will come off as weak and undecisive.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 01:54 PM
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some chicks (a lot actually) have a hard set rule for guys such as: Date 1: kiss Date 2: grope Date 3: sex You should ask her for a drink and try after that, if she doesn't kiss you then its a lost cause. I had the same shit happen with one girl, wouldnt kiss me until I took her on a date even though i knew she was super into me.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 01:12 AM
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Not enough info to decide for sure. In my case after just holding strong and not contacting her my ltr send a whole "whats wrong why arent you asking how my vacation is going, it makes me feel bad and that you dont care about me" ect. I said I was really busy (i was) and she shouldnt feel bad because I do care about her, so basically a comfort test. After which she was back to texting every day like normal. Its not a bad thing to initiate with her and ask her how her day went or something, as lo…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 12:08 AM
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Shes probably trying to dread you, if you aren't contacting/initiating with her its probably an attempt to rile you up and test to see if you will come crying to her saying "why arent you texting meeeee". Been there done that.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 11:58 PM
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Its a problem when you do it 6 times a day and use it as a replacement for real women, and also if it affects your sex life with PIED.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:16 PM
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There is probably something to this, i have issues getting it up for anyone i dont trust or have built a bond with one another (ltr). But it might just be performance anxiety with new girls.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:14 PM
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This post can be summarized by one word "oneitis". You missed some fucking nuclear red flags and went full beta and fell into her frame. That will turn ANY woman off no matter how long you have been together. Be glad that you are still very young and will learn womens nature from this. Time will heal you
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:55 PM
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Easy fix, just have sex/masturbate once a day?
/r/askTRP25/12/18 03:58 AM
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If you are lifting you need carbs. Check out this clip of the nutritionist for almost every UFC fighter including macgregor, and other top athletes.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:58 AM
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its gonna take more than a week my friend, mine was not as bad as yours and after 3 months of nofap I am only now getting to normal
/r/askTRP24/12/18 11:19 PM
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No, if anything go for an IUD. Birth control will fundamentally change her personality and moods.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 09:36 PM
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buy a fleshlight
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:57 PM
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Girls who are super into you wont cheat, if shes fucking you (not just to please you but because she enjoys it) you have nothing to worry about. It can happen if she is a fucked up girl but from the info I have she isnt.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:10 PM
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Agreed with the other commenters, this is straight up disrespect from your manager, I'd be on the job hunt yesterday.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:58 AM
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Do you lift? Can you say to yourself "I could beat the fuck out of any guy in this room"? If no, go fucking lift. That supreme confidence breeds the dgaf attitude that is required here.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:02 AM
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Not a troll, thanks for the advice. But yeah I have oneitis which is why I want the LTR, trying to break it but I lost my virginity to her and she was my first kiss which makes it hard as fuck. Gaining my smv and witnessing other chicks check me out to internalize abundance helps but its a long road.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:47 PM
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when she cums her body will tense up including her pussy, my girl tenses so hard it damn near shears my fingers off
/r/askTRP22/12/18 08:54 PM
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do u not know what a lingerie party is? Guys don't go to these, its literally just women gathering to buy lingerie
/r/askTRP21/12/18 07:54 PM
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First of all never apologize to a woman, especially for something you didnt even do. Would you say you are comparable SMV, or are you significantly higher? Is the sex frequent/good? If you are higher smv and she fucks you like crazy expect this kind of shit to never stop because she is below you and she knows (or at least is convinced) you have higher smv options. Even so this is not normal behaviour to get in a fuming rage over something this small, sounds like a BPD girl and if thats the case …
/r/askTRP21/12/18 05:05 PM
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I've been in a very similar situation. IMO what she is doing is testing to see if you'd be down for an LTR because thats what she wants, hence she keeps sending you pics and shit to see if you are going to give her sufficient non-sexual attention. She wants to make sure you will commit to her before jumping from her current branch onto you. Literally almost the same thing happened to me, she was on the rocks with her bf, we got to the point of kissing but nothing further, she also gave off the v…
/r/askTRP21/12/18 04:50 PM
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I dont think you are giving the right kind of comfort here, I would say something like "Why would I check them out when you're right here" and kiss her on the forehead. The responses you listed don't address the situation, just saying "i love you" glosses over what she is upset about and doesn't satisfy her which is why she keeps doing the same test. Gotta feed em some validation scraps
/r/askTRP21/12/18 04:26 PM
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TIL my ltr might be bpd
/r/askTRP21/12/18 01:44 PM
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so you will be apart for multiple months? In my experience with a girl who is extremely into me that is too long, longest you can get away with is ~2 months and thats with airtight frame, you have been together long enough she is attached and invested in you, and if your smv is quite a bit above hers. More likely you are looking at about a month. If you are going to do it, my advice is to (if you arent by default) be busy and don't answer her texts right away, she will want to facetime/call a lo…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:28 PM
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Fuck it, its not a coworker.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 03:05 AM
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Lift and get a social job like bartender or waiter. Those two got me out of the gutter.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:29 AM
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I'm do doctor but SSRIs should be a last resort when you have exhausted every other option to treat your anxiety. SSRIs will fuck your shit up
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:27 AM
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you need to realize women don't give a fuck about your dick if you are jacked and have a masculine frame, they get off on being used for an alpha male's pleasure more than they enjoy the actual act itself. For women, sex is 95% mental, I made my girl cum just from sucking her nipples because she was so turned on in her head.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:06 PM
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Let me guess, virgin using dick size as an excuse to not facilitate getting laid?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:32 PM
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Whats your diet? Make sure you get enough vitamin D and are eating vegetables. Also check this out, has helped me
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:11 PM
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Exactly, even when I was 300 pounds of lard I was pulling HB7-8s because I didnt give a fuck if i got laid or not and I can make people laugh.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:23 PM
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"aplologize for what? he came at me" hold frame, the girls' panties will be wet if you dont budge
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:00 PM
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"yeah you've been coming onto me hard"
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:11 AM
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never apologize, especially not when it will be witnessed by women
/r/askTRP16/12/18 01:59 AM
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