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| 1 | Should I focus on a physical glow up (aka gym and diet) or focus more on social skills?It's not one or the other. The same way it isn't one or the other for women. But maybe I'm wrong and live in a different reality--I'm sure the comment section will straighten me out : ) | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 06:26 AM |
| 6 | Date lasted less than an hourMy suggestion is to behave as if you have plenty of other options and choices--don't SAY that. Just behave as if having options and choices is part of your normal life. Maybe you wasted your time. But everyone feels like that at times. Act as if you have a full life, and you're fine if she's too busy or has someone else, or said "We'll do this again" without getting back to you. You'll continue living your awesome life and maybe you'll run in to her again sometime. Drop hints but don't come righ… | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Last night was proof, rejection means absolutely nothing and it’s beautiful. Here’s a quick field report to never get down about any WOMAN regardless of looks.This sounds like a good philosophy for people in general : ) | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Date High Quality WomenRepetitive type. Post history is basically a riff on this theme. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why women don't chase men?This reminds me of the saying: "A man chases a woman till she catches him." I wonder if women just chase differently? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events."None of your comments has nothing to do with the OP." I can't parse that sentence. "Suggest, worry not, the op is for that" Wait...who is the "OP"? Is the OP not you? The Drinkmorechampagne is so confused. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events."None of your comments has nothing to do with the OP." I can't parse this sentence, but I don't want to piss you off anymore : ) Other than that, if you're in the SoCal area, I might have some suggestions for "where are they?" even though I'm afraid of making you defensive. It's okay to tell me to fuck off. I just really like the subject of dating in all its aspects and I'm in an industry that talks about it a lot. Good luck with everything and I wish you well. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.I really am just curious. I read a lot of these posts and I'm interested in how people think. Obviously, a lot of men who are not 8/10 pull 8/10 gals--that's why it's so interesting. Didn't mean to touch a nerve, though that is also interesting. Mea culpa. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Are you an 8/10? Just curious. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:51 PM |
| 5 | "Okay, but why don't you want a long term relationship with me?"One of my best buddies is a very desirable guy. His standard attitude is "I like you a lot, but I'm not ready for that yet." If their reaction is "quite intense" or they feel "hurt or even betrayed" or there is any "anger or aggression" he thinks of that as a red flag and pulls back. His philosophy is: how they feel about him not feeling the way they want him to is not his problem. "I’m generally upfront (or at least I believe I am) that I’m not necessarily looking for a serious relationship" If… | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach honestly changed my lifeRight? | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 05:33 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck are meant to meet women if you don't like socialising?"It’s like jobs. You ain’t gonna get them unless you submit resumes, and hunt jobs, and apply for positions. You gotta reach out." Right? And even after you get the job, you still gotta reach out and you still gotta do things outside of your comfort zone. I'm in the entertainment biz and I hate "schmoozing" and talking up people who might be valuable contacts for me or the people I work for/with. But it's unfortunately the difference between success and failure. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach honestly changed my lifeI'm sorry, man, but the first paragraph reads like narration from a rom-com movie. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 10:31 PM |
| 4 | How should a 74 year old male spark attraction from a female?What age bracket are you thinking? Are you thinking 40-60 gal who has taken care of herself over the years? 20-30s? | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 10:35 PM |
| 3 | He had me in his bed and started bragging about past conquests..Everything about this man screams "I have incredible standards. Let me tell you about them so you are sufficiently impressed." When you write, "From a male perspective, what motivates saying something like that right before hooking up?" his insecurity jumps out at me. All I can feel is insecurity and pity for him. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Went to a bar last night, panicked, and immediately foldedI think the best and easiest conversation openers are pointing out something (in the setting--whether it's a bar or wherever) and/or commiserating: "Did you see that? Guy almost walked into a wall!" "Are you a local? This whole street used to be back to back bars and I can't decide if it's better or less fun now." Hopefully, followed by "Right? Did you ever go to Harvey's? Loved that place!" Also, try to cultivate friendly relationships with the staff. My best buddy has several places where the … | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 09:07 PM |
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