Date lasted less than an hour

YSLMangoManiac · 2026-04-29T22:45:34+00:00

Maybe it’s her siblings calling her lol

Generally short dates are not a good sign however you can interpret this one of 2 ways:

She cut the date short cause she wasn’t interested and u fumbled
She actually had other obligations (like picking up her younger siblings) and still took the time to see you which is a good sign overall

Now obv only she knows the exact truth but you have the most context about the situation so interpret it in a way that makes the most sense

KeyTheZebra · 2026-04-29T22:52:10+00:00

The only thing that really matters is if she wants to see you again. If she does than you can evaluate if you see a pattern, if she doesn’t want to see you again, she’s a lame fr.

Drinkmorechampagne · 2026-04-29T23:55:13+00:00

My suggestion is to behave as if you have plenty of other options and choices--don't SAY that. Just behave as if having options and choices is part of your normal life.

Maybe you wasted your time. But everyone feels like that at times.

Act as if you have a full life, and you're fine if she's too busy or has someone else, or said "We'll do this again" without getting back to you. You'll continue living your awesome life and maybe you'll run in to her again sometime. Drop hints but don't come right out and say that.

As a woman, I'll tell you that a guy saying things like, "Hey, I'm going to this new place on Thursday--are you interested? I hear they have a pretty good Happy Hour" is very appealing. It's a quiet kind of confidence.

Make it seem as if you're already going. If she's not interested? That's fine. You're just doing what you do in a normal week -- i.e. your life is pretty cool and maybe she'd like to be part of it from time to time.

Think of it as, "My usual Tuesday night is better than your usual Saturday night." But don't SAY that. Just act as if it's a given.

Has worked for my guy friends for years.

iLikeAza · 2026-04-29T23:35:46+00:00

lol… are those the only two options? Ice cream or straight to fucking

Back2theCouture · 2026-04-29T23:26:59+00:00

If you’ve made out with her before, then next time you see her just cut to the chase: her place or yours.

Whether she’s got skeletons in her closet (her ex, actual bf) or not, does it really matter tho? Ever since her life sounds pretty chaotic as she gotta manage and divide her time carefully, just take advantage of whatever time you have with her, it doesn’t matter if it’s only less than an hour, just bang her.

dbootywarrior · 2026-04-29T23:58:31+00:00

Man stop overthinking things and give it a day

I see men and women post about the smallest thing that barely just happened and its no wonder we all miserable quickly running to others opinions who dont even know them instead of waiting for more context from the actual person

Dandys3107 · 2026-05-06T08:20:23+00:00

Better too short than too long. It's about emotions and quality of experience, unnecessarily prolonging can lower your chances by quite a bit.

Title	Date lasted less than an hour
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Date	April 29, 2026 10:31 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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