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It’s probably because I fucked up and things were moving really fast. Could get better I think if I just stop giving a f. Besides, I have a history of hooking up at the workplace, maybe that’s what she secretly wants..
/r/seduction12/05/26 03:04 AM
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I like the way you think
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:51 AM
1

Great comment. Unfortunately I’m at the part where I lost a lot of exposure and I’m trying to get it back. I go out pretty much every weekend. Sometimes nothing or very little happens, and sometimes..it’s a great night.
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:45 AM
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Devil’s advocate here: talking to a woman as another person is one thing, but trying to seduce her is another. It’s called a mating dance for a reason.
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:40 AM
1

You’re supposed to learn from how your father treats your mother. Problem is, our society is so f’d up today, pretty much everyone is dysfunctional, so it takes a conceited effort to learn how to do this stuff properly, which is sad if you think about it
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:37 AM
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This is all terrible lmao
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:24 AM
1

I’m dealing with a different but similar situation. She even acts jealous and mad when I talk to other girls, yet I can’t seem to get her to hang out, ha. Unfortunately all there is to do is chalk it up as her playing games and move on. The fastest way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours.
/r/seduction12/05/26 12:33 AM
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Do you make out and let people touch your butt you don’t like?
/r/seduction11/05/26 07:37 PM
2

Could be. But honestly, it could be any of these comments, so it kinda sucks not really knowing. Oh well, just gonna do me ig
/r/seduction11/05/26 06:41 PM
-1

What if I put a baby and cut contact first?
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:02 PM
2

How exactly should I do it? Late night text? Call her up and say “hey, come over”? I’ve never really had an explicitly casual sex type of relationship, I’m definitely open to it though. Just not sure how to initiate it
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:51 PM
2

She actually said she wanted a relationship
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:34 PM
2

Actually now that I’ve thought about it, I don’t struggle with closing. Just follow up after meeting a new girl
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:33 PM
1

Lmao yeah I guess that’s a fair point
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:23 PM
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Gonna be honest, I used to be against age gaps like this, but the older I get the more sense it makes. By the time most women are in their mid to late 20’s, they’ve been around the block 1000 times, and act like they know everything. Younger girls are easier to seduce, more impressionable, usually easier to get along with, higher odds of fertility, etc etc.
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:14 PM
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I’m trying. It’s just way easier because my personality can shine more than the club or a bar. I get a lot of choosing signals at those places, but I struggle with closing, and even follow up. I did meet a girl out the other night but I’m not that into her.
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:12 PM
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It’s also a known fact that what women say they want and what they emotionally respond to are different things.
/r/seduction11/05/26 11:44 AM
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Yes. I’ve grabbed ass after 2 minutes of meeting a woman, if she has very high interest (and maybe a couple drinks in), she’ll probably love it. Women love bold men for the most part (again, assuming they are attracted to you).
/r/seduction10/05/26 04:50 PM
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If only that existed lmao
/r/seduction10/05/26 01:13 AM
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I think guys put too much emphasis on “openers”, and just like you experienced at the end there with the hot one, you overthunk it and never approached. Just be yourself man. “Hey, what’s up?” Let things flow naturally. If she’s receptive, she’ll help the conversation along.
/r/seduction09/05/26 11:10 PM
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I’m 26. I’ve been going out solo a lot over the last year or so. Honestly, it’s great. I’ve met friends that I still chat with and hang out with. If you frequent the same areas & places, you will run into people you’re familiar with, and it helps to create an overall positive experience. Lot’s of great unexpected things can happen if you’re willing to push yourself a bit. Don’t get me wrong though, it’s way too easy to also sit back and end up not chatting with anyone, and ultimately going home …
/r/seduction09/05/26 11:05 PM
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Yeah true, good catch. I used to have a more solid mentality of being the prize, just need to get back there.
/r/seduction09/05/26 12:18 AM
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Happens a lot, I see it every time I go out, and admittedly I am that man myself more times than not. Sometimes you’re there just enjoying the scene, sometimes you’re fighting internal dialogue and end up never acting because of anxiety, and other reasons in between. At the end of the day, I see both men and women going home alone a lot more than I see successful encounters.
/r/seduction08/05/26 08:56 PM
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It amazes me that you could go out solo and get a girl, but couldn’t tell a guy “Hey we’re gonna get going, good chatting with you.”
/r/seduction08/05/26 08:54 PM
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Well like I said, strictly cold approaching is a good start for someone new, hesitant, been out of the game, etc. Someone more seasoned can go for warm approaches. I understand what you’re saying, that social momentum is very real, but you don’t have to only approach women to get that going. If you’re heading out for the night, you talk to everyone. Uber driver. Waiter. Ugly women. Tall women. Hot women. Make guy friends. Then once you’ve built some good momentum, you can start warm approaching,…
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:47 PM
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Show us how it’s done superpoop
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:41 PM
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I wasn’t belittling your difficulties, I experience much of the same. I’m just saying, you can either wallow in it or overcome it. I get it bro.
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:20 PM
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Not sure how you can cold approach co workers given they at least know of you. That’s not what cold approaching is
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:12 PM
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2) Warm approaching
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:11 PM
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I don’t think you understand what I said. If you warm approach, you will be approaching far less than if you did cold approach. They are not the same. As for your second statement, I think most men get signals, they just aren’t aware of their surroundings or are looking at the wrong women.
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:11 PM
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Sure buddy, as do most people to some degree. Don’t make that part of who you are though, make it something to overcome.
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:09 PM
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The cold approach culture is one I don’t really understand. Like, okay, yeah, you’re 18 and need experience, it’s a great way to break any reservations you might have about speaking to women plainly. But beyond that, the real deal is “warm approaching”, which is identifying which women are sending you signals, and approach those ones. Many of them will actually put themselves directly in your orbit, and be near you, to create the opportunity for you to open. You will have far greater success doi…
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:03 PM
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Interesting take, I will say the mindset that “you are the prize” can take you pretty far
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:54 PM
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Crazy how night and day it is overseas compared to the US. Don’t know why the market is so much harder here, probably has to do with materialism and individuality creating shallow people who also lack desire to communicate with those around them, who are viewed as “lesser”
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:53 PM
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On a typical weekend going out on the town, I get approached fairly often. More often than not, they are not women I’m interested in, but occasionally it will be one I am into. And those ones tend to be more subtle, such as dancing literally right in front of me to the point her hair is touching my body/face etc. You do not have to be a multi-millionaire hall of famer to get that kind of treatment, just need palpable confidence in the way you carry yourself. But even that is just a foot in the d…
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:11 PM
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Definitely a factor
/r/seduction08/05/26 04:48 PM
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A subtle difference, but I’m willing to accept that
/r/seduction08/05/26 03:59 PM
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Well, fair enough then. It’s probably just my perception then because I’ve got some inner issues to work through, which has costed me a lot of opportunities leading me to think they’re too picky when in reality they always have been
/r/seduction08/05/26 02:54 PM
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Could be self-perceived. You don’t think the increase in social media usage, phone time etc has made any noticeable difference? It seems to me that there’s a lot more emphasis on phone exchanges early on than there used to be, but again that could be my own perception because I’ve decreased my overall phone-based interactions in favor of in person hangouts.
/r/seduction08/05/26 02:42 PM
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I mean, it sounds like you have a lot going for you. I’m sure at the right time & place you’ll find her.
/r/seduction08/05/26 02:26 PM
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That is true, but I would argue that some level of rapport is important in order to make those mistakes and get grace. If you go up to a woman and say some dumb things or your energy is off, you can definitely turn her off to you even if you are attractive. She may even feel disappointment or irritation because of it.
/r/seduction08/05/26 02:21 PM
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I suppose at its core, yes. Which seems to be magnified in highly competitive areas. I know the only real solution is to adapt & overcome, but it’s still amazing to see it play out in real time. And what works for one attractive woman might completely turn off another, so all the “game” talk is really just starter information imo. It doesn’t work at higher levels because studying gam leads to being overly analytical, and that doesn’t work when you have to process in real time. One thing that is …
/r/seduction08/05/26 02:07 PM
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Well, let’s be clear here: you can have a lot of options, yet still not be getting all or even most of them. For example, you’re an attractive man at a club. A woman notices you, and you notice her noticing you. If you go up and make conversation, something about either your approach, your communication, or her preconceived assumptions of you not being met, could disqualify you. This could be furthered by text or phone exchange. So technically you had an option, yet it didn’t come to fruition fo…
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:43 PM
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Sounds like it’s not necessarily a choice you made, but rather circumstantial. I was in this position not long ago (not unemployed, rather overemployed and only ever working, and depressed). Crawling out has been hard.
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:37 PM
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I see a lot of 6s and 7s that just don’t get nothing (they want). Ugly girls come up and shoot their shot but that obviously ain’t gonna work
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:35 PM
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Damn near every day for me 😢I feel bad for the next girl ong 😂
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:34 PM
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Honestly it’s not just miami. It is obviously a hub for international travel and tourism, so you get pretty much everything, but I know a lot of pretty women from other parts of FL go down to miami as well. Most of the major FL cities are fruitful.
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:23 PM
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Thanks a lot. I’m actually really considering that, but it would make for a lengthy daily commute. Weighing the options. Thanks again.
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:22 PM
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Yes, because I myself am picky. That being said, men are simple creatures. If we see an attractive woman, most of the time, we’re interested in getting to know her. What I’m highlighting is the fact that most of these single men are not even getting to the point where they can choose to commit or not. What you’re talking about applies to very few men, who actually have a lot of options & opportunities beyond surface level introductory communication.
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:21 PM
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I actually am in FL. Just not a great area. Tampa is close, I think my best bet is travelling out a little bit. Definitely tons of attractive women out here. I do need to tweak my communication a little bit to get the kinds of results I can get though. I have no problem getting my foot in the door, it’s everything that comes after lately. In due time! I want 2 girlfriends.
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:09 PM
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There’s tons of pretty women here bro whatcha mean?? Maybe not in the midwest but out west, or down in FL, tons of pretty women.
/r/seduction08/05/26 12:51 PM
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Me too bro, me too. Peep the user, lol.
/r/seduction08/05/26 12:50 PM
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Yup, for sure. That’s why I acknowledged it’s a numbers game. Probably some luck involved as well. It’s hard to not be hard on yourself, but some things are just out of your control.
/r/seduction08/05/26 12:49 PM
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It’s definitely not the only metric that matters, women do not put nearly as much emphasis on physical attraction as men do. However, you still have to meet a minimum to have a foot in the door.
/r/seduction08/05/26 11:50 AM
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Yes, but a lot are not. The guys I run into on a typical night out are not single by choice. I think a lot of them could get women they aren’t attracted to, so in that sense yes it’s by choice, but the ones they want, they tend to fumble.
/r/seduction08/05/26 11:25 AM
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Thanks for sharing bro
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:44 AM
1

Can you expand more on “taking enough action”? What exactly does that entail? My last experience, I could tell she was into me, so I took her somewhere private and we started making out. I grabbed her butt and even pulled her hair. She was very clearly into it, but we work together.
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:43 AM
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So my thing about what you’re saying is, the point of dates is to ask those types of questions and better get to know someone, texting is for logistics. You’re saying I should change that?
/r/seduction07/05/26 08:34 PM
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True, usually I am, but when I falter on that I get burned.
/r/seduction07/05/26 08:12 PM
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Wtf, brussel sprouts?
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:57 PM
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I could see that! I’m hitting the gym though trying to put on some muscle mass, isn’t too much running counter productive for that?
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:37 PM
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Yeah, you’re exactly right. That’s where the subconscious expectations come in, and you’re bound to be disappointed because of it. Thanks for your words.
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:19 PM
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Yeah I definitely should. It’s something I tend not to do often because of the drive, but yeah chances of success are much higher up there
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:08 PM
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Not sure why that matters but roughly 5’9”
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:50 PM
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Nice man. Yeah. I think I just need to slow down, get rid of any expectations, still have fun but focus on other more important things.
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:50 PM
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I do think this market sucks for my demographic, maybe that’s where i need to start
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:28 PM
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South of Tampa, smaller city called Sarasota. It’s a richer-folk area.
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:27 PM
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I wear a white shirt and jeans most days whenever I go out. Works great for me.
/r/seduction07/05/26 12:52 PM
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Looks like a lot of people here don’t know what masculinity is. It is very important to seduce a feminine woman. However, not all women are very feminine.
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:37 AM
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It’s not what you wear, it’s how you wear it. I get told all kinds of things by women..namely that I’m a fuckboi, or I have “BDE”. Truth is though, I haven’t been laid in almost a year.
/r/seduction07/05/26 12:55 AM
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More power to you. I checked out of online dating entirely years ago, every woman I meet these days is strictly in person.
/r/seduction07/05/26 12:52 AM
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She could be testing to see if you start acting needy or something. Honestly I wouldn’t have texted her at all, let her reach out to you. How long has it been since you saw her?
/r/seduction07/05/26 12:50 AM
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Bro, ask her when she is free, then schedule a date for that day. When she reached out with the meme, that was your opportunity to ask .. “so what’s your availability like? It’d be great to see you”, you tried to set a day for the next day not knowing her availability.
/r/seduction05/05/26 07:49 PM
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You were having consensual sex. He put you in a position you didn’t enjoy, but you never communicated dissatisfaction with it, even if you felt that way at the time. I would say no, this is not SA.
/r/seduction04/05/26 07:58 PM
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Crazy, but accurate
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:37 PM
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When it feels right. If you see her in person on some basis, ask her out in person. Otherwise, call her up. Texting is fine too I just prefer not to set up dates that way, they are low committal
/r/seduction02/05/26 10:22 PM
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I mean yes and no. I’m decently attractive, far from the best though. And my game can be strong but it’s pretty inconsistent, so I definitely struggle too. Just gotta be okay with yourself and the fact that it’s ultimately a numbers game. Be comfortable with the fact that you will lose a lot before you win.
/r/seduction02/05/26 10:03 PM
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Not at all lol, most of the time I go out alone.
/r/seduction02/05/26 12:59 PM
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I’m like 5’8/5’9 and attract more women than I can even handle. Also broke. So what is it?
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:20 AM
0

I saw a bee earlier today
/r/seduction01/05/26 05:30 PM
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Come over to Tampa and I got you
/r/seduction01/05/26 04:10 PM
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From chat gpt, this seems good but what do you think? You’re not dealing with a “seduction skill” gap so much as a pressure + calibration problem at the escalation stage. The pattern you described is consistent: You’re strong when things are low stakes (attraction, banter, setup) You destabilize when things become high stakes (sexual tension, logistics, closing) That shift changes your behavior in two ways: You speed up (over-eagerness, saying too much) You switch from implicit → explicit too ea…
/r/seduction01/05/26 11:13 AM
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Ok well you’re wondering what went wrong, and I laid it out for you. You were laying in bed with a girl from the club. You can be in denial all you want, but it’s pretty clear to me that she realized you didn’t have the balls to go for it.
/r/seduction01/05/26 09:57 AM
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The fact she invited you to her place, and you guys cuddled to sleep AND she said “we aren’t having sex tonight”..she was 100% hoping for sex that night and you didn’t catch on. 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction01/05/26 03:14 AM
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Yeah true. She actually just reached out too.
/r/seduction30/04/26 12:07 AM
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Great advice actually, thanks for taking the time to share.
/r/seduction30/04/26 12:05 AM
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Damn son! Nah you right, I need to stop making excuses and just close the deal already 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction30/04/26 12:05 AM
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Well I say that because she’s lowkey freak. We work together for starters. Looking at me licking straws, she was messing with a bottle of whiteout and kept putting the piece in and out of the bottle, those are just a couple of examples 😭
/r/seduction29/04/26 11:41 PM
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Couple things..1) she doesn’t have a place I can go back to, and neither do I, and 2) we work together, so I see her almost daily
/r/seduction29/04/26 11:31 PM
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Lmao I like the last quip. That’s how I tend to see things! Nonetheless, yeah, just trying to be cool about it and gotta work on getting rid of expectations.
/r/seduction29/04/26 11:01 PM
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Well her attraction level is pretty high overall if I had to accurately assess it. Like, if I wanted a kiss she would give one, etc. And she did say we’d do it again. So yeah, maybe she really does have obligations. This is also fairly early in the evening so there’s that. I suppose I’m just not really used to it being short because pretty much every other first date I’ve had was later & lasted longer. The conversation flowed though and there’s definitely chemistry, so maybe I just need to be mo…
/r/seduction29/04/26 10:59 PM
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Wasn’t advice so much as just general knowledge. I am definitely not saying you should take advice from rap lyrics lol
/r/seduction29/04/26 03:53 PM
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True, thanks
/r/seduction29/04/26 01:18 PM
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Yes for sure. But she’s going to be a lot more lenient than before.
/r/seduction29/04/26 01:07 PM
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Lol yep, that would explain why this girl does the goofiest things man, dancing like a freak and shaking her little booty randomly 😅
/r/seduction29/04/26 11:17 AM
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Definitely willing to accept I could be overthinking
/r/seduction29/04/26 11:09 AM
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I’m in the same boat. Peep the username.
/r/seduction27/04/26 04:14 PM
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This.
/r/seduction27/04/26 04:13 PM
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Any time a woman acts like she’s better than me, I get immediately turned off.
/r/seduction24/04/26 03:13 PM
1

Interesting. What makes you think this?
/r/seduction23/04/26 06:41 PM
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I’d like an answer first
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:46 PM
0

I had to get some stuff from the store for our store and she said “what’d you get some condoms?” is one example of
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:46 PM
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this is as real as it gets
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:06 PM
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lol why
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:06 PM
1

how is that indicative of my age?
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:06 PM
-1

..how?
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:05 PM
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💀
/r/seduction23/04/26 05:57 AM
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It has nothing to do with lack of confidence. Nothing kills attraction faster for women than being too available. If you want to win her over, then on some level, you have to play hard to get 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction23/04/26 05:46 AM
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He said the sex was great, lol. He asked her what she’s doing next week and she said she was busy. The solution here is to wait for her to reach out, then set up a time to meet up. “You up?” Late at night is rather reserved for someone you’ve hooked up with at least several times.
/r/seduction23/04/26 05:38 AM
0

It’s simple, if her attraction level is high then she will chase, and it isn’t just about mixed signals.
/r/seduction22/04/26 07:38 PM
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Apparently you’ve never been with a woman that actually likes you lol
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:13 PM
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Pretty sure all women give some level of resistance even if they are attracted, unless they are for the skreetz
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:48 AM
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Yup same here, great points. They are people first just like us men.
/r/seduction21/04/26 12:52 PM
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Vibe, go park somewhere (most parks close late at night so find an empty parking lot), ask her if she wants to chill in the back (if she’s horny and dtf she will know what you’re doing and oblige). Turn on a movie, youtube, whatever, then sexually escalate from there.
/r/seduction20/04/26 01:01 AM
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You know what must be done. Get in there!
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:52 AM
1

It does help if it’s available, I used to go with a buddy too. I’ll definitely consider myself, but I’d like to get the ball rolling first so I’m not reliant on friends being available to work out.
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:51 AM
1

How is that even possible bro a middle school girl can bench the bar 😂
/r/seduction19/04/26 11:39 PM
1

I mean, to each their own, but every dry spell I’ve ever been in has been alleviated shortly after hitting the gym for a bit.
/r/seduction19/04/26 11:24 PM
4

There’s a lot of factors. The workout routine, maybe you needed more intensity. How was your diet? Were you consuming protein/creatine? These things matter a lot.
/r/seduction19/04/26 11:23 PM
3

Ngl this got me bricked
/r/seduction19/04/26 07:28 PM
1

Yes but actually no ahh answer
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:49 AM
6

Same.
/r/seduction18/04/26 05:27 PM
31

Source: am victorian rizz wizz
/r/seduction18/04/26 05:25 PM
3

Maybe this is why I notice people staring at me often, even if they don’t necessarily have any desire to meet or chat. But a lot of people actually do, guys and girls will come up randomly on occasion. I don’t think I’m the most attractive guy around, yet I seem to get a lot of looks. The way I carry myself & my frame was developed through rough upbringing and experiences most people will never know, so you could say I carry myself a bit different than most.
/r/seduction17/04/26 06:52 PM
2

That’s a personal issue. I guarantee there were guys out there that met women that night. Some nights you go out and get nothing, other times you get close, and some nights you might just get lucky. Don’t call it quits after one or just a few attempts.
/r/seduction17/04/26 05:23 PM
2

It was the first point of the discussion: the busiest areas of your city
/r/seduction17/04/26 04:29 PM
4

At the end of the day, it’s all about numbers. The more women you expose yourself to, the higher the odds are that you’ll find one that you click with well enough to date. So if you believe in cold approaching, and online dating also works, then why not do both? Although if online dating works for you, then also doing cold approaching might be a little redundant and unnecessary. It comes down to how many women can you juggle really.
/r/seduction17/04/26 11:57 AM
4

Whenever she texts you, assume it’s because she wants to see you. Ask her when she’s free. If she gives you the runaround, pull back. If y’all have only been on 3 dates, then seeing each other once a week is completely normal. You can’t force this stuff to happen, it should happen naturally that the more dates you go on, the more often you start to hang out etc.
/r/seduction17/04/26 11:48 AM
1

I experience the three keys often where I am in FL. I don’t think it’s like that everywhere, really just depends on location.
/r/seduction17/04/26 11:46 AM
7

Many restaurants are good for this, not just high end ones. That being said, you have to be pretty sociable to pull in this environment, and word goes around fast so everyone will know your business. I find it’s better to meet women at work when it’s not so deliberate, ie working at an office and the receptionist is cute sorta thing. You’re not at the office specifically for that, but it’s a nice bonus.
/r/seduction17/04/26 11:44 AM
2

Nicely said, thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction16/04/26 09:41 PM
7

Lmao cmon man 7 foot tall millionaires so dramatic 🤣
/r/seduction16/04/26 07:19 PM
1

Is that a dating site?
/r/seduction16/04/26 06:01 PM
1

Moreso for women than men, but it happens both ways for sure. I’d be more than happy to date a foxy milf as a 26 yo
/r/seduction16/04/26 05:41 PM
1

As a fellow 26 year old who rarely gets guessed my age (usually ~20), yes our day will come later. Not a bad thing, means we’ll probably look really good in our 40s.
/r/seduction16/04/26 05:39 PM
1

Small white girls. Can you point me in the right direction
/r/seduction16/04/26 05:38 PM
22

This is a solid list. I’m sure there are others, but I’ll add work ethic/being in flow state. Whenever I’m hard at work and not paying attention to anything else, I notice women stare a lot.
/r/seduction16/04/26 03:45 PM
2

That’s the thing, I do jerk off basically every other day! 😩 I do think it has a lot to do with that though to be fair, it has been a minute since I’ve gotten any. Lots of close calls, I mean I meet women every weekend I go out that have some level of attraction, but my follow up game is weak.
/r/seduction16/04/26 03:40 PM
1

Thanks a lot, this helps. I’ve been doing a lot of self reflecting lately, it’s easy to see an asshole on the outside, but at least I’m trying to work on it.
/r/seduction16/04/26 03:35 PM
1

Yes ma’am, sorry.
/r/seduction16/04/26 03:34 PM
1

I mean, I appreciate the hypothesis. I don’t think I’d agree with it fully because I’m simply not a “nice guy”, ie bending over backwards for women you want, is just something I don’t and never have done. I’m just a little too blunt and matter of fact when I say stuff as of late. This colleague in question is not actually somebody I’m even interested in hooking up with, but I guess on some level it could be jealousy that another man is getting some and I’m not, which might be weird given I have …
/r/seduction16/04/26 02:44 PM
1

I actually don’t want sex with her, calm down!!
/r/seduction16/04/26 02:40 PM
1

I enjoyed ur body and beauty and ur taste and ur smell when having sex i resist having actual sex with u sex to be on special time special place and special way Actual sex I mean fucking u usually dont kiss boys when having sex with them I dont kiss them, only wild sex with no feelings
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:43 AM
1

All those things you just said is what you should be doing. Go out alone, make friends, etc. I am 26 and I do this. The more you do it, the easier it gets. I’ve had great nights, hook ups, met guys and gals and went to after parties, and I’ve also had nights where I left early, or stayed until after all the bars shut down and still went home by myself. Trust me, I get that it’s hard, especially because I myself am more introverted than not, perhaps you are too, but life doesn’t guarantee us anyt…
/r/seduction16/04/26 10:59 AM
1

That is indeed the new meta
/r/seduction16/04/26 04:42 AM
0

I don’t understand how this is relevant to seduction
/r/seduction16/04/26 04:39 AM
8

Down bad
/r/seduction15/04/26 04:05 PM
1

This happens to me all the time. I really think this is the result of social media, and dudes who spend all their time texting chicks just being jesters. Swear it was not this bad even a year ago.
/r/seduction15/04/26 04:27 AM
1

It’s not lame to not drink. Coming from someone who does enjoy a drink now and then.
/r/seduction14/04/26 04:38 PM
1

Good idea 👍
/r/seduction14/04/26 04:29 AM
3

I wouldn’t think to even talk about strengths/weaknesses over text..this is date stuff. You don’t use texting to get to know someone (unless it’s long distance or something). Use texting as a tool to arrange meeting up
/r/seduction13/04/26 09:13 PM
2

Yeah…..no…..
/r/seduction13/04/26 09:11 PM
3

Funny but I’m actually texting w a chick rn, she got back to me..don’t even remember who she is or what she looks like, but imma def use this as practice lmao. Typically, any time I try to take advice, it goes horribly, so I’m just gonna do whatever I think is right
/r/seduction13/04/26 09:10 PM
1

I do
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:53 AM
2

Yeah man well, if I’m in a bigger city usually I’ll get something. Rn I live in a niche richer folk area, and unless you’re like..a fetish or rich, you’ll struggle. Kinda weird but that’s how it is. I think I just need to try different areas. 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:52 AM
2

I typically go to the same area, and there’s one bar in particular I like to go to because they play decent music sometimes. It’s kinda small tho n idk, a lot of regulars n I just don’t know if I fit in. I see a lot of folk go home by themselves tho. Maybe people just don’t know how to socialize anymore. Either way..when I’m at a place and I’m truly vibing with it, that’s when I get the best results. EDM places seem to be the best for me
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:45 AM
2

Yeah man I suppose
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:40 AM
1

It works well for me. Most places I go, there’s opportunity. Don’t need to rely on pick up bs or maxxing.
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:25 AM
1

I’m doing my best to hold the line. I actually have fairly high standards, I just love pretty women. The typical night out usually presents opportunities, but not really the ones I want.
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:24 AM
6

Just maintain your vibes before and after hooking up. If they want to keep you around then they’ll have no problem facilitating a fwb type situation, unless they explicitly state they want more.
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:17 PM
1

All fair points, can’t argue with it.
/r/seduction10/04/26 04:43 PM
1

That’s actually not true at all lmao
/r/seduction10/04/26 02:49 PM
1

Facts, 100%.
/r/seduction10/04/26 12:08 PM
1

She seemed playful, while we were talking she was like shaking her hips. Definitely wouldn’t say firm or arrogant. I do agree, I think I tend to go for the number a bit soon rather than trying to build a connection, so that’s something to work on in the future. And again I agree, it’s hard to assess here because there could be a number of factors: maybe she couldn’t give it while working for fear of getting in trouble, or being stigmatized by other patrons, maybe she wanted a little more of a co…
/r/seduction10/04/26 11:15 AM
1

Imo, it’s more about maintaining attraction than trying to create it, which actually is possible. A woman might notice you and not really think twice about it, but if she’s in a room with you and you’re able to display your character, that could be enough to attract her. It comes down to the attraction scale. If a woman sees you as at least 5/10, you have a chance if you’re able to persuade her with other characteristics or behaviors. The higher on that scale obviously, the easier it is. If she …
/r/seduction10/04/26 11:09 AM
1

Frame has more to do with not letting a woman’s emotional rollercoaster effect you, hence why it’s called that. This had nothing to do with showing how important I was. I was set on something (leaving), and she put conditions on getting her number (staying, the opposite of what I wanted to do). Men are built around mission and purpose, my mission there in that instance was to leave, and hopefully get her number as well. If I had stayed, I would have deterred from my goal of leaving, which women …
/r/seduction10/04/26 11:02 AM
1

Sounds like you don’t know the first thing about attracting the opposite sex of our species, lmao. If a woman doesn’t respect you, you think that’s gonna go well for you? Ok bud 👍. Think a little bit before you comment with such ignorance.
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:40 AM
1

Just go out solo bro
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:26 AM
4

So…is it pink?
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:35 PM
2

Well I mean I guess I suppose that could be the case, if that’s really who you are then own it - I assume you compliment everyone when you meet them. Most people who approach women are NOT like that, and thus don’t own it, and it’s coming from a position of ingenuity, insecurity, or something of the sorts.
/r/seduction09/04/26 09:31 PM
2

Chaturbate
/r/seduction09/04/26 08:12 PM
9

Sometimes it’s you, sometimes it’s them, sometimes it’s the circumstances. When things are just right on both ends, you (both) succeed. The game is all about numbers.
/r/seduction09/04/26 08:11 PM
3

To be fair, I met a really cool chick at a rave once and we went back to hers on Friday night. I didn’t go home until Monday and yes we were getting freaky the whole time. We ended up actually dating for a bit, and she would actually go out of her way to pay for airbnb’s, hotels, dates, etc. I chipped in here and there cuz I started to feel bad..but she insisted! (And no she didn’t have it like that either).
/r/seduction09/04/26 08:09 PM
4

Yeah, just be yourself. Women are humans, so just be sociable and friendly.
/r/seduction09/04/26 08:06 PM
7

Exactly. Pretty & mature women are so damn sexy!
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:06 PM
88

First of all, opening anywhere in the world with “you are pretty” is terrible. Many women will actually take full advantage of that and drag you around, extracting money and time. Being careful of heeding the advice you receive is wise anywhere.
/r/seduction09/04/26 04:15 PM
3

Lmao
/r/seduction06/04/26 02:24 PM
0

this is straight from chatgpt gang
/r/seduction05/04/26 01:22 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/seduction03/04/26 01:35 PM
1

You can feign abundance. A virgin can have abundance. That’s why abundance does not equate to actively sleeping with 5 women.
/r/seduction03/04/26 01:35 PM
1

Well the entire point of dating is to find out if that person is a good match for you. Sometimes that leads to sex, sometimes it doesn’t. That’s why, on its face, someone that’s having a lot of sex with different people, there must be something wrong with them. Can you not find your match, why not? Maybe you’re the problem. People have seduction confused. Seduction is everything that happens before sex, in order to make sex happen. That’s why you can be seductive, and seduce, but not have sex. I…
/r/seduction03/04/26 01:06 PM
1

Abundance doesn’t mean sleep with the whole town. Abundance is a mindset, not an action.
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:44 PM
1

you are causing a heightened level of cookoo-ness Technically yes, men who are just casually dating or having a lot of one night stands are definitely contributing to that. Is it okay with me? No. I date to find a life partner. Casual sex makes men less in tune with themselves and makes them egotistical, which causes other problems. Are they less likely to have happy and healthy relationships, yes, for the aforementioned reasons.
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:42 PM
0

Misogyny lol, you’re special aren’t you
/r/seduction03/04/26 12:28 PM
-1

Maybe you didn’t read what I said. Men and women are different. It has nothing to do with hypocrisy. In plain view, when a woman goes around having a bunch of sex with different men, it literally makes her cookoo in the head. Not to mention, the chances of her finding and maintaining a happy and healthy relationship are impaired. I also never said it doesn’t effect men too.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:59 AM
0

Wanker? Moron.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:52 AM
0

Yes, it’s mostly women racking high body counts that is yuck. And, call me sexist if you want, but men and women have differences. One of those differences is that sex with multiples of partners has drastically more consequence for women than men, suggesting women should be more concerned with careless sex than men.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:51 AM
0

It’s actually the ideals of modern society and hookup culture that bothers me, it is not productive to a “happy” society in the long run. And research has already concluded that sex with multiple partners has negative consequences for particularly women but men as well. So yes you actually are hurting yourself. Why do I care? A bunch of people thinking exactly the way you do is what contributes to a fallen society.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:49 AM
-8

You can be seductive but not fuck everyone you seduce, lmao. There’s this thing called “self-control”, try it out. Especially if you’re a woman.
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:27 AM
-2

yuck
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:14 AM
2

It’s insecure to not want a woman who’s slept with every guy on the block? Ok then, guess I’m insecure lmao
/r/seduction03/04/26 11:14 AM
2

26, ~15. Should be twice as much but, well, my username.
/r/seduction02/04/26 02:10 AM
1

People don’t change bro
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:30 PM
1

That is true too. I mean, at the end of the day, dating is a numbers game. The odds generally are considerably higher in person than online, but it is what it is, there’s no amount of bettering yourself that can change that fact. Any guy that doesn’t understand that will have a rough time period.
/r/seduction01/04/26 11:57 AM
1

What you’re clearly not accounting for is the fact that in real life, you get a complete picture of who someone is..their body language, vibe, eye contact, tonality, and more..none of which you can get swiping on tinder, and all of which matter during the process of seduction. So yes, while there are conversations that lead nowhere in person, and even more-so with online dating, the comparison is entirely moot, and acting like they are the same is completely unfounded. The “hit” one might take i…
/r/seduction01/04/26 11:23 AM
2

Fair enough
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:04 PM
1

Underestimate, as in, they look better than they think? Either way, I think the crux of the issue with OLD platforms, especially tinder & bumble & the behemoths of that industry, is they utilize very particular algorithms that push most guys out of visibility. You can be a really good looking guy, but still not get many matches if any because of how the discoverability algorithm works. The cards are most definitely stacked against most men.
/r/seduction31/03/26 06:27 PM
8

If you have 12 years of experience then you shouldn’t care what other’s thoughts are, game is game right?
/r/seduction31/03/26 02:10 PM
1

Yeah no I definitely feel that. I think to really pull baddies if you’re sub in the category, you gotta be 100% in your element at all times, which is very hard to do. At least up to bagging them, then you can let off the gas a bit
/r/seduction31/03/26 02:09 PM
2

I dunno, I never really gave it a true effort (ie professional photos etc), but I thought I had a decent photo selection on there..I’ve matched but nothing ever came about. I only ever met up with one girl off tinder and she looked NOTHING like her pics. I’m just way better off irl, nothing degrades your self image like OLD
/r/seduction31/03/26 01:43 PM
1

Sometimes but not always. I’ve attracted beautiful women many times, but also sometimes the tortas or girls who think they have a shot but definitely don’t. Man those are the ones who are really ballsy, walk past ye and rub all up on ye
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:59 AM
24

Blows my mind that people still use that trash
/r/seduction31/03/26 07:48 AM
1

Lmao yeah right, I grew up 20 mins outside philly, I ain’t asking for permission
/r/seduction31/03/26 07:44 AM
1

Thank you, very helpful.
/r/seduction31/03/26 12:59 AM
1

You sound qualified, mind helping me out a bit? I don’t really know how to dress in a style that’s “coherent” with who I am / my personality. I am generally more reserved, but can be out-spoken and powerful when needed. I get called boss a lot, and tend to assume that. I would love to dress all fancy, but I definitely don’t have the lifestyle to match it (wearing a nice suit might suggest having money, which I don’t). Any pointers appreciated.
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:28 PM
2

I get where you’re coming from. I suppose my point is that, it’s entirely possible to get too “in the weeds” so to speak with all this, and at a certain point you will start to produce the opposite of the desired outcome. Almost like analysis paralysis, it’s never good to be too in your head about this stuff, which is why I further suppose we can deduce it to “just be yourself” after learning enough material. I’m sure you already understand this, but I figured it was worth explaining a little mo…
/r/seduction30/03/26 10:20 PM
5

Just be yourself. That simple. If one likes you enough then wallah, hookup is possible. If it doesn’t happen, it is what it is, just do what you can to enjoy yourself. Never set the expectation of sex or you’ll be disappointed.
/r/seduction30/03/26 09:40 PM
1

Peacocking huh. I haven’t heard of this term, but I dig it!!
/r/seduction30/03/26 05:33 PM
1

We ain’t wearing no button up shirt, just a plain white t. But much appreciated anyways
/r/seduction30/03/26 04:21 PM
1

Bro what lol. At least 60-70% of chicks at the club are not with a guy at all in their group..usually 2 or more girls, with maybe the occasional guy pulling up
/r/seduction30/03/26 01:38 PM
19

The oversized t shirt w jeans worked for me last night 🤷‍♂️ girls are throwing themselves at me. I’m trying to revive 2000’s drip!
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:29 PM
14

Fr, broke up about a guy following her on ig. So pathetic bro 😂
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:42 PM
1

Last night I went out and there was a bride there having her last hoorah, the to-be hubby wasn’t there. I can tell she really wanted to fk and she was getting all close and talking about freak stuff. Didn’t even sound like she wanted to marry this guy. I probably could’ve laid it down, but I felt sorta bad
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:35 PM
9

Same lol lots of attractive girls are freaks
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:23 PM
5

Bruh lmao
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:22 PM
1

Yup
/r/seduction28/03/26 10:19 AM
1

Yup, whenever I’m either really in the zone / flow state doing something, or just being silly me, I can attract women like I’m casting a wide fishing net, but when I’m “trying”, it’s fruitless
/r/seduction27/03/26 04:42 PM
2

Duh
/r/seduction27/03/26 02:07 PM
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/r/seduction19/03/26 11:30 PM
2

I wish I knew what to tell you, because I’m in the same boat. I might be the world’s worst texter. And a lot of people (especially women) nowadays want to be entertained over text. I’d rather call, or even better, hang out in person. Just leaving this here to hopefully follow this, maybe someone else can provide some insight. Just seems like work I’m currently uninterested in doing. I’m a working professional, I don’t have time to sit there and send tiktoks to someone, or whatever people do thes…
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:12 PM
1

I literally hate texting, I’m ok with sending 0 messages a day. If a girl is already my gf or we’re a few dates in then ok a few messages a day is fine, otherwise why why why
/r/seduction19/03/26 12:17 PM
1

I think I’m more of a niche type, it’s either hell yes or hell no
/r/seduction19/03/26 12:13 PM
1

advice isn’t a noun
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:04 AM
11

I must be that
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:03 AM
7

Holy shit bro who is reading all this. It goes without saying that reflecting on your night outs is valuable if you want to get better with seducing women.
/r/seduction18/03/26 11:46 PM
1

It’s more so about being able to tease her playfully and not just do whatever she says or wants.
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:02 PM
4

Good advice generally. My problem isn’t actually this, it’s going from initial texting phase to a date.
/r/seduction18/03/26 06:26 PM
1

Thanks. I just asked her so we’ll see. My game has been off when it comes to texting and arranging meetups. I should already have a roster but, well, I’ve been fumbling. 😆
/r/seduction18/03/26 05:58 PM
1

Best time for me is a week from now, should I ask her anyways?
/r/seduction18/03/26 05:48 PM
27

Some women are just flirts, I think they like the idea of turning you on to them, but don’t actually have the intention of doing anything with you. Exactly as you said, time wasters.
/r/seduction18/03/26 04:49 PM
1

We’ve had some dry weather lately, would definitely benefit from some rainfall
/r/seduction18/03/26 04:47 PM
2

Old school huh, I appreciate the suggestion!
/r/seduction18/03/26 04:45 PM
1

Win some lose some 😅
/r/seduction18/03/26 04:44 PM
2

A woman who’s into you will help the conversation progress, if you have to do all the heavy lifting, she ain’t into you
/r/seduction18/03/26 02:35 PM
1

Duh, it’s not really normal despite societal “norms”
/r/seduction18/03/26 10:32 AM
5

Well she basically approached me. She positioned herself directly next to me, which let her friend talk to my friend, and I got the hint so I struck up a convo. It went alright, we ended up dancing and making out like all night. I tried to escalate & get her out of the club but her friend was blocking (probably because my homie wasn’t properly doing the same). The girl was pretty drunk by the end of the night and gave me the wrong number (she’s the one who insisted I get it from her..). She said…
/r/seduction16/03/26 11:17 PM
3

Yeah I’d put someone like that out if it were me personally. Better to have no company than bad company. Good luck bro
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:14 PM
9

Life is too short for bad friends. I’ve had to learn this on several occasions.
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:42 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction16/03/26 11:47 AM
14

“So um, you tryna fuck?”
/r/seduction16/03/26 11:23 AM
22

My steak is too juicy and my spring rolls too buttery
/r/seduction16/03/26 11:21 AM
1

How did you even come across this obscure ahh video lol
/r/seduction14/03/26 07:22 PM
9

I mean this is generally true, but if you really hit things off with a chick she’ll hold out for you and probably anticipate when you might message her, which raises attraction.
/r/seduction14/03/26 04:45 PM
1

For me I have to smoke a little bit to reach that state, sometimes I can do it just tipsy but yeah I feel you
/r/seduction14/03/26 12:28 PM
3

Exactly
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:27 PM
6

He did say ask if she wants it. Me personally I’ve never asked, but I know how to read my woman.
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:27 PM
1

Yeah, don’t do that. It’s okay for them to ‘discover’ things, but don’t freely give that info out
/r/seduction12/03/26 10:56 PM
1

White t shirt, jeans. Done
/r/seduction12/03/26 05:09 AM
1

Stop overthinking everything. Find somewhere you can really enjoy yourself, and do that. Most of my success came when I was vibing out to good music, not overthinking stuff, and could chat with anyone and everyone. Gotta work on that self confidence issue if you want some success.
/r/seduction12/03/26 02:51 AM
3

Swear snow is a cheat code
/r/seduction12/03/26 02:46 AM
1

This might be the most insightful post on here, from OP to the comments.
/r/seduction12/03/26 01:52 AM
1

🙋‍♂️
/r/seduction12/03/26 01:49 AM
1

Is a water flosser ok?
/r/seduction12/03/26 01:23 AM
1

Come over let’s fuck
/r/seduction11/03/26 10:43 PM
1

Isn’t spring break over?
/r/seduction11/03/26 02:00 AM
1

Lol, something about airports. A pretty woman randomly came up to me & got me food, we ate pizza together.
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:12 PM
1

He’s actually doing mostly what he’s supposed to. I would say the in between texts about her race etc were very unnecessary. Women like a guy they can’t necessarily read. After she said she had a good time tonight, “glad we were finally able to hang out again”, this is hot, he should’ve already put into motion another date here: “Absolutely, it was great to see you. I’ll reach out so we can make it happen again.” Then give it a few days with those plans. Instead, several days go by and he hasn’t…
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:30 PM
48

Most likely this, he met her at a bar for starters, high likelihood he is back burner / one of several options she is actively testing out, and quite possibly not the highest priority.
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:23 PM
2

Yup, that’s why I just sent it today. Was definitely having a bit of anxiety prior, but once I just got it over with I felt better. Even if things don’t go anywhere, at least I can say I tried.
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:17 PM
1

For a little bit of context, I’ve been in a sort of shell in recent months, so I haven’t done a whole lot of approaching at all. I’ve had some interactions with women on occasion when I go out during the weekend for example, but my game is definitely rusty. Which sucks because I know I’ve missed/fumbled a good handful of opportunities.
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:11 PM
5

Well I mean, sometimes we’re just not really in a good place to be dating, casually or other. That’s normal. I’m in that place myself, I don’t have a car, live at home with my folks, I feel like I’m not fulfilling my purpose, and it has taken a toll on me. I literally connected with a woman really well, we were vibing, I grabbed her ass and she was really excited to be with me, but I hated not living up to my image so I self-rejected myself. Never been in that position before but here we are. I …
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:54 AM
2

I do 100% better irl than dating apps. It’s not even about game, those apps are just manipulated + drowned out by so many other guys, you basically stand little chance
/r/seduction08/03/26 12:01 AM
1

Kinda but nothing serious
/r/seduction07/03/26 12:40 PM
4

I’m carrying out the prophecy of my username
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:36 AM
1

I’m having a similar but different issue. I’ll meet a woman and things are actually going really good (like..as good as it could be), but then I stop. I tell myself it’s because I’m here with my boys but it’s something else, just don’t know what. I’m not content with life rn it could have something to do with that, but idk. Wish I knew, I’ve been passing up good shit
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:42 AM
1

Lmk w the snapchat, going out tonight feeling good
/r/seduction07/03/26 02:58 AM
1

True, thanks for the words.
/r/seduction07/03/26 02:41 AM
1

Yeah true, that’s why volume matters. Just feels like I strike out a lot, but idk I’m not even really shooting that much + I’m picky.
/r/seduction07/03/26 01:57 AM
2

Well, you initiated, got to know her a little bit, escalated, and she accepted. I don’t agree with getting the IG part, should always get a phone number, but more power to you. Good stuff tho man good luck with it
/r/seduction07/03/26 12:32 AM
-1

Never seen a 10/10 asian before
/r/seduction05/03/26 09:54 PM
5

The first thing you said is so true. Every time I see a suuuper fine chick, she gives ME signals, and half the time I’m in disbelief
/r/seduction05/03/26 04:49 PM
3

I am the prize
/r/seduction05/03/26 04:48 PM
32

What
/r/seduction05/03/26 01:00 PM
5

Facts, good advice thanks.
/r/seduction04/03/26 10:43 PM
2

Yep. I’ve heard some women say they don’t like men who are ‘too muscular’, or prefer skinny guys. You can do literally everything “right” and max all your stats and there will still be women who won’t give you the time of day, for perhaps the most trivial reasons. That’s why it’s best to just be yourself at all times, they either like the package or they don’t.
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:50 PM
2

The best advice is to do things you enjoy doing, and don’t just do them for the possibility of women, but because of the aforementioned. When you’re getting out there enough, eventually you’ll meet someone for you. It cannot be stressed enough, meeting women is all about luck & timing (unless you’re a celebrity or wealthy)
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:45 PM
3

Come up with something you guys can do outside of work and ask her casually if she’d like to go with. Then you’ve basically got yourself a date, and you slowly lead things in the direction you want to go. Of course, this is muddy territory because if it backfires for any reason, you’ve basically sabotaged a comfortable work environment, which probably happens more frequently than not. That’s why they say, if you’re going to do this in the workplace, have a back up lined up in case things go sout…
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:41 PM
3

I’m either not as attractive as I thought, am attractive but not photogenic, can convert easier in person due to vibes/charisma, or the algorithm actively works against me. I don’t do well on the apps. Whenever I create a new account on say Tinder, I will usually get a few matches, and yes they are usually attractive, but after that I will get literally nothing for weeks. My text game also sucks so there’s that. The way I speak in person with tonality etc usually just doesn’t convert well to tex…
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:28 PM
1

I’ve never thought of this. Ask your friends to rate you?
/r/seduction04/03/26 02:00 AM
3

Wanna hookup?
/r/seduction04/03/26 01:42 AM
1

That’s the backwards nature of society today. Men are the prize, and women will treat you the way you see yourself. Just look at how average women treat celebrity men
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:49 PM
2

Yep
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:47 PM
18

Haven’t had sex for a year lol, come on man…
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:39 AM
0

You must be completely inexperienced to dating, so no problem mate. Yeah give me a bit to dig up some research papers on this topic so you can feel better that science backs this.
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:13 PM
-1

Uh, nope, it isn’t. Quite objectively this is the case. Trauma affects people differently, sure, but it’s pretty much common knowledge that women with daddy issues seek attention anywhere they can get it. Saying this isn’t the case is just coping.
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:08 PM
7

This guy seduces
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:10 PM
0

Ehhh, they’re still prone to cheating regardless. It can work, just usually doesn’t.
/r/seduction02/03/26 06:54 PM
1

Girls w daddy issues are fun, as long as you don’t take em too serious
/r/seduction02/03/26 06:37 PM
17

I mean, shit….
/r/seduction02/03/26 06:36 PM
12

I’ll have what I’m having
/r/seduction02/03/26 06:36 PM
1

I mean yeah. Just make sure you’re doing your best to smile and seem warm. Maybe you have RBF? Either way I can relate, which sucks because I enjoy connecting with people.
/r/seduction02/03/26 02:48 PM
1

I have the same problem as 26M lol. But in your case I’d say approaching is your best bet
/r/seduction02/03/26 02:32 PM
1

Contrary to movies and stuff, women need some kind of familiarity basis to do anything with you. This type of thing will never work, unless it’s a lot lizard or something similar
/r/seduction28/02/26 09:34 PM
2

Damn, great comment, can’t argue with that.
/r/seduction28/02/26 06:12 PM
1

Lmao yeah I like the body builder depiction. I mean, I wouldn’t say mine is THAT bad, but the point nonetheless is not lost on me. I give more hitman vibes lol, but yeah I need to get back to speaking correctly. I like how you put it; the way I’m speaking is infact not natural and not true to who I am.
/r/seduction28/02/26 01:48 PM
2

Lmao alr
/r/seduction28/02/26 10:17 AM
1

Facts, good looking
/r/seduction28/02/26 10:16 AM
2

Yeah I suppose. Guess we gotta start getting that volume up
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:15 AM
1

True
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:15 AM
0

Ok fair enough
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:14 AM
1

Well..this isn’t the copium I want /s
/r/seduction28/02/26 12:07 AM
1

Well I was trying to give the background, probably could’ve summed it up better for sure. As far as making sure the girl likes you, the way I see it, I don’t like cold approaching women, I think you’ll face far more rejection than a warm approach, which is basically waiting to see if you get choosing signals before approaching. With cold approaching, you’re doing it off no signals at all, just maximizing volume, whereas warm approaching is much more selective. In the end it’s all a numbers game …
/r/seduction27/02/26 11:58 PM
3

True
/r/seduction27/02/26 11:55 PM
5

Buddy, get their phone number. If you like em and want to set something up, then you text or call. Asking for social media is an extra step and usually they take you less seriously because of it
/r/seduction26/02/26 07:55 AM
5

Why are you asking for IG..
/r/seduction26/02/26 07:49 AM
1

If they say that, they don’t like you / are unavailable. That simple.
/r/seduction24/02/26 11:57 AM
3

Or don’t
/r/seduction24/02/26 02:10 AM
1

If you don’t care about the job that much and can be easily employed elsewhere then sure, otherwise it’s too risky.
/r/seduction17/02/26 06:35 PM
1

Figure out when she’s available to set the specific date for dinner. I invited her one-on-one.. she said yes, but neither of us were available I’m scratching my head a little bit at this. When you want to arrange a date, you typically set it for a few days ahead. So why would you ask her out if you weren’t even available that weekend? She said she was busy, did she offer a different time that works better?
/r/seduction16/02/26 03:42 PM
1

24, 34, 46, good and thick, and once you get it she’ll work with it
/r/seduction16/02/26 01:58 PM
1

What is ENM? Either way, that’s alright, at least you made the effort.
/r/seduction15/02/26 02:23 PM
2

Yeh. I went out, nothing crazy but I ended up chilling w a chick for a lil bit, she been texting me, we’ll see where it goes
/r/seduction15/02/26 09:12 AM
0

I get it bro. Just vibe out & enjoy yourself. There’s nothing else to it. All this other stuff is waaaa feel bad for me. Pick it up.
/r/seduction15/02/26 04:26 AM
2

Godspeed. 🫡
/r/seduction15/02/26 04:25 AM
1

Just vibe out & enjoy yourself man! The right woman will make it easy for you. Never go out solely with the goal of getting women.
/r/seduction15/02/26 02:51 AM
1

Why’s that..?
/r/seduction15/02/26 02:48 AM
1

Darrrn man. I don’t have much but fuck it! We just rode out.
/r/seduction15/02/26 02:48 AM
1

Idk about the onesie part but I’d love to go to a rave. Hot chicks and they’re easy to get. None that close tho sadly
/r/seduction14/02/26 11:09 PM
11

Je…sus
/r/seduction14/02/26 10:54 PM
1

crash out is one way to put it.. 😭
/r/seduction14/02/26 10:11 PM
0

Get ittt
/r/seduction14/02/26 09:51 PM
21

W. See you on the frontlines soldier 🫡
/r/seduction14/02/26 09:44 PM
2

I’m the same way. Once I can connect with someone past surface level stuff, girls or other, they typically tend to really enjoy my company. But being situationally introverted/extroverted makes it hard to get there in the first place. That’s why I always say, if I can get a girl to hang out, outside of the bar or club, it’s almost always a rap.
/r/seduction14/02/26 08:38 PM
1

Easy close out is grabbing something to eat / leaving the bar/club scene. Much easier to get her back to the crib from there. Just my experience tho
/r/seduction14/02/26 07:14 AM
1

It’s not that I’m not confident, I just been on the work grind and honestly don’t feel like talking to people most days.
/r/seduction13/02/26 10:21 AM
56

If you can’t tell she likes you after sitting on your lap, you’re cooked
/r/seduction13/02/26 01:15 AM
9

That’s it, I’m going to carnival.
/r/seduction13/02/26 12:22 AM
-4

Cold approaching is not a good idea usually. Ever heard of warm approaching?
/r/seduction12/02/26 03:12 PM
1

I’m saying this based off my own experiences. To each his own I guess.
/r/seduction11/02/26 05:41 PM
1

The mysterious guy is not a myth, maybe you don’t understand how female attraction works. You are being wholly too logical and straight forward, which is exactly what women are not. For the purpose of building attraction, that actually does the opposite in most cases. The idea is to let her discover things about you as the relationship goes along, this keeps her curious. If you meet a woman, and tell her everything about you, then that leaves no more guessing, no more curiosity, it kills the att…
/r/seduction11/02/26 03:06 PM
1

You’re overthinking this. When you’re chatting with a girl who’s into you, she has no problem talking it up. You should pretty much always be employing active listening skills. Any time she says something, you are being an active listener. I disagree about the mysterious part. That doesn’t mean don’t talk, that means don’t divulge information about yourself unnecessarily, and when she asks serious questions about you, keep it playful. Countless guys start rambling on about themselves, this is ex…
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:32 PM
7

So uh, one of the best skills you (or anyone) can develop is ‘active listening’. This is basically what it sounds like; asking the right questions about what someone is saying, listening patiently and not waiting to just interject or say your own piece. Repeating back some of the things they’ve said, like “So you were going back to your buddies house, and you guys found a skateboard…”. This is seriously underrated when it comes to not just general socializing, but seduction as well. This makes y…
/r/seduction11/02/26 12:35 AM
1

Yup. I see a lot of guys ruin their chance over neediness & oneitus.
/r/seduction10/02/26 09:50 PM
5

With women, and flirting with them, it’s usually subtleties that gets to them. Strong eye contact, speaking generally but saying things that could be innuendos, they love this.
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:17 PM
13

Honestly, every guy who’s really good with chicks is generally good with all people. As cliche as it is, start talking to anyone and everyone, that’s the best way to level up socially.
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:15 PM
-1

Yes, you can text two or three times a day. But still, after the 1st date that’s too much. I would only text a girl that much if we’re getting close to relationship vibes / exclusively seeing each other. Otherwise, texting every other day or only a few times a week to arrange dates its perfectly fine, if not the best idea. Even better, phone calls, you don’t really need to text at all in that case.
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:10 PM
-1

You want to be different than other guys. Where everyone else is texting her, be the one who doesn’t. Besides, a man who has any value is not on his phone constantly anyways, doesn’t have time to text back and forth.
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:13 PM
2

I mean, I would go for it, but that’s cuz Idgaf and in my opinion, she’s gonna cheat with someone anyways. If I knew the dude personally then no obviously. If I didn’t, then you already know.
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:12 PM
1

Thanks so much :)
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:16 PM
1

Yeah true. Honestly I did a 7 month stint in county, and I think that kinda messed me up a little bit. You’re right, I need to make it a habit to try to converse with as many people as possible, even if it’s only surface level stuff
/r/seduction10/02/26 04:23 PM
1

Yes I’m definitely high sex drive, think about sex often. When I did have a gf, we had sex every day, sometimes multiple times. I’m honestly both. Introverted and extroverted. Probably lean a bit introverted, but I can be the latter as well. I don’t think it’s a health issue, but maybe it could be. My sleep isn’t the best.
/r/seduction10/02/26 04:22 PM
1

I actually met one of my gfs on snapchat, but it was through a mutual friend. Other than that, haven’t had much luck. I actually try to avoid using it these days.
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:03 PM
2

As a fellow 26 year old, you are overthinking it! Mid-late 20’s is actually great because older women are more open to entertaining you than a couple years ago. You get best of both worlds. Embrace it, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. You are most certainly not the only one there at that age, in fact there are people twice your age doing exactly this on any given night. Cheers.
/r/seduction10/02/26 09:43 AM
2

Yikes, I would leave this one bejind.
/r/seduction08/02/26 11:20 AM
2

I would say text me when you want to link up. and leave it at that. if she texts you about anything else just ignore it.
/r/seduction08/02/26 12:12 AM
-1

This shit is too much lol, go with the flow, if she likes you she will make it easy.
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:46 PM
1

Don’t fall for the trap
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:27 PM
0

Nnnah
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:26 PM
1

yup exactly bro lol keep it going
/r/seduction06/02/26 09:05 PM
1

Yeah, that’s different than saying text me when your free.
/r/seduction06/02/26 07:20 PM
1

I’m not the best texter myself but you should’ve put the ball back in her court by saying something like “No worries, let me know when you’re free”. If all you said was no worries, that’s a closed conversation.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:35 PM
12

Sneaky thot 🤯
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:49 PM
7

Wow lucky guy, she even gave the booty hole huh.
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:48 PM
28

I started working at a pizza shop. There was a girl there my age that I was into. She had a bf. I’d catch her eye occasionally and that sorta thing. Long story short, we ended up having sex at the store one morning before we opened. At the time, she was still with her bf. After that she broke up with him and we started hooking up more. Craziest thing was she would talk about how awesome he was with this thing and that. Once she started opening up about their problems I knew I had a shot. Females…
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:43 PM
1

True, these are the basics. Thanks for your input.
/r/seduction05/02/26 07:28 PM
1

Really solid advice. Seems like common sense but I’ve lost my touch a bit after landing myself in jail for 7 months, just been on work grind ever since. Any hook ups I do land are pretty much the woman doing 90% of the effort.
/r/seduction05/02/26 03:33 PM
2

Establish yourself as a regular first then work your way in. Women typically have their guard up towards men they don’t know. It’s definitely possible to shoot your shot as a customer, but if this is somewhere you tend to frequent anyways, I would continue establishing my presence there, become acquainted with her, and go from there. If you happened to stop in and never go there, that would be a different story.
/r/seduction05/02/26 02:52 PM
1

Well she did say she has digestion problems, and a lot of our food has starch and other things that could be problematic for someone like that. I could maybe pose a salad and see how she receives that. Thanks for your input.
/r/seduction05/02/26 02:23 PM
1

I like the lowkey approach here lol, but yeah from the other comment about reputation & rumor, that’s the big concern here.
/r/seduction05/02/26 02:22 PM
1

Yeah no um, from what I said in the post it doesn’t seem like she’s into me, it’s more the vibe I get from her, but I’m willing to accept I could be wrong about that. I appreciate the thoughts.
/r/seduction05/02/26 02:21 PM
1

Where are the women who are attracted to dishwashers @? Lol in all seriousness, definitely just be yourself. No matter how hard you try to be perfect, not everyone is gonna like you, and that’s okay. The sooner you accept this, the better off you’ll be.
/r/seduction05/02/26 01:08 PM
3

Stopped acting like the world owed me something and figured out how it all works
/r/seduction05/02/26 01:05 PM
2

I’ll upvote, cheers
/r/seduction04/02/26 06:05 PM
1

honestly I don’t think I even read your comment lmao, I actually agree with it. No, I pretty much only drive shitboxes, and I get a lot of same day lays. A lot of the replies here are guys coping that think you need a nice car to have sex which couldn’t be further from true lmao, I was banging my co worker, she would pick me up too I didn’t have a car at all
/r/seduction04/02/26 02:09 PM
1

You trippin
/r/seduction04/02/26 02:05 PM
1

Total bs lol
/r/seduction04/02/26 02:03 PM
6

It’s ok buddy, I was getting some in my mk4 jetta wagon, i got us 💪
/r/seduction04/02/26 02:02 PM
3

This is totally cope lol “huge impact” no. I was screwing my co worker while she was picking me up for work. I was walking to and from at that point. She was hot for me. Another didn’t give a shit, first time I picked her up I literally had to keep pulling over and putting transmission fluid in it to keep going 😂
/r/seduction04/02/26 02:01 PM
15

I mean, I guess this is decent advice. Me personally, I like to stay posted up. I’ll vibe out to some music or whatever. Chix will put themselves in front or around me. Some will walk by like 5 times. Women are the most observant and spatially aware beings on the planet, so it’s no accident if they get to standing real close, or walk past you a bunch of times. Sometimes, if I don’t make an approach, they’ll say something.
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:12 PM
1

This
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:41 PM
1

Yeah, of course, just not in Dubai.
/r/seduction29/01/26 01:19 PM
5

Dubai is one of the most money-centric places on earth (which is saying a lot), and you’re hoping to pull a “high league” “baddie”, 99% of whom are there in hopes of securing financial support, and/or are already with older, financially successful men. You will struggle.
/r/seduction29/01/26 12:07 PM
1

Intelligent men struggle for the opposite reason, constantly analyzing shit and not being monkey-brained
/r/seduction28/01/26 11:13 AM
1

Has nothing to do with self improvement. You can self-improve, but still be yourself. I am dumbfounded that you don’t understand this.
/r/seduction25/01/26 02:46 PM
1

Don’t expect anything, that’s how you set yourself up for disappointment.
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:16 AM
3

What he said was true. Don’t take it personal champ, we’ve all been there. None of us will make it through life without being a loser to someone.
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:16 AM
1

The advice I gave won’t change in 100 years, and wasn’t different 100 years ago. Be yourself. If you both like each other, things will most likely move along however you wish.
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:13 AM
1

The other party has to be receptive obviously, that’s how. But you can have a fairly lengthy convo with a girl at a bar or whatever and still not get anywhere. Good practice though if you need it.
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:10 AM
3

I’m a little confused how you have 50+ bodies but don’t know how to act on a first date. As with pretty much any other situation, just be yourself. Acting like you’re someone you’re not will be the start of issues for you. You’re there to find out if she is someone you want to spend your time with, nothing more nothing less.
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:06 AM
264

Be carefullll..! As someone who has been in this exact situation, things for us went sideways. The proceeding 2-3 weeks were living hell at work. Granted, she was a little nuts upstairs, but heed this advice if you care about the job. I didn’t, so it wasn’t a big deal for me to cut ties. Dont let things get to your head, if you’re gonna do it, just have fun, don’t take anything too seriously.
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:02 AM
4

Cold approaching ❌ Warm approaching ✅
/r/seduction23/01/26 08:05 PM
2

I was chilling at a bar by myself and we made eye contact, she approached shortly after, chatted and said I was cute, rest is history.
/r/seduction23/01/26 01:53 AM
1

Similar situation, though I’ve had sex more recently. Still dry as hell though. It’s hard but can’t let your desperation get the best of you. Just go out, have fun, try to make friends, it’ll all come together in due time.
/r/seduction23/01/26 01:35 AM
1

Lol what
/r/seduction18/01/26 07:54 PM
3

Lol, the classic “you can come over but we’re not having sex!”
/r/seduction18/01/26 01:09 PM
2

Exactly
/r/seduction18/01/26 12:36 PM
3

Mostly
/r/seduction18/01/26 12:36 PM
1

Yeah it’s a no
/r/seduction17/01/26 11:08 PM
1

All good family, I appreciate someone who can recognize their shortcomings. Best to yas.
/r/seduction12/01/26 12:32 AM
1

You have much to learn young man.
/r/seduction11/01/26 08:08 PM
1

I never said or implied you should approach women like they’re sex objects. I’m simply saying, when it comes down to sex, most women are freaks. Doesn’t mean I can’t love them or don’t respect them. Those are just the facts.
/r/seduction11/01/26 07:10 PM
1

That’s fine you’re entitled to your opinion, as am I mine, which is based on personal experience. I’m not saying you shouldn’t have any kind of real intimate connection, rather a lot of women have their “use and abuse” fantasies, which is less of the passionate intimate sex & more of the ape-like monkey sex.
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:26 PM
0

Nahhh, most women want to get fucked like they’re nothing. He probably busted too quick and or small weedle
/r/seduction11/01/26 01:56 PM
2

People say no, but honestly, I’ve thought of this business model myself. Find cute girls, offer them a proposition to make money for pictures & other content, profit. I don’t see why not. Sure, it might not be the most honest method for income, but it works, and it’s legal. And those who are successful make..millions of dollars. Go to nice places, have a good time, and make money doing it. You’re in a position where you can do this with ease, so I’d say go for it, maybe contrary to popular opini…
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:19 AM
3

1) honey 2) dick 3) poosay
/r/seduction08/01/26 05:55 PM
1

Ok thanks 🙏
/r/seduction08/01/26 05:41 PM
1

Did you at least assess that she wanted to be kissed? They’ll let you know by getting close, looking at your lips, etc
/r/seduction07/01/26 11:03 PM
16

Nice, interesting that your number 1 pick was moving to a bigger area. That’s exactly what I plan to do. This area is smaller, richer, and older..not great for a 20-something brokie. Whenever I go out to the bigger cities around though, it’s a night and day difference..almost always end up with some kind of action, as opposed to the numerous times I’ve gone out in my current area. Good post, thanks!
/r/seduction07/01/26 10:56 PM
6

Mindset: you’re the prize, not her
/r/seduction07/01/26 06:16 PM
59

Uh yeah bro, treat her like a regular person, you’d be surprised.
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:20 PM
1

I’m a logical person with biological urges, what do you expect? Honestly, at least I am asking, rather than just doing what I want without any forethought
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:34 PM
1

I actually think most people in the world find this acceptable, considering the following: A) many US states make it legal for a 17 year old to consent to sex with someone up to 10 years older B) many countries outside of the US make it legal for 17 years olds to consent to sex, some even lower than that C) historically speaking, this has been completely acceptable, even throughout the US, this might’ve been considered a lower age gap all things considered
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:30 PM
1

All of your other statements are in fact invalid
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:19 PM
-1

Many US states, a 17 year old can consent to sex with someone up to 10 years older, so clearly not everyone sees this as unethical. Outside of the US it’s much more common for this
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:17 PM
0

Never implied this was the case, in fact I moreso implied that they would be going for it
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:16 PM
1

True, it’s been hard lately
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:14 PM
-2

I would think there’s a fine line between grooming and being open to later dating someone who otherwise is unavailable for that
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:13 PM
1

🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:10 PM
0

I’m not pursuing, I was just trying to be funny, I saw a similar post on this
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:08 PM
3

Common decency isn’t purposely wearing revealing clothes on your way into work, or following me around like a lost puppy, or staring at me
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:07 PM
1

Yeah, no it was just a joke title from a comment I saw somewhere else. Definitely produced quite the reactions here 😅
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:01 PM
-2

I’m not pursuing them, that’s the thing. I said they were super flirty didn’t I?
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:00 PM
-2

I don’t, but it’s funny to see them all freaking out like this is super wrong or something
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:59 PM
-6

I didn’t have to, but the reactions are funny
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:58 PM
-4

How do you know?
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:47 PM
-1

I mean, no
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:47 PM
7

I saw it in a comment it was pretty funny ngl
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:46 PM
-5

?
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:46 PM
-8

And? I’ve seen 18 yr olds date 30 and older
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:46 PM
4

Feral needs, lmao
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:08 PM
2

That’s what I said, let her cross that barrier first before you do. How that happens doesn’t matter, like you suggested, get her to do it by saying something like that. Not sure why my comment is getting downvoted, guys here must not understand how this works.
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:07 PM
1

You’re not always in a situation to do this. Most of the time you won’t be lol
/r/seduction06/01/26 01:43 PM
1

Eh, agree to disagree. I’ve had more success waiting for women to take that step than the other way around. A woman needs to be comfortable with you ultimately to do anything with you. And you’ll notice too, when a woman is very into you, she won’t be able to keep her hands off you anyways.
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:15 PM
7

Great post, not sure we’re missing anything here. This is all internal, the rest will flow naturally. I like what you said about we have our own natural mating tactics. This might be the single best thing I’ve read on here. Instead of getting lost in countless seduction tips, this one is simple: meditate, find your natural state of being, and be okay with any outcome (because ultimately it does not change you).
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:47 AM
1

Go somewhere / do something you genuinely enjoy, for starters. I mostly go out alone, had good times and bad times, but it’s worth it. When I’m with friends nothing ever happens.
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:41 AM
1

Sounds like the columbian girl i work with now. Very gifted, pretty and big ass on a small frame. She’s definitely a narc, and thinks she’s better than men
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:37 AM
1

Be different. Don’t listen to any of these comments they don’t know.
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:32 AM
2

Me not having a car rn makes things 100% harder
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:22 AM
10

Love this
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:13 AM
-5

You shouldn’t make contact with a girl unless she has with you first
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:11 AM
1

I really doubt 40% of couples meet online
/r/seduction04/01/26 02:20 AM
3

The number of people who actually use & take online dating seriously is a rather small percent of the “market”, and only people who have a lot of free time have the ability to sit around and cater their texting to people online.
/r/seduction04/01/26 01:20 AM
10

First mistake: using online dating
/r/seduction04/01/26 01:16 AM
2

I mean if you get consistent choosing signals then it’s possible
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:31 PM
2

I could have like 20 f*ck buddies but something about my game is off. I really struggle with the follow up part, probably due impart to watching so much different online “coaches” who offer contrary advice, rather than just being myself and doing what I think is best.
/r/seduction02/01/26 02:24 PM
1

Don’t
/r/seduction02/01/26 02:22 PM
1

You could just walk up and talk about random shit as an icebreaker.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:06 PM
4

The point of the date is to get to know one another..you don’t do that over text or over the phone.
/r/seduction29/12/25 10:26 AM
0

What’s the fun in that?
/r/seduction24/12/25 04:59 AM
1

Most likely into you. Guys don’t typically stare at stuff they don’t like, not me anyways. Unless it’s like..grotesquely off putting, but it’s rare that a person can achieve this
/r/seduction24/12/25 03:32 AM
1

True, we never had a date set tho
/r/seduction23/12/25 11:08 PM
1

Yeah true, thanks
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:53 PM
2

Yeah, thanks. I wouldn’t say I’m prioritizing her at all, I could take it or leave it like any brief interaction. I’m just trying to improve my text game a little bit I guess
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:53 PM
3

Man this is so good, thank you. Whether it works or not, this is by far the most helpful comment I’ve had. Much appreciated.
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:19 PM
2

It might actually be true I overheard her say it to someone before I got her number.
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:01 PM
0

what are some of the other hints besides the few days it took to respond?
/r/seduction23/12/25 09:52 PM
1

Yolo
/r/seduction23/12/25 09:30 PM
2

This is one of the better comments on here. It’s very true, a lot of couples I’ve been seeing are like opposites.
/r/seduction21/12/25 03:26 PM
1

I don’t even bother with OLD at all anymore, haven’t for a while. I’m better off without it
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:02 PM
1

Well I was talking about in general it has been hard to connect with people, I can have some level of success seducing women but this could still be true
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:59 PM
1

My approach seems weak if I had to guess. Again, in a bar setting, where guys are usually loud and obnoxious, I am not that. My overall demeanor is very chill, so it’s just hard, I think some chicks dig it and some don’t.
/r/seduction21/12/25 09:33 AM
2

Same, but tbh OLD is hard for guys even above average attractiveness. It’s not like you have some prior interaction to go off of, it’s literally luck of the draw + text game + more luck. My volume is also quite low. Maybe if I capitalized a bit more, I would have more success. I have gotten with women I approached first based off choosing signals. Sometimes a woman will be mad into me and it’ll be so random that I’m hardly ready for it.
/r/seduction21/12/25 09:28 AM
3

I came to that realization too. I’ve had success maybe 10%-20% of the time, and that includes experiences that didn’t lead to sex, but could have potentially (if I played my cards right or right place/wrong time). It’s brutal out there, and I even think I get a lot of choosing signals.
/r/seduction21/12/25 09:20 AM
5

I see it often too. I mean, I think it depends on area. When I go to bigger metro areas & cities I get predictably more results, than a smaller one, in which I live. My particular area is terrible for results, but the surrounding areas are good
/r/seduction21/12/25 08:25 AM
0

I have a similar problem without using apps..
/r/seduction20/12/25 05:32 AM
0

Stop trying so hard to get women (and people in general) to like you. Become indifferent to outcome.
/r/seduction19/12/25 01:21 PM
1

This is such cope.
/r/seduction19/12/25 01:19 PM
3

This. For some reason I struggle in the area I’m at. Whenever I visit one of the nearby larger metro areas, I meet women and it actually goes somewhere. 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction19/12/25 01:18 PM
1

Nah, if you take care of yourself and have youthful spirit, you can do quite well. There are actually a surprising number of young women who look for older men to date
/r/seduction16/12/25 04:43 PM
2

And where can I go for underwear night..?
/r/seduction15/12/25 05:08 AM
1

^
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:10 AM
2

Bro..she’s saying that because she wants to hang out..
/r/seduction14/12/25 08:55 PM
1

Yup true
/r/seduction14/12/25 08:45 PM
1

It’s tough because every woman is different, obviously. I tend to get most of my results through the woman’s advancement. In the past, whenever I did “pursue”, the ones that were successful happened because I A) displayed confidence/shot the shit without caring about outcome, and B) communicated my intentions. One woman I knew of in high school, but she always had a boyfriend. Well, I heard somehow they were not together anymore, and I ran into her. Basically said to her that I’ve been into her …
/r/seduction14/12/25 05:50 PM
1

Well, that’s quite a niche pick! I just like slutty white women & latinas
/r/seduction14/12/25 05:16 PM
8

Preach brother
/r/seduction14/12/25 06:09 AM
247

Was chillin at the bar. Girl came up, we got to talking. I asked her why she approached, she said I was handsome. We ended up doing the thang at her place that night. Literally 0 effort from me.
/r/seduction14/12/25 05:10 AM
3

Charisma. Having good energy. It’s hard to explain, but the simplest suggestion I can make is to just start talking to people normally that you might see out. Gotta develop your social skills.
/r/seduction14/12/25 02:22 AM
2

Well I mean, you gotta know how to talk to people in general. It doesn’t necessarily have to flow into a whole conversation, just be fun to hang around.
/r/seduction13/12/25 09:54 PM
5

It’s okay to compliment something about her, ie -> I love your dress, the colors match this sunset, etc. Those type of authentic compliments are good (though, as with anything, not over-done). Where most guys mess up is -> I saw you from 500 feet away and thought you were beautiful Complimenting her looks directly almost never works.
/r/seduction13/12/25 07:30 PM
4

Attracting women is like the ultimate game of contradiction. If you treat her like she’s average / don’t care for her, she will want you. I had an ex, we dated for 3 yrs. She was madly in love the whole time. I also loved her. But I rarely complimented her, rarely bought her gifts, rarely reached out first, and things of that nature that would show I love her. Contrary to popular belief, those were things that contributed to the flame being lit most of that time.
/r/seduction13/12/25 06:42 PM
1

Well, gay dudes and gay women are not the same. Isn’t this obvious?
/r/seduction13/12/25 04:18 PM
2

What? 😂 If I can seduce them then maybe they aren’t fully gay?
/r/seduction13/12/25 03:53 PM
1

Can confirm, dating profile is trash, never get anywhere with it, but I do perfectly fine IRL
/r/seduction13/12/25 01:58 AM
10

I’ve done it a bit myself, it’s good to have a goal in mind. If you’re only going to test the waters, say hi, have a brief convo, and go about your business. When you feel more confident, try escalating by extending an invitation to do X
/r/seduction12/12/25 03:36 AM
1

Talk…to them…
/r/seduction11/12/25 09:20 PM
5

Most women indeed have grape fantasies. Wouldn’t be surprised if it had to do with biological imprinting from previous generations going through the real thing
/r/seduction11/12/25 03:56 PM
3

Men are hunting, building things, busy all the time. A woman seeks his time and attention. Simple as that. In modern society, men are soft and weak, and have forgotten their role, that’s why you don’t understand this ‘rule’ logically, because you have time to chase women
/r/seduction11/12/25 02:19 PM
2

“Hey, do you wanna watch a movie in the back?” Works every time. Me and a chick got to monkey time in the trunk. I’ve had lots of play time in cars..
/r/seduction11/12/25 12:32 AM
1

Eh I mean. I would never say this as the VERY FIRST thing to a woman. Match and mirror her attitude. If she’s being blatant with her ehm, outlook, so to speak, about you, then it’s okay to say that. Otherwise, I would never offer that sort of verbose approach. It might win you some insecure drunk girl here and there, but any self-respecting woman is not gonna take that up bro bro.
/r/seduction09/12/25 06:10 AM
-6

I don’t care if this is Chatbot2, this shit is real, and hits close to home. The only thing separating one woman from the next is where she lines up among these 11 tactics - more or less per tactic. Also, they don’t do this stuff consciously.
/r/seduction09/12/25 04:09 AM
0

It’s not “blindsiding” her until she asks. If a woman doesn’t want to be “blindsided”, she’ll ask what intentions he has BEFORE she offers coochie coo. Also, let’s be real here, many men have slept with a woman, developed fee fees, and got stomped out after they get gushy wushy with it. Not sure if you are M or F, but I think either way you underestimate how ruthless some of these Fs are. If you are F, I’m afraid you don’t understand your own nature.
/r/seduction09/12/25 04:05 AM
2

Personally, I would avoid using the kind of language the other person recommended. If you say “I just wanna smash”, you’re unlikely to ever see them again. Instead, only when they ask, say you are not looking to be in a serious relationship. They will get the message. Best approach - hang out, have fun, hook up.
/r/seduction08/12/25 12:06 PM
1

Working on yourself does indeed fix your personal issues. 3 years isn’t a very long time. How is having a girl supposed to help? They are supposed to be complimentary to a solid life you’ve already built, or are in the process of building.
/r/seduction08/12/25 12:03 PM
3

You’re supposed to work on yourself before trying to find someone else. A girl will never fix your personal issues. The opposite is true as well if she has unresolved issues deep down.
/r/seduction08/12/25 07:57 AM
4

Treat them like a 6
/r/seduction08/12/25 07:55 AM
25

I went to a rave last year and ended up taking a girl back to her place. Proceeded to bang it out for the next 2 days. Can’t wait for the next one
/r/seduction07/12/25 02:23 PM
2

Figure out what you want and make it happen. Focus on making your body healthy, eating well. These things alone will fix most if not all of your problems
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:30 AM
2

That’s what I just said, chicks that rock ponytails man oof. Not all of em can do it tho (or should rather)
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:25 AM
2

Pigtails looks so hot on some chicks, it’s a like a secret weakness for me. Not all of em can really rock it though
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:24 AM
2

What a great comment, maybe one of the most insightful things I’ve seen on here. Cheers, thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction05/12/25 03:03 PM
1

Both of these comments are great. The most important being - if she attracted, that’s all that matters. You can drop the ball in some ways (even things you can’t inherently change), and as long ad she’s still attracted, that’s what matters most. That’s why I like the idea of an attraction level scale for women: 1-10, 10 being she’s as attracted as she could possibly be (wants sex all the time, wants to do favors for you, always wants your time and attention, touches you etc etc) to 1 being she’s…
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:52 AM
1

Likely, thanks 👍
/r/seduction03/12/25 09:51 PM
1

I will say though, I think this voice expression loosely connects to singing, and voice impressions. I’m oddly good at doing voice impressions, so maybe that’s somewhere you can start. Try mimicking how someone else speaks.
/r/seduction03/12/25 05:25 PM
1

As far as I can tell, I’ve always sorta been this way. Could be upbringing, personality, a combination of things. Sorry man, I don’t know really know how to help out with that. I would say “just be more enthusiastic”, but that’s not really it either. Maybe there’s more insight on YouTube though
/r/seduction03/12/25 05:23 PM
1

Fair enough lol, thanks for your comment
/r/seduction03/12/25 05:21 PM
11

Not providing advice, but posting so I can see updates on this. Cuz my online game in general is wack. I feel like this used to be easier
/r/seduction02/12/25 11:43 PM
6

Doubt he’s actually making em come. Even if he is, bottom line is they don’t want him inside of em. I’ve never had this problem. Ppl underestimate how dirty these ho’s are, they always want a peen inside of em, even if it dont make them come
/r/seduction02/12/25 02:42 PM
2

“A verbal check-in before you kiss” Read that to yourself and ask if that’s something james bond or even a caveman would do
/r/seduction02/12/25 12:53 PM
3

Every time I go to a woman’s place and she says we aren’t having sex..guess what happens…
/r/seduction02/12/25 12:42 PM
3

He’s probably not confident enough to get them to go all the way. This will always be a turn off to them.
/r/seduction02/12/25 12:41 PM
3

Baby oil doesn’t play by the rules as his name would indicate..🤭
/r/seduction02/12/25 12:40 PM
7

I’ve never engaged in foreplay without sex lol. Keep in mind that sex for women is more mental than physical
/r/seduction02/12/25 12:37 PM
1

I don’t “cold approach”, but yes, I go out alone. In fact, I tend to have more success doing this than I would with a friend or group.
/r/seduction01/12/25 04:04 AM
9

This shi crazy gng 😩
/r/seduction01/12/25 03:38 AM
6

Smoking weed is basically the easiest in for this type of poo nay nay
/r/seduction01/12/25 03:37 AM
1

What if she finds out you have no friends?
/r/seduction30/11/25 07:27 AM
1

I actually totally agree with you. I’ve met many women in rather unfavorable circumstances. Most of the time when I see one I absolutely adore, it’s in a situation where I got some shit going on
/r/seduction29/11/25 06:24 PM
-4

Well, different strokes for different folks. I personally don’t like the witty zingers approach. Usually I don’t approach at all unless I find or create a reason to.
/r/seduction29/11/25 06:06 PM
9

I can relate. I usually do pretty well with women. Over the last year something has changed. Maybe it’s just me. I’d consider myself pretty masculine too and it scares people sometimes.
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:51 PM
1

‘Dopamine addict’
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:12 AM
1

Watch yourself, that’s a slippery slope
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:10 AM
9

As someone who also has done pretty well over the last few years, the way people are has definitely changed. It’s harder than it used to be, for sure.
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:37 PM
2

Hang out -> Have fun -> Hook up
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:41 PM
-1

Why would you ask for her insta? Always ask for a number, it’s more personal. Moving from one social media site to another is hardly a good idea. But then again, I’m not someone who prefers online dating. And as a quick aside, just be yourself bro. If you aren’t witty then trying to be can make things worse.
/r/seduction25/11/25 11:33 AM
1

Spot on, thanks for sharing. Totally accurate about the bit with younger women. It’s a shame that they don’t value those things sooner, but like you said, it is societal influence. It definitely can & does affect men as well. The world, and especially the west, is simply different than it once was. Those of us who are wiser are having kids / starting families much later than people used to, and it has a lot to do with what you said - most younger women are chasing clout chasers, with no clear di…
/r/seduction25/11/25 11:18 AM
4

Women want to be in a love story. It’s different for each one, but trust definitely plays a role in that! And yes, women are way freakier than men on average.
/r/seduction25/11/25 06:54 AM
21

My personal experience lead me to conclude otherwise. Everyone is different however and thus so is their experience
/r/seduction25/11/25 06:44 AM
1

~90% of the time you should just be chill, have normal conversations. The other 10% should be for this kind of banter. Otherwise, they may not take you seriously / see you as more of an entertainer/friend than a serious dating prospect. It’s a hard line to walk! It can work with the right type of playful girl, but most of the time you’ll get the ladder result
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:57 AM
2

Wanna go watch tik toks?
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:52 AM
1

You’d probably have an easier time in Tijuana, though you might also have an easier time catching something strange
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:50 AM
2

Well dress me up and call me Holy, because I’m going in! 🫡
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:48 AM
0

Rap..especially the likes of which you listed, definitely extend beyond black girls 💀
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:43 AM
35

Devils advocate: some women bring up their bf and will still do him dirty. Especially if it’s generally negative, and/or becomes of that nature. As a bf, would you want your woman befriending guys at the gym, and spending days together with them? Maybe, but probably not.
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:42 AM
8

Nah lol, just rebuilding my life as a broke mid-twenties. No car, live at home with the folks, and on the constant work grind. That to me is the dungeon anyways. Obviously this is very limiting, I feel that I can’t be dating much even if I wanted to.
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:39 AM
3

As someone who seems to attract way more older women than anything else, I’m just always aiming to be my authentic self. I know it sounds a bit corny, but it’s true. How do you perceive yourself, and how do others perceive you? Are those things congruent, or contradictory? This is relevant because older women are a lot more open and authentic than younger women, and most of them are seeking a man who shares similar qualities. If the way you perceive yourself, and the way others perceive you are …
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:36 AM
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