For some reason, I just find it hard to pull from clubs & especially bars. Most of the women I end up dating / hooking up with are mostly from situational happenings outside of these places (sometimes literally). Also hardly ever goes my way when I approach, but if I’m chilling and enjoying myself I get approached or women put themselves in close proximity. Every once in a while, I’ll end up with a fine shorty, or once I kicked the shit with a group of 3..don’t even know how it happened but I blinked and was hanging out, dancing & kissing on 3 girls. Like wtf? But most nights I go out nothing happens.

Is it possible that I’m a niche type for some women, and this could explain why this inconsistency occurs? Like seriously I don’t get it, I’ll have a 9/10 feeling me, and we’ll be hugging kissing whatever, but then I approach an average chick and she wants nothing to do with me (or just accepts the attention but wants nothing more). No idea if it’s my approach, vibes, or what. I work with all women, from 17-50s and they all enjoy my company, many are flirty.