Long story short, me and a co worker have been fooling around a little at work (no sex). We’ve gone out once. However, trying to get this second date has been a little trickier. Every time I try to set something up, she agrees to it, but it gets cancelled at the last minute. It happened again today (I think the 3rd attempt). She did offer a counter-date for tomorrow, but I declined because I’m not trying to come off as too easy, or being a push-over, and I’m trying to facilitate a date in the evening rather the morning.

I can tell she likes me, she even started talking “hypothetically” about us being in a relationship, and said she felt like she could lower her guard around me (which is good). But still, actions will always triumph words, and right now I’m getting flakey behavior. Maybe she really does have a lot on her plate, but at this point I’m thinking she needs to try harder to make a hang out happen, cuz I’m about done asking/trying to set something up.