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| 28 | Seduction for Indian/Asian/Insert Minority Here. A general Guide to Improving Yourself and Gaining Success with Women in America. Part 1. | DrizzyBoi | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 09:29 PM |
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| 1 | Approached 4 girls today first time in my life...and then you told her you yourself had no clue? I mean dude if you randomly approach a girl and talk to her and she asks for help just help out who cares. You're not gonna be "used" unless it becomes a common practice with her and you'll never know because you peaces out of there because of an experience your friend had once. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 12:29 PM |
| 3 | How would you approach another customer at a bagel shop?Literally what everyone else is saying. Talk about the fucking bagels. "Hey I always get cinnamon sugar, I wanna try something new but not sure what would you recommend? Or what's your favorite?" | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 07:45 PM |
| 3 | so if a girl complimented me to a friend...Why not, it couldn't hurt. | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Went to a party last night, but had no idea how to approach 1 on 1.Eh...I'm not doubting you on whether or not it works but it sounds kinda needy don't ya think? | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 11:43 AM |
| 2 | I don't know how to escalate in any shape or form (physical/logistical/verbal). How to change this?Practice practice practice. Assume attraction, escalate appropriately based on that assumption and you'll notice a difference. Girls are all different and show interest in different ways and capacities. Some may be blatant some may not show any signs at all. If you assume attraction and escalate you are taking charge and that can be the catalyst to get her to reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 02:58 PM |
| 5 | How do I attract girls that are looking to have fun?Go to environments or join activities that attract those kinds of people. Bars, Clubs? Dance Classes(salsa, etc.) | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 04:47 PM |
| 0 | [21M] I have most other areas of my life in check, but feel completely undateable due to my appearance. What is so wrong?They probably sense you're afraid they are gonna reject you before you even say anything. Body language is very indicative of how we are feeling(uncomfortable, happy, closed off, mad). You're not a bad looking dude and if you're tall then that's a bonus. Honestly you gotta get into a mindset of having fun and not necessarily "getting girls." By leading a fun lifestyle and doing you, girls will come naturally. It seems like you have low self esteem and or confidence. You're gonna have to work on … | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Afraid of F-close on first date or too much kino due to beeing called pervert etcNawh I meant to say receptive to your kino. This is basically the equivalent of a girl reciprocating in some cases. Some girls are more forward and will touch you back and stuff but most of the time if they don't move away from you touching or using kino. It's a green light | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 04:54 AM |
| 1 | REALISTICALLY, will my being Indian be an issue with my success with women?You should be fine dude. As long as you work on being as social as possible you will develop the skills to get along with others really well. Me personally, I am a first generation Indian(Indiana what's good midwest) and I have done pretty well for myself even before I found seddit. To be honest most of the time Indian guys tend to psych themselves out into thinking that they won't get girls/it will be harder just because they are indian. Remember, if you are not sure of yourself/confident in yo… | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 04:29 AM |
| 5 | What could this mean?She's prolly wanting you to make a move. Probably a rebound but if you're about that then there's no issue to go in. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Afraid of F-close on first date or too much kino due to beeing called pervert etcDon't make the goal to F-close necessarily, your goal should be to have fun on the date and get to know the girl while at the same time demonstrating your interest in her. Kino is generally the way to go about it. You don't have to to tell her you wanna fuck or whatever. But if she reciprocates your kino, then you can keep moving forward. That way you'll be able to judge if she is receptive to more physical contact. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Books that will help not only with confidence, but life on a whole.Models by Mark Manson. No More Mr. Nice Guy You already have HWFIP and what every body is saying so I think with those four you should be solid. Just remember to actually apply what you read to your life. Too many people don't do that. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 05:50 AM |
| 1 | An original pickup line of mineWhy not just say, "hey I know this is a bit out of the blue but I saw you and just had to say hi because you're (insert adjective). | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Quick Tip: Solid Line for Hot Strangers Sitting Next to You on a PlaneI disagree but then again we can both experience different things considering we could be in completely different places. Women crave difference true. Doesn't mean that taking the direct approach won't grant you success. That's all fine, I'm just saying it seems a bit...out there. | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Quick Tip: Solid Line for Hot Strangers Sitting Next to You on a PlaneNawh. I have a handful of female friends(a few who are very attractive) and they do not hear lines like this all day. Not even close. Maybe at the bar or something sure, but if you are approaching a girl in the manner I described during the day, you are setting yourself apart from the other guys simply by not needing alcohol or a social setting to allow you to say something like that. There's a certain amount of buildup and expectation. With lines rehearsed like this you are anticipating her to … | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Quick Tip: Solid Line for Hot Strangers Sitting Next to You on a PlaneTrue women don't have sex with guys they just meet but I guarantee you, your method will have no more success than me engaging her in conversation and expressing my interest. That's literally all you did. Except you went about it in a more roundabout way. It's not genuine because the whole point of you starting that interaction is to tell her she's attractive. Tight dude. You coulda just as easily said, "excuse me I know this is a bit out of the blue but you are gorgeous and I had to atleast int… | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 02:42 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on sending a blanket Merry Christmas! text?What the fuck. Dude if you want to text them Merry Christmas then text them. You're being really needy by over analyzing the sending of a holiday greeting. | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Quick Tip: Solid Line for Hot Strangers Sitting Next to You on a PlaneWhy the fuck wouldn't you just talk to her normally...you could easily throw in intent during a conversation and see how see responds instead of going balls to the wall with this. Besides the only thing this accomplishes is you being like every other creeper dude hitting on a chick like that. You think she's not gonna see the hidden agenda behind what you're saying? You're not being genuine and she's gonna know. | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Recomend a bookHey first of all man: sidebar, and search bar. You can literally type "book" into the search bar and find recommendations. Anyway. Models by Mark Manson would be a good place to start. I would also recommend The Game not so much as a guide but rather an intro to the seduction/PUA world. Good Luck | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 11:48 PM |
| 6 | How did you get over your approach anxiety?For the longest time my motivator was, "gotta show my friends that I can pull." Having that kind of agenda behind it made my interactions not as genuine and my success rate was alright but not amazing. Recently, I have really taken to heart what Manson says in regards to "hey she's attractive and seems interesting. I wanna get to know her." And it makes wanting to approach a lot easier. I think besides "just do it" it really depends on your mindset. If you really wanna approach you will do it. J… | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | how do i get really comfortable with girls?It just comes with practice and continually approaching and interacting with girls in different situations. There isn't some magic trick or thing to do that will automatically make you comfortable talking to girls. | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 08:18 PM |
| 2 | how do i get really comfortable with girls?Focus on trying to make girl friends not necessarily getting girls if that makes sense. Having close friends who are girls has immensely helped me and allows you to gain insight as to how most girls think and react to situations. | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Talked to a beautiful girl, ends up being an actor.Not OP, but the ones that I highly recommend to others and read myself were: Models, How to Win Friends and Influence People, and No More Mr. Nice Guy. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 09:49 PM |
| 9 | Do you have a fwb relationship? And if so, how did it come about?The couple of times I've had a FWB thing going on, we didn't really discuss it much. We would pretty much just hangout normally and sometimes we would hookup sometimes we wouldn't. If I texted her at night asking if she was busy and she wasn't we would hangout, basically hooking up. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here get into long term relationships using daygame?Just put in the order earlier. Thanks for the input! | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here get into long term relationships using daygame?I've always wondered about superflirt and superdate. It's mentioned here and there in comments but I haven't seen it talked about a whole lot. Are they worth the read? | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | I get feelings for girls I hang out withYea no problem dude. It takes a bit to get back into the swing of things after being a relationship for so long | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 01:08 AM |
| 3 | I don't know when and how to go in for the kissNo.....Don't ask her permission. It shows her you aren't confident in yourself and your sexuality to want to kiss her. You can call it respecting her boundaries I call it being a pussy. Some girls might be cool with it and say "yea sure." But think of how awkward it is to ask a girl "can i kiss you?" Not trying to sound misogynistic or red pillish. That's not my intention but you shouldn't give the girl a choice in these sort of situations because the girl doesn't want to feel like it was her id… | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I get feelings for girls I hang out withThat's flirting fsho if that's what she is doing. Whoever that is, I would flirt back and escalate if possible because she's throwing you IOIs fsho. Think about when you find someone attractive. You find ways to compliment things you like about them and you want to touch them if possible. Exactly what she is doing. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I get feelings for girls I hang out withNawh you're good dude. No harm in asking questions. What I mean is that if one of the girls that you are friends with/hangout with hasn't shown interest in you and you haven't shown interest in her then you are most likely already in the friendzone. No biggie, use that to your advantage and actually be her friend(that is if you actually want to; no need to be friends just cause if you don't like them as a friend). Here's the thing about the "suspended area." If you are friends with a girl and yo… | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 12:15 AM |
| 1 | [20m] Do you think this comes off as needy?Dude. You're being needy by caring about this so much. If you think she's attractive and want to get to know her/hangout with her then do it dude. If you come off as confident in yourself and your intentions it's not needy. Now man the fuck up and do it. I believe in you dude you got this easy. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I get feelings for girls I hang out withI mean are they your friends? If so then I would leave them at that. Girls are massive social boosters especially for college students and younger people. If one or some of them show interest in you, go ahead and make moves otherwise I'd say don't try anything that's gonna end in obvo friend zoned. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 05:50 AM |
| 1 | [20m] Do you think this comes off as needy?That wouldn't be a bad idea man, if you feel confident enough to go up to her in her group go for it. Nothing wrong with that at all! | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Any advice or sources you guys could give on kino?No prob man, good luck | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | [20m] Do you think this comes off as needy?Hmmm my best answer would be "Hey (insert name here) can i talk to you for a sec?" (Insert what you wanna say) | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Wish me luckHolla at that! Good luck bud! | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 05:37 AM |
| 0 | A real guide to seductionMacy's | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 05:05 AM |
| 1 | [20m] Do you think this comes off as needy?I would say that once class ends and she is walking out, you could approach her and ask her for it then? I find that if you strike up a conversation about something that relates to you mutually you can transition it into "hey semester is over soon but we should hangout sometime, lemme get your number" | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Any advice or sources you guys could give on kino?The thing about kino is that you can't go balls to the wall off the bat or you're gonna creep the girl out. By slowly progressing the amount and location of touch as you go(touch arm, hand on back, hand in hand, hand on legs etc.) it eases her into it instead of just randomly going in for a invasion of personal space. Kino, when done properly, puts her in a state of being okay with your touch. So that when you do go for the kiss or whatever, it isn't a ranom shock to her that you're getting all … | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Any advice or sources you guys could give on kino?Sidebar has a lot of good info in general and some stuff on kino as well. I usually make it a point to touch their arm when making a point in conversation. Touching her back when walking through a crowd(or even grabbing her hand to lead her through a crowd). | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 05:40 AM |
| 1 | [Request] Tips on body languageNp fam | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 05:34 AM |
| 1 | What drugs help with pickup besides alcohol?Depends. Adderall ain't the way cuz you can get addy dick. Cocaine maybe? But that's sketchy since unless you're sure of your source you usually get really cut stuff. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Is there a book about the female psyche?If you really are secure and confident in yourself girls will come naturally. You're never gonna have a 100% success rates. If you're still having troubles with girls there's something you need to work on. You don't need manipulation to get girls. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 06:12 PM |
| 3 | I'm really bad at recognizing when a girl's into me, how do I read their signs and tells better?A good friend of mine helped me with a similar problem I had. He reminded me to always assume attraction and be escalating. If you're aware of kino you should actively be employing it when interacting with girls you find attractive. After a decent amount of kino and talking/flirting, make a move and go for the kiss. I read somewhere on this sub, "a girl will forgive you for escalating quickly but not forgive you for taking it too slow" | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What drugs help with pickup besides alcohol?Microdose LSD | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Am I the worst texter in the world??Glad I could help man! You got this! | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 03:52 PM |
| 2 | What does Mark Manson say about jealousy and insecurity issues?Manson would say you are being needy. Jealousy is a sign of neediness it shows that you aren't confident in the fact that she would stay faithful. She's your girlfriend, she chose to date you. Be confident in yourself and and trust her. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Am I the worst texter in the world??Right on, thanks for posting! To start off, I'll go through the stuff I thought you did well. You def killed it in the message convo with girl 3 in the way you asked her to go out. Straight forward and to the point. Even though she was busy it seems as if she would totally be down to hangout or do something in the future. In my opinion, the reason the girls may be dropping off fast is because you seem to be talking to them too much if that makes sense. The point of text game is to secure dates a… | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 08:44 PM |
| 5 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.Hell yea man! I'm diggin the attitude! Keep it up and work hard, the payoff afterwards is gonna be much sweeter! | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Am I the worst texter in the world??If you'd be comfortable posting some of your text convos that would give us s better look at what you might be doing wrong. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone read Modern Romance?Yoo! Currently in the process of reading it as well, just finished the third chapter. Will report back when I'm done! | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Best book to buyThe Game is a great book to read in terms of reading a novel about PUA. It provides you with background information and certain insights into the PUA community. However, I will say some of the advice and tactics in it are dated. The best book in my opinion (as well as the majority of this sub) is Models by Mark Manson. It focusses on improving yourself to the point where you are the best you you can be. Because you are the best you can be, your innergame/confidence will sky rocket. I cannot reco… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 07:35 PM |
| 1 | An attractive guy looking for someone to help me get rid of my approach anxiety? NYCUnfortunately I do not live in NY :/ | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | An attractive guy looking for someone to help me get rid of my approach anxiety? NYCI'm sure many of us can comment and tell you to just do it, but in reality it's all in you man. YOU have to just tell yourself "fuck it, i'm gonna approach." It's kind of like jumping into the pool, yea it seems cold at first but once you convince yourself to cannonball in it isn't so bad. There's that initial shock of getting into the water but it quickly fades. Approaching is similar. You will have that initial shock to your system. Nervousness, anxiety, stumbling over words. After some approa… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Seduction for Indian/Asian/Insert Minority Here. A general Guide to Improving Yourself and Gaining Success with Women in America. Part 1.I would disagree and say that while the competition may be stiff(lol) you wouldn't have as much of an issue being a different race somewhere in Cali/NY, which tend to be more liberal, than you would say in the midwest. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Seduction for Indian/Asian/Insert Minority Here. A general Guide to Improving Yourself and Gaining Success with Women in America. Part 1.I totally agree with you. People get way too hung up on race when in realty it isn't that much of a big deal anymore, especially in America. Every guy needs to get past the same hurdles in self improvement. Which is kinda why my post, though targeted at minorities, can legit apply to anyone. Glad you liked it! | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Seduction for Indian/Asian/Insert Minority Here. A general Guide to Improving Yourself and Gaining Success with Women in America. Part 1.Exactly! You can't change the color of the skin or where you come from, but you can most combat the stereotype that comes with it by working to not comply with it. This will set you apart from the others who are "stereotypical," in essence it will immediately polarizing in multiple ways in your favor. | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Is he interested or not? How can I keep things progressing without pushy?Not being in the situation I don't know for sure, but it seems like he is interested in you if he asked you out after waiting for so long, and then asking you out again right after. As you said he is super busy with work and even told you he wouldn't get a full day off for a while. I would say don't worry about it too much and focus on your own life. He will get back to ya when he is able to. If he doesn't, then oh well onto the next one! | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 06:52 AM |
| 2 | [Request] Tips on body languageDude sidebar. In general I look for things like: She makes excuses to touch me, she laughs a lot at what I say, is constantly smiling and giving me serious eye contact(when she looks though she looks down/sorta to the side), reacts positively when I touch her(kino), etc. The list goes on. Definitely check out the resources on the sidebar/search feature because there are endless topics on IOIs and body language. | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Why...? Just why?!?!Nothing wrong with being geeky, if you own it right it can come off as attractive if it shows you are passionate about something. But snapchat is not the place to be having a conversation... You should be trying to stimulate a more fun/carefree interaction between you and the girl over snapchat. Send dumb faces, videos of you out doing stuff, videos of funny stupid shit. Stuff like that. I think she didn't reply because she probably didn't see it as that interesting of a topic. In the future tal… | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 06:44 AM |
| 17 | I just read No More Mr. Nice Guy... I'm a Nice Guy.I would definitely go through and do the "breaking free" activities. Although it may seem like you can do it as you go in your head it really does make a difference actually taking the time to write down your thoughts and feelings regarding the questions. While TRP has nuggets of wisdom sprinkled among it's posts, the overall vibe of the subreddit doesn't seem to sit well with me. I know personally of someone who religiously subscribes to the idealogies and lifestyle choices they promote and I h… | /r/seduction | 24/11/15 02:17 AM |
| 3 | the "friendzone" doesn't existNo...it definitely exists. There's a point where girls where no longer sees you as attractive/anything more than just friends. Girls aren't like guys where you can end up liking someone after not liking them for a while. Unless they previously had a major thing for you before and there was an external circumstance where you couldn't be together, then there's no changing their mind. | /r/seduction | 23/11/15 05:47 AM |
| 6 | Rating girls in real lifeManson's rating system. 0 or 1. Either you are attracted to her or not. All you need. | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Advice on dating someone you've known for a while?You hit the nail on the head with this answer. Like PincheDarkly said, you can still fall into the chatty friend/hangout mode but don't let that get in the way of the romantic relationship. Make sure you take her out on actual dates. Not doing so will cause the spark and relationship to fizzle. | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Have a question about the right technique to asking outYou're good man! I would text her a "hey how's it going?" Sorta thing and when she responds and blah blah you can bring it up and be like "hey listen I'll be at so and so place this Friday round 7/8/9 wanna meetup and grab a drink?" | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Appearance as a minority.. Having little to no success.Are those cargos in your second picture? | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Have a question about the right technique to asking outThat would be fine! Me personally I would leave it at no worries and ask her to hangout again at some other point. Maybe not even drinks, perhaps something like coffee? Mix it up so if she doesn't necessarily enjoy getting drinks all that often you got another option she might like more? | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Have a question about the right technique to asking outIf she says she's busy that day but doesn't give another option, "but I'm free Saturday!" You can be like "cool, let's grab a drink at so and so place!" If she says she's busy with no other option given back, just say "ok no worries!" And continue on with your plan. You can ask her again at some point to do something else and if she uses the busy card again with no option given back then she's probably not interested. | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Appearance as a minority.. Having little to no success.As a couple guys in this thread have said already, it seems as if it's not so much your appearance but rather your attitude and personality to an extent. You seem to have a very entitled mindset on how people should react to you. In your case, girls that are with guys that aren't as "successful" as you are. You gotta drop that mindset, because it displays insecurity. Have you read Models by Mark Manson? I'm sure I won't be the first to suggest this book to you on this sub nor will I be the last.… | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Appearance as a minority.. Having little to no success.Salsa Dancing, Swing Dancing, Indoor Rock Climbing, Book Clubs, Biking. There are loads of things to do! | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Started texting this girl from tinder. 7.5. Seems to have really taken a liking to me. How do i keep her hooked?If you wanna keep her hooked, ask her to hangout. Don't text her to try to get to know her, that shit is for in person stuff. If she is a texter then sure indulge her and text her back. Regarding the beta girly comment, who cares? If you are interested in her and she is interested in you and you send a winky/kissing face then you are showing her you are interested in her. Being aloof/playing hard to get doesn't work on girls that are actually worth being around. | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Recently started reading Neil Strauss'(Style) book The Game.. A few questions.Give Models a read! It really is a great book and will hopefully be able to pinpoint the problem that you have. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Recently started reading Neil Strauss'(Style) book The Game.. A few questions.Start working out. Easiest step to start improving and you will start to notice results. It won't be immediate but you will see start to see shit poppin with girls in a while. As long as your appearance is the best you can make it on your own, you can have your personality carry the rest fam. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 06:23 PM |
| 22 | Recently started reading Neil Strauss'(Style) book The Game.. A few questions.While The Game provides many great examples in regards to starting interactions with girls (box game, palm reading), it is outdated. Things like negs won't work much on girls who are self-assured/confident and will most of the time work only on girls who are insecure/seeking validation. I would recommend you read Models by Mark Manson. It is probably, in my opinion, as well as many others in this sub, the best book on attracting women at the moment. It focusses on improving yourself to the point… | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] College Party, being blunt, and confidenceGreat FR. You had great kino and seemed very confident. In terms of telling if she was actually interested or not, always assume she is attracted to you until she explicitly tells you she is not. Or shows you in a blatant way that she is not attracted(disgusted facial expressions, pulling away, visibly uncomfortable etc.) | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 09:11 PM |
| 2 | I can't get a girlfriendHard part, undercut. Google G-Eazy and take a pic to your barber. Hairstyle is dope as hell. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Ok can someone please help me clarify this girls intentions. Please?Sidebar would explain it well but I think the cues he's talking about are commonly referred to IOIs. Essentially, stuff like: constantly messing with her hair, smiling and maintaining strong eye contact, laughing a lot at stuff you say even if it may not be funny. Ya know, normal flirty girl stuff. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 05:07 AM |
| 1 | [NEED SERIOUS ADVICE] I want to ask this girl I really like out. Problem is we have no common ground in seeing each other everyday. I sort of have a plan but...I get the whole "ask her in person not over social media/text" thing, but it may just be easier logistically and effort wise to shoot her a text. Just say something along tha lines of "hey I'm gonna be near campus so and so day. Let's meetup and grab coffee" | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 05:02 AM |
| 0 | How do I set boundaries with women?No means no? Literally tell her no. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:11 AM |
| 2 | This chick is confusing :/She probably got turned off in the beginning as, like you said, she showed a huge amount of interest off the bat and it was only after a bit that you started to show a bit of interest. At this point if you wanna hang with her then yea you fucking initiate. Girls won't just come easy and If you wait around for them to initiate then you're gonna be waiting for a while bud. Text her to hangout on the weekend or go to a party together. It shouldn't be that hard from there. | /r/seduction | 17/10/15 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Having Trouble Jumping InThe girls are prudey/bitchy because they probably sense you aren't too confident in yourself when you're talking to them so they walk over you. Also I'm sorry but I'm in college at the moment as well and there is no way that every girl you meet is too busy to text a guy. Most likely you probably aren't that interested to them for them to make the effort. Step it up dude, hit the gym, dress better, do something more that you are not currently doing. | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 05:31 AM |
| 3 | College sophomore having trouble escalating at parties.If she's interested in you and you guys are isolated and talking then just wait for a lull in the convo. As soon as this happens just say "hey" it will catch her intention to look at you and then you just go in for the kiss. 9/10 times it works...all the time. | /r/seduction | 14/10/15 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it practically impossible to get sorority girls for ONS and hookups if you aren't an athlete or in a fraternity?Unless you know them outside of that setting then yea. Basically at my school we pair(party 1-1) with sororities and sorority girls tend not to go anywhere else. So unless you're in a fraternity it is a lot more difficult. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Have to ask a girl out for a "babe and bottle" at my university.You seem to be a bit biased due to the fact it is a fraternity event. We do finish the fifths all the time...it's not as bad as you are making it out to be. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Feeling like shit after being rejected and blocked my numberDude....calm down. Communication online vs in person can be completely different. If she said she didn't feel any chemistry then she didn't feel any chemistry. Sucks but just forget about it and move on. It's not that she was being cynical or anything just chill. She may have said you could be friends so she could cop out and not be legit to your face. Don't worry about it she's not worth the time in that case. | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 06:03 AM |
| 3 | How do I flirt?Dude it's not hard to check the sidebar before asking a basic question in a sub. Develop some chill. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 05:08 AM |
| 1 | being friends with a girl you likeDon't stick with her because it makes you better with girls. That's not the right reason and it sure as yell isn't right to her. You straight up sound like a dick. Those "skills" aren't because of some magic girl it's probably because you developed better game. Your situation makes no sense because if she's not around you/interacting with you, you lose your "power?" That's dumb as hell. You don't just lose it unless you aren't practicing talking and interacting with girls | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | being friends with a girl you likeIt really seems like this post is just a place for you to toot your own horn but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and provide an answer. To be honest, you really can't stay friends with someone you like like that. It becomes too complicated. Like you said, she gets jealous of you and you of her when it comes to other people. That will always be there, and while you may say it doesn't bother you and you guys can just be friends. You will always have that weird tension/feeling towards her. | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 08:01 AM |
| 1 | What first dates have the highest chance of leading to a make out?The ones where you go for it and kiss her. Movie dates are a no no, gives you no opportunity to make any connection. | /r/seduction | 19/06/15 06:11 AM |
| 2 | How can one remain awesome for a longer time?Imma take that as a no. There's no reason to keep talking to her over Facebook message because like you've experienced, you exhaust topics to talk about. Then when you go to hangout in person it's also awk because there's a chance you have nothing new to talk about. Messaging over any form of non face-to-face communication should be kept short and to the point. Used only for arranging meetups and obtaining numbers and such. My advice: stop pussyfootin around online and HANG OUT WITH HER. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 10:26 PM |
| 5 | How can one remain awesome for a longer time?Have you hung out with her in person? | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Tired of being ugly. Every girl I like, doesn't like meModels is a great book to read in my opinion. You say you are confident and give off a good persona but honestly man from reading your post and comments I would not think you're confident at all. There is a section in models that talks about girls being able to pick up on the most subtle notions in conversation and interaction. They DEFINITELY know when you're hitting on them/talking to them as a friend/whatever. They can probably also sense that while you may come off humorous and "confident", … | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 04:14 PM |
| 2 | So I need some adviceYou can text her Friday and be like "how does this time Sunday work?" To keep it in her head then on Sunday just text her and be like "see ya in a few hours!" Other than that I see no reason to text in between as it drains potential conversation during the actual coffee date. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 06:23 AM |
| 2 | A few quick questions about a first date. Advice is MUCH appreciated.Ayy! Nice man, glad to hear it was a success! | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | A few quick questions about a first date. Advice is MUCH appreciated.You got it right. Right after just look at her and smile. If she is responding very positively to it then you can continue macking. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | A few quick questions about a first date. Advice is MUCH appreciated.We have the same definition then! I usually go for more lippy kisses at the beginning then i try and probe with the tongue to see if shes down for that. If she responds then it's the green light to make it that more sexual style tongue kiss. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 07:24 AM |
| 4 | A few quick questions about a first date. Advice is MUCH appreciated.aight i gotchu fam. In terms of having her sit next to you, have her sit on the couch/sofa first. Make an excuse to stand longer like "hey i'm gonna get a drink you want one?" or "gonna use the bathroom real quick, take a seat" then YOU can sit down right next to her eliminating the chance she doesn't sit right next to you. Depending on the movie you're watching you can introduce a kiss whenever you feel comfortable doing so. Personally my favorite movies to watch are rom coms as they are usuall… | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 07:06 AM |
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