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I don't think she is. She has trust issues. This isn't the first time.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 12:19 PM
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Lol well she took care of me this morning and now I'm at work :( but I'll be back home tomorrow.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 10:45 PM
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Really, that's what I thought was happening but there would have been no use trying to explain it but I figured it had to be in the background or activate when you enter WiFi or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 10:44 PM
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I don't hope it goes that way but I know if it does I'll survive.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 10:43 PM
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It was actually my wife who showed the app to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 10:42 PM
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I'm not at that level yet but I'll get there.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 08:49 PM
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I don't think so but AWALT. Shes not a snowflake and if I find out something did happen I'll be ready to walk that road as well. Thanks to this sub I can confidently say life goes on with our with out her.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 08:27 PM
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Yea I gave her the gift. She didn't say anything about it. She just tells me she loves me and has been cuddling and rubbing my dick since yesterday afternoon.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 08:10 PM
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Viber sounds more like a dildo brand. LOL hadn't even thought about it but it does.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 07:44 PM
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Good to know my suit will be with me for years to come.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 02:30 AM
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LOL Not even the red light is enough for some of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 03:54 PM
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It's going to be a long road but its going to be worth it. Acta, Non Verba...I try to live by this daily.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 02:19 PM
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Yea I don't mess with them. The last navy girl I had is now my current wife. I want to say I dodged a bullet cause she has a solid head on her shoulders, likes tinkering on cars and trucks and enjoys serving me beer while I work on my Evo X and GSX-R.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 02:12 PM
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That is definitely a different perspective. I do remember at one point I use to be RP. I was young maybe 14 and I was very athletic. I was in Track and field, soccer, baseball and marching band. I worked out with players from the football team but alas I was young and didn't know how to channel and direct all that Man. I even realized some years after the navy that I had lost it and became BP. It wasn't till I found MRP and TRP that I learned what I was and that sinking feeling of lost was my bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 02:08 PM
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I have to say tho that I can tell this road will be hard. I still have these urges to victim puke or jump at her beck and call. I know this is bad now and I see my habits but no matter how much knowledge and foresight I have I still do it sometimes. Its very frustrating because it feels like a losing battle. I still struggle with being "comfortable in the uncomfortable".
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 02:02 PM
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I've come to understand that now. My circle of friends has always been small but now I'm reaching out in different groups to expand my circle. I'm looking into doing Wing Chun and being part of a Lightsaber team that does choreographed fights (yes I'm a geek at heart so be it). I will use these as a way to expose myself to being social with people and not depend solely on my wife for my social needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 01:59 PM
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Your right. I just keep working on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 01:54 PM
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Noted. I try not to victim puke. As much as I want to blame the world....ultimately its my fault. I've been beta and now I see the world for what it really is. It's crazy how much subliminal messaging we get telling us that "the one" is just around the corner and if you just wait long enough you'll have her. It scares me because I have a 8 yr old girl and a son due in a week and they are going to be exposed to this. I'm just learning to be an oak and hold frame myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 09:27 PM
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Yea I'm still working on that. I have a habit to speak with my feelz alot more than I would like. Right now I just focus on leading my family and improving my SMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 09:04 PM
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It took me 4-5 months to realize this and its SO liberating. Do I want my wife to leave, of course not. Its up to me if she stays or leaves. If I keep lifting and reading the side bar I will continue to improve my life. The greatest thing about it is its not even for her. Its for me. Its so weird doing things for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 08:16 PM
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Yea I got a suit from there and from Thailand. I'm going to be one Sexy Man! Lol yea I'm navy and make sure not to kino too much cause your right bitches be crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 08:13 PM
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Yea I'm giving up on the anal thing. Its been met with a hard no every time. That's something I'll have to accept as never happening again. I'll just keep working on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/15 06:28 AM
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Your right and this is what I struggle with the most. I've been so beta for so long its not even a thought. I really have to pay attention and watch what she does not what she says.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 06:27 AM
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Ok I remember reading "womanese" in Th Book of Pook.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 07:32 PM
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I took a look at powertalk from TRP sidebar...its confusing so I'll continue to read more into it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 06:34 PM
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Thank you refocus. STFU and lift. I'll have to post again when I have something of value.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 06:27 PM
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This one is tough. Shes against toys, anal and bj. I have tried to ease her into it but she resits every time. I have manged to get her to blow me once in a blue moon and get anal twice. Nothings since then. I think the reason is because I'm not alpha enough. So for now I try not to focus on that and just work on me lifting and reading the sidebar. If I become interesting enough and hold frame I hope she will offer it and I wont even have to ask.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 06:25 PM
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Your right in retrospect I should have just STFU and not even indulged. Old habits die hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 06:22 PM
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I'll try and implement this. And thanks for the read. It reminded me how I need to just focus on me. Lift and read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 07:05 AM
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Yea I get what your saying. I'm sticking to my lifting. I just got to force my self to STFU. It's something I REALLY struggle with.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 06:43 AM
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Thanks for the clarification. I chose to just STFU and lift 3x a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 05:38 PM
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Yes I have this problem but I'm working on owning it. It wasn't until I read NMMNG just how much I used Covert contracts. Its disgusting. I don't know how I've let myself become like this. I have to actually think about everything I say cause I naturally apply covert contracts.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 05:56 PM
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Ok I'll keep lifting and STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 09:19 AM
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Thanks. This is something I am trying to own and it very hard for me. I've been Beta for so long I'm noticing I do a lot of shit reflexively and I'm trying to change it. It makes me sick to my stomach that this is how I've been and....well it makes me angry.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:09 PM
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I don't get it. I don't get how you CAN'T be angry. I really try. I spend so much time lifting cause I'm always angry. I don't know how NOT to be angry. Someone says something stupid it irritates me. Wife snaps over nothing and I want to shake her stupid. Its so reflexive I don't even think about it. The only thing I do now since discovering the red pill is just lift. Wife pisses me off. I hold it in til i get to the gym. I get stupid issues from work, guess I'm saving that for my dead lifts. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 08:25 AM
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I needed this. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 08:56 AM
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Yea this was before I took the redpill seriously. I was a lost soul.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 03:53 PM
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Yes I just want to get out of this mentality. This sorry of a bluepill I've been most of my life. I'm still reading NMMNG and I try to apply everything I'm reading. I've already finished The Rationale Male Year one. So much more for me to learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 03:53 PM
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Its very difficult for me not to cause that is how I've been almost all my life. I'm working on it and recognizing when i do it so i can stop it
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 03:30 PM
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Yes I've seen those guys. I use to be one of them. Always having to stick by the phone cause she MIGHT call or shes checking our finances questioning every purchase. She still does this even now but I've been practicing maintaining frame either by giving a IDGAF attitude or just ignoring her completely. I cant really tell if its been successful or not. I ended up just going to the gym and doing my 5x5 for the day when I got mad. Surprisingly I felt really good. I'm going to up my 5x5 routine so …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 07:51 PM
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Yes I feel like I discovered the red pill in the worst possible time in my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 07:45 PM
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Your right in retrospect it was a covert contract and I fucked that up. I shouldn't have done that. I should have done it just because I wanted to. Fuck these habits are hard to change.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 07:44 PM
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I've only started down this road taking the red pill. Let me be upfront about what I've learned: People here will be harsh as fuck. ACCEPT IT. Learn from it. Lift. Period. Read the sidebar every single day! No exception. Internalize what the sidebar offers. FOCUS ON YOU! I am still in my wife's frame. I'm still a beta bitch but everyday I fight. I focus on me everyday and try to make everything else second. I still fuck up. I'm still a pussy. I still don't own all my shit. Keep pushing, stay foc…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 08:10 AM
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I continue to read everyday.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 08:33 PM
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Yes I have come to realize I do have an issue. When I get back stateside I will be looking to fix this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:57 PM
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Yes they are semi-annual.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:53 PM
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So I just ignore everything she says? I don't understand how this helps. It just makes her mad and threatening. I don't need that kind of stress while I'm gone. It just makes me worry about her and our kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:53 PM
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Wait...what? I know what shes doing. Its just now my eyes have been open to what shes been doing to me.....no what I have been allowing her to do to me. So I will lift. I will continue to read the sidebar and I will continue to try to internalize and use the skills that are being shown to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:54 AM
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Its really hard for me. Its second nature to just respond every time she says something. I have to really think about what I'm doing cause I've already had to stop myself several times. Even then I ended up replying later but at least at those points i thought about and read some of the sideboard before I replied. My ability to apply these skills is horrible but I keep trying and soon I'll be lifting as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:50 AM
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Just read I'll try to internalize this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 04:45 AM
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I was raised predominantly by my mom. My dad was military so he was gone a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 01:25 AM
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Its hard but I'm trying. I've never realized how much I claw for her approval on EVERYTHING even when I'm not thinking about it. This will be the MOST difficult for me to handle.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 11:20 PM
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Wouldn't this make you seem cold and not even interested?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 11:09 PM
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I've been reading The Best of Rational Male – Year One and I haven't reached hypergamy yet so I'm not sure what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 11:07 PM
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I'll try something like that next.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 11:06 PM
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I work nights which is day time for her so we are up at the same time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 11:04 PM
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Really? How?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 11:02 PM
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Yes I can call but only on occasions. I'll work on trying to keep texts logistics only to an extent. Being deployed pretty much mean emails and text are my most used communication.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 09:10 PM
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Yea this is all still very new to me. I have to fight my old self everyday. I'm just trying to concentrate on lifting. I need to start there.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 09:06 PM
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I'm starting the Strong-lift 5x5 on Monday since that's the soonest my schedule allows. I did respond with thanks babe.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 09:03 PM
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It's what I normally do when I first get in to work. I'm deployed so when I start work I tell her I love her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 08:52 PM
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I just saw this on blue pill. I figured I would look since I'm trying to swallow the RP why not see what the other side is.......HOLY FUCK!! It felt like a witch hunt. It was nothing but 'we do nothing but learn how to fuck girls'. That made me think. I just today read unplugging and plugged on The Best of Rational Male – Year One. Isn't this the same thing women have been doing for centuries? I'm still learning what Hypergamy or whatever is but just from what I've read so far it sounds like the…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 07:20 AM
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Thank you! I just read this and have a direction to follow.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 06:42 PM
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So, as part of making progress, I expressed a need for high quality sex and intimacy, and some kinkier stuff, but I was careful not to talk about it in such a way that it was directed at her (I do not want to negotiate desire anymore). How did you do this?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 03:36 AM
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I will...look into this. Just a lot of information I have to digest.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:54 AM
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YMMV?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:34 AM
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Simple. I'm not a public threat. You underestimate the military's desire to have people on station but no matter. I'm trying to channel this new found discovery about myself. I've started setting up my schedule to do the 5x5 lift workout. It seems my first step is to lift. So lift I will do. I am reading plate theory right now but I'm not sure how this applies to married people.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 10:23 PM
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I looked this up today. I'm planning on using this as my first step to fixing myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:27 PM
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I do no such thing. That's sick and irresponsible. yes I do have an issue with porn and i was seeing a therapist until i deployed. Cant see one in the middle of the Persian gulf. Try not to judge so quickly. I know I'm fucked up. At least I have the balls to openly admit it. I just need now need to figure away to get thru these roller coaster of emotions and do something about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:26 PM
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Not a troll. in fact i learn porn was I guess one of the 'buffers' to avoid rejection. I'm all kinds of screwed up and i don't think there's any fixing me.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:17 PM
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I will try. The more I read the more I think I use to be my own man and somehow I lost it. What makes me mad is I don't even know how.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:09 PM
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I tried to think back to what I was like before I got married...before I felt the need to give up everything for that "one". I can't really remember. I can find remote episodes in my life where it was all about me. I felt strong, confident in control but they seem so faint. I can't even honestly tell you if those are my actual memories of me or i just dreamed them. I can only remember the feeling. Whats even more crazy is Ive been asking myself for the past year what has happened to me? I though…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:08 PM
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I want to do just that tell my wife everything but I can see it just further perpetuates my betaness and therefor making her desire me even less than she does now. Its hard. I feel like I've lost my entire life.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:02 PM
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