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Dry_FishMan/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 02:01 AM
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Long game strategy. I let that bs DV shit go--was like a time out, it expires after a yearor so if you just plead nothing. Didn't affect custody where I was as no findings of DV. I'm 2.5 years in and my divorce is done it all went 50/50 but that front part your in was hellish. Document all you have for valuables. Those should be split or you each get half. Document expenses. Split your pay into a new acct. Don't change insurance or any stuff like that. Nor life ins stuff. It'll look bad. Get wha…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 09:11 AM
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Traded up for my own stuff. Got 100% back but had to spend double!
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/26 12:56 PM
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What’d you do to make him file
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 03:27 AM
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Attorney
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 02:08 AM
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Ps I am in MPLS so that’s wild.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 01:33 AM
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I don’t need to die w millions of bucks. She’s got the bankroll for the kid. We just have a fucking blast! That’s happiness man. Gotta find it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 01:32 AM
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Man I agree. But until it’s fixed. Play the cards. I’m 2.5 yrs into divorce-she’s appealing the alimony payments to me (she breadwinner like the OP) ! I’ve spent well into 6 figures of my money. Shit sucks but end of day I got my son 50/50 and my own place and life’s good. Can always make more money. Perhaps I’ll be able to say I’m 2-0 vs an attorney. Divorce rulings and appeal. PS my ex was an attorney so u know I’m thinking vanity plates on my truck Alimoney. Fuck them. Feed them. Don’t ever m…
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 01:30 AM
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Sometimes there’s no other choice. Get what’s legally “yours”. Why not.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 01:25 AM
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Get an attorney get 50:50. Get alimony and child support.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 12:24 AM
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Document your monthly spending and then when or if it goes to lawyers/trial you can show the abnormality and so forth. She shouldn’t be entitled to your half. Keep good records of the dollars does t matter what or where the shit goes. As long as you can attribute the funds she spent and show how burning it down it’ll go as debt on her column. Like month over month then wen you make a budget it should be clear she was just spending
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 02:53 AM
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I have this fear too with my 5yo son
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/26 01:04 AM
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And about 120k. Fuck. Lol but still. It is better. I’m 40 fwiw
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 12:17 AM
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Bro trudge ahead. I lost my house. My dogs. Time with my son. My wife. My job. All in 2 years. Still fighting about alimony. But it gets better. I have peace. And it’s wonderful. I can do whatever the fuck I want!
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 12:17 AM
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No and delete all social media. Easy.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 11:32 PM
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What’s going to be positive is your lawyers bank account. 🤡
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 06:11 PM
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I am you. You are me. Late 30s here. Go date/bang some chicks or whatever but you don’t need to start a family or get married ever again. You need to focus on what makes you happy and do anything and everything you want. Think about your hobbies and schedule and if a chick aligns then so be it but you def do not need to go seek companionship. Let that come to you and be like the addition to you doing what you want and love. Maybe it’s someone from your friend group or a friend of a friend but it…
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/26 11:42 AM
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Also start another family and get relationship —bro you need to focus one day at a time and fix this mess before you go make more
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/26 01:01 AM
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Sole physical custody? Ask ur lawyer, make a schedule like guy below says go for 50/50 time. My ex has “custody” so healthcare/education/religion choices but I get the kid 50/50. Essentially she’s a secretary for us planning school and appointments and I just enjoy my time w them. Your lawyer should know how it’s going to play out or best or worst case then try to get as much as you can.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/26 01:00 AM
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Yeah f that. Ru a door mat? Look in the mirror. Be there for the kid when it’s your time. When it’s hers ; tough shit. And stop giving her anything extra. Like why would you even consider let alone do these things
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 11:24 PM
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I’m at 2.5 years because an appeal and still going. Nice work w 2.5 months!! Take care of yourself OP.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 10:23 PM
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Get a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/26 10:07 PM
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I am defending. Burning money to not take some wack settlement number they tried to get me to cave with because she’s mad she has to pay alimony. She could have been amicable and then I wouldn’t be such a fucker over this but since she went full nazi. I’m going to fight her. Try to make her eat the fees for bringing appeal and get ruling upheld Karma is a bitch. FAFO. Plus how many times is the shoe on the opposite foot where this is the man v woman flipped.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 12:27 PM
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I got awarded 2200/mo for 5 yrs ago it happens…fight the good fight and stick to what’s due legally.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 08:01 PM
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There is always the 30 day appeal window. At least in my case. And state. Hold firm collect a month interest then get the bike
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/25 06:07 PM
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Trading mine for a watch? Or upgrading to something for me . TBD
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 05:24 PM
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I'm under 40 and spent more getting freed. Such a waste for my child. Go pack go
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 02:42 AM
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I'm sorry you need to heal. Fuck her and whatever she does now you need to focus on you and what makes you happy. It's going to belong dark days ahead but you gotta love you first and foremost. Then the kids. They are your legacy. 47. You could live to be 90+. Ur like halfway thru life at most. Make the second half better than the first. One day at a time.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 04:14 PM
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If you have any hesitation, run.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 12:57 AM
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Orange theory
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/25 02:50 AM
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If there’s a no contact in place or something you could probs get in trouble if someone cried to the judge. Idk. It’s a waste of money
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/25 12:22 AM
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It doesn’t prevent it just has a tone meter that will light up red if the message is spicy
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/25 05:02 PM
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Our law here is half the length of marriage you’re possibly able to claim.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 09:07 PM
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I am in MN have 50/50 …pics 32/78 me 32. Im going for alimony and spousal maintenance….
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/25 09:06 PM
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Spent 60k plus in a year on mine. Not to mention the custody evaluator appraiser and financial expert…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/25 03:59 AM
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There’s a lot more petty shit like not allowing me to move my shit and I having to have my family from out of state do it etc. I enjoy being stone cold dealing with her and only have to because of my son thru some bullshit app. His success matters and that’s all.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/25 09:57 PM
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I had this happen…lost my guns and my home and my child overnight. One duffel bag of clothes…Hunting is a hobby and she went for what I enjoy most. Hunting and my son. She tried the let’s go to counseling only to tell me she can’t do it so I served here right during the session- I walked out. Called lawyer from parking lot and said email it over to her attny. (I had it prepared for the OFP trial). I Didn’t fight it. I punched back by filing for divorce. (She’s claimed that was rude or some other…
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/25 09:55 PM
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Fuck no
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/25 11:23 PM
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Hell yeah go for it. I’m waiting on a judge to rule on alimony I’m after in my divorce. Even more lopsided income disparity than u. Hope it goes thru!
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 03:31 AM
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After the fake protection order and some bs therapy trips -10 days. Divorce has taken 15 months in the courts. 1 kid. Custody and divorce final(ish) 70k my lawyers fees. Balance sheet in the works…so much happier but 50/50 Is what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 03:38 AM
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Bro you are totally fine. Do hobbies or go to gym be outside. Stay away from the drugs n booze you will be super good after it blows over. Tons of single women out there and just work on yourself til you are ready
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/25 01:39 AM
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How olds the kid and what are you looking for. Your never going to be #1 til kids an adult so go in knowing that.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 02:34 AM
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I love this.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 02:22 AM
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I have one of these. I didn’t fight the ofp. It’s an ofp that’s sealed and no admission. Ex parte with out findings. Aka she cried wolf. I said meh. Judge rules it stands and that’s that. Let her enjoy the two years no contact. Went out on my own. Figured it out. I served the divorce papers. Fighting my x like hell for my son. I enjoy the quiet from no contact but it makes the divorce expensive. We are in for probs 60k and haven’t had a pretrial call yet. Just got custody eval done. Some days su…
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/25 01:46 AM
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Townhouse life. Pay HOA lock the door and go to fun places
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/25 06:27 PM
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I want to pay my lawyer like 10Mm to keep her busy in court while I go spend the rest!
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 03:05 AM
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I am in MN and can talk about it w a 3 almost 4 year old. Pm me if you want. I have a lawyer(not sure I’d recommend) and we r likely headed to trial. I don’t know all things but some of how the state here works. I’m 11months into it right now…50k total-no end in sight as waiting for custody eval the pretrial etc
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 03:00 AM
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Duluth MN.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 12:11 AM
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Solid. I’m in MN and same sort of boat. 28 k in so far. Happy to help any MN peeps
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 12:09 AM
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I’m playing this reverse uno card as we speak gentleman. 😬
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 12:08 AM
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Bs order for protection. Said drop it or I’m filing. She wanted to separate for 6 months. I filed in response during a marriage counseling session. The words were “ isn’t this marriage counseling or couples therapy? She doesn’t want either so I’m done here” walked out. Emailed lawyer from truck in parking lot and she got served while still in the session.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 03:26 AM
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Yes RO/OFP order for protection. “Domestic”. Emotional abuse. Insert eye roll here.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 02:46 PM
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I 38m stbx 35. Married 10 yrs known each other 18. One 3 yo kid. I’m pushing for trial as she wants more mediation. The first offers were a joke. She earns 2.5 times what I do. She wants the house and is pushing on me for my living situation since split. I haven’t spent much on living but have adequate bed and so forth for son. Shes trying to call my shots and also keep tabs on me when I do get time w my son. Ie where we go who we visit etc. she wouldn’t let me take kid to see grandparents cause…
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 02:52 AM
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