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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 194 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?I can actually contribute some advice to lurkers because I’ve worked in collections (retail collections, non-medical). Do NOT put yourself in debt or sign financial responsibility for another person. Especially a romantic partner. Collections and the law do not care if you have a lawsuit/awaiting judgement against your ex. If it’s your name on the paper, you’re responsible for it. It’ll hit your credit score, not his. Even if you win the lawsuit and he has to pay the debt. He must pay you then y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 05:58 PM |
| 34 | “He has Bi Wife Energy”The “Bi wife energy” was created by someone on tiktok. The song was commonly used in tiktoks by heterosexual men praising themselves for having Bi partners (no links currently because apparently tiktok doesn’t have a viewing history unless I liked it). The song was also used by fans who were convinced celebrities or fandom ships had “Bi wife energy” and used in photo collages of women showing off their boyfriend “radiating Bi wife energy”. Mind you, though the song is about being a good ally, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 42 | “He has Bi Wife Energy”I saw the original post as well and at the beginning, I loved it. Then it got plastered all over tiktok by men patting themselves on the back. 😒 We can’t have anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:43 PM |
| 31 | Woman has ONS with ex. He totally asked for consent except when she woke up to him groping her. She acknowledges that he won’t date her but instead relives handing his hand.That’s what disgusted me as well. She says he asked for consent every step of the way until the next morning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:07 PM |
| 64 | Woman has ONS with ex. He totally asked for consent except when she woke up to him groping her. She acknowledges that he won’t date her but instead relives handing his hand.I was disappointed in that as well. Like you’re going to wake me up from my wonderful sleep and not even go down on me or make me cum 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:24 PM |
| 97 | Woman has ONS with ex. He totally asked for consent except when she woke up to him groping her. She acknowledges that he won’t date her but instead relives handing his hand.For me, it reads like someone trying to validate the experience in their own head. I remember writing diary posts like this in high school. Romanticizing everything that could perceived as a good thing while blatantly ignoring the bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:35 PM |
| 183 | Woman has ONS with ex. He totally asked for consent except when she woke up to him groping her. She acknowledges that he won’t date her but instead relives handing his hand.I feel bad for her as well. When people in the comments were asking why they couldn’t be together, she said he was in love with someone else. She knew this. Slept with him and felt desirable because of it. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 143 | Beware The "Momma's Boy."I have a roommate who is a momma’s boy. He goes to her place every week so she can do his laundry. When the apartment is dirty or the trash is overflowing, he will do nothing. If he sees me cleaning, he will state “you could have just asked me to clean”. I shouldn’t have to ask you to clean the apartment which you live. You see the trash overflowing, you clean take it out. And on the very off chance he does take out the trash, he acts like he is the sole person doing it. Like he climbed through … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:11 PM |
| 82 | Men use you for lots of things, not just sexI used to believe that a man liked me romantically when I was the first person he texted in the morning and the last at night. I spent wonderful moments and experiences with him but he “didn’t like labels”. When he was jealous on one occasion, I took that as a unspoken acceptance of our exclusivity. Oh howdy, was I wrong. He ditched me to chase after his lesbian best friend he secretly fetishized. All those times he came to me for emotional support. All those gifts and dates we went on. All the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 02:37 PM |
| 100 | YOU are the one who sets the pace. Ignore pushy/aggressive/over-eager LVM and fuckboys.The biggest thing I had to learn when recovering from my pickmeisha days is not letting men guilt or shame me for saying “No.” I have been called a bitch, cold, distant and not fun enough when I didn’t agree to what a date wanted. When they never called back, I would dwell on it thinking it was all my fault for having boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 01:23 PM |
| 25 | What was your worst pickmeisha experience like with a LV ex?I had spent a year engrossed in my work life that I didn’t socialize much. I joined a video game discord and met an enchanting man. He was charismatic, well educated and had travelled the world. No matter my long work hours, he was always online to talk when I got home. He would write songs, short stories and poetry about how I enriched his life. Talking to him felt like a luxury. Even other people in the discord were envious that I snagged him. After I spent months emotionally investing in him,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 04:32 PM |
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