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Sound words of advice.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 05:06 PM
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Simply move on. You get one life…go live your best life without so much in question.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 07:33 PM
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Nothing you can say or do will change her decision. She likely made her decision 2 years ago. Get your things in order and your best days are ahead in a new chapter. You are being dealt a hard blow that requires therapy….male therapist is my recommendation. Avoid relationships for two years while working through what happened to you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 02:51 PM
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Many articles that explain that women who leave relationships typically they detach and made the decision about two years prior. The. The “monkey branch”….have the next relationship waiting.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 03:34 PM
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The kicker is she made the decision, per trends on the internet, about two years ago. Wish you the very best. Be around other men and be physically active if not already.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 06:35 PM
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🎯
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 06:32 PM
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This 👆🏻
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 06:29 PM
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Do NOT allow your children to be with her unsupervised. She sounds really unhinged and capable of anything. Get a protection order if possible. Feel for you and your children. Wish you the very best.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/24 11:08 PM
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On the bright side…better days are ahead! It’s a life lesson to be cautious and ask yourself and potential partner the right questions in another chapter of your life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 09:11 PM
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This 👆🏻
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 06:20 PM
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GOAT!!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 01:50 PM
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Very likely your ex is pissed because she no longer feels she has control of the situation and to that I congratulate you. Life is short and moves on. I hope you find your happiness and peace. WARNING: evaluate whether or not you truly understand what led to the failed relationship before committing to another. Playing around is fine but understand what you need and what you caused.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 05:08 PM
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Your best years are ahead. I can assure you. Not only that but you are the example for your children…and will come out of this. Very important you speak with other men and soon. Most of us have been through this in one form or another. A woman’s nature is frustrating but DO NOT let it conquer you. You are better than that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 02:19 PM
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Very very proud of you brother!
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 12:47 AM
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Happy to hear how it turned. Consider yourself lucky when compared to the other stories on here. Have a great 2024 brother!!!
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 11:58 PM
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Really need and active YouTube channel mirroring this thread.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 10:51 PM
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It’s even bad outside the US…one from Mexico got her hooks into me now.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 10:50 PM
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You did what everyone in this chat needs to hear…you need to focus on bettering yourself in all aspects of life which will help you and children if any. That is truly the key. Western men get sucked into the provider mentality and if we chose unwisely we get drained by women supported by a family law system disproportionately against men. We don’t even have to choose unwisely anymore…it’s proven women in LTR lose interest and respect.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 10:37 PM
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I’m guessing a drum roll would have been better than the three dots at end of sentence. Marriage is rough/tough!🤣😆😂
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 10:29 PM
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I would also add record all interactions so as to not be accused of any wrongdoing. Install surveillance in the house without advertising it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 11:58 PM
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2024 is going to be a great year for you!
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 05:36 AM
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The laws have to be changed. All men need to get together and change these oppressive laws. It’s damaging us.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 12:10 PM
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Tinder worked great for me.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 06:12 AM
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Check out Geoffrey Setiawan on YouTube. Rough road ahead but in short you will need to focus on you to pull through it. Check out his videos on YouTube. I am in taking his coursework now and it is a completely different approach to dealing with your type situation. Sincerely wish you the very best.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 05:28 AM
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Honorable that you would let her use your car. That said…she‘s got this. Not your issue anymore unless it adversely impacts your children.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 06:29 PM
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Success is the best revenge. Enjoy it mate!
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 04:21 AM
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Invest in cat food companies. Going to be an exponential number of older used up women in the near future.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 12:07 AM
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Do NOT get married again or if you do definitely have a solid prenup. Learn from others mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 01:18 AM
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Do NOT take her back. She will ask but don’t. Somewhere you will find someone.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 03:04 AM
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🎯
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 05:27 AM
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Divorce her, she can become the strong independent woman she believes she is and get a job. Meanwhile you hopefully don’t hit the 10 year marriage milestone (spousal support considers depending on your state). Then focus on building yourself up in every way (mentally, physically, emotionally, nutrition, etc). You will be healthier and stronger for you child. Stay away from women for a year to self reflect and work on yourself and address issues you may have contributed. Sounds like your wife doe…
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/23 12:14 AM
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Your eldest will get a taste of the vindictive western woman soon enough and it will all come into context for him and he will connect with you. Rest assured. I wish you the very best brother…relationships are very difficult anymore in the west.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 05:24 PM
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For California : Child support up to 18 years old. If there is a wage disparity the high earner will pay to maintain the other for half the duration of the marriage. In my case, my earnings were $250k annually and expected to pay wife $4,500. per month to maintain her life style even though she works for a salad of $55K. No man should ever marry under the current family court system…..EVER! Also, record every conversation with her and never lose your cool with her. Now focus on building working …
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/23 02:00 AM
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Get outdoors, get some sunshine and work on yourself. Don’t deprive someone of your potential.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 07:56 PM
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You will ALWAYS a come in last place before her kids and be an ATM.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 02:28 PM
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Stay her boyfriend. Take it from us that have done a “tour of duty” or two. Over 50% chance you will be financially wiped out and a great potential to have your kids taken away or limited access. No matter how strong the love….almost 100% chance she will build up resentment overtime in a LTR. Prenup or remain boyfriend but likely she will move on.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 11:14 PM
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Many women in the US like this. This is the reality for many men. It’s no longer feasible for any man to be married and invite the government and judicial system into their lives. Hire a private investigator and have the wife under surveillance.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 02:06 AM
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Get out now before you obtain assets.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 05:43 PM
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Send her to the eastern front!
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 02:09 AM
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Complete lack of respect and will not improve. Get a lawyer, get therapy and lots of it, get help from family and custody if possible. Wishing you the very best brother.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 09:13 PM
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Divert money out of the joint accounts to a new fresh account so she does not clean you out.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 01:48 AM
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Wishing you some sense of peace. I went through it and very tough. Sincerely wish you the best brother.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 04:48 AM
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Be cautious of handing over your child to her in that state of mind anymore!
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 07:14 PM
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There is a lot to be said about male camaraderie. Men generally have it tougher and we see it in each other when things aren’t right. Good stuff!
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 02:04 AM
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I am in the same situation right now. Need advise desperately.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 01:25 AM
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You need a male counselor and one that is masculine but emphatic.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 12:31 AM
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Get a motorcycle…it really helps cope.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 11:29 PM
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Very wise.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 08:56 PM
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Record every conversation with her as evidence and keep you from outbursts.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 03:21 PM
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How old are you both? She sounds immature and definitely not respectful of you. Avoid outbursts as hard as that is and send her on her way. Get an attorney and separate. It will only get worse. Record any discussion you have with her to protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 12:48 AM
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Wishing the very best for you and your daughter. You are doing the right thing. Stay grounded close to family if possible.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 12:26 AM
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Many of us have been or there. Add to it cancer, economy tanking in 2008 etc etc. A good chapter is around the corner.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 06:18 AM
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It’s very simple…are you willing to commit resources time and energy to a person who does not want to resolve issues? How would that ever work out? It won’t.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 03:45 PM
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You already know what to do…your mind and heart are telling. Without knowing all the details…those provided are sufficient enough to say things will not improve. Why is that significant? It will degrade your life, health, mind, and ability to care for your children. Prepare and enlist help of family during the transition. You and your children only live one life. You are married to someone not on your level. Very important to learn and pick up on red flags next relationship which in no way shoul…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 01:43 AM
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I am sure she has already monkey branched or about to.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 11:34 PM
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They always put their kids first unless there is something really off.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 11:32 PM
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Unfortunately things will not improve even if you were to triple your income. You are viewed and valued on what you provide and with 5 mouths to feed beyond yourself (daughters and wife included)…will be hard to get ahead. If you are becoming depressed or down on yourself seek help (therapy then legal) for YOURSELF and explore your options. I did it for 10 years to be there for my son and it was misery. Wife passed away unfortunately but the the time we were together it was sheer misery in every…
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 11:31 PM
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You MUST get out for everyone’s sake including your own. Get legal advice and identify your options and implement the best option(s) you have. It’s not healthy for anyone. I did it for ten years and it was brutal. She played games afterwards big time with visitation etc. but you need to take control.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 11:37 PM
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Get an attorney immediately and identify your options legally and what you can do to prevent her taking the children.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 11:31 PM
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