I just don't understand it...I am based in the UK, I was married for 5 years, no kids. What caused the end of our marriage was the constant pointless fights about anything to everything....it turns out she has an undiagnosed mental health condition called 'BPD' . We attended marriage counselling who confirmed she was the main cause of the issues in our relationship as she didn't listen to my point of view.

I filled for divorce 14 months ago, and I was told on paper "your divorce is super easy! and will be done within 10 months" No kids, only 1 house to sell and you both will go on your way as its a 'short marriage' you will get a 50/50 split.

14 months later she continues to drag her heels on everything...we are both wasting our money and life (time) but she has no willingness to end the divorce process. Every letter is a battle, I sent one letter and it takes her 4 -6 weeks to respond.

We are now at the point where I have instructed the courts to take action against her to split the assets as she simply doesn't respond or provide a decent response to any of my letters. I have a court date set for the end of July. However, she then made me an offer to settle out of court which I accepted...she now isn't responding to her solicitor and its been almost 1 month!

Despite calling / emailing her solicitor every other day I get told 'we are waiting for your ex wife to respond'.

This seems like her one last attempt to 'punish me' yet there are no consequences for her!!

Even if it goes to court I've been told she can continue to waste the court time with no consequences!