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Everything that happens to us is a lesson....yes she tried to break me and ruin me financially but without this experience I wouldn't be where I am today. I am in a place where I have peace, happiness and I am slowly rebuilding my finances. So I don't regret meeting her...
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/25 01:10 PM
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Yes it sucks!! In the end I got around a 30/70 split ..she also got to keep around £50,000 worth of gold...all the presents my family gave her. She also made up I stole some of her items which I had to pay £20,000 for. She also stole all my possessions that I had accumulated over the past 5 years!! I tried everything to get a fair split but realized time is more precious than money / materials...it's now almost 3 years since I got divorced and I am in an amazing relationship, have doubled my sal…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/25 03:24 PM
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Yes immediately, she kicked me out and said she wanted to work things out...whilst we were attending marriage counselling and she was telling me she wanted to work things out she was dating
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 09:26 AM
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I felt like this during my first break up when I was 22 years old it was hard to get over but I made it. Time is a healer...
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 02:30 PM
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Na sounds like an asian arranged marriage and for whatever reason the girl changed her mind..I imagine her parents were forcing her and she already had a boyfriend it's really common...
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 09:18 AM
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Pow
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 07:52 PM
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Yes indeed
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 01:04 PM
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Never ignore the red flags
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 08:27 PM
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Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉. She got. 60/40 split in my case but I am so glad it's over! I am still getting used to being free. After being stuck in this mess for over 600 days!
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 08:40 AM
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Btw every word you wrote in your original post I can relate to!
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:18 PM
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Apparently I couldn't even do the vacuum correctly, walk correctly, breath correctly or even eat...only the world knows how I managed to make it so far
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 07:29 PM
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I totally agree, I love the quote 'sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall in place'.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 02:02 PM
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In the UK
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 01:53 PM
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Hey no condolences lol I am happy!
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 08:41 AM
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These were all gifts I bought for her, when she left the house she left them there. I was under the impression as I gifted them to her they were mine BUT she is getting everything I gifted her back and she is also getting everything she gifted me back ! The description I have given for the items are not a professional description
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 11:48 AM
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I am 34 divorced no kids , trust me it's not the end of the world!
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 09:21 AM
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Around £30,000 on divorce lawyer fees. £15,000, in jewellery. £15,000 worth of my possessions and £40,000 from the sale of our house. So around £100k
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 03:23 PM
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Here in the UK it's meant to start at 50/50 but rarely ever ends 50/50...
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 05:58 PM
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From what I've seen it's rare for men to get 50/50 . It's more like 60/40, 70/30 in the womans favour
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 02:08 PM
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Living in an emotionally stable environment
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 03:12 PM
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I remember this happening to me ten years ago.. I would connect with a girl on a dating site and spend my time getting to know her her. Little did I know she was connecting to serval other guys at the same time! I was focusing on her whilst she was evaluating me against everyone else. When it came to meeting up it was always difficult to get a form commitment!
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 09:23 AM
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I am thinking of celebrating with a nice meal... Counting down the days...
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 07:11 PM
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No leave it...
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 07:04 PM
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Usher burn was a song that really resonated with me when I first made the decision for divorce
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 10:02 AM
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Trust me I've been there and i am still in the same situation after 14 months....slowly getting there though one day at a time
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 07:34 PM
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Third this, I am now dating a wonderful beautiful women with emotional control!
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 03:33 PM
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Trust me I've been where your at. You can all get through this just one day at a time. Brighter days are here to come...your at rock bottom now the only way is up!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 11:58 AM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/24 01:17 PM
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The first lawyer was a lady and said to me 'give your ex wife everything and be happy and get on your life' like seriously wtf advice is this ? The second was a bit better and initially was fighting my case good then he just got lazy and kept charging me tons of money for doing very little work. I wasn't seeing any progress so I got rid of him. The third was very bad , he said he could sort out everything fast . I hired him and they didn't reply for over a week saying they were busy in photo sho…
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 10:13 PM
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I fired my 3rd lawyer as they had no interest in resolving anything. They were charging me 4,000 USD every month just to send chaser letters. Since firing my lawyer and representing my self I've made significant progress quite quickly
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 09:33 PM
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Luckily I didn't cancel the court date so it still is going ahead...yes definitely so glad I got away from her
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 07:37 PM
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Yes I have a police report from when she attacked me
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 05:02 PM
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I am being evicted and need the money from the settlement to buy a house. I essentially can't move on with my life until this is done
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 04:48 PM
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Yes this is why I now represent myself as I wasting so much money with my solicitor constantly chasing
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 04:03 PM
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