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Due_Tip6665/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:30 PM
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Have you considered nursing assistant, aged care or support worker for elderly/ disability?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/23 06:29 PM
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Make sure you list looking for life partner or LTR on your profile. Only like the profiles of men who do the same.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/23 08:22 PM
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Life is finite. Do you really want to spend the rest of your time on this earth with this man?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/23 09:47 AM
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Girl don’t worry about it. Some days I show up to the gym after a hectic day at work with my hair in a messy bun, tracksuit pants on, and my sweaty makeup from the day. The guys at the gym STILL flirt/ approach/ try and make eye contact with me in my hot mess state. I think that objectively attractive women can dress down and will still be perceived as attractive/ feminine by men. They’ve seen how beautiful women look without styled hair, makeup, or nice clothes on before.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/23 02:47 AM
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I think she should just respond by showing her appreciation/ excitement in the early dating days - if a man gets you something nice, he’s trying to impress/ please you - he’s not then wanting or expecting you to make him dinner or tidy his apartment. Most men who I’ve dated are providers and it’s enough for them to see me get excited about a gift or activity they’ve organised and tell them how thoughtful/ great/ special it was. If I want to show him my cooking skills, we’ll prep a meal together …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/23 10:09 PM
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Imo these are boyfriend perks, OP mentioned that they were in the early dating phase - I’d only do this things regularly for a man I was in a relationship with (if the goal is an LTR). Basically, he can make me his girlfriend and reap the benefits, or he can watch me walk away.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/23 08:06 PM
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Maybe an unpopular opinion here, but I don’t think she should give him ‘boyfriend’ perks unless they’re in a relationship. I’d stick to showing intimacy and affection, giving him praise/ compliments, and expressing appreciation for the nice things he does. They could cook together on a date, but I wouldn’t be making food to bring him or going out my way to do him special favours during the early dating stage.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/23 08:02 PM
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You’re very young, considering that you mention the relationship is on the rocks, I’d look at returning to work (even part-time) so you can financially support yourself if it ends, and you can build an emergency savings fund for yourself. I know too many SAHMs who’s husbands left them after the kids turned 18. The outcome wasn’t great for them and resulted in a complete lifestyle change for them all (from living an affluent lifestyle, to working as a casual retail assistant and living in a share…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/23 10:44 AM
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Tell him to go to therapy/ counselling. Or you could go together for relationship therapy. He needs to stop projecting his own insecurities and hang-ups onto you/ your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/23 01:52 AM
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You break up with them. Do not have children with this man, he’ll likely be verbally aggressive towards them too.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/23 04:14 AM
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I did… that’s why I still look great at 30. I’m not infertile at 30 so I don’t know what you’re on about. I date men who are my age.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 07:49 AM
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Those stats are textbook numbers, not reflective of real life dating behaviours. Aside from the handful of Leonardo de caprios on this planet, majority of older men are dating and in relationships with women who are of a similar age to them. I don’t know of a single 30-something year old man in any of my extended social circles who’s dating someone younger than 25.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 05:06 AM
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That’s great that they find them attractive, but most 21 year olds are dating other people of a similar age within their social circles at college etc. I get the most interest from men who are similar in age to myself. In relationships, being at a similar life stage is important. I couldn’t imagine being in a partnership with a full-time student from a much younger generation who's interests, priorities, goals, and life experiences are vastly different from my own.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 03:36 AM
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30 year old me now gets hit on by high school and freshman guys AND their dads. And everything in between. I exercise daily, eat healthy, and have money to invest in my appearance too. I honestly look better than many of the early 20s girls who spend most of their free time tanning, drinking and partying. A 30-something year old single woman who takes care of herself, is above average attractive, has no baggage, and is financially stable is a hot commodity.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 02:44 AM
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Being in one’s late 20s or 30s doesn’t make someone ‘unattractive’. There younger people who aren’t conventionally attractive. And there are ‘older’ women who are (Anne Hathaway, Scarlett Jo, Rhianna, etc. etc.). So, just because a 20 or 30-something year old woman has a few facial lines doesn’t make her unattractive. And you know that men show signs of ageing too which could make them ‘less desirable’ based on your appraisal of what makes someone attractive? Many of the men I date in their 30s …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 02:27 AM
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What obstacles? I have never looked at a 26 year old and thought ‘wow, she’s ageing’. Plenty of people are single in their 20s and beyond. Men age too and look for many other things beyond looks in a partner. I’d never date a man who cared only about my appearance and nothing else. The issue here is about the OPs self esteem which he should seek professional help for.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/23 08:10 PM
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No real permanent ageing occurs at 26. I’m 30 and single. I get a huge amount of attention from men - on the apps, in person, approached by strangers, etc. Plenty of men in their 30s are single too - ageing will eventually effect them too. You need to get rid of the incel attitude of women ‘hitting a wall’ or no longer being in their ‘prime’ after their early 20s. It’s icky and misogynistic (especially since you’re not applying the same standard to men and how looks influence their dating prospe…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/23 07:37 PM
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You need to keep checking in with them then. After they’ve said yes looking for LTR, you should be asking how they’re feeling about how things are progressing at different points (like a check-in).
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/23 12:01 PM
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So, what are they responding with? Because if they’re coming back to you with wishy-washy/ uncertain answers, you need to cut them off then and there.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/23 11:59 AM
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You should ask if they want an LTR during the first couple of dates. If they so no, or they’re unsure, etc. move on to the next and don’t look back.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/23 04:20 AM
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How forward are you about telling men you’re dating what you’re looking for very early on, and cutting them off if it’s not what you’re looking for? If after 3 months he hasn’t made you his girlfriend he isn’t planning on it ever. You need to tell these men that you’re looking for an LTR from the get-go. They can either make you their girlfriend, or they can watch you walk away without turning back. If you ‘go with the flow’ and be too much of a ‘cool girl’ they’ll play along and keep you in tha…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/23 04:16 AM
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Bombshell sportswear - pricey but high quality & looks great on
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/23 11:21 PM
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In terms of saving money and time long-term, I saved money to get more permanent things done. A few years ago I saved to have my brows microbladed which has been one of my best investments - I don’t have to do ANYTHING and they look great every day. Same goes for laser hair removal. A good brush and salon quality hair products will keep your hair looking nice too. You’ll find that you need to use less so they last longer. I don’t get my nails done outside of events as I don’t see it as a great i…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/23 08:10 PM
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Not really you didn’t, I walk through a number of doors each day, but like I said, I don’t encounter single men who are my age very often due to my work, lifestyle, and social circle.
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:24 AM
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Out of the fry pan and into the fire 😂
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:43 AM
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What’s that got to do with my post? I never said there were ‘no good men left’, just that I don’t ever really cross paths with single men of any variety due to my career/ social circles/ lifestyle, etc etc. My intention wasn’t for this thread to be an opportunity for people to air their own grievances. Besides, this guy isn’t even 6 ft and I don’t know anything about him or his life beyond the fact that we both enjoy the same powerlifting classes as I’ve never said a word to him.
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:22 AM
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As do I - I actually don’t go anywhere or do anything with the sole objective of picking up or flirting with guys, but if I notice someone I like I’ll at least try and see if there’s any possibility that it might eventuate into something more. I don’t like dating apps, am not much for clubbing/ bars, and work in a mostly female healthcare profession, so realistically meeting people in wild is my only other alternative. Unless you have a better idea?
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:25 AM
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Okay thanks, I’ll shoot my shot
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:55 PM
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Thanks! I’ll try and say hello in the locker rooms when I see him next and try to make eye contact too. Hopefully a few weeks of this is enough to set the stage for him to ask me out if the interest is mutual. Agree gym is hard territory because men have been told to leave women alone.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:51 PM
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I worry that he’ll think I’m socially inept or just being nice if I come out of nowhere chatting about really benign topics like the weather forecast or his Apple Watch - I don’t want to be friends with the guy if you catch my drift
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:48 PM
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Well thank goodness for that because I never skip leg day
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:44 PM
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To be fair I generally pay no attention to men at the gym, this guy is one of a few exceptions. Most of the women at my gym seem to be pretty disinterested in the other people there too. I’ve noticed while I’m there that it’s mostly the men who chat and compliment one another. I’ve seen a guy who I think is attractive and who I’d like to get to know, I just don’t know how to begin - I’m not objectifying him. It’s not a crime to find someone attractive.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:43 PM
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I would say that I am objectively above average as far as my physical attractiveness goes - I have never had a problem dating men who are very physically attractive and smart/ ambitious too. I have never been the one to initiate any of these past relationships or interactions however. I guess I don’t really know how to? Hence my question. I suppose men have been long been told to leave women alone at the gym, so I’m doubtful he’ll approach me even if he wants to.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:38 PM
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