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Been reading some of your responses and I gotta say that as an engineer myself, it doesn’t impact your game. I’m a software engineer and I get laid. Last time I got laid was 2 weeks ago, don’t have the mentality that engineers don’t get laid. You literally killed yourself with the workload to pass the university, people I know that tried the route dropped out because they didn’t have the work ethic nor tenacity to put themselves through it. You’re human just like anyone else that gets laid, if y…
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:11 AM
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Can you elaborate on men being afraid of being men? Like in this context
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:53 AM
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Actually this has also been happening to me as well. I’m turning 26, when I was younger I had no problem maintaining erection. Now i’m going soft, and it sucks because this is starting to trigger performance anxiety. Now i’m afraid of going soft if I have sex, sometimes it doesn’t happen and it boosts my confidence again. It really does suck having this in the back of my head, I can’t enjoy sex as I used to due to having the thought of going limp
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:14 PM
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What should you do to execute? You notice cues like play with her hair, so in response you grab her ass? Lmfao
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:20 PM
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Yes but there is a process to hook up with them, I want to know the process.
/r/seduction21/04/21 09:32 PM
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I'm in Florida, I feel you on California. I was there during November and December and came right back to Florida. Was beyond boring with everything closed.
/r/seduction21/04/21 09:31 PM
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No I didn’t go step by step, that’s probably what freaked her out. Thanks for the link!
/r/seduction17/02/21 03:42 PM
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120 unopen texts? I wish, everytime I text people I’ve been told I’m so direct with no personality that it’s unbearable. Don’t get me wrong, I have a great personality and always lighten the party. But people get ahold of me by calling rather than texting, I wish I could be a better tester but that’s not in the cards lol
/r/seduction22/12/20 08:03 PM
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Haha that’s interesting, I never thought about saying lewd stuff to someone I just met because I’d come off as a creep but you’re right with that kind of mentality
/r/seduction12/11/20 06:44 PM
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At a loud party? Lol
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:52 PM
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Piping her on the table but that’s probably inappropriate
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:52 PM
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Ahh that’s interesting, I thought I was a confident guy but probably not enough
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:51 PM
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Not to mention you’re also excelling your classes so you got your priorities straight lol. Getting A’s and coochie on the side lol
/r/seduction30/07/20 03:08 PM
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Be really smart in class. You don’t understand how many cute girls I get come up to me asking for help after I ask good solid questions to the professor. I have a study sesh in the library with her and I teach her a concept and every now and then to make sure if she’s listening I’ll break the touching barrier and smile a bit. Subtle flirting, around the second or third time they ask to study I normally say I’m at my place studying and invite them over. If I wasn’t creepy or did enough flirting t…
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:19 PM
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He has a point tho, I’ve had several girls lose interest in me when we all went out to a club and they noticed I didn’t know how to pick girls up. They saw lvl of confidence within me and that’s unattractive
/r/seduction24/07/20 03:55 PM
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Lower hips? That’s creepy no? 😅
/r/seduction23/07/20 07:33 PM
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What if they’re tall? I’m above average and in size too so I always felt awkward hugging a girl since they’re so small. I generally just hug them with one arm cause I feel like I might overwhelm them if I use both my arms
/r/seduction23/07/20 07:23 PM
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Thanks for the advice! But what about texting? Texting is 100% used more than phone calls. I think the people that only ever really called me are my ex’s when I was in a relationship with them, parents, or friends if we’re trying to find each other in public lol
/r/seduction22/07/20 01:22 AM
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Oh I guess I ask because my friend is pretty social and he still maintains relationships with girls from like 2 semesters ago. Gets invited to parties by them and everything lol
/r/seduction21/07/20 09:20 PM
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Yeah I deleted Instagram years ago because of that. I only recently installed it because someone said it just helps you out a lot with girls. But I don’t really spend much time on it
/r/seduction20/07/20 10:45 PM
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Ahh, so it’s not the personality it’s more so the hobby. Okay I ain’t got nothing to worry about then, my hobbies are pretty good lol
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:43 PM
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I’ve been reading this a lot, “amplifying your good qualities”. How do you do that? Increase your positive attributes and decrease the negative ones? How do you know which ones are positive and negative?
/r/seduction20/07/20 08:46 PM
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So should young guys just not hesitate to make things sexual since it’s not creepy?
/r/seduction17/07/20 07:38 PM
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Do you need an IG? I don’t like to use social media because I felt like it was a waste of time and noticed it building a habit of comparing myself with others. So I have no social media, but I’ve been doing pretty good for myself career and health wise. Does not having an IG really limit me with girls?
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:42 PM
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What was your caloric intake? Did you have it at a deficit or surplus?
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:29 PM
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Yes sir, Fl. The dumbass state with the highest grossing COVID count now lmfaoooo
/r/seduction06/07/20 02:45 PM
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It’s close due to COVID haha, but I’ll try the mall!
/r/seduction06/07/20 02:34 PM
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Hey can you list the books you’ve read and what you did to alter your mindset. I’m a fellow introvert and I’ve been wanting to begin my self love and discovery journey. I want to be as confident as you, flirting with girls is a plus but I want to feel comfortable like you talking to everyone. That’s my goal, to just be socially confident
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:14 AM
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Where do you go to approach? I live by a university but due to COVID most stuff is closed and some people don’t linger around
/r/seduction06/07/20 05:07 AM
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So do you just say “I’m gonna sit here”?
/r/seduction05/07/20 12:41 AM
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I added a girl on snap and it’s currently spring break which she went back home to. I sent her a Snapchat from a party we recently went. Other than that I have to wait till she comes back to plan something. But I’m not sure what to text her in the meantime, donInstill not text since it’s just for logistics? What would I send?
/r/seduction11/03/20 12:40 PM
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I agree with this, I did grow up being in a bad upbringing and taught by my father that being emotionally vulnerable was a weakness. Now that I’m older I see the wrong in this. Do you mind giving me an example of how to be emotionally vulnerable with a girl? Or a video or article that can help with this?
/r/seduction09/03/20 07:41 PM
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I’ve learned to get out of my head the problem is I still run a blank alone, with a group it’s very easy to come up with things to talk about because everyone has a topic and I can speak about relating to it. But where we’re alone I noticed that she’s just waiting for me to carry the conversation. Which is all new to me, for example I went to the club yesterday and found a friend of mine. She introduced me to her friend and we just talked about how bad this club was and etc, eventually leading t…
/r/seduction08/03/20 10:39 PM
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I can try but it’s a bit different because of my thought process on my relationship with them compared to an attractive girl
/r/seduction28/02/20 11:42 PM
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Sister and a mom
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:59 PM
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I’m currently in my 20’s and it seems like I’m missing out because I never get girls all over me. What are you doing that’s making them all over you
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:11 AM
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Yeah I have 15-16 percent body fat but I have broad shoulders that give me the V shape, don’t have the genes for the sharp jawline tho
/r/seduction26/02/20 08:59 PM
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You said they like a healthy lean looking body, I workout but bulky so my body is a lot bigger than the average lean build. Does this also attract girls or is it just lean build that does it?
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:58 PM
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Do they mess with you if they notice that you keep eye contact and don’t look at their tits?
/r/seduction25/02/20 05:32 AM
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How can I stop putting it on the pedestal? I’m aware that I shouldn’t judge them based off of looks alone but my infatuation makes it harder to see them as regular people
/r/seduction25/02/20 05:25 AM
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What if she responds with “are you assuming my breath stinks?”. Do you just say hell yeah? xD
/r/seduction23/02/20 04:18 PM
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Social skills I’m definitely trying to work on, but I get major anxiety and psych myself out when it comes to cold approaching. As for bodymaxxing idk what that is lol
/r/seduction17/02/20 12:34 AM
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I have the same problem, and I go to the gym. I get compliments about my body all the time. I’m definitely jacked compared to the average male. But I still have this mental block, the gym doesn’t work for everyone. Me included
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:07 AM
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Can you clarify a bit more on the emotional connection? How do you make an emotional connection with a girl you just met drunk at the club?
/r/seduction11/02/20 06:09 PM
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Ah you can say you’re busy or text her at a certain time to let her know that thats when you’re free. You have to let her know that you’re not constantly going to be paying attention to your phone to respond... you have a life lol. Not my exact words but just as the message comes across lol. Trust if you text every single day having conversations by phone it will make the interaction very stale. The reason she’s on your ass about it is because of the honeymoon phase, she’s excited about you and …
/r/seduction11/02/20 04:26 PM
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Meant what? The texting? Torture?
/r/seduction11/02/20 04:15 PM
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Just say you’re busy doing stuff, it’s fine if you don’t constantly text her because she’s constantly thinking about you and that’s how you want it to be. You’re doing fine, if you’re that worried about not being interesting pick up a hobby or show. Gives you something to talk about. And by not texting her you’ll always have something to talk about when you guys meet up. Don’t fall for her bait
/r/seduction11/02/20 04:10 PM
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Is there a mental technique to doing it? There are moments when I do act through fear and others when the fear is too great and I let the moment pass. What’s your way of doing things?
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:17 PM
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If she’s by the dumbbell area I always point at the 80’s and say you’re not using these right? While smiling. She’ll get the joke and laugh and you already have a warm approach. Talk and go from there
/r/seduction06/02/20 12:03 AM
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Act through fear? What do you mean?
/r/seduction05/02/20 03:52 PM
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I won’t front but yeah I guess I went into my head, I’m not really used to people throwing shit at me so I didn’t really know how to react. Should I just shrug off or ignore those types of comments and keep the conversation going like it’s nothing?
/r/seduction30/01/20 04:52 PM
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How does one have a flirty personality? I attempt flirting but I’m pretty sure I fail lol
/r/seduction30/01/20 03:12 AM
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Yeah I can see how it would come off as creepy, I just started doing it because she said she had a boob reduction surgery and showed me pics of them. Her showing me her breast pics gave me the idea that she’s interested in me so that’s when I started going physical. I’ve made a couple of girl friends for studying and we would meet up in the library to study but we never once would hang out. So I’m just accustomed to having to be forced to make the first move if they are interested. But maybe I’m…
/r/seduction29/01/20 07:06 PM
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Wow I wish I could do this, I’d be stuck thinking of things to say constantly and at the end of the day probably just have a normal conversation and come out with no numbers lol
/r/seduction25/07/19 01:58 AM
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Let me be one of your students. Being a 23 year old in college for me sucks because I know that it's the peak of most men's life in sexual activity and social intelligence and I lack both because of confidence. I go blank trying to approach women, almost like if I rely on script. I've acted like I'm confident with confident body language and strong eye contact but it just looks creepy because I LITERALLY go blank. It just sucks seeing people enjoy themselves in college while I'm shut in my dorm …
/r/seduction23/05/19 11:30 PM
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Sensei let me become your young grasshopper real quick. Because confidence is something I'd like. I've practiced on acting confident, started to work. Lately it's been coming down. Trying to practice it again, and I know it worked because I've been told that the way I walk shows I have confidence (been practicing body language). My only issue is I have fat
/r/seduction23/05/19 11:22 PM
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