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That's the part attached to the people giving them. So you are correct
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:27 PM
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Fair point
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:26 PM
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Teasing seems to be the better way to go. Although I would lean towards a shot with your print under a pair of gray sweatpants. You can add to this by making it conditional. “Maybe. If you...” or “Depends. What do I get?” Then adding an emoji such as “😏” to convey the right emotion. Emojis are great heuristics and work if done sparingly and purposefully. Size does matter. You could (key word) get away with 5” in erect length and 4” in erect girth. However, aside from length, girth matters. That’…
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:59 PM
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HolisticBaby isn’t wrong. I’m not putting into words how to use negative reinforcement to punish bad behavior in the best way. That -is- what it is. But it’s still playing games. Men don’t want to play games. They want to acknowledge their sexual desires, and feed them, without being slaves to them. Learning how to act, behave, and speak, when it comes to women, is therefore a necessity. To a point. A man who’s developed themselves more fully knows intrinsically how to conduct themselves. We’re …
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:40 PM
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This. It’s not that you can’t be nice. But that the “nice guy” archetype is predictable and typically overly gregarious to their own detriment. Use negative reinforcement/punishment for bad behavior. Same as you would for a friend. “That wasn’t okay.” “I need some space after what you did.” Or less emotional validation. Once they’ve taken responsibility and corrected themselves. Then you can return to being fun and flirty. Like the response from above. It’s obvious that because she’s a 10 you’re…
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:20 PM
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Here’s a better strategy. As you’re working on game and all the skills that go along with that. Make sure that the effort going into your career, finances, health, and so on, is always a little more. That way the “meta,” which is you, is constantly improving. Slowly but surely you’ll find yourself in greater abundance. Your behavior will change, and they’ll get a sense of that. So even if one falls off. It’s not big deal. Because there are other options. Even if you meat a girl worth... three. Y…
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:44 AM
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That could be a reason why she started to back off. She might not have been getting from you what she wanted and needed. Women usually date up and across the socioeconomic spectrum. Men who are more successful in their lives. Self reliance or assuredness lends to the type or confidence that reassures others that your competent to handle whatever life can throw at you. It doesn’t mean you’re perfect and never fail or faulted. That’s where humility comes into play. Balanced out by courage. Side no…
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:29 AM
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Focus on career, finances, fitness, health, and personal goals/ambitions. Your success will open up more opportunities when it comes to dating, relationships, and sex. It’s like trying to cash out when your stock hasn’t matured. Build identity capital. Over time you will become more of the person you’ll be proud of and others will want to associate with. Let women be the complement but never the primary focus until the other things mentioned are dialed in.
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:13 AM
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I’m compelled to ask how old you are. But that’s not something you share on this most trustworthy of internet portals. There’s nothing about what happened that’s worth beating yourself up over. You told her how you felt. What about being forthright and honest is a bad thing? You could have responded simply with, “I feel how I feel. Life’s too short. And playing games isn’t my style.” There’s a balance to be struck when pursuing someone. You want them to put in the same effort. Back off and/or ma…
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:06 AM
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Let’s give them a chance. No one here wants to be pigeon hold for their mistakes and failings. People, men and women, will tell on themselves. Freedom of speech means having an open dialogue that allows you to think things through poorly, incorrectly, until you don’t. Otherwise, what happens. This young woman digs in her heels and says, “forget you then.” Goes off and hurts other men. The cycle continues. We strike a balance between being firm and fair. Compassionate and accountable. For others …
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:48 PM
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TL;DR High value men of means are looking for potential wives who are: fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, and with no kids. Get therapy. Ask yourself this, “what do the people you want, want.” Do you think they want someone with baggage and who’s willing to collect and give red flags to bury their insecurities and low self esteem? Because this search for external validation won’t do well for you in the long run. Rich/wealthy men of high value want wives. Does someone who want a “hot girl summ…
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:05 PM
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Additional context would be helpful. But we can take some educated guesses. First, you seem pretty young. Your spelling and grammar is one indicator. Being on the younger side, you don't have much experience in life. That goes double for relationships and sex. Which is okay. No one starts at the top of the mountain. Allow yourself not to know and the opportunity to figure things out. Sometimes that means "taking an L." A loss. Shift your mindset to treating situations as if you're observing them…
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:53 PM
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Why do I hear music from Shadow of the Colossus.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:23 PM
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There's a level of courage that's worth recognizing here. A lot of negative emotion that must have taken a lot effort to work through. Sure, it wasn't ideal, and probably still weighs on you. That's alright. You're allowed to be flawed and fail at things. Remember that. Take into account you were able to connect with this girl. If you can do it with her there will be more opportunities. When you think back to what happened. Don't forget that she threw up on you. It might be something she wants t…
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:28 PM
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How did you get into/be comfortable at parties and events? It might be as simple as, "these are the things I enjoy." What would you recommend to someone who's looking to be more comfortable with that?
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:11 PM
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TL;DR Regardless of height. Stand and walk as if you're tall. - Shorter women might be more hung up on height than those who are taller. Even those in and around 5'4" to 5'7". Taller women might not be. Since they realize there's very few men who are actually that tall for them to choose from. There's a girl, who's now a good friend, who I met through Tinder. She was around my height, which is 5'6". Gorgeous law student who had an incredible physique. We initially met at a park and hit things of…
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:18 AM
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22 can be a challenging period for young men for many reasons. You're not yet fully formed in terms of your identity. Career and finances can be up in the air. Then you have women who are in a similar situation. Granted, a lot of women around that age - not unlike men - can be superficial and vain. The sexual and dating marketplace has become global. So women (and men) bombarded with options. If you had as much opportunity, you might be as selective too. That can go to their head. Making it so t…
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:42 PM
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Story time. About six or seven years ago when Craigslist's "Casual Encounters" section was still a thing, I connected with this drop dead gorgeous 5'9" girl who was DTF. We exchanged several messages and the light was green. However, I had never done something like this before, and backed out at the last minute out of nervousness. A year, two, ~maybe~ even three, later. I was kicking myself for not following through. But I remembered her. Decided to log back on... and I found her. Messaged her a…
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:12 AM
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It doesn't matter that I'm attractive in the face, that I take care of my body, that I've got my hygiene on point, that I'm smart, etc. I 100 percent feel my height (5'7) automatically turns off girls that would be interested if I was just a little taller, and thats so unfair to me. There are some great qualities here. You prioritize health, fitness, and education. Things that make for a great person. However, what's lacking is a sense of self worth - which is normally a fixed point compared to …
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:34 AM
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30/M at 5'6" here. How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:00 AM
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Again, do your research. You’re welcome to DM and I can give some guidance. It’s still possible to overdose, and there’s a way to about it to minimize tolerance build up. That feeling you have is what a lot of guys feel. The more attracted you are to a person. The more it makes you feel this “gap” in value. As if they’re beyond you’re ability to connect with. Imagine if you spent time around guys like a time. You wouldn’t be phased. Treat him, in a sense, like that. Instead think, “He’s not unat…
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:40 PM
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Are you normally an anxious, nervous, or shy person? Or are you so attracted to this person that you’re literally swooning. Then try to get his number and hang out. Framing as a date places a lot of pressure on things. Instead of just spending time together, which is not much different from a date, aside from the lack of what can feel like forced romance. Allow things to grow organically. You already know that there’s chemistry. Pick up where you left off, breathe, and let whatever will be, be. …
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:59 PM
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You want this, and the end result, to happen so badly that it’s making you neurotic. Asking “how do I (this)” or how do I (that).” Instead think, “if it could be easy, what would it look like?” “Hey. Long time no see. Meant to say this before, but work got in the way. You seem pretty cool. What’s your number? We’ll hang out sometime.” “Oh, well, I have a girlfriend.” “I wasn’t asking you out on a date. Unless you’re girlfriend doesn’t like you having female friends.” -or- “You seem nice. But I’m…
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:49 PM
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Being social in the work place isn’t a bad thing. Trying to game co-workers is a different story. You can do it, but there’s a risk. Start off simply by opening, introducing yourself, and that’s it. You’ve got a good baseline. So it could have looked something like this: You: “Hey, you look new here.” Her: “I am.” * pause * “You do realize I’m you’re new supervisor.” You: “Well now I do. It’s nice to meet you.” NOTE: You could offer a hand here. Corporate settings might still be wary of this ges…
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:40 PM
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It's not often you have women approaching men. You have to understand this is the exception to the rule. Most times the onus is on men to approach. Taking an educated guess. She was attracted enough to approach, introduce herself, and try to connect. Recognizing that she only had one chance before the group left. A lot of women get wise to this and get used to "just being there." - That's not to say that women don't work on themselves. Having female relatives and friends makes that clear enough.…
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:44 AM
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Then we’d have to talk about what interactions were like between you two. Actions, behavior, conversations, and so on. It might have sent her mixed signals. She might have tried to move things forward in her own way and got the idea you were unavailable. Women speak in more subtle terms. Less direct. Knowing this can help you gauge her response to you. At this point there’s no convincing her. It’ll only push her away. Let her be. She may even come around. People want what they can’t have. If you…
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:09 AM
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If you see an attractive women who’s posting risqué pictures. Advertising the her command of sex appeal. Who do you think is following her and enjoy the content? Mostly men is a safe bet. There’s a reason why men are encouraging other less informed/mature men to abstain from masturbation and focusing on women too much. It takes away from building their own life and pursuing goals that make them high value. Which then attracts these women. Focus on you. Don’t let these distractions distract you. …
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:06 AM
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Was there ever a conversation about what you or her wanted? Or did things organically become a FWB situations without that talk ever happening.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:48 PM
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No flowers. That’s a romantic gesture, and this is your first date. Save that for when you’re in a relationship. Smile and go in for a hug. This establishes the premise that physical touch with you is normal and acceptable. So when you both joke and tease each other you can gently push her away. Touch her on the arm when you lean in and tell her something. Say you should hold hands because that one girl over there looked like your ex. Or say, “is this the part where we hold hands and fall madly …
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:21 PM
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Clarity is powerful. We’ve identified a sticking point or obstacle. You can be affectionate in a more subdued way. Maybe over time as you build more comfort. Some women prefer to keep things w/o the affection. I remember a story from Playing with Fire, Todd V, or something, that talked about how a guy and girl had this FWB situation. He opened up emotionally or allowed himself to be more affectionate. Soon after she ended things. This isn’t a cautionary tale to make you more guarded. You do it w…
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:52 PM
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First off. Congratulations on the lay. It’s important you recognize that you have intrinsic worth. There are good looking guys who are nice to look at but have no game whatsoever. Yet still get by on their looks. Everybody has game. Whether it’s high or low level. Because some guys have such bad game that they could have been approached like you yet do enough things wrong to turn away a girl with high buying temperature. Perspective is important. It may be the case that you don’t know how to emb…
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:32 PM
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That’s called grooming. A lot of popular figures on YouTube have been caught doing that. It’s a career and life ender. If you had met when she was 18. That’s a different story. No previous history for one. Some will argue that her level of maturity still puts you at risk. Although, even under the best of circumstances. If you had something ongoing. An argument could ensue and you may say something to hurt her fragile and developing ego. Then there’s the idea of making it harder for her to pair b…
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:17 PM
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Here’s another strategy that came to mind. Recruiting two girls is an uphill battle. You have to have a lot of clout, value, and/or game, in order to pull both simultaneously. Start off by looking to find a bisexual girl. Recruiting other girls with cold approach or even online game will be a lot easier. Especially if she’s an 8+.
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:40 PM
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Eros.com
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:26 AM
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Write down confident behavior. Write down creepy behavior. Then your behavior. Find where you fall on that gradient. Focus on the major sticking points or the easier ones. Such as biting your nails. Challenging but doable. As opposed to stuttering which might require a lot more effort and even a professional. We can get your from where you are to where you want to be with incremental changes. But that starts off with by acquiring clarity of the situation. Based off of reality and not what we wis…
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:28 AM
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Be firm but respectful. You know what to do with the second one. Either call them out or let them know you don’t see this going anywhere.That you’re ending things there and that you wish them well. With the other one. Frame it in the positive. “After getting to know you. I feel we make much better friends (than anything else).” Or, “My gut is telling me to break things off here. Being that you’re in a building phase of your life.” I wouldn’t say any more than necessary. Be prepared to back it up…
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:13 AM
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Shit post or not. Use condoms. The risk is way too high if the girl you’re with, family or not, isn’t using birth control. Do not let the small head make big head decisions. Do not suffer consequences your older self will hate you for. Being a man means moving through the world intelligently and not as a slave to your impulses. Especially when it involves someone you care about. If you’re not familiar with what an orgasm feels like - which I doubt that’s the case - or if you’ve never masturbated…
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:34 AM
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The thing is most people would only it agree that it improved the relationship because she was bi. A former girlfriend was bi and made the argument that unless I was the same (bi) then it made perfect sense for her to have some action on the side. Things worked for us. But felt slighted that sex on the side was still sex on the side. Being heterosexual to her bisexual excluded me in her opinion.
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:46 PM
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Marriage, love, or the idea of commitment is perfectly fine. Institutionalized marriage is another thing entirely. There are benefits, sure. But marriage laws are stacked against men from what I hear. Which seems to have some variety depending on the state.
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:04 AM
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What made things work for the relationship with her? Did it have anything to do with you two breaking up?
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:02 AM
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What's your story?
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:55 AM
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It seems like it takes a substantial amount of power (wealth, influence, notoriety, etc.), charisma, strong values/beliefs/identify, in order to make this happen. That the aforementioned qualities and/or people have the leverage to break down anyone who disagrees.
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:54 AM
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Insulting isn’t the right word. Polarizing is. Granted, sometimes an “insult” or neg can establish a interesting frame to say the least. Grabbing their attention.
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:55 AM
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How would you like to be approached? You could open the brother or parents. Then ask, “how do you all know each other?” “Oh, well this is my so-and-so.” “Nice to meet you all. Except you (the target). She’s got this sweet but devious look about her.” Gauge the response of the target and group. If they seem uncomfortable. Respond accordingly with some humor or normal conversation. Introduce yourself. They may fill in the conversation. Otherwise, be ready to carry it until they contribute it more.
/r/seduction29/06/21 05:09 AM
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To your point. I posted a link to a YouTube video that seemed to have a nugget of gold (or silver), and elaborated on the idea in my own words. Then some mud chugging inbred troglodyte swooped in from their miserable perch with their tin foil hat. Accusing me of having been the creator of the video and doing it for, what, clout? We had some back and forth. No rhyme or reason would have assured the reddit user that indeed I wasn't a witch, until I was thrown in a river and sank into the depths. S…
/r/seduction28/06/21 03:23 PM
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There could be several factors contributing to this. One of them, as it’s been mentioned several times, is overstimulation with porn. That creates a disconnect and makes it difficult to connect with an actual woman. They’re used to being inundated with options through porn. It’s possible they’ll masturbate to take the edge off and help them last longer while in bed. Not uncommon. Especially if it’s been a moment for them. Men are a light switch where women are dimmers. Other underlying health co…
/r/seduction26/06/21 05:18 PM
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Good point
/r/seduction25/06/21 04:39 PM
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There are multiple leads you can have aside from online game. It’s only one of three, more or less. Aside from that is day game and night game. You can create funnels for each that add to the roster of dates. Continuing your study of game, improving your skills, as well as strategies, to achieve your goals. Whether that’s a girlfriend or a harem of women on rotation. Meanwhile, there are other aspects of your life to work on. Financial savvy, income potential, health, fitness, dress, lifestyle, …
/r/seduction22/06/21 03:09 AM
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Use the scientific method to make changes and monitor the results. It’s frustrating when you’re looking at things in the short term. But this is a never ending process of improvement. There is nothing good or bad. Only facts. “It’s interesting that I feel/think (negative) this way. Since there’s evidence that I’ve had success and would say otherwise.” Remember. You are enough. Even if you something works in your mind to prove otherwise. You’re enough to start where you are with what you have. Re…
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:41 AM
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It’s possible that your profile embodies a provider frame as opposed to a lover frame. One will be more conducive for hookups than the other. Putting it into further context. If you come across a girl who’s dressing risqué and posing seductively. Compared to one who’s wearing a more conservative outfit and conveying something more lighthearted and friendly. One is giving off typical bad girl vibes and the other is not. One you may want to keep things short-term and casual the other long-term and…
/r/seduction31/05/21 04:31 AM
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There’s nothing ethical or moral to argue here. The resources are there. Do as you will.
/r/seduction24/05/21 04:07 AM
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You’re right. Being able to define things is important. However, putting them into context, especially when it comes to concepts in game, is equally so. Once you understand it intrinsically, similar to riding a bike, it takes much less mental real estate to utilize in teal time. As for the ownership of video goes. Like I said. I just watched the video and found it worth sharing with the sub. You can believe what you want. If you like the post. Cool. If not. That’s okay too.
/r/seduction24/05/21 03:51 AM
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Learning to improve one’s communication skills - including attraction, seduction, and the like - is improving one’s strategies. Every body employs some kind or another to achieve a goal or outcome. There’s no “tricks” involved. Although people can use what’s learned to manipulate others. The video belongs to someone else, and is referenced for educational purposes. If you’re looking for peer reviewed scholarly material then you’re in the wrong place. Much of this anecdotal. But there’s value in …
/r/seduction24/05/21 03:26 AM
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There’s some context missing here because r/seduction doesn’t allow images. No need to ignore something that wasn’t a demand. Again, we’re good friends. This post isn’t a serious “how to.”
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:04 AM
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