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Dynamix86/r/TheRedPill08/12/23 07:36 PM
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Outer Game Dynamix86/r/seduction08/12/25 01:02 AM
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Maybe you just found out that dating apps have become even more shitty than they were already
/r/seduction12/02/26 07:00 PM
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Logical conversation doesn’t work. You need to spike their emotions. Humor works best for this. And if you can qualify them, even better
/r/seduction01/02/26 12:06 PM
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Keep your self-respect and leave her be. You did the right thing. You’re just horny now, that’s all
/r/seduction28/01/26 01:37 AM
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Definitely don’t cancel your golf day. Don’t bend your schedule because she messed up. You could invite her along and that’s it. Don’t budge if she throws a tantrum
/r/seduction13/01/26 12:28 PM
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It was like that years ago even when I was on them. When I just installed it, 90% of the girls were model looking, absolutely not realistic in any way. Better get off these apps because they will destroy your self esteem and the women on there are just very low quality
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:41 PM
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It is true what you are saying. Neediness and insecurity are very unattractive behaviors. HOWEVER, a girl like this could make for a loyal girlfriend with a very low body count. Often times this comes with neediness/insecurity and you need to make a compromise if a girlfriend is what you want. Although I totally get you that her remark put you off; it would also do that to me.
/r/seduction04/01/26 08:10 PM
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The solution is there.. become a bartender
/r/seduction04/01/26 08:04 PM
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It always works really well for me and my friends
/r/seduction03/01/26 02:12 AM
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Why do you have the need to come up with exceptions? The exceptions do not disprove the rule!
/r/seduction29/12/25 04:13 PM
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So if a white person is not attracted to brown people, they are racist you say? What if you are not attracted to 80 year olds, does that make you an ageist? What if you are not attracted to fat people, does that make you fatphobic?
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:58 PM
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I’m gonna give it to you straight. Reality is that most white women are not attracted to Asian men, because generally they are shorter, have darker, less desirable skin, and to a less important extent, smaller penises. It sounds harsh but looks do matter a lot, especially if you are cold approaching strangers and this is all they know about you at that point. This isn’t racism, it’s just biological preference; there is no arguing with nature. I have a friend from China who lives in Austria and h…
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:14 PM
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Pursuing is going for what you want but at the same time you understand her level of attraction to you and you balance your showing interest versus what she is showing. You know when it is time to initiate something, which is your job as a man anyway, and that’s what you do. You can only chase that what is moving away from you. Chasing is when you are trying to initiate things and showing interest when she is not showing these signs. Often times she is moving away from you and instead of doing t…
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:12 PM
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If by her being 'comfortable' you mean knowing that she can have you, the answer is clearly "no". You should be as non-needy as possible and you can pursue her, but don't chase, and don't put girls on a pedestal etc, that will keep the right dynamic and when the chemistry is there, there is absolutely no need for any games from either side.
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:40 AM
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Maybe stop doing that, so they won't have the urge to kiss other guys
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:26 AM
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"So it’s not that we didn’t get along, I was causing friction in the relationship to instigate some drama". "Me breaking up with her sort of felt like a move to protect my pride." So you broke it off because of you were creating drama for no reason. Why are you playing these stupid games man? Women already do enough of this crap. Are you 16 or so?
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:09 AM
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That can all be fine except for holding hands. It’s too needy and signals that you want her to be your girlfriend already. I escalate physically on girls on the first date when the opportunity is there but I almost never go for the kiss on the first date and I get a second date about 90% of the time. If you have a really good time with her and don’t kiss her, she will wonder if you actually like her or not, and girls love that challenge
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:56 AM
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Why do you ask “where did I go wrong”? Half of your post is about you and her not getting along well enough and you also said that you broke it off with her before, so what are you confused about?
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:53 AM
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So women from SF have magically evolved differently from all the other women in the world who will find holding hands on the first date extremely needy?
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:42 AM
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“some seemed to not want to hold hands until a few dates later ( to me this is wild )”.. what the fuck is up with this?
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:28 AM
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When you have dated a few of them, you will realize that most of them have no ambition, are on Instagram 4 hours a day, been ran through by a bunch of men, don’t take men seriously because of their stupid feministic ideology, can’t handle money properly and she hasn’t been through 1/10th of the amount of rejection, loneliness and desperation that you have been through to get where you are right now. That will take them right off their pedestal. You first need to get to the point of actually dati…
/r/seduction26/12/25 11:50 PM
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Your answer is completely missing the “how”. Thisanswer is on the same level as saying “just be high value”. It’s truly meaningless
/r/seduction26/12/25 11:44 PM
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For sure my nigga. AMS is a true OG
/r/TheRedPill25/12/25 01:09 PM
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Alpha Male Strategies, Rich Cooper (Entrepeneurs in cars channel), Apex mindset, Whatever Podcast, Fresh & Fit podcast
/r/TheRedPill25/12/25 12:27 PM
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Why would a muslim get killed because he talks to a veiled woman?
/r/seduction24/12/25 01:54 PM
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What if he is a muslim?
/r/seduction24/12/25 02:40 AM
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Probably the problem is the she already knows she can have you. Where is the fun in that for her? And holding hands on a first date sounds really needy, add on that a failed kiss attempt and I can understand that she doesn’t feel the spark. It could also be that she’s just looking for something casual and you gave her the impression that you’re looking for something serious with the handholding and stuff. And perhaps she had a date with another guy in the mean time as well, giving her options. L…
/r/seduction23/12/25 08:02 PM
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Don’t they have any goats there that you can practice on?
/r/seduction14/12/25 03:18 PM
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You like her for how you think she is after just one date, not how she actually is. You barely know her. Don’t pedestalize these girls, best is to assume she’s dating another guy that she’s having sex with. She also had sex with you one the first date so I don’t know what kind of girlfriend you’re looking for but I, and many others, wouldn’t see that as wife material. And get other leads and dates with other girls so it takes your mind off her.
/r/seduction14/12/25 12:35 AM
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Sometimes girls pull back to test you. If you send a message like “hey, why haven’t you responded to my message” or something like that, you’re done. It’s really ruthless. Best thing is to kinda match her energy, but at the same time if it takes too long to see her again, she will forget how it was to be with you. Some girls want you to pursue them and other girls want the challenge of persuing a guy themselves because they are bored of getting persued. Could also be that another guy entered her…
/r/seduction13/12/25 11:30 PM
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Probably by both guys at the same time
/r/seduction13/12/25 04:01 PM
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Why is she going on a 2 week long trip with 2 guys? That’s a big red flag to me
/r/seduction13/12/25 11:58 AM
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Whatever you say, don’t make up some bullshit reason like “let me show you how I feed my goldfish” or whatever and say it in the most normal way such as “let’s chill at my place for a bit and have some tea” or whatever. If you say it in a normal, non-needy way (don’t look at her for approval) then it will never be an issue
/r/seduction12/12/25 08:27 PM
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In most cases, if people have great chemistry, it will be very clear from the first date. This is not something you can force. If you feel that stressed that maybe he didn’t get to know the real you, then that’s something you have to work on. And if he wants to meet you just as friends, I would assume that he means friends with benefits because men don’t have any interest in being friends with women.
/r/seduction11/12/25 01:40 AM
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Maybe you should try it out yourself first before jumping to conclusions
/r/seduction09/12/25 12:35 PM
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What women say and what they respond to are two completely different things
/r/seduction08/12/25 05:20 PM
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Not if the right guy does it to you
/r/seduction08/12/25 05:19 PM
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Indeed. If you say it with confidence they will first jump up from when they were sitting and then you tell them you’re just kidding with a smile takes all the tension away and from thereon you’re good to go. Of course, if you are actually a creep then it’s going to backfire even more. I guess the people here would prefer openers like “when did you get here from heaven?”. If you can’t be bold in this game you won’t get anywhere
/r/seduction08/12/25 02:14 AM
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I’ve tried it multiple times and every time it worked really well, even with a group of 4 beautiful girls. Why do you think I’m posting it here?
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:43 AM
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Then why would I tell them if it was me
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:35 AM
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It’s a joke dude
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:34 AM
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There’s plenty of time in the week to do it all
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:04 AM
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Where did he say that he is talking about “passed that point” and besides that, how can he know all these things I said to not be true for her by ‘talking to her’? You’re making a lot of assumptions now
/r/seduction05/12/25 06:14 PM
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You’re talking about girls that you have just cold approached, so how can you know they are not one of those girls as I have described?
/r/seduction05/12/25 05:57 PM
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When you have dated a few women that hot, you will realize that they are typically ran through by a bunch of dudes, spend 4 hours a day on social media and are addicted to validation, mostly from men. Lots of them have 0 ambition, expect you to pay for every single thing and many of them don’t even have interesting characters.
/r/seduction05/12/25 05:21 PM
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I’m guessing you either give off the wrong energy and/or are needy. Try approaching when you’re in a really good mood; a smile can help so much for girls to give you a chance
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:40 AM
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Don’t. And if she is not ready for a relationship right now, that either means she’s not into you enough or she wants to sleep around. In none of these cases it’s a good idea to persist
/r/seduction27/11/25 04:21 PM
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I can't really put a percentage on it as I have approached girls sporadically during the day time. I've had some days when I just got multiple rejections in a row (not just "sorry, but I have a boyfriend" or so) and I felt like an absolute bag of shit and I had other days when I was in a particularly good mood and I took two girls in a row on an instant date and two other times I approached a beautiful Russian girl in the street in Barcelona, who was travelling by herself and we were having sex …
/r/seduction23/11/25 03:04 PM
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I agree. Non-neediness is also incredibly important when approaching. It would fall under what you called “frame” then
/r/seduction23/11/25 10:21 AM
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A relationship can only be great if two people have very strong chemistry right from the beginning. If it is not a "hell yes" from both of you, and it clearly isn't because she's not showing that she is serious and dating other men, then you're not going to get a great, probably not even a good relationship out of it. And the mere fact that she is dating other men tells you already that her body count is probably pretty high as this is not the first and only time she has done it. My advice is to…
/r/seduction22/11/25 07:28 AM
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You get rid of that mindset when you have actually dated a few of them, realized that they are typically ran through by a few dozen guys, spend 3 hours a day on Instagram; the same place where they have hundreds of thirsty men drooling over her and she’s most likely not going to post you on there. And on top of that they have no ambition, if you have healthy boundaries they will see it as you being controlling and they don’t have much going on in their lives and also their beauty is fading every…
/r/seduction21/11/25 12:14 PM
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I came here to read about a school orgy. I’m dissapointed
/r/seduction20/11/25 10:59 PM
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Not kissing on the first date is absolutely fine! I do this all the time and get a second date 90% of the time. She will wonder if you actually like her
/r/seduction18/11/25 04:40 PM
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Most of the time they met organically like at work and they happen to be each others type. When you do cold approach, you’re actively doing something to increase your chances
/r/seduction15/11/25 10:30 PM
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Your future children will thank you for persisting. Also, find some guys to game with and see how they are doing and learn from them and grow together
/r/seduction15/11/25 07:22 PM
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Make no mistake.. the vast majority of these women are going to end up at age 40, childless, unmarried, with a bunch of cats and a regular anti-depressant subscription. And they have about 50 years of life left to think about all the opportunities they had and wasted. We are going to see a lot of miserable people in the coming decades.
/r/seduction14/11/25 06:58 PM
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Are you mentally okay? It is clearly an opinion and looking at the amount of upvotes, it is clear that plenty of others here share that opinion.
/r/seduction06/11/25 12:21 PM
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Tell me how I can prove that
/r/seduction06/11/25 09:07 AM
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Either they are playing games to see how you react (to test you), or they are so busy texting other guys, or they have little interest in you, or a combination of the aformentioned. If it happens once, I let it go, but if it happens twice, it is a pattern, and then I just do not send anything to the girl anymore; only if she were to send me something first. Protect your sanity and don't let some bimbo treat you like a plan B.
/r/seduction05/11/25 08:26 PM
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To find the woman that isn’t like most women
/r/seduction05/11/25 06:34 PM
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Good looks and charisma combined with confidence and non-neediness that was developed from being with a lot of women and realizing that most women ain’t shit
/r/seduction05/11/25 11:45 AM
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They also don't like jokes about women being weaker than men or less capable in any way by the way. They can turn from hot to cold as quick as we lose interest in a woman after cumming. Godspeed brother.
/r/seduction28/10/25 03:18 PM
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No, I'm Dutch. The French flag is like the Dutch flag but reversed. And yeah, girls are weird and unpredictable. She sounds very insecure from reading your description and you can bash her on her appearance because maybe it has some validity in her mind and you showed yourself as a selector instead of a selectee. However, being intolerant towards gay people can run deep for some people. It's more of an overarching statement than a personal criticism towards someone. I personally don't care thoug…
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:55 PM
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She probably didn’t like that you were implying ‘gay’ to be something negative. She’s either liberal, knows someone who’s gay or is bisexual/gay herself
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:54 PM
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Those former female friends of yours were just upset that younger girls are getting the attention now and they are not getting it as much anymore.
/r/seduction28/10/25 09:40 AM
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None. It will destroy your self esteem and your view on women, whilst paying for it as well
/r/seduction23/10/25 11:31 PM
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This whole thing about breakfast is the most important meal of the day and and that your digestion weakens later in the day is complete horseshit. Metabolic studies have shown that your metabolism stays up and running completely fine up till 72 hours of not eating anything. Your muscles and liver are filled with kilograms of glycogen to provide energy and every kilogram of body fat stores another 8360 calories. So your body has a ton of calories to use without needing any food. I eat only dinner…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/25 11:34 AM
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Probably yeah. What’s really sour is that women can stop seeing you for something that they perceive that’s not actually as it is. Something can for example come across as needy, when in reality you didn’t mean it in any needy way at all, or perhaps even the complete opposite of it. I’ve had this happen at least twice to me and now I have to think about everything I say as to how it will come across in her mind, not just in mine
/r/TheRedPill20/01/25 04:27 PM
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Perhaps the guy broke down crying because his wife was about to break up his family that he wanted to stay together for a long time. It's one thing to lose a girl, it's a whole other thing to lose a girl and not seeing your child so often anymore and having another man banging that girl while playing daddy for your child. It would give a man the realization that he failed and I can imagine breaking down if they would happen to me.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/25 08:46 AM
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They do. A female friend of mine who I used to date casually was making a Bumble profile with my help so she could find herself a boyfriend. She got 400 likes in 4 hours on a Tuesday afternoon. To me she looks like a 6.5 and on her pictures about a 7, so nothing that special. And the likes kept continuing so in the shortest time she had thousands of likes and she literally told me she couldn't find a guy that is tall and attractive enough and rich looking for her. Even though she has nothing goi…
/r/seduction19/01/25 11:24 AM
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It sounds like you haven't gotten to the point yet where they start talking about "amazing crypto investment strategies" that they have discovered
/r/seduction19/01/25 11:17 AM
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I would say about 40
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:14 PM
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Best resources (after being 10 years into game): The Blueprint from Tyler Durden (RSD) The Manual from W. Anton And as a Youtube channel Alpha Male Strategies, Entrepeneurs in cars and Apex Mindset are all excellent teachers of highly valuable information.
/r/seduction01/01/25 04:54 PM
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Girls will speak louder in your vicinity to make sure you can pick up on their presence. They could also point their torsos toward you. They could also stand closer to you so it’s ‘easier’ for you to make an approach’ And the most subtle one is that when she’s close to you, look at where her feet are pointing at. This is mostly subconscious and wherever her feet are point at, her interest lies
/r/seduction13/09/24 07:42 AM
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I recommend recording your conversations, ideally by video and audio by someone else and if that’s not possible by audio. You probably have some blind spots that you’re not aware of
/r/seduction06/09/24 06:23 PM
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Why the need to insult the guy? How many people do you know would keep going after 200 straight rejections? We are on a seduction forum here
/r/seduction06/09/24 06:23 PM
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Tell her “I you are so desirable at your age, you have nothing to worry about men going for younger girls”
/r/TheRedPill06/09/24 04:18 PM
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You need to go up to them being indifferent about them and the outcome of the conversation. Non-neediness is the most important trait you can develop in game and especially girls like these can spot any type of neediness (in your eyes especially) very easily. This is the way to break their defense
/r/seduction30/08/24 08:01 AM
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Girls say a lot of things. If you really believe whatever a woman tells you, clearly you don't have enough experience yet. The lesson will come to you soon enough though. Maybe I have been with 700 women, and been in this situation with 7 of them. What do you know? Good luck to you
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:56 AM
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Effective game doesn't care whether you can relate to it or not. You already lost her as it stands right now, so this is a good chance to play an experiment as you have nothing to lose. Only if the other guy doesn't want her, she will come back to you. The strategy is basically a takeaway and there are different levels of that for different situations. No need to use a method like this when there is no need for it at all; then you are just playing games. For me, it worked 5 out of 7 times so far…
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:41 AM
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If you want something that works for your situation in order to see her again, in my experience, what I posted works by far the best for this. What else are you here for.. sympathy?
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:29 AM
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Some girls are actually scarce
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:20 AM
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How dumb is this girl.. telling you about her X account and then posting a bunch of stuff about falling in love with another dude. It seems to me like you are her backup plan. What I would do is send her something along the lines of "hey, just to let you know, I'm not going to meet up with you anymore because I have met someone that is better for me. I hope all the best for you". Give her a taste of her own medicine.
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:19 AM
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Good observation
/r/seduction24/08/24 07:36 AM
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I get it’s annoying when this happens. It happened to me plenty of times as well. Usually the girl is not interested and/or involved with another guy. However, some girls will also test a guy by waiting a day or so to respond and if you get butthurt and start scolding them, they will think to themselves “phew, glad I dodged that bullet”. So try this next time when they say “ah sorry I forgot to respond”.. you just say “oh hey, actually I completely forgot about our interaction” and nothing more.…
/r/seduction12/08/24 07:56 AM
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Ask him for advice or ask him to help you with something that you need a man for
/r/seduction10/08/24 10:07 AM
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Read the description of this subreddit, fool. It literally says “..whether is for casual sex or a relationship”.
/r/seduction09/08/24 08:27 PM
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Do you think that when she has sex with you on the first date, the chances of her having done this with multiple other men before you go up, stay the same or go down?
/r/seduction09/08/24 08:17 PM
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So when you are looking for a wife, you are not going to try to have sex with her? What’s with these dumbass responses.. are you guys 14 year old or something 😂
/r/seduction09/08/24 08:16 PM
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So you are saying that there is no seduction when finding a wife?
/r/seduction09/08/24 07:35 PM
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No, it’s not
/r/seduction09/08/24 03:28 PM
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Even if you could have sex with her on a first date, is that the type of woman you want as the mother of your children?
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:53 PM
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I hope you do realize that when you do meet an amazing woman that you want to share your life with and have a family with, the sex is going to be way less special because you've been poking every hole in your vicinity for quite a while now.
/r/seduction08/08/24 08:54 AM
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I think they are there because then they can be selective in who they have sex with and besides that there's an abundance of desperate horny men on dating apps that are frustrated and want to get laid. It's sad but it's the reality and maybe good because it makes dating apps more shit and I think that people should stay away from dating apps anyway since they are garbage and only make the world more degenerate.
/r/seduction08/08/24 08:50 AM
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Yes, those posts are all from RSD Tyler as well Another amazing source is the book called The Manual from W. Anton. Best game book I’ve read
/r/TheRedPill05/08/24 07:07 AM
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I think, given the context, she was playing hard to get. She wanted you to push through her fake resistance and you didn’t, which I can understand. The best thing to do now is to either fake friend zone her; tell her for example “you would make such a good friend” and if she’s really still into you she will feel a massive fear of loss and start chasing you. The other option is to go on dates with an other attractive girl and make sure that your colleagues get to know it. Once she puts in some ac…
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:44 PM
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The Blueprint from Tyler Durden and the 100 classic posts collection
/r/TheRedPill04/08/24 11:47 AM
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I think a flaw that you have is that when you use a direct opener, you convey neediness. When you can both open directly while staying completely non-needy, she can read on your face and body that you aren’t sold on her. Your non-verbal communication is way more important than your words. Besides, I have yet to find a genuine way to open girls genuinely indirectly on the streets
/r/TheRedPill03/08/24 01:32 PM
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If the girl doesn’t like the guy, you’re putting her in a tough position because then she has to actively and verbally reject him. I recommend focussing on the guy instead if he doesn’t blow himself out quickly
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:29 PM
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I think it’s better to go for 10. 100 only leads to you rampaging the streets and getting in and out sets as soon as possible. It’s not leading to anything good. Try to focus on being completely non needy; neediness is the biggest turn off for women by far. Do not close them until they show clear interest in you such as asking questions back! A rejection is a win. That means you have tried well enough
/r/seduction02/08/24 04:05 PM
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The combination of latina, 10 years older than you and dating app and eagerness to give her information to you tells me that she’s probably been hooking up a lot and this is the most normal thing in the world for her
/r/seduction02/08/24 03:56 PM
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It's best to physically force yourself upon her. That's what all the alphas do. Don't be beta
/r/seduction28/07/24 10:17 AM
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If you have options, then why would you settle for a woman that gave her body away easily to many men? Those two do not match
/r/TheRedPill27/07/24 11:27 AM
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I see it pretty much the same way as you. I also have hope that maybe humanity can change around to some extend but if we do it’s going to take a long time and some very very drastic things need to happen. So much has changed in the world since the 1960s and not for the good unfortunately
/r/seduction08/07/24 04:29 PM
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You got it. It must also really suck for these women because they had a bunch of chads and celebrity status almost when they were younger and then it slowly fades out pretty much completely whereas us men can still easily date women in their twenties when we are in our forties. I’m curious to see how this plays out. There’s no talk about this anywhere in politics whatsoever so I think this problem is here to stay and the amount of mental problems in the future is going to be higher than the amou…
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:47 PM
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The fall for these women when they are 35 or older is going to be soo hard. They will have lost most of their looks, much less people give them validation, they will be ran through by a bunch of chads and now undesirable for any chad anymore. Most likely she will nit have children or not even able to get them anymore. It’s going to be a whole generation of women that are going to feel like these washed up celebrities that were beautiful and popular when they were younger and now they don’t mean …
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:22 PM
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Maybe they are testing you to see if you can put them in their place
/r/seduction06/07/24 09:32 AM
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Well this was a pretty useless read.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 09:30 AM
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Look at their body language and not their words; therein lies your answer. You need to build a lot of comfort with a woman like you describe and when you have it, you have her sleep over or you sleep over at her place, then slowly escalate (kissing her beck works wonders) and very often this will lead to sex. You need to be completely non-needy about it as well. If it happens, it’s just a bonus
/r/seduction05/07/24 09:28 PM
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I admire your optimism but I cannot feel romantic about a woman that already had, 10, 20 or more dicks inside her. It evokes feelings of disgust within me and I will lose all my admiration for her fast. If you want a woman like that, good on you but it won’t be me
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:49 AM
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I wish it was a simple as that but it's not. We have had ground breaking technological developments in the last decades that changed the dating scene forever, something that has never occurred before and couldn't have without these technologies. Think about birth control, the condom, dating apps, social media and not no mention alcohol, drugs, clubs, and the fact that we have a crazy amount of anonymity in the large societies we live in now and a bunch of degenerate people online that are infect…
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:15 PM
1

Sounds like a smart guy. Fortunately the internet helps massively to spread this information to all men so that we know what we’re dealing with and how to handle this. I really doubt if humanity is ever going to recover from this though. My intuition tells me it’s too late now
/r/seduction01/07/24 09:21 AM
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The vast majority of them is used up by a bunch of guys and then you have a lot of them that are feminists and others that are very entitled. We’ve created the perfect storm for them to behave this way. No wonder the birth rates are collapsing everywhere in the western world
/r/seduction01/07/24 08:34 AM
6

The quality of women is abysmally low
/r/seduction30/06/24 10:52 AM
1

It can be that she’s not interesting but girls also purposefully pull back to see how you deal with it as a test. “Is he going to get needy or upset or try harder” is what her subconscious mind thinks. The best thing is to not text too much and too soon and at the same time just be self amused, playful/cocky&funny and don’t ask any questions. She will know you’re doing that because of her pulling away. And if that doesn’t work, you can also just give her a call a few days later and see if it’s s…
/r/seduction18/06/24 06:43 PM
1

It’s a bit of a numbers game yes but with experience your intuition gets much better and when you approach the girls that aren’t showing red flags from the start and match what you’re looking for physically and seemingly also personality wise, you greatly increase your chances of success. That is, if you actually approach the right women
/r/seduction27/05/24 08:27 PM
2

Strong eye contact with no signs of hesitation. It should feel as if both of you are in a bubble and the rest of reality is around it. Also proximity to her is very important and your tone of voice should be low, showing no signs of doubt, you speak with conviction and relatively slow
/r/seduction27/05/24 07:54 PM
1

If I can tell she’s looking for a hookup, I will ramp up the flirting, sexual tension and physical escalation and try to take her to my place. All without kissing. Then she can rationalize it as “we just went to his place for drinks and I don’t know what happened but suddenly we were having sex”. At my place I will kiss her and have sex with her. Though this happens with 10-20% of the women because usually you can expect resistance on the first date and when you just act cool and non-needy you c…
/r/seduction27/05/24 07:08 PM
1

So why do your date not go anywhere?
/r/seduction27/05/24 07:02 PM
1

If they’re attractive enough (7.5 or higher) I will pursue it. If they’re less attractive it’s a net negative for me and there’s no point.
/r/seduction27/05/24 07:01 PM
1

I operate exactly like that. I'm more interested in a relationship with a great woman. I've dated 4 beautiful women the last 5 years for a longer time, besides hookups with others, and I've let them all go. I feel very disappointed with the state of women and I think for a guy to get a body count that's too high will have negative effects on his psyche, how he views women, how he enjoys sex and if he can still be monogamous, so my goal is not to have sex with as many women as I can. I'm very pic…
/r/seduction27/05/24 05:04 PM
1

I think there is not much of a distinction as almost every body will be ready for a relationship when they meet an amazing person and it there is just physical attraction they could go for casual dating. So in the end it doesn't matter much. The girls that are actively looking to hookup will give many, mostly non verbal, signals that they are ready for sex, so with them you can certainly escalate pretty fast and even get laid on the first date. It also doesn't matter much if you try to kiss her …
/r/seduction27/05/24 04:39 PM
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Yes, if the sexual tension is there and you’re in a good location with it then for sure you can go for it. But it should never be “oh damn, the date is about to end and I haven’t kissed her yet. I should kiss her quickly”.
/r/seduction27/05/24 01:05 PM
6

He’s right. Neediness is the biggest killer of attraction. You cannot show this in your eye contact or body language with beautiful girls or you’re done
/r/seduction27/05/24 08:15 AM
3

Awesome choice man! I did the same. Dating apps suck. They will ruin your confidence, your time and give girls a bunch of validation making them more arrogant than ever while simultaneously making the dating apps money. I just don’t get why it’s hard for you to go to the city center when you only live 25-30 meters away though
/r/seduction27/05/24 08:14 AM
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I have to strongly disagree on this one. I almost never (purposefully) kiss a girl on a first date and I get to a second date 90% of the time. The reason why is that I’m able to generate massive attraction in a woman and me not kissing her will make her wonder if I actually like her or not, so I will be in her mind for a while until we’ve kissed on the second date. Moreover, almost every guy tries to kiss a girl on the first date because they’re worried that otherwise the girl will not see him a…
/r/seduction27/05/24 08:10 AM
1

Good for you man
/r/seduction25/05/24 11:42 AM
2

Realize that it happened like this to the best PUAs and still does sometimes. You’re no less than them, probably just less experienced. And rejection has a purpose. If women wouldn’t reject men, they would all just be a bunch of rampant 304s and you don’t want one of those as the mother of your children, would you? It’s also a filter. They’re either taken or you’re just not their type, which isn’t too personal. You will end up with someone who is available and you are her type. Very few guys are…
/r/seduction25/05/24 08:08 AM
0

She sounds like a quality girl to me though
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:54 AM
1

She probably thinks the same thing
/r/seduction24/05/24 12:03 PM
4

Clubs are designed to be intimidating for men because that way they will start to drink alcohol to build up the courage to actually start talking to a girl. I’m 38 now and the last place I want to be at is at a club with a bunch of drunk people, people having to scream, ending the night with hearing damage and people stepping on your feet or spilling drinks over you. Not to mention the effect on your sleep
/r/seduction24/05/24 08:02 AM
1

Every situation is slightly different. And it’s not about what’s being said but about the non verbal communication and what that says
/r/seduction18/05/24 02:03 PM
1

You can get away with saying that she’s your wife if you have strong attraction and high enough status in her eyes and especially if you can tell the girl is uncomfortable talking to the other guy. However, the putting your arm around her and squeezing will be the problem her; it will communicate to her on a non-verbal level that you’re afraid to lose her and she shouldn’t move away from you. I remember very clearly how RSD Madison was showing an infield video during a hotseat program in which h…
/r/seduction18/05/24 08:16 AM
0

Just approach her very chill and in a funny way be like “hey, are you cheating on my already! I thought our marriage meant something to you”. Then when in conversation with the other guy there your vocal projection needs to be louder than his, there should be no signs of neediness from your side and play it smart and make the guy qualify himself to the girl which will make him seem lower value. Also, once or twice pretend like you didn’t hear him. People are less attuned to people with low socia…
/r/seduction18/05/24 07:33 AM
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This is not good game imo. It’s going to come across as insecure and needy. This will only work if the girl is clearly uncomfortable talking to the other guy and by reading her body language you save her from him. There are much better ways to deal with this situation.
/r/seduction18/05/24 07:29 AM
1

I’ve experienced a similar feeling. It’s just the natural result of sleeping with a lot if women. It’s not good for your psyche and it will hurt you in the long run if your goal is to have a monogamous relationship with someone. Quality over quantity. Only focus on the women you really find attractive, not on the unlimited 6s and 7s buffet. That will get you more excited, it will feel like more of a challenge and from thereon filter as soon as possible, so with some red flags and when you know a…
/r/seduction12/05/24 06:59 AM
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Maybe it was a bad kiss. Maybe she wanted you to take her home instead. Maybe she has a boyfriend and doesn’t want to be find out
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:51 PM
1

Thanks for the elaboration. It’s good to hear these things from a woman’s perspective. Has it ever worked with you and a girl who approached you? Was there someone that did not make you feel anxious?
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:40 PM
2

So how do you ever meet a nice guy then if you even reject the ones that you like? And is it hard to come by a nice guy for you?
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:59 AM
1

What does it mean that something is “meant for you”?
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:42 AM
2

How do you reject them in those cases?
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:40 AM
0

It can also be that she wanted you to take her on a date regardless and she’s looking for deniability because if she told her about her boyfriend and you swept her up anyway, it’s ‘not her fault’
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:38 AM
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Oldskool David DeAngelo quote here 😛
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:36 AM
3

Source?
/r/seduction10/05/24 07:36 AM
2

Many women are only on dating apps for validation. You will do your future self and your mental health a massive service by getting rid of these apps completely as many others have done already
/r/seduction09/05/24 08:44 AM
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You can: A: try to avoid it by saying “ah, I already have dinner plans that day, let’s go for drinks after instead”. Or B: telling her “you haven’t deserved that yet”
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:14 AM
1

Buy a big golden chain and wear that. The bitches are much more receptive when they see you have money
/r/seduction07/05/24 07:42 AM
1

Yeah I don’t know if something is wrong with your texts. Either it’s that or they just weren’t into you enough. I hear pickup coaches give different advice; text the same day, the next day, wait 3 days etc so I don’t think it matters much if see sees you as a high value man
/r/seduction05/05/24 08:03 PM
1

What are you texting them?
/r/seduction05/05/24 06:33 PM
1

Best thing by far is to get a super human level of reading their interest. It will not prevent you by getting rejected off the bat but it will give you a very good idea if you can close her or not. Pay attention to: does she make any effort to keep the conversation going does she look at you with 'puppy eyes' is she touching you is she laughing at your jokes, especially the ones that aren't funny did she spend an unusually long amount of time talking you Only then, when you feel that she's into …
/r/seduction05/05/24 06:23 PM
8

Some jokes only work on dumb girls in my experience 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill04/05/24 08:10 PM
1

Either get a massive increase in social status or more simply, just get a hotter girl than her and make sure that she gets to know about it
/r/seduction04/05/24 07:55 PM
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Me too. It actually works much better when you’re an alpha guy and she’s having a great date with you and then you don’t kiss her. It will make her wonder for days if you like her or not
/r/seduction04/05/24 09:03 AM
0

Ya girls are weird man. Usually when they are on their period and such I just ask them to do anal instead and that works really well. You do need lubricant for this though
/r/seduction04/05/24 08:32 AM
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I'm happy there's guys like you out there that are willing to date those 304 boss babes that don't want to listen to a man, so that we can focus on the decent women. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill03/05/24 01:17 PM
1

You had this with 180 girls? Damn man, that must suck to get that far and then nothing happens after
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:30 AM
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Do you perhaps have a monster cock that traumatized her? (No homo)
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:14 AM
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Yes indeed, but still a woman in a relationship has absolutely no business going out without you so it’s a perfectly fine boundary to have as a man
/r/TheRedPill03/05/24 04:23 AM
1

I read everything. What do you think I’m doing here, just reading replies to posts I haven’t read?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 07:39 PM
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Words do matter yes. Though you don't know how he told his girlfriend this boundary exactly because he didn't mention that. I think your interpretation of being "abusive" and psychopathic is very loose and probably at least 50% of the men in this subreddit would fall into that category according to your criteria. When a guy is high value enough, he can have boundaries and if a girl respects him enough and wants him to stay, she will abide by it or she can leave or he will leave. Going to a club …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 09:40 AM
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That's also a boundary, just put in different words. And that's fine. I didn't demand from my ex that she didn't go out. Instead I told her "I don't take girls seriously that go out and I will not be in a relationship with one". This is also a boundary, just phrased differently. She can choose if she wants to cross that boundary or not.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 08:38 AM
2

Red Pill = biology. Wake up.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 08:34 AM
3

Tell her that you’re looking for a Bingo buddy
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:09 AM
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So you can’t tell your girlfriend that she’s not allowed to have sex with other men as your boundary?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 08:00 AM
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With your mindset for sure you are going to have a girl cheat on you one day. Possibly on that girls’ trip to Vegas where she cheated on you with three guys and you allowed her to go because you are such a secure man. Lmao. And don’t forget to do a paternity test!
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 07:58 AM
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At least he backs it up with real world knowledge and application
/r/seduction30/04/24 08:13 AM
1

I would say that men that got non-needy are confident but not all that are confident are also non-needy. In my experience neediness goes away when you see women for what they really are and once you've had enough experiences with attractive women.
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:04 PM
1

Yes, non-neediness is absolutely essential for game
/r/seduction29/04/24 08:44 AM
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If you have that many flakes, you’re doing something seriously wrong. I would guess you’re just trying to get their number for the sake of it and this is not the right way to go about it. It will feel to a woman as if you don’t know anything about her and still want to take her out, making you not selective and thus not desirable. Only take their number once you have seen significant interest from their side like talking to you for a long time, asking you questions, giving you the ‘puppy eyes’ e…
/r/seduction28/04/24 08:20 AM
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Man. There’s so much broscience in this one: “Carbs make you gain mass”. You mean, as in stored glycogen? Lol. “High fat diets do not make you gain mass, even in a high caloric intake”.. euh okay so the first law of thermodynamics doesn’t apply anymore? Energy cannot be created nor destroyed, only transferred from one form to another. “Essential amino acids can 4x muscle protein synthesis”. Lmao. Eaas have absolutely no benefit when your protein intake is adequate. Look up the explanation from B…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/24 08:15 AM
1

I think it’s best to see rejection as essential. When you find the mother of your children, would you like her to have had rejected 99% of men that approached her or would you prefer that she had sex with 99% of them?
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:29 PM
2

You managed to be become free from outcome (complete non-neediness). Congrats! Girls love this
/r/seduction27/04/24 08:28 PM
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Your text message is fine. Possibly she was rationalizing why she didn’t have sex with you (negative for you) or maybe she is worried that she would like you too much after seeing you again and then you leaving. Or for her the plan was to just have a one nigh stand and she thinks you weren’t man enough to take action, or she’s actually crazy busy, which is the least likely option but possible in a two day time span
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 08:00 AM
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A minimum of three months and having seen each other at least 15 times and when you have talked about being in a relationship. You don’t want to get used by this guy and then maybe another and another because by the time you’re of a certain age and you find a really really great guy, he will lose a lot of admiration and respect for you if your body count is too high to his liking and possibly he wouldn’t want to be with you because of that.
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:55 AM
3

I’m guessing at after work gatherings in business districts
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:50 AM
1

Why did you ask her if you could pick her up? I don’t think that’s good game
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:16 AM
1

So you tried to compliment a girl and she said “no”? Doesn’t make any sense to me
/r/seduction22/04/24 08:06 AM
2

3 kinky relationships at age 23. That’s quite a lot. I would not be surprised at all if her body count is 10+
/r/seduction17/04/24 06:52 AM
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That’s a pretty stupid comment, telling a guy that he doesn’t deserve a woman like this (you don’t even know her) right now because he worries that maybe she could be a slut. He’s just trying to look out for himself. Have some understanding of basic male psychology, especially since you’re commenting in a seduction group
/r/seduction17/04/24 06:51 AM
1

So why do you want to take her out if you are so extremely hectic right now? Maybe it’s not a good time to date
/r/seduction10/04/24 01:42 PM
1

Then turn off the online status thing. That’s what many people did years ago to avoid these situations. And why don’t you give her a call? She will pick up if she’s still interested. Women don’t want a man who doesn’t want to go for them. It gives them the feeling that you could impregnate her and then not stick around, which sometimes meant death for a woman in the good old days of humanity
/r/seduction10/04/24 10:17 AM
2

I think it’s fine to wait till 10 am to text her, although if you kept her waiting a few hours multiple times, you could tell her “hey, I’m usually too busy with work until 10 am to respond”. Then she knows you’re not playing games I can’t say why she turned flakey, maybe she didn’t see enough investment from you, or there’s another guy in the picture or the feelings from when she saw you last time are diminished now or another reason
/r/seduction10/04/24 10:04 AM
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In general: don’t text more than her. If she doesn’t respond do not double text, you can hit her up 3-7 days later though. And with responding, you more or less mirror her behavior, but also do what’s natural. Sometimes you respond in 5 minutes, other times it takes you an hour. It should seem as if you’re busy with other things as well but not as if she’s not a priority at all or that you’re just playing games with her. It should be just enough to make her wonder if you’re perhaps seeing anothe…
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:27 AM
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I agree with this post and I’ve made this mistake a few times and lost girls from it. They were not wife material anyway so it was good practice. Isn’t it ‘odd’ that quite often after a weekend the girl’s interest level ‘suddenly’ changes.. 🤔🤔. This never happened to me on a Tuesday
/r/TheRedPill08/04/24 11:45 AM
1

Treat like as if you know she’s already fucking another guy, perhaps the one you’re writing about
/r/seduction08/04/24 11:03 AM
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If your respond slow like this regularly she will know it’s you playing games. Nobody is that busy. She needs to feel that you want her, just not too much; it’s a really fine line
/r/seduction08/04/24 09:29 AM
2

Strong eye contact, until she breaks it, being completely non-needy will get her really attracted to you
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:26 PM
1

The girls are not attractive enough. Try dating an 8 or higher and your enthusiasm will go up massively, especially once you meet one with a great personality
/r/seduction18/03/24 09:51 PM
1

Check this one: https://youtu.be/W9o1J2tRsps?si=CRqLdGfXVzRSQP1o
/r/seduction21/02/24 09:06 AM
1

The one way is to get a hotter girl than her that you are dating and banging and make sure that your ‘friend’ gets to know about it and just act like it’s not a big deal. Your value will go up tremendously and she will see you in a different way
/r/seduction20/02/24 10:31 PM
1

True, but one thing that you’re missing big time is that the woman is not the woman that you met at the beginning and for that reason the men is also not as invested anymore.
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:19 AM
2

I’ve heard the too dating coaches on Youtube that are all in their forties now saying that it has never been easier for them to get (younger) girls than it is now. That says something
/r/seduction18/02/24 03:12 PM
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Be glad that it’s difficult because it it wasn’t you wouldn’t appreciate it as much when you find a great girl and she would probably have a body count of 100+ if game was easy for men
/r/seduction15/02/24 09:24 PM
1

Woelap?
/r/seduction13/02/24 11:15 PM
1

Are you in Pakistan? I heard the problem was fixed there but I guess I misunderstood
/r/seduction13/02/24 10:27 AM
1

But is it normal for people in your country to shit on the doorstep? Is there a problem with sanitation there?
/r/seduction13/02/24 10:17 AM
2

It’s next door
/r/seduction13/02/24 09:26 AM
1

No. If she would not make me a priority from the beginning, I would lose self respect if I were to meet up with her again just because it’s convenient to her. Also, women need to learn that not all men are constantly available and waiting for her. This way you create a bunch of entitled narcissistic bitches. At the very most you can just use her for sex but nothing more. Any chance of romance will be completely out of the window
/r/seduction10/02/24 08:44 AM
2

It’s complete shit online. Stay away from it. You’re just feeding into women’s need for validation and attention and at the same time it makes you feel worthless about yourself. It’s almost a complete waste of time and pretty much all girls are not as attractive on their pictures as they are in real life
/r/seduction07/02/24 01:47 PM
1

The guy lives on a different continent across the ocean and is getting married soon. I’m in no way worried that she wants him or any other guy for that matter over me. The boundaries are already established successfully now btw
/r/TheRedPill06/02/24 09:35 AM
4

I think them being at a party gives them ‘permission’ to behave like this. They also know that people go to parties in order to socialize and/or hook up
/r/seduction05/02/24 08:59 AM
1

Complete non neediness. I got it smacked out of me by acting a bit needy with girls and losing them instantly. Non neediness is the biggest game superpower one can develop
/r/seduction30/01/24 06:53 PM
2

A good example is Chris Hemsworth. He’s muscular, smiles a lot because he jokes around a lot, he’s good looking and always positive with everyone. That makes for great charisma. I would add: a man who’s nonreactive, doesn’t take shit from anybody, is comfortable with holding super strong eye contact, is comfortable with creating sexual tension, doesn’t make excuses and doesn’t back out of what he said/did, neither in body language I think that looks and muscles play a major part in charisma. I c…
/r/seduction27/01/24 06:45 PM
1

I’ve already managed to establish all boundaries with her except for the third one. She said recently she would block them but haven’t done it yet. I also haven’t made me and her official yet so I’ll wait it out and see what happens
/r/TheRedPill17/01/24 09:42 PM
6

They haven’t swallowed the red pill yet, that’s why
/r/TheRedPill02/01/24 04:37 PM
21

Definitely never get married without a prenup and read about partner alimony. I don’t know what country you’re in but in my country the bread winner of the marriage (99% of the times this is the man) will have to pay his partner alimony for the next 5 years just because she was accustomed that he gave her a certain lifestyle. Even though he was also accustomed to her sucking his dick and he doesn’t get that anymore. In some scenarios it’s even 10 years or 12 years. You fuck yourself up for life …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/24 04:19 PM
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You can just refer to your place as “our home”, which is not the same as “our house”
/r/TheRedPill02/01/24 02:31 PM
0

You’re too young and inexperienced to know how special she really is. If she was really that amazing you would have never let her go. So the solution is, get more experience
/r/TheRedPill01/01/24 05:21 PM
1

The ex lives on a different continent and he’s getting married soon. I’m not the least concerned about him or insecure
/r/TheRedPill24/12/23 05:41 PM
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They should put large amounts of testosteron in the water supply. Let see what happens when all men start to feel like king Leonidas
/r/TheRedPill23/12/23 08:59 AM
1

He lives on a different continent and is getting married soon to someone.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/23 01:06 PM
1

The thing is she doesn’t understand this is disrespectful. Nobody told her and her blue pilled ex even met the other ex and had no problems with it according to her. The ex she’s in contact with sometimes lives on a different continent and is married or getting married soon btw
/r/TheRedPill10/12/23 08:06 AM
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I already have her respect. What's your point?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/23 08:12 PM
2

Thanks for you input. How would you go about establishing these boundaries?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/23 08:11 PM
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I asked her a while back if she still has feelings for someone and she said "no". I can spot lies really well and she's a terrible liar because her face will give her away instantly and I could tell she was telling the truth. She said he's a good person to be in touch with (rarely) because he has connections, a good job or whatever. He doesn't look like an alpha guy at all, certainly not as much as me, but I'll dive deeper into it when talking to her. What do you think about my boundaries and ho…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/23 08:08 PM
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How is that gonna help me establish these boundaries?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/23 07:47 PM
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Make sure that her investment is higher than yours. In other words, keep your text short and don’t send many texts. Also don’t respond too quickly and don’t try too hard to be funny. You will come off as try hard. Been there, done that. She will be able to tell instantly where your mind is at when you do any of this wrong
/r/TheRedPill29/11/23 08:32 PM
-1

Magic mushrooms cure depression instantly. It did that for me, people I know and countless of others on the internet
/r/TheRedPill27/11/23 02:02 PM
1

Women want a high value guy. A high value guy is typically a man with a lot of (sexual) experience with women (confidence, non-neediness, game, leadership, decisiveness, has a strong frame etc). High value guys have options and because they have had a lot of sex, it’s less special to them now in a relationship so at a certain point they get bored by it and need to scratch their itch by having sex with another woman. Maybe women should go for low value guys instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:51 AM
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Arab guys are too hairy and have smaller dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:01 AM
1

It’s not true that older guys are creeps; what’s true is that most creeps are old. Reason for that is that these type of men have been rejected and alone for a long time with no success with women, they have bad social skills and are typically not attractive looking. Just being older doesn’t make them creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:03 PM
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Alpha men don’t care about the rules. I have two friends that have been approaching women on the street, these guys are a 6 and 7 in looks and both can get models or model-like looking girls on dates on a regular basis. I have done so myself as well when I was doing this; even pulling a few models or model-like looking women home the same day. It goes to show that it’s certainly possible and now because most men are on dating apps, there is pretty much no competition in the streets. As men we ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:19 AM
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This is the only solution <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:11 AM
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Why would we lock up child molesters and terrorists due to their actions in the past? It’s because the past is the best predictor of the future..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:24 AM
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Who said there’s anything wrong with cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:29 PM
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Did you already pick the names for your future cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:13 PM
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Neediness, indecisiveness, lack of confidence, lack of ambition, lack of experience with women, lack of life experience, lack of success in life, lack of maturity, being too available, being too pleasing, being too invested in her, not being able to provide for her, being bad in the bedroom, having a weaker frame than her and tolerating her shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:55 AM
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Nice move bro. Don’t let bitches like those get away with that type of behavior 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:13 PM
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Depends on what you mean by 'past' A relatively short time ago in history there were no: - Dating apps - Social media - Birth control - Condoms - Abortions - Night clubs - Government checks when a woman has a baby and no provider - DNA (paternity) tests ​ I think it's pretty safe to say that dating in the 'past' was vastly different than it is now. People couldn't just have casual sex because the woman would most likely get pregnant, risking her entire existence on the fact if the man would stic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:16 AM
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They decide on every calorie they eat to put it in their mouth and swallow it willingly or not. Even with a 'stress response' whatever that might mean or a disease, they are still in control. For every situation and/or condition you can find millions of people that are absolutely slim and in great shape. Your argument is invalid. Fat women have never been desirable throughout history. Most people barely had enough food to come by. If you were fat even 100 years ago everyone would be looking at y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:21 PM
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Us men don’t want to date someone that we are not attracted to and that includes fat women. We are just wired that way. A woman who’s fat is also not respecting her body and health and probably has issues with self control. So then if you lose a lot of fat and you start looking attractive, things change for us. No matter how cool your personality is, if you’re fat it’s just a straight disqualifier. So yes, I think you should still give them a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:02 PM
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Promiscuity is hands down a bigger problem than all those combined Falling coconuts kills more people than terrorists for example, yet nobody is worried about coconuts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:21 AM
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You’re wrong. I hate promiscuous women. I think it’s the biggest problem that humanity has to face with at the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:16 PM
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Women reject overtly and men reject in silence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:24 AM
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There are sluts and there are women that are wife material. We have sex with the sluts for validation and to gain experience and when we do find a true quality woman, we intend to keep her. And even to have sex with hot sluts you need to have a high level of game which takes years to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:05 PM
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You already made up your mind without being open to changing it, it seems and you’re also ignoring biology. You’re literally arguing against human biology; it’s one of the stupidest things one can do. It’s the same as short men that are arguing that women shouldn’t like tall men. It’s absurd. Men that have been sleeping around usually had to put 5-10 years or more of hardcore work in themselves. You need to be confident, funny, ambitious, being able to lead, be non needy (which you can only get …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:27 PM
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There's a few things wrong with your equation. First of all, there are not lots and lots of high quality males. Statistics cleary show that women find 80% of men unattractive, so that leaves 20% on looks alone. How many of those are actually high value? I would be surprised if it's 10%, so that leaves 2% of the male population. It's a known fact that women these days are completely delusional about the qualities a male must possess to be with them.. a 6/10 average ass girl want a guy that's mini…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:59 AM
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Women are the selector of who gets to reproduce with them. If women are easy, they have sex with lower quality men, which in turn makes the human race weak. You should be happy that women are shamed for being sluts and being stimulated to be more selective. You are literally the result of your female ancestors being selective, or would you have preferred them to sleep around with a bunch of unattractive men that don't care for her? What's also humorous to me is that the only women who say that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:26 AM
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Indifference is the biggest superpower one can obtain when dating. When (especially) your body language and in particular your eye contact signals to the girl that you’re not impressed by her and willing to walk away at any time, it can and will get even model looking girls to chase you. It’s an absolute game changer when you realize that most women ain’t much (though it can also make you jaded against them). I’ve reached this after watching hundreds of hours of red pill videos and being severel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:30 AM
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