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| 1 | trying to talk to a girl buy feels like a Interview.yes, a man should have at least 22 orgasmes a month for decreasing his chances on prostate cancer. Orgasme, on what way does not matter, masturbate or what ever .. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexReally ?? | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Best place to travel to solo in Europe?13ReplyGive AwardShareReportSaveFollow Scandinavian is very expensive. Food and special alcohol is very expensive/ Second, prostitution wlill be punished but only the man !! in Sweden. Up to six months prison for the man! Better Netherlands, is not very expensive for food, alcohol same, prostitution is legal, smoking hash is legal for locals but too easy for foreigners. Almost everybody under 50 speaks English and many pretty women. But ... Dutch people are tall. Are you shorter then 1.80 and a … | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:31 PM |
| 2 | How can I learn to talk to women?PRACTICE Practice is the only way to get better. Practice to make small talk. That is the start. AND !! not only that cute girl. Talk with everybody, become talkable! Young and old, man and women. Let people talk, that is what they like to do, somebody who is interested in them and listens. Do ask open questions, which are questions you can not answer with yes or no or with very short answers. Mostly it is good to give some information about yourself before you ask your question. Like ... I see … | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:12 PM |
| -2 | Thailand a bad idea?Do not do this! I know enough about Thailand that I decided to go to the Filippines. And I was there 50 months, in holidays spread over 10 years. Shortest 3 months, longest 6 months. Why I wanted to go there? For EXACT the same reason as you. I wanted once to experience how it is when women are interested in me. When women see you as an desirable partner. Fysically you have a lot extra compare with western countries / women. Asian people are small, makes you automatically tall. When you are whit… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:44 PM |
| 6 | medication to help talk to girls?Thank you, a very good tip to try out! And knowing you have a fresh breath helps too to talk with somebody, special when it is loud and you have to tals really near to somebody. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | medication to help talk to girls?You just drank to much (for you, your body, what ypu are used). Had that too and found out two portions of alcohol is MY maximum. Note you just have to drink just enough that you dare to talk, to do and feel free a little more then usual. NOT TO be tipsy !! It is good when you hardly or even not notice you had alcohol. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I get more “drip”?Most important, to fix your overweight. Never heard / saw the word drip before .... | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Grooming adviceDo not forget to scrap too your tongue. A tongue scrapper cost 3-10 USD or just use an toothbrush the older one when you take a new one. Be carefull with mouth"water" and things like that. My first girlfriend said, you always taste like menthol chewing gum. But I want to taste you natural. Teeth, keeping them good and healthy is so important. You can read books (there are) about it why (infection, even heart diseases, kidney diseases). | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | I get lots of matches online but never know what to say..Yes. That is where my sales and communication background and experiences may be usefull. Before I go on, please let me explain, I "m not a native English speaker. And I 'm a senior about 70. So I had a lot of penfriends, to find a wife, found them by advertising in papers abroad. In Asia because I always liked Asian women. This al comes together, pen friend experience, sales experience and more, I think. So at a moment I had about 50 letters from Asian women. Then I have to find out who is reall… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | FELLAS I NEED HELP!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvUQcnfwUUM Yes !! | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | You attract what you are. Become the type of person that you want to be with.hi Haha LOL. But what is your age? Because I think, by experience in my life AND the experience of many of my friends (now all around their seventies) when you are NOT handsome or filthy rich, our time (chances) starts about age 27-30. But then too it is important to be a down to earth guy who has a normal life, like having a job and not having a drugs alcohol or violence problem. Your length is good for many women shorter then 6 feet and about your weight, getting older is getting heavier, so d… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:01 PM |
| 2 | FELLAS I NEED HELP!Isn't that a song .. from decades ago. When I was young, so much younger then today - times ... | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?Yes, theoritical, but ... hardly. It is even proven scientific. Good looking people even earn better in the same job, can make better carriére (better job) easier. Everybody is noce to them and willing to help or please them. Oh I wish so much I was good looking too ( crying emoticon sniff sniff) | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?You stil can ... | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?What is "hoe" Me too want hoe you haha LOL. But Honestly, what means hoe? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:31 AM |
| 3 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?Yes, bachata, even much better !! | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?if you’re not helping your friends to get laid too Indeed, when you did, you would be their HERO !! | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | After MONTHS of being a scared little bi*ch I finally did my first direct approach! I feel like on top of the world :DEvery thing is .... step by step, practice, and become better and better. Good luck (every time again when you approach!) | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Self-improvement and chasing ambitions are supposed to help you in dating but they are doing the opposite for me and I'm not sure how to fix this.No, ALL women. The one who think deeper maybe even more ... Because they think, a doctor can be a nice man too (why not, I have friends and even family being a doctor, male and female ones) and a doctor will be able to feed and everything the two of us and our children, send them to good schools etc. But, what I notice about you, and think that is more a problemm, is ... You are very young (student) but you have a negative mind (notice that in your reactions to us, who write / reply to you) and … | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 09:27 AM |
| 0 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingTrue, but do not forget ... your age. For many young men it is difficult to get a girlfriend or a One Night Stand. This changes by aging. At 27-30 the dating world changes in favorit of men. Important ... be a good "yourself" by that time. Get your life organised (job, housing) and your looks (haircut, NOT fat, teeth, hygienic, nice or at least acceptable clothes) and have good manners and no bad habbits (alcohol drugs, porno addiction). And many women will like to know you better .. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with expression leads to trouble connecting and seducingOP, when you have a high sex drive then ride him !! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_rHrLHIeyI My girlfriend and I, on this record ( I had only one) we had so many times sex! Cowboygirl-style, reversed cowboygirl-style. Now more then 50 years ago. Memories ... | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with expression leads to trouble connecting and seducingI quote ..... I can report as a plain and simple fact: women are perfectly capable of putting in all the work if they really want to sleep with a man. So true !! And so good for a man when this happens to him. OP don't hold yourself back, when the woman takes initiative is for a man a dream that comes threw. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Self-improvement and chasing ambitions are supposed to help you in dating but they are doing the opposite for me and I'm not sure how to fix this.Don't worry, being a doctor and being (starting) age 27 plus make you a very desirable "boyfriend" for many women. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Self-improvement and chasing ambitions are supposed to help you in dating but they are doing the opposite for me and I'm not sure how to fix this.Go join a club or activity, try online dating. Yes, and do things you like, and WHEN POSSIBLE, choose things in which you can expect some, several, more women FROM THE KIND (age, profession, sportive, intelligent, etc.) you like. As a man almost 50 years older then you and not handsome I can tell you this is the best way. Get in many different groups. Maybe .... sports, theater, singing, discussion, social work. I was long time a single, always a biker, and at a moment I went doing social work (… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | My first day of cold approach was a disasterSuper advice !! | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | My first day of cold approach was a disasterHaha, LOL. Of course you must make your goals a little realistic. March, 4 weeks x 3 times a week = 12 x a realistic number of approaches make together 10-15 a month. And that would be a really good result. Haha, 100. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | My first day of cold approach was a disasterThat is not strange. It happens all the time. You prepared yourself bij studying and then first time really trying. doing, is a mess. Happened to me several times (with several different actions like car driving, approaching for sales, bull riding, swimming, and indeed approaching women. Just go on, and you will succeed. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Keep getting better as a man and you will get more pussy with ageI agree very much! I have since 32-33 very much panties dropping value, because as a (real) young guy I worked on myself and became "I" My positive things ( which made me liked enough by a certain group of women to get a first date) were, are ... not using alcohol, no smoking, no drugs, a little job and a small house, looking for a LTR or marriage and wanting children in my life (and too being open to meet single mothers). I had many dates and some short relations like up to 2-3 years. And after… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedIf is is this much difficult, it means there is no real connection, you two are not mentioned to become a couple. I would say, advice, when it is like you write, stop your trying, advances, approaches. I even would think forget all this nonsense, humans live about a million years or something like that, and we are getting with more and more people. Didn't we start with only two people (A and E) and look now. Only the Chinese are already with 1400000000, and the India too already more then 100000… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whySick in the mind! | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whyYou do not deserve anything. I will explain .... You know dr. Freud, the world famous psychologist and maybe you know his daughter too, I mean her name was Anna, a less famous Psychologist. Okay. The night dr. Freud died, his last words were ... I studied all my life, more then 50 years, the mind of women. And even now, I still not understand them, how they think, their logic. So, when I was studying psychology (at the "Martial arts academy for Self Defence") and I read this last sentence from F… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whyI do not think they realise they are cruel, it is just stupidity and not being raised well, in a way she has now no empathy. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whyMaybe, just maybe, she wants first to give you hope (by informing so you maybe think you still have a chance) and then hurt you by blocking. I don't know, some, SOME women are really bad. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Maybe = No, right?Maybe you got a "maybe" on the part if you would find out the answer. In my feeling I think here, in this situation, it is not mend as a "no". So ... dare to ask, to act. When you do not ask you probably have a no, but you maybe get a yes by asking. I would suggest to have 2 clear options, with time and place, and end with, or do you maybe have another idea. At least you will know much more from her reaction how she feels about you. Good luck !! | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Don't be this guy (RANT)Count your blessings ... and everything what is positive on you. And become REALLY AWARE of it. That changed my life in a very positive way! | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | How to have supreme confidenceSupreme confidence, why should you need to have SUPREME confidence. Just do and practice, and slowly (or maybe even fast) you are getting better, get results, get experienced. And that gives confidence. And when you have some level of confidence and do, practice, act, you well have better and better results. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Imagining my future as if I will be single for the rest of my lifeI agree very much with you (Norwegiandoggo) A person has a certain value in the dating - for -long term relation / marriage. Several aspects you will find in this value, looks, health, good family, money, status, job, study, manners, character, positive versus negative, wishing marriage with or without children, hobbies, using or not alcohol, drugs, smoking etc etc. This aspects change in worth during your life, age, situation. For a boy / young man 17 years old the women, girls will value the a… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Imagining my future as if I will be single for the rest of my lifeWaw, I think you have a wonderful and practical, pragmatical therapist. Really, that is my opinion. Sometimes people loose themselves in thoughts, assumings and fantasizings. And you can waist months, years, even decades in that, doing that. But .... the proof is in eating the pudding. Maybe after the first byte (or the first weekend you are single and feel alone) you already realize ... no, this is nothing for me, it is not what I really want in life. Wonderful therapist! | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?And desperado's are dangerous !! | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?I think he will visit his daughter , his ex and you, as soon as he knows there is somebody who cares and has money. Easy victims! Seen so many times! | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?Correction, adult children often do affect your life too, but in a different way. You know, they say ... little children little problems, adult children adult problems | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?You are not a doctor and have real estate property to rent out. Some men know this, and believe in ... faking it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?Hello?? You just assume to know what almost EVERY man thinks of them. But it is logical that a woman with experiences like LTR or being married, and having children, the possibility that she had negative experiences or is in a bad situation is larger then with a young woman who has no strings and responsibilities. Edit ......... Corrected my message | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?One big problemm what too might be is low libido. She has low libido and after some years and many tears the man choose for a chance on sex in his life, by starting with leaving her. Or the other way round , she wanted more sex then he. Just read Reddit dead bedroom here! But I always ask, WHY is there dead bedroom? Was there a reason like one of them became very fat and so on. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?True, not neccesary, I live together now 20 years with a widow with 2 children. And now- a day - with all this diseases. Corona, cancers. Terrible! | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?I believe you, but what when you are a - not so young anymore - single mother. And your child gets in the age of going to school. I feel sorry for every child that has to grow up without parents; a good and loving mother and father / stepfather. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?Yes, there might be some % single mothers like that. But most single mothers want more then a fuck now and then. They want a new relation with a man who lives with them, who is a very long time relation-partner, a husband, a breadwinner !! and a dad !! who helps raising her children. I do not think their problem is to get a nice evening or weekend and some sex. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?For sex I think you are right, but howmany "good" men are there for them. I think you re talking about men (for single mothers) starting around 30 years old, and up till 55? And then many men are already in a relation. Or they are divorced and have to pay alimentation to their own children who live with the mama, his ex. Or he even hast to pay alimentation for his ex wife. Or he has the children living with him. In all these cases there is less money for his new relation, for her and for her chi… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]As you maybe know I 'm a senior man. So I haver never seen a dating site or facebook or something "digital" like tindl and grindl and all that. But further I really agree with you, and can tell you I did it the same way. The first date is to gain her trust. She gets an idea about me, my life, my future wishes, my house. When there comes a second date it means that knowing that much from me she really likes to meet me again, wants to know me more, better. And too, I from her !! A second date is a… | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Maybe look for the books of Allan & Barbara PEASE. Better even .... read them! Best .... read and study them and start practicing and check out their theory's in real life. They wrote several books and give trainings. The best one (in my opinion) and translated in many languages is .... The definite Book of Bodylanguage, brought by Orion Books London in 2004. This complete book about complete everything, and for every occasion, about bodylanguage is not only about flirting. That is only one of t… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes, tell us. That is why everybody is here for, to read tips and about situations | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So, just like me. But that leaves a lot of other thing is which you can be good. And depending of where you live there are many to very many small(er) women. If not, investigate where are women small, and women (type) you like. Go there OR find in your own area (be creative !!) this women. You like Asian women? You can't move there, then start learning there culture, some basic of their language, go to Asian events, markets. Do not do ... nothing! That does not work. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Come on man !! Tell us more. Where did you did PUA? Your age, the girls' their ages? In bar or .... ? In a western country or in Asia? I'm 5.5-5.55, caucasian, I lived 5 years in Asia and just was nice, friendly correct and decent. And that worked for me. And it worked in Asia AND in Western Europe. One rule I"m pretty sure about, when you are too heavy in weight, loose weight. A little too much weight is no problemm, but do not be fat! Another thing, best time for women is till 30, then goes do… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | How should you ask her if she has a boyfriend?Do not ask !! | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 09:31 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you?Yes, you will always win ... | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Ever had a girl suddenly stop in the middle of making out and leave?One girl once said to me, do not pull that hard on my ears when kissing me. That was an eye-opener and a real learning experience, and soon after that I got a (my first) real girlfriend - relation. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Ever had a girl suddenly stop in the middle of making out and leave?Yes, text her. When you text her you have a new chance. maybe to date her. And you get what you want (a relation or one-time-sex or whatever) or maybe you can ask her why she acted like she did. Everything is a (learning) experience, except doing nothing. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the best books for a man to learn about dating and flirting?Yes, the old Plato. WE know him, he is from EU too! | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:50 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the best books for a man to learn about dating and flirting?I agree for 100%, wanted to write it too but my English is not that good. Really fantastic, thanx !! | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the best books for a man to learn about dating and flirting?Wrong thinking mt friend. It is still you, but just another approach. We say .... there go many toads to Rome (Italy). It is still you going to Rome, just took another way, road. Depending who and how you are, roads will be more or less easy for you. Find the ways, the roads, which are most easy for you. That are too the ones who fit you best. And the more you use these (kind of) roads, the easier it becomes, the better "traveller" you become. Sometimes people think too much about themselves in … | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?We-too | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?until they explain something like "I enjoy dating you but there is no spark. But I would like to continue to see you as a friend" or "you are great I would explain her that I do not much care if she has good sex with me for friendship. Even better then bad sex out of love, isn't it? I "m not that difficult, and why would you not do a friend that favor, certainly when you know it is important for that friend. I regular do things with friends for their pleasure, not mine, just for him. Sometimes I… | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Yes, sometimes you have a woman who is very good in bed. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Thank you dear. EU-Howdie, also known as the dear-hunter | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?I 'm happy you will not respond on me anymore. I really hope you keep your word in this. Because I notice in just 2 responses from you your anger, and that it is getting worse. First you call me dude, which as far as I know is at least not very respectful. And then you use the word "fuck" to me (grow the fuck up). But does not matter, I wish OP, xwgen 18, you, and everybody a good 2022 | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How to become more physically attractive?Or one long, like I do. Around my head. For the kissing ... | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How to become more physically attractive?Oh my dear, that are 9 sprays ( I counted them !!) and that every week? After the shower you take every saturday? That is much too much, I use about that in a whole year. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?What is sexist when I write that the one who sends is responsible for the understanding. When I talk to a 10 year old child and talk like to an adult, I cannot say the child is to blame. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?What to do about that? because after mathmaticing your numbers I come on about one a year. Hope for you it is not a otbf (one time being fysical) but at least some kind of relation in which you two are fysical involved. - Take care of more dates, 10 - 15 % from a double amount of dates is twice as much "fysical". - Take good care of yourself; clothes, haircut, good and positive mood, do not be fat or super skinny! - Be open including that you would love to become fysical with her. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?the woman don't want to pursue. In that case I always ask why, most don't answer. But the ones who did said that there is no physical attraction for them, and that it is a pity because they like me. In your case, I feel just a LITTLE sorry for you .... because the older and maturer people (men AND women) become, the more they will appreciate the things for which they like you! More and more they will look at character and all the other things important in a relation besides attractive. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:59 PM |
| -1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?I just do not like people talking about experiences from others. Now, at once, you dated with men too? Yes, really? Then why do you write that what you heard from your friends? Why did you not write from YOUR OWN experiences !? You must "borrow" experiences from your "friends". Are your own not good enough, or what? And about .... I really couldn't care less whether what I said was respected by you or not. That's okay, you have that right. I really do not want that you care about me! | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?The sender, the one who speaks, must take care that the other understands it. That's always like that! Men are clear in their communicating, women often not. Like with my woman, I ask ... you want sex, yes or no. She ... maybe | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:26 PM |
| -1 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?You write ...... I heard from some good friends ..... but I do not have experiences about this myself because I 'm a woman that dates women. Yes,and I read a book that says that many blabla. You are very explicit telling what men do wrong, did wrong or can do wrong, but never dated a man yourselves! I would have respected it when you did not write about things about matters which are that far from your experiences and your world. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sAnd a high criminal rate in this countries, bad healthcare. These are poor countries !! with all the negative effects like many people suffer and die younger then richer countries with better health care. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30s??? Why must I fuck you? Really must? What means when somebody is sheltered? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sDoes it not mean too living AND WORKING. Because like me you have pensionado's too who live outside their country. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sThank you LOL | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sThat’s why I suggested some ex pat time in Europe. Europe are about 30 countries, partly so different from eachother. You cannot say Europe, you will hve to be more specific, at least WHAT KIND of European country! | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sOne of the video's from Filipina Pea she talks about the MGTO movement. And I can tell you from own experience too that the culture over there is that women are much more taking care of their family or husband or asawa (man AND woman is called like that in a long time relation or in a marriage) then is usual in western countries. I had a talk with a aquintance, studied at university, good job, married. She is a normal good woman, wife. I tell her my asawa cut my feet-nails. She says, oh, I 'take… | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lost weight, a lot, by better food and fitness. Got my own place, Wear nicer clothes and haircut Got a job and / or work as an volunteer. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sThat is a question which for replying I could write a whole book! There are about 100.000.000 people in the Philippines, on more then then 7640 islands. There are cities from more then 1.000.000 inhabitants (Metro Manila 15.000.000) and small villages with only 200. Very rich people who literally own cities and people who die from hunger. But I will try to answer and I hope to explain. First of all, I copy a sentence from you, Acrobatic Driver .... you wrote here ... "I always wanted to visit Ph… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sMen who want to meet hot ones, they have enough in the Philippines; Phillipine men, Chinese, Korean, INdia, and from the USA, Australië and the EU. And the women there are not looking for men who look for hot ones but for good husbands, fathers, familymen. Who can offer their family a at least a reasonable level of living, including study possibilities for their children, a house and food ofcourse. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…STUDY HIM, HOW, WHAT IS HE DOING. Ask his advice, tips | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of youMy woman and I were on vacation in Spain, a hotel at the beach. Then, at our table a woman comes and sits on our table. What was common because it was busy. But she started to talk to my woman. During that week she every time was looking for contact with us (for my woman ofcourse). She started making her compliments like oh you look so girlie and invited us, her to her city, her place, in another country as ours. I did not say anything, I felt sad for her. I knew she had no chance at all, my wom… | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]well the way it looks like or seems, the way a woman talks or communicates, it looks like or feels, it doesn't affect her chances of getting a date or getting a boyfriend than the other way around, maybe because the way the man talks and interacts with people, impacts his attractiveness more ... I agree this for 100% ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ women don't have to be confident because nobody cares about a womans confidence sinc… | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sA little far away but I can give garanty on it: Manila (they speak English, are friendly, christian / western culture and small. And they love western culture and countries. And they are maganda (beautiful). At least many of them LOL. Small (women, men, people) is important for men who are a little smaller then the average man in their own country, you still have many chances because (really) many smaller pretty women there. Too chances for women in Philippines decrease fast when being end of th… | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Car? I have a sidecar, is that okay too? | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Like spit in her ear? Okay, will try that ... | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There are for sure too women who cannot speak and communicate as good and easy. But the ones who can, they speak for 3. That's why we think ALL women can ... | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You are now in your early twenties. So the girls you have contact with and are maybe interested in you will be younger or maybe same age like you. I think both of you are very young and have to learn, get more experience, in dating, speaking, approaching. I agree very much with this tip, advice (from a woman here above) ..... You will be surprised how many women you’ll meet when your really not trying. | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | What are the best spots for a first date? What are the worst spotsWorst is a too loud place !! | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life?I do not want to upvote nor downvote your last contribution. But my personal experiences and that's why my thoughts suggestion and advice are ....... The thing with being frustrated about women, men, relations, dating and many things more is ... it does not help. When you are a young man younger then, let's say 28, not handsome or an interesting bad boy, not having money ( like most young people; wealth comes and grows often with growing in years) you will probably not have many dates. THAT WAS … | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 10:36 AM |
| -7 | A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do?I copy .... you could take, meditation and yoga ..... Mediation ?? maybe better masturbation, so you are much more calmer and not so needy and maybe even creepy. Just my thought! | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do?Another way, ask or even hire a beautiful woman (can be your sister's friend or even your sister herself, or an escort lady, to go out with you and to act she is your girlfriend, and very horny for you. Things like that make women think, when she wants him, he must have some very good sides .... | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:58 PM |
| 0 | A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do?Yes, I have !! Say to her, ... when I fuck you till you cry you will experience the hard way you were wrong with that thinking. Does she not want, say ... haha, coward, you just do not dare. Only blabla. Ten you have a chance of 87.9 % she wants sex with you, because you are so self-confident, it makes her curious. After the "deed", when she is satisfied you say, so, now you know better. When she is not impressed, you say ... one of my better qualities is reaching my goals, one way or the other! | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life?I have the idea you are not that booring at all. And that is good, because women like humor !! But remember, keep it positive and simple, so they understand and like your humor. Good luck boy !! | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life?Yes, but how? You cannot give an order. The reality is that 20 % of the men are attractive and wanted by 80 % of the women. WHEN IT JUST IS FOOR LOOKS and that is mostly when it is ONLY for sex. My experience is that after my 30 th everything changed. I had a nice place, house, to live, I was slim, did not drink or drugs, and was in for a long term relation and wanting children. In this (new) circumstances I never was long alone. So, work on yourself and work on your situation. to attract the gi… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life?I feel a little frustration in your words, can that be? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life?When you are not a handsome or attractive man, just wait. When women got older and are looking for a real partner, or husband - kind of man - your chances will rise. To prepare for that time, take care that you are doing well in life. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 27 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.This is a very valuable post, it is so very true! Super !! I would like to edit 3 E's ... Be enthousiastic, have energy and have empathy for the one you are dating with. When you do not have this from nature, practice them! Btw, they do not only work in dating and relation, but in all parts of life! | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happyYes, I saw only 1 sentence, which I do not agree. That 's why my, this. reaction. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happyMaybe there is a misunderstanding. True is I 'm not a native English person, it is my 3 / 4 th language. But I see two things in the the openings post, that is ... If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy ... and .... Sorry, this post has been removed by the moderators of r/seduction. Moderators remove posts from feeds for a variety of reasons, including keeping communities safe, civil, and true to their purpose. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happyIf you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy ... OP, this thoughts, this sentence, brings nothing. Just something to talk and think about for - when you want - for ages. Without bringing anything, no solution, no real answer. Just a waist of time ... That is how I want to say my words, how my thoughts about that "statement" are. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happyIf you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy ... This is really just words. When you say this to a single who is not very good in his or her words, he or she will not know what to reply, to say. Other people will say, I'm more or less happy but definitely miss a loving and faithful partner and soulmate in my life. Better say nothing OP when you think this is the way to talk to people or to get some attention from others. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?I would like to edit to this very good post .... - Tv on, look for a channel with music, only music. Popsongs or more romantic music. You can look, but it is not necessary to look. Just listen or as background music. Talk about yourselves, be open, and ofcourse ask her things, make it easy for her to talk, to tell about herself, dreams, experiences and so on. - Have a snack for later in the evening, maybe some meat or self made fruit salade or "filled egg" or snack tomatoes. Some real food, not … | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Any attraction, game and social skills books, channels etcRead books about non verbal communication like from the writers couple Allan & Barbara Pease. They wrote several books, I like most from them the book with the title "The definite book of bodylanguage". btought by Orion Books Ltd. Every chapter is very interesting and useful in life and chapter 15 is even about non verbal signs and communication in flirting. This book is a life-changer when you take enough time to read it, read it again, think about it, study it, and practice what you read. Mayb… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Any attraction, game and social skills books, channels etcWhy can't you talk about them, about it, just here. Why you suggest to comunicate "seperate" and not over Redit. I think it is interesting for more people who read this "Resources". | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Wait what? It was THAT easy all along?!I just wish that I knew, when I was younger, what I knew 12 years later. Exactly. That is why older men should speak to young men, and young men should listen to older ones. Remember the songs from around 1964 .... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfwN0X8YnWo | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Wait what? It was THAT easy all along?!Haha, like that, must remember that line. Not only for dating but for everything in life. Golden tip !! Thanx | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Wait what? It was THAT easy all along?!It is not this OR that, it is AND! Many roads (can) lead to Rome !! | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Wait what? It was THAT easy all along?!Yes, it is, because .. next. It is like in sales, you approach 15 potential customers a day. It is friday morning and you have sold nothing that week. When you get depressed, you will NOT sell that week. Just go on, with remembering the 3 E's (being: energy, empathy and enthousiasme). The 3 E's are what is needed in every (good) communication, approach, sales, dating, interview, speech and so on. Be emphatic in your conversation, try to understand the other and try to feel what the other feels. … | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Wait what? It was THAT easy all along?!The things I regret in my ADULT life of 50+ years, are at least 98% of things I did NOT do. Not including but even certainly, special in women, approaching, contacting and so on. I'm so happy that, however late, I learned just to approach without shame or being afraid to not be accepted, women I liked (not only the ones I liked because of their looks, but just nice women, people). And because of that and the positive feedback (most women liked me as a person) I felt more and more comfortable to … | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sNothing, but a little back in the messages here I read about tolerate. They are very tolerate, a proof is how they handle drugs. Because of that drugusers are no criminals, so can keep their jobs, so do not need to become thieves and so on to get money. And I think that is one of the reasons Portugese people are this relaxed. You notice it par example in traffic. Even in cities they stop for people so people can cross the street. Very low little criminality too. When I would think to go somewher… | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sLooking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30s I know, being West-European, West Europe reasonable well. But for me, the best choice is South East Asia. I lived there, in a capital city, 5 years and as soon as corona is under control, even there in SOA, I will go back there again. Special for women in the age of 28-38. | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 01:03 PM |
| 12 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sBest country in EU is Portugal. Not expensive, less corona drom all the world !! and very little crime rate. Too, they have a very tolerate approah about using drugs. It is never a crime. Not cannabis not coke not anything. They handle it like a parking ticket and you get help from counselor to help you stopping the use. But not like other countries, you are in Portugal NOT a criminal just because of using drugs. Btw I do NOT drink, smoke or use any kind of drugs. And I live 1000 miles from Port… | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 12:26 PM |
| 1 | The reason women love men who appear somewhat disinterested in themCan I please have her number? | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if you’re dating a girl and she starts to play like a psychoanalyst on you?I would say, okay, but after this Rohrsach test I want sex !! | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone left a good long term relationship because they felt like they didn't mess around enough/their body count is too low?Yes, the clit! And you are a winner! And you know, the winner takes it all .... | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone left a good long term relationship because they felt like they didn't mess around enough/their body count is too low?That can be true and is easy said, when you already have reached your goal, and have a real life that matters. But it helps a lot to get there, to REACH THAT GOAL !! I had untill now about 200 women (bodycount) in my life. When I was 30 only 3 ( I "m a kind of a late starter LOL). I laugh about the idea my woman would leave me. When she is unhappy with me, she can go. No problem, and she knows. I "m with her (20 years now) because I like it, want to be with her. When I do not like to be with her… | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Why you should never fear hearing the word 'No,' and why it can often be the best place to start a conversation.Sad, but mostly true. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Why you should never fear hearing the word 'No,' and why it can often be the best place to start a conversation.Aren't we all sinners, so .... | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How to ask out a waitress?I 'm an Asian women connaiseur. Haha. Lived 5 years in Philippines, live with Philipina and we have Asian family and friends in several West European countries, in Philippines and Indonesia. They come from Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia, China, Vietnam. Ofcourse every country is different and certainly every woman and human is different. So I will tell you what is common in how to approach and in contact with Asian women. I speak from realy hundreds of pesonal experiences! I will not number my… | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ?this is indeed the way. And do not forget, you have only one chance t make a first impression. Including in texting, writing. Same like a first date ... | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | She can’t make up her mindA little bastos (Tagalog means rude), this reply, but true !! | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out.I think she is exhausted (very tired) speaking hours with you without getting any clear response. Do you like her or not, are you just friendly or even ... are you boared. I suggest that at at last somewhere after 75 minutes talking you check her by asking her to go somewhere else. Does even not have to be to her or your place. Ask her to go to another bar or to a lunchroom or Hamburger thing or good coffee house or what ever. When she goes with you she is interested in YOU and not only killing … | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 10:01 AM |
| 2 | What just happened? And was I being too dumb?DO IT !!!! | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | What just happened? And was I being too dumb?Dear Bittza2828, I 'm 100 % sure she wants something from you, and I have the idea that her relation with that other man is over, or as good as over. So .... Good Luck. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | What just happened? And was I being too dumb?Waw, good from you !! I copy your last sentence from the Openings Post...... I actually like this girl....she's great! But I can't tell her how I feel because she's in a relationship and I don't want to mess up our friendship ... That is exactly what you must say to her .... I actually like you very much. I think you are great! But I am afraid to tell you how I feel because you are in a relationship and I don't want to mess up our friendship... I think then it will be soon very clear what she th… | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Me, male, was a virgin untill 23. Shy !! Realise, when you are not really handsome, famous or rich, dating life is low, bad for man UNTILL he grows older. Slowly his social skills grow AND too women start looking for a partner, to built a family, or at least a LTR. It is pretty normal when there is an age gap in a couple, between man and woman, of 4 years. Our BEST dating possibilties / time start at 27 and from there getting better and better. So do your best, practice, approach and talk to eve… | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I learned about that ... it depends. Some people learn best by learning theory, read books and literature. Others are very much a person who learns by doing. There are 4 different types of learners. I found this test in the internet, sorry, do not know the name anymore, but google can help ?? I did the test and I was one of the kind of ... learning by doing. And I looked back on my life (now going 70) and yes, it is true. In a way that is good, I learned a lot. But in another way that is bad, be… | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?"An experienced seaman goes too throught the red sea" people say in Germany !! | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | How to stop staring at breastsThat is easy, do not drink that much ..... | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well done, the start is made. Two on your first practice day is certainly not bad at all, and shows already courage and communication skills. We understand and agree it is hard to approach and talk with women (or men) with earpods. But, give yourself a little present for what you managed already on this first day, maybe a cappucino. Tip ... go and approach women who can not walk away. Like waitress or saleslady in men cloth shop. Maybe you say you look for a nice belt for the jeans you are weari… | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 01:57 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I searched and searched, but did not find your field report. What irritates me a lot. I replied on your OP here and now you make it difficult for me to read your messages. I have never seen that before on Reddit !! Please put your report HERE !!! Where we expect it !! | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I searched and searched, but did not find your field report. What irritates me a lot. I replied on your OP here and now you make it difficult for me to read your messages. I have never seen that before on Reddit !! Please put your report HERE !!! Where we expect it !! | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Don't agree, practicing makes a master. The first (10? 25 times you do even not recognise if it was a good (quallity) approach. That 's why peope who were at schools mixed male and female teenagers, young people, young adults for a long time like till age 22-25 many are good in approaching the other sex, because they had many approaches and practice even without being conscious they were practicing approaching. It went in a very natural way. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.There was a time in my life I almost was desperate, and I thought, everybody likes me, men women and even the women I was in love to. And they all liked me. But no woman LOVED me. Even not for one night, don't mention for a relation. In that time I often thought, I wish NOBODY likes me, but one (woman) LOVES me. So I have another rule, nr. 7 : Let people, women know what you want. Starting with I'm lookong for a girlfriend, relation, long term relation, in time marriage, children, family, or jus… | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 10:57 AM |
| 18 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.I, (M) was virgin till 23. Now, 40+ years later my different body count nr. is higher then 200. Some tips? 1 - Do not get fat! 2 - Have a job, so you have a good income so you can offer your family a good life. 3- Be hygienic (inclusiv or even special how you smell !!). 4 - Be a kind person in common and sweet to women. 5 - Try to look for a woman at places where your "type" is accepted, wanted, welcome, even popular. 6 - Yes, and indeed --- be patient --- then for men like "us" who do NOT belon… | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | I got drunk and became a simpBe aware, do not become an alcoholic. But true, alcohol makes it easier for many people to let them selves go. In good and in bad ways. When you drink, drink social, 2-3, just enough to become a little more confident to show your feelings and be more like you want to be. I never danced when I had not drunk two beers. LOL. But now you have this experience with being nice, talk about your feelings, be open to people, to women, you can speak and do like that too when you did not drink. Mostly you d… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Any guys who were kissless virgins in their mid 20s who managed to turn it around?I go camping or getting away in the mountains or woods away from people most weekends. That is your choice !! The least you have to be is available, being there !! to have contact with women. | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Any guys who were kissless virgins in their mid 20s who managed to turn it around?every response has been thoughtful and she asks questions I copy that from your message. This I would use as an (earned !!! so honest) compliment. I would write her ... Angela (or however her name is) I notice your responses are really thoughtfull and too you ask me questions, so what about ...... meeting eachother somewhere so we can have a normal conversation, much more comfortable and nicer then just texting. Note: I"m not a native English speaking person so I 'm sure that the italics part of… | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Any guys who were kissless virgins in their mid 20s who managed to turn it around?For not really handsome or / and really rich or / and famous men it is their chances grow by the month going his 30 st year. And from then, comes a long period of good chances. Taking care of yourself, do not get fat, and get organised this can be untill 55-60, and even then does not has to stop his chances at dating. | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 10:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I improve my personalityWhen you are interested in "basic"things, and study and practice them, is always good too. Like cooking and massage. Everybody loves when somebody does that to him / her. But too, certainly cooking is a nice subject to talk about, to do for somebody, to invite a person at your place. What you lie to eat, become a good cook for these "kitchen" lie Italian, Greece or cajun or Chinese, Indonesian, Polnish. Even when you cannotcook a lot but are really good in making pancake (all kinds, I know a pan… | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 07:31 PM |
| 3 | How do I improve my personalityDo more activities or find hobbies............ Very good advice prettyaurore gives. And too; read books, (member of library ??) like travel books, about hitory or poliics or "how to start conversation". There are millions of books, so concentrate om everything you are interested in. In this way you get knowledge about the things you are interested in, you become a person with whom it is interesting to speak. Special when this other person has the same interests as you conversation will be better… | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]True !! I had a friend 34 still a virgin. And he was looking good, but so unexperienced and therefore very unsure. So we went to the bar but he did not know what to do. I asked him, what woman do you like. He pointed out one in a group of 4 younger women. I started small talk with this group of 4 women. I concentrated (small talk) with the three others and he with the one he liked. And he stayed all night with her, but not had sex. But the night after that he met another woman, she was in a rela… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Attraction happens when you're NOT trying...I 'm specialised in that. My secret (honestly !!, and it works) .... I pretend to be a gay man. And then we are together a lot, including pyama parties with innocent ( innocent because we are both gay, I M she F ) massage. Which I change in teasing sensual massage. And there always comes the moment she asks if it is okay to become "more friendly" to that "little Joe" "there". Three times in my life (3 different women) it happened like that. I too must tell we were "together" only one time to max… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 11:34 AM |
| 2 | It's about time you became the man women want you to beYes, ofcourse. And be really interested in her. Go deep. and deeper, into what she tells you, what shows you are really interested in her. And that you can only be, become, if you really listen good to what she says and you have empathy, and imagine, how that what she tells you did with her, how she felt about it, and talk and ask further about that. That's why I always recommend ... talk with people, with every kind of people. Not only the one you have a crush on. Conversation is a thing that p… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 09:52 AM |
| 2 | It's about time you became the man women want you to beFunny, people like best conversations with others who do not say a lot but listen to their "story". | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 11:31 AM |
| 2 | It’s not a numbers game, it’s a game of probabilityThis warning is very good! Dubai is very international, but with her own laws, following the moslem religion. In short the most (I think) points ... -No sex when not married !! -No alcohol when not having the required document !! -Stay miles away from everything with drugs. It is not allowed, they are very strict and have heavy punishments, and they have the best equipments you can buy for money to find any kind of drugs. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | It’s not a numbers game, it’s a game of probabilityDubai is nice, many many Filipina women working there who would love a Western friend for .. marriage, Long Term Relation. But be carefull, first study Dubai law about drinking alcohol (allowed for you when you are not moslim BUT !!! first you have to get a document tha you are allowed to drink. Not this document, you are still not allowed (good from me, in't it, I myself do not drink alcohol but I know). And about sex, it is not allowed to have sex when not married. You can come in jail for tha… | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Just a small piece of advice for the dayNote, muscles are much heavier then fat I experienced I worked out, ate healthy, was even looking better and my "old"clothes, fitted again, but ... did almost not loose weight. Then my doctor explained ... one littr weights a lot less than 1 littre muscles. So when your body looses fat but get more muscles it can happen that you loose only little weight but still make wonderful progress. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Just a small piece of advice for the daybs? Like in Bull shit? Yes, I certainly agree. Bull shit that makes many people unhappy !!! | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Just a small piece of advice for the dayI agree, but would like to combine this wonderful advice to WORK OUT with the following advice I got from my doctor ... Working out, becoming healthier and having amore beautiful body, your clothes fitting, more selfconfidence etc. ... but too, it starts in the supermarket and all that places where you buy your food !! Then, what you bought, you will eat !! Chips, chocolate, icecream, sweets, in house? You defenitely will eat it too !! Become a specialist in food, as a life saving and happiness … | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionWE just spoke this morning with a friend (female) of my woman. She just returned from Philippines. When you arrive in the PH you first have to go (even when you have a house overthere) for 10 days in a quarantaine hotel. In Manila. You get a list with several hotels and several prices. The last day, the tenth, you will have a test and when that is okay you may leave the hotel to go elsewhere. Many people, special the older and the children, stay all day in the house. It is really quit everywhere… | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionReally? Never heard that. They say it from the Phillpines, but to me (dates with 200 different women) not one. But ofcourse be a little carefull, use your common sense. If you feel any doubt, DO NOT !!! | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionMaybe yes, maybe no. How much do you know about the country? About people and culture? So I read avery book I could find in the library (about 50 !!) about Phillipines and Indonesia. So I knew people greet, "say" hello, women invite you to come to them by raising both eye brows. When a woman does hat she invites you to come to her !! | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionWhen you are Asian but living in or coming from EU or America (maybe born there or since childhood living there) you must go to Asia, Defenitely! My Asian brothers in law who live in EU are very popular in Asia. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionTrue, not many Indian here in Western Europe. Really rare. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionI'm sorry for them, but Asian women either do not like people from India. They call them the Bollywood. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionWhat? Who says that .... they don't date short men. Haha, I "m relative short but in Asia I'm even a little tall compared to the men from there. And white! And .... I'm a very outgoing teacher. Do you know what a woman once said to me, what suprised me really ... I think you western people are great because you are never afraid. But to understand that you must know the situation there .... Plus, in many Asian countries many men promise the girl or young woman everything romantic (bola bola) unti… | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionJapan, very weird and tired people and a very expensive country !! | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionIt is not, pls read what I wrote here before, a minute ago. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionThat is what happens in Asia, being white and being a more or less decent man. I experienced that in the Philippines where I lived 5 years. Had hundreds of dates and short relations. Normally people say, yes, they know or think a white guy is rich. And yes, In the Philippines are very many poor people, compared to us (me from EU) So I'm really happy that you write your story here! South Korea is not poor, but still women are really attracted to western men. And SK is much more modern then the Ph… | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How to play it after sleeping with a girl for the first time.Do not worry about eager and needy, show her you are really in her. Being afraid to be too eager or needy, at the contrary, pleae just show what you really feel for her ..... | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You let her play with you !! Let her abuse tou / your feelingsHave you no self respect. I would stop being her friend. I think then she will give you more, kisses, some hanky panky, to keep you in your role. Just enough that you are her friend again. To me this behavior works the wrong way. I would not take her as a friend or as something more even when she would ask me to become a couple. I realise that you are just 21 but she is no good, she is playing with you and with her ex and abusing your… | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How to play it after sleeping with a girl for the first time.Playing cool is playing, something for children Really cool is when you are assertive enough to say (write) without hesistate what you want !! Hi Jenny (or what ever may be her name) when can we hang out together, I 'm really looking out forward to be with you again. Maybe this friday or saturday? You see, it is short, to the point, and clear in what you want. In my opinion that is real adult-cool. And it is enthousiastic. I think a young woman will feel better by somebody who shows he really li… | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | If you were to go from a 7/10 in attractiveness to a 5/10, would you rather this decrease be ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your height or ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your facial aesthetics?Thanks! At least it is a long one LOL !! | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | If you were to go from a 7/10 in attractiveness to a 5/10, would you rather this decrease be ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your height or ENTIRELY due to a decrease in your facial aesthetics?I (M 67) think it is height. I 'm convinced by that. I will explain. I live in EU. My length is 1.68 mtr which is exact 5.511811 feet (LOL. looked it up ). My face is okay, not exciting real male bad boy - face, just average or a little below average. I'm more a decent and little conservative person who does not drink, smoke or use drugs (some are allowed here but I'm just not interested), have simple job and invest my money in a nice but small house and its ineterior. All just average, but not … | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Good videos to watch with a girl?Watch ... one flew over the cuckoo's nest. After watching that everybody looks normal, even you. LOL | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 09:24 AM |
| 12 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?Maybe a day or two later you could text her some inane shit to start a conversation, just to see how things are between you two. This contribution is a wonderful advice. Maybe thank her for the invitation andwrite her it was a nice party and many of her friends are really nice and interesting people. Then it is up to her how it goes on, she will invite you, or ask for a date or ... nothing. That's life. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?This !!! | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 09:04 PM |
| 10 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?I do not agree; I advice do not play "cool". Be friendly and do not ignore her, but certainly do not "follow" her. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?Act like a winner! Go, look good and smell good, buy a present or chocolate or flowers. When you know her well enough maybe a book. But no !!! drink and certainly nothing with alcohol. And do not give money as a present. Maybe she is in you, maybe not, but there will be her friends. Male and female. Be the best kind of yourself, so people ask, who was that guy. He is nice, social and communicative. Did not get drunk and friendly to everybody, including men, including older people and including f… | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 08:54 PM |
| 5 | The Real Secret of Confidence (Advice from an Old Man)Haha. LOL! Yes indeed. I (M almost 70) started dating at 45 plus. But okay, he IS right !!! It is not a bad advice. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 01:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yes, I understand now. Happily I am attrcated by women, older then 30. But I understand it is clever to ask their ID or some kind of official document. And too, ofcourse, a document of being free from sexual diseases and ofcourse documents to proof of being corona vaccinated. Better safe then sorry ... | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 12:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Aha, yes, very smart; it is smart to card. Some very young women look older then their mother! | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]What is to card? Give her a credit card? | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]30 plus till 55 when attractive and !!!! a nice person to be with. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 08:14 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]M 67 and in EU one a month, in Asia 2 a week. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 08:12 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Same here, too green means too young, immature. Not under 30 or she would have a child (then women are sooner mature, logical ofcourse, no blaming here!) | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Same here, and ... looks are not that important, just not being extreme (fat). Cloth good, t least decent, groom haircut hygeinic. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 08:07 AM |
| 2 | My first approachEat a banana, take 2 paracetamol, 1 loperamide and wear a pamper ... Banana (good against too much shitting). Loperamide stops uncontrolled shitting in the pants, a pamper for when loperamide did not work LOL and paracetamol against too much thinking and the headache that comes from too much thinking. Yes, life is not easy and always like you hoped, but when you succeed ... it is wonderful. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 02:37 PM |
| 14 | My first approachCongratulations, the first time of everything is the most difficult. Now you did it, just go on, and it will become easier and easier .... | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 09:22 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Why ?? ... So hard and harsh to that poor girl. Maybe she is new and not knowing how to handle the bars. Or feeling very lonely, having no friends at all. Where is your empathy? | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I "m afraid it will be a lockdown LOL | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 08:41 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"I did not write down every word men can be called, I think just like you did not list all words ... When a man tells at the office he’s dating three girls and sleeping with them, it cost him money. He has to buy cake for to eat with the coffee in the break. I guess when a woman tells she’s dating three girls and sleeping with them, I think they call her a lesbian or bisexual. IN what country do you live for God's sake, where a judge uses a rape against the victim and says to the victim of rape .… | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 12:17 PM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"I copy ... But a lot of women don’t feel like they can say and be open with what they want because we get judged by -everyone- and called names. Take away the wo from women and read the sentence again. It goes like this ...... But a lot of men don’t feel like they can say and be open with what they want because we get judged by -everyone- and called names. Men get judged and called names too, at least as much as women get judged. Douchebag, borring niceguy, and so on .... | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 09:50 AM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"Yes, and in some restaurants one side of the table is along the wall. So you can say, oh, let's sit there and we can look around. Just do not think too much, and do. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Very good advices and tips !! Thanks in name of all man-kind. French sitting ... never knew it is called like that, but I do it many times; it is much more intimate. Even just sitting next to eachother your bodies already touch. You write, don't challenge. I agree with that very much. And too, don't test. I think both is insulting for the other. But okay, that is me / my opinion. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"give you an example, say you talking to a girl at a bar, and she pulls out her phone to text someone. instead of being a nice guy and saying nothing, waiting for her to finish texting, you can say “what guy you texting, your boyfriend, your sugar daddy?” Yes, that is the way !! But ... not too much, too harsh !! I once said (she got a text and start reading it) is that your pimp or your mammie (= mother) who checks you out. THAT is too much! Twenty years ago one woman said to me, sorry, I'm not … | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Yes, just be a little less a niceguy! Even when you risc that she is upset, does not like you anymore or likes you less. Sometimes women like, even need to feel you are not only nice but you can be harder, tougher too. So maybe one on 10 you loose by being tougher but maybe you win 2-3 for more! Been there, experienced that! And not once !! And I "m not looking good, tall (5.5), handsome, strong. Even wear glasses (haha. LOL) | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 08:39 AM |
| 2 | When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her?Haha, yes, it is true, we old guys, like Donald and I, we know what works. Very funny your remark !! | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Should I try harder, or is she just not interested?Very good contribution, changes my thoughts !! | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?Sorry, then I misunderstood. I really could not agree more with you. And in name of all men who are or ever were virgin, thank you. Maybe it sounds a little funny ( I 'm not native English) but I'm really serious. People should be a lot nicer to each other, and that should not stop at their own gender-border. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?Let him be naïve and happy, so what. And she will MAYBE be a little disapointed in sexual way but will know she did a good thing to let him feel good about his first time. A good start in sexual life will give him self confidence. THAT is very important. By a good start he will be confident next times and become a great fucker who will make many women happy during his coming sexlife. Including she, the woman who asks him to be fwb's, when they really become friends with sexual benefits. Our gene… | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?You should nothing !! Nature tells us men, to spread our genes, not to be a man like ...... someone who knows what they’re doing, since agreeing to a FWB type relationship implies a certain degree of sexual prowess (that would be the “benefit” part), because if she wanted to invest the time to train a dude into being a good lay she would get a bf. Bla bla. When everybody thinks like that there would not be overpopulation but "under"population. And nature wants no risc, better hundred of thousand… | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?Try again .... | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?I was virgin till 23. So what. My girl was 19, virgin too. We were a couple for almost a year. I did not believe she was a virgin, she was that good !! And she did not believe I was a virgin, that good I was. Do not worry, mother nature organised that perfect. No book or instruction manual or penis instruction needed! | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?So what, it is no crime to be a virgin. It is not like, I was in prison for 12 years because I raped my nabours wife. So, don't tell and just do. And afterwards you can always say, it was delicious but I notice I have a lot to learn. I "m special interested in learning to give really good oral sex to a woman. I think she will think, ah, we are half way, and it sounds interesting ... teaching him how to give really good oral sex (to ME !!). This will be really special !! Good luck, do not be afra… | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?And do not start crying when you have orgasm. Giggling is okay. LOL | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 01:39 PM |
| -1 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?I "m afraid I "m a little out of practice. But best is when you just tell me how to make it delicious for you; your wishes will be my orders (commands). And then you make a "telling grin". | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?You are so naughty .... a dirty mind is a joy forever ! | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 01:26 PM |
| 1 | DON'T be on your best behaviour on a first date!You have only one chance to make a GOOD FIRST impression. That's why you should be on your best behavior on a first date! | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Haha, you are smart and have a good sense for humor. Moderate amount of hours watching porn. Love it! | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]In my opinion it is simple. For a man 26 is still early, as far as it comes to chances. I think your dates would be with women from 20 till 28. And that is the age that women have so many choises and too are not really looking for a relation, for commitment. And this women, special the better looking ones, pick the best looking men, because that is what counts for them in this age. It changes about 30, women want to settle, want a steadyrelation, many want children and a father for them and a hu… | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Metoo! I'm a man and would happily quit my job and be a houseman when I was with a woman who could provide me with a reasonable house, allowance and lifestyle. Certainly because I lived allone 10 years in my house and did everything myself. Which took me 1 hour a day (house 4 bedrooms, living, kitchen, 2 bathrooms garage garden in front and at the back from my house) to keep it clean and to cook and shop grocery (Must tell honest grocery was only 5 minutes drive. Housekeeping is solitte and easy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Having a well paid job at 41 is nothing special or impressive, most people earn more as they get older. Good news for women, maybe they can earn enough money too so they do not have to find a providing man / husband. And from 110.000 USD I think you can raise a child too even as a single living person. I even know couples, families, who earn half of that and have two children to raise. And they are doing well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?Ah! You are one like that !! Naughty naughty naughty !!! | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?No drinking is never a problemm. Most women do not specially care, but even many will be happy to see that when you do not drink. I do not drink alcohol anymore for over 40 years, since age 24,and it was never a problemm. At the contrary, most women were positive about that. (Btw, too I do not use some kind of drugs. And I do not smoke) I like ... coffee with chocolat and pralines. Good Arabica coffee with in Belgium, Netherlands, German, Switzerland, and too American and Phillipine made chocola… | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?Just say, hi, can you please beap me up .... | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a girl to approach a guy?I'm old. But since 1960 it is okay, normal. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?Pity, or sympathy, or birthday blowjob, what does it matters, the result was the same, ... a happy birthday. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?Yes, and then you come in #metoo with foto name and adress, lose your job and friends and come for a court from all female judges. Your mother gets depressed and your father hungs himself, because of .. what ditd we do wrong raising our son. Age 5 he as so adoring ... Think before you leap! | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 2 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?So what, when it "blows upon his face". The result is the same as being in the friend-zone". I was in te same situation untill about 30 yrs old. Many times I thought, even sometimes prayed, I wish I had much less (female) friends and ONE girlfriend of my own. I was the kind of guy, to whom the women went to talk about their (many times bad boy) boyfriend. I talked to them, they became calm again and went happy back to their ( many times bad boy) boyfriend. Again full in love wit him, and I knew … | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation?OP, YOU do not need to do all the work. Women decide, women choose the partner. And you will be for women a good man. interesting man, you could be "the one". So they will make it easy for you because they want themselves to know you better. Just take care to go out, go under people, meet many people, be social, hobby, volunteer, sport dance play music. Does not matter, do things you like, with peope who like that too, and hopefully something were are many women in your age. Believe us, the olde… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation?Forget the past, look at NOW and the kind of future what could come ... So, M, 28, little (earning) job but a nice amount of savings. To your age, for a man here start his best age, for dating and finding women, relation, spouse. You couls spend your money for a very important basic subject, own a house. In a way you can live free or with a very little loan. With rising rents all over he world it would be a wonderfull extra, certainly with a little income, when you do not have to pay rent, never… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Untill 40 I slept with women max. 5 years younger till max 2 years older then me. First time I slept with a woman (my first girlfriend) I was 23 and she 19, a virgin too. I always liked Asian women, girls. But till 40 I had only European white women. After 40 I started dating Asian women in Europe. Asian women like more age difference, like more older men then themselves. Five to 10 years is very normal, but more then 10 yers difference is still very okay. As I got older and living in Asia the w… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Yes, it is true. Me, M going 70, I "m really looking forwards to the time I will live in a nursing house. There are about 10 women on 1 man, and most nurses are female ..... LOL | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | What is a good way to meet women?Doing the things you like to do, and meeting a woman there who do that too BECAUSE she likes to do that. Can be hobby, sports, working as a volunteer,go to concert or go in a band or choir yourself. Join church, disco, ballroomdancing, some kind of training or a course, joining first aid like red cross, volunteer in the nabourhood or with children and everything you like to do yourself, Ofcourse it helps when it is something where you will be meeting women hopefully in your "age". And socialize … | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolI "m a little disaopinted, I hoped for a kind of magic word. Like acabadabra ... But thanks because you gave some good tips (do not cercle around / do not stare, do not be sexual or vulgare in your tone. I personally do not agree to be that direct in your aproach. You can to my opinion and in my coutry better talk about the weather and about little cows and little calves, to built up tapport | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolOkay, this is a good reaction, it makes it clear to us .... But what would you advice, to us men. What would be okay for you (woman) when a man wants to approach you> I think it is not a crime to try to come in contact with a woman. The trouble for many men is, how must I do that, what can I say, what not. Can you maybe give us advice, an example? | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolOh, how can you say something like that ..... | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.Maybe she did not ment you. But in common ..... And mayb she just wanted to post something because she want to get more followers, andit has nothing to do with anybody or anything. So, just go on having contact and dating her. And wait with deciding what to do untlll you know her a little better. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do?I would go for a corona test .... | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Fellas stop using money that isn’t yours to attract women. It turns them off more than you know.I have the opinion that you have the opinion that only Russian women can be goddiggers. I think you have them everywhere. And too I think many women, certainly not all, like a young man who has acces to money, even when it is his parents. Because later he likely will have that acces too, and that makes life easier and nicer. My grandmother said, a rich man can be nice and loving too! My grandfather, at the contrary, said, a rich woman can be nice and loving too. So they divorced and both find a … | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | The WORST ADVICE that I have EVER HEARD (and that you are told everyday)I (M, 66 yrs, hetero) agree very much with OP. In half a century interested, wanted and looking for women, relation, LTR and partner and for marriage I was active and tried many things (without help or advice from intenet, you tube, TedTalks, dating sites and only very little from friends (f/m). My conclusion as a man 5.5 and only average or little low average apperiance is ... 1- try to become the best "version" of yourself, keep healthy, condition, steady job, housing, hygiene, take care of yo… | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Good podcasts that talk about flirting and overall seduction?Something serious? I would go to TedTalks in you tube. You find hundreds about flirting, sex, relations and more like this. By professionals and experienced people, Far above the level of PUA. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | If you treat someone as if they are on a pedestal, you’re attached to the idea of them, not the actual person. Why would they want to be in relationship with someone who acts nervous and unworthy around them?Really very good to read this, explained so clearly. It is so true. Thank you OP !! | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 07:41 AM |
| 3 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):So, like 90 % of men. "WE" start a little later, but then we have at least two GOLDEN decades (2 x 10 years). At least. Just take care of yourself and you will experience it. I thought it would never come, and then from 30 till 60 it was great. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 07:22 AM |
| 3 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Me too, about that. And the older I got, the more it increased. Most between 40 and 55 !! | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Love your reaction. Wonderfull, exactly my thinking !! | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 09:04 AM |
| 2 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):I had highschool (needed 2 years more then normally, always just free wheeling, not studying) ) but at 37 I went to evening school 2,5 years. Learning, studying is the best you can do. In Europe, with many languages, it can be a language. Even when it is just for fun ... untill the moment comes that you need it, for a job, friends or a partner, holliday and more. Or a first aid course, or a AED course, computer course, fire man training. Does not matter, just become a better and more interesting… | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 08:56 AM |
| 3 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Here a man slowly going 70 years old. It is certanly not true that your youth is the best time of your life. Yes, when you are lucky, it can be the best time or at least a good time. When you are handsome, really good in school, good family with some money and because of that chances in relations, education, jobs, nice ways to develop youtself like (expensive) sports, hobbies, travelling. But you can not realise THAT yourself at 17-25. It depends from if you are a lucky person who "found" all th… | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | do eye contact like tom hardy.Funny. I got the feeling the guy in this video tries to get me warm to buy something (a book?) from me. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 08:46 AM |
| 2 | (F18) My boyfriend doesn’t satisfy me enoughI agree very much with StormSwords message. As the decades go by, every not sexual thing becomes more important, and sex becomes less. Please keep in mind there is a big difference between sex and intimacy. Intimacy is and maybe becomes even more important during aging and in longer excisting relations. My woman and I ( both pensionado age) feel happy and intimitate with holding hands on the couch watching tv, or in bed before falling asleep. Sex is only once in a very long while. Too OP, my adv… | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Having success getting numbers but not dates...Start slowly ...... Wait a few days and then .... Send a whatss app or sms, but do not call immediatly. A message and maybe a (normal) photo. Calling for first time / contact is too unexpected, make first some kind of connection by some messages first. I "m really 100% sure that this will work a lott better, so ... good luck! | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Lose interest to girls when they start liking meAt least you have a good sense of humor. Which is important. Congratulations. Maybe I have a similar something. I achieve something, in work, compny, bussiness, and when I reached my goal in about 1 year I look for a new challenge. So you and I maybe are more in for the way to our goal then for being there. I "m honest, I have tht in live with severl things, but not in relations. But I noticed too that the older I got (I 'm pensionado) I/m loosing that behavior. Too I think the thought and advic… | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Girls aren’t enemiesAlmost no approach is really creepy. When you do it in a nice respectful way and do not propose something creepie, there is nothing against it. Choose a public place to go, where people are. And / or tell her she can make the choice where to go, saying ... where YOU feel comfortable and safe. IN Asia it can happen that a woman wants the first time a "chapperone'. But even in Asia that is now-a- day- really old fashioned, conservative, that she wants to take or she has to take (from her parents) … | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 01:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you transition to a fun and flirty vibe?You had an icecream? Oh, you are the kind of woman (girl) that likes to lick? And when you notice that is "too flirty" you ask, what flavours are your favorit. (Answer vanille and chocolat with cream) And when you leave eachother you have a wonderful thing to make a new date with her .... .... okay, I invite you for we two togethe,r go eat a big icecream vanille with chocolat with a lot of cream. I have to work till 5, so will I pick you up at 7 or 8? What suites you best. Note, always give two … | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | The Single Most Attractive Trait in a PersonA positive mind. I experienced that very much in Asia, ertainly compaired to women in "my" EU. | /r/seduction | 14/06/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Any puas in Istanbul?I "m not "there" but just a suggestion, try to contact people on their working place. When I was an expat I had a lot of succes with it because people (women) were interested me because of being a foreigner. It was not difficult to invite women for a coffee and from there go for a drink. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 08:38 AM |
| 2 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.Ah, okay, thanks for the explanation. Indeed, that is something (really) different. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.I have opposite experiences. I was very clear about what I wanted, which was .... a long term relation, maybe marriage, and children. I had very many interested women who just wanted, were looking for, the same. ps. Maybe important, I was over thirty years old, not a "boy". And the women too, started with 27-28. Up to 40 plus a little. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop?Babalar, go to the delicatesse shop and buy there your (expensive) bacon. Because it is expensive there there will not be a long row. Or buy a nice piece of fish, or e expensive Angus steak, or some kind of mushrooms. And ... go on the quitest (like in less people / customers) time so there is a moment there is no que / row. Go drink in a better place a cup of coffee and then praise your cofffee and ask her if it is pure Arabica coffee or a mix. Same for thea. The thing is start looking and thin… | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Being calmFirst you will TRY not to .... - put girls on pedestal - get under pressure and become nervous - care about their satisfaction - seek VALIDATION First be beware, know what you are doing wrong, what are your communication problems. They are listed above. Try not to communicate like that. So you start and where you go wrong in your communication, every time again, you try to do it better next time. Too, pay attention to others. What do they do good, what wrong. Learn from them. Be open to everythi… | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Being calmPRACTICE IT !!! | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop? Just say something (unexpected) but something neutral or funny. Then it is up to her how to react. For a woman starting conversation is not so easy, too. So you give her a chance to start some conversation. When she likes you and want to talk with you, and maybe more (like maybe have a coffee some time ), she will take her chance and reply or react on you. If she is not interested she will just say something like, yes, that is true, or only smile for half a second and then turn away from you. … | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop?Such a "cold" aproach is not easy, so I only date working women. Like I go to the supermarket and buy bacon. The young woman gives me my bacon, ad asks, is there something else, do you want / need etc. Then I say something what nobody expects. So I ask her, I need the receipt how to "make" bacon. So she has information ... I do not have somebody who bakes my bacon, so ... I "m single and not living with my mother. Her answer was, I will come to your place after my work and will bake it for you. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 09:20 AM |
| 2 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightI 'm still trying to educate myself, and, so I agree on that. But, as an older person, I'm not that strict and harsh anymore. If you like the guy really much, why don't give it a try. Maybe he is a good student. In Nature you have flowers which are beautiful in spring. In German language, Krokus, Priemel, flowers like that. Too you have summer and even autumn flowers. Not every body / flower is, has to be the same. So again, if I was OP, I would give it a try. There are worse things in life of w… | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 08:35 AM |
| 2 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightAt some moment he will realise it. Somewhere between ??? 40 and 55? So maybe he does not think about it, but life will show him the reality. But now, sinc year 2000 viagra, cialis and more of that can help him to stay longer like a stud. But for me pesonal, I started at that age to like much more to please and tease a woman, to really get her mad. That much that my desire was not that important, at that moment, that time. Next time I will be the one to enjoy, now it is her time. I will let her b… | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 12:05 PM |
| 2 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightMaybe, but why do not try? But it's sure up to the woman. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 11:34 AM |
| 2 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightAs an old (hu)man I can tell you, you are never too old to learn. ( I "m still learning !!) And age 45 and learning at sexual beavior and anatomy for sure is possible. At that age your body changes, your personality and mentality changes, you have some experiences, not only sexual but life experiences. And your hormones, and testosteron, is slowly getting lower so maybe you have more rest and peace and patience in you, what results in a basic to become a good lover. I would suggest, enthousiam h… | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 11:20 AM |
| 2 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightOkay, but a handsome guy you still can teach him about anatomy AND about how he has to handle you to make you happy. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 09:59 AM |
| 1 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightIf something has to be heated up, put it on a stove. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Inexpensive hobbies to pick up to meet people?The magic word is TO DO. Join, commit, help. start, organise, follow. Just do not stay at home waiting untill mister or misses Wonderfull rings at your doorbell and ask if she / he can come in and stay with you forever. | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Inexpensive hobbies to pick up to meet people?Animal protection, saving, asyl - VOLUNTEER Every kind of social volunteer. Clima saving. Dancing groups, lessons, clubs. Church, religion. Singing, chores, instrument playing, bands, amateur theatre, Scouting, working with youth or elderly or volunteer at an organised day out for handicapped people. Painting, aquarel amateur group, learning drawing. (Social) nabourhood work. Learn massage (sport, wellness, Asian, Swedish). And give massage. Garden, nature, flower binding, volunteer at children-… | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How to impress a guy on first date?Indeed, pay for the date, buy the drinks. And ask when you two can see eachother again. That is what a woman did to me and we are a couple since then, now 20 years. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Spent the entire day just asking where's the closest StarbucksMy best tips to men to meet and get in contact with women are ... Be there where you can meet women (in the age you want). Ofcourse !! I know. The best was I enjoyed as a volunteer a social help institute (because I like that kind of work) where I was suprised, that our team, from the 55 volunteers were 50 female! Our work was talking at the phone., being available 7 x 24 for lonely people, people who need advice or even urgent advice, had problemms and wanted to talk with and about addiction, s… | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 08:02 AM |
| 1 | This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with womenI do not use (any) drug. Even now, when joints are allowed to smoke here. In my country, in my younger years, rolling your own cgarette was very common. Too, because it was cheaper then smoking "ready" cigarettes. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with womenYes. laughing without eye movement feels even negative, very cold. It even can make the other afraid, gives an unpleasant feeling. | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 09:41 AM |
| 2 | This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with womenI copy from MetronTheCollector ........ .......... gently raise the corner of your eyes I noticed in the Philippines, where I lived several years, that is THE way to say hello. It is positive, like an invitation to contact, like a smile. The good thing is you can see it from a distance, and it is always positive and it says that approaching is welcome. | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 09:36 AM |
| 2 | This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with womenDepends of the situation. Are you standing, or sitting or .... and so on. But too, WHAT message do you want to send. When you want to message you are a real macho man (lol) you put your thumbs behing your belt.Like the cowboys in the old western movies. Just an example. Just an annecdote; before, when I was still a smoker, I made (roll) my cigarettes myself, from tobacco and a (special) paper. A woman told me later (we lived together 3 years) it turned her on to see my fingers roll that cigarett… | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 09:30 AM |
| 3 | This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with womenFirst, you THINK everybody notices, but that is just not true. Too, everybody is nervous. Like everything, practice. join people, clubs, everything where you meet people and talk with everybody (not only the women in which you are interested in but m / f / young / old. Just become in this way an easy talker. When you are nervous, stressed or afraid in a situation, do not walk away. Stay there because after some minutes you have noticed nothing bad happened and your body will relax, you will beco… | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 09:54 AM |
| 6 | This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with womenOpen your eyes good, do not stare. If somebody is paying attention he blinks with his whimpers (eye lashes) When you are enthousiastic your eyes spankle like stars. So talk about things which make you enthousiastic! Practice in front of a mirror so you see the difference itself and get a feeling for it. There are many books about body language. Witten for several purposes, like sales, investigation, and very many about flirting and signs between men and women. I like the books of the writersco… | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 09:42 AM |
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