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| -1 | 95% of people shopping in Whole Foods during working hours are women.dishwashers and central heating invented by women lol Also OP, I was driving past a McDonalds today and 80% of the people there were men. Maybe women just give more shits about their health — McD’s isn’t even cheap anymore | /r/MensRights | 29/03/25 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Another Male student punished over his hair at school.Well I said something he didn’t like, so it must be that I am uneducated lol Funny thing is, I agree that bro should be able to get a haircut. How this is about women of men’s rights…it’s not. This is a specific case, would have been about either gender. Women should be able to get haircuts too. wtf, this isn’t a gender issue at all. It’s just a snooty school being snooty | /r/MensRights | 10/10/24 04:30 PM |
| -1 | Another Male student punished over his hair at school.Perhaps you should try not to make everything about your burning hatred of women. It’s nice out today 🌞 but it would be so much nicer is WOMEN didn’t exist lol Yeesh. Focus on yourself dude lol also, 0 to do with education. These aren’t logical leaps, they are red-eyes across time zones ✈️ | /r/MensRights | 10/10/24 04:23 PM |
| -13 | Another Male student punished over his hair at school.Bro should be able to get a haircut, especially for medical reasons. Not sure how you made this about women though. Literally 0 connection other than projection | /r/MensRights | 10/10/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts.To me this is another manifestation of toxic masculinity. It’s toxic masculinity that preventing people from getting help or reporting this abusive behavior at the same levels that women do because it’s rooted in the idea that SA happens to women, and therefore the victim is weak or “less of a man”if it happens to them. Masculinity itself isn’t toxic. Just the facets of it that suggest that being more similar to women in any way is inferior. This has that imprint | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | There is good reason to not trust men.Girl you need to cut every dude in your life tf out and start over I’m in my 30s and I don’t have any men in my life that make jokes like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractiveI think it’s a bit of a psychological trick. People want what they can’t have. That’s true for men too, for just people, in general. I have found that when I’m legit uninterested, people get very interested. And when I’m keen, there’s more cat and mouse going on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friendslol I agree with this, my gfs def get into the details and honestly most women do barring something obviously warranting privacy But personally I’m not offended if a guys talks about our sex life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?Yeah they are kinda running the industry lately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickI see. And in general, are there more male or female instagram models posting about their lives, and who is the primary audience for this content? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:15 PM |
| – | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?Sounds like rage bait for clicks tho, ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:45 AM |
| 3 | Nobody ever died from the house not being perfectly clean and tidy all the time, yet women's complaints that the man doesn't help around the house enough are taken super seriously, but a man is called a selfish asshole if he complains about lack of sexDon’t think people die from lack of sex either This is a very apples and oranges comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 07:01 PM |
| – | If muscles dont matter for women why are strippers/exotic dancers muscularThey’re muscular because the type of dancing they do is actually very physically demanding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | For those concerned with body count...especially considering that according to statistics, men are significantly more likely to cheat, ammrite? I have a large group of girlfriends, many of whom are married now. Of about 10 women, there were three or four that were more promiscuous than the rest. Of those, two are now married with children, and I would say that overall, their domestic life seems healthy. they grew up in unstable homes without fathers, and now that they've created that for themselves, they would sacrifice anything to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | For those concerned with body count...Oh, you mean like, maybe they were hitting up the prostitutes before they got married and then walked a straight line once they found their Madonna? First of all, be both know that’s horse shit. Second of all, how is that any different than a “Stacey riding the cock carousel” until she’s ready to settle down? It’s literally…the same thing. So…🙃 Sounds like another textbook case of projection, Batman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | For those concerned with body count...I see, and what do you make of child brides, which have also been a consistent theme throughout many cultures throughout human history? Is that not pedo vibes to you? And I’m guessing you don’t have the capacity to see the double standard of wanting to marry a chaste woman wild boning sex workers on the side? I’d like to marry a stable, wealthy, loyal guy who worships me and bone bad boy chads on the side. You see how that sounds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | For those concerned with body count...Yeah, that’s why crazy people raise young girls completely isolated from society and then marry them off at 13 to old men. It’s also a big driver behind ya know…pedos. “Innocence and chastity” Chastity was prized for one reason only: men wanted to be sure that the child was theirs. Having a child with a virgin was the best way to ensure that. We have paternity tests now, so adapt with the times Just because it’s been done before, doesn’t mean it matters. Prostitution has also been consistent all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 07:23 PM |
| 2 | For those concerned with body count...I genuinely think this is some weird foreign propaganda push to create fragmentation between the genders. Most “body count” posts sound ESL and I’m 33. Not one…NOT ONE guy has ever asked me about this before. They don’t care. On my period? Don’t care. Have a boyfriend? Don’t care. Have an STD? They don’t ask. I’m usually the one insisting on wearing a condom. Then to go online and see this fake narrative push about “body counts” and women baby trapping it’s pretty clear that it’s proactive misin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | For those concerned with body count...I have never once been asked about this. This is a new thing that is part of some propaganda push telling men they should give a shit. I first heard the term “body count” within the last year or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Does it not concern men that their low/no body count partner might one day realize "Hey I've only slept with 1 or 2 dudes? I want to see what's out there before I die!"The whole body count thing stems from insecurity that they aren’t adequate performers in bed and would like their partner to have no frame of reference of good in bed vs bad in bed looks like. Trying to bend biology to it. Two of the most promiscuous girls I knew in high school got married and are living the mom life now, happy as can be. I would genuinely say they are some of the most contented of all my friends in their marriages because part of what motivated their promiscuous was a desire fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Does it not concern men that their low/no body count partner might one day realize "Hey I've only slept with 1 or 2 dudes? I want to see what's out there before I die!"Lmao makes sense to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Sex is the most important aspect of a relationship.Cats are awesome and I love wine so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Men are not safer walking alone at night than women nor do women fear being victims of crime more than men. Here's what data really shows:And you think those two factors account for the 4x-5x disparity in the numbers? C’mon now. When’s the last time you heard of a woman breaking into strangers houses and murdering 4 people a la Moscow Idaho? Murder-famicide-suicide a La the 13 people killed in Utah and NC over the last 48 hours? The serial killer in CA who killed 7 people over the summer? What about the fact that when it comes to public mass shootings, it’s pretty much 100% males, and it’s not like women are just “getting away wit… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/23 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Men are not safer walking alone at night than women nor do women fear being victims of crime more than men. Here's what data really shows:so what youre saying is, women actually offend at similar rates....but they are so much smarter than men, that they get away with it about 5x as often? damn, that means women are just much smarter and more strategic? | /r/MensRights | 07/01/23 07:53 PM |
| -7 | Don't you think the term "incel" is misrepresenting by toxic crazy bitches on the internet, especially on Reddit?Yeah it’s interesting that the lingo has finally caught up with what men have been using to disparage women for centuries. I’m honestly surprised it took so long. I remember when I first heard the term “Fuckboi,” I was like…about time! You know, like slut, whore, witch, bitch, cunt, tramp, skank, hag, welfare queen, spinster, bimbo, gold digger, etc Not so fun when you’re on the Recieving end of it i take it? Yeah, wasn’t so fun for women either. And let’s not forget, some women were literally K… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/01/23 01:28 AM |
| -1 | Men are not safer walking alone at night than women nor do women fear being victims of crime more than men. Here's what data really shows:well, all "female criminals" are women, buddy. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/23 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Paternity Tests, why is it so taboo?theyre taboo because they basically imply distrust and that the woman has possibly had more than one partner. i probably wouldnt like it because of those underlying implications, but I would do it if they really wanted it. no one likes having their loyalty brought into question i guess. same sort of reaction when a women asks to see your phone | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How is it that this subreddit has 35% more memebers than r/feminism subreddit?there are about 2x as many men on Reddit overall as a platform than there are women. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are not safer walking alone at night than women nor do women fear being victims of crime more than men. Here's what data really shows:i don't look down on you because of your gender. I don't hate men at all. I dont know you at the end of the day, we're going to have to face the actual cause and go from there if we want any actual progress in these issues. and when we look into the cause of these problems...well, were going to have to face men's externalization of violence against others...both men and women. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Men are not safer walking alone at night than women nor do women fear being victims of crime more than men. Here's what data really shows:You think they fail 99% of the time? C’mon now. Also, I never heard of this woman. But what I did hear of from around that time was the uvalde Texas shooting, in which a boy DID kill 19 kids. You hear of that one? Or columbine? Or newtown? Pulse nightclub? Aurora theater? Santa Barbara college? Las Vegas concert? BuT OnE tImE a WoMaN TrIEd To Do WhAT MeN Do AlL tHe TiME sO lEtS FoCuS oN ThAT | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 09:26 PM |
| -2 | Men are not safer walking alone at night than women nor do women fear being victims of crime more than men. Here's what data really shows:I literally never said black people at all, but I can see how this arguments is going to go (you’ll make up what “I said”) and then act like you had some valid point. It’s called a “red herring” argument. Men commit the majority of crimes against both men and women. Facts. When the last time a women shot up a school, church, grocery store, movie theater, etc? What percentage of violent offenders are women? Let’s bring in your arch nemesis, actual data, shall we? https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 09:03 PM |
| -2 | Men are not safer walking alone at night than women nor do women fear being victims of crime more than men. Here's what data really shows:Lmao 🤣 “Support my arguements or you’re racist” Just saying. Vast majority of violent offenders, against BOTH men and women, are men. Which, btw, is also the same answer to the tired ass “women should go to war” argument. Uhhh….not really. Women aren’t usually the ones starting war, bombing people, and so on… Like sure men get victimized too…by other men. The problem is still men. That’s kinda the whole enchilada. No one has to go to war or be a victim of violent crime if men are just ya know, h… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 08:11 PM |
| 2 | the harder women make it to get pussy, the more immoral men will be to get itLmao the funny thing is that these numbers show that more men actually get it than women But BoDy CoUnT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:02 AM |
| 2 | the harder women make it to get pussy, the more immoral men will be to get itBummer you have to rely on some sort of power superiority dynamic instead of ya know, partnership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:00 AM |
| -4 | Men are not safer walking alone at night than women nor do women fear being victims of crime more than men. Here's what data really shows:I see. And what about the spread of the attackers…hmmm? Is it women attacking men? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 10:31 AM |
| 0 | I’ve heard this trend of women freezing their eggs for “later “ so they can go about an conquer the world.No it isn’t 😂 wtf There are all kinds of risks associated with teen pregnancy for both the mom and child. Healthiest window is actually late 20s | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/01/23 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Physical Attractiveness is the Strongest Predictor of Initial Romantic Interest in Both Sexes; No Evidence Male Personality Plays Any Role for Women (Luo & Zhang, 2009)that is incorrect | /r/BlackPillScience | 25/12/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!So when text is different color in-line, it is clickable. It’s called a hyperlink. So when you see that, you can click on it, and you can go to the actual study Just fyi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Yeah, empaths usually are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 01:01 PM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!First of all, Wikipedia is fairly credible, updated in real time. Main thing is that it updates faster in real time which of course makes it more prone to error, but that usually gets ironed out over time, and fairly quickly too. Second of all, I did actually link the studIES in other comments. It’s just not worth it. If you aren’t willing to do the bare minimum, just drop it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:58 PM |
| -1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:31 PM |
| -1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Do you know what hyperlinks are? You see, if text is blue and underlined, it’s clickable. I know, modern tech is wild I’m not your servant. Studies are there, if you want to see them, by all means. If you dont, don’t. Honestly, I don’t care either way. Always cracks me up when people grasp at straws to be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!no, no it was not. never redacted, never republished. you are talking about a different study that did still find a higher correlation of diagnosed women ending up divorced, just to a smaller degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!its not my fault people started analyzing a different study about different health conditions i recall from stats that if youre going to analyze someones assertion on a given study, you need to look at the same data set | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!divorce rates go down with age, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:24 PM |
| -1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!try analyzing the study I was actually talking about instead of a totally different one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:23 PM |
| -5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!you know whats funny? the "subsequent" one wasnt even related! measuring outcomes based on different diagnosis's but I guess that somehow discredits a study measuring the outcomes of different diagnosises? well that and the fact tht you dont like the results, which is the most scientific thing of all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:22 PM |
| -10 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!yeah, its so dumb when women converse at all ammirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:19 PM |
| -8 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!lmao, stalker.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!See linked studies in post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!oh, you mean the one by "stanford university? " or the one by "Brown university?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!wow, that is actually very interesting and does suggest that the financial aspect of the diagnosis is a significant variable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!They’re in there now 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Lombok so even when they are providing care for the their sick husbands, they are still evil money grubbers 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Wow, it’s crazy how few people asked for you to link it. I was about to be burned at the stake there! You see, that’s a big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!That’s a very interesting perspective and it’s what the 2009 researchers suggested as the cause. That women tend to cultivate larger networks so their family and friends help a bit whereas a man is more emotionally dependent on his wife and if she can’t support that do to the emotional distress of a diagnosis, he is quicker to leave Of course, that’d only apply to like 20%, but still a significant and disproportional chunk compared to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Yeah I generally take a love for animals and ability to care for them as a good sign That’s actually very cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Thank you! I linked in original post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Financial is the bottom line, and usually the other ones are a byproduct of financial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!They became more selective, because they aren’t financially reliant. Two sides of the same coin my friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!The 2009 and 2001 studies, which were the original ones, were neither redeCted more debunked. The 2015 one focused on different t health conditions, some of which were not terminal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Lmao it’s really not caveats tho! It’s that bottom line! The summary of the researchers is literally “men leave women when they’re sick.” Everyone else is focusing on caveats and trying to find alternative explanations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!That’s cute <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:35 PM |
| -2 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Linked in there and there’s another one that says the same thing for your fapping pleasure ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:33 PM |
| -9 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!No, I’m only responding to comments that sound like there’s even the slightest neural activity behind them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:33 PM |
| -1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Of course not! Why would you ever look into something that contradicts the fragile world view you pin so much identity to? Very scientific and logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Posted repeatedly, this arguments BEEN dead but cling to whatever you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!It’s not questionable At all. It’s pretty reliable and the data that was pretty black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!I posted it numerous times. Learn how to scroll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:04 AM |
| 6 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Apparently not when their husbands gets terminal illness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:24 AM |
| 5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Yes, women are all money grubbers and take care of ailing husbands out of greed. Even the good things they do are bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:15 AM |
| 21 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!I honestly think that many men wish it was still like this very much. Financial control = control over another person. Women having their own $$ has really made things hard for people who didn’t have actual partnership to offer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Yeesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Both can be true. Even if that is age of peak attraction, doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted to and down to be in relationships with older women. I am so grateful for the men in my life. I know a FEW who had women in early 20s express interest, but they weren’t interested because they’re at different places. Attraction is an important factor, but it’s not the only one. Most men worth dating would just in general, be more attracted to someone they like, relate to, respect, like spending time with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:02 AM |
| 5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Lmao I love when people dismiss research because they don’t like it. Waaaa Actually, that one I just posted was the OG study I was talking about in which the 7x was found | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:55 AM |
| 6 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Women work full time too. They are performing double duty the whole time. Just because they earn less does not mean they don’t work as hard. In fact, some of the hardest working people in our society in general make the least And men are just as capable of caregiving, give me a break | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:52 AM |
| -2 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Woof, we’re not going through this again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!They might be attracted to them That doesn’t mean they can get them And it doesn’t mean they are down for older women either. Both genders will take the best they can get You know, I’m lucky. I have a big social circle and many married couples in the mix. While I hear of older cats dating younger women, I haven’t actually seen it first hand in a serious relationship kinda way. Empirically, it doesn’t happen very often unless we’re talking very very wealthy guys, and of course, there aren’t that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Posted numerous times, but I’m not your caregiver so not gonna serve you with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:42 AM |
| 18 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Yes and men just get more chipper and rugged with age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:41 AM |
| 4 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!You wish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:40 AM |
| 9 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Already linked numerous times, but let me get that for ya: https://acsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/cncr.24577 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!In that case, why should any woman ever get married? Aging is inevitable. What a dumb arrangement. Almost makes ya wonder if that’s when the 70% of divorces get files! You know, preemptive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:35 AM |
| 6 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm “A woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient, according to a study that examined the role gender played in so-called "partner abandonment." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!2 different studies linked in earlier comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Jesus. Under that logic, literally every marriage would crumble when the woman hits 45-50/menopause. Anyone who bases another persons value entirely on their fertility is not suitable for marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Would only really be relevant if you’re trying to have kids. Makes sense if you’re trying to keep the t option of a family on the table, but if not, not really. Because these types of diseases tend to occur at higher rates in 40, 50+ type situations, their spouses probably aren’t too concerned with their fertility at that point. This MIGHT be a factor for women in their fertile years being diagnosed if their husbands want a family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Initiated in 2009 by oncologist who observed that women often battled terminal illness alone, so they studied it. Then confirmed again in 2015 in a study with more than 5x the sample size | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:04 AM |
| 6 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!I think the intuitive reason is that men are more likely to expect caregiving later in life and are not expecting to have to give it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:01 AM |
| 7 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Here’s a 2015 study follow up: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26315504/ “We find that only measures of wife's illness onset are associated with elevated risk of divorce, while measures of either spouse's illness onset is associated with elevated risk of widowhood. Further, in the case of heart problems, we find that this gender difference is statistically significant.” And this is the OG study: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:59 AM |
| -1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Yeah, I’m sure there’s a perfectly wholesome explanation of 700% increase in likelihood for spousal abandonment in which those husbands are actually all good guys. I mean there MuST be, right?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Yeah. In these cases it was brain cancer and MS Here’s the Og study https://acsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/cncr.24577 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:45 AM |
| 8 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Yeesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:37 AM |
| 4 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!I doubt it. Most of the researchers speculated that men just didn’t want to deal with it an dipped. It so common that often, when getting the diagnosis, women are also warned about “partner abandonment.” In some states, you can be criminally charged for divorcing and withholding financial resources from a sick spouse. Hmmm…I wonder how those laws came about? Can you imagine the stink that would be raised if the inverse were truth? Shit, we’d never hear the end of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Why would a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:22 AM |
| 9 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!No it wasn’t In fact, the original study came out in 2009 and was confirmed in 2015 with 5x the sample size. Downvote all you want. But friendly reminder: just because you don’t like what you’re hearing, doesn’t mean it’s not true There’s always the option of sticking your fingers in your ears and going LA lA LA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Well, those experiences are verifiable for me so 🤷🏼♀️ Besides, who wants to date someone who only wants them for their looks? Sounds like the kinda guy who will leave you if you ever get brain cancer , but fully expect you to care for him if he gets sick If he don’t like your crows feet, he won’t like your chemo look either Get a cat and tell him to kick rocks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:12 AM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Right, so this would support the conjecture that men view women as in-home care insurance policies for their old age at rates much more than women view their husbands this way…something they can get out of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!How does men leaving terminally Ill women at 7x the rate lead to “that’s why men want younger women” in your mind? Does not follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!But you said “men want younger women.” Then you changed your point and said “both.” But it’s not about both — this whole post is highlighting the difference, and your first comment is one directional. Not both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:59 AM |
| 5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Doesn’t make sense We’re pointing out a disparity. Women don’t leave when shit gets real, but men do. How on earth does that support “that’s why men want younger women?” Does not follow Yikes, Polly needs a new line | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:53 AM |
| 7 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!That’s an interesting point, could be a protective measure. But if that was the case — that is, for legal reasons, it’s more financially viable to divorce — women would do the same, wouldn’t they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:51 AM |
| 8 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!?? How does this prove that? If anything, it suggests that 20% of men just want women to take care of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!Why is it lowering my standards if it’s more competitive? Wouldn’t that be upping my game? Quite frankly, I’ve gone on a couple dates with younger guys recently just to test it out (my 3 LTRs have been with guys between 3-8 years older). It’s been great. The one I’ve been seeing the most is super sweet and romantic and almost seems like he wants to “step up” to the fact that I’m 3 years older. Why is it insanity mode if women date younger guys? Why do you think milf is such a big category in por… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornChris hemsworth sub has 3000 subscribers. Sydney Sweeney: hundreds of thousands . “Milliebobbuebrown18please” has nearly 92k So ok, I guess they do at about 2% the rate that men do 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornNo one’s policing anything, but it’s funny that so many of female character introductions always includes some description of their breasts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornA good look at comments in this thread will show ya, it’s more widespread than you would think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornYour article was also about a survey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornhttps://www.thecut.com/2016/08/women-helmed-films-have-smaller-budgets-bigger-returns.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 10:24 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornYeah and can be helpful for someone who is inexperienced to sort of get the main idea. This is not a porn should be banned post. This is more like…what will the ramifications be when people, but notably men, start consuming porn at a young age, without full executive functioning COUPLED with a refusal to engage with womens perspective (in this case, music or film or other art forms)? I believe the human mind is basically an algorithmic sponge, as much as we like to think we’re above it. The risk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornhttps://www.bbc.com/news/health-40814082.amp Also, I really don’t think that asking men “have you ever kissed or touched someone who didn’t want it?” Is a good way to gauge sexual aggression… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornhttps://www.bbc.com/news/health-40814082.amp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 09:23 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornIn my book, that’s cool. Actually one of my early feeler questions is who’s your favorite female musician? Juuust like to see they aren’t from the “all women art forms are dumb and their stories aren’t worth engaging with” camp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornRight, because by and large, men don’t engage with womens media. They often run on a default assumption that its trash. I would be willing to bet that the womens literature buyers are mostly women, and the mens are mostly men, but women are in the mix pushing them to the tip of the best sellers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornBingo Meanwhile, women engage with male media quite a bit. So much so that whenever I’m on a date and a guy asks me what music I like, I always hit them with Taylor swift or Beyoncé. I like all kinds of music…country, rap, oldies, indie. But I kinda like to see their reaction, because i have a theory there’s a quiet expectation that they think I’m gonna say something they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornThey are few and far in between because women receive less than 2% of big-budget film funds. They also receive less than 2.5% of all venture capital. Now to be fair, they aren’t applying at the same rates as men. But in the latter, they make up about 30% of all applicants for venture capital, so it is still a gross under representation. Additionally for films, when they do get funded, the allotment is on average, 63% less than male directors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornYeah, of course. I also don’t see it as an all or nothing, porn should be banned type thing. The specific concern is that young men, teens and early adulthood, who’s brains are still forming (executive function in particular) coupled with peak sex drive consuming this content is probably distorting their overall perception of women and gender relations too. And actually, women too, but as you’re pointing out here, likely to a lesser degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornYeah that’s an interesting shift and likely where things are headed in the long run, though we’re probably in a confusing state of transition of long held cultural norms. I’m fortunate to come from a family with what I would characterized as overall, very healthy relationships and successful marriages, where families stay together into old age and what not. One commonality I have noticed is that the woman initiated these relationships. Personally, I have initiated before. Mostly in creating the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornActually nothing that I would categorize as a direct approach, just casual conversation start (one told me a local beer was good when I was kinda hesitating about whether or not I should order), one said they never saw a jacket like the one I was wearing and I said thanks and that was that. However, I don’t think men are done with women. Men are still on dating apps in large numbers and in large gatherings. Sure, they go there to meet up with friends and enjoy themselves, but I’m sure the prospe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornFat women are allowed to have sex lives and sing/talk about it if they want. Why people get so worked up about lizzo is a mystery to me. Like who cares? I’m not a big fan of a lot of singers but I’m sure as hell not mad about it, let alone foaming at the mouth about it and weighing in on “their health” Even women who don’t even really associate with sex, for example, comedian and actress Melissa McCarthy get dragged for their weight. I think Cathy Bates might be the only one I can think of who i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 07:25 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornBut that’s exactly what I’m saying. As a trend, it seems to me women are retreating from dating OVeRALL. They are dropping off of dating apps, going out significantly less. I did another post about this noting that ever since the pandemic, observationally and anecdotally, the gender ratio when I go out is much more skewed. Granted, in my city, even prior to the pandemic, there were generally more men out and about than women at bars, events, concerts etc., but usually it was maybe a 10-20% diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornI mean you’re right that women participate in the mud slinging too; but not exclusively and I think that’s based on years and years of internalizing that your weight is inversely correlated to your value as a human. Also, many larger men are in mainstream media and wildly respected for their craft. Actors, singers, comedians. Take John Goodman, Chris Farley, jame gandolfoni, etc. respected as actors, weight not a common thing brought up for them. Women who got famous for say, singing, not their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornYou know I’ve never really heard fat men get dragged on social media, but everyone stand back if a fat woman hits any type of success, even if completely unrelated to her appearance , because people can’t stand fat women being happy or successful without weighing in on their weight and making it their business. Little known secret: Women are judged on appearances too. That’s what the $50 billion/year (US) cosmetics industry is predicated on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same?Four of the most sexually active people I knew in college are now coupled off, married, welcoming children, and making BANK. They are actually significantly better off than my more conservative friends 😂 I’m hindsight, they were all just go getters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornR/menwritingwomen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:05 PM |
| 0 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornThanks for confirming my point that female led media is “beneath” men and therefore for many, porn makes up too high of a proportion of the media they consume in regards to women (or other films in which the characters are written by males, one dimensional) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 0 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornNo I just don’t read counterpoints that open up is such a ignorant, unproductive way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornIt doesn’t work like that. It’s programming and warping of the subconscious. I happen to know SEVERAL women who stopped using dating apps after bad sexual interactions in which they felt unsafe and violated. Unconfirmed but mostly likely by dude who watch too much damn porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornThat’s really not the point. It’s not that they think it’s real. It’s that they subconsciously internalize the images, presentations of women and don’t counteract that with other forms of media that would round women out as human beings and not just sex objects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:59 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornYeah, nothing like a media detox to really recalibrate to actual reality. I work in media and now that I have a good understanding of what the KPIs are in the industry, I understand it is literally meant the programs peoples thinking. It’s greatest power is that people don’t realize that the brain will start to believe the most far fetched stuff if it has enough repeat exposure to it. Once you see how the sausage is made, you can’t under it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:25 PM |
| 0 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornNot according to this thread. And they may very well be into it, but most still expect some conversation in advance. You dont lead with punches and anal Btw, women are being adversely programmed here too. They see that, think that’s what men want, and start to warp their own sense of sexuality around it too. Enough media consumption around ANYTHING with make people change their psychology around it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornThere is. But not everyone manages that balance well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornSome of them are Trying the things they see in porn on women, who get freaked out and shut down on men overall, thus creating more men with no prospects. The pool is getting smaller. The point is that continually consuming media in which women are degraded and only sexual distorts perceptions. Needs to be balanced out with other kinds of media: where women have career struggles, social circles, family life, etc, to round out the perspective and keep it healthy. Many men go into dating situations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornHonestly idk how I feel about sex work, accept that as it is now, it’s extremely dangerous for those involved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornIt adversely effects your perception of women. As this comes out more and more in real life, women because increasingly averse to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:07 PM |
| 0 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornWas recently reading an askreddit thread about surprising things men did in bed. The most upvotes ones were really funny comments or cool things. But about halfway down, it started getting bad. Punching, slapping, anal without consent, etc. clearly porn influenced behavior. Good chance these women left dating apps and or have a bigger aversion to men now, meaning even few women in the dating pool/fewer opportunities for men to meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornThere’s already significantly more males than females on tinder. That’s why people aren’t getting matches. More men would only worsen the problem. The key would be to get more WOMEN on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornI’m an expert in media. Work in it, studied it, understand how it works, how algorithms work, how trill farms fit in the picture, and how it influences people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornIt really isn’t, but whatever makes you feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:01 PM |
| -1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornLost me after first sentence. Didn’t read the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornAlso a one dimensional view of women, women in porn, because they think learning or understanding womens point of view via other forms of female driven media is beneath them and some kind of agenda push. Nobody tell them that whenever the US is gearing up for war, Hollywood pumps out war hero flicks. I don’t think we’re ready for those convos either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:00 PM |
| -2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornTotally fake, reactionary point of view. Never saw that hashtag until you just commented it here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornIt’s an addiction and denial People greatly underestimate how much the media the consume effects their perceptions of the world. They think they’re above it. They aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornLmao thank you for proving my point that some men literally think women can’t do anything of value other than things they’ve seen in porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornI agree. People really underestimate how much media consumption effects their perception of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 0 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornSomeone should tell Elliott rogers that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:52 PM |
| 0 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornOnly reason it feels like an agenda push is because it’s rarer and less common, therefor going against expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is porn😂😂😂 good luck out there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornI’d say because this is a first of its kind experiment unfolding in real time. Historically it was not this easy to have this much access to this breadth of porn. I can tell you this: I have a large group of girlfriends and I’ve read about this online. Recently more violent and aggressive sexual behavior has escalated, and that’s making women not want to date AT ALL in the first place. Clearly porn influenced - punching, slapping, trying to “face fuck” and all without permission. Obviously this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornYeah the approach is a difficult part and so is having to be resilient in the face of rejection while accommodating changing cultural norms of what is acceptable. But porn distorts what the other gender wants for both genders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:41 PM |
| 4 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornYeah and it’s probably messing women up too in what they THINK men want from them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:39 PM |
| -1 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornOr maybe they should consider what’s being said. Porn contorts the perception of who women are and what they want. Fewer of them want to date, more men without dating prospects, Making them susceptible to RP bullshit because they think secretly women want to be abused and get stuck in dryers and things like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornIt’s hurting their perception of women in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaLmao, welcome to the tiniest taste of womanhood! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | What gender cheats more?Men cheat significantly more often | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, what differentiates men who are successful with women?They have high EQ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Physical Attractiveness is the Strongest Predictor of Initial Romantic Interest in Both Sexes; No Evidence Male Personality Plays Any Role for Women (Luo & Zhang, 2009)Ahhh yeah, nothing like a 14 year old study with a 100 person sample size, one/time speed dating event to prove a point | /r/BlackPillScience | 27/09/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | How are women finding dates in 2022?I like to get referrals through friends and people I really trust. I became single again after a 6 year relationship at 28. And let me say…the last few years have been weird. It seems like men want much rougher sex, anal, and just weird “this definitely came from porn” type shit in sex now. I think porn is very much hurting male female relationships. I would pretty much never meet a dude at random. Guy I am dating now came recommended by a family member and a longtime friend. Still wants porn se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believeDude listening to RP is the worst thing they can do. Like work out, upgrade your style, force yourself into social situation ok, but don’t immerse yourself in toxic misogyny, that’s only going to further fracture gender relations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | In general do men really get better with age and become more attractive to women?Minus a few silver foxes and men in power, not at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Bring To The TableGot I hate this generic RP rhetoric | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Women, how important is finances?It’s a factor. Not an end, be all, but certainly that can up or down my interest. I just want to see some ability to be dedicated, responsible, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?I think that online, RP is heavily teen guys. Also a fair amount of narrative push in there by very questionable accounts Not that there aren’t real people in the mix and I do think these tactics have been effective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.Ummm…remember the tinder swindler? Shitty people come in many forms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What is the most ''flawed'' archetype of a person you'd date?I can handle jealous guys because I’m not very flirty naturally, even though I do attract attention. I’ve dated people who had been cheated on and had trust issues and I honestly think I helped them recover from that particular pain because I never upset that dynamic. But then we get caught up on other, unrelated issues so still not great. Just in this way, I can handle it Although, sometimes I find jealous guys can be jealous over your attention — from anyone — not just romantic competition (th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 04:02 AM |
| 0 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Weak troll farm output | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Lmao 🤣 what a nonsensical response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Who’s mad? Live and let live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysinteresting hypothesis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.The scientific one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Oh yeah? Link them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Extensive data from the CDC? Meanwhile people are linking a 20 year old study that hasn’t been followed up on that very loosely correlated high partner count with marital satisfaction, and this is unquestionable truth? C’mon now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.You. You’re basically saying “data doesn’t fit my point of view, so people must be lying.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Tiny sample size from a decade ago… Man, moving forward, let’s look at real studies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm Linked numerous times in the comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.“It doesn’t fit my narrative, so it must not be true” Sounds like a well adjusted viewpoint that is receptive to new information | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Very interesting observation. You’d think in that case, they’d embraced promiscuity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Dude I know right? I always found this interesting and revealing. If a “slutty” woman was down, they’d probably let the body count thing go More promiscuous women are also in general, more experimental and might be more open to “teaching” someone stuff about sex than more reserved women, so they really are these mens best bet. They should be seeking them out, not deriding them on the internet, it’s very warped logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Imagine dismissing actual data as lies because it doesn’t fit your worldview | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I’m not refusing to see anything, that was the data set available | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I think mythbusting some of these prevailing falsities is a good start. And I also think that we need to destigmatize “incel” in the literal sense of the term. That it’s been so heavily associated with misogyny it’s probably some political attempt to further fracture society, one that’s working. But there is nothing wrong with being an incel in the literal sense of the term, nor desiring intimacy with women. Perfectly rational, perfectly natural I really think that the main problem in these comm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.One thing I was thinking about with this is that it could be that men are having sex with younger women as this survey covers people ages 25-44 Also, it could be about distribution. It looks like there are significantly more males with high n counts than females, so those guys are getting around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Yikes!!! Yes, women who are sex trafficked have higher and. This does not prove your point whatsoever, and the way you even brought this study up was suggesting something else all together! I’m sure men who have been trafficked have higher and counts as well so it’s a moot point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Ahhh so when it doesn’t fit your belief, thousands of people are lying, but when a 20 year old study shows something that loosely supports your world view, it’s definitely true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.“Doesn’t fit my narrative…women are bad” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.It’s funny that a much more comprehensive data set that clearly shows a specific trend is just a possibility” but an old study from 2004 with 0 follow up is gospel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.No, the observed age group was 25-44 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.“There have been studies” Ugh, just link them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Men, what do you think of women who love to travel?Misinformation campaign ^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Men, what do you think of women who love to travel?The linked page literally says that it occurs at rates lower than men in the first paragraph. Man you really keep spreading disinformation nonsense, and I find it hard to believe you’re “overlooking” all this I actually think this is an excellent case of intentional misleading disinformation and hate bait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.You can literally discredit any data from any survey with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:43 PM |
| 6 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Agreed. And actually, excellent point about sexual inexperience. You’re actually bringing to light something I hadn’t really considered, which is that essentially, these guys are intimidated that prior partners will “outperform” them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.You know what, this is actually interesting. Honestly, I wouldn’t know. I have never asked, nor been asked about my n count, so I can’t speak to this. Of all these comments, this one seems to have something, kinda like…anecdotally, women are benchmarking partner counts much higher. Sometimes RP confuses me, because you’d think they’d be cheering on promiscuity. Sexually open women are their best bet for breaking the ice, and once the ice is broken, a lot of sexual anxiety is alleviated which mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 6 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Wow, that was a lot of nonsensical word vomit. Who’s paying you to post this shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Tbh, sounds like you got a dime that many fellas are lusting after. But she likes you, so you must be doing something they aren’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Oooo good comeback | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.why would they lie? anonymously. no reason to i never lie on surveys like that. why would i? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.could be, this data reflects people 25-44. would be interested to see the data for younger men (18-24) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.rates of virginity for both men and women for the observed period are almost the same, starting at about 5% and declining with age. its negligible on the net averages and medians | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.oh my bad. I didnt realize that whenever people brought objective evidence that didnt fit your narrative, "theyre lying" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.we dont like numbers, data, and statistics around here! We just talk shit and focus on studies from 2004 that loosely correlate our beliefs! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.nope, poor data analysis. actually, it suggests that about a quarter of men are mansluts, as you can seen by the >200% higher number of men whove had sex with 15+ people (highest bracket) relative to women looks like most women, about 60% fall between 2-9 partners. Remember this is for people 25-44. So thats literally 2 decades of sexual activity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 11 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.this is coming from the CDC but way to keep it objective and rational. not bitter at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I understand averages just fine. included the medians for a benchmark too ;) sorry, I know its hard when data contradicts the narrative weve been telling ourselves. been there my friend I wonder if this would be your response if women's average and medians were higher im gonna guess...no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.maybe. maybe hes just making things harder for himself, or letting his own sexual insecurities get the best of him. either way, he can sit it out if he so chooses, well within his right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.oh you mean that study from....what was it? 2004? that was never followed up on that for some reason has spread around this sub like wildfire and with minimal critical thinking applied? it was behind a paywall, so I didn't see the actual data. My guess: small sample size, poor accountability for other contributing factors. reasoning: the fact that it hasnt been followed up on in nearly 20 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.those are what we call the swingers ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:39 PM |
| 7 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.good connections are hard to find, and everyone has baggage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Women actually like emotional guysThis may surprise you but womens looks are a big factor and source of insecurity for them too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:28 PM |
| 6 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Valid consideration. But it looks like rates of virginity for males and females for the observed age group (25-44) are pretty close together at less than 5% for each cohort and going down in Tandum with age. In other words, very similar rates that pretty much cancel each other out and wouldn’t have much bearing on net averages and medians https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/03/on-late-in-life-virginity-loss/284412/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Bro, this study is saying that in areas where there are significantly more males than females, there are higher rates of sex trafficking and STD spread Does not support what you’re saying at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I’m done with this convo, it’s so pointless Good luck out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Yeah but would probably cheat first chance he got later in life, as the number show or end up in a reddit forum saying 12 year old giving blowjobs "because she wanted to" and "could make that desicion" bye bye credibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I see, and men are pure of heart then? I like how you highlight one brief, tiny disparity in cheating rates while ignoring the much longer, much higher rates of later years If he’s gonna cheat later in life anyways, why not ride the carousel in their prime? Makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:02 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.No, it was collected by the CDC between 2015-2019 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Most millennials are in their 30s, some in their 40s Not spring chickens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Men are bigger sluts than women, according to these numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:57 PM |
| -2 | Women actually like emotional guysGl with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Men cheat more throughout most of life, and even for the like 4-year window that womens rate of cheating is higher, it’s pretty marginal. Then, for the rest of life. That rate is way overarched by men — and by a much wider margin. Good lord, so one sided it’s wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Yeah, nothing invalidates talking points like an education ammirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I know the difference between average and median, and I included both in this info | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I agree with this 100%! And to back that up, sexual activity for both men and women overall has been on a decline for decades. That’s probably why there’s this dial up in sexualization and promotion of the slutty party girl archetypes Interesting to think that social media seems to be promoting a distortion of reality. I suppose more people are interested in that type of content BECAUSE it sort of validated their insecurities in a time where sexual activity is on a decline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Yeah I’m sure the CDC just made that up for shits and giggles. Also backed by numerous university studies. But I can see you’re an open minded person who is able to adapt to new information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:47 PM |
| 0 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.There is no requirement for it to be 1:1. Yeah, some studs are making rounds. Men are sluttier than women. So why are women painted as the ones riding the dick carousels and their “n count” such a point of fixation? Women are also less likely to cheat, have higher sexual opportunity but are less likely to capitalize on it all and all, and are still villified for it when they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Women actually like emotional guysNope. Im saying that men who can read people well are the ones that get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.So women have fewer partners on average, but this is a bigger point of fixation for men nonsensically? Yeah, I guess we are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.That some big shots get around. But by and large, women have fewer sexual partners than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.As listed in the post, median is about 50% higher for men. Which actually works out mathematically with the averages Good talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:38 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.They are from 2015-2019. Study was also anonymous so no reason to lie really. And just because it doesn’t fit the narrative you’ve been telling yourself doesn’t mea. It’s not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Women actually like emotional guysWell, can’t help you there. Spelled it out pretty clearly in the last comment so if that’s over your head, good luck out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysImagine if women were like “if he watches football, he’s the problem” Like wtf? Get over yourself. What’s the goal here? Can she like Taylor swift? Fruity drinks? Is that ok with you? Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:35 PM |
| 16 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Yeah, kinda sounds like people with higher libidos in general have a harder time in long term, monogamous relationships. speculation here but maybe these are the same people contributing the to incline in polyamorous relationships Shocker But also quite typical of RP to only consider their own point of view. Quite frankly, womens sexual opportunity is fairly high, so the fact that their averages and medians are lower than mens despite this asymmetry suggests that they are significantly less like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.That’s because you don’t actually listen to what’s being said, and opt to cling to your insecurities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysThat’s not what’s being said here. Not denying looks play a role. They do for women Too btw. It’s about how well you’re able to read people. If you’re good at picking up on/communicating both verbally and perhaps more importantly, non verbally, you’ll get laid. Actually opening up emotionally comes more into play after some mutual attraction has been established as a point of connection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:23 PM |
| 6 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Yeah, data and statistics are low IQ. It’s all about blind ideologies and projection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysWell if it’s important to men to have sexual relations/bond with women, they’ll consider what’s important to women Uhhh…duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysCertainly more so than being condescending and dismissive about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I’m not sure, very bizarre preoccupation with “n-count” needed to be addressed for the baseless, insecurity predation that it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:09 PM |
| 10 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Nothing about this study validates ANY of the 4 points you outlined above. Yikes dude Also, the study you linked in your 2 bullet is behind a paywall AND from 2004…almost 2 decades ago. Probably never followed up on, because seems like a pretty loose assumption | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Women actually like emotional guysI think it’s actually sort of the backside to the same thing. Emotional intelligence is good for hooking up with women, which let’s be real, is what RP folks want (and ok, fair enough, nothing wrong with that) But opening up emotionally is important in actual relationships if you want to bond with your partner. But yeah, you’re right. There’s a difference. It’s possible to be emotionally intelligent and unavailable, and players often are. I would say that in my opinion and observation, that is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:57 AM |
| 8 | Women actually like emotional guysLmao because anger isn’t an emotion. It’s pure logic /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:45 AM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.That’s perfectly ok. Not sure how that relates here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:45 AM |
| 7 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysHaha well, enjoy the RP forums then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:41 AM |
| 10 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.The whole n-count thing is at its most fundamental nature, a preoccupation with what other guys are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:40 AM |
| 12 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.I think you missed the entire point of this post, just went in to reiterate your baseless beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Women actually like emotional guysIt’s not about expressing their emotions, although that is important for actual dating and connection. I’m talking about emotional intelligence as in, tuned into how someone else is feeling at the time based on their body language and non verbal cues and going off that. It’s about being able to read people well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Women actually like emotional guysI agree with this distinction. It’s more about being intuitive, able to read body language, and communicate non verbally as well as verbally I think some. Like emotionally open guys too, but in a “drip” delivery. Usually a more advanced relationship too as opposed to the “picking up” part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:31 AM |
| 15 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Very weird criteria to be basing marriage selection on Should be focusing on compatibility And yeah, they exist. But actually, they exist at a much lower rate than men with “high n-counts.” About 13% of women reported having more than 15 partners in an anonymous survey, the highest n-count category. For men…28% did. More than double. So uhhh…who gives a shit? I bet that marriage satisfaction thing is true for men with high sexual partners too. Some people just have higher sex drives and are bett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:29 AM |
| 27 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Because it’s predicated on the assumption that women are “riding the dick carousel” then trying to bag a good guy once they’ve made their rounds. The numbers show that is objectively, statistically, not true. Men have high averages and medians, and I don’t think women generally care that much about that. So it’s just a baseless point that preys on vulnerable male insecurities (women have insecurities too btw, they’re just different and also exploited by whatever political propaganda force spread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Women actually like emotional guysJesus, so are football and UFC. Brutish and Pointless. But hey, people enjoy that so…whatever. That’s their prerogative. You see the difference? Whoever asked you about being an Aries was probably flirting. And you baseically squandered that tiny interest AND validated their beliefs that Aries are assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysAgain, it’s about having high EQ. I brought up the pretty boy thing because I think in general, we subconsciously associate feminine features with higher EQ. Doesn’t always hold up, but association is powerful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysThey do if they can develop high EQ. But impossible to fully remove looks from the equation for either gender. Many women don’t get any attention at all either. I do actually think men have the more daunting role in dating — no disagreements there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Women actually like emotional guysDo what? I’m just saying that a lot of things that RP promotes doesn’t make men more attractive to women. Like yeah working out is good because it makes you healthier, happier, more energetic and sure, more physically attractive. No need to be Jason mamoa. And for real, if we look at famous men who have huge number of women lusting after them, it tends to be more of the “pretty boys.” Justin beiber, boy bands (look at k pop fan bases), harry styles, usher in his heyday…this is sort of the templa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Women actually like emotional guysFair point. Guess I was tying a certain look to sort of signaling emotional intelligence (slightly effeminate features) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Do men lose attraction to their partners over time?MILF porn has reigned surprise for a reason I haven’t actually ever had sex with someone younger than me…yet. But I feel it could happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever tried to approach a guy you had interest in? How did it turn out?Did this recently It was nerve wrecking and honestly, very eye opening to understand how vulnerable men make themselves all the time. Does make me more empathetic, tbh As how it turned out: it was over text, back in early June. I gushed. I don’t know why but out of no where I started to see a friend very differently and it honestly hit me like a bus. I’m embarrassed thinking about it now. He basically said he’s thought about me a lot over the years, that he’s always been interested. He moved to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Do men lose attraction to their partners over time?I really think the fact that younger guys are into older women is very overlooked by RP in general, refreshing that you mentioned that I’m a 33f and not only do guys 26-30 (sometimes even younger) really go hard in their approach and attempts, it’s almost like they have something to prove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP.Makes so much sense given that you have never seen me You must be really smart and important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withaverage looking best friend one hundred percent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 2 | are you flattered if someone ugly asks you out ?I'm conventionally attractive and I went out with someone who wasn't conventionally attractive. we connected over intellect and good convo. tbh, he harbored so much resentment towards women in general and I don't even think he realized how much he had internalized that shit. it was kinda weird. big waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?Single with a good amount of interest but low motivation to pursue at the moment. Got a lot going on in my own life that gives me much more fulfillment. Most men I’ve dated have tried to tear me down or make me be someone I’m not. It’s usually hard to see it happening until I’m out of it. I’m older now, happy with myself, and have found I thrive the most when I don’t have someone telling me all the things I’m supposed to change. I’m not sure why they think it’s their place to tell me who to be. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.The fuck? Education and career are not superficial things. They reflect ambition, intelligence, diligence, commitment. So they count for men but not for women? So it’s all about the 🐈 then? Also, just FYI, the species could survive with far fewer males than females. That would actually be grounds for evolutionary progress. It would be heading toward extinction if there were only a few women and many males. I don’t know where men got this delusion of leverage and superiority, probably from thousa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.Absolutely. I've known some at-first-take unattractive guys who absolutely mowed through sexual partners. they were generally good conversationalists with good senses of humor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 02:54 AM |
| -10 | Woman accused of poking holes in partner's condoms found guilty on sexual assault chargesJesus. Just tell him he can do it without a condom and I’m pretty sure he will No need to be deceitful about it | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/05/22 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Judge pusspassdenied Amber heard demands of dismissalIs she though? I don’t think public opinion is on her side atm | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/05/22 03:05 PM |
| – | Q4A: Do you ever regret turning someone down?Yup. One of my biggest regrets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Men would live longer than women if they had healthier and safer livesAdditionally, men have higher muscle mass which means their hearts have to work harder. Women have naturally lower blood pressure (as a generalization). That’s why men have higher rates of heart disease. Women have stronger immunities as well. What’s really really crazy is that a limited number of pregnancies can actually add years to women’s lives because of stem cell production. Pregnancy can put chronic conditions (for some reason, immunity based conditions in particular) into remission or ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe having an affair with a mother who has a husband and kids is wrong?When there’s kids in the mix, stay away. It’s not about you, or her. It’s about them. She might still cheat, but you don’t need to be a part of it. Btw, also high risk. Men who find out women cheat get very very angry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?I genuinely envy men’s ability to compartmentalize, especially to the detriment of others. Must be nice, tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?That is interesting. While lesbians divorce at nearly twice the rate as gay men, it’s still less that 1/3 the rate of hetero couples My takeaway from this doesn’t answer your question but it is that gay is the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Both men and woman prefer more feminine faces in rich/healthy countriesI was actually writing an executive bio today and I was sent the headshot. And I was thinking to myself…this guy is a man. Like facial hair, widows peak etc. but he had very feminine features…almond shaped eyes, bushy lashes, smooth skin, pink lips. Older guy but definitively attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.you seem to really relish in this idea Im sure this situation does play out from time to time, just as I'm sure the inverse does. so what? that being said, of course a man can choose to stay single. there's nothing wrong with that. they've pretty much always had that option. women didnt until the last 50 years or so. and just like men, a certain percentage of them take that option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Denied, link in commentsis this really newsworthy? Fuckin ay. politicians literally getting away with fraud and murder but THIS…get a journalist on the beat! Just divisive, in the grand scheme of things trivial nonsense | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/04/22 06:05 PM |
| 9 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.Maybe it’s a hatebait campaign and we’re all just falling right into it 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 4 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.Yeah I always thought the chad meme was sort of an aspirational male physique more so than representative of the kind of guy who pulls an exceptional amount of women. Tall skinny guys with decent EQs are the real Chads random input but I knew a guy who was heavier set and not strikingly handsome. but he had beautiful, plush eyelashes. he did pretty damn well from what I could see. he was also a great listener and conversationalist so that helped a lot. I think having some type of artistic angle … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about your potential spouse/LTR pursuing a full time career for herself?It’s so important that everyone gets on the same page about this: this question is irrelevant today for 95% of people. Most household require dual incomes. Even then, many struggle. The question now is, how do we adjust given this paradigm shift? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.That’s amazing. But honestly, I think the ability to recognize that and find your own role models isn’t something most people know how to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.I agree with this. Huge number of men have been failed by fathers. Fathers who model good relationships, fathers who show them what it means to be a man in society, what’s important, how to control anger and sexual impulses, fathers who abandon their children etc It’s interesting that TRP vilifies single mothers—the parent that stayed and took care of the child. Deadbeat dads deserve way more cultural flack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:10 PM |
| 12 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.Probably. Why people pick who to fuck casually is not something I spend a lot of time thinking about. some of the biggest Fuckboi’s I knew in college were kinda thinner guys with some feminine features (like almond shaped eyes, longer hair, or smooth skin). Something about them was just sexual. They had high EQ which they sometimes used as a tool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Is the only reason to get married now is to procreate?I feel like legal reasons is a big one too. I know several people who married their spouses due to immigration status of their spouse as a primary factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:49 PM |
| 3 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?There was a great post in TwoX recently about how it would be interesting to somehow research how each gender reacts to neutral attention from the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What are the keys to maximizing relationship satisfaction?Listening, staying flexible, and have overall similar goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:42 PM |
| 15 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.Source: man. But yeah I’d say it ranks higher for causal hook ups than for LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:34 PM |
| 47 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.Jesus 32?! I literally though this was a 14 year old I’m guessing there’s some kinda of developmental issue here. “I just don’t understand why the best of everything isn’t immediately handed to me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:31 PM |
| 86 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.No, this reflects a weakness in your perception. You are assuming that everyone, like you, only evaluates based on physical attractiveness. Projecting. That’s what immature teens do and will never suffice as the foundation of a real relationship. Physical attractiveness is a variable, but it’s part of a myriad of factors that govern attractiveness. In fact, it speaks very poorly of this hypothetical man’s personality/character if he can’t attract females, because that means his personality is re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerIt. has to do with the gap in realities youre pointing out. EG: women don't understand what dating is like for men and that a whole different set of expectations, norms, and even mathematics that govern their experience. A woman mocking a male for not being able to find a partner or is condescending to a man who struggles with this fails to consider how much more risk a man has to take, rejection he has to deal with, and taking for granted how much optionality is in her favor. She is ignorant to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerOP, I think you would be interested in this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQIwHD_ITIo it explores how the different sexes are in different situations in the dating game....with different goals and considerations. A key disconnect is that by and large, both genders fail to factor in that the traits they are attracted to are not the same attributes the opposite gender is attracted to. for example, it describes how physical attractiveness is one of the top attributes men seek in women. Wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerYou know what OP. This is a totally valid point, one of the first ive ever seen in this entire forum. It’s true that the dynamics of sex and dating are different between the genders and that in general, they face different challenges. Therefore neither really understands the struggles of the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:59 AM |
| 2 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyI feel like the first guy has potential. But it’s true: he has to play cool. Gifts in particular are something you introduce once the relationship is more formed. I think he’ll figure it out. Courting is a dance, a push pull. You see what animals have to do to get it in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:56 AM |
| 11 | Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP.Not true. I fuck my bf several times a week and he’s a nerdy, introverted vegetarian dev with two kittens who follow him everywhere he goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.'cuckier' lmao thats hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Why do men become possessive?i think the latter is probably the basis for the primelness of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Regarding the post about women being “paranoid” about assault, what are things that women do in this regard that upset you?you know what, this is actually valid input | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Personality becomes more important as you age and it's not because of lack of optionsit's not dwindling options, it's shifting priorities, emotional maturity, and a better sense of what they actually need (i.e., having worked their bullshit out in their twenties like functional adults do) like youre saying, things like conversation, empathy, and long term goal alignment become much more important than lusty sex, whether your friends like them, or other fleeting variables | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeso they have to work 3x as long as him to make the money needed to maintain their lifestyle (since she makes less). And even after that, she owes him housework? why again? because shes a woman? arbitrary, unchangeable factor. She's already overextended to maintain the 50-50. he should be doing 80% to help offset the fact that she has to work longer hours to meet their disproportionate financial requirements. and because she is doing this (50-50 despite making less), there is no "burden" on him. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomebro i only read the first sentence, because that was all I needed to hear. If you feel that way, *dont be in a relationship in the first place* no one is forcing you to "take on the burden." that you even thinkin those terms is problematic. You can be alone, thats fine. Please. for other peoples sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeI’m not sure you even read what this person had to say before chiming in with this garbage Btw, I know many women who make more than their partners. None of them lord it over their relationship shop the way I see men do over women. If part of why you want a relationship is because you want to feel powerful over someone else, you should t be ina relationship in the first place. (I’m assuming you’re not), because you’re toxic af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeYes, in cases of big disparities that is true. The lower income should always be the anchor Ie, what person B can pay is the baseline, and person a can throw in the match x whatever the multiplier is. So if person b says I can do 1000 a month, person a makes double and says I can swing 2000, their total budget is 3000/month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeDude exactly. That’s fucking ridiculous, it’s not surprising at all that you’re resentful One dollar for you is not the same as one dollar for him. It reflects a different amount of time worked. Especially if you’re putting in more work at home. If you’re splitting everything 50-50, why should you do more domestic work? You’re already putting in my work hours just to be in the relationship in the first place. Maybe propose the proportional income thing. Tbh, people who aren’t on board with the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeYeah, well, that’s something that will come up in any relationship with income disparity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:32 AM |
| 3 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeThat would be true if income was actually a reflection of work input. We all know damn well some of the hardest working people make the least money. A coal miner works much harder than someone pushing spreadsheets, yet the latter often makes more Last place you need to be reminded of that is in your relationship, but that’s just my take on it Additionally, imagine you found a partner who made more than you. They want to go to nice places and do things that require some capital, and you don’t hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeBelieve it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 02:57 AM |
| 0 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeYup, nailed it 👍🏻 Nothing gets by you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeYeah. We were 2/3, 1/3, but recently went to 60-40 because i got a higher paying job. Part of that is also that he’s got several years on me. In 5 years or so, I might make what he’s making now, and he’ll likely make more then too. He doesn’t resent me for being born later nor require I hand over a larger percent of my paycheck than he does in order to maintain our shared living standard. We both pay a proportional amount. It’s not out of the question that I could make more someday. Not certain,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeEveryone wins 🙌🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeNo, when people comment on posts, they are elaborating based on input. Honestly, do whatever you want in your relationships. Gl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeDon’t be with that partner then. You clearly don’t respect them and feel they aren’t as intelligent and hardworking as you. Eventually the relationship will sour. This mostly applies to people who genuinely love someone else and respect them, even if they make less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:49 AM |
| 2 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to income🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeWell, if you can afford to shoulder the whole relationship financially, then yeah, I’m sure many people will find you very fun to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeTrue. That’s always a risk liability though, and a problem in any kind of relationship or handling of finances Also, in a way, it somewhat addresses this, as both partners have an understanding of how much they are responsible for based on their take home income (pre frivolous spending) as well as how much the other partner should have. If a partner routinely came up short on their proportion than yeah, that’s a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeI live my with my bf and he’s on board so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeWell, whether you go with the proportional strategy or not, these are very, very real considerations, ones you shouldn’t take lightly. If it’s still worth it for you, you may have to relate incomes factoring their payment out from their proportion which means yeah, more financial burden for you. (As you’d be taking a higher amount of expenses) There’s no way around it though. If you get married, you’re liable for that debt. Can’t just pretend it’s not there. No matter how you slice it, 200k in d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeWe’re talking about finances here. Yes, always other variables. But assuming the standard, dual income relationship in which partners spend most of their free time together or even cohabitate, proportional to income makes the most sense. I have introduced this in my long term relationships and all three bfs were on board. I recently caught up with an ex and he said he introduced it into his new relationship. I also just upped my proportion in my current relationship because I took a new higher p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:34 AM |
| 2 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeNo moved goalposts. A case of loving someone for who they are and agreeing that you should essentially have to sell the same number of hours to an employers to maintain your shared standard of living. Proportional financial investment solve for this difference. It’d be the same in other scenarios | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeNo, actually, those are totally logical statements that do not contradict each other in any way? In fact, the second is essentially another way of saying the first. How much people make isn’t always a product of how hard they work. A lot of incredibly hardworking people don’t make that much. Sometimes people who makes more fall in love with these hardworking people. Maybe in a perfect meritocracy but none of those exist afaik. But if that is how person b feels, they need to look for someone in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:17 AM |
| 2 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeNot within the context of the relationship. Say a lawyer dating a social worker because they admire their passion, and that social worker is working comparable hours for 10% of the pay, if the lawyer loved them, they’d want to make their lives easier and not trip about the money. That would mean taking on more of the expenses to reduce their stress levels. Maybe part of why they love them in the first place is how much they care about others. How much people make isn’t always a product of how ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeIf person A views things like that, they probably don't respect their partner that much in the first place and it likely wont work out long term anyways they shouldnt date someone that makes less, because they look down on them, and thats not the foundation of a healthy relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomei guess the way a man should live is....less long, i guess? never really understood the 'meat is masculine' argument. maybe back in the day when they hunted, but nothing very masculine about buying ground beef from vons in my book. dont forget: silverback gorillas are vegan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:44 AM |
| 0 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomei mean ok. but that does mean people in lower income brackets are pretty much off limits to you. however, that is your choice and not impossible to circumvent. youd be best off with someone in a similar income bracket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomethank you for being honest about the fact that for many, picking up bills come with often unspoken expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeno offense bro, but its eight grade math. ratios and percentages. the proportion doesnt change that often....only upon significant income changes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:32 AM |
| 6 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeone thing I should clarify because I see from other comments I didnt do a good job of expressing: This is less for early stage dating and more for somewhat established relationships. I wouldn't propose this on the first date its more like....people who live together, or have been together some time and travel together a lot, people who go out every weekend together, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomei dont mean for every single thing. hopefully both partners have a similar sense of push pull (abusers tend to like a distorted push pull dynamic in which they take way more than they give) but for more reoccurring expenses, such as rent, bills, vacations, etc. if i'm picking up sandwiches or some shit, i just cover it and i know he'll pick something else up another time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomewell, thats not fair to the lower earning partner. your stance is that the lower earning partner's time is less valuable than yours. they are assuming more financial risk than you in the relationship. money is a relativity metric. but you do you. what happens if they lose their job? just not going to see them until they find a new on or...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:10 AM |
| 3 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomei know, right? My BF and I think about it as hours spent at work instead of dollar amounts, and operate on the assumption that as far as our relationship is concerned, our time is equally valuable. I recently got a big raise and we adjusted the ratio accordingly. He's looking good for a promotion later this year, so we'd adjust again. Our lifestyle costs us the same number of hours at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeI mean more serious relationships in which lives are getting more integrated (i.e. living together, kids, bills, frequent outings, etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:06 AM |
| 0 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeno, we're acknowledging that finances in relationships are real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:04 AM |
| 3 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomethats true, there could be other trade offs. ie., a stay at home. mom is doing a ton of unpaid labor, so the working partner would cover everything. however, this scenario is increasingly rare as for the vast majority of people, both partners need to work and bring income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomeso what? if you love them, you wouldn't be counting pennies and making sure you get "your cut." money for most people (people who sell their time) represents time. Both have to work an equal amount of time through this method to participate in whatever standard you agree on. Otherwise, you should always be using the lower salary as the baseline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:01 AM |
| 6 | when it comes to the bill, handle it proportional to incomethat would be a strange and unusual scenario. And the person ordering $500 worth...thats a bit questionable. like....read the room dude And thats the thing, there are transaction elements to relationships. but thats not all there is. real relationships are at their core, partnerships. partners economically, partners in child rearing, partner through life's rough patches, like the death of loved ones, partners in the household, etc Life isnt a disney movie. There's bills, medical problems, and ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | The fact that a pregnant woman publicly and proudly announces that she'll abort her kid if it's a man makes my stomach turn inside outWelcome to the treatment of women for centuries | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Women, what are you insecure about?I know better than to share my real insecurities with others, especially men. They just want ammo to use against you. That, and I find it quite hilarious when they dig in their bag of tired old cliches, many of which I am not insecure about, and watching them think they’re getting one in on me when really I’m just like “what a sad little dumbfuck” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | The notion of "unconditional love"Unconditional love as a concept overall is probably one of the main reasons relationships in the US fail at the rate they do. It is an infintile point of view that completely abdicates responsibility in a relationship. If you’re shitty, you don’t deserve a partner. Other areas of the world are a bit more realistic about this. It’s like when people say money doesn’t matter because uNcOnDiTiOnAl LoVe. Of course it matters — it’s the number one cited reason for divorce is money problems. What they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | People that define themselves by their independency make for unstable partners in LTRsLike most things, this is a question of balance. I don’t disagree that have some dimensions of dependency can be healthy for relationships and make individuals stronger. Part of humans desires for relationships is the need to be needed; no one wants to feel like an ornament in someone life. The problem is too much dependency or if one partner tries to create dependencies, which could include isolating their partner, controlling finances, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?It depends on how big the upgrade is and whether kids are in the picture Dating is all about finding the best possible partner. BUt it’s easy to get caught up in options, the key is to focus on what IS, and not what COULd be. Once you bring kids in, it’s not about you anymore so you have to be more invested in the family unit unless it’s absolutely unworkable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionGet buff is terrible advice, but tbh, I genuinely see many more couples in which the woman is significantly better looking. I find that the couple of men I’ve met irl who complain about this are only really focusing on the top, most attractive women. My advice to them is to try and think of attraction differently. Are there women in your life that you genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with? If so, consider them and maybe look in their friend groups for options. If you don’t have any s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:18 AM |
| 1 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"You said feminism erased acknowledgment of male victimization. That is what I initially responded to. It’s also just not true. That women are advocating for…issues that disproportionately effect women doesn’t hurt men, but many take it as some sort of personal insult and shit on the whole cause because “what about me?” If you really care about these issues, instead of shitting on victims advocacy efforts (of any kind, or any group), how about coordinating some resources and effort to helping the… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 11:22 PM |
| 2 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"I “seem to prefer” that, because it reflects reality 90% of the time, which is actually a much higher level of accuracy than you get in most areas of life. And I like accuracy 👌 | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Not engaging in this whataboutism. We were talking about men as perpetrators of violence. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Dude. Talk about perpetrators, not victims. Anyone can be victimized, man, women or children. I have never heard anyone be like “well fuck them, they’re a man and men can’t be victims.” You keep trying to redirect the conversations to victims because that way, you can deflect from the hard truth that men are the perpetrators of violence, sexual abuse, and suffering the vast majority of the time. Men are overwhelmingly the perpetrators Then the abusive ones are confused that women don’t want anyt… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Dude it was a metaphor for being selfish. Too sophisticated a concept for you? As in, we don’t have to resolve every injustice to you before we address much more pervasive injustices faced by other groups, mostly at the hands of men. I know this is very, very difficult for you to under stand, but try really hard ok. yours isn’t the only experience that matters. Also, 90 of those hundreds were murdered by men so…still the problem. Fucking friends house is on fire and you’re like “but what about m… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"🤣 wow. You’re a shill meant to incite division by bringing dumb incendiary arguments.tell Putin to get out on Ukraine | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Yeah they do, you just don’t absorb information you don’t like. Not gonna entertain this anymore, gl there Also, if you’d like, you can present your own statistics instead of marking baseless claims, being refuted, then acting as though you have any credibility to be deciding the validity of actual data, ie, substance | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 09:44 PM |
| 0 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"what·a·bout·ism the technique or practice of responding to an accusation or difficult question by making a counteraccusation or raising a different issue. Hint: black on black crime, much like white on white, and pretty much any combo of X on X is still…you guess it…perpetuated by men across the board | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 08:22 PM |
| 3 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"And I countered. That men are the perpetrators is true across race too. So what’s your point? Btw, I did not say that men aren’t victimimized. I redirected the argument to the root cause of the issue the perpetrators which are overwhelmingly men. Sitting here and blaming other groups men victimized doesn’t help anything. Want men to be less victimized? Cool, figure out how you can help men to stop victimizing those around them, whether they be men, women, or children. Everyone wins. Hint: blamin… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Lmao go ahead and downvote the huge amount of data that contradicts you’re “but what about me” arguement, and you’re welcome for doing the research for you You seem to believe that we cannot even begin to address or discuss the struggles of others until every injustice against you and the people you share characteristics with is resolved first. 100 people get murdered, one was a man. We cannot begin investigating the other 99 until the one solved, because that would be unfair —you prolly What do… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 08:10 PM |
| 4 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Most white people are killed by white people What’s your point? In fact, the fact that men are the primary perpetrators of violence transcends race, class and culture Textbook whataboutism, and a dumb af one at that | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Lol ladies and gentlemen, the problem right here ^ So solve problems, you have to look at causes, not symptoms | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 05:31 PM |
| 3 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"To be fair, I can’t speak to it. I am not often on the receiving end of women’s sexual advances, so I don’t know what they are like. Just like men often have very little understanding of what other men are like when they are making sexual advance on women, because they are not on the receiving end of that energy. It’s why you always hear “but he seemed like a nice guy” or “he would never do that” | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 05:26 PM |
| -1 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"No, not victim blaming. Perpetrator blaming. Stop copying the language of another movement and using the sandbox argument of “I know you are, but what am I?” | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 05:24 PM |
| -2 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Jesus. Just look up crime stats by any of those dimensions by gender. 90% of all murder worldwide are perpetuated by men: https://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/data-and-analysis/global-study-on-homicide.html Between 80-90% of known pedophiles are men: https://www.raace.org/statistics-information (though, I suspect women get away with this type of crime more because in general, they aren’t really under any suspicion whereas men are) 1 in 4 women are victims of rape/attempted (25%) whereas 1 in 40 men ar… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Not really. They do it, yeah, but I wouldn’t say it’s the vast majority or even a majority at all. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Would you go to a male-only gym?Nah, they definitely get on her for crossing boundaries. In fact, she really just doesn’t get invited places much anymore because of it. It’s very uncomfortable | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 03:46 PM |
| -9 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Username checks out And c’mon man, men slut shame all the time. All. The. Time. So men perpetuate the vast majority of domestic, psychical, and violent crime. Sometimes they are also the victim, and victims of all kinds deserve help. Again, it sounds like the key to a lot of these concerns is to hold abusers accountable. And I don’t think you’re going to like this, but the vast majority of abuser of both men and women… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"“But what about” | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Young Women are out-earning young Men in several U.S. citiesMeanwhile, men have historically been humble empaths | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 02:25 PM |
| -14 | UK Home Secretary's new 'Tackling Domestic Abuse Plan' only gives a handful of footnotes concerning Male Victims of DA, and bizarrely refers to them as "Male Victims of Violence Against Women and Girls"Disproportionately affects men….and who perpetuates these crimes? | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Would you go to a male-only gym?Not true, no means no for all genders. I have a friend that gets waaay too forward when she’s drunk and feisty — and I’ve seen the girls check her on it several times | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?It takes me a while to become attracted to someone, so 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:30 AM |
| 0 | All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible.Yeah, that’s consistent with what I see. Women making more at least. Not only do most of my GFs (early 30s) make more income, but they don’t lord it over their partners the way OP gleefully longs to over younger, easy to exploit and manipulate women who simply cannot know any better due to lack of experience. Although none of the men they are dating are deadbeats. They have careers, they just don’t make as much. None are full on supporting their boyfriends afaik. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 7 | All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible.This is presumptuous but I would assume you’re probably fairly young. I think this is normal for the period between say, 16-22ish simply because the resource factor isn’t quite as much of a variable in dating at that time due to living with parents and college kinda equalizing everyone (while attending.) The resource and earning potential comes into play more prominently I’d say after 25, 26 — after the first first few full time years in the labor force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:52 PM |
| 8 | All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible.Smart woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:08 PM |
| 23 | All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible.I have a close knit group of girlfriends, 7 in total. 5 of them date men who make less than them. Also, several of them are more attractive than their partners. So no, it doesn’t really justify your viewing of women as cattle to be milked for all its worth and to get as much milk as possible before sending it off to the slaughterhouse. Still a pervert’s viewpoint, especially considering the mention of legal status in the context of “ah ah ah, can’t call me a pedophile because she’s legal. I’m ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food?I wouldnt. Not worth it, I can buy my own food. But maybe if I was really hard up? I dont know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Dating your friend’s exA lot of the time, people aren't that in tune with how they really feel. There's ego involved and what not. They'll want to pretend they don't care, and then they'll be too proud to admit that it bothers them. Other variables: how they feel about their ex, and how happy they are now. If the ex broke up with him, then there's a higher probability he will resent you. Let's say your bro is in a new relationship and happy. Then yeah, they might be like "go for it." But let's say, six months from now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 9 | Dating your friend’s exI would say no, probably not cool, even if they say it is, they will almost certainly secretly resent you for it. Now, it might still be worth it. I would say if you're ready to potentially lose the friend over the relationship, than go for it. sometimes in life we have to step on some toes. on the other hand, if you're just kinds crushing or lusting after the ex, probably not worth opening that can of worms. people say they are cool with shit they arent actually cool with all the damn time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Question for coupled people: Where did you meet your partner?work at age 30. well, technically met at like 28 but didn't date until 30. we both work at different places now but are still together. i think despite common advice, work is a great place to meet someone, its just you dont do it unless you think it has real potential. I wouldnt go casual, but work is one of the places you really get to know people without weird romantic pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 06:44 AM |
| 7 | Model Esra Ersoy raped 13 years old boy in Turkey and sentenced to 10 years in prison.She says: "Tell them its a candid camera prank"Wtf why would this woman want to have sex with a freakin 13 year old? That’s weird af | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/03/22 07:09 AM |
| 2 | "Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTRI completely agree with this. A key concept in marketing is that our brains have a natural affinity toward the familiar, whether or not it’s good for us. So a big part of what we understand as the spark is actually just us picking up on something we recognize, often subconsciously. That’s why people get stuck in patterns and are continuously attracted to the same kind of toxicity. So people who have bad relationship patterns would be wise to really question their gut attractions and try to explo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Katie Price avoids jail after flipping car while drink-driving and disqualified in Sussex | UK NewsNot bc she’s a woman. Bc she has $$$. People with money don’t have to follow the law, "pussy pass" not a variable | /r/PussyPass | 09/02/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?Because porn constantly depicts brutality and women as dickpleasure vessels and nothing more. Sure, we like to fuck but Jesus, doesn’t mean we wanna ATM or have our face spit on or whatever. But those ideas are coming from somewhere. It’s so widely available now, it’s a huge step in the devious direction compared to the smut mags of yesteryear (and by yesteryear, I literally mean like 20 years ago) and both genders are just lapping that shit up like a kitten with a saucer of milk. In other words… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Will marriage die out entirely once Woman start to out earn men?Lots of things are like that. Insurance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 08:12 AM |
| 5 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?Seems like the internet, porn, and more extremist ideologies are rooted pervasively. Also, and I’ll get shredded for saying this, but I have lived in a country where divorce was so socially frowned upon, it was extremely rare. Meanwhile, in the US, divorce is quite common and pervasive. I would say that overall, as far as relationships go, while there are still challenges and bad situations, those that grew up in a two parent households or at least had a healthy, long term relationship model hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born children32% come back negative bc when you’re at the place of requesting it, chances are higher there is suspicion or cause for concern. Also, where’d you get that stat? I mean I wouldn’t mind. And seems like the alleged father would be able to get some dna from baby (some saliva, a hair) and get it tested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | I don't think fat Women who don't even like to workout should have any rights to demand a fit guy or get angry if guys don't approach them.This may come as a surprise, but being a fat man isn’t healthy either. Women are about 8,000% more accommodating in the looks department than men, so this whole post really just comes off as sexist and insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Will Elizabeth Holmes have any privileges in prison or wi she live like a normal felon?That’s because Bernie was ripping off rich people. I guess Holmes was doing the same. Took move…if you’re gonna rip people off, it needs to be poor people bc then no one will care and you can get away with it | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/01/22 06:45 PM |
| -2 | Will Elizabeth Holmes have any privileges in prison or wi she live like a normal felon?She’s probably mostly going to jail because of gender. Were she a man she’d be promoted to a Cabinet position or manage national pension funds | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/01/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Lion mating habits are THP’s worst nightmareBecause the great circle of life is a high biological calling Women don’t only raise sons for protection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Lion mating habits are THP’s worst nightmareWow that looks unpleasant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Lion mating habits are THP’s worst nightmareWhat?? That’s wild. Guess they aren’t trying to procreate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating?Sexlessness and singledom arent the same thing. Sexlessness is the product of a several variables: natural attractive qualities, flirting and pick up abilities, and opportunity/exposure. I agree women have an easier time getting sex if they want it. Personally, I think most men could resolve sexlessness if they opened their horizons in potential mates (they tend to fixate on only the most attractive females and hypocritically hate them for only looking at most attractive males) combined with tun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Masculinity is not toxic, the lack of masculinity is.nah don't try and pawn that shit off on us. That was your team dude, generally acts like that tend to be from your team. makes 0 sense to equate that with women (which is clearly subordinante in your mind, because i guess femininity is a bad quality?) when it is damn near 100% men carrying out mass shooting) bu god, how do you reconcile the logical fallacies here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Blue pill thoughts that women typically havei am of the opinion that men dont really like smart women – just the idea of one. there have been some small scale studies that i wouldnt say 'prove' this, but I would say support it. intelligence is a quality that sounds nice on paper, but mostly if its still lower than the male's or they don't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 08:34 AM |
| 13 | Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating?the question is...do you? consider what you've said on these forums – a vaccum in a way ––as characteristics you want in a partner. now look back at your dating history. are you selecting for these traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | What's the best definition for "masculine" and "feminine" traits?I think of it in oversimplified terms, but the jist of it is the masculine is the how the feminine is the why Take a recent argument I heard in a relationship. Couple in their early 30s, both work full time, but stuck on this financial hamster wheel we're all on, where even though we move forward in our careers, our cost of living moves up so we're all just revving in place. she wants kids; he sort of does too, but the idea freaks him out because his mind goes to: we dont have a house, how would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?i would say yes. i grew up in a household with immigrant parents. I'm no angel, but I am very monogamous. I can actually for the most part only even crush on people monogamously. I have friends that are in open relationships and what not...more power to them. but I will say, yeah, it is harder. It could be my social circle now, but it almost seems like being a straight female who wants a monogamous relationship makes me the unusual one. I have done ok finding guys who also want commitment. but i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:50 AM |
| 1 | What if women pursued average and below average men for sex the way men do for women?i just wanna say, some bald guys are hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you think a world with significantly more women than men would play out?it is so much more common to see an above average female with a so-so looking male, much more common than then inverse. this concept just doesnt hold up against reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man desireable?Money, looks, and status are all definitely variables. I can understand that it’s annoying women deny this. I think the issue is assuming that that’s the whole enchilada. For me, a certain degree of money is essentially a make or break, but I also wanna see that he made that money himself. So it’s not juuust about the money, it’s about the work ethic too. I also work and make money, so it’s not like I’m dating him just for that, which is why I think women push back on that - it’s not all about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Rationale for Reactive AbuseI don’t think she should be hitting him. That’s a failure in handling things regardless of gender, age, race, etc Look, just like a lot of men, a lot of women have problematic behaviors. That’s not really gender specific | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Rationale for Reactive AbuseBecause in this reality men will use physical force to subdue women? I do agree men have more muscle power. Women are actually a lot stronger by other measures though. They have much higher pain tolerances and stronger immunities. Their hearts and cardio vascular systems are more efficient, a big part of why they live longer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?From an evolutionary stand point, it would be for the best. I know fds is a really controversial sub but I outlined this hypothesis a while back in some sub - I forget which, might have been relationship advice - and got shadow banned for it. SoMeoone from FDS told me to post it there, so I was like eh, why not. It addresses this “biological urge” argument: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/leahx0/dismantling_the_patriarchys_excuses_biology/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 05:44 AM |
| 2 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?Oh man. I should say I originally posted this in I believe it was r/ relationship advice. It was a while ago. It was very poorly received. I was shadow banned. But someone DM’ed me and said it had a home on FDS. I don’t really follow that community, but I did post this there, and I think it really, really addresses the fallacies in trp narrative that you’re pointing out here: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/leahx0/dismantling_the_patriarchys_excuses_biology/?utm_source=sha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.Lmao that is not an objective fact dude. Not sure you know what that means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think.I (32f) fluctuate on this. When I was still going in office and doing the 9-5 about a year and a half ago, I would say I was in my absolute prime. It seemed like I was meeting guys left and right, older, my age, even young bucks taking their shot But i guess it was related to that life a bit. I’d meet them at work, people in the building, when I was out to lunch or grabbing coffee (I worked in 20 story building). Plus, i liked to look nice at work so I’d dress a little nicer, lil make up, ya kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 05:09 AM |
| 4 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantagei think women have the advantage in their teens and twenties, then it starts to taper off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | If it’s considered rape to lie about wearing a condom on the man’s side why isn’t it rape when lying about being on birth control from the woman’s side?History is still the context of the world we live in. It’s not just done and over with - the vestiges of the past are the framework of the present. This is a huge logical fallacy. We didn’t just appear at this moment in time. We inherited the legacies, thinking, instructions, constitutions, and societies of the past, and by knowing how things evolved before, we can better understand where we are now and where we go next. Thousands of years of gender dynamics didn’t just dissolve when women got t… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 0 | If it’s considered rape to lie about wearing a condom on the man’s side why isn’t it rape when lying about being on birth control from the woman’s side?Women don’t start wars. Until they’re part of the decision making group, and I mean like, the real people that make the decisions, why should they fight them? Would you want to fight a war women had decided that you weren’t at the table for? And ya, war is usually about the wealthy defending their stakes. The rest is trying to get the mental buy in of the people they want to actually fight the wars, since, obviously, THEY aren’t gonna go. (They’re rich, don’t be silly) “Do it so I can keep livin… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 0 | If it’s considered rape to lie about wearing a condom on the man’s side why isn’t it rape when lying about being on birth control from the woman’s side?Don’t think the feminists owed people anything for getting the right to vote For what it’s worth, conscription is an abomination. If there aren’t enough people who wanna go, then we’re not going. No one should be forced into that bullshit to defend the property of rich people under some hogwash ideals like “freedom” or “honor,” which at their core, is the real basis of 80%+ of wars. Did the feminists really fight for conscription? I don’t mean a couple. I mean as a cohort. I’m not saying there a… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | If it’s considered rape to lie about wearing a condom on the man’s side why isn’t it rape when lying about being on birth control from the woman’s side?Yes, because historically, things were more equal and things are just so bad right now... Women have been straight up property for the lion’s share of history. Mrs. is a contraction of “mr’s” I can see why men would want it to go back to that. I would also like a domestic servant that fucks and takes care of my offspring. Sounds pretty great. Shit, I’ll take two. No, I’m not arguing what should and shouldn’t be. I am saying that this is the principal (women are caretakers, men are breadwinners) … | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 02:59 PM |
| 4 | If it’s considered rape to lie about wearing a condom on the man’s side why isn’t it rape when lying about being on birth control from the woman’s side?I agree the stats can be skewed sometimes. It’s true that it makes sense that women starting in an entry level role that leave the workforce to have children and does not return would ultimately be weighing down the earnings of women at large, and since this is a somewhat regular occurrence, it’s not that surprising to see that it’s less when averaged out | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 02:57 PM |
| -1 | If it’s considered rape to lie about wearing a condom on the man’s side why isn’t it rape when lying about being on birth control from the woman’s side?Hi there! Let me introduce you to numerous women who are paid less. At my last job, I was the only one who knew data science really well/setting up tracking from an architectural standpoint. I had more diverse experience, and put in longer hours. I was paid about 70% what my male colleagues were. When I brought it up, I was told I didn’t have leadership qualities, which was mathematically at odds with the fact I was the direct manager of the largest team. In the same meeting, I was told about a … | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | If it’s considered rape to lie about wearing a condom on the man’s side why isn’t it rape when lying about being on birth control from the woman’s side?Hi there! I’m a woman who has been paid less for the same job that I was even more qualified for. Nice to meet you. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 02:34 PM |
| -4 | If it’s considered rape to lie about wearing a condom on the man’s side why isn’t it rape when lying about being on birth control from the woman’s side?I have no idea why this came up in my feed but, I’m gonna go ahead and chime in even though I’ll probably get mauled in here. Here’s the deal guys: our society is built on the premise the man is the breadwinner, the woman is the caretaker. Sure, this ideology is being tested more regularly now. However, overall, institutions haven’t quite caught up with these changes. This ethos is reflected in the overall higher pay for men, and the favorability toward women in the courts in divorce, child cust… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 06:30 AM |
| 8 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveOP clearly didn’t watch the movies that show her her role in society In a nutshell, you love men for who they are, and you are also a human ornament, with no expectations. Your story ends with marriage and then the credits roll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Just how successful are your close friends in dating/romance?My friends are mostly in committed relationships, and I think they’ve all done a lot of work to identify what they need and how that’s often at odds with what they are naturally attracted to, which is bad a lot of the times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.welp, I think you and I are on the same page then. in order to achieve this, three things must happen: women have essentially equal economic power OR men pay the same percentage of child rearing expenses as their earnings represent of their combined income + offsets her long term lost earnings potential as a primary caregiver roll back of the cultural shaming of women for having more than one partners (or any sexual desire AT ALL) men have equal representation/treatment (i.e., there is no distin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.I think this would be 100% legit we’re it not for the cultural shaming women are uniquely subjected to for having more than one partner. Were this NOT the case, I think what your describing would be par for the course - and for the betterment of humanity. Here’s how: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/leahx0/dismantling_the_patriarchys_excuses_biology/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I think most men will hate what I’m saying here. But what your suggesting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.I don’t disagree And yeah what I said would be in a perfect world but in this world people are selfish af so considering that variable, coparenting isn’t the worst of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.I think a stable environment where both parents are mature enough to make the child their top priority is in their best interest. I just heard “the woman’s best interest” and the “mans best interest” and think that’s the fallacy - it’s not about either of them. It’s about the CHILD I know parents are still people but many are super selfish. They think it’s still about them. When you have a child, for 20 years, it’s not about you anymore. It’s about the child you brought into the world. THAT was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 2 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Ya, maybe that would be best interest for mom and dad, but we maaaay want to think about what’s best for the kid too Just maybe, I dunno, a passing thought 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Because they are culturally indoctrinated from a young age to think that that’s what they want and that marriage is an essential part of their happiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 02:16 PM |
| 8 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?Male fragility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 25 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenah yes, the perfect woman. check this out. this is why these qualities are prized: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/leahx0/dismantling_the_patriarchys_excuses_biology/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:26 AM |
| 51 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenWell we do want the fairest one of all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:59 PM |
| 95 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenyeah cruella was clearly independently wealthy which is why it was very intuitive that she was a materialistic puppy eater | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 48 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womeni hate to be the one to break it to them but not every dude can have the top 1% most attractive females bc math | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:17 PM |
| 26 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenthats kinda what gone girl is about i think she pretended to be the "cool" girl until she fucking lost it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 12 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenits the only way to be saved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:13 PM |
| 44 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenagreed, some very repressed tendencies. i am openly sexually attracted to men but even i don't notice the suppleness of their toned calves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 34 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenmy parents only ever let me one barbie: Veterinarian barbie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:02 PM |
| 106 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenthis is kinda strange but, these tropes also kinda explain incels they are so angry that women dont give them attention. but really, its not just any woman. its the hottest of women. the megan fox's of the world, or as they'd call them, stacys when they talk about stacys with contempt i like to ask: why do you care if she's going for that guy? I thought you despised her. you said she's shallow, vapid, stupid, money grubbing, etc right? is that the person you'd want to be with? ahhhh you DO want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:27 PM |
| 106 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womentotally. i saw a youtube video about the "sick girl" trope. walk to remember, fault in our stars, moulin rouge, etc. in these stories, women have terminal illnesses which is especially tragic because they are still young, and therefore still have social value. (i.e., what a waste!) In these movies, the story centers on how the woman, dying with illness, is "angelic," and selfless (think mandy moore in walk to remember) who's short life taught a man a little something about himself. awww OR the i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:12 PM |
| 98 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.One of the things that drives me nuts is when men flex the money thing. Like ya, you pay the bills bc you are paid more simply - bc you’re a man. Like you, I am intelligent, hardworking and educated, except I am a woman, so I make less and can’t get into those upper echelons because well, like I said, I’m a woman. I actually dated 2 coworkers and I can say with certainty that I worked more hours than they do and provided a comparable amount of value to the company — but for half the pay of cours… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Stats about women killed by men in "sex game gone wrong/BDSM" defense cases. (Age gap relationship, man had previous criminal record, women often worked in caring professions that pay low wages, etc.)Us of A. Name was Cindy something....a nurse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:38 PM |
| 11 | Stats about women killed by men in "sex game gone wrong/BDSM" defense cases. (Age gap relationship, man had previous criminal record, women often worked in caring professions that pay low wages, etc.)I have been watching some true crime and it’s unbelievable how little women are believed. There were two separate cases where women were being stalked and terrorized by strangers. Direct threats, one came home to a dead cat hung on her porch. She was having mental breakdowns, and police said she made it all up. She hired a PI and when she went missing the PI went to the police and told them she was NOT making it up, there were things that happened that there was no way she could have done. She e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Stats about women killed by men in "sex game gone wrong/BDSM" defense cases. (Age gap relationship, man had previous criminal record, women often worked in caring professions that pay low wages, etc.)I have been watching some true crime and it’s unbelievable how little women are believed. There were two separate cases where women were being stalked and terrorized by strangers. Direct threats, one came home to a dead cat hung on her porch. She was having mental breakdowns, and police said she made it all up. She hired a PI and when she went missing the PI went to the police and told them she was NOT making it up, there were things that happened that there was no way she could have done. She e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 15 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.I’m sorry you had to deal with that and yeah, I’m sure he thought you would be more “accommodating” and “likable” because you’re a women and that’s what’s expected of you That’s pretty crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | I said what I said 🙋🏽♀️Peter Pan BETA males | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:06 AM |
| 1 | I said what I said 🙋🏽♀️That’s bc we’re sugar n spice and everything nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | I said what I said 🙋🏽♀️Lol I love calling them bitches (when they deserve it, of course, which is decently often) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Women idealize the best in men, often to their own detriment. Don't date potential, date reality. You can't change him, sis, so know what you want upfront and never settle for less.So funny - I can honestly say I never try to change guys. Maybe if they’re doing something that impacts me negatively in a very direct way. But I am of the worldview that love IS acceptance. That’s the whole enchilada. There’s this cultural trope that women try to change men, but in my experience, men try to change me. And what’s worse - they try to change me into who THEy want for me which is (spoiler alert): to be thin and attractive. I’ve only ever had one guy who tried to push me towards wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Makes sense, women are complex. I can agree that it’s not just ”be nice, give compliments, let her lead.” sometimes it involves strategy - but I’m Polish Russian, and we see everything through a strategy lens (it’s why we love chess so much) There are some mind games involved in dating, sometimes ones we don’t even know we’re running. We’re all just working through our childhood issues in adulthood one relationship at a time - both men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.There’s also the matter of sourcing. I wouldn’t rely on TRP info to attract women. After all, a commonality there is anger for not being sexually attractive to women. If they don’t know to do it themselves, how can they advise on the matter? One kinda common hypocrisy I saw in TRP was that all that was ever discussed was the most attractive females only went for the most attractive males. And yeah - that’s evolution. The same thing they are accusing women of - being shallow and vapid - is the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 02:29 PM |
| -1 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Well, that’s a you problem right? As women, we have stuff we have to do/work on to be attractive to the other sex too. Including shyness. How to sexually attract a women 101; low-risk strategy: first, make her laugh. Be playful if you can. this is the critical piece - if she’s engaging (laughing, approaching you, talking to you), you have to drop some kind of sexual innuendo that makes the image of you two together flicker in her mind for a quick second. It’s an art form, and you have to be very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 07:38 AM |
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