| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 139 | Stats on 40 Cold Approaches | Conversation | EatRocksYT | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Anyone in Chicago want to do cold approach? | Outer Game | EatRocksYT | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 12:41 AM |
| 3 | does it all come down to the Numbers game? | Conversation | EatRocksYT | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 07:24 PM |
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| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesYou got any examples of these places besides bars and clubs? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesNvm Bad joke | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI respect the hustle. I enjoy cold approach a lot more than dating apps. Also has helped me lots in building social skills. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesIf I had a gf I wouldn't be cold approaching lol | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesWho said I'm giving up? I'm keep going until the end of time | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold Approaches3'0 .05/10 | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI ask for the date first and then get the number. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesDid those result in a date or just a number? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesDirect is the way to go. Indirect to direct is much harder especially if approaching on the street. I'll check out coach kyle though | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI never ask for a number. I ask for a date first then get their number. Direct is a lot easier. Trust me starting indirect and going direct is a lot harder especially on the street. I dont speak like a robot. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesAppreciate the insight. Unfortunately I dont speak spanish or live in mexico. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI def dont ask for the number if I'm not enjoying the convo. I approached some older women too to have a nice chat. I dont count my approaches but do around 20 a week. I'm also a minority | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesTrust me, I've done indirect compliments of clothing. It's much harder to change it to a direct approach or conversation. I dont bother with indirect anymore unless I'm just striking a convo with anyone | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI'm in chicago. 23m and I approach women around 22-26. I'm sure I approach some women who are plus 30 on accident, but I dont ask for their number after chatting with them. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI've done indirect approaches. On the street, i dont have time to not be direct. No point of not making it not direct imo or it just leaves questions of why is this guy talking to me. If I'm not enjoying the convo i wish them a nice day and leave without asking for a number. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesIf you like waiting for signals, go ahead. I'm not a damn car. I just go if they dont want to talk I respect that. Calling me undesirable ain't helping me. You are just pissing me off. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI dont do bars or clubs. I only go for number closes. I'm not a fan of instagram and don't bother with any social media except youtube. Glad stuff is working for you. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI already talk to people I'm not attracted to keep my social skills fresh. I'm going for dates not hangouts. Hoping to approach the same woman twice seems like a poor plan since I do a lot of street approaches in the city and I've rarely seen the same woman twice. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI got a long way to go. Will report back when I get atleast 100 approaches in. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesPersonally I find direct approaches better. It removes the confusion. Just curious? Are you being selective on who you approach or just anyone you find attractive? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesLook a woman can walk away and not want to chat. Happened to me before. Some women stay for a chat. No one is forcing them to stay to talk to me. If they dont want to talk, I respect that. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesYou told me I'm not desirable. You expect me to not to defend myself? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI'm not a fan of bars or clubs. Even if your stats are true. 27% of women is about 3/10 women are single and looking. I work in a large city with millions of people. I walk around the block and already found a woman I'm attracted to. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI never chase women. If she doesn't give me the time of day, I forget about them. I never expect a number or date. I have a bunch of convos where I'm not vibing with the convo and I wish them a nice day without asking their number | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesHaving a conversation is to see if we click. I went on a date where she left after 5 minutes. Wasted a ton of time driving there | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesSounds efficient but while wanting to get dates, I also want to build my social skills and see if there is connection through having a conversation | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesIt depends on how receptive the person is. If the woman is receptive, it goes smooth as peanut butter. If I have to carry 90% of the convo, its rocky. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesIt either they never reply or the convo fizzes out after couple texts back and forth once I ask when they are free to go on a date | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI never talk to them with sexual intentions. What you are describing is basically what I'm doing right now. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesYou tell me I'm not a desirable man? Yet I have my shit together. Wtf are you smoking making claims like these. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI dress more causal. Occasionally a polo or button up Henley. Shorts, chinos, or jeans | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI rarely ever seen women give me signals. If this works for you great, but this is not something I'll do. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesThanks. I love adding sarcastic and jokes in my approaches. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI use text to schedule dates. I'm already a decent texter from when I used dating apps | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesThanks bro. Love your guides too btw | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesWho says I go up to them in a shaky voice? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI dont go to bars or clubs anyway. I mostly approach during my lunch break or after work. I get your point about going to places where you find women who are more your type. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesWhere do you meet women then? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI never said I have game. I try my best to make the convos not boring | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI tried indirect before. Direct flows better with me. I do indirect approaches when I want to warm up and just talk to anyone | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesWho said I talk to them like a robot pickup stuff? I ask tbem questions and tell them stories on the spot. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesNah I disagree. Much harder to carry a convo with shy women. It's the extroverted women that I have much better fluid convos with. I dont specifically pick the hottest women. My type is petite to average weight and long hair. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesWho said I think attraction is 100% looks? I do my best to add humor, sarcasm, good body posture. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold Approaches23 chicago. What can I improve out my intro? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesCause I want to find a potential partner. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesInsta dates is when you invite the woman to a date on the spot. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesWhy would I pick a woman I'm not attracted to? I understand point 3 and the last point. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesYeah what the word seduction means. But I have different principles when it comes to dating. If they like me, great, if not ill find someone else who does. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI dont have a huge social circle. My friends are single too. I'm not a fan of clubs and bars. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 12 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesWhen i say creating attraction is bs, I mean no point of trying to convince a person who is not attracted to you to become attracted. I've tried indirect approaches. Much harder when I need to make it direct and ask them out. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:37 AM |
| 7 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI never go with the intention to make a chick like me. That's just stupid. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:21 AM |
| -8 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesImo creating attraction is bs, I dont buy it. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:19 AM |
| 9 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesThanks | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesThanks. I'll look at events in the city. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesAll women have different tastes in men. I don't believe in 5 6 7 8 or whatever bs people are ranked in. I'm dressed in a tshirt shorts or a polo and shorts. If I'm interested, I just go for the number. Bottom line is I have nothing to lose if I ask them out even if the convo is rocky. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesHere's the thing, I dont go to bars or clubs. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:05 AM |
| 7 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI only approach women I'm physically attracted to. I been talking to people all around me frequently now (receptionists, people on the train) to warm up. I'll be more creative with my openers. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesIf I was waiting for signals, i probably be a 2 approaches as of now. How would I know if a woman likes me before I even talk to her? I cant read minds | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI can't do nightgame atm. Only going daygame during my breaks at work and after work. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:50 AM |
| 21 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI tried indirect. It's even harder to start the convo. When I'm direct, the woman knows why I'm approaching her. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:48 AM |
| 6 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI'm looking for dates. I already got my shit together. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?Thanks. I'll keep these tips in mind. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Where is a good place for a guy to approach women?I approached in grocery stores, on the street, while at a stop light, people who are biking, and malls. Only place I havent done is in space. I only gets flakes. Any tips? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm going to make my very first approach on SaturdayGoodluck. When I get rejected I say "well it was worth a shot, take care" rejection is no a big deal especially when you have a bunch more women to approach | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to compliments ? On your hands,body... from girls?People are going to stop taking you seriously with all these lines minus the last line. 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:42 PM |
| 7 | The nerd's guide to approaching womenCold approaching isn't about changing women minds to find you attractive, it's to see if there is a connection. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:25 PM |
| 7 | The nerd's guide to approaching womenHow can you make the claim all people who approach are creeps? Please go touch grass | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:13 PM |
| 10 | The nerd's guide to approaching womenUnless she is a liar, how is talking to someone in public sexual harassment? | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Shy Introvert Tipps ?I'm shy and introverted. I never read books on pick up. Only watch videos from social animal for inspiration. Social skills and charisma, and smiling are super important. I just go to public places with tons of people and approach there. Goodluck | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Is Cold-Approach Really The Hardest Way To Meet and Date Women?What is this efficient way to meet women? | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | does it all come down to the Numbers game?Thanks for the reply. I'm going to go against the grain here and try different approaches some with compliments and scratching the logistics and what was in the video. I'll get back with a post when I get more reps in. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Stats on 50 cold approachesWhat's fred or fame?? | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | does it all come down to the Numbers game?Wdym by point 3. If you mean by "plowing forward too fast isn't direct". I plan to open with. "Hi excuse me I just had to come up to talk to you because you are cute". Its obvious to me if she interested in talking by whether she asks me questions or not and how if she just giving me 1 one answers. Edit: thanks for the video. I'll check it out rn | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | does it all come down to the Numbers game?2 - I'm start going to the office tomorrow and get back on field reports. From my previous approaches. My open with complimenting their clothes. Afterwards I ask about logistics like they are from chicago or visiting. Then I ask about what they like about Chicago and talk about the best food in chicago. Then I ask for their number and if they are down to get drinks. I'm going to stick with direct approaches now because most times they are not receptive. Btw all these approaches are from day game… | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 01:01 AM |
| 0 | NYC and Chicago wingmenIt's not even him doing the winging. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | does it all come down to the Numbers game?I love that analogy | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | does it all come down to the Numbers game?Wdym. I dont chase women either. If they not interested in meeting up, I look for someone else. Women are waltzing up to you? | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Got GhostedApproach other women and find someone who likes you | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveI'm average looking at best! Plus I have acne scars on my face and it hasn't stopped me from getting dates. Dont give up bro | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveStop making excuses and work with what you got and make the most of it | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveReal talk? Wowzers! | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 12:45 AM |
| 9 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveI get 6 matches a week on average on hinge and 1/10 matches result in a dates. Dating apps are a joke. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Anyone in Chicago want to do cold approach?Thanks. I was at some suburb bars on the weekends, but there weren't too many women there. I think you only have to wear a mask inside atleast that was the case 3 weeks ago when I was there | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Anyone in Chicago want to do cold approach?Damn lol. I'm no men fitness model, but I'm in shape | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 03:17 PM |
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