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| 1 | Popular European destinations for American girls? Hostel reccomendationsI googled the plot - dark movie but funny in this context lmao | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Who is up for practicing flirting with me lolWhy don’t you try on tinder or hinge….. | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 01:57 PM |
| 22 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?I assume so - will let one of the experts chip in. But as a short man of colour, I tend to find wherever has Americans to be the easiest. Spanish/Latina girls are also way nicer and open compared to British girls or Eastern Europe from anecdotal experience. Eastern Europe has a reputation of racism. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How to stop seeing girls as the be all and end all above everything else?Thanks, got this now. Got a decent amount of investments (nearly 40k) and hit the gym. Up until the recent hiccup in my job, the only missing piece of the puzzle was girls. Now I’m obviously going to reset my priorities on the job as without money I can’t travel and enjoy life (and by extension chase girls) | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | How to stop seeing girls as the be all and end all above everything else?The thing that makes me turn to porn and have the ED issues is not getting girls. Getting girls and improving my skills in this regard would help me break this cycle ifygm. I do badly need to stop it. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to stop seeing girls as the be all and end all above everything else?I’m probs the opposite. I’m good at small talk, but don’t escalate/flirt much. American girls seem easy to charm just by talking about America and then they shower you with compliments about your build etc., you return the favour and done. On holiday I just chat to girls like I would a bloke basically and they end up in my room. In the UK tho the chat is just dead tho | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How to stop seeing girls as the be all and end all above everything else?They’re also good at charting to girls and charming. Isn’t this something I need to work on? I see guys who are less built and poorer than me pull a lot more. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 02:39 AM |
| 5 | How to stop seeing girls as the be all and end all above everything else?Are we enough alone though? We’re social beings and it’s always nice when a girls compliments your muscles/flirts etc. Makes me feel good in myself ifygm. I do understand your point and you are correct that I need to realise I have worth on my own, but it’s hard to feel that way | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How to stop seeing girls as the be all and end all above everything else?Agree. Being busy with work, travel and a packed schedule with dance classes, walking the dog etc. makes me think less. But subconsciously I just really want to pull girls. All high value or successful dudes pull girls or have a hot girlfriend. Not being able to get girls means I’m lacking in some aspect and need to improve | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 02:27 AM |
| 5 | Smoking area easiest place to start a conversation?Yeah I wouldn't smoke, just to give them out for free lol. When I'm with friends who have them, the girls then chat with us and its easy to escalate/get contacts then. It's like £1 a cigarete so not a bad deal. I normally just have my pint in the beer garden where smoking is allowed, but feel like having a lighter and cigs builds rapport haha. I have just found it way easier to strike chat outside and in smoking areas in general. | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Tomorrow I become the 24 year old virginHave you tried travelling? | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | If women are truly picky as many seem to believe...Yes for sure. I struggle in the UK, but I went out downtown Orlando and met a bunch of Florida and deep south ppl on a cruise. But even NC, NY and IL girls seemed crazily wild. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | If women are truly picky as many seem to believe...> They're just hyper picky here in the US. There are plenty of other countries where you can find reciprocal dating. Really? The USA was the one place I felt desired, they valued education, muscles and my British accent! The girls (and guys) there all seemed social, up for convos and socialising, made getting pussy and dates way easier. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldIn America it’s awesome, everyone is open etc. in the UK where I am, you describe exactly the situation - they all give “fuck off” energy | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 10:41 AM |
| 1 | 23M seeking general advice.How long did it take you to to fix/notice improvements? | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | 23M seeking general advice.I do appreciate it and have taken your advice onboard - I know I need to quit and sort my job situation ASAP. Sorry if you think I’m not grateful | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 09:34 AM |
| 1 | 23M seeking general advice.They are inter linked imo as id have a bit more confidence if not for the ED - ar this point im scared of going to the bedroom and of sex lol | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 08:08 AM |
| 1 | USA way easier than Britain?Will take a look - I also do less approaches in the UK as I can tell if a group of girls look miserable and if I'd be shot down so sometimes save myself the trouble. In America, I just go for it cos I know 90% of the time it will be a somewhat positive interaction. I basically approached nearly every girl I saw in Orlando, (or they approached me) | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | USA way easier than Britain?So I do salsa classes and they are nice/I get instagrams. I'm doing these to learn how to dance though, so not sure I want to make hitting on women my aim. (It seems like it might happen as a by product as it seems chill and I have normal convos there) But on the weekend at bars and clubs I normally approach and say how's your night going or ask where they are from. These led to a full blown conversation in Orlando and on the cruise ship, flirting etc. flowed beacuse they asked qs back. Whereas … | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | USA way easier than Britain?So I do salsa classes and they are nice/I get instagrams. I'm doing these to learn how to dance though, so not sure I want to make hitting on women my aim. (It seems like it might happen as a by product as it seems chill and I have normal convos there) But on the weekend at bars and clubs I normally approach and say how's your night going or ask where they are from. These led to a full blown conversation in Orlando and on the cruise ship, flirting etc. flowed beacuse they asked qs back. Whereas … | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | USA way easier than Britain?So I do salsa classes and they are nice/I get instagrams. I'm doing these to learn how to dance though, so not sure I want to make hitting on women my aim. (It seems like it might happen as a by product as it seems chill and I have normal convos there) But on the weekend at bars and clubs I normally approach and say how's your night going or ask where they are from. These led to a full blown conversation in Orlando and on the cruise ship, flirting etc. flowed beacuse they asked qs back. Whereas … | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Escort to get over ED?Yeah the thing is I don’t know how to get girls unless I’m on holiday or abroad lol 😂 | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Escort to get over ED?I’ve been trying to figure it out for years. I do get morning wood and cialis works quite well, for example when girls were flirting with me in the pool I was getting hard. The doctors said it was physcoligical. In the bedroom with cialis I seem to only get semi. My main problem is I don’t get girls in the UK where I’m from so turn to porn for release. This recent trip to the US tho I was able to get instas and girls were way more flirty with me. If I wasn’t nervous I couldn’t probs got 2-3 girl… | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Escort to get over ED?Thanks, will this work with 50-75% errection? I always seem to be between 25-60% atm. The head did not do much for me probs due to death grip | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Escort to get over ED?Have to take what you can get lol. I got head for the first time and was more sexual practice. Never gonna see her ever again so who cares. | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 10:30 AM |
| 8 | Escort to get over ED?It genuinely isn’t | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Escort to get over ED?Now I know I can actually get girls when going abroad, I have more motivation to quit. The issue is at home I get none so fall into porn binging sometimes. How did you get over it? I normally get good function after 3-4 months of abstaining. Did you stip masturbating too? | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Escort to get over ED?Fixed. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 11:20 PM |
| 2 | USA way easier than Britain?This was downtown orlando and a cruise. Downtown Orlando was actually easier than a cruise. But bars in downtown Orlando it was easier to meet girls and guys (as friends). I could never do a solo night as good in the UK as the people are ruder and meaner. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 01:16 PM |
| 6 | USA way easier than Britain?Nah I’m invisible in the UK, but in America girls came up to me and asked why I was alone. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Easier to approach pair of girls vs a group?> She will also be judged by more people. This often means the "social cost" of flirting with a random stranger will make them less receptive. But it really depends on the context, venue etc. Yeah 2 on 2, or 1 on 2 game feels more natural. Whereas in a large group you are clearly putting your head out on a limb/going out of your way | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Easier to approach pair of girls vs a group?You are right but I feel as if I am being judged my more people/it seems more interruptive. Need to get over this mind block. Happy to move to DM's if you prefer | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 06:29 PM |
| 3 | How do I get a life?Try some activities. I’ve got into salsa recently and has been great to meet people, work on my dancing skills and get fit! Could also try run clubs or other activities/hobbies! Never been in a relationship but this sort of stuff has changed my routine from just work and gym (both of which are still the most important to me) | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 04:01 PM |
| 2 | When going for older women, do you lie on age?Thanks - this seems like it'd work. I was also debating saying "Looking for an older woman to show me the ropes" or something when they ask what they are looking for. Obvs depends on context but could come across flirty. What do you think? | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 02:26 PM |
| 10 | When going for older women, do you lie on age?I agree - sometimes though they reject saying you are my sons age etc. Or they seem really surprised/disappointed if I reveal my true age and then their interest turns off when they were interested before. Maybe I'm wrong but I feel like 23 vs 26 really changes the dynamic. Even when I do 26 I still get the "you are too young" | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 12:52 PM |
| 22 | A girl I banged in LATAM just asked me to buy her shoes as a giftThis is a good trade icl | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Is HingeX worth it for guys?Doesn’t hinge X put your card at the top? Maybe it’s not useful idk - but you won’t get hidden behind a gazillion guys | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 02:18 PM |
| 1 | London bars and clubs full of men?So this was Simmons Oxford street - I had a conversation with two girls, just starting with where you’re from and then seeing what the convo goes from there. Sometimes when the convo dies/slows I bail which might be the mistake. There was a Russian girl who was chatty and asking qs back. Yesterday I went to West London, the Prince and then maggies - was a great night, lots of hot girls (some are unreal). But I find it hard to approach groups, nevertheless tried 5-6 girls but none of them asked a… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 02:15 PM |
| 16 | London bars and clubs full of men?Fair - apps don’t work for me sadly | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 01:35 PM |
| 3 | London bars and clubs full of men?Agree - west London seems to have 50/50 ratios or sometimes more girls than guys. But trying to work out why central London and some cities have got this tragically bad | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 01:34 PM |
| -2 | I'm thinking about traveling, where do you think it's easier to get a laid? The United States (if you can tell me the best city you know with the best clubs, I was thinking about Miami) or Spain, Madrid?Ibiza gives me the vibe it’ll be full of dudes. Normally on cruises American girls are dead open, nice and sometimes down to hook up. The night scene in the UK seems to be dying and taxes are sky-high so was thinking Miami. Maybe I’m misguided | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm thinking about traveling, where do you think it's easier to get a laid? The United States (if you can tell me the best city you know with the best clubs, I was thinking about Miami) or Spain, Madrid?Yeah I’d share. Hopefully somewhere for 1500-1750. The main reason I’d move is weather and hopefully better luck with girls. From experience on holiday American girls are always nicer/less mean than Brits | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 05:08 PM |
| 4 | I'm thinking about traveling, where do you think it's easier to get a laid? The United States (if you can tell me the best city you know with the best clubs, I was thinking about Miami) or Spain, Madrid?Would Miami on a $100k USD salary be better than the UK though? I’m thinking spring break etc. I’m 23 and having not much luck in the UK | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Squandering Seduction OpportunitiesThere are millions of women - probably best not to focus on the one that could get you fired from your source of income! | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on being friends, spending time and seeing if there are any sparks?That’s fine lol - haven’t had many female friends. Isn’t it the same with men tho? | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on being friends, spending time and seeing if there are any sparks?In this case do you play the long game without being forward? I would like to escalate into something more but genuinely don’t care if I can’t | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on being friends, spending time and seeing if there are any sparks?I wouldn’t say I really want one. It’s more we get on as friends and I’d fuck if I had the chance. Don’t think a relationship would be on the cards haha | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldNo I don’t game or approach at the gym. I’m talking about bars/clubs. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 11:26 PM |
| 3 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldGood point but my success doesn’t seem to be increasing. Just seems to be a numbers game or based on pure luck of who gives me eye contact etc. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 11:06 PM |
| 23 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldAre you a male escort? 😳 | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 09:29 PM |
| 3 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldHow did you change? Did you eventually get better at approaches? | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Does opener matter?What’s your take on the first vs the second approach in the post? | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Does opener matter?Yeah it’s a standard one, and sometimes they ask you to guess. The worst I’ve got from it is either a one word answer, or it doesn’t matter so I then walk away haha. Mostly get some good interactions and banter from it | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Dressing - short sleeves vs long sleevesThanks - I have big biceps. Been curling 20kg in the gym but seems to have never helped me with girls. Only get compliments once they are in the bedroom or already all over you. | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Dressing - short sleeves vs long sleevesYeah I go to a range of different places, but mainly cheesy music. So you can choose to dress however you want really. I prefer short sleeves to show of my gym work but I think you can see it in a full shirt as well, but not as obvious. If you’re from London, I go to Simmons, the prince, bar salsa and sometimes Soho residence. I like to jump around venues as sometimes I get bored going to the same one | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Dressing - short sleeves vs long sleevesGenuinely all the places I go - guys where a mix from hoodies to over sized t shirt to polo to shirts hahahaha. Normally London nightlife, so you get in wearing most things | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Dressing - short sleeves vs long sleevesWhat about bars/nightclubs? | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 06:14 PM |
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