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This one!
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/26 01:17 PM
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To what end? You did more than anyone should have. I get it. You're a romantic. She doesnt love you. She doesnt have to fuck this guy to cheat on you. She already has. Just do right by you now. Future you. Your kids now and your future kids. This is what you do when you are treated this way. Dont stand for it. You deserve love. Especially from yourself. Document. Document. Document. Treat her respectfully always but at arms length. Maybe she was the one...but right now and forever she is not and…
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/26 01:36 PM
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this bullshit. She “accidentally” texted you is part of her game. Fuck that. A good man is the prize. You’re the prize. All women are looking for that 0.1% man - yelling out loud how they want a quality man. But quality men aren’t looking for all women. All women aren’t quality women. A quality man gets to choose. And being skinny isn’t the end all be all that shit fades fast. By their definition their choices are limited. Add to that they are racing against an …
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 03:37 PM
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I think it goes: My wife and daughters... they'd rather see me die on top of my white horse than watch me fall off If you’ve remained constant there must be another variable. Be curious and come from a place of softness acceptance and love. If you choose this hard. Then do it the best you can. Take a pause. A deep breath. Know you’ve got it. Then, steady on. If she’s betrayed your love. Know your worth. Know you’ve done it all. Walk away with peace. Then, steady on.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 02:40 PM
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First I know jack all. But maybe it’s all in the title. Think the problem is all in there. Love flows only out from a person. To want validation in return for love is not love and separate from being loved. Weird right? Im no Buddha on a hilltop but man you got to love yourself. You are everything you need. Everything your kids need. You are enough. You are perfect. Find the best you. Be the person you’ve always wanted to be. Find your happiness the rest will come to you at the right time. Do wh…
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 09:29 PM
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Feel like there’s parallels to your story and mine. We’re away from our families too. One across an ocean the other estranged due to unresolved from the past. So we’re on our own pretty much. We make good money at the top 5% but since we don’t have much help we don’t really have many luxuries or time. She’s incredibly brilliant, beautiful and funny. Fired up she can cut you up hast and grind you out before your realize what you did wrong. She projects her fears to me as if I short change her or …
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 10:37 PM
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Just another perspective here - do you feel that she is going through perimenopause? I’d read up first. You can’t undivorce. And this is the easy way out. But maybe you can see through all this mess. Maybe you have the strength and the clarity to pull her through this change she is going through. Maybe she needs help and understanding. Maybe there is something worthwhile saving. Maybe she is going through a massive change but the core of her is still her. No one talks about this much on here. I’…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 03:59 PM
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Totally the wrong sub.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 01:59 AM
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I’d take it. But I’d formalize it and pivot. This is to your advantage. Do not be a push over and be nice and do this under formality. Everything must be measured and recorded unfortunately. Even if it’s cordial it is what’s fair and respectful for both. I’d take 100% if I could. This time will pass and I’d want them to be with me with more safe sane happy place to grow. I’d love to have that time to nurture them.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 05:19 PM
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True. But any reason to leave might be just the push he needs to finally what must be done.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/23 05:35 AM
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Yup you’re ducked.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/23 07:53 AM
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Love is two ways. You love an idea of her that only exists in your imagination. The person you love isn’t there. I’m slowly trying to accept this myself - so I know how hard it is. She’s stepped over the line and I think it’s time to move forward. It will be painful. Because your love was great. She’ll hardly notice because she has no love for you. It’s time to muster up all your cards for that hard but good fold. You won’t regret it when the rest of your life begins. Good luck brother.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 10:39 PM
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Trauma bond - I’ll have to read up. She’s doubled majored on Psych and get boatloads of labels of who I am and what I do. I tend to pack it up and send it somewhere deep and dark so I can move forward. Thanks for this insight. I know it’s impossible to asses from anyone from a short, biased/one sided post but an outside view looking at this is sincerely appreciated. I’ve broken ties with all my family and most save one friend because she’s identified them to be toxic to me. Maybe we do this to e…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 09:32 PM
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Yup. End it before it gets worse. This is not a partner. You can do better. We’ll really nothing is better than that. As for the sex thing 8 years and maybe we’ve had sex 10 times. Principal of a firm I used to work for was divorced. He says to me: for every time you have sex before marriage put a rock in a jar. And after you get married pull a rock out for every time you have sex. You will never empty the jar. I didn’t believe him. But I should have listened to every word every divorce person s…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 09:42 AM
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Go to a hotel friend. We’re all here. Grab a brew. You’re better off and deserve better. If you can’t get a body camera as simple as an Apple Watch can do. Have voice memo as one of your complications and quickly throw on record when it goes down. Just be extra descriptive during recordings. I used to keep mine on - when my wife gets worked up she sometimes kicks me awake and goes to town. Sooo yeah. Sigh. (Swig) Hang in there.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 09:31 AM
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A life well lived is the best revenge. Here’s to you and 2023.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/23 03:56 PM
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This is me defending myself as she would say and me obtuse not getting the point I make over 6 figures but never buy anything for myself I drive a Honda while i purchased her a merc I prepare at least 2 meals of the day most of the week I do cook all the meals. I do all the grocery shopping. And drop off all the kids and pick them up and coach soccer and take them to scouts and taekwondo. I bathe both kids and put them both to sleep and when I wake up I clean up to prepare for the next day or wo…
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 10:40 PM
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Hang in there. There is a world full of love out here man. It doesn’t seem like it right now. But there is. And that thing that’s holding you back is the little part of you..the sleeping but the strongest part of you that’s trying to show you there’s more for you out there and your time is not yet done. Hold on brother. Let the new year be your year. Full of change and love and growth and forward momentum that will change all the other years to follow. Happy new year.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 10:22 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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