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https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/10.1086/227836 https://www.jstor.org/stable/2779050 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/it-s-man-s-and-woman-s-world/201310/beauty-status-and-the-trophy-wife-myth https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/features/when-beauty-causes-harm/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:20 AM
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Wrong person I answered. I didn’t make up the definition of social status. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_status Such symbols can include the possession of valued attributes, like being beautiful or having a prestigious degree. Examples of ascribed status include castes, race, and beauty among others. https://www.britannica.com/topic/social-status In most Western urban-industrial societies, such attributes as a respected occupation, the possession and consumption of material goods, physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:17 AM
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How is it a good argument? Why can’t he go for beta females?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:07 AM
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How do you know? It sounds like you’re just mad that I’m a woman giving men their energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:02 AM
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Attraction https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/attraction 1 a : the act, process, or power of attracting b : personal charm 2 : the action or power of drawing forth a response : an attractive quality 3 : a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation 4 : something that attracts or is intended to attract people by appealing to their desires and tastes coming attractions Nowhere in the dictionary does it say that it is a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:01 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/xwYSyX2QsW I’m curious as to why you don’t tell this guy he’s telling on himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:00 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/xwYSyX2QsW I’m curious as to why you didn’t say anything to this dude, but decided to go off on me. 🤔 it sounds like men don’t like holding men accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:59 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/xwYSyX2QsW I’m curious as to why you felt the urge to comment on my comment, but not this dude’s comment. It sounds like you are just mad that I am a woman reflecting the same energy men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:59 AM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:55 AM
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A woman’s sociological background is determined by her weight, looks, beauty, and fertility. So yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:55 AM
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Well you have to go with the overweight mid women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:38 AM
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Male Hypergamy in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:37 AM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:37 AM
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There is a number of men who claim to be in their 50’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:45 AM
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Day 1 of formally requesting that men lower their standards and start giving more women over 30 and overweight women with mid faces (aka the bottom 80% of women) a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:41 AM
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It’s a computer game. It’s not that deep. I made up so many wild scenarios when I played the sims, like having my characters woohoo with ghosts. I have no desire to have sex with a ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:40 AM
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Then debate with her about it instead of harassing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:07 AM
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I didn’t say that they will never reject their proposal. But they will happily date him. Men won’t date a super hottie who is a single mom or does only fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:06 AM
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No, men suffer from ravenous lust and desperation. No woman at any level of attractiveness suffers these two afflictions. The barrier entry is for the man to cross, not the woman. I got called a misandrist for saying men are the ones who say that they would fuck anyone. What if the man had no job and would be entirely financially dependent on the woman? This man is her looksmatch. She would accept him. Even though his looks may be acceptable, homelessness is also a massive factor to consider. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:05 AM
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That’s literally the top 5% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:01 AM
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Western men are fat too so it’s hypergamous for them to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:00 AM
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Both men and women would fund single mothers. Men would not have to pay any more than their taxes. Now you are free to be polygynous, not pay child support, and not worry about paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:00 AM
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Not getting wet on sight doesn’t mean you don’t find someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:58 AM
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Being attracted to someone, for women, doesn’t mean getting wet on sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:57 AM
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In most western countries this is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:12 AM
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Not randomly getting horny with a guy you don’t know isn’t the same thing as finding him a suitable partner. We aren’t men, we don’t get wet for strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:09 AM
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Most women are not fapping to Chad types either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:08 AM
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And most men would rather be alone than be with them. Despite being age and looks matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:08 AM
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Do you realize there’s no way to check if a female condom is still in place because it’s jammed up there? With a male condom you just check. With a female condom you can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:03 AM
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“Men are victims! REEEEE!” Research indicates that female condoms are more difficult to insert, are less effective, and have to be very carefully taken out or else semen will spill inside you and make a baby. Source: https://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/female-condom-effectiveness-benefits Also, saying no to sex isn’t a “power move” it’s just saying no to sex. You aren’t losing anything besides an orgasm. Sex increases your risk of having a kid or std.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:01 AM
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First of all, hormonal birth control is not like a tictac or multivitamin. They have side effects. Source: https://www.healthline.com/health/birth-control-side-effects#side-effects Side effects include: acne bleeding or spotting between periods bloating blood pressure above your usual range depression fatigue feeling dizzy fluid retention headache increased appetite insomnia melasma (dark patches on the face) mood swings nausea tenderness or pain in the breasts vomiting weight gain Health risks …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:57 AM
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You are delusional to think that women are touching themselves en masse to men’s swimsuit photos online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:32 AM
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My cousin had her first kid at 41 and the kid is healthy and so is she.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:31 AM
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This is why we need to incentivize single motherhood and have the government support all moms. So that you can continue to care for #1 and do what’s best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:30 AM
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We should have a robust welfare system and incentivize single motherhood so that men don’t have to worry about paternity testing, forced monogamy, or child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:29 AM
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The men here could go for the bottom 80% of women (30+, overweight, mid face, mid job) but men hate these women to the core and don’t find them desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:28 AM
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Yeah what if you found out that your wife or girlfriend regularly scoped out guys you went to college with on Facebook and did you know what to their swimsuit beach photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:21 AM
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No it isn’t. It is what men dream of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:19 AM
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This is spot on. I can’t wait to see men get angry. It is an accurate portrait of male dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:07 PM
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You wouldn’t tell a gay guy “just wait until the right woman comes in! You’ll fold!” But you have the audacity to tell women who under themselves and their sexuality and who straight up tell you “no, we don’t get horny at random for random men we never spoke to before no matter how hot he is” and you come in and say “just wait until a hot enough guy walks in”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:33 PM
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Even poor old men are trying to compete with you. They may not succeed, but any 90 year old man would rather be with a 21 year old woman than his age match due to his hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:40 AM
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Because even men with a BMI of 30 who are 90 years old are trying to compete with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:05 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/DnR9NSNHkQ Only 3% of women are even considered at all by most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:18 PM
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Because most men are overweight or obese and so are most women. And there is a massive difference between quietly rejecting someone and calling someone a land whale
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:18 PM
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Catcalling is not an act of kindness my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:50 PM
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No she wouldn’t. Men hate fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:49 PM
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Stop being bitter and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:49 PM
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Key word: 99% And no, I don’t get horny over standing next to my celebrity crush. I am not a man. Men do that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:31 PM
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Why doesn’t he want his looksmatch though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:13 PM
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His looksmatch would look like her but he doesn’t want it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:13 PM
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Most likely there are other flaws. For example, I have friend zoned guys for a reason. Most of them ended up having mental health issues, such as paranoia or clear delusions. Or medical issues that are incurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:13 PM
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Just because we don’t randomly get horny over 99% of men doesn’t mean we don’t get horny later after we get to know him and see that he biologically isn’t going to pump and dump us. An example is male models. Objectively, male models are attractive. But I have never in my life got horny randomly standing next to a man who had male model looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:13 AM
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Why do you assume the young hot women are victimizing him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:11 AM
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I did answer it. He has nothing to offer. He is not a victim. OP is wrong. He’s ugly and trash and repulsed by his age and looks and financial match.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:48 AM
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Sounds like he is the one taking advantage of the girls then. Not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:40 AM
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They are his equals. Rich and unattractive. He doesn’t want his equals because he is hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:36 AM
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Why is he hypergamous? He could go for a wealthy lady his age who is also ugly and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:26 AM
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Why doesn’t he pursue old unattractive rich women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:26 AM
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Her are some unattractive rich women he could have picked. Kiran Mazumdar-Shaw, a billionaire Meg Whitman Hillary Clinton Alice Walton.jpg?20230422225910) Wu Yajun Zhong Huijuan Idk if these women are single or married or what. But what I do know is that Bang could have dated an old unattractive rich woman. But he didn’t want to. He’s hypergamous. He wanted someone young and hot despite being old and unattractive himself. He pays for his Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:25 AM
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That isn’t how exploitation works. He could easily go for his looksmatch but he lets his hypergamous nature take control. I guarantee you there are unattractive women with thriving careers that would take him seriously. But he doesn’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:14 AM
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<image> Germany is here And all men want women age 20-25. All of them. Even 75 year old men. And no, this is for ALL WOMEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:47 PM
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https://www.verywellhealth.com/average-weight-for-women-8603701 In fact, if you look at all ages In Germany instead of hypergamously focusing on the young 20-25 year old women, the average weight shoots up to 158.1 lbs. Yes it’s smaller than 174 but only like 16 lbs less. Still overweight in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:59 PM
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Why do you separate Germany by age, but not the USA? And why focus on 20-25 year olds when most women aren’t age 20-25? You’re still focusing on the young hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:56 PM
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Rejection is normal. Men tell us women that us experiencing any rejection must mean we are fat, old, ugly, or highly undesirable. They trill us that dating is easy mode for us so if we are rejected we have something incredibly wrong with us. Or that we are superficial and stupid and pursuing Chad. So we don’t approach after a rejection or two. Because men tell us it’s our fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:05 PM
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Because it’s platonic. I’ve befriended grandma several times. I thought men were proud that they could easily make friends with each other despite age and background.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:58 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Z1zgIldWik Yes only 3% of women are. This is proof. And I made friends with women of all ages. When I was 20-25 I was friends with a woman who was 60-65. Now I am friends with a woman in her 60’s and I am 30. Why must you only be friends with women around your age, if not because they are hot and attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:49 PM
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Most women are older though. Everyone wants a young woman. 99% of men want a young hottie. It’s natural for the young hottie to assume men are flirting with her because most men are. Most women aren’t young hotties though, and most women are invisible and undesirable to most men. Just talk to the women who aren’t young and desirable. That leaves you with like 97% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:39 PM
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Have you ever made small talk with a random woman? And not in an isolated place like while hiking in the forest. Because most women are open to at least a little polite small talk as long as you’re friendly and calm. That said, most women are also over the age of 30 and are overweight or obese. So are you approaching those women for small talk or only the young slim hotties?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:34 PM
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Usually these “brats” aren’t feminists. You guys hate feminism so much, but these aren’t feminists. They are traditional women. Like the “red pill men”, they are anti feminist. Which is ironic since you guys hate each other so much despite hating feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:20 PM
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Bruh when I went to college I was the only person who didn’t work. Everyone else worked. They all worked menial part time jobs in retail or fast food or at the school library or something. Everyone worked for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:43 PM
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It’s funny how men rebuke and scold women for having salary requirements and remind us over and over again that the average salary for a household in the USA is something like $68k and how our salary requirements are so high. But then people like OP come in and think that growing up in a nice suburb is “normal and middle class”. In most states you need at least $100k for a household to grow up in a nice suburb and in places like California, that inflates to like $200k or more for a family with k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:39 PM
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In France women cheat too though so it’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:23 AM
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<image> Exhibit C of men supporting women who do bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:26 PM
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<image> Exhibit B: Some guy saying it’s not bad to catcall men and that was teenagers can consent to sleeping with middle aged prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:22 PM
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<image> Exhibit A: me being called stupid and a guy saying “but I liked it” when his teacher had sexual misconduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:21 PM
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Any time I talk about how adult women should not date teenagers, MEN are the ones who come here and say how I am a bitch, I don’t understand consents and that the best experiences of their lives were dubious situations with adult women when they were in high school or middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:16 PM
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But they don’t find those women attractive enough to date. Women on the other hand are more than happy to date men they ranked lower. <image> You asked for proof. More than half of women would be happy with a man ranked as a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:50 PM
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She illustrated a single example. You guys just choose any reason you can to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:50 AM
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Ah yes, taking an innocent conversation where a lady compliments a man’s relationship and seething and getting offended because it’s “preselection” to compliment how sweet someone is to their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:00 PM
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And even in those tribes the woman would have easily been able to sleep with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:19 PM
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Women have always had access to 100’s of men at any point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:08 PM
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https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2023/population-estimates-characteristics.html 38 is the average age for all people in the USA. https://www.neilsberg.com/insights/united-states-population-by-age/ Most people arent young. Most adults are not young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:05 PM
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What are these edgy clapback posts? Nobody is forcing you to date someone you don’t want to date. It’s hella disrespectful to tell random women how repulsive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:55 PM
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They absolutely do not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:54 PM
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Most women are not college age. Most women are like 35 or older
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:52 PM
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99% of relationships do not begin with casual sex. Many casual sex dynamics become relationships because the intimacy situation has been established . But most relationships do not begin with casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:38 PM
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How are you supposed to be taken seriously when you say extremist things?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:36 PM
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<image> According to the OKCupid study, 66% of men focused only on messaging the top 33% of women. As you can see, being average or below means you will get much less male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:23 PM
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Because women are more empathetic and sympathetic than men are. I got told that I need more compassion when I said that not being a loser is a basic requirement for men. Either be in school/ training for a decent career or have a decent career. This doesn’t mean be wealthy, but it means be stable and have stable ambitions and goals. I was told that I lack empathy about men’s situations and maybe he came from a messed up family or something. I said that I do have empathy, but ir doesn’t mean I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:18 PM
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You asked me for proof, not scientific evidence. This is proof. He’s a red pilled man and these are his views.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:44 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/pmxrb2waIs From a red pill man himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:26 AM
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Dude. Stop dancing around it and dodging accountability. You’re mad. You call women “stupid teenagers” and keep saying “c*pe” over and over and go through women’s phones. You use angry language. You’re angry. At least admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:22 PM
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This isn’t about n counts then. Then it’s about whether or not he is LGBTQ
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:20 PM
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Dude why are you so angry at everyone in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:13 PM
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Saying “well the reverse could be true too” doesn’t change things. She interprets it as a lack of interest and politely moves on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:02 PM
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Most women don’t get upset when they split the bill. They just interpret it as a lack of interest. Her not wanting to have a second date is not “upset”. It’s her getting the message that you weren’t interested and moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:49 PM
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Proving me right when I say “Men think average women are actresses and models without makeup on” Men find most women unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:48 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/S44t4fckzT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:19 PM
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What men perceive as average looking. You agree that in a “pure” world where people aren’t fat, this would be considered average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:17 PM
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So you agree that this is what men consider average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:56 PM
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Then nobody is the main breadwinner or provider. Or you both are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:55 PM
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Because be denied wanting to be in a power position
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:55 PM
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Sooo you’re stalking these guys’ social media? No, I am not stalking their social media. But I see what men write online and how vile they are to these women. Maybe if you gave these fellas some space after getting turned down they would be less motivated to complain about single moms? I don’t interact with these men. They loudly and proudly post these things on Reddit, 4chan, Facebook, and instagram WOW. What a revealing slip. I didn’t say my age my friend. It’s about the fact that you rejected…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:51 PM
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I didn’t say that though. I just said he wants to be in a power position.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:46 PM
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Making more money doesn’t make you a provider if you both need to work to survive and be comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:45 PM
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This is from a man himself. And those women are all not fat and somewhat attractive. So yes, this is what men deem as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:44 PM
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Contributing more money doesn’t make you a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:44 PM
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No, it isn’t an article on the internet. It came from a man here. And it is not meant to be rage bait. Very often men claim that they only want other average women when they mean a woman of this caliber.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:43 PM
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You didn’t simply say “not fat”. You said: Nah I’ll just take big boobs, petite/thin/fit/athletic, loves to fuck and submissive in bed 😉 And if you want me to repost the statistics from the male delusion calculator, only about 3% of all women are thin, young, single, and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:42 PM
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False. Someone who has an intelligent argument should be able to summarize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:40 PM
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Because that’s usually the rejection that happened and men are angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:19 PM
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Even those scenarios are perceived as rejection by men and they take a great offense to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:11 PM
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<image> This is what men consider average. Men severely underestimate how attractive women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:10 PM
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So you like the top 5% of women and then complain that they want the top 5% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:09 PM
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Every single guy I have ever dated has been option 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:02 PM
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So what if she rejected him before? Just reject her back. Don’t make comics and fantasize about it on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:01 PM
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Most women don’t make enough to support a family on one income. Neither do most men. Women just expect a man to make enough money to contribute to the household and not be a dead end loser. But men get deeply offended by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:00 PM
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Bruh even if the man makes more it usually isn’t enough to support a whole family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:59 PM
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But he used the verbiage “power position”. It means he wants the power. It’s okay to spell that out and be honest about it instead of dancing around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:58 PM
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So if you had a glow up, (METAPHORICAL YOU), then that means you had ugly people liking you before the glow up and hot people after. If you’re concerned about how people only want you after a glow up, then go for the ugly people who would have wanted you before too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:57 PM
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No, they just do it less because they have less testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:56 PM
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Can you summarize what you are trying to say here in 1-2 sentences?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:55 PM
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No, you just interpret rejection as anger to portray yourself as a victim. Which is behavior no one wants in a date. There is a massive difference between saying “no thank you” or swiping left on tinder and going on social media to write an essay about how single moms are alpha fucks and bring no value to their partners That’s not ‘revenge’ lmao that is basic self respect. The guy knows you’re only into him out of either desperation or superficiality at that point. But that’s not the best part o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:54 PM
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No, it isn’t justified. Imagine she liked you in high school but was just too shy because she was literally a teenager and child herself. Imagine she didn’t know you existed in high school because you went to different classes and grades. Imagine she was obese in high school and you wouldn’t have even looked once at her. This doesn’t mean you are obligated to date her, but it also reflects a more realistic situation. But no. The first thought you have is “revenge”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:44 PM
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It’s not “soothing my ego”. It’s just a mean spirited revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:42 PM
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No I don’t think you were trying to send me to porn sites. The point was that it brought up a million porn options because men watch a shit ton of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:44 AM
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It isn’t, but I guarantee you that the majority of men in good relationships aren’t writing hate filled rants towards women about Hypergamy and how unattractive American women are and the majority of women in good relationships aren’t seeking out that content. Once a guy here said he has no sympathy for women who are abuse victims because those women can simply check their instagram inbox and find a buffet of men to replace their abuser. Well with promiscuous women, it’s a similar concept. Let’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:27 AM
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Couldn’t find that subreddit but in the process of searching for it, Reddit had dozens of porn subreddits suggested to me. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:14 AM
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I know that. I am using a generic “you”. https://www.dictionary.com/browse/you You heavily implied that the metaphorical character had a glow up. You’re arguing now about the use of the term “you”, which, according to the dictionary can mean “people in general” instead of the fact that you heavily implied that there was a glow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:46 AM
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I didn’t say they are wonderful. But they definitely are less violent and aggressive than men are due to less testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:43 AM
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This is what men are complaining about when they say they can’t get average looking women as an average looking man. What men consider average is usually far above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:23 AM
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<image> This is so delusional. These are not average women at all they are all above average
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:22 AM
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<image> This is what I mean when I say that men consider model tier women without makeup on to be average. The absolute delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:21 AM
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“I swear to God, I am not trolling, I am just asking a provocative rage bait question” News flash: Promiscuous women are not going to be on Reddit dissecting relationships with bitter men on PPD. Formerly promiscuous women are likely with their boyfriends or husbands and kids at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:15 AM
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Short men Men with below average penis size Men who don’t make enough money Men who date younger women Men who can’t get any women Single Dads Fat men Men who won’t date fat women Older men Men who were abused Men who aren’t educated enough Usually as a clapback after the man verbally abused her. For example, “men who date younger women” have a tendency to write unhinged rants about how unattractive women their age are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:12 AM
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Because you heavily imply that you had a glow up and therefore attracted better looking people. Especially with your fat girl losing weight analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:11 AM
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<image> It’s the same guy. Same username.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:20 AM
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It doesn’t mean that. It means most of what they make with a small fund for their own spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:17 AM
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So he’s sitting there and speculating “hmm she’s too hot she would have rejected me 10 years ago” Simple solution: go for the ugly women who wouldn’t have rejected you ten years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:17 AM
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Men berate and degrade: Single moms Fat women Women over 30 Abuse victims And you’re mad that I don’t say “oh I am so sorry let me give you a hug” when he is swiped left on tinder? Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:14 AM
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The vast majority of married couples share most of what they make. “His money is our money. Her money is her money” is a joke and is mostly in Muslim communities where this is religiously the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:54 PM
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Me too. Once I was getting ice from an ice machaine and the guy next to me was struggling. I said to him “oh yeah it works like this!” And he gave me such a stink eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:44 PM
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No it isn’t. Just because you’re expected to work doesn’t mean you’re expected to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:43 PM
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Also the economy started to be a shit show in 2008, 16 years ago. Most men and women can’t afford kids, or at least to give them a promising future and comfortable life in a safe and clean neighborhood with good schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:51 PM
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No they aren’t. Most men don’t provide anymore. Most women have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:49 PM
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It isn’t femcel spite. Men here get angry when single moms, fat women, or older women approach them. Some even have revenge stories about a girl from high school approaching them 10 years later when she’s post wall and them being like “well you didn’t date me in high school so BEAT IT!0
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:49 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ftMGf1aNWj Same guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:48 PM
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Also “in my culture”? Bruh most of us are American or at least western with a handful of people in non western countries. We all kind of have the same culture. This is an anglophone website which is mostly catered to English speakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:46 PM
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But are you saying you are in a power position and exploiting them? Since they approached you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:30 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/UOFRzeKFY9 This guy is 5’7” and 200 lbs and wrote a scathing essay about how unattractive 5’4” 170 lb women are. The “average build” guys here are likely overweight/ husky themselves but absolutely despise their weight matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:27 PM
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<image> And that’s how you spell diarrhea. There is no spelling incorrection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:26 PM
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Did I say all? No. But go on any passport bros Facebook group and it’s all diarrhea on western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:25 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/UOFRzeKFY9 This guy is 5’7” and 200 lbs. his looksmatch is 5’4” and 170 lbs. he doesn’t want his looksmatch either. He wrote a scathing essay about how fat the average woman is. So there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:25 PM
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Exactly. The average dude is husky. So stop whining. You write a whole essay about how fat the average woman is when the average dude is also fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:22 PM
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Translation: don’t approach men because he may think you’re a two with audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:21 PM
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Being pumped and dumped is an absolute failure and men degrade women who have been pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:21 PM
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Being pumped and dumped is not a joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:21 PM
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Men here get angry that girls they knew in high school who are now like 30 are approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:20 PM
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Hell yes. If the woman is not feminine and fit and young then you guys will take offense that you were approached by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:18 PM
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If you believe that the one who is approached has a power position and is exploiting others, then you’re saying you have a power position and are exploiting the women you date because you only date women who approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:17 PM
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I tagged you in a guy who claims he has a harem of young women for free. Many men claim to have a harem of young women for free. He isn’t a passport bro, but many passport bros claim to have a bunch of wild sex for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:02 PM
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But what if those random women are your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:36 PM
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So these women were also fat in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:35 PM
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Men severely overestimate what an average woman looks like. The average woman is 37, 5’4” and 170 lbs with a mid career and face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:35 PM
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/u/WtKnight See? Don’t say that these non western women or western women are looking for something beneficial to them. They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:34 PM
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/u/wtknight See. Women don’t need money to have sex. Women naturally want to be in a harem for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:32 PM
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Most young women are not overweight my friend. That statistic also includes older women. Also, if they tip into obesity with 15 lbs that means they were quite heavy 15 lbs ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:32 PM
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I’m not defending women. You weren’t trying to engage her at all. This isn’t about her post history either. Simple question: How many of these revenge fantasy men are actually rejecting women who rejected them in their youth, and how many are just rejecting random women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:30 PM
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But what specifically are these women gaining? Women usually do not want to be in a harem with a hot rich guy unless there something that they are gaining in exchange. Like money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:28 PM
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Many of the men here claim that these foreign women are throwing themselves at them for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:27 PM
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15 lbs is not going to make Someone obese unless they were already pretty overweight to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:26 PM
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Except for these men are also old and homely and dweebs and fatties. It’s male Hypergamy. Old fat homely dweeb men don’t want their matches: old fat homely dweeb women who would be more than happy with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:25 PM
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But you didn’t address her post. And we have other guys expressing the same contempt and revenge fantasy against women their own age who have nothing to do with the women who rejected them in high school or college.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:21 PM
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If you work so hard to have your choice, why do you never have a straight answer when I ask you what your harem of 18-22 year olds have to get by having orgies with you besides “a high value man”. What specific work have you done to have these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:19 PM
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Bro you guys are 22, not post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:18 PM
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It is in good faith. She’s asking if men are punishing the exact same women who rejected them or completely different women who just happen to be the same age. It’s not a bad faith debate or a rant against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:17 PM
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This took me like 30 seconds to find. It is not going through people’s posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:08 PM
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<image> You absolutely cannot tell me that men who go on Facebook and post shit like this aren’t trying to be provocative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:04 PM
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Ok and Op Points out that she isn’t talking about these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:59 PM
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No, I wouldn’t be if you were successful. You aren’t. You’re clearly upset about something OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:58 PM
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You’re trying to clap back and failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:54 PM
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It isn’t jealousy to be insulted when someone is deliberately provocative and insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:54 PM
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That isn’t what OP is describing though. She is describing a set of men who go to other countries specifically to find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:53 PM
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Not doing diarrhea on women. Literally. Stop insulting us, telling us how fat and old and unattractive and undesirable we are and how nobody will want us after we hit age 30 or 40. Stop randomly attacking single moms who are just existing and minding their own business. Stop going on unhinged rants about how homemakers are gold diggers. Stop trying to shock and humiliate women. Stop talking about how fat American/ western women are and undeserving of love. If men do this, they will already start…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:42 PM
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Why do you assume they will share money? When I say husband and wives should combine their incomes and finances here and share everything or almost everything, I get called names here. It’s safe to assume that men don’t want to combine finances or financially support other women, considering how angry they get about sharing money and gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:40 PM
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Because they don’t want to fuck/ marry other homely dweeb or old fatty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:39 PM
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“Is there a smear campaign against men who go out of their way to hurt and humiliate and do diarrhea on western women who mind their own business? Why ever would those women be mad and hurt?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:39 PM
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Most of them would, but the passport bros want Stacies instead of their age and looksmatch, as is normal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:38 PM
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Says the guy who has multiple posts complaining about older women, Hypergamy, and looks. Absolute hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:37 PM
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200 lb men aren’t that fat and neither are 170 lb women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:29 PM
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<image> It’s here though. I was training 5 days a week, and yet you would look at me and say “ugh she doesn’t work out, it’s demeaning to date her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:10 PM
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Nobody said that either. You guys are the ones who interpret it this way. A 200 lb man though shouldn’t bitch about being with a 170 lb woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:03 PM
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<image> Because it’s true. Men want even less than top 33% of women. Most women in the USA are not thin, young, and beautiful. Most are age 35 or older, 5’4”, 170 lbs, and with a mid career. See attached image of a man ranting about how fat and unattractive American women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:02 PM
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No. I didn’t lose weight until I starved myself. But men like you loved to mock me and claim that I didn’t exercise or train. I didn’t drink soft drinks either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:00 PM
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This study was from like 15 years ago when less women were obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:48 PM
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Men are husky too my friend. Men aren’t skinny. Men aren’t running around looking like models. Most men have a belly and are flabby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:48 PM
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When I was fat I would jog 3 miles a day, 5 days a week and strength train 5 days a week and walk 3-5 miles 5 days a week. I also would look after my appearance as well. I was hella strong. Just fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:47 PM
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Did you think you can get a no fault divorce with no drawbacks? Think again. This is such an embittered and vengeful take. No fault divorce literally just means you can get divorced without evidence of wrongdoing. It does not mean “WeLl NoW i cAn ChEaT oN mY wIfE”. The government is not your moral compass. It is not there to police if you should or shouldn’t get divorced. Love is a two-way street. If you don’t feel loved, then get a divorce. Don’t cheat. “Hello, I’m a grown-ass woman and I still…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:46 PM
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It isn’t. Many passport bros openly admit that they find women their own age unattractive or that they find the women in their own country who are into them to be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:35 PM
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Who says she’s bigger than him? The average woman is husky but so is the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:14 PM
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There is not a massive movement of women moving to India and China to be models. For every woman who may do that, 100 men are in Asia or Latin America being passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:13 PM
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Most women aren’t thin, young, and attractive so they also struggle to find love. According to the infamous OKCupid study, 66% of men only messaged the top 33% of women. So tough luck for the bottom 66% of women, who are likely only getting messages which are propositions for sex and FWB instead of actual marriage requests (men will only have sex or FWB a bottom 66% woman). Instead of going to another country, these women are being celibate. A lot of passport bros are just mad they can’t get som…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:08 PM
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Men also are supposed to be sexually exclusive when married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:02 PM
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Dude you said like 5 times men are degenerates who can’t help but cheat and have no self control if their balks aren’t empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:02 PM
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No matter how bitchy your wife is, IT DOES NOT JUSTIFY CHEATING A man can have a moment of weakness, a spike of testosterone. “It’s masculine to be degenerate! We don’t love our wives! I am not a misandrist despite saying these things!!!!” That’s why when you have a keeper you better keep his stomach full and his balls drained 🤷🏽‍♂️ men are simple, but women manage to fuck it up even when they land a top guy. Men are simple. They are degenerates and like animals who are willing to destroy their …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:01 PM
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monogamy is not a human trait Then surely it’s okay if she sleeps with young hot Chadly men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:43 PM
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Men do cherry pick all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:42 PM
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some of them fail to defend against this army Because they are degenerates who put sex over their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:42 PM
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You can literally just date someone who doesn’t care about this instead of trying to change someone’s mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:12 PM
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It doesnt really disprove it. Firstly they got married when he was 53 and she was 36, with them meeting when they where 52 and 35. So its not like he married a woman his own age lol. So when he did his first movie at 22 she was 5. Also looking at the headlines their marriage has basically fallen apart and aparently it’s becuase he was cheating and prolly fucking some 20 y/o pussy on the side. So redpill vindicated yet again. So the red pill is basically saying men are degenerates and incapable o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:04 PM
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Stacy only for relationships Everyone else for pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:00 PM
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It isn’t misandry though. It’s repeating what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:51 PM
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I am quoting most men. Most men agree that they find most women fuckable. That isn’t misandry. To the contrary, many of them claim this is a virtue because it means they aren’t picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:51 PM
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It’s almost like me and those women are completely different people! Who would have thought!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:53 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/eC6VI6ONhC So I am not the misandrist one. Men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:12 PM
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Look up any post about tinder matches. Men will talk about how virtuous they are because they swipe right on most women but women are soooo picky and entitled and demanding because they don’t swipe right on most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:11 PM
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You claim to be the spokesperson for most of the 4 be women on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:58 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/kb6TelKgsy https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/c2brGTxV2T 28 upvotes https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/BTYKdvhXnL Men saying they find most women fuckable. 3 easily found from PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:39 PM
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No I didn’t. There’s a search bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:23 PM
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And you, by your logic, say “The issue is that the majority of women are toxic - they are shallow, vacuous, hypocritical, selfish, narcissistic, greedy, and cruel;” So 1) don’t complain about two x when you say worse (saying most women are horrible is still hating women. You’re saying the majority of am entire gender is ebullient) 2) it isn’t “horrible shit”. It’s literally them saying “most women are fuckable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:21 PM
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You claimed she couldn’t have sex with a k pop star because she’s nerdy looking. She can. She would be pumped and dumped. This is what men tell women constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:52 PM
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Lmfao imagine saying shit like this and then claiming I am a misandrist. “The majority of women are toxic, shallow, vacuous, hypocritical, selfish, narcissistic, greedy, and cruel”. This is such an awful mentality towards women to have and the absolute audacity to try to “clap back” at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:41 PM
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Did I say “every single man”? NO. But most men say this online in men’s spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:38 PM
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Most men claim that most men find most women fuckable. Most men claim that women are pumped and dumped because men find them fuckable but not attractive enough for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:37 PM
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Men use it as a virtue signal. They aren’t trash talking. They claim it’s a virtue that they find most women fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:37 PM
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Men claim it’s a virtue that they find most women fuckable. Men tell nerdy looking women that the reason why they are being pumped and dumped is because they are going for k-pop star types (hot chads). Men are the ones who tell us this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:36 PM
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Men say these things. And they didn’t mean couches. They mean women. They repeatedly tell us they find most women fuckable, even claiming this is a virtue that women don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:33 PM
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I’m not proving his point. I am saying what men say about themselves. You’re essentially saying men are misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:32 PM
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Men are the ones who dehumanize themselves and say this shit. Men tell us they will fuck anything that moves. The only differentiating factor is that if the woman is too unattractive, they classify her as “for sex only” and not relationship material. That doesn’t change that men would have sex with her. And this is based on what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:24 PM
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Many men here claim their “looksmatch” is a thin young conventionally attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:51 PM
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It isn’t trolling. Most women are not thin young and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:47 PM
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They are only different for the top 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:17 PM
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There you go. Men support undateable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:08 PM
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Gorlock is mocked for her personality just as much as her appearence. It’s like if I had a stream as a 5’6 man and I kept hitting up tall thin attractive upper class women , all while acting entitled about it. The entire premise of this forum is below average men seething that they can’t get thin and attractive young women. Men support undateable men? I thought the narrative on this sub was men need to support men more? There is no “narrative”. Man gets rejected a lot? Men say it’s because women…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:21 PM
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If he is the type of person who expects sex because he gave me a gift, I would rather know that early on than end up in a relationship with him and learning about his entitlement and demanding ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:45 PM
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Usually men gather together and support undateable men and women have sympathy for them despite not dating them. Undateable women though? Men mock and insult them. Gorlock the destroyer managed to make herself a multi millionaire off of men mocking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:43 PM
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Waiting for marriage or only doing it in an LTR absolutely does not make anyone a religious freak. Good God you’re being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:49 PM
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There also would be hella more single moms and kids growing up without a father figure but oh well at least everyone has more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:26 PM
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<image> blatantly false Here, I highlighted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:51 PM
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Except for he didn’t claim to be part of that niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:58 PM
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This is the same guy. He said I was a liar and that it’s only a niche group of men who hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:49 PM
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“How dare you say most men don’t like most women. I just think most women are only valuable for their private parts and cute feminine demeanor. Women have no intelligence, don’t have any interests, and aren’t funny and if they are they are old and unattractive. I swear to God I don’t hate women!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:35 PM
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Wait a damn minute. You accused me of “lying” and said it’s a niche group of men who hate women. But then you proudly declare that you disrespect the women you fuck? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:33 PM
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https://youtube.com/channel/UC_ _6_3_1B7qU-pUKYA This girl’s mom married a stepfather who provided for the family and treated her well https://people.com/music/ciara-and-russell-wilson-relationship-timeline/ Ciara married Russel Wilson and had more kids https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Billy_Ray_Cyrus Bully Ray Cyrus adopted Miley Cyrus’s mom’s first 2 kids and she was a single mom https://www.instagram.com/trevor_wagner_ This dude is living in a serious LTR with a single mom Anecdotally at churc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:31 PM
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The only place regular women get attention is online and that’s because men swipe right on everyone to see who they can match with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:16 PM
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Why don’t you, not me, lower your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:13 AM
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Or only fans stars. And no, it isn’t “no true Scotsman”. It’s like you found SexyLexy69 on Twitter who is a single mom and only fans star saying “I know my worth!” And applied it to all single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:09 AM
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Approaching 30’s isn’t old Neither is 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:06 AM
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Just lower your standards? Go for someone fat and ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:04 AM
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I thought the MRA guys were saying the baby daddies are all victims and the single moms are hiding their kids from the dads as revenge… now the men don’t want to be active parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:04 AM
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I feel like the single moms you’re surrounded by are like teen moms
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:02 AM
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Ok but if he loves his wife, he won’t cheat. Duh. 🙄. Even non single moms can have women pursue their husbands. Unless you’re saying men monkey branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:01 AM
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Because it is a revenge fantasy. Men are mad that she picked the wrong man instead of them. Plenty of men are willing to date single moms who aren’t deadbeat losers. A shit ton of single moms find new husbands, usually women who have their own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:00 AM
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The easiest way to not be fuck zoned is to just not have sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:58 AM
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No I just think men need to stop berating women and mocking them online for looking the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:55 PM
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<image> Weird how you’re lying when you say that most men simp for most women. Funny how you are contradicting yourself and agreeing with me now. Lmfao. Men tell on themselves. This isn’t misandry. It’s honesty. You openly admit it. Men hate women and enjoy humiliating them under the guise of “honesty”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:26 PM
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<image> About 180k likes combined on three comments from men insulting women online. Don’t pretend this is the minority of men or a niche group. Men are red pilled and hate women. She’s 32 and conventionally attractive and slim but men are quick to tell her she’s undesirable and old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:15 PM
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<image> Men putting her down and hundreds of thousands of men liking it. No RePlY tO tHiS Because I have a life outside of Reddit. I posted proof. Don’t lie and claim this is a small faction of men. It’s most of them. Hundreds od thousands od them. She is thin and conventionally attractive, but because she is 32 she is undesirable and expired to men and men RELISH in reminding her of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:14 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5Wdp2fu4uz/ More men being jerks <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:11 PM
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I have a life, FYI. https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5EXzXDuwor/ Majority of men insult this woman. Constantly. On all her posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:09 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5EXzXDuwor Most of her videos talking about being single at 32 have many comments from men insulting her and saying she is old, expired, and undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:08 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5EXzXDuwor/ The majority of men are insulting her here. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:08 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5EXzXDuwor/ The majority of men, not just one man, Are insulting her here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:07 PM
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No there aren’t. I see fat women, women above 30, and women who look mid existing on the internet and it’s mostly men mocking her and nobody simping for her unless she is advertising porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:04 PM
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Except for it isn’t a meme for fun. <image> This description he made is very serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:03 PM
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<image> Men feel alpha when they insult women online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:37 PM
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She proved you wrong and you copped out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:53 PM
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Men are by far and dramatically worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:28 PM
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hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:26 PM
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See?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:25 PM
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You guys started it for sure. And women don’t berate men. Men are the ones doing it to women. Standing up for yourself isn’t berating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:43 PM
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<image> This is the average woman’s body in the USA. This is what men consider jabba the hut
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:43 PM
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Yes men’s standards went up. They are angry we don’t look like porn stars. ⭐️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:40 PM
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Men have killed it by berating women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:38 PM
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Men say it to women all the time, cruel or not. I agree that it’s mean but it’s simply what men say to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:26 PM
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Yes I am trying to not call him out specifically because he’s an example but there are several guys like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:29 PM
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I help a lot of old ladies and they thank me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:28 PM
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He represents many or most
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:28 PM
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See? Even you harbor resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:27 PM
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Good men don’t use hypothetical situations as an excuse to mistreat their girlfriends or potential dates but many men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:27 PM
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Lmfao yes they do. Men support men mistreating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:26 PM
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I work out too. As someone who has been both fat and skinny, I worked out every single day throughout both eras.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:23 PM
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Most men aren’t nice to most women. Unless the woman is young and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:23 PM
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You can say the same for men who looked like crap at some point then had a glow up, but men still support them in their bitter and resentful and vengeful ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:22 PM
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No. Absolutely not. Men here nod in agreement and show a lot of support for these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:22 PM
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Why does he punish all women? Why do men punish all women? There are multiple men who refuse to date or mistreat ALL women their own age because “she would have rejected me in high school/ college”. I am returning that energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:21 PM
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It’s acting the way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:20 PM
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Men have that energy all the time. A passport bro here was saying he is justified in mistreating his girlfriend because in the USA she would manipulate and use him but because she is in poverty and in a third world country, she is nice to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:19 PM
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<image> https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/disrespect Disrespect doesn’t require foul language. In this post, OP is saying: Most women demand a man spend a bunch of money on them and plan creative dates only to ghost him and get their free dinner or drinks and leave That’s a highly disrespectful view of women. It seems to me he only wants young and hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:18 PM
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Men here get all resentful that women didn’t like them in high school/ college or in the USA vs the Philippines. They use that as an excuse to hurt, manipulate, and use their partners. I am giving that energy back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:15 PM
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That isn’t misandry. A guy where was ranting about how it’s ok to hurt his passport bro girlfriend because “if she were in the American she would hurt me”. I’ve heard many versions of the same statement. So I just give that energy back to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:14 PM
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Remember, if you were 50 lbs heavier, he wouldn’t be nice to you. Don’t feel bad manipulating and hurting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:04 PM
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Well they get their looks matches
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:59 PM
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The average American is not 300kg. But most 300kg people get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:59 PM
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Considering that men diarrhea on single moms, female abuse victims, fat women, women over a certain age, women who have been cheated on, women who have been pumped and dumped, and women who have had multiple partners AND who may not even hate men as a result….. Why should we have sympathy for men who have been cheated on? When a woman is cheated on, men screech “YOU SHOULD HAVE PICKED BETTER!!!! YOU SHOULD HAVE PICKED A BETTER MAN!!!! YOU SHOULD HAVE PICKED A LESS ATTRACTIVE MAN!!!” Some even sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:42 PM
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The vast majority of men who are overweight arent built like Shaquille o Neal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:37 PM
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Oh but the men are all built like Shaquille o Neil according to a guy here so it’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:31 PM
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https://app.mybodygallery.com/#/?height=163&weight=82&age=40 This is the average woman’s build. “Chubby” is not “land whale who is unable to walk”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:30 PM
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BMI is BMI regardless of height. And the vast majority of men are 3-5 inches or more taller than the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:27 PM
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Go to any wal mart and you will see fat men and women together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:26 PM
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As the other lady said, have you seen what men here call average looking? It’s all Stacies without makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:26 PM
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I think it’s more fair to your point to refer to somewhat attractive women. That’s where guys who are of decent quality do have to put in immense work to succeed. So Stacy Lites. Got it. Same can be said for “chubby average women” as you put it, if we’re talking about average looking guys. It’ll still take quite a bit of work. Oh no! She isn’t laying in bed naked! So much work!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:25 PM
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Point me to one and I guarantee you that either the man was disrespectful towards women (example: OP’s post is disrespectful to women) or it’s just one or two women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:22 PM
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What a bitter comment. The only women who have such privilege and wealth in dating are Stacies. The vast majority of women don’t get approached anywhere outside of the internet. The vast majority of women don’t have any special dating privileges anywhere outside of online. The fact that you believe that so many women do reflects that you only pay attention to Stacies, and not to anybody else. The bottom 80% of women simply do not exist to you. Also, to compare not being able to get a tinder date…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:19 PM
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Except for your entire post is saying most if not all women are like that, meaning that most, if not all women are bad. And then after calling most if not all women bad, you expect us to have sympathy for you? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:16 AM
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To the men here you are a martyr but in reality it sounds like you had a pleasant time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:12 AM
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For the third time, I answered it. I said that it sounds like the interviewers are bad people who are frivolous and overly demanding. As I said three times now, it’s obvious that the interviewers are an embittered caricature of women. As I also said, it is clear you’re trying to ask a “GOTCHA!!!!!!” question. You asking the same question over and over again doesn’t change my answer. I already clearly spelled out that they look bad. You condescendingly asking it over and over doesn’t change what …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:11 AM
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When he could date normie chubby average women but he wants the hot young Stacies who look like IG models then complains that they act like hot young Stacie’s who look like IG models
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:03 AM
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I said my opinion. It sounds like an embittered caricature. Stop trying to trap me into saying “women bad” with your question. You aren’t going to win sympathy for the male plight of loneliness by loudly proclaiming women are frivolous and expecting expensive luxury dinner dates only to ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:02 AM
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It sounds like the job interviewers are an embittered and angry analogy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:52 AM
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Women already understand that dating is harder for men. That doesn’t mean we will magically become sympathetic to men who despise us and our existence. Accusing us of using them for money and attention. Name calling us for being fat, slutty, prudes, single moms, single past a certain age or abuse victims. I saw a video on Instagram of a woman who was single at 38. All the men were calling her expired, undesirable, disgusting, a failure, etc. Meanwhile, this guy is crying about being alone and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:27 AM
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It is fair. You are sharing 100% of what you make. When you’re married, you share everything all the time. That is what people have been doing throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:00 PM
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I did answer it. No Expenses are not divided 50/50. Expenses are combined and shared. 100% of your income is shared. Reading comprehension is key. 🔑
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:59 PM
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He bought her an apron instead of a trip to Greece when he can afford a trip to Greece 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:01 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/IzOkZBwfU8 complains that women are materialistic wants to split housework based on income and not on hours worked, clearly indicating that he values money more than domestic labor, reflecting materialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:59 AM
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No because you’re sharing 100% of what you both make
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:56 AM
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What an ignorant take. “Just dump him and go online to find another guy”. Awful logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:00 PM
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So your take is to just go on a dating app to have a buffet of men to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:11 PM
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Not being abusive isn’t a feminine trait. lol, you’re essentially saying male nature is naturally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:05 PM
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Why do you believe that all women have 100 men in their inbox?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:04 PM
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I don’t say only men have these misconceptions though. I just say men are the main people with these misconceptions. OP just went on commenting to me about how the age of consent is different from the age of adulthood and that I am wrong for saying teenage boys shouldn’t be with middle aged adult women. Even OP continues to dismiss that these things are serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:23 PM
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But I didn’t say absolutely insist on a 50/50 split. I said ”divide the housework as equally as you can and I added a caveat of course, there are individual situations, but in general. So this isn’t an absolute split. It’s dividing it evenly as best as you can. Maybe I should say “equitable” so as to avoid triggering people. For example, someone who has health issues can do less than someone who isn’t. Maybe one person works nights and the other works days. Then you accommodate. But to make it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:21 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_the_United_States See most states have laws regarding how old the partner of a 14-16 year old can be. A 14-16 year old or a 17 year old with a full grown adult woman is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:23 PM
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The age of consent is 14-16 to have relationships with other 14-16 year olds or within a window of age with Romeo and Juliet laws. It is not for a 14-16 year old To sleep with someone who is like 25 and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:21 PM
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Because if you’re both working full time and both putting in a good faith effort, then it’s petty to be like “ooh I make more therefore you have to do more chores or else”. Above a certain income level, you can hire help (for BOTH of you) and below a certain income then it’s irrelevant who makes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:19 PM
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You are unable to consent if you are a minor. By law, the age is 18 And catcalling is sexual harassment. It isn’t right either. Men should proclaim how they want to be sexually harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:13 PM
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Well there you go. You wrote a whole essay about how feminists can’t be allies and we don’t take sexual assault seriously. Then you completely dismiss sexual assault of teenage boys and dismiss catcalling as a nonissue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:38 PM
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Also with regards to domestic violence shelters; If you have ever called them, they all have weeks long waiting lists. And they absolutely let boys in. Some shelters don’t let kids above a certain age (like 12) in, but this is for all genders, not just for boys. And housework is not divided on income, but on hours worked. If you both work 40 hours a week, it doesn’t matter who makes more money. You divide the housework as equally as you can (and of course there are individual situations, but thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:55 PM
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Promoting highly gendered views on domestic violence and sexual assault that downplay male victimization and female perpetration Whenever I post about CSA among men here, MEN are the ones to come out and say that they aren’t victims and that they enjoyed their experience. Two guys once posted on the same thread that they lost their virginities at age like 14 and 17 to middle aged prostitutes. When I said that they were victims, they even got angry with me and insisted that they not only were vic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:51 PM
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I’ve seen a ton of guys calling it woke and anti men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:42 AM
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Yes in Facebook a teacher who was like 27 was arrested for being with 14 year old students (I don’t remember the exact ages but it’s still irrelevant. She was an adult and the guys were children). She was conventionally attractive, or at least the picture on Facebook was. Multiple men were saying they wish they could be the student and how they wish they had her as a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:36 PM
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I’ll always remember when a guy here said that he lost his virginity at age 14 to a middle aged prostitute. When I said that this was CSA and he was a victim, he got very angry and defensive. He insisted that because the experience was enjoyable, he was not a victim (as if that is what makes you a victim or not at that age) and this was actually beneficial to his development as a man. Another guy in the comments section also had a similar experience (I think he was 16 or 17 with a middle aged se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:23 PM
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Then why don’t men here embrace it, and why aren’t men in pop culture embracing the message?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:51 PM
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In the Barbie movie, Barbie encourages Ken to be single and find himself and his identity. At the end, Ken decides to be single for a while and find himself. Men called that movie “woke” and berated women who enjoyed that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:02 PM
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Men will share you with other men if they think your value is high enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:04 AM
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Sneaky way to get him attracted: Ask him to do things for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:03 AM
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If a man has options, then he isn’t reluctantly settling for you. Most men resentfully settle because they are desperate and confuse that for virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:02 AM
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All of them are. And all of them are massive red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:01 AM
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How rich are you? How can she use you for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:42 AM
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If your friend has a porn habit, a video game addiction, and struggles with poverty, is he really a good dating partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:23 PM
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Use of the phrase “it’s a reflection on you” in response to my comment means it’s about me personally. If you lack reading comprehension and writing skills that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:18 PM
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If all you see are men with all those negative traits it isn’t a reflection on men - it’s a reflection on you. Women are literally confessing to a whole host of flaws of their own by posting stuff like that. This is a personal attack. You said that by me posting this, I am confessing to flaws. Except for I am not. I have none of the flaws listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:39 PM
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You’re just resorting to personal attacks (accusing me of having these problems is a personal attack) because you don’t like what I said. Every single thing listed is a significant issue. You cannot argue that someone is a “good man” in the sense of a suitable romantic partner if he has one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:26 PM
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OP wasn’t about how righteous women are. OP was asking why women can’t find a good man. I pointed out that most men aren’t good (in terms of for a relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:20 PM
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However good men don’t have these flaws. The argument OP made wasn’t about the goodness of women. It was about the goodness of men. I pointed out that most men have significant problems that make them poor partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:19 PM
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These are all significant faults though. Men can’t espouse them and then claim to be good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:14 PM
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I am not sure what you espouse or don’t espouse but these are all pretty significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:13 PM
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Most men have at least one of these problems: Poverty Regular alcohol consumption Regular marijuana consumption Regular porn consumption Refusal to do housework and childcare Video game addiction Many men also espouse “red pill” values like: Seething at western women Anger at Chad and Chad like people Resentment towards paying for dates Saying things like “women are like cats: selfish and spoiled” Passport bro mindsets with the desire to be a Chad in a foreign nation So it is naturally hard to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:34 PM
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Nobody really cares outside of situations where men shit on women over 25 or 30 and refuse to date women around their own age because they are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:07 PM
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So she was likely groomed and with a weird shady predatory guy and instead of having sympathy you were like “huh she must like it”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:05 PM
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There’s a difference between criticism and writing scathing essays about how all women want abusive chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:18 PM
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for all of women’s talk about their “social awareness”, Starting off with a quip about women. In the RP and BP spaces, pretty much all of the rhetoric is purposefully inflammatory/hyperbolic- and in BP/BP-adjacent spaces, the vast majority of the “misogyny” and “hateful rhetoric” is simply saying edgy things for the sake of either shock value or ingroup signaling. So you’re calling women socially unaware for responding to inflammatory, edgy, and offensive social cues? It’s a certain style of com…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:02 PM
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So you admit that fathers are useless?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:35 PM
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When you say this, youre essentially saying fathers are useless. That they are just there to produce a child and never be present in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:35 PM
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Oh my goodness even she explained the meaning but you’re still projecting onto her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:30 AM
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“You are wrong” Three words you never said to that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:48 AM
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I have tried to, and she keeps messaging me on other platforms, telling our mutual friends to get in contact with me, or in this case literally coming to my door. At the end of the day she’s an adult making the decision to keep seeing me. Block her. Tell her friends it’s over and not to bother you anymore. Advice men give to women all the time about ending a relationship. And I like seeing her so I’ll allow it. You like her and admit that you feel like a Chad about how she is obsessed with you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:48 AM
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And you are more angry with me right now than that guy who abuses his girlfriend. Take that energy over a colloquial “you” and give it to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:44 AM
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I don’t like hurting her. I wish it didn’t hurt her. Then just break up. Literally. “Hey I am not ready for something serious right now and I know that’s what you’re looking for. I don’t want to hurt you. I will break up with you so that you can find someone who treats you better”. But I’m putting my wants above her feelings. Just don’t. It’s not that hard. You clearly have a harem of women at your service. Just go have sex with them instead of attempting to destroy someone else for an ego boost…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:36 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generic_you Especially with the term “yall”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:32 AM
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Yall have absolutely no hesitation with attacking me, but with this guy who is outright abusive you guys dance around the topic and are delicate with your language.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:24 AM
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Why do you treat this woman so poorly and take such great pride in doing so? To the point that you post it on Reddit to flex. This isn’t right. It’s not funny, it’s not a joke, and it’s not a source of pride. Some woman I knew used to do FWB type things. As soon as the guy caught feelings, she ended the dynamic and moved on. She would literally say “I see you have feelings for me, and I don’t have them for you. Let’s end the dynamic so that nobody gets hurt”. And they ended it. You can do the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:21 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7gFakrozfN/ She’s saying no man is stronger or more handsome than her man because the gym is empty. Men in the comments: 😡 “you’re not funny!” “None of those men would ever commit to you” (The gym is empty) “I love how my gender is a laughing stock. This sucks!!!” “It’s a bit sus that your boyfriend isn’t on your profile” “What a C word!!!!” Men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:50 AM
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He pays no price. He gets love and appreciation. But to men, that isn’t a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:12 AM
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If they marry me yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:11 AM
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I don’t exploit weakness. Men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:00 AM
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Ethical? Yes. Moral? To me, no. Ethical means that you aren’t violating any social codes, being dishonest, or intentionally causing harm. Immoral means you are violating my values and boundaries Morals and ethics are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:45 AM
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You can’t come up with an answer so you just say memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:40 AM
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It’s not “lies” to not volunteer information about yourself. Especially when you openly admit that you would use it as a weapon and point of jealousy against a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:32 AM
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No this I actually believe. This is from what men say here. They are soooooo jealous of abusive men. One said that when a woman is abused she gives a man her best self.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:31 AM
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Never tell a man if you’ve been mistreated, used, abused, or pumped and dumped. He will automatically assume the guy who mistreated you was a Chad. He will get jealous, assuming you gave him your best self and start trying to push boundaries to see if he can measure up. If he can’t, he will get jealous and mean. Only reveal this information at your own risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:28 AM
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If you can get one man to simp for you, you can get another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:12 AM
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Women with a rotation of men (who they are not having sex with) have an easier time managing men than a woman with one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:10 AM
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It does though. He’s much more likely to be virtuous according to the men here. But he isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:23 PM
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Reported for personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:41 PM
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Ah yes anger and snark instead of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:37 PM
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But you specifically wanted to point out that you wouldn’t do 20 years for a fat woman, heavily implying you would for someone more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:37 PM
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So now fantasizing is much much worse than not only fantasizing, but doing you know what with your private parts. Good god. Male delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:35 PM
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Sounds like you’re trying to make a thinly veiled personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:35 PM
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Make civil jokes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:34 PM
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It absolutely is. Men tell us as well. Being used for sex = ultimate degradation for women (according to men). According to men, having multiple men wanting to commit to you is the ultimate proof of being a high value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:34 PM
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Men don’t have sympathy for single moms or women who have a high n count or post wall women or fat women. So why should I have sympathy for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:33 PM
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Sounds like you’re trying to backtrack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:32 PM
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Sorry they aren’t degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:32 PM
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No personal attacks. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:31 PM
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Then hold them accountable and call them out and not me. It’s very realistic for a woman to have 4 guys willing to commit to her. It is not realistic for a man to have a harem of 18 year olds that he isn’t paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:31 PM
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Absolutely. Men constantly tell us how it’s high value to have these expectations. Being loyal to me and me only, telling me they want marriage, taking me out on dates, and begging for dates. Promising to not have any sex outside of marriage. Verifying that they aren’t talking to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:30 PM
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That’s why I am single until married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:29 PM
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It wasn’t subtle at all. You wanted a chance to mock, but you lost it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:29 PM
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Women don’t madtrubate to Ryan Reynolds or their best friend’s boyfriend. A momentary glance is not mastrubating. We don’t operate the way men operate. Men can get off on a bikini photo on instagram. Women dont operate that way. Basically you’re openly admitting to not only looking at other women, but physically doing you know what over them. And you’re mad about a glance? A GLANCE? Come on man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:28 PM
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A lot of men are here daily. Many of the men claim to have multiple women in their lives. I don’t see you questioning their lives. And they say they want to marry me. I understand that it is male nature to lie, but that’s why I keep them at a distance until they prove themselves and I don’t have sex. And why do you assume all these men are on PPD? None of them are. This is real life. Do you struggle to differentiate between ppd and real life? And question the self proclaimed multi millionaires w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:26 PM
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Moving the goalposts I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:24 PM
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I do understand. It doesn’t change that men here claim that less attractive men are more virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:24 PM
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Don’t be snarky and sarcastic. I’m sorry you didn’t get the opportunity to insult me like you were hoping for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:23 PM
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Stable jobs that pay well (not a loser) Relatively good looking No major mental health issues The bar is low but many men struggle to fulfill these standards, hence making those that do high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:23 PM
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Danny devito is not a multi billionaire. What Is Award-Winning Actor and ‘Matilda’ Star Danny Devito’s Net Worth? https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/news/content/ar-AA1lqIHz He’s worth $80 million. https://parade.com/1365463/anniezaleski/lizzo-net-worth/ Lizzo is worth $40 million. Even though devito is worth more, they are both multi millionaires and lizzo has a clothing line so it’s very likely she will end up being worth more in the future. Remember, Lizzo is 36 and devito is 79. Her being worth …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:18 PM
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Why do you deny it? Yall say women have life in easy mode then laugh at us when we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:15 PM
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It’s true though 😃 Men here enjoy humbling women and telling us how no one wants us. Like you laughing at me. But it’s relatively easy to get a man and refusing sex makes them like you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:14 PM
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I didn’t say it is okay. You are being obtuse. Men mastrubate to other women all the time and tell us watching porn is natural and that we are too controlling if we don’t want our man to watch porn and “good luck finding a man who doesn’t watch pornography, all men watch porn”. It’s astounding how a few second glance gives so much rage but regularly mastrubating to other women doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:14 PM
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Four.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:06 PM
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Wait. She scrolled through her friend’s phone and looked at pictures of a guy and bit her lip. And he’s throwing a tantrum about it? Bruh I bite my lip just as a stim. I would hate to have a man throw a tantrum about it. But even if she did “check him out” it’s not like men don’t mastrubate to multiple other women on a regular basis and ridicule us for being jealous and upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:59 PM
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The biggest flex as a woman is to have multiple men of relatively high value want to commit to you. Without having sex with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:55 PM
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It seems like a handful of women called him attractive then a bunch of women stepped in and said it’s wrong. https://youtu.be/yKIMwyW3bi8? Hundreds of comments are saying he shouldn’t be sexualized. So why the anger? Because a few women do it? I guarantee you most of them are messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:53 PM
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She’s also a multi millionaire living in a mansion. Diversity hire or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:43 PM
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The rules say we need to have non participation Reddit links (np) in order to post here. This is the link to the study. Women were significantly more open minded and realistic with who they messaged than men were. https://archive.is/ZJymw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:40 PM
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According to the men here, they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:37 PM
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All of them. Source: https://www.np.reddit.com/u/Economy-Shake-1448/s/x0TLUz8TYa
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:58 AM
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66% of men only messaged the top 33% of women in that same study.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:12 AM
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Men want women to date their equals, but also find their equals physically unattractive and will only pump and dump them at best. Take Danny Devito for example. Would he have a serious relationship with Lizzo?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:41 AM
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The vast majority of women do not condone physical abuse of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:38 AM
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The vast majority of women do not condone physical abuses. In fact, some dude here said he lost his virginity at age 14 to a middle aged prostitute and when I said that was assault or rape, he got incredibly angry and defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:37 AM
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Thank you for finally holding men accountable and pointing out what men say online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:36 AM
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Most men are forced to settle for someone they don’t see as attractive or remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:35 AM
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He was 18, the child was 16. Had he been a high school guy who had sex with his girlfriend, yall would be so angry if he got into legal trouble for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:16 AM
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$450k to $750k a year isn’t an old money type. His best bet is to go for physicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:54 PM
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https://www.cnbc.com/2022/01/24/how-much-money-you-have-to-earn-to-be-in-the-top-1percent-in-every-us-state.html So you make like $450k + per year? Find someone with her own money and/ or who comes from a wealthy family. She may not be up to your looks standards, but she will not be gold digging because she has her own money and income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:39 PM
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I didn’t say I am afraid. I said why would I say it? Reading comprehension is key. These are hurtful things to tell someone. “You have epilepsy and I don’t want to deal with it, so go away!” Is an incredibly hurtful thing to tell someone. It isn’t going to cure their epilepsy or improve their life. Same with “I think you have schizophrenia you keep talking about how you think that people at work coordinated to put a nail in your sister’s tire while she was driving the other day and she simply di…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:54 PM
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It’s not meant to be a subtle criticism or insult. It’s literally just saying he seems like a good guy but you don’t want to date him for whatever reason. Niceness and being a good person are not the only standards we have, and neither are looks. Maybe he is a nice guy but he seems like he is a little schizo so you don’t want to date him. Do you tell the man that? Maybe he has a serious medical issue. Why would you tell him that? Maybe he lives in poverty and being with him would mean a life of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:46 PM
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dude why are you trying to spin this conversation into an age gap argument? This has nothing to do with age gaps. You’re trying to resentful shove in your conversation topic instead of making your own thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:39 PM
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Why would I read literotica? It sounds like you like the book and literotica, hence why you read it. Are you sure you simply aren’t projecting your own desires onto women? Also, why use an example of an erotic novel that people must sit down and read in order to understand and not something simpler? It’s a terrible example. Come up with something else from the mainstream media. Surely it must be easy since it’s what all women desire like you insist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:18 PM
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Do you agree with men that men consider being a criminal or abuser and still having women to be the ultimate alpha power move? https://www.np.instagram.com/reel/C8Cr2_OJIMN/ Here Meeks has a charity birthday party. https://www.np.instagram.com/p/C7p39SKJJb0/ Here he is being religious and praising his son https://www.instagram.com/p/C7UpHOiPX8H/ Here he is doing charity work for formerly incarcerated people https://www.instagram.com/p/C7BFE8Su9Vb/ Here he is praising his STEPSON and you guys LOV…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:42 PM
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If you read the Wikipedia description of the book 50 Shades of Grey https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fifty_Shades_of_Grey The most risqué part of the book is that he spanks her with a belt, and she realizes she doesn’t like it so she breaks up with him. He also continuously lavishes her with gifts and keeps checking for consent with contracts. He absolutely is not a criminal. It’s literally just BDSM with constant checking if she consents and she doesn’t like it so it ends. But since you angrily …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:35 PM
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He was below average. Even more men here would say he would be less likely to cheat and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:18 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ZWlcoKNC46 This guy is supposedly an average dude (who is husky) and he constantly is bragging about how he cheats and mistreats his girlfriend in the Philippines where he passport bro’ed to. By your logic he should be a supreme gentleman but he isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:28 AM
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Sex is an extremely intimate, highly risky act that can produce a child. It is meant to be for people who love each other and are serious about one another. I buy lunch or dinner for people all the time without having a serious relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:37 AM
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Explain the Donald Trump shooter then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:36 AM
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You heavily insinuate that the average looking guy is a saintly man who won’t pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:37 AM
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I associate criminals with poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:36 AM
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Most blue collar men are married bro. They aren’t seething here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:35 AM
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Donald Trump’s attempted assassin was not a Chad, he was a BELOW AVERAGE guy and he ended up being a lunatic. https://www.npr.org/2024/07/14/nx-s1-5039185/who-was-trump-rally-shooter-thomas-matthew-crooks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:34 AM
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Men in prison are going through homeless women, female criminals, and women who do crystal meth. Is this what you truly envy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:30 AM
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I don’t view it as objectification. I view it as being trashy and degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:28 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:53 PM
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Sex is much more serious and has much more severe consequences than paying $40 for an Applebees date. Yall whine about child support constantly but if you have a kid on the first date you’ll be spending at least a few hundred dollars a month for the next 18 years in child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:01 PM
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That’s literally the type of man that men here tell women to go for to avoid abuse and cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:56 PM
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Ok so if he’s a key example of the looks range we should date to avoid abuse, then why did he attack Nancy Pelosi’s husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:40 PM
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Can you share an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:07 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2024/07/19/us/gunman-thomas-crooks-trump-shooting.html This is the guy who shot Trump. This is the kind of guy you’re trying to tell us to date. Brainy, quiet, nerdy, studying engineering, and shy. But he had a secret crazy side and tried to assassinate Donald trump. So it’s not a matter of “ugh just stop going for hot mean guys”. Mean men come on all shapes and sizes and SMV/ RMV levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:38 PM
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You can’t whine about career women then whine about divorce rape. A career woman will have money, so if there is a divorce she will be much less likely to get “your” share.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:14 PM
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I am not being obstinate. If you both work and have your own money, then half of your shared income and assets is going to be a lot more than what you would have had alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:05 AM
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Because we have no idea how nice he is. Just what he looks like. And men love to tell us that we are mistreated or abused because we went for someone too good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:00 AM
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Then don’t provide for someone. Instead of going for young hotties, go for a woman with her own career.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:07 AM
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Eh he looks ok not really my type. I don’t really like alt guys. Not my cup of tea but I can see other girls finding him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:56 AM
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Everything earned together is SHARED.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:55 AM
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Not conventionally attractive. Nerdy looking. Glasses. Scrawny. Not a Chad. Everything the guys here tell women to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:54 AM
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See how he looks like a nice guy who men here would tell us to swipe right on, but in reality was a deranged lunatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:45 PM
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May any man who has rejected me feel the same. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:43 PM
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I pray that any man who has rejected me can feel the same. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:42 PM
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It’s restricted and when I tap it it doesn’t open
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:42 PM
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EXCEPT FOR HE DIDNT SPECIFY CHEATING. HE SPECIFIED BEING “TIRED OF HER”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:41 PM
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Then don’t sell the apartment to buy one that you will share and live in together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:52 PM
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Splitting in half what you earned together while married isn’t “broke and destitute”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:38 PM
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You’re not making any sense at all. Why have kids with a guy who you don’t trust with bathing them? Why have kids with a woman if you’ll insist on paternity tests for any children you have with her? Both reflect a serious distrust of your partner, indicating that you shouldn’t have had kids. Men get defensive when you say this. No accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:33 PM
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It is. It is just as dumb. Men get mad when we say it is. They hate the accountability when we say it’s just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:24 PM
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“I want to make my housewife girlfriend homeless because I am tired of her”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:21 PM
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Your response doesn’t make sense. It isn’t misandry to say “expecting paternity tests on all your kids is the same as not letting your kids bathe with their dad. It reflects the same suspicion”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:15 PM
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<image> Yes. Having this mentality is the same as always getting a paternity tests on your kids. Why did you reproduce with that person if you distrust them so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:07 PM
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Men get so upset when you hold them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:18 PM
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<image> Friendly reminder that blocking someone mid debate to get the last word in violates the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:14 PM
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Everyone wants an attractive Gen Z women. The silent generation. Boomers. Gen X. Millennials. Every single man from age 18-100. You aren’t competing with your age bracket, you’re competing with everyone. Meanwhile, with women ages 30+, nobody wants them and they are readily available.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:02 PM
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But it’s true. Most women don’t claim this. You are raging and seething about a niche group of women who get angry when you post aggressive content.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:56 PM
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<image> Except for that is the entire premise of his post. That women don’t sympathize with the plight of men. https://facebook.com/groups/549222599507848/permalink/1156633895433379/ Look at this post in this public Facebook group and how men are just being agitated, provocative, hostile, and argumentative. Everything is bad faith from the men. None of the men are saying 😞 I have such a hard dating life 😞. They are going out of their way to say foul stuff about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:51 PM
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Reluctantly and resentfully settling for someone isn’t a virtue or a beacon of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:09 PM
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No they don’t. Men here constantly complain about how unattractive western women are and how we expire after a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:09 PM
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Men constantly tell women that they are too old, ugly, and fat to ever find love. Constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:15 PM
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Why are you so aggressive and mean? Good God. You aren’t simply saying “I struggle with dating 😞” you’re literally being arrogant and aggressive with her. Then yall wonder why women don’t sympathize with you online. Of course one or two people will say something. It’s a niche group of people. Usually women say they can sense misogyny online when a man says something aggressive and mean spirited, like an unprompted rant about single moms and Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:14 PM
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Men never adjust for age. Trump didn’t marry a woman his own age. All men want hot young women, no matter how old they are. Men don’t sit in their little organized age brackets and exclusively date women their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:07 PM
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“I’m really struggling with dating, and even after self-improving I still can’t find anyone.” Except for the men here don’t actually say that. The men here do things like: Write scathing rants about Chad on dating apps Scathing rants about how American women are bad Whining about how fat women are Whining about how unattractive American women are Depending entirely on dating apps to meet women then throwing a tantrum that dating apps are sausage fests and he has to try different avenues to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:03 PM
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Not being attracted to your friend’s boyfriend doesn’t mean you pity him. It just means you are not attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:45 AM
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Complimenting your friend doesn’t mean she is going to date “Chads”. Usually chubby women end up with chubby men and unattractive women end up with unattractive men. But the unattractive woman should absolutely be a ten to the unattractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:44 AM
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Women who look like Lizzo and Tess Holiday are going to date the men who look like Danny Devito and Trump. But no, those guys are so hypergamous that they don’t want their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:42 AM
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It’s really not that hard to a) not be a loser b) not be a pervert c) not be a degenerate and e) not drink or smoke weed. But so few men can achieve these standards for some reason. I remember whenever I post that men who use prostitutes are bad SO MANY men get offended and angry here. These are the same men who post that women have standards are too high and just want the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:41 AM
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Attractive Gen z women ARE the outliers. Most women are not hot young women. Maybe if you guys stopped hyper focusing on them and were more realistic about who you date, you wouldn’t be constantly seething on this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:06 AM
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I am not sure what you are trying to argue besides just being oppositional. Makeup doesn’t make that much of a mess when you sweat unless you’re wearing a full face of makeup and a bunch of mascara and eye makeup AND are completely drenched in sweat. Not just some moderate sweating. Plus makeup fades throughout the day unless you’re reapplying it, so usually after the end of the long work day all that’s left is some mascara and blush and maybe lipstick which isn’t too hard to reapply.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:22 PM
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If you already have makeup on from the work day, why would you go home and put more on? It’s highly inconvenient to take makeup off before a workout unless you have a clean non smelly bathroom at the gym and quality makeup removal products.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:17 PM
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Do you identify as a nice guy? Do you resent that in high school these women should have picked you and now they are single moms because they didn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:50 PM
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No they don’t. Not once have I seen women mocking men under 6 feet tall on social media unless it was linked by a manosphere man. But without even looking I see men insulting single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:32 PM
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But nobody is claiming to be a victim. Objectively speaking about how men are hostile and aggressive online isn’t being a victim. It’s merely communicating observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:31 PM
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But attitude isn’t an answer. Plus, I have answered your question. I am friendly, fit, feminine, fertile, submissive, have a good job, and am fairly attractive. Things men claim to prioritize. But you continuously dodge the question. Nobody is chasing you. You repeatedly make comments about how high value you are, so prepare to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:52 PM
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So then don’t chastise me for “seeking out” this content. It’s there. It’s male nature to berate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:38 PM
1

I don’t need to announce it because I don’t run around claiming to be a prize. You do. So what makes you prize worthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:35 PM
0

Men insult single moms everywhere. I don’t need to seek it out. It’s just there. A single mom will post something and multiple men come out of the woodworks to insult her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:34 PM
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But you never specify what these women get out of a relationship with you. You claim to have an Apollo stone like lifestyle with a harem of young women who you have orgies and stuff with. But you never say what they get beyond “muh dick” and “sex with a high value man” and “they can consent! (When I never questioned their consent)”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:10 PM
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Because you can reject a single mom without humiliating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:08 PM
5

You can reject someone without berating them and constantly mocking them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:05 PM
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You changed the subject to crappy friends. This guy who I am responding to is trying to justifying lying about what he wants for sex. He is doing a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:19 AM
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Most women don’t? You’re attempting to troll and make rebuttals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:06 AM
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I didn’t say it’s all women. I said it’s pathetic women since op asked what a pathetic woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:05 AM
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Women aren’t men. We aren’t degenerate the way men are. When men have casual sex they feel like they are entitled to a harem of women and need variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:00 AM
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It’s an anecdote. A crappy example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:59 AM
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Women who go on men’s dating forums and unironically post offensive memes about how horrible women are. <image> An example is this. A woman posted this on a dating Facebook group which has become overrun by red pill men. On a regular basis she posts memes that are meant to shock, offend, and attack women and she calls it accountability. It isn’t surprising when a man does it because so many men behave like shit towards women online. But when a woman does it she’s against her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:53 PM
5

But why should there be a trade off?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:58 PM
0

Basing your life views on porn is not healthy. Most people do not lead porn lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:41 PM
2

Why should there be “consequences” for casual sex which is entirely consensual?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:40 PM
3

A clean shave or some stubble is my preference. A beard is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:42 PM
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I said “even when I was younger” because men always tell us that we just date casually when we are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:07 PM
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<image> https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:06 PM
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Attractive or not, that doesn’t give you the right to hurt or deceive someone for the sake of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:25 PM
2

Saying that it’s me personally is a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:24 PM
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I still do. It’s imperative not to bullshit around. I don’t know why you would insinuate that I somehow changed my behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:23 PM
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Plenty of people can and do discuss intentions for marriage on the first date or first few dates. Even when I was young, I would explicitly tell everyone that I was looking for a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:42 PM
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Why can’t you? You would rather mislead someone and then hurt them than find someone you’re looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:41 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/gRF4PNCq6C That’s the premise of my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:31 PM
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Then don’t tell me it’s all I can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:30 PM
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Reported for personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:12 PM
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Men already constantly complain about their only options. When I posted that most men here do have options and can find people like those who do meth to easily they got mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:00 PM
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Regardless, of your opinion on it, it is still work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:58 PM
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It also doesn’t change that it’s work, and it brought a bunch of eyes onto a business many haven’t heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:37 AM
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Ah yes, we have to be okay with dating little men, obese men, a guy with a bunch of kids and baby mamas, who eats glue, didn’t graduate elementary school, in six figures of debt, who is elderly, looks like he got hit in the face with a truck, and/ or a red pilled gamer/ porn/ hard drug addict or else our standards are too high and we are delusional. What a humbling experience. I will totally go after the little person elderly meth addict in order to not be delusional. Since I am post wall I must…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:35 AM
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Just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean it isn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:30 AM
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Why should we try to understand men who attack us constantly? Tell us we expire after a certain age? Write essays about how fat we are? Humble brag about having a harem of women who are half their age who they treat questionably? Insult us for any mistake we ever made in our past? Insult us if we are not a virgin but then God forbid we lose our virginity too old because “lol only unattractive women are a virgin after age__”. Who say that we are lusting after abusive Chads all the time and are bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:48 AM
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Because you’re insisting until your breath turns blue that women can’t handle sales and the rejections that come with it and somehow associating that with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:32 AM
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Kind of like how the men are commenting “women shouldn’t be allowed to work” and “the Taliban was right” on the video op posted?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:31 AM
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I have a comment with several videos of men dancing in offices. If you would like me to copy and paste it here I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:31 AM
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Bro these women earn and depend on commission and need to compete with hundreds of other brands and online shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:15 AM
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Regardless of how you feel about it, it isnt also unique for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:14 AM
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YouTube has plenty of evidence https://youtube.com/shorts/5pfnpCPFMtA https://youtu.be/x5-A6N8UUHg https://youtube.com/shorts/o71vAVOaGQ4 https://youtube.com/shorts/aIV_Pp-kGLA https://youtube.com/shorts/TnIg0jrJ06Q YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:13 AM
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So a lot of men were angry and reacted as OP described?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:50 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CyaEuzCOx2E/ Dan Bilzerian with a bunch of instagram models sitting in a hot tub sexily to advertise marijuana.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:33 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CBVZMzKnHb5/ Firemen dancing to advertise a radio channel https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9Mb4_LK5kZ/ Proof that it is marketing https://www.instagram.com/p/CyaEuzCOx2E/ Dan Bilzerian sitting in a hot tub with a bunch of models to advertise his marijuana business
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:32 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzXDVA5osmV/ Blue collar men dancing and having fun, many groups of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:30 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzXDVA5osmV/ It took me like 10 seconds to find a reel of firemen and military men and blue collar men dancing. Yes some women are in this compilation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:30 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9Mb4_LK5kZ It’s a skincare commercial to show how much fun they have at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:28 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9Mb4_LK5kZ/ It’s a skincare advertisement. Take a chill pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:27 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9Mb4_LK5kZ/ This is a skincare advertisement. Not just fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:26 AM
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“I have a sales job and women can’t handle sales so all women are bad” Bro go to any beauty or luxury store where sales is the dominant force and it’s mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:04 AM
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This is what I was talking about in my other thread. Women don’t approach men because men tell us that something must be very wrong with us if we experience rejection. In your mind, a woman cannot be rejected unless she has something deeply wrong with her a.k.a. being a whore. You do not have any notion or idea that a woman could be rejected for not being a guy type and I don’t even mean obese. I just mean not being his type. To you, and to many other men, rejection is just normal for men but de…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:58 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/DYvIm74MiZ This guy here is saying that women who are used for casual sex are being used because they are unworthy for anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:43 PM
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Yes he would. If the average Joe is with a woman he doesn’t deem attractive enough for a relationship, he will absolutely use her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:26 PM
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<image> Men don’t like women their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:25 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/u/Economy-Shake-1448/s/A5pt8hNvf3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:23 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/u/Economy-Shake-1448/s/skDgq7OzBd 66% of men only messaged 33% of Women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:23 PM
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Since when are you going to change the subject? My point was that the men here don’t like women. Not that women don’t try to understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:18 PM
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You are arguing about flairs. I am arguing about what you blatantly said. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:15 PM
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<image> It isn’t my feelings. It’s facts. Your quote is right here. Only virgins are allowed to make a man wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:49 PM
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It isn’t feminazism, and speak for yourself for supporting and sympathizing with a killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:49 PM
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I did read it. You said only virgins are allowed to “demand” that men wait for sex. You get mad when women say this is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:42 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/qxVwGHGiWp Another day, another guy getting mad about his experiences from tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:38 PM
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Lmfao no. Females get ignored by everyone unless they are hot. Most women experience cat calling when they are minors. And even if they do experience it as an adult, it is never in good fun and lighthearted but a man trying to sexually harass her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:37 PM
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Most men here say things like “it’s impossible for a woman to truly love a man unless he’s a Chad” and they genuinely believe it and genuinely aren’t trolling. Also, most men here also go on angry rants about how fat ans ugly most American women are and how they can’t stand women their own age and only want women ages 18-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:35 PM
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Pink pill isn’t neo Nazi. You openly sympathize with Elliot Roger who unalived a bunch of men instead of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:31 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/e002tFrCaw This isn’t my feelings. Even you have snark and attitudes towards women. Right here. You are all mad that a woman may have had sex faster in the past but doesn’t anymore. She may have been hurt, gotten zero value from having sex early, or used. Instead of working on understanding this, you choose to view her as a monster who was lusting after a Chad and rejected everyone else as beta bux. When a woman says this is wrong, you get mad. Have…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:26 PM
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“I am trying to be snarky because even though catcalling is dangerous and scary I am going to put women down for not liking it and not counting it as valid male attention”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:23 PM
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I do. It’s how the men here behave. Look how angry they are about tinder and getting no matches. They seethe and write an essay about how women only want hot chads because of their experiences on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:19 PM
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It is honest. Every time I say women aren’t evil monsters, you guys come out of the woodworks to put me down and women down. Always coming up with some kind of snarky “gotcha” or comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:18 PM
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They aren’t trolling just to troll. They are trolling to get revenge on a woman they deem unworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:17 PM
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That’s your logic because you clearly are upset that I don’t consider catcalling to be good male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:14 PM
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It usually is. In the real world, most of the guys here are basing their views of women on tinder and that makes them deeply upset. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:12 PM
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No she is not. You guys just get deeply offended and enraged any time a woman says that we aren’t monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:11 PM
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Being used for sex is not validating in any way, shape, or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:06 PM
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Catcalling is scary and only usually happens in shady neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:05 PM
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No one likes to be catcalled though. It’s scary especially if you’re alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:04 PM
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They both get zero attention
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:03 PM
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It is at the expense of someone else to tell her how undesirable and low value she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:03 PM
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All of this is proving my point: they absolutely do not get male validation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:36 AM
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As minors. Once they get older men don’t want them anymore lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:35 AM
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They aren’t. The experiences of an average and below woman is the same as an average and below man. Some men may look at her, some men may look at him. It is absolutely not at the level of the top women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:35 AM
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It isn’t baselessly. Men project their own faults onto women. For example: men tend to be hypercritical and brutal about women’s bodies (proof: how they behave when a fat woman makes a post on social media or how they behave when a woman who is over 30 talks about her dating struggles on social media: lots of trolling and attacking). Men assume that because they are so critical and hostile about how women look, women must be the same and be incredibly picky and judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:34 AM
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Yes. Absolutely. Most women are not young, fit, and conventionally attractive. Most men in general don’t notice most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:03 AM
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“I’m European and on a predominantly anglophone board that is mostly American/ Canadian! How dare women have the audacity to view things in their lens ans not in the lens of my European country!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:33 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/z5WX0uuehf Hot off the presses
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:31 AM
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Consent. The woman who is agreeing to casual sex is consenting to be there. The prostitute is not necessarily consenting unless she’s getting a bunch of money and it is her dream job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:39 AM
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lol she is a good example because she has a whole collection of birkins and her life is set. Trump is more of a good friend who provides her a nice lifestyle than an actual romantic partner. It worked out for them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:28 AM
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They don’t. They get mocked and put down and insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:11 AM
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Women absolutely do not get male validation from being a ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:10 PM
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Multiple men called her fat and disgusting. Although she is pretty much average and the equal of the average man in age, weight, height, and looks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:59 PM
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lol, how does this take away from anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:58 PM
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Most women realized that men don’t care about their pleasure during a hoe phase and that they gain absolutely nothing from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:34 PM
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Marriage or 2-3 years is enough time for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:34 PM
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These “boring men” need to start going after boring women. <image> This is the average female body type. Boring blah average men need to go for their match. Boring blah average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:33 PM
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We are only interested in sharing a man if these circumstances are met: He’s a billionaire He financially supports me and our kids for the rest of our lives so that we never have to work again and we can live in lavish luxury forever He’s gone most of the time so we can just ignore him and pretend he isn’t there Like okay if I am going to be a multi billionaire and my kids will be too and I never have to interact with this man aside from on occasion than I’ll happily share him. In fact, hopefull…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:32 PM
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“Why is it bad that men are honest about being degenerates? Should men lie about being degenerates?” The issue isn’t the honesty over here. The issue is that they are degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:29 PM
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<image> He is the one being uncivil. He said that I have a movement with “nasty little stunts” when I don’t have any movement that identify with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:23 PM
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If we were both working 40 hours per week, then yes. But if I make 95% of the income, why is he working full time? Why can’t he become a stay at home parent or homemaker? Unless he genuinely wants to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:13 PM
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Making less money isn’t “being bad at making money”. You are both working full time. You split the housework. If one of you isn’t working at all, then you obviously don’t split housework 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:10 PM
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That doesn’t change the fact that you divide housework based on hours worked, not income. It’s easy to have a conversation about what you are good at and bad at and compromise as to who does what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:03 PM
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I didn’t say he was whining. I said men whine about how women don’t take their abuse seriously. Men is a generic term. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/N6ocvycwha https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/u9clFbk0qB https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/3RexPtQw1h https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/KytLjtkoeq All of these are examples of men who believe we don’t pay enough attention to the abuse that women can impose. You chime in and say “nice” when a 14 …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:44 PM
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Most men earn more money than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:37 PM
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Cleaning is not the only chore. You have: Taking care of kids Taking care of aging parents Going to the grocery store and other errands like Target Taking kids to and from activities like music lessons, camp, art classes, and sports Taking kids to and from school Taking everyone to and from medical/ dental/ vision appointments (especially aging parents)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:36 PM
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Yeah why would he want her to be a SAHM if she doesn’t want to be one? The men here constantly whine about alimony and child support. If the wife has her own career and money, then in the event of a divorce she will come out with less of “his” (even if they are married and sharing everything) earnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:34 PM
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Why doesn’t he want to hire a maid? I wouldn’t want to be with a millionaire who is resentful about cleaning and cooking and childcare. Is he going to pay for me to be a stay at home mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:32 PM
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If you’re married, all money is shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:32 PM
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You don’t split housework based on income. You split on hours worked. If he’s making 60% of the income but working 20 hours per week to her 40 hours per week, then he does 66% of the hour work and she does 33%. A 1:2 ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:31 PM
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“This guy says he is a multi millionaire on Reddit so it must be true!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:30 PM
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Yes he was. Men whine that we don’t take their abuse seriously. Then when abuse happens guys like you step in and diminish it and insist it’s all good fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:26 PM
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Yes it is. It is misandrist. It says men are degenerates who can’t help but cheat and destroy their families and be crappy fathers for the sake of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:43 PM
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Men got so triggered by the bear thing that they still talk about it to this day even though most women have moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:41 PM
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How delusional do you have to be to assume that just because a woman isn’t married that she has “many bodies”? Or that she absolutely never wants to get married? Or that somehow having a kid will mean that nobody ever forgets you, ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:40 PM
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Rather, they were a response to the fact that London police have advised women “not to go out alone” after Everard’s disappearance, and no one seemed to “bat an eyelid”. She was clapping back after the police said to women they shouldn’t go out alone. You are grasping at sand. You are trying really really hard to prove that mainstream feminists want to impose a curfew on men, but you are using the worst example possible and defending it until your breath turns blue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:22 PM
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No she didn’t. It’s incorporated into the article. It’s a response to the situation. You’re trying to grasp sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:14 PM
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The article says that it wasn’t serious. It was a response to a girl getting kidnapped and unalived in a brutal fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:02 PM
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You are delusional if you think there is going to actually be a curfew on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:01 PM
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Direct quote from the article you linked Boys, calm down please; let’s not get hysterical here. Nobody seriously really thinks a curfew for men is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:50 PM
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You’re mixing up “conservative” with “red pill”. Conservative women don’t want a “red pill” man. They don’t want a man who goes on huge angry rants about Hypergamy and who defend paying for prostitutes until their breath turns blue and who go on instagram to type “expired” under the reel of a lady in her 30’s talking about how she hopes to get married one day. Also, what is “rough and dominant sex”? Men here get offended when I say that things like spanking or calling a guy daddy are pretty beni…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:47 PM
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Commenting on There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD...see this is what I mean when I explain what men need to do to ensure consent. You pay $1000 an hour or more. I consider that fair. This I don’t morally agree with but ethically you are at least respecting consent and making sure the lady isn’t being trafficked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:40 PM
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The female version is a woman who uses escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:36 PM
1

“I just want a real man” is not the same thing as going up to a lady and insulting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:33 PM
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They shouldn’t have. If those hookers weren’t being pimped out themselves, they shouldn’t have. If they were, their pimp should go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:29 PM
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That doesn’t give you the right to berate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:28 PM
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“This is women’s fault!!!!! They rejected men so men have to find prostitutes in sketchy situations to get their sexual desires gratified!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:24 PM
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If a guy pays prostitutes, the prostitutes aren’t enthusiastically enjoying themselves most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:38 PM
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https://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/men-who-buy-sex-have-much-in-common-with-sexually-coercive-men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:37 PM
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If you started at age 14, that means you were a child and were abused in some way. If the prostitute agreed to do it with you, she was absolutely in the wrong, and if she was being pimped out and forced to say yes then her pimp is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:26 PM
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Why do you think these are the same thing? A man who frequents prostitutes is the same as a woman who frequents prostitutes. He isn’t the same thing as a female prostitute. Men and women who frequent prostitutes are bad. Men and women who are sex workers are not bad. Both are in entirely different situations. This isn’t “different standards”. It’s entirely different situations. Would you like me to give you an evidence backed explanation where I link to you the dictionary difference between a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:18 PM
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This sounds like a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:14 PM
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Is he telling these women that he uses escorts and about his past?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:58 PM
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Matured or not, it doesn’t change that the men she slept with were all happy to be there and consenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:37 PM
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I don’t. Show me a quote where I do. You are pulling up what women who are usually young and hot Giga Stacies say in Twitter and applying it to all women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:07 PM
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Even if she is on the pill, the pill doesn’t always work for everyone AND people are prone to human error. So if you miss a day or something or switch up the times you take it, it may not be as effective and you may still get pregnant. That doesn’t mean she’s lying. It also is very hard to prove that she was intentionally lying in this kind of situation. Even if a woman says she is on birth control, just wear a condom anyway. If she’s saying “I will only have sex with you if you don’t have a con…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:05 PM
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You’re comparing apples to oranges. A woman who pays for sex is at the level of a man who pays for sex. A woman who is a sex worker is at the level of a man who is a sex worker. Usually both male and female sex workers are exploited in some way unless there is a unique circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:55 PM
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The woman who has had casual sex usually got enthusiastic consent from every guy she did it with and they were all likely happy to be there. You cannot say the same for a man who uses prostitutes. Would these women have sex with him for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:54 PM
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In other countries the prostitutes are often treated worse than in the USA and in worse situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:25 PM
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It isn’t about being a loser. It’s that they generally do not care about consent, if the woman actually enjoys herself or not, or paying a high wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:24 PM
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don’t like condoms He still is consenting to doing the deed without it. the pill Regardless of if the partner is on the pill or not, he still. Is enthusiastically doing it with her. The pill isn’t always effective and people may miss doses or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:26 PM
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Because the prostitutes in places where it is fully legal and regulated aren’t making six figure salaries and guaranteed to not be trafficked, and the men who push for legalization aren’t in the mood to be paying $3-5k every time they see a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:07 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/u/Economy-Shake-1448/s/PrpPhqOTK1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:04 PM
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So you changed the topic from “how dare you say most Women are invisible to most men” to “most men are invisible to most men and if you call this out, you are trying to get us to date obese chicks!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:02 PM
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That isn’t “rude” though. You are attempting to be snarky and make a clapback. A man who has used prostitutes in the past has paid a woman for her body. 99.99999999% of the time, he isn’t analyzing if she truly consents, going to a highly regulated brothel in Nevada (where it is legal) and paying $5,000 to a prostitute who believes that sex work is her life passion and calling, and showing his ID and agreeing to background/ STD checks and being surveilled on camera in case of crime. In 99.999999…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:54 PM
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By ranking. Women messaged everyone. Men only messaged who they ranked as hot. 66% of men only messaged the top 33% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:51 PM
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Listen stop that shit. Be civil. The studies are soooo far skewed the other way you have to stop. Women find 80% of men below average. If you actually look at the OKCupid study, which I have linked on my profile, women messaged most men but 66% of men only messaged the top 33% of women. Meaning that despite women ranking men lower, women were more than happy to message and date most of these men while men only wanted the hottest women. Why are you obsessed with fat old women? Are you aware women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:50 PM
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It’s not trolling. Most women aren’t young, slim, and conventionally attractive. These are the only women that aren’t invisible to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:40 PM
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I didn’t call them misandrists. I said that they hate men more than misandrists do. There’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:39 PM
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You can politely turn down single moms without absolutely berating and bullying them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:21 PM
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That isn’t the “lives of celebrities”. That’s the way red pill men behave. And red pill men are bigger haters of men than feminists and misandrists are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:09 PM
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Most women are invisible to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:02 PM
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Men in the USA are also fat. It isn’t like they are walking around muscled and buff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:33 AM
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Most men find most women unattractive. For example, men constantly complain that the average American woman is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:22 AM
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Most women don’t want that. Most women are happy with the average man. The problem is that average men HATE average women. For example they complain that American women are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:20 AM
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Because men claim it’s “delusional” for a woman to expect a guy who isn’t a loser and most men believe single moms should settle for abusive men who are nearly homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:31 PM
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Did you pay them each $5k+ for their time, go to Nevada where it’s legal, and go to a brothel filled with cameras where they take a copy of your ID and do a background check and make you do an STD test before you go in the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:07 PM
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I guarantee you that even non religious people look down on men who use prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:06 PM
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Virgin woman or not, it’s absolutely deranged for a man to pay a prostitute because he can’t handle not having sex for a period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:05 PM
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No they aren’t. A woman who was heavily traumatized and had to sell sex to survive can still be a good person and wife. Not a man who is willing to pay a woman to use her body to get his sexual urges met.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:04 PM
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“The only value my wife has is sex. Nothing else.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:54 PM
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Nope. I didn’t. You joked about how she’s a failed comedian. I thought men didn’t care about if women are a failure or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:53 PM
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How alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:53 PM
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Why do you switch to the prostitutes being bad people? Why do you switch both the genders AND position? The women who pay for prostitutes are bad. The women who are prostitutes usually aren’t and are doing it for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:45 PM
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If you repent and have a lot of remorse over it, you can be redeemed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:43 PM
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The average n count for women is 4-6. So it’s deeply unlikely that she slept with the entire football team. Thats just you seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:41 PM
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You switched BOTH the jobs and the sex. And then you’re mad when I have a different opinion on something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:40 PM
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You’re comparing male John’s to female prostitutes. False equivalency. I am more than comfortable saying a woman who pays for prostitutes is also bad. And I think most male sex workers are also heavily traumatized and doing it for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:39 PM
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No matter how you try to spin things, the man who pays women so that he can use their bodies to ejaculate is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:38 PM
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That’s absolutely what you’re supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:37 PM
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Degenerate: Prioritizing busting a nut over anything else. Or wanting kinky/ degrading practices that most women wouldn’t do for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:29 PM
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Unlucky or not, it’s a trashy, degenerate thing to do. Unless he was coerced there is no other excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:45 PM
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No, because I think prostitutes are usually doing it for survival sex. There is no survival instinct when it comes to being a John.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:41 PM
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Sex addiction, degenerate mindset, likely to cheat, transactional view of sex, blurred view of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:05 PM
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This is an oddly specific situation. Why is he with a former sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:40 PM
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Any man that uses prostitutes is not going to be a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:32 PM
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Being a provider isn’t being an ATM. And no, only the women YOU like aren’t kind and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:16 PM
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Wait so do women all want irresistible and trashy “bad boys” who treat them poorly or amazing guys who cater to us and let us use them as ATM’s? Also, why is financially providing for your family considered being used as an ATM? Why is being a kind, considerate, and respectful person being labeled as “catering to them”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:06 PM
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They probably have an unhappy relationship where they are not getting the intimacy and love they want. Not an excuse Perhaps they settled for a girl that others told them too (always a big no no). Or they have a deadbedroom. Or the wife is okay with it because she does not want to sleep with him. Or maybe they just hate their wives. Not an excuse. And as I said, they hate their wives. Not enough information to really say anything. All the reasons you listed reflect hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:56 PM
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They hate their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:34 PM
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Regardless, you’re indicating that the “men don’t care about career” claim is absolutely false. If you don’t care about careers, then you don’t care how prestigious, lucrative, stable, or how much of an “actual career” something is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:31 PM
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She’s a DoorDash driver and Uber driver. It’s clear to me that the whole “men don’t care about career or salary” schpiel is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:59 AM
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Plenty of guys here claim to be like 50 and only date 18-25 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:40 AM
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That’s not a good rebuttal. Even if her body count is lower the men will still seethe about “that one time in college”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:40 AM
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It’s like a daily conversation topic here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:39 AM
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An old guy’s age and looks and socioeconomic match is an old woman. But old men are hypergamous. A hot young lady has infinite SMV. An old guy has none (unless he is rich).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:39 AM
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“Men don’t care about how successful a woman is”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:38 AM
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The pink pill isn’t an ideology like the red pill men have. It’s just women pointing out the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:37 AM
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“Men don’t care about women’s careers@
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:37 AM
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It isn’t “man hate”. It’s truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:07 AM
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“men don’t care about how much money women make” 🙄 🙄 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:05 AM
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Usually they are more than happy to date fat men. Can’t say the same for fat men with fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:41 AM
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Men especially. Including fat men, due to the male hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:37 AM
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Doesn’t matter, fat men hate fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:33 AM
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I feel like most of the men here are just angry that the average American woman is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:30 AM
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https://youtu.be/ybwzwYLlCW8? Women don’t want to do hookups anymore because it isn’t serving them. Men just seethe with jealousy and rage and over analyze that a woman may have had a hookup or casual fling in the past that didn’t serve her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:25 AM
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guys send her money everyday on snap and insta because she’s so hot, it’s weird I don’t fully comprehend why these simps do it. Men aren’t doing this for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:59 AM
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You literally just gave me some “alpha male” answers to questions from almost 3 months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:12 AM
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Why are you trolling on posts from 73 days ago? U mad that I held you accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:11 AM
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It’s ok to say your girlfriend is a sex worker. It’s not shameful, aside from amongst red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:10 AM
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It’s not “vitriol” to hold someone accountable for being a bully. And no, men who are old should date old women instead of being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:37 AM
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As someone who has also spent excessive time on incel websites and they claim “average” is Ariana grande with no makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:36 AM
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No, I don’t know that. Being snarky and mean online to random women online isn’t “discipline” it’s just bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:29 AM
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“Incels” tend to be lunatics and losers who can’t stand that they have to date lunatic and loser women instead Of good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:28 AM
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Men absolutely end relationships and me calling you delusional and holding you accountable for saying a blatant lie isn’t “seeing red”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:26 AM
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For women who are hypergamous always looking for next best thing, or only offer themselves to the hottest man in any room. It’s a revenge fantasy that more often than not comes true. It sounds like you only ever paid attention to the hottest women in the room. This is true of a lot of dating women, they have nervous breakdowns sometime in their 30s that Chad no longer wants her and she’s going to have to settle for some normie. It sounds like you only ever liked Stacies I’m 46 I’ve known enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:25 AM
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It’s not “seeing red” to hold people accountable for saying nonsense. You sound like you’re seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:24 AM
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“I want to discipline women on Instagram to make them useful human beings! I am a badass alpha!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:23 AM
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Men are more likely to compromise ABHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH they are only willing to “compromise” if she is young and hot and thin. And no, lunatics and loser men don’t want to wife up loser and lunatic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:20 AM
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You can’t call women a “misandrist” just because you don’t agree with them. And men absolutely break up for no or for stupid reasons. Delusional to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:18 AM
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None likes to be around people you don't actually like, but tolerate. Talking in harsh ways makes them recognize it, and improve, or at least, not be in your presence if they are not ready to improve. So win-win. So it’s a punishment tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:15 AM
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Sounds like a revenge and punishment fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:14 AM
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It’s not misandry to say men break up with their girlfriends. Weak attempt at snark.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:12 AM
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It’s not “misandrist scum”. The men who go out of their way to call women expired are “scum” and should be held accountable as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:08 AM
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Partly true, but have you ever consider the fact some women, are themselves, losers and lunatics, who need to be with their match and not be delusional about their preference? If that were the case, then these men who say “expired” would be more than happy to date their loser/ lunatic female counterpart. When you reach 25, your collagen starts to decrease and you show noticable signs of aging. And men don’t like that. Hence why men don’t like their looks or age match. It’s Hypergamy. Women and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:08 AM
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<image> This is what men consider fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:05 AM
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Yeah women aren’t delusional though. Men are. And women just want a guy to not be a loser. Men want her to be a hot young supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:21 PM
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Let’s see you step up and give a logical sound explanation that contradicts what we say then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:21 PM
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1) to punish women for rejecting them in their youth. Even if the rejection is just perceived or the woman who he is punishing has nothing to do with the women who rejected him in the past. Men are especially upset when they don’t get a lot of matches on dating apps. 2) they want to humble women to settle and date losers and lunatics who are abusive because “women are too delusional” and “their standards are too high”. 3) alternative is that the men/ boys saying this are like 21 and under and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:20 PM
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Exactly. So op and you need to admit that men are highly hypergamous and don’t want to date their age matches or looks matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:59 PM
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Literally just don’t be a loser. That’s a single demand. And you made 3. Hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:48 PM
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IF SHE IS BEING SKETCHY THEN YOU PAY ATTENTION TO IT. AND ADDRESS IT USING PROPER METHODS. IF SHE ISNT THEN YOU IGNORE IT
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:45 PM
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Men are the ones with higher standards than reasonable. This is how men talk about women their own age. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:44 PM
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The women who run around having sex with an old guy who is paying for their expenses are still single lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:43 PM
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It isn’t a game to be straightforward. Do you not hear how delusional you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:38 PM
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It’s delusional to think that wanting a serious relationship is “games” and wanting a man to fix your life. Also, they are sugar babying themselves for free trips to places.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:20 PM
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<image> Reading comprehension is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:17 PM
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Men are absolutely delusional. Look how many men would rather pay for only fans stars than get with their looksmatch. Look how many men are resentful that their SMV is lower in the USA so they be passport bros because they can’t stand the thought of being with their looks and age match. Look how obesity amongst women is a daily theme here but not obesity amongst men. Look how many guys over 30 believe they can get a hot 18-25 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:20 PM
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Enormous list of demands just don’t be a loser enormous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:09 PM
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A 17 year old is not a woman. And a teacher shouldn’t be paying attention to whether or not his students have crushes on him unless he’s concerned that she may do something sketch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:08 PM
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It’s the same as going on Reddit. I clearly hit a sore spot for you, and you took it personally. Of course a woman is going to enjoy a free vacation. Doesn’t mean she won’t enjoy it more with someone her own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:07 PM
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natural polygyny means that fathers are naturally useless and unnecessary. If he’s running around impregnating a bunch of women, then he isn’t going to be present as a father. Biologically, the father is useless. Also, a woman’s SMV comes from her youth, beauty, and fertility. A man’s comes from his money. A man who is old but wants a young lady is hypergamous unless he has money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:11 PM
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No, you identified with his lifestyle. He’s in his 30’s and had a harem of young women. It turns out he was being sketch with them, abusing them, coercing them, and possibly trafficking them. The women were messed up and the interactions weren’t entirely consensual. Women aren’t naturally attracted to much older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:08 PM
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Apollo Stone is going to court for human trafficking lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:37 PM
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For men, social status is money. For women, it’s youth, beauty, and fertility. An old ugly man who isn’t wealthy is hypergamous if he wants a young beautiful fertile woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:36 PM
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So men are competing for the top 5% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:35 PM
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When I was 26-27 I would talk with men in their 40’s to make fun of them on tinder. Once a guy said he has a thing for younger women and bragged to me that he dated a 19 year old once in another country. I got massive ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:35 PM
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teacher women age 17 red pill + black pill man I won’t say it out loud 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:33 PM
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No? She likely has a large down payment for a house saved up, if not the ability to buy a house in cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:46 PM
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In California, many people who make over $100k a year still live with their parents or with roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:07 AM
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Homie, binge eaters are much bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:04 AM
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Homie, binge eaters are much bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:04 AM
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By THREE POUNDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:20 PM
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Most men find most women unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:19 PM
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USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:18 PM
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Yes I have seen this subreddit. I understand that most men enjoy humiliating most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:18 PM
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Yes, most men find most women unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:15 PM
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<image> This is a statistically average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:10 PM
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The people in reality TV are usually getting paid in some way for their struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:03 PM
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It’s not fun nor alpha to berate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:50 PM
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She absolutely does not look like a binge eater.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:49 PM
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Imagine finding berating people fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:49 PM
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“I’m alpha”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:42 PM
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You can reject a single mom without going on a mission to put her down and humiliate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:38 PM
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<image> For the record, this is the height and age and weight range that is average that you’re screeching “PUT THE FORK DOWN!” About.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:33 PM
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It sounds like he likes sexy hoe type of women then whines when they act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:31 PM
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The men here get deeply offended and are angry when all they attract are fat women or single moms c
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:28 PM
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https://x.com/ItIsHoeMath/status/180505304144531491 Why does the hoe math guy like women who are into polyamory? He’s ignoring red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:25 PM
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Self awareness of what? We can’t swipe left on everything. And you guys complain so much about n count, we can’t sleep with it date everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:22 PM
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That’s not normal my friend. It’s a sign of dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:00 PM
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Why should a woman with kids settle for a shit man who treats her like shit? So that her kids can be abused even more?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:58 PM
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Why the fuck does he need to humble women for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:04 PM
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Yes that will show those b*tchez whose boss and why they are evil for swiping left on me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:05 PM
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Maybe younger men should stop screaming that women expire at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:26 PM
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Older men need to keep humble and stop being hypergamous and date women within their own age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:18 PM
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If you go on the Kevin Samuel’s Facebook groups, you will see that it’s filled with a certain kind of man who is bitter and wants to humble women. I typed “Kevin Samuels” on Facebook and I found these posts: A meme saying that women who wear wigs, makeup, and nice clothes are lying about who they are. Men complaining about gold diggers Single mothers are bad This woman has 3 kids with 3 different men and wants you to provide a lavish lifestyle! Women say “I feel like” too much! “Give me one reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:34 PM
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It is equality to help out and do tasks that alleviate the burden on your wife who is a SAHM. It’s incredibly selfish to say “I am the breadwinner and you’re a SAHM, and I refuse to do ANYTHING at home unless you get a job”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:17 PM
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There are more single men than women in their 20’s because ALL MEN of ALL AGES want women in their 20’s. Men in their 20’s want women in their 20’s, as do men in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, and beyond. Plenty of men here even say they refuse to date any woman over 25 or 30 despite being older themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:54 PM
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Kids repeatedly throw shit on the floor, spill things, and overall just make a mess. Over and over again it’s pretty mean spirited and selfish to have a tantrum that there are cheerios on the floor and refuse to pick them up or refuse to pick up some toys off the floor because “I am the one making money here, you should be the one picking it up! If you don’t like it get a job!” You can do basic tasks around the house that may not be time or energy consuming (like picking up a spill or tidying up…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:46 PM
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He asked for ideal. Ideal means perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:50 AM
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A number of men here claim to have a high n count and refuse to marry any woman who isn’t a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:20 AM
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They heavily overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:43 PM
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I didn’t grow up with a curfew but I also never wanted to go out late. Not once have I had a desire to be out past like midnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:36 PM
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But if you want a woman with traditional values (looks hot and thin) then prepare to be traditional yourself (cover all the bills).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:26 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/NUH2yrRPnu Easy peasy there you go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:27 PM
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Tell that to the self proclaimed men’s rights activists who expect a virgin bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:41 PM
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I’m glad my parents care about me and my future. Yall can whine about western women all you want, but then you guys hate non western values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:39 PM
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They insist that it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:38 PM
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AND their husbands provide for them. Sounds like they are a lot more relaxed and happy than in the USA where men cry about gold diggers if a woman expects him to provide for a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:38 PM
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Not true. Plenty of men here claim to be older and dating and some even have a harem of extremely hot young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:34 AM
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I did t say that they are thin because men are giving their incomes to them. I said that they are thin AND men give their incomes to them. They are a lot happier and less stressed out than the women here who have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:33 AM
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That’s your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:30 AM
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Rent where I live is $3000 a month minimum for a one bedroom studio. Houses are all over $1.5 million. Renting a room is like $1300 a month. Minimum. So things are expensive and he has to be able to carry his weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:30 AM
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“Pick better men!” “I refuse to provide crucial information about who I am until we have sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:28 AM
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Considering how hostile men get about n count, why should we raise our n counts and have sex with them? So that they can berate us about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:28 AM
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Most men are not willing to date women who are nearly homeless or make minimum wage, after the woman hits a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:21 AM
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The average n count over a lifetime for women is 4-6 total. So most women already fulfill that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:20 AM
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No, she’s just making sure he doesn’t financially depend on her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:20 AM
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You’re 21. Of course you think a woman who is over like 23 or 24 is old. When I was 21, “older man” meant 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:18 PM
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<image> Why are men so pressed that we expect them to have a reasonably decent job?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:09 PM
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Age 18-40 is what everyone wants, but it doesn’t mean it’s the active dating demographic. Older people date too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:01 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_Austria https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8834843/ Overweight is at about 40% in Poland and Austria
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:09 PM
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They’re giving their resources and time to these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:52 AM
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Reddit, 4chan, TikTok, And yes they are more pure. Less eyes have been on them. That’s purer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:10 AM
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I know you desperately want to be right. But it is. Men see she’s famous, and want to see what all the high value is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:02 AM
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Just search for them. They are more pure, and purity is higher value right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:57 PM
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She’s high value if she’s a multi millionaire sex worker. Men don’t mind sharing or making her rich because of her value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:56 PM
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High value enough to pay for nudes of even though she’s a stranger and free porn is online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:56 PM
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So men don’t think a woman is good at only fans unless she’s preselected and popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:55 PM
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So you admit that men value preselection bias. They consider a woman higher value if a bunch of other men also want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:35 PM
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So why don’t they pay it to the less famous only fans creators?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:31 PM
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If men don’t want to share the same high value woman, then why do they have no problem paying the same only fans stars?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:28 PM
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Poor little victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:26 PM
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This sounds like red pill men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:24 PM
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Ooh sick burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:41 PM
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You’re just playing dense to troll. Losing weight involves a major change in life habits. It is not the same as getting plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:38 PM
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But if she lost weight she no longer is ugly. And you guys are the ones who shriek “put down the twinkies!” So she isn’t naturally fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:36 PM
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Most men can easily physically dominate most women. This isn’t sexism or misandry it’s literally a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:59 PM
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The man vs bear debate is simply a hypothetical about the worst case scenario. The worst case scenario with a man is to be Junko Furuta’ed. The worst case scenario with a bear is to be injured and pass away. Most women know most men aren’t going to Junko Furata them. For some reason, this has triggered men, especially the men who use “triggered” as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:57 PM
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No, the crowd would not side with women automatically especially in the situation you described. Had he been arrogant or harassing her, then the crowd would side with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:07 AM
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If he goes for his equals (old well kept women) then they aren’t hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:06 AM
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I think that this interaction is childish. I also think that it’s also naive and childish to make an entirely separate post discussing this topic in depth and claiming that you’re surprised that Redditors aren’t automatically taking the side of the woman. It’s also naive to think that this is the average OLD experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:04 AM
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He’s hypergamous. He isn’t young anymore yet feels entitled to a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:59 AM
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That’s an anecdote though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:59 AM
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”JUST THAT SHE MIGHT IF SHE NEEDS TO DATE MEN LIKE ME.” “I JUST DON’T WANT TO HAVE A KID WITH A 32 YEAR OLD WOMAN, RESPECTFULLY” I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:48 PM
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<image> You literally said you wouldn’t want her and she would die alone if she wants men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:35 PM
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<image> You clearly are saying never and said she would die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:22 PM
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Men constantly tell us we age like milk and become undesirable after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:12 PM
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You answered on my question that if your daughter was 32 and single, you would tell her that she isn’t attractive and young enough to find a man like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:12 PM
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So since he got to be a Chad, what is his revenge now? A man who is over like 40 cannot be a Chad anymore. He’s too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:50 PM
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tHeY aLl DiD tHe SaMe In ThEiR pRiMe Except for he also had a ton of sex with hot women in his prime too, according to OP, and he has a bunch of kids with a bunch of baby mamas. So he clearly isn’t a neglected nice nerdy guy. He clearly was some kind of “chad” in his youth. Also, as a neglected nice nerdy girl, it’s nice to know that men who are my equals are hypergamous and would rather be with someone who is much hotter and younger than them than their literal equal: a nerdy weird girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:35 PM
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Considering that a shit ton of men get angry when I say things like “parenting doesn’t end when the kid is an adult and you should support them as best as you can and help them get a leg up in life even as adults and don’t squander their inheritance away on things like being a passport bro”, it’s hard to view most men as family men. I won’t hesitate to support my kids so that they can excel when they are adults as long as my basic needs and whatnot are met. This enraged so many men that it’s har…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:31 AM
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Moms already fund their kids as much as they can. This should be natural for men too, but it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:35 PM
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This isn’t JUST in the USA. This is in most of the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:26 PM
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“I was proven wrong so I am now focusing on the color of the text and background”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:11 PM
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but other people and men may think differently Then they are terrible fathers and terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:28 PM
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<image> It’s you. You’re the red pill man who doesn’t believe it’s alpha to be a good father.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:28 PM
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Even if your kid is an adult and can fend from themselves, that doesn’t mean that you aren’t their parent anymore. JFC my kid getting some wealth and being able to do things like pay off their student loans or buy a house or pay off their house is more valuable to me than sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:25 PM
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Because his kids are more important than sex workers/ desperate impoverished women. His kids come first. And that means their inheritance comes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:42 PM
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These are resources that should go to his kids and grandkids. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:28 PM
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<image> This is how men here responded when I said my dad wouldn’t flip off to the Philippines and be a passport bro, even when I am an adult. How my dad still cares about me and loves me as an adult and wants me to get the best inheritance possible. Considering that this is the typical male perspective on parenting their adult children, why should you guys claim to be the superior parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:13 PM
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Imagine personally attacking a woman because she has a good dad and has a good relationship with her dad. Foul behavior. You guys cry about how women don’t value a father’s role in their kids’ lives but do everything you can to insist that men shouldn’t be fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:10 PM
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Red pill Men: “being a good father isn’t alpha” Also Red Pill men: call women fatherless when they behave a certain way, cry that women don’t appreciate the role of a father, cry that they don’t get custody of their kids, and blame single moms for raising worse off kids Hypocrisy in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:08 PM
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Regardless the women stick around and tend to be the superior parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:48 AM
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ALL MEN want young, fit, college age women. Old men. Fat men. Skinny men. Short men. Tall men. Rich men. Young men. ALL. MEN. if they are so lonely and desperate then they should go for women 5+ years older than them who are average and chubby. NO. MEN. WANT. THOSE. WOMEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:47 AM
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This speaks a lot about men and their parenting abilities lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:35 AM
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Why are so many of the men here claiming to be fit and healthy when the average American/ Western man is overweight? It sounds like they just don’t know their BMI or are in denial, or that fat guys get more action than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:34 AM
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Society doesn’t say that to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:28 AM
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No they don’t. Only the hot young skinny women do, perhaps that’s all that is visible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:18 AM
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The men here sure are, and they identify as traditional or red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:41 AM
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The vast majority of American men are at least overweight too……..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:41 AM
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They absolutely are unreasonable and not bad but delusional. The men do hurt themselves. Look how bitter they are in this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:23 AM
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Every man I know that has a semi decent career is married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:22 AM
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This doesn’t sound stable or high value at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:20 AM
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Why can’t he pick better women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:20 AM
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This guy isn’t you. Why are you interjecting when she wasn’t discussing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:19 AM
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Even as an adult, my dad wouldn’t just flip off to the Philippines and leave me behind. He still wants to be present in my life and spend his time with me, take care of me, and provide for me as needed. My mind is blown that he would sell everything and spend it on himself. My dad wants my siblings and I to inherit everything he has earned and he will split it all evenly amongst us. He wants us to use whatever we inherit when his time comes to do things like pay off our houses, pay for our futur…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:18 AM
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Ah yes, a man who is elderly and a retired cop/ veteran would rather be with a young hot woman in the Philippines than with his looksmatch and equal: an elderly retired lady who is a retired government worker of some kind with her own pension and own house. Who is thin and in decent shape. This is what I mean when I say most men are superficial and their standards are too high. Also, how old are his kids? Men like to lament how their roles as fathers are not valued enough and how women should va…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:15 AM
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And my point is that your argument is flawed. The vast majority of men fulfill the vast majority of women’s height requirements. Meanwhile, the vast majority of women don’t meet men’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:09 AM
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<image> Do you even have any reading comprehension skills? I clearly spelled out that the dramatic vast majority of men are tall enough for the dramatic vast majority of women. You can’t say the same about men. The dramatic vast majority of women absolutely are not thin enough for the dramatic vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:42 PM
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If a man has a. Inch of kids with a bunch of women, he absolutely will not be able to spend as much time with his kids as their mothers were. If you believe this is biologically imperative and natural, then you must also believe that biology believes that the father’s role is less important, as his presence for his kids is less crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:07 PM
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A woman who is slim is by default a higher value woman. She is equal to a man who makes more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:52 PM
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Most women are fine with chubby/ fat guys. We are not superficial about looks the way men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:51 PM
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If men say they struggle with monogamy, it’s basically them giving a testimony that a father’s life doesn’t matter as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:27 PM
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<image> It’s right here. In one of the links. You denying it is there doesn’t change that it’s actually there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:25 PM
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The women absolutely are though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:19 PM
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Source? I listed 4. And how do you know the men who can’t support a family are getting a chaste virgin wife who is hot and skinny and young?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:31 PM
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Yes. Absolutely. A young hot SKINNY childless woman. Edit: also pure You guys whine how it’s unfair that women are not traditional but then don’t want to adhere to traditional values.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:30 PM
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https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/news/content/ar-BB1oEjgo?ocid=superappdhp https://www.japannihon.com/do-japanese-men-give-their-salary-to-their-wives/ https://www.japan-talk.com/jt/new/okozukai Would you like more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:30 PM
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The average Japanese man is able and willing to financially support his wife to be a stay at home mom. The wife also manages the husbands money and gives him an allowance. It isn’t “unfair”. In the USA, yall complained so much about how homemakers are gold diggers that now women have to work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:27 PM
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Multiple men repeated over and over again that she’s obese and undesirable but now when I point this out they backtrack.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:17 PM
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Men in their 40’s 50’s and 60’s absolutely pursue women in their 20’s and a large number of them refuse to date any older than 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:08 PM
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Lmfao she definitely is obese. She’s married to a guy lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:55 AM
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Why can’t the men roughly their age go for older women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:55 AM
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Nobody gives a shit, unless you’re broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:55 AM
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https://www.np.instagram.com/p/C64at4MPk57/ You guys made a massive mockery of this TikTok star and how she looks and her weight. Considering how so many men here called her fat, I clearly believe that the men you are friends with are all rejecting women like her and turning their noses up at them. For that, I have no sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:53 AM
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This is a lot of mental gymnastics to get a completely false statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:43 AM
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It’s statistically average. https://app.mybodygallery.com/#/?height=163&weight=77&age=40 This is pretty much what it looks like <image> Not as obese as you proclaim it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:42 AM
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<image> The reason why less women are single in their 20’s is because ALL MEN want much younger women. These women are dating all other ages. Men are hypergamous and would rather be with a much younger woman than a woman around their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:39 AM
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Men aren’t valued for their age. They are valued for being financially stable. A MUCH easier standard to reach considering you can just go to nursing school and be financially stable. The equal of a hot woman under 30 is a man with a lot of money who can provide well. The equivalent of a woman who is 38 and 5’4” and 170 lbs is a guy making $60k a year. Age is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:03 PM
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From my earlier comment: https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=18&age2=25&excludeMarried=true&excludeMothers=true&race=any,asian,black,hispanic,white&height1=48&height2=79&excludeObese=true&excludeOverweight=true&income=0&incomeType=false& Only 21% of women age 18-25 are not overweight nor obese, not married, and not mothers. That’s 3.8 million women. https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=18&age2=85&excludeMarried=false&excludeMothers=false&race=any,asian,black,hispanic,white&height1=48&height2=79…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:59 PM
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It sounds like you only want the top 3% of women. As stated in my earlier comment: https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=18&age2=25&excludeMarried=true&excludeMothers=true&race=any,asian,black,hispanic,white&height1=48&height2=79&excludeObese=true&excludeOverweight=true&income=0&incomeType=false& Only 21% of women age 18-25 are not overweight nor obese, not married, and not mothers. That’s 3.8 million women. https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=18&age2=85&excludeMarried=false&excludeMothers=false…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:58 PM
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https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=18&age2=25&excludeMarried=true&excludeMothers=true&race=any,asian,black,hispanic,white&height1=48&height2=79&excludeObese=true&excludeOverweight=true&income=0&incomeType=false& Only 21% of women age 18-25 are not overweight nor obese, not married, and not mothers. That’s 3.8 million women. https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=18&age2=85&excludeMarried=false&excludeMothers=false&race=any,asian,black,hispanic,white&height1=48&height2=79&excludeObese=false&exclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:47 PM
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Wallowing in self pity, resentment, and seething isn’t being a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:38 PM
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Yes a cushy office job is where it’s at
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:37 PM
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Same thing. It’s not a good mindset to have. That will destroy most marriages, and the ones that lead to sex just lead to duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:10 PM
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Dude, then calm down and stop proposing men cheat and destroy their marriages for the sake of their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:06 PM
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Holy shit, calm down. Going to Disneyland is also exhausting, stressful, and takes a toll on the body with energy and time but people go anyway. But it’s absolutely delusional to expect it to not drain energy or time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:56 PM
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There was a OYS recently where a dude was put in DB by his wifey after their first born. So he cheated, she found out and suddenly, no DB after they had their second child. So he’s a foul person. He baby trapped her and made sex into an obligation to keep the family together instead of an expression of love. He could have stepped in to take care of the child he produced, but he considered himself too alpha to do so. I wouldn’t be surprised if his wife wasn’t scheming an exit strategy. If she is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:51 PM
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It sounds like you understand nothing about deadbedrooms and have based all your opinions on red pill thought exercises. Here are reasons why women may deadbedroom: 1) having a baby This messes up your hormones and in turn sex drive. Plus a baby is very exhausting and draining. Add to the fact that most moms work and don’t get a long maternity leave, and you have an exhausted and burnt out mom. Sex isn’t going to be on her mind for a while. An easy solution is to take on more baby care and hire …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:37 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/3kfvFQJLgH has an entire post dedicated to how attraction is fluid and how women should lower their standards refuses to find women his own age attractive or lower his standards https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/CbrP4eYLQl claims women are more delusional than men believes that women will want a man 10-20 years older than her who isn’t rich My friend, you literally are being a hypocrite. Your views contradict one another. You can’t make…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:27 PM
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Tbh you sound like you’re trying to flex as an internet edgelord. Look, I don’t care when women say stuff like “I don’t need a man” or “Men ain’t shit”. I will be sliding right in there anyway. These statements are made to infuriate and drive off men that are generally good, they have no affect on bad guys. Do you have a wolf as your profile pic and hang out on anti women facebook groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:18 PM
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The “Typical female response” is to tell a guy that it’s just part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:16 PM
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But I want to filter the guys who pay and get aggressive. Not have them linger there because I am splitting the bill. It’s an exaggerated explanation, but it makes sense. ANY man who anticipates sex on the first date because he paid is a trashy, low value man. And I want to filter him out right away, not have him linger because he feels that he can wait since we split bills 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:00 AM
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Reported for personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:56 AM
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Yes it is. You’re telling women that they are failures in some way if they are rejected. I just should they approach? Men who are rejected aren’t failures but women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:52 AM
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You discuss it then. It still isn’t based on income.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:48 PM
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You need to split housework based on hours worked. Not earnings. Thats what is fair. If you’re both working 40 hours a week, you split the housework 50/50. If you work 60 hours and she works 40, you split it 60/40. If she works part time and you work full time, you split it 80/20. That’s fairness. Also outdoor tasks are usually occasional tasks. You are exempt from chores for that day or period. Not forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:48 PM
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Exactly. Why should we approach if men are the ones telling us we should have a 95% success rate? That’s just fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:45 PM
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Well I want to filter out that one Johnny. And I don’t have a pub where I know everyone and they can give me dating advice. Most of my dating is online. I also don’t generalize all men. I want to filter out the men like this one. I want them gone after the first date. I don’t want to ever see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:44 PM
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Niceness isn’t enough. Idk what you’re trying to argue. A man has to be: Nice Stable: mentally, physically, financially, and emotionally Share values and beliefs Do housework Be a good dad These are all crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:43 PM
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What are some tricks to guessing???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:26 PM
2

Yes the focus is online. IRL people generally will say nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:26 PM
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COPIED AND PASTED COMMENT: You proposed a solution: don’t allow men to pay. This is the issue with your solution: Johnny believes that women owe him sex if he pays for the date. Johnny holds multiple problematic views on women. Johnny goes on a date with Sally. Scenario solution I propose: Johnny and Sally go on a first date. Johnny and Sally hit it off. Johnny pays the bill. He walks Sally to her car and says “wanna go back to my place?” Sally says “I am not ready for sex yet, sorry Johnny. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:25 PM
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I’d rather know a man feels entitled to sex after paying for a meal EARLY ON on the FIRST DATE so that I never have to see him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:24 PM
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You proposed a solution: don’t allow men to pay. This is the issue with your solution: Johnny believes that women owe him sex if he pays for the date. Johnny holds multiple problematic views on women. Johnny goes on a date with Sally. Scenario solution I propose: Johnny and Sally go on a first date. Johnny and Sally hit it off. Johnny pays the bill. He walks Sally to her car and says “wanna go back to my place?” Sally says “I am not ready for sex yet, sorry Johnny. I would love to go on a second…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:23 PM
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Then men need to stop saying how women should have a high success rate and let us know it’s normal for Women to be rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:03 PM
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No they don’t. Men are told that 95% of women will reject them because women are too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:02 PM
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Women don’t tell men they are bad, they just tell men rejection is a part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:02 PM
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No they aren’t. They are only judged if they take it out on the internet and seethe and bitch about it and become “blackpill” or “redpill”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:00 PM
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Exactly. As I said in my post, men blame women who are rejected for their looks, weight, age, or personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:56 PM
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But how are you supposed to know if she isn’t disclosing this???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:52 PM
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I would rather filter out a man who thinks I owe him sex because he paid than go on multiple dates with the same guy who is okay with it because we split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:51 PM
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Men tell us that we should have a 95% success rate and if we don’t, it’s because we are fat, ugly, old, or have a horrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:25 PM
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Many men tell us over and over and over again that if we get rejected several times it’s because we are too ugly or obese because why else would so many men reject usv
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:24 PM
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But men tell each other that it’s normal and a part of life and women are bad. When it happens to a woman, men say it’s because she’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:24 PM
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Men are the ones who tell us that we should have a 95% success rate and if we don’t, we must be obese or hideous or have some terrible personality or “post wall”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:23 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Llwr66MyTA I made a post explaining why women don’t approach. Men tell us over and over and over again that if we are rejected, it must be because we are hideous, old, obese, pursuing Chad, or have a horrible personality. When women reject men, both men and women explain that it’s just a part of life. Men will also go on rants about how women’s standards are too high and how women are too picky and hypergamous. Men are much more supportive of one an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:20 PM
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They do if they are in the bottom 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:15 PM
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I am not angry. I am stating facts. Don’t whine that women don’t approach when you tell them that they are femcels who are only going for 10/10 chads when they get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:15 PM
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Men don’t care. By default, men assume women are all trying to trick and deceive them and virtue signal. Women don’t have the same assumptions about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:10 PM
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So you perpetuate the stereotype in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:31 PM
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This is before you start dating. Not after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:36 PM
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And any time those women get rejected men tell them it’s their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:44 PM
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Then you agree with me. You believe that something is wrong with women who get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:43 PM
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Exactly, you believe that if a woman is rejected, it’s her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:43 PM
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It’s a debate thread. I made an assertive statement and people disagree or agree and try to cmv. Your comment doesn’t make any sense. I didn’t mean it in your ideas don’t make sense, I meant it in that I cannot decipher what you’re trying to say. I have never heard a man say no one wants her why should I unless she has been known to be promiscuous. Like this, I cannot read it. It sounds like word salad. I can’t decipher it. I have heard just about every women on here say that. Say what? You wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:42 PM
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Men constantly tell us that we get used for sex because we don’t go for unattractive men. 80% of men want women who are thin, feminine, and young. Most women aren’t. Most women are rejected as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:40 PM
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We do approach men. Then when rejection happens, yall come in to tell us how we must be so ugly or have a deplorable personality or are obese or something. So then we stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:39 PM
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No, I view him as incompatible in some way. I thee fed a guy for having a medical issue. It isn’t his fault. But I can’t handle the medical issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:38 PM
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Because we are trying to attract men, and we deeply consider what men have to say about us and to us. Men don’t do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:37 PM
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She got rejected 60 times and outside of dating apps. This sounds like the experience of men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:36 PM
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She isn’t a dating coach. She just talks about life and stuff online. I find it strange that your first reaction is to accuse her of lying. It reflects that you believe the stereotype that a moderately attractive woman would never be rejected 60 times and if she has been, it’s because something is wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:35 PM
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“I’m going to blame you! It’s your fault!!!!!” 1 hour later: “Why don’t women approach men 😭😭😭”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:26 PM
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“It’s your fault because you probably only approached Chad! Also only bad women approach men!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:25 PM
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Women get rejected and ask out men all the time. https://youtu.be/C8xj26Hkqg4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:25 PM
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I am not. I am explaining what men say and do online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:24 PM
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If you can't make a man feel like he wants a relationship with you, thats a you issue. You’re proving my point. Men tell women that they are deeply flawed and hideous if they are unable to get a relationship. It’s always the woman’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:23 PM
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It’s all of social media. 4chan is one example of many. This is men speaking without a filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:23 PM
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Being strung along for sex is a rejection for women because it lowers their SMV and RMV. For men it doesn’t. For men, they say “doesn’t matter, had sex”. So men aren't desperate anymore? How can a woman could ever get rejected so much? Exactly you say she must be hideous or obese or something. So women are told they are failures if they experience rejection because men are supposedly desperate. So nobody ever says it's a man's fault? For doing it at all (cold approaches are bad remember), for do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:22 PM
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https://youtu.be/C8xj26Hkqg4 Women absolutely do. You saying that it’s delusional that we get rejected perpetuates the stereotype: only hideous women get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:20 PM
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See? You blame the woman. “It’s your fault because you asked out Chad!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:19 PM
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In*cel has transformed into a group of men who hate women. It’s no longer about not being able to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:18 PM
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This comment doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:18 PM
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That isn’t the point. The point is that you said that something is wrong with a woman if she gets rejected a bunch because men are more likely to accept them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:15 PM
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Yes and when that happens men say it’s our fault, that this is because the guys are “Chads”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:13 PM
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Sounds like you’re contributing to the stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:11 PM
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This is how men talk about women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:40 AM
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Then when she gets rejected you say “omf you must be hideous or obese lmfao”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:37 AM
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We do approach, get rejected, go on Reddit or 4chan, hear men tell us how awful we must be if we’re being rejected, believe them, and stop approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:36 AM
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Thats why women don’t approach. We get rejected as often as men do, and yall go out of your way to tell us that something is deeply wrong with us when we do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:35 AM
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Not imperfection. The message is that they are hideous or obese. Not a cute little imperfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:15 AM
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We do, then we get humbled, then guys will say stuff like “omg how come you were rejected are you hideous” and then we learn rejection = we look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:15 AM
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On Reddit and social media I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:14 AM
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Men comfort each other for rejection but attack women for rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:14 AM
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For sex, not relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:13 AM
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Yes I forgot this point I will bring it up next time men whine that we don’t approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:35 AM
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The bottom 80% of women have to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:22 AM
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For both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:22 AM
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This is what I mean. If a woman gets rejected many times, you guys blame her for wanting “Chad”. It’s always her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:24 AM
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But if they didn’t have a success rate, you would assume something is wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:22 AM
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Yes they do. They say it’s their dream and that it also is unfair and that we need to have empathy for their experiences even though we literally get rejected all the time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:22 AM
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Because men ask us to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:15 AM
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That perpetuates the stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:13 AM
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That’s it. Men always say “why don’t women approach us?” It’s because we are taught from adolescence that rejection means something is wrong with us. That we should be able to step foot outside and just find a boyfriend with the snap of a finger, and if we can’t, it’s our fault in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:13 AM
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I agree that both genders don’t want to face rejection. But for men it’s normalized, just another part of life that sucks but is to be expected. But women are taught, especially by men, and sometimes by women , that asking a single man out when you’re reasonably attractive should be a guaranteed yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:11 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:48 PM
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/u/OutOfOranges here is more oversized text.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:47 PM
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Everyone here claims to be making a bunch of money. Furthermore, having a high SMV/ RMV doesn’t mean you will never be rejected. It just means you will experience less of it. Everyone faces rejection, not just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:23 PM
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If it’s so fluid and relative, why do men constantly tell us how they can’t stand western women and how western women are all fat/ ugly? Their attraction should be proportionate to their options and abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:52 PM
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Well they should stop telling us over and over again how undesirable we are and how desirable they are then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:50 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/5XK8CfTIfE In this thread, I asked me what they would do if their girlfriend went alone on vacation because she has enough money to take one but they don’t. She also owns luxury bags, has a membership for a fancy Pilates boutique, has an annual pass to Disney, and likes nice/ brand name things. She can easily afford everything without problems, but the man can’t. She cannot afford to pay for two people to take a vacation, and she really wants to go …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:49 PM
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Both. Men constantly remind us about how undesirable we are and how poorly we age compared to them then have the audacity to question why we think they have it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:10 PM
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You can make money to increase your SMV. A woman can’t age backwards. You guys all say you age like wine and women age like milk. Also, you can all have kids even at age 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:24 AM
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It’s not a strawman it’s the premise of OP’s post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:32 AM
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It’s not “honesty” to randomly te someone “you’re fat”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:45 AM
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This guy isn’t a woman yet he’s basing his perception of women on what he overhears.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:40 AM
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Not OP
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:33 PM
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To men it absolutely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:44 PM
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He needs a decent job. Do you think teaching is the pinnacle of wealth? Lmfaoooooooo. And if he isn’t attracted to his looksmatch that is literally, by definition, Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:43 PM
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He can date his looksmatch. Instead of being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:05 AM
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Men say they like plain women then their examples are models with no makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:04 AM
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Most women are not thin, young, and hot, so most women aren’t attractive to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:10 AM
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OP did. Op said he’s below average to average looking for an attractive (aka above average) woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:10 AM
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You’re simply making shit up to fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:09 AM
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It’s not bad faith to summarize what someone just said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:24 PM
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It isn’t ignorance and vitriol to say that it is hurtful for an average to below average man to refuse to date his looksmatch and to write posts complaining about how his girlfriend looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:24 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/jt2W7NrC1z And it isn’t woke to not want a man who is actively complaining about how unattractive his girlfriend is or to hold “unattractive” men accountable for only wanting attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:13 PM
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Pot calling the kettle black lmfaoooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:12 PM
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Instead of being grossly insulting and mocking, simply state that what he is doing is wrong and move on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:48 PM
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EXCPT for OP is a man and feels entitled to much more than his looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:40 PM
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Which is Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:39 PM
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No personal attacks. I identify neither as a liberal, nor as a Marxist, nor as a feminist. If you launch into personal attacks, it means you lost the debate because you have nothing left to say besides jabs. You can’t love your way out of homelessness. In maslows hierarchy of needs, food, water, shelter, and clothes all come before love and self actualization. You can’t love your way into survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:39 PM
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OP has a girlfriend. He clearly spells out that she’s attractive enough, but complains she isn’t a baddie. You’re moving the goalposts to weight because you know you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:36 PM
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Admiring a hot celebrity is not the same thing as wishing your partner looked different and asking people online how to change your partners looks. Do you carefully curate your pornography habits to make sure you exclusively fap to women who are your looksmatch and below in order to cultivate a non hypergamous spirit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:35 PM
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You did. You went on to include a little rebuttal about how you made sure to include your job title so that I don’t accuse you of being broke. Except for I never did. If it isn’t your problem, then butt out. Don’t get all huffy about how it’s “superficial” to not want to be on the verge of homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:33 PM
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They aren’t being pushed out, and regardless it’s an ILLUSTRATION EXAMPLE OF A JOB THAT DOESNT PAY THAT WELL BUT IS STILL VERY STABLE. Answer my question now; if you are nearly homeless and are living paycheck to paycheck, then why get into a relationship? How is having more financial burden going to make anything better at all? How is having a kid anything but reckless?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:29 PM
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IF HES AVERAGE TO BELOW AVERAGE AND ONLY WANTS ABOVE AVERAGE WOMEN THAT IS LITERALLY THE DEFINITION OF HYPERGAMY.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:17 PM
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I didn’t accuse you of being broke. I asked why people who are broke and on the verge of homelessness should think it’s a bright idea to try to get into a relationship. Stop dodging the question
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:16 PM
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How do you know? In his post history, he’s asking how to make his girlfriend a baddie. It sounds like she is average to below average (his looksmatch based on the original post) and yet he is angry and wants to change how she looks, and he claims no women like him because attention from an unattractive woman doesn’t count to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:12 PM
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How tf is this projection if it’s literally what OP says? He isn’t claiming to be a decent well put together man looking for a decent well put together woman. He clearly says he’s average to below average and wants a woman who is attractive (above average).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:08 PM
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I am arguing the point. The point is that OP and many men like him are hypergamous. He doesn’t want his looksmatch. Many men don’t. They want someone hot, fit, and young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:52 PM
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I even listed out TEACHER as a good job option. Teachers notoriously don’t make that much money. You need to be financially secure to survive in this economy. I didn’t say rich, I said financially secure. If you aren’t stable, then why are you dating? To bring more struggle upon yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:51 PM
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Why doesn’t he want his looksmatch? I thought men here constantly virtue signal that they want their looks matches and that they find most women attractive. Survey says that is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:44 PM
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“I hate my looksmatch”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:27 PM
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Men absolutely fixate on dating up. Why isn’t Op Focusing on average to below average women? He claims no women like him. Someone found out he has l a girlfriend but she doesn’t count to him because she isn’t a baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:27 PM
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Men are hypergamous. If OP is average to below average himself, why is he bitter about dating average to below average women who are his looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:26 PM
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Omg you guys are sooooo hypergamous. Imagine being this bitter about your looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:24 PM
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Maybe his girlfriend is average to below average and not attractive like in his original post. Those women simply do not exist to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:23 PM
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Why are you angry that hot women want hot men? Why isn’t OP pursuing his looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:21 PM
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“It’s blackpill that I as an average or below average man have to go for my looksmatch and not a hot woman” Lmfao Hypergamy and edgelords
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:20 PM
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Ah yes, leave it to men to display their Hypergamy on Reddit. Imagine if you chose to date average or below average women and how much easier and happier your love life would be. But of average and below average men want the hot women. Then yall have the audacity to say that women are the hypergamous ones. Women aren’t superficial the way men are about looks. As long as you’re financially secure and have a reasonably good job (even a teacher is fine) then you will set yourself apart from most me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:19 PM
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Most women know that it isn’t a mystery. Insulting people isn’t going to change their behavior nor empower them. Again, you just want to bully and berate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:40 AM
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You’re moving the goalposts. I wasn’t making excuses for not losing weight. I was asking you if you think she should publicly humiliate herself to satisfy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:39 AM
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Should she wear a scarlet letter “o” for overweight? Should she write an essay on dating apps about how unattractive she may be? Should she constantly bring up how overweight she is to romantic prospects and friends to avoid displaying too much self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:26 AM
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How often do you think friends need to remind each other about how fat they are? Clearly you’re upset because you haven’t “overheard” anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:12 AM
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Bullshit. Insulting how people look isn’t going to change anything. It just makes them feel like shit. It sounds like you believe bullying works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:56 AM
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<image> I guarantee you that a lot of this “evidence” that you are excitedly and eagerly waving around with vindication is romance scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:53 AM
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Not once in my life have I heard men calling each other fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:51 AM
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Why should female friends publicly or pciarely call each other fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:51 AM
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Do you think overweight women should publicly flagellate themselves and wear a scarlet letter “F” for fat in order to avoid using euphemisms like thick and curvy and full figured?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:50 AM
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They are villains and they should be discouraged from using sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:46 AM
1

“People in other jobs are exploited therefore it’s okay for me to exploit prostitutes”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:47 PM
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Doesn’t matter. They still are being grimy and gross
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:46 PM
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She’ll figure it out one way or another. You’re trying to change women’s minds and make them like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:45 PM
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I am not. I am merely pointing out my point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:44 PM
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I am not mean. I merely point out faulty ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:44 PM
1

How can you have the audacity to say it’s a choice if she’s being pimped out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:44 PM
1

I guarantee you these men aren’t changing their minds from a reddit comments section
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:14 PM
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Because they don’t give a shit about the moral implications or how desperate the women are. They just want to get their dicks wet. They aren’t going to Nevada at a high end brothel with an intense security system and finding a high end escort who loves her life and job and paying her a few thousand dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:13 PM
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lol you’re proving me right. Nobody is depriving you of your happiness by not wanting to date or marry or stay with men who frequent escorts. Simply find a woman who doesn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:11 PM
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Regardless, they are trashy and low value. Sex work exists in traditional non western countries too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:14 PM
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Regardless, that doesn’t justify dating men who are John’s. It doesn’t make the John’s less degenerate and trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:14 PM
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Do you genuinely believe a man can frequent prostitutes (and not the high end escort kinds that enjoy their jobs and charge thousands) and still be a good person? Lmfaooooooo he can’t. Unless he’s deeply ashamed and repentant, he’s a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:13 PM
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