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Hey bro are you looking for wing? HMU bro!
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:07 PM
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Your lucky your approach anxiety isn't that bad. I'm 19 right now and it took me months of going to the mall and not taking action because of anxiety until I finally did some approaches.
/r/seduction12/03/18 03:11 AM
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Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.
/r/seduction08/03/18 11:40 PM
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Good shit.
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:36 PM
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Eckhart Tolle
/r/seduction10/02/18 12:36 AM
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Facts.
/r/seduction09/01/18 08:02 PM
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Party's, school sport events like basketball games, football games, volleyball games are great. The mall is also great.
/r/seduction19/12/17 06:15 AM
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I feel like a lot of guys would like to share there two cents on this topic cause all men have dealt with it.
/r/seduction09/12/17 04:58 PM
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Wow. Pick up is related to sex. I wanted to get people who game thoughts on this.
/r/seduction09/12/17 04:54 PM
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Go for it. Shoot your shot.
/r/seduction04/11/17 12:49 PM
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GOOD SHIT HOMIE!!! Isn't it such a blessing to know that there's really nothing to be afraid of.
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:29 PM
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I was in your exact situation. Read the book Open-focus by Less Fehmi. It's been helping me in profound ways. I relate with alot of what your saying and think this book is just what you need.
/r/seduction07/10/17 05:02 AM
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I wouldn't say it's good or bad, but there should definitely be a mutual amount of give and take.
/r/seduction19/08/17 01:42 AM
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Congrats broski.
/r/seduction19/08/17 01:40 AM
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Really try to get into meditation.
/r/seduction19/08/17 01:33 AM
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I was like you but I'm starting to approach a little more often now. When you have a really, really hard time approaching, that means your really gonna enjoy the experience of approaching if you keep on pushing. The saying practice makes perfect is very true especially to anything pick up related. In my experience at least I saw that just by trying over and over and over I was forced to see the invisible wall that was stopping me, the mysterious reason was revealed. I started to see that I was t…
/r/seduction31/07/17 02:39 AM
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Good.Tbh I can't answer that question because I don't feel fully like a man yet my self, but this has thinking.
/r/seduction21/07/17 09:12 AM
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LOLOLO Bro are u serious.
/r/seduction21/07/17 09:07 AM
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Good shit.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:18 PM
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Watch his stuff. He's the real deal. I was like you and he's help me more than I could ever explain.
/r/seduction03/07/17 03:05 AM
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Congrats
/r/seduction04/06/17 02:39 AM
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Bro first off I feel you. Like you just described exactly I was going through like a year ago. First stay positive. It's easy to fall in the quicksand of hopelessness. Because when u start emotionally reacting to you not approaching that actually makes its worse. Just knowing that helped me a lot. Also I don't know if you ever tried gaming at malls, malls are good places to because sometimes you see girls sitting down by themselves, there's also girls who sit down to eat at the food court, those…
/r/seduction31/05/17 08:23 PM
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Lol. It's also a condition that can be fixed without any medication.
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:29 PM
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Wings help a lot but could easily rely on them. If you're not into meditation already I highly recommend it to help with approach anxiety.
/r/seduction23/05/17 12:39 AM
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LOL what do you think dude.You obviously try to conversate with her, try to come off as a cool guy. As cliche as this sounds just be yourself . Present yourself as someone she would like to pursue. And try to keep the conversation flowing. There's no magic trick or any special thing you really need to do. Ordinary guys get laid without learning the stuff.
/r/seduction23/05/17 12:35 AM
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The mall is a good place for beginners, but it really depends on your preference. My wing is a beginner like I am and he hates the mall. Personally I love it. It forces the annihilation of the ego. Like when you're at the mall and you see a girl sitting down, there's a small time frame to take action and if you bullshit you're going to lose your chance. So for me and forces you to take action and forces you to grow in my experience. Are you old enough to go to bars and clubs?
/r/seduction21/05/17 07:47 PM
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Thank you, just left the mall and did really do much. Passed up to much sets. Won't give up. Thanks for the words of encouragement again.
/r/seduction21/05/17 02:49 AM
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I'm still trying to figure this out my self.
/r/seduction20/05/17 03:49 AM
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If your still living there always hope. It's never too late. Don't be a victim.Get your dick wet. Evolve. You can do it. Do it.
/r/seduction20/05/17 03:44 AM
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In my opinion, absolute no. To me that's like taking the easy way out. I my self have anxiety and totally hate it, so taking meds would just be giving in to the submission. Meds would help the symptoms any way. There's a reason for your anxiety, your able to see that reason very clearly If u come to terms with it. I guess u would appreciate more when u have finally risen above your anxiety. That's my take on it but it's up to you.
/r/seduction12/05/17 10:15 PM
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Kudos.Appreciate the motivation. I resonate with your way of thinking. Taking action for reference experience is a amazing concept. It helps with momentum building and puts you in a sweet spot. Interested to hear your perspective on approach anxiety.
/r/seduction06/05/17 04:09 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction03/05/17 11:40 AM
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So your attractive but you lack confidence. Girls flirt with you but when they get a glimpse of your true self they lose attraction? If so I feel your pain bro lol. Luckily you can learn pick up. In a way this is a blessing in disguise because once you do learn game you'll be attractive physically and you have confidence. And know u have undeniable proof that looks don't matter all that much. It comes down to confidence. One thing I know that will speed results is to look at your course of actio…
/r/seduction02/05/17 10:48 PM
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I think he means he wants to kill his ego.
/r/seduction02/05/17 02:45 AM
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Dam bro I think I might've done the same thing. You learned your lesson. You'll get it next time.
/r/seduction02/05/17 02:43 AM
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True
/r/seduction30/04/17 06:11 PM
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Everything you said is the story of my life.
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:39 AM
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It's hard to explain this concept, most won't understand.
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:33 AM
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Ik bro lol.Crushes my soul when that happens cause it's like I coulda had her.
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:29 AM
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Not the case, saying that is like saying looks matter. That's an illusion. Typically attractive men have good game but there's a select few, who don't. Not making a excuse, I can't help it. That's y I game.
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:27 AM
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Real talk, I feel you bro. It's like she likes me but I just always fuck up. Every new school year there's new cute girls who try to flirt with me, so sad I fuck up every time. Looks don't matter, I've been told I have a beautiful skin complexion like 3 times this month by random women but I'm 18 and a virgin. Its to the point where when a girl tells me I'm cute I low key get annoyed. It's all about inner and outer game. Looks really don't matter all that much. Doesn't matter if your a male mode…
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:19 AM
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Real talk, I feel you bro. It's like she likes me but I just always fuck up. Every new school year there's new cute girls who try to flirt with me, so sad I fuck up every time. Looks don't matter, I've been told I have a beautiful skin complexion like 3 times this month by random women but I'm 18 and a virgin. Its to the point where when a girl tells me I'm cute I low key get annoyed. It's all about inner and outer game. Looks really don't matter all that much. Doesn't matter if your a male mode…
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:19 AM
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Just be chill.
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:57 PM
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First of all kudos to you for seeing the value in being present. It wouldn't be counterintuitive. It should make you or present. What is counterintuitive is overthinking it. Just feel it, you should know whether or not it's doing more bad than good.
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:57 AM
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Could u elaborate.
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:46 AM
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How you look helps.But at the end of the day it doesn't matter as much as it may seem.
/r/seduction30/03/17 04:43 AM
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Bro, that's good stuff. I literally had a realization about the sticking point. When you said when you do too much flirting you reach a plateau. I know see how push pulling works.
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:35 AM
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Never give up.
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:25 PM
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Everything Rsd Tyler
/r/seduction18/03/17 04:05 AM
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Read Ekhart Tolle book called The power of Now. It helped with what your going through.
/r/seduction07/03/17 03:55 AM
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Take a cold shower.
/r/seduction09/02/17 03:03 PM
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Medtaion helps alot with revealing the causes of certain sticking points. Also never give up. A underrated skill is being able to look at your self in the mirror, because as you grow you'll realize that most problems are self made.
/r/seduction09/02/17 03:02 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction28/01/17 02:51 PM
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Dope.
/r/seduction26/01/17 03:06 AM
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You have too just do it, and it's never as bad as your mind makes it out to be. What your going through is just a faze, it won't last for to long if you work on yourself, but it'll last forever if you don't. Life is short anyways were all gonna be dead before we know it. Even if you do get humiliated you'll be more happy that you did it.
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:28 AM
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Good for you.
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:14 AM
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Bro I was being dead ass serious. Eckhart Tolls saved my life. He's too underrated and just misunderstood by many.
/r/seduction07/01/17 08:04 PM
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You just have to do it. It helps to approach with a wing and don't beat your self up about not approaching, just makes it worse. Meditation definitely helps this. Lastly try to warm your self up by asking for the time or just saying hi to some one. These things has helped me a ton.
/r/seduction07/01/17 08:00 PM
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Lucky you
/r/seduction30/12/16 10:28 PM
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I can tell you have a good head on your shoulders. Don't give you'll get there.
/r/seduction30/12/16 10:25 PM
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START ASAP.
/r/seduction29/12/16 02:46 AM
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It's vital, I've been recording my progress on a journal for a couple months and you visually see your progress. Also sometimes you may forget a realization u had and u can look back at it, like u would look back at a ass. Trust me it's hella helpful.
/r/seduction23/12/16 12:10 AM
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RSD Tyler
/r/seduction19/12/16 06:28 PM
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Eckhart Tolls The Power Of Now. That book saved my life.
/r/seduction15/12/16 03:32 PM
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So is your main problem not being able to approach?
/r/seduction11/12/16 03:49 PM
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Any thing by Tyler.
/r/seduction26/11/16 04:39 AM
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Just don't ever give up.
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:39 PM
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Eckhart Tolle The Power of Now
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:37 PM
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I'm 17 rn and I was you at 15-16 and still have SOOO much to learn and fix but it's POSSIBLE, but me telling your self that isn't enough. You have to prove that to your brain to have long term motivation to transform your self. One advantage that you have is your young so u have way more time. To answer your question the step by step guide is to look at your main sticking point and Fucking do research on it and fix it. Then look at your next sticking point and fix that and so on and so on.So bas…
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:43 PM
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You gotta kill your ego.
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:33 AM
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Very good advice.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:54 PM
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Wow this is exactly what I needed to hear. I was just having this realization the last time I went out. Please post more of your realizations and experiences you've had, I dig your style.
/r/seduction25/10/16 01:53 AM
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Ask to Netflix and chill
/r/seduction25/10/16 12:37 AM
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Hey bro loved the post, could u elaborate on feeling the anxiety and learning to enjoy. I also found it interesting when u said that the hardest part of game is the first year, then it gets way easier.
/r/seduction23/10/16 06:34 AM
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Appreciate it.
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:35 PM
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I live in Cleveland, I want in.
/r/seduction12/10/16 09:32 PM
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Hey Aron I Fucking loved the infield. Do you live in Cleveland Ohio? I do btw.
/r/seduction12/10/16 03:56 AM
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Wuss up
/r/seduction28/08/16 11:49 PM
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True,you right.I'm gonna go out regardless but it would be cool to have a wing. Where u from?
/r/seduction27/08/16 12:05 PM
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Were do you usually go to game?
/r/seduction25/08/16 08:46 PM
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How do u send a PM messages, I'm using my phone btw.
/r/seduction25/08/16 01:29 AM
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I live in Cleveland hbu? I've been looking for some one to Sarge with and it hasn't been easy lol.
/r/seduction25/08/16 01:18 AM
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I don't but I live in Ohio. I'm still in high school, what's up dude.
/r/seduction23/08/16 11:36 PM
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