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As someone losing hair and greying I wish I was gonna have hair left when it all goes grey
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:03 AM
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Yeah I slayed living in a small town, just don’t be a hurtbag and you’re top tier
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:38 AM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:25 PM
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This guy knows, I’ve gotten more attention from girls by never liking their posts or commenting. I used to get messages from plates I was spinning such as “why do you never like any of my posts” the lack of attention is noticed
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:38 PM
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Agree with this guy, I found it around 25 and I would’ve killed to get a 7 year head start like you. You can do a lot of damage (in a good way) if you really delve into this stuff
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 06:00 PM
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I told my girlfriend I didn’t like her bangs (where they cut it straight across the front) she has since grown it out and hasn’t got them cut since. I’ve told her I don’t like her hair straight and she has only straightened her hair twice since we’ve been together and both times when we are away from each other. If a girl respects you and your opinion she will listen to it. Period. If you told her you didn’t like it and she did it assume she doesn’t respect your opinion. If you didn’t express it…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:37 PM
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The grill idea is a great one, id say something like this https://i.pinimg.com/originals/64/28/1f/64281fc36f057f4514d33b16bac91da0.jpg
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:51 PM
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Yeah I was in the basement and they lived on the second floor. Situation was super chill and it never stopped me from getting laid
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:43 PM
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I moved into a house with two gay guys off a kijiji ad. Didn’t know them at all but the house looked nice and I had the entire basement to myself for 550. Turned into a great experience, they were chill and banged a lot of women there. Sometimes you have to take a risk and sometimes it pays off
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:36 AM
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Point is it doesn’t matter, what are you gonna do? If you’re short you can’t get taller and getting mad at the world isn’t going to do anything. Find a way to be better in other areas or give up and quit bitching and leave the pussy for the rest of us
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:20 AM
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Oh we weren’t mad about it we just found it interesting
/r/askTRP05/08/20 06:08 PM
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Me and my roommate had this discussion the other day, that we can’t remember a time where a woman has every genuinely apologized when it doesn’t benefit herself to do it. Just out of sincerity.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:09 PM
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What age did you get into rugby, I played in high school and loved it and thought about getting into a men’s league. But I’m 28 now and not sure how my body would hold up against the beating since I haven’t competed in sports since high school.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:45 PM
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Long hair don’t care
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:03 PM
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Carrying fat lowers testosterone, so if your carrying extra weight try shedding that
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:11 PM
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Probably want a baby daddy lol
/r/askTRP04/07/20 08:04 PM
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Yeah my short buddy slayed after he went beast mode in the gym for a year and even being kind of beta. Guy went from 2 kills to 25 in only a few months. He fell off the wagon eventually though. And became a huge stoner but for a time he was on top. He was maybe 5’6
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:19 PM
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Well you literally can’t change it so why worry about it lol. All you can control is what’s ahead of you. You already know the feeling of regret now, so don’t let that happen in the future by not handling your shit today
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:09 PM
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The LTR I have now for almost a year was the result of plate spinning. I was doing similar to you about 6-7 In my rotation some more frequent than others. And all of them thought of me as a fuckboy. That didn’t stop them from wanting to lock me down, they’d want to go on “actual dates” with me and try and define our relationship ect. They knew I was sleeping around but wanted me anyways. None of them met my standard until my LTR and we were fucking for 6 months before I committed to her, while I…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:14 AM
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rule 1 don’t talk about fight club. Rule 2 do not talk about fight club. The reason the Blue pill is blue pill is because the majority of society believes it. Of course they’re not going to be receptive of red pill truths on a social platform.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:04 PM
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It’s never easy to try and redpill someone, people don’t change until they are ready. The best I can say is try to be there when he breaks down eventually and be ready with the information. Also to try and subtly get him to question his beliefs. Point out incongruity with his thought process and reality. Also be a leader, if he’s out of shape encourage him by inviting him to the gym or for a run with you
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:08 AM
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Neither did your post, you have a lot more reading to do
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:58 PM
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This was cringe
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:37 PM
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Are the effects long term or just as your taking it
/r/askTRP23/02/20 01:07 AM
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Oh god, what a cliche women are. This happened all the time when I was plates women hitting the wall
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:54 AM
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My LTR is a result of this and can confirm it’s been the healthiest relationship I’ve had
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:55 AM
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Whenever a girl sends me random nudes it’s normally because she wants thirsty attention, I just ignore the nudity and comment on something random in the background. Like if she had a book on a shelf in the background, I’ll say “no way I’m reading the Great Gatsby too” or something along those line. Never fall for the thirst trap. If I do acknowledge I just tell her to come over
/r/askTRP15/02/20 06:22 PM
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Also lost mine in the bush, I lived in the boonies so I set up a tent in the woods because neither of our parents would give us a moment alone
/r/askTRP15/02/20 01:35 AM
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She might have just wanted a fuck not a boyfriend, you reaching out after to set up another meetup probably scared her off. I find the best approach after a lay is to just leave it alone, if she wants more she will ask for more, it saves you from over investing
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:28 AM
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Yeah I just think there comes a time when men search for more meaning. As fun as spinning plates is in the end it’s sort of an empty pursuit. Once you really master it, it becomes shallow and boring.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 06:32 AM
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First of all girls want to be around guys having a good time, and you sound like a miserable cunt. You have zero social proof and are going into these interactions with a terrible mindset. You definitely seem to be in the anger phase. Relax my dude and try to have a good time if you’re a good looking dude and having fun people will gravitate to you.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 05:16 AM
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Is she Canadian? In Canada we apologize for everything.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:57 AM
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Maybe you look beta and these girls (27 plus) are looking for a guy that will commit
/r/askTRP12/02/20 02:50 AM
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Just take a picture of yourself making a snowman shirtless putting your clothes on the snowman. Easy peasy. Do you even winter bro?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 11:15 PM
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This guy red pills
/r/askTRP04/02/20 01:18 PM
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You’re not gonna be at your girls side all the time, the key is to have your boundaries set with your LTR so that she knows how to handle these guys when you’re not around
/r/askTRP29/01/20 11:48 AM
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The immediate threat is there, you said you weren’t at your girls side at the bar you were with your friends, and you didn’t have pictures on social media. The optics say she’s single
/r/askTRP29/01/20 11:43 AM
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Men are always competing and trying biologically to pass on our DNA. Doesn’t really matter the cost or what’s in their way. Men want to fuck. Men literally risk their lives for pussy, throw away their careers for a side piece. Nothing should shock you.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 11:33 AM
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Hit em with the finger pistol 👉🏻👉🏻
/r/askTRP29/01/20 09:22 AM
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When it’s just hooking up, I try not to make it personal. No childhood stories, no deep conversations. Reveal very little real information about yourself. Talk about superficial shit like movies and tv shows.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 07:45 AM
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I went out with my current LTR 4 times before we had sex. I was also spinning 4-5 plates at the time so it wasn’t a big deal that it didn’t happen right away. Also genuinely enjoyed spending time with her. I normally cap it at 3-4 depending on the date. In her case 4 didn’t feel like an issue
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:59 PM
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This guy definitely knows nurses, I work in a hospital and the amount of entitled wall and post wall women is ridiculous. They make pretty decent coin so they spend their twenties fucking around and traveling the world riding the cock carousel. And at thirty they are ready to settle down but they are so damage the never can have a stable relationship.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:27 AM
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Waitresses are pretty bad aswell, nurses where I work atleast are all headcases
/r/askTRP22/01/20 12:26 AM
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You’re putting her on a pedestal, women always want to feel like they are getting the better end of the deal. If you feel like she’s out of your league she will feel it too. Remember you’re the prize not here, she needs to win you. And if you’re not worthy enough to be the prize you’ve just got to put in more work into yourself
/r/askTRP14/01/20 05:36 AM
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Pump the breaks there kid, you’ve been talking to her for a week, you haven’t even fucked her yet. You’re falling for her already it sounds like. My LTR I’m seeing now and has been the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had, was formed from months and months of feeling her out. What’s the rush to jump into in LTR. I met my girl, thought she was different/special in the early stages too but I reminded myself you never really know someone until you spend enough time with them. So I continued to spi…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:36 AM
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Intermittent fasting, add alittle cardio to your workout, don’t eat garbage food more than let’s say once a week as a cheat. Your diet should consist of meat and vegetables with alittle bit of grains, like rice or oatmeal. Do you drink a lot too?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:01 AM
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She’s needs comfort after the ego hit of missing out on your brother. Women date betas all the time. Doesn’t mean they stay with them or stay faithful to them
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:28 AM
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Never push for the LTR, let them pursue you for it
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:40 PM
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One of the best approaches is to treat every girl like a ONS, assume it’s going to be one and done and you’ll never be disappointed. If a girls into you she will make the effort to see you again. If she wants more than a ONS she has to pursue it, not you, and the act of you pursuing it is only going to push her away so it’s against your interests to do so.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:18 PM
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Yeah my girlfriend has been asking me for our entire relationship, never told her. It’s basically become a joke at this point. “How many girls? One? Ten? One hundred? One thousand?”
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:13 PM
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I see the opposite, guys that could be out there slaying, with girls that I wouldn’t fuck with someone else’s dick.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:28 PM
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Sounds like you didn’t escalate at all so she got bored and left
/r/askTRP27/10/19 09:59 PM
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Well then give her a deadline if your feeling nice, or just give her the boot. Once she’s out of the house she is technically going to be out of your life. So who cares if she finds you cruel
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:35 AM
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Being redpill aware this is a painful read. So many mistakes. You need to spin more plates, if you had more girls you wouldn’t care about this one You have oneitis for this girl. Why are you trying to be exclusive with a girl you met off tinder of all places “a app designed for short term hookups” that you’ve known for 1.5 months. She should be pushing for exclusively not you. You’re her emotional tampon and validation to make her feel good as her alpha boyfriend pump and dumps her and her entir…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:34 AM
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You can’t move out and find another place? Or do you own this property?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:02 AM
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Its easy to get laid in college, you’re surrounded by people who just want to fuck, when your out of college there are less of those types of people around you all the time. Numbers game
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:24 PM
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I’ll be honest I have a pretty abrasive personality aswell, I will say with some women it just doesn’t work well, they don’t get my humour and I’m okay with it and that’s because I have plenty of people that find me hilarious. I would say if you are getting the same feedback from a lot of girls the issue is you. But if some like it and some dont, then don’t sweat it. You can’t please everyone, on to the next
/r/askTRP06/10/19 01:59 PM
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She could see you as low value and not want to be see associating with a person of low value. Simple.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:50 PM
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This is true, it’s become a running joke with the girl I’m seeing now, because every situation is ultimately my fault. We are late for an event because she’s not ready...it’s my fault I didn’t give her enough time. You get the idea
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:30 PM
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I asked this same question earlier this day and got no answers lol, welcome to the struggle
/r/askTRP11/08/19 10:19 PM
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Some girls might do this as a shit test, I usually just Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:16 PM
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It’s just nature, no need to get angry at women, that are how they are designed to be
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:44 PM
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Yes this exactly
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:45 PM
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It’s funny because even from the beginning my favourite speakers on the panel were Rollo, Rian Stone, and Richard Cooper, and I couldn’t stand Anthony Johnson. It’s not much of a surprise to me now that he’s found a way to ruin the whole thing.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:22 AM
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He says he’s happily married because he got married in a different time, he preaches against marriage and says it’s a bad idea for men because in this climate it is.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 01:51 PM
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Don’t express your intentions overtly with a woman, always covertly. You’re much better off just asking her to come over for a drink. She may still say no but you’ll have your answer. If she doesn’t want to come over for a drink she definitely doesn’t want your penis inside her
/r/askTRP30/05/19 03:31 PM
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I was asking this forum what their experience was in situations like these, perhaps the title was confusing but the post makes that clear. And in terms of morality we can discuss it, but this is not the place for morality, if I’m not mistaken this forum believes sexual strategy is amoral. and yes abundance mentality, why throw away good pussy, I’m single and she’s willing, why not. I always leave the door for plates to come back into my life which is why girls will hit you up years later if you …
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:06 AM
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I’m sorry what part of your point did I not address? I could do that now for you if you’d like. I don’t recall claiming higher intelligence than you, if this is you trying to be the better man and walking away you should have done it without the insult in return.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:48 AM
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Very good stuff ^
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:40 AM
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In this particular case it does seem she wants me in particular not just any dick, I have been fucking her for 6 months and she’s been pressing for an LTR the whole time I’ve just been keeping her at an arms distance until I felt I couldn’t keep the plate spinning anymore and thought it was time to let it fall. She just so happened to find someone new rather fast and then continued to hit me up asking to come over or if she could
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:38 AM
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I’ve been around these forums for quite sometime, and like I said it’s a common occurrence for someone to spout off “ONEITIS” with no examination whatsoever, it’s not a catch all phrase like I see a lot of people use it as. Like in this example, the mere act of making a post about a girl means you have oneitis for her? No that’s not how it works
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:01 AM
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There is a lot of truth to your points especially that she might be trying to manipulate me to get me back 100% that’s in her wheelhouse. However, the only effort I would ever be exerting on this girl would be responding to her texts to fuck with “come over” I would not reach out to her, I have other women already and other prospects to develop they are my priority. Sex with her would only occur at a convenience to me, on my schedule, if I don’t have any other girls available. And I always use c…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 09:27 PM
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To be fair I just made a post about it, I haven’t actually done it yet
/r/askTRP06/04/19 08:45 PM
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So you’re saying shes better off sleeping with me?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 08:40 PM
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Well said
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:46 PM
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When you are a girls number one option you normally can tell, in this particular case, I believe i am. An no doubt she jumped to this guy because she needed comfort and validation after me ending things with her, I understand that. And all girls are crazy lol, Sure I could be feeding her ego but if I’m getting laid what does it matter
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:41 PM
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I wasn’t searching for approval I’m looking for other people’s experiences in a similar situation to see if I should consider it. Just gathering information, maybe I titled the thread poorly but it got peoples attention and responses, so it served its purpose.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:36 PM
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I don’t really “know” him I know of him, he’s a guy at my work, but a different department and completely unconnected to me. He’s not a friend or buddy or anything like that
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:34 PM
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Do I want to fuck her? Yea sure why not? But do I want to be the guy that fucks this guys girl, even though she wants me? I’m not sure, which is why I haven’t done it yet. And yes if I don’t do it I’m sure someone else will
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:32 PM
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This guy gets it^
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:27 PM
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Not at all, but you have your opinion, I’m just saying I see a lot of people on here just parrot back redpill ideology. They shout AWALT or ONEITIS, but they offer no explanation or examination, which offers nothing to the post, they simply autistically shout out verbiage. If he had some reasoning to support his claim of oneitis I might be more willing to listen to it as a possibility of what’s going on here.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:24 PM
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This guys asking the real questions ahaha
/r/askTRP06/04/19 05:06 PM
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Possible yet unlikely since she sent me videos of herself masturbating last night
/r/askTRP06/04/19 05:06 PM
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These are the types of experience answers I was looking for, thank you
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:37 PM
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There is always one autistic that spouts ONEITIS like a red pill parrot
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:34 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/askTRP06/04/19 03:39 PM
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Lol well duh, she had too many red flags before this which I why I never committed before. And as much as I agree with your statement of abundance, this girl would be for convenience sake. For example if plates flake or are busy I could literally just stop in at her place on the way home. She wouldn’t be a high priority item
/r/askTRP06/04/19 03:34 PM
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Anybody who’s tried to red pill someone knows it’s not that simple
/r/askTRP06/04/19 03:18 PM
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Like I said I was interested in hearing others opinions and experiences, I have decided nothing at the moment
/r/askTRP06/04/19 03:18 PM
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More or less asking to hearing peoples experiences seems like a rather reasonable thing to do. Most people gather data and make an informed decisions
/r/askTRP06/04/19 03:08 PM
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I don’t think I’d bother telling him, I would either just fuck her or not, if I’m not sleeping with her I have no skin in their affairs
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:59 PM
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I don’t disagree with you. Like I said part of the reason I stopped seeing her was because I felt like I was stringing her along. She wanted commitment and I wasn’t going to give it. With that said though. If she wants to fuck and I do aswell and she’s getting her emotional needs met, then why not (playing devils advocate) she’s clearly not too serious with this guy yet it’s only been a week or so. Besides she’s the cheater not me. I do appreciate your feedback
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:58 PM
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Yeah I’m 5’9 aswell and I’ve never viewed myself as short. Not tall obviously but my height has never been what’s held me back. I can honestly say it’s my personality that gets me laid. Sure below average heights or looks can put a ceiling on what you might be able to obtain but it should never discourage you from striving to succeed.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:45 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:21 PM
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From my experience when a girl is open with you sexually it’s a positive, it means they are comfortable with you. Comfort isn’t always a bad thing.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:16 PM
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My abundance is pretty solid at the moment, I’ve hooked up with 4 girls since ending things with her, and I had girls when I was with her obvious hence not wanting to commit. In terms of the dude that doesn’t bother me, he’s doing the lame shit with her I wouldn’t (like go and watch her practices and such) so I mean he seems like your prototypical blue pill chump. In terms of it not going well, she says that she thinks she scares him which would make sense to me because from much of what I hear …
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:11 PM
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That was my thinking, I couldn’t give her those things and it made me feel a little guilty. Now that my role would be just the guy fucking her I think that would work out much better for me
/r/askTRP06/04/19 12:54 PM
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Fair enough but you get the point
/r/askTRP06/04/19 12:45 PM
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Nothing wrong with it if that’s your intention. I’m just saying if you’re trying to keep it casual it will speed up the process of her catching feelings for you
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:04 PM
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So basically depends what you want from this girl, for me I try to fuck girls and leave after. If she becomes a reoccurring plate and demonstrates some other sort of value to me, besides sex. As in she cooks for me, is interesting, gets me gifts or gives massages ect, then I might start introducing more comfort
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:38 PM
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The reason why not to is because she’ll get more attached that way, and if you’re not looking to LTR this girl eventually it may cause your plate to break as you’re kind of sending her mixed signals. By just fucking and leaving you are demonstrating this is just sex. By fucking her and cuddling and staying the night you are demonstrating comfort
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:24 PM
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Commenting to check back later, this too has been an issue of mine
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:11 PM
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Anytime I’ve rejected a girl they’ve lost their minds. This one girl I work with started following me on social media and liking a bunch of my photos (trying to initiate me) I wasn’t interested so I ignored and didn’t follow her back. She messaged me directed anyways (not getting the hint). I didn’t respond so she then message me again about something work related to which I responded. She then asked if I’m single, I say yes. It goes back and forth but I’m not interested so I stop messaging. She…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:32 PM
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Or you say you should come check it out some time and grab her number and set something up. I feel like you’re making excuses
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:25 AM
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Also when she said nice place you could’ve invited over to check it out
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:48 AM
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For helpful criticism, don’t ask her “So when are we going on that date”. Lead her. You need to take the lead. “Drinks Tuesday night? Let’s say around 8 o’clock?”. It’s much more direct and if she’s I interested you’d know, she’d either say yes or give you an alternate time if she’s busy. Try that in the future
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:46 AM
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I use that a lot, it works fine
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:30 AM
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Yes but I’d like to get to the root of the issue, having a more idgaf attitude. I’m pretty good when I’m not invested in the girl but the more I invest the more possessive I seem to get
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:32 AM
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Similar issue for me aswell, I’d like to hear more guys thoughts
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:04 AM
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Agreed, she wanted you to make more of a move, you didn’t, she tried to re-engage you but you still didn’t make a move so she dried up and went home. She is now ghosting you
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:20 AM
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Similar experience, once I had a black plate walk to my house and when she came to the door I hurried her inside and told her to get her black ass inside before someone sees you, this is a nice neighbourhood I don’t want to hurt my property value, she still brings it up and laughs. If you say things with a idgaf attitude people rarely care.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:42 PM
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Yeah I’ve been doing it for alittle over a year and and when I’m consistent I notice huge differences (couple injuries along the way). I also add in other complimentary workouts and cardio as well, but as a base not much is better.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:48 AM
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5x5 strong lifts is a great place to start, super simple to follow, easy to make observable gains which will keep you motivated since you can measure your success
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:03 AM
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This fucking guy again with this defeatist attitude
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:02 AM
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She could’ve got a boyfriend and broke things off with you for him, might of even blocked you for him if he knew you two were fucking
/r/askTRP02/02/19 02:01 AM
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My experience is all horse girls love anal, not sure if it’s a real trend or not
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:01 PM
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Shave it all off, grow a beard if you can and lift, that’s the look I’ve been going for since I’ve realized my hair is not long for this world. It might not be the “hottest” look but it is masculine and when it come down to it masculine is hot
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:39 AM
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Talk to as many people as you can and be friendly high energy and introduce yourself. Make an impression so they remember you. Nobody knows anyone, so become the guy that everybody knows. A big thing to do if you’re able is to be the party guy, throw parties. When I was in my first year of university me and my friends dorm room became the party dorm. And for the next few years people would come up to me that I don’t recall meeting and they’d know my name. I could’ve translated that into a lot of…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:09 PM
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Dressing slightly better than everyone at the venue, I live in a small town, if I wear out a dress shirt tucked in and some nice dress shoes to the bar everybody notices. I’ve actually formed quite the rep as a sharp dresser, just dress above your competition.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:49 AM
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“oneitis, put bluntly, is a crush gone out of control and turned into something that's a borderline obsession. Sufferers from oneitis become fixated on one person and believe that nobody else in the world could possibly measure up to how perfect they are” definitely not what’s going on here. I’ve soft nexted this girl, losing her is no concern to me. I am not obsessed with her I could take her or leave her at this point. I am aware of my other options out there. This is about what you are willin…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:38 AM
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Well I guess I must’ve misinterpreted it then, I doesn’t see how though. If level one is plate and level two is FWB then it stands to reason you do more with a FWB than you would with a regular plate and less than what you do with your LTR, exclusivity
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:32 AM
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Am I the only one who’s read the bitch management hierarchy?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:06 AM
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If she’s doing that stuff it doesn’t bother me, I have other girls that I fuck that fuck other guys and it’s all dandy, what bothers me is the rubbing my nose in it, doing it right in front of me or talking to me about it directly. You’re free to do what you want but when your with me your with me kind of deal, I just want peoples opinions on if that’s unreasonable to expect, apparently it is
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:48 PM
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I started seeing her and she has been pushing for LTR status after month three, I gave her the run down that I’m not looking for one blah blah blah, unless the girl shows value and that she should be the salesmen and sell me on it (do things for me besides just fuck, if she wanted my exclusivity) she try’s, massages, brings me food at work, buys me gifts etc. So I gave her a shot on New Years to show her value and she blew it 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:45 PM
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So if you were on a date with a girl, and she blatantly started flirting with let’s say the bartender or waiter right in front of you, is that not disrespectful. I’ve already stoped with the dates and the attention, we are on the verge of not seeing each other at all (my call not hers, she still asks me to come over all the time). I have other girls so I wouldn’t say I don’t have abundance, she has been the one pushing for the LTR and exclusivity, and was getting close to qualifying herself, min…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:41 PM
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Blue pill language? According to bitch management, they are separate levels. ONS (fuck and chuck), plate (girl you continuously fuck), FWB (girl you fuck and spend non sexual time with), and LTR (girl you fuck and spend non sexual time with but are exclusive with).
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:36 PM
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Agree with everything you said, so I should just ignore her when she talks about these things, or should I just straight up leave? I frankly just don’t want to hear it from her.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:19 PM
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Classic females man, soft next until she reaches out to you again
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:29 PM
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They tend to be more honest about what they actually want if the guy already “gets it”. If you’re a blue pill beta they will keep you in the dark
/r/askTRP15/01/19 06:14 PM
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Could be she was always promiscuous. I mean the girl got black out drunk to the point she was puking and crashed at a dudes house. Not really responsible behaviour. Sounds like party girl behaviour the same behaviour you see in girls with high notch counts
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:59 PM
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Fair enough, shame. I can’t remember the statistics but something like 70% of the time when two people hook up for he first time it involves alcohol, even if it’s just a couple of drinks. I think it has to do with giving the girl plausible deniability, and deducing the nerves. Point remains with the kino,
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:13 PM
2

What do you mean?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:07 PM
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This should be easy, first don’t just play Mario kart play Mario kart drink. If you don’t know the rules look it up. Say something like “let’s make things more interesting” then suggest Mario kart drink. Also while you’re playing kino her; nudge her to mess her up, put your hand in front of her face, be playful. Eventually escalate.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:03 PM
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Lmao never even opened this one, gotta love my phone sometimes
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:58 AM
1

What type of lifting are you doing? I recommend doing StrongLifts 5x5 super simple to follow and monitor your progress
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:44 AM
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I get called a fuckboi all the time, pretty much any time a girl doesn’t get her way. There is this one girl I only smash when I see her at the bar, never talk to her really outside of that atmosphere. I fuck her and leave so it’s pretty clear what the dynamic is, she’s a single mom too so you know I’m not wifeing that up. Even though it’s obviously just sex she wants more so ergo I’m a fuckboi
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:19 AM
1

Do you read books? What about a martial art? Or a sports team? I’m not you man is there something you find interesting that your not doing yourself? Start there. I know for me when I put my head down in work or hobbies I barely look at my phone, but when I have a day off and nothing to do I tend to struggle putting it down and not texting for the sake of texting
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:20 PM
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Find more hobbies or things to do to pass the time; lift, take a class, get a second job, read books. Fill your time with meaningful endeavours and you’ll find yourself looking at your phone less and you won’t have to “pretend” to be busy you’ll just be busy
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:42 PM
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Serving gets you a lot of cash if you can get in a restaurant, you usually start as a host first but show drive and social skills and you’ll move up quick and make the big money with tips
/r/askTRP12/01/19 12:20 AM
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What’s the way of dealing with this, I believe I have a similar issue
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:35 AM
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Don’t waste your time with this kid, he posted this same question already and got the same feedback, he’s too much of a bitch to just put in the work so he falls back to a defeatist attitude, or he’s a troll
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:26 AM
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I would’ve said you were her boyfriend to get buddy to fuck off, gamed her and pulled the number and sent her in a cab home if she was too drunk for your morals. And try to smash another time, atleast then you could’ve got something out of putting your neck out like that
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:38 AM
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My problem right now is she always tries to push the exclusivity. She’s not content being a plate especially after she tasted being so close to the prize. What type of actions should I be taking if I decide to keep seeing her at all, so that she doesn’t get as attached. Definitely avoid going out with her in public like the one guy said but what else. Constantly managing her expectations is getting exhausting. Decrease the frequency I see her? Make sure I don’t spend the night? Texting less?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:10 AM
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You should always be working out no matter what, you only have one vessel, might as well take care of it
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:33 PM
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