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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEducational_Pool_635/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:30 PM
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STRATEGYEducational_Pool_635/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:55 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEducational_Pool_635/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 04:07 PM
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37

Have a look at this as a reminder of what men will simple lie to you about. To them consent simply does not matter. And they are prefectly fine lying about this as well. This is why we vet so strongly, it is so much better to be single than to be with these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 04:10 PM
14

So let me get this straight, he raped her again and again and she keeps forgiving him. And despite this he is lovely? Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 01:19 PM
140

Ah yes. If everyone is doing it, it must be right. Honestly, at this point I simply wonder why women even date? What's the damn point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 07:48 AM
58

Same girl. I see this happening so often, it makes me wonder whether I should even bother warning them. They never listen and then come back crying. They are constantly in a loop and don't even want to get out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 07:13 AM
5

This. What is even more baffling is how do they even feel safe with these men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:44 PM
205

So when he realised he could not baby trap you, he showed his true colours? Also why didn't he use a condom as an added precaution?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:16 AM
5

Oh dear god, the replies are horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:24 PM
9

Do you think you could link it, I'm a little curious now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:27 PM
2

And that's not bare minimum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:23 AM
8

He wants attention especially because he can sense you are into him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:18 AM
1

So he gave you a gift?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:08 AM
11

Where did she mention or even imply that? Appearing expensive will simply keep away broke LVM. It is not a way to ward off rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:17 PM
21

Awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 05:47 PM
25

This a great reminder. The sheer amount of posts I have seen on this sub recently that claims any man they know to be good and HVM are astonishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:45 PM
43

It is a bit funny but really nothing changed and the reversal of the roles just turned men into women so it seemed not funny to me atleast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:13 PM
71

Watched it. The movie is still full of scrotes and a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:09 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:57 AM
43

Exactly. You never know how people are. That's why we should always keep vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:59 AM
13

If she does that how will she get male validation??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:56 AM
75

Accept it. So what if you are awful and mean? Are you out there raping and harassing people?? No, you just don't want to go on a date with a scrote. Screw them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:59 AM
79

No. Don't go, just message you can't come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:47 AM
101

I'm cackling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:48 PM
154

Let's just hope this results in arrests and time in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:06 PM
18

This. Those images never leave your brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:57 AM
56

If you don't mind me saying please checkout pewdiepies channel yourself and have a talk with your kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:33 AM
71

Least? The only option your boyfriend have is either he goes NC with his whole family or you walk away from this situation. And why are you placing somebody else's feelings over your own?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:28 AM
9

Sounds a bit like a pissing contest to me but sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:13 AM
65

Fanfics are full of rape, incest and abuse stories. I have never read a HV story with HV people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 04:09 PM
29

Even if you did signal something to him that should not encourage him. He's MARRIED not you. Scrotes gonna scrote whether married or single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:30 AM
6

Nah. It shows whether or not they feel protective about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:12 AM
19

Hate that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 10:05 AM
340

What kind of fuckery are they making these days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:20 AM
25

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:17 AM
8

Exactly. Many people confuse being a provider with earning most money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:28 AM
196

He must have figured that if he pretended to be feminist, he might get laid more easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:49 AM
72

They have no standards. So they think everybody is a perfect man if he doesn't abuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:45 AM
17

Scrotes gonna scrotes irrespective of money and fame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:00 AM
9

Then you should have specified that he is completely surrounded by your family but this is not the situation for everyone. I never said that males don't cheat on their working partners, just that their cheating on SAH spouse is more higher, pretty sure there was a post about that here as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:35 PM
15

It is. But nobody listens until it is too late to do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:26 PM
5

Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:23 PM
106

Alright. Since nobody is saying this directly I will, don't be a stay at home wife. Just don't. Continue to work part time or have an extended maternity leave but for the love of god, don't leave your job for decades. A year or two is fine. And don't pay for the pregnancy related and child related expenses. You did your job making and carrying and delivering the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:32 AM
37

Ridiculously naive. Reality on paper and the reality on the ground are like sky and ground apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:28 AM
45

It's not rude, it's being a realist. SAHM are the most vulnerable when it comes to being cheated and divorced on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:27 AM
77

I think she's just not interested in marriage. But really who knows, rules are different when you have money and influence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:15 AM
4

I'm putting this in my top hacks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:13 PM
257

Now that's some QUEEN shit. Absolutely gorgeous and no shits given, I wanna be her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:20 PM
41

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:15 PM
583

This is exactly how Ted Bundy lured his targets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 11:10 AM
55

First of all, he is not a HVM. It takes years for a person to be able to prove that they are HVM. Second, block him. He could have said no to having sex on the first date when you were drunk, but he didn't. Take some time off from dating and spend it with yourself. He is a shitbag, get rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:05 AM
40

No, I think that's your brain telling you to be very cautious about it. Look at everything he does with a fine toothed comb. There is an insanely high chance you're being lovebombed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:10 PM
48

It could be a romance high, sort of like when somebody is being incredibly good to you almost like lovebombing. So your brain gets these endorphins solely from being with them and when they're not there you feel empty. You'll have to look on psychology forums and books but I think that's what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:00 PM
1

Everybody here has serious trauma from suffering at the hands of pickmes and scrotes and if me being cautious and questioning your motives behind stating false statements makes me a gaslighter, well then so be it. You don't get to accuse me of something I never did and use your trauma as a shield. Also be careful, don't link your actual accounts with your personal information for this sub. Your ex could find you here and then your safe place would be compromised. Stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:09 AM
1

What's the need to be so defensive? It's not like I stated something false. Abortion till only six weeks has been introduced in Texas and I don't have enough time to fight with you just because you want to defend your state. As for my "time", it is used in a way that is actually worth something, not spend with fighting with people just because you're too fucking blind. Honestly your recent comments on other posts makes me concerned if you are a man or a pickme that is posting in this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:00 PM
3

You didn't but you said "there is something about living in south" which I am assuming meant fairly nice, which is why I commented.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 02:22 PM
20

If the temperature was a bit more warm I'd move in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:12 AM
13

Deep south as in where abortion is banned and misogyny in disgustingly rampant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:34 AM
24

I want to know that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:01 AM
27

That is awesome. But also have you vetted him thoroughly? How long were you dating for? Are you engaged? It is easy to ignore red flags when we think we found someone good but please be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:51 AM
7

People focus on survival first so the scenario in desert does not hold. And I'm not talking about making yourself look a certain way or behave a certain way to be sexy. I am merely stating that people in their natural bodies and looking like themselves stating that they are sexy is perfectly fine. We should absolutely think about everything and how it affects us and shouldn't let people decide and base our sexiness on them. That's what I meant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:29 PM
5

Maybe they're trying to be sexy for themselves, to be sexually attracted to themselves. Nothing wrong with being both sexy and confident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:27 AM
10

True.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 05:51 PM
99

It is astonishing how long they can hide their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 04:45 PM
15

Which is what FDS is about. Waxing hurts a lot so if you're doing it for men or so that people doesn't bother you then you got some thinking do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:21 PM
117

If he has some sort of partner then send the screenshot to her. No sense for her waste time with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:12 PM
6

Pickmes are pickmes irrespective of fame and money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:10 PM
38

I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 08:02 AM
125

This. If only all of us got this told from childhood right way, what bliss that would have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:16 PM
36

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:30 PM
254

Vet the mother-in-law just as thoroughly as the guy. I mean consider the entire family but most importantly the mil because more often than not if she isn't shit then neither is the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:59 PM
22

If it works for you, then go ahead but rewarding behaviour by looking good just doesn't sit well with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 07:30 AM
21

Really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 07:21 AM
14

Those scrotes and pickmes are using visa issues as if he isn't a citizen of UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:24 PM
16

Those idiots don't care. They just like the face and never accept what's behind it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:23 PM
3

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:23 PM
38

Neither did I think of this. But if he eats pussy then, is it a orange flag?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:33 PM
22

Dump those who simply do not match up to your levels in foods or even other aspects of life. I just meant as in that it could be a sensory issue. Mostly because I happen to be incredibly picky as in, if the food doesn't taste right or texture is weird then I simply lose my appetite and I have tried literally everything to get over it but it just doesn't work. So, I don't think I really know the exact details about this issues. Basically if you sense it is a ethnic food issue then dump him. If he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:32 PM
21

Try all women dating the same guy because really an overwhelming majority are like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:20 PM
54

I am not sure about this. In some people this could be a red flag but some people are just really really picky eaters. Although if is about not liking food of certain ethnicities, then dump the guy, it is very much a red flag. On the other hand, if it is about texture, spice tolerance then it is a different matter altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:13 PM
15

It's already proven that he did all this. I hope gigi gets full custody of the baby daughter because of this. Fucking hell, what a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:13 PM
33

You're joking right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:08 AM
38

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:33 PM
112

So she cleans up his messes then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:27 PM
21

Because if you tell them the exact reason then they learn to hide that better for the next girl. He's been decent On a couple of texts and few dates? It's not unheard of men killing women for that no matter how nicely it is done. The treat people the way I wanna be treated works with women and the rare exception of men, nobody else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:24 PM
100

What the actual fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:18 PM
1

I am so sorry, I didn't even look at the subject.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:12 PM
41

Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:09 PM
16

Guys don't deserve shit anyway. Why waste time and energy explaining and potentially putting yourself in danger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:22 PM
22

Is this a shitpost???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:17 PM
590

He doesn't owe her anything for getting him a job? Yikes. You know before I started seeing all these stories I wanted a lower priced ring because it would be a waste of money. Not anymore. And not ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:07 PM
1

Huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:35 AM
8

This applies for states only?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:32 AM
16

What about officers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:19 AM
113

This why you leave at the first red flag, no exceptions. Also OP, try to find new friends and keep these ones to acquaintances. Don't share your every little detail with people, when they continue to invalidate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:02 AM
55

I love watching animated movies now and laughing at these moments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 06:55 AM
7

But the post is still up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:44 AM
21

I thought we were supposed to not date men who consumed porn even a little?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 04:48 AM
39

There's the proof for all the scrotes and pickmes that FDS is the way. Will they start listening now? No. Will they continue to shout and believe their libfem nonsense? Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:40 PM
27

"You'll never find someone like me", That's the whole fucking point dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 07:35 AM
21

What exactly did he think he achieved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:50 PM
4

I've never faked an orgasm and neither am I ever going to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:38 PM
23

That's why there is no point in sympathizing with them. Cut them off, same as the abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:53 PM
13

I'm so sorry for everything you have been through and hope you are in a better place. I understand that it must have been sort of addicting for her but you have to understand that we simply can't keep on making excuses for people who stayed even if their child was hurt. She should started to prepare to leave the moment he started being verbally abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:52 PM
20

They are desperate to not be alone, I think. That's the only logical reason I can think of that they would let themselves and children be abused which just makes horrible people themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:09 PM
43

How can they not feel anything for their children? It's mind boggling. I mean pickmeisha behaviour aside how can you possibly not love your child enough to want them safe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:08 PM
210

I'll probably be downvoted for this but it doesn't make it any less true ; if you are letting your child be in an abusive environment then you are the problem too. Your issues, preferences and standards mean nothing if your child is being abused and I will forever hold both the enabler and the abuser equally responsible. It is difficult when you are in an abusive situation but you shouldn't just stand by hoping for someone to come rescue you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:13 AM
37

That's understandable, you didn't mention that so I assumed you were going to travel 1.5 hours to meet someone for a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:15 PM
110

So you were going to travel 1.5 hours to meet a loser? Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:23 AM
23

I kind of felt like that's what you meant. Sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:00 PM
37

It happening often doesn't mean that it isn't horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:49 PM
100

That's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:48 PM
200

So they heard the rape happening but not one of them bothered to help? Not one??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:43 PM
13

You should not do anything you don't want to or even feel a slight aversion to. Their expectations or wants don't mean jackshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:45 PM
70

You simply can't find a religion that assumes men and women as equals. None. That's the reason I am agnostic, as in i believe maybe there is some higher genderless energy but maybe not. The religions can fuck themselves for all I care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:42 PM
242

Men are hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:42 PM
190

I hope the wife reads his post and divorces him. Spending time with his family leaves him with no identity of his own while having a career and hobbies? What is wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:41 PM
1

That's true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:28 PM
9

My future earning options are mid level to high level, and leaving my job is something I will never willingly do so on that front I am very much protected. It's just that if I end up with an absolute scrote of a husband even after all the vetting and testing, I simply do not want to pay alimony or split my assets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:27 PM
7

I'm glad that you found someone wonderful. My best wishes to both of you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:26 PM
1

I am glad that you found your HVM. My best wishes to both of you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:25 PM
2

Oh no, thats not what I meant. Hell, in most cases having a wonderful single parent is better than a some fucked up version of a two parent unit. It's just that in FDS it is advised that being married before children is the best way and I know we have to tailor the advice to fit our lives, it's just a little confusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:23 PM
2

And that's something I completely agree with but here's the thing if you have children then it is beneficial to be married. While I am not decided on the matter of children, marriage seems like a bad deal to me if I have the laws against me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:15 PM
17

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:12 PM
7

That's the thing, you can vet all you want but some of them(few) are still clever enough to play the long con.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:11 PM
6

If you don't mind me asking, FDS does say not to date anyone who earns lower than you then why do you date him? Does he truly goes above and beyond for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:09 PM
12

Are children still in contact with their father?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:07 PM
104

Are sperm banks really that expensive that they allowed a practically unknown male with god knows what awful diseases sperm be used for a baby of their own? I mean he is absolutely wrong for wanting full custody but how did they did not see that things could go south very easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:58 PM
6

Oh yes, absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:52 PM
8

Thank you. I heard people mention way too many times that prenups are not effective completely and it's not worth the hassle. It's what prompted the post. Also, what are your thoughts about sharing inheritance in both male and womens case?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:49 PM
35

30 years??? She literally got cheated out of absolutely everything. Her children doesn't help her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:47 PM
7

I think most women should have a prenup irrespective of their husband's income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:45 PM
1

Thanks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:43 PM
5

I respectfully disagree. I think most women should have a prenup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:43 PM
3

That's horrible. Another reason not to be married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:42 PM
5

So they are airtight is most cases?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:39 PM
24

Typical male projection, your ex was nothing but an absolute loser. So, if you marry your current partner will you have a prenup?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:38 PM
17

That's the thing, their very tricky and not having them is even worse so really what we need is an airtight prenup which does not exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:36 PM
20

Yes, that's why asked here because if I asked this anywhere else I'd be bashed for even thinking about it. I really hope the other ladies tell their thoughts about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:41 AM
33

That's great advice and it is absolutely wonderful of you to lend your lawyer to them. I agree with all of this, the issue comes up when marriage and children are involved, like how do I tackle these issues then? Obviously right now the situation is hypothetical but my being a High earner is pretty much given so when I think about all this and normal 50/50 attitude that everybody has, it makes me ridiculously mad. I prefer that everything that was mine before marriage stays mine and I get the ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:30 AM
167

Even if you want to have sex, you are better off relieving yourself. Men aren't good for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:42 PM
74

And with scrotes playing long con, it's even more difficult to decipher their true characters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:16 PM
185

Not to mention the added health risks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:39 PM
21

You're welcome. 😊😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:00 PM
73

Yes, as in we haven't spent enough time together so I'm not comfortable being exclusive just yet. Also, watch his reaction very closely, things like this reveal a man's character very easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:55 PM
3

That's horrible. The cards are literally stacked against you. I'm terribly sorry for that. I wish you the very best. I hope that absolute loser rots in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:51 PM
181

You do not want to have your cake and eat it too. Don't say that, it makes it seem like you are taking advantage of someone or something. You are fully justified your feelings irrespective of what others feel. It's normal to feel if it hasn't been long enough to know the person. It might be a lot more helpful if you could mention how long have you two been dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:46 PM
78

There is no ethical porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:38 PM
33

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:00 PM
421

Look at all the pickmes and scrotes mad that someone is telling the woman that the guy she is sleeping with ain't shit. Honestly, he didn't say anything wrong. He didn't say don't have sex, he just said that she should prioritize her career and child before some loser. How is that wrong?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:53 PM
22

Block him, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:48 PM
8

I mean this in the nicest of ways but please get your children away from him. Cultural differences are no excuse to scrimp on children. Also, remember any money you do not take as child support from him is you losing the money for your children. I get that being a single mother is hard, but if you can get sole custody and up the child support, maybe it'll be a little easier for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:42 PM
76

From spongebob squarepants right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:14 AM
9

I mean you mentioned that they don't have proper beds and he asks you if he needs to feed them. And he's a low effort father, isn't it better to keep your children away from him, lest they develop habits like his? Obviously I am not aware of everything that goes on but one of the first most aspect of being a father is spending on them and if he cheaps out then, you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:12 AM
1

I love this. Always nice to see men stepping up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:35 AM
130

I wouldn't see too much in celebrities, they are always LVM. It's entirely possible that they do all kinds of shit just for publicity or to keep them relevant. I have never come across a celebritity that is a HVM solely because if they have that much amount of fans and fame then no way in hell can they possibly be HVM. Fame always brings out the narcissistic tendencies and selfishness in males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:09 AM
18

Exactly. Nothing better than grey rock method. Makes them feel worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:53 AM
16

Do you think you could show this in court and demand full custody and child support? He's an absolute loser who should never be allowed in your and your children vicinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:48 AM
13

Now, that's something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:43 AM
137

I don't think I have come across any completely HV characters on TV ever. Even if they show a woman to be highly driven with high standards, they fuck up the character in some way or other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:39 AM
12

That's true. You don't like BJs too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:18 PM
100

Men ain't shit so they hate it when women start accomplishing awards and milestones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:50 AM
94

I hate it and have never done it. Something I have always been curious about is, how do other women who don't like going down on males tell them no but like males going down on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:48 AM
20

For all their support for legal sex work, just see the way they react when we ask them why don't they do sex work. All of a sudden, rape and exploitation starts being discussed. As if those issues don't primarily and heavily concern women. Seriously, anything that they say I just turn it opposite to them, then see them clutch at straws to pretend that how it's beneficial for women but horrible for males at the same time. It's like they think all of us are idiots but no brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:12 PM
2

I was constantly checking reddit, waiting for FDS to come back up. Thank you to all you gorgeous ladies for all your hard work ❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:06 PM
1

Exactly. Also, reminders of their depravity helps in not falling for their tricks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:52 PM
1

This. We need to follow this mindset. No man is worth risking, quite frankly anything these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:37 AM
29

Somebody made a post about how these women refuse to believe what FDS preaches because they do not want to shed their rose coloured glasses when it comes to men and how the patriarchal society affects us. I think that plays a huge role in them denying everything that is true. They could pick some things they are comfortable with but they don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:27 PM
5

Understandable but even when her own children are involved? I mean how can you ever compromise or reduce their standard of living for a men. And from what I can understand that has been happening for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:51 PM
6

That's true but how can you not notice that you are always spending money. I understand that patriarchy, 50/50 and being a pickme is at work here and it's great that she finally has the help she needs but how can she not notice that she is constantly spending? She's obviously spending the money from her savings money (that she was saving before meeting him) or from her children's fun or necessity money. I don't pretend to completely understand what exactly makes them spend all their resources li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:47 PM
24

How on earth does the women not see that he is using her??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:32 AM
28

You can never win with them, can you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:20 AM
4

Things like these sometimes makes you wonder if it's even worth it to be in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:46 AM
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