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| 4 | Becoming a Respected Leader, or being the Captain of the Ship | EggLampBasket | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 03:42 AM |
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| 9 | [FR] First night out; Pool party - Truth or Dare - Threesome (long)I laughed, I cried, it was better than Cats. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 03:16 AM |
| 7 | I don't use routines, but GODDAMN...I never thought seddit would reference IT Crowd. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 05:27 PM |
| 3 | How to Sit like a BadassReally interesting read. This guy Clay is seriously in love with James Dean though. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 08:00 AM |
| 13 | Small dickI don't like how hard you try to seem "alpha" in the second paragraph. Not caring about your partner in bed is selfish and not a character trait of a gentleman. If she isn't enjoying your member try reading some sex tips from online/magazines (just like girls do) to improve your game. If you go into it willing to make the effort she won't notice your penis is ~.5 inches smaller than average. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 03:18 PM |
| 3 | I survived my first direct approach :)I wish every FR was this nice and well-written. Good work bud and I expect to see more of these. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 01:44 AM |
| 9 | I made a timeline of my progressYour main problem is you only go out the first 12 days of January. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 11:02 PM |
| 1 | First girl I smiled at on the street who responded positively was a prostitute. Go figure.Still counts! | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 09:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR by request] fail fail fail all around. Me on a train, basically getting nowhere at all + some bonus fails. Ok, to sum it up I didn't get any this weekend :-)Copy paste fail on the enrollment part. I feel like a dick now knowing English isn't your first language, sorry about that. The main thing is to not be talking in huge paragraphs right from the beginning. Keep it short and simple. Best of luck mate. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 09:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR by request] fail fail fail all around. Me on a train, basically getting nowhere at all + some bonus fails. Ok, to sum it up I didn't get any this weekend :-)I was a little harsh, but he really probably made the girl feel uncomfortable, she seemed like she didn't want to be bothered. I would have probably tried to empathize about the train ride being boring but how it's nice to be able to watch the world out the window. I then would have offered a game of hangman or something. If she really wasn't digging it then I would just leave it be and read a book. | /r/seduction | 29/08/11 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Evaluate your gameWhile I always say that I hate numbers n the PUA game, these are definitely good questions to help yourself. I would say the biggest point on the list is being too available. That is the biggest downfall for most guys. The problem comes from lack of abundance of options and therefore relying on one girl to to go out with and generally spend time with. Girls love the mystery and intrigue and much as us guys do and we should always remember that. | /r/seduction | 25/08/11 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How to be a successful beta maleSeddit likes to ignore that betas sometimes do get women. Whether by charisma, or whatnot, it is possible to pick up a girl as a non-alpha. You probably know some married beta men, so clearly the possibility is there. I would say a lot of the same things apply, don't be a chump and bend over backwards for her, i.e, being too available, changing plans for her, being needy. At the same time you don't necessarily have to be the one leading the group, there is such a thing as confident following. St… | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 11:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR#4] Moving forward in SLCFor the girl that dropped her phone, "Did you do this on purpose?" "Haha no..." "That was a pretty lame way to try and talk to me." "Haha I swear I didn't..." Then continue on from there. Not a great opener but it works and it should initiate some sort of conversation. For the girl outside when you're leaving. "Are you following me?" "Fuck no, I got better things to do then that!" Why didn't you just say what was in your head? You stated already that you're not going to see these people ever aga… | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Girls on the phone..This. Plus if you the girl doesn't value your time together, then why spend more time with her? She doesn't show you respect so why waste the energy trying to get her to. Simply state what madceaser wrote and then DON'T call her. Stand your ground and let her come back to you, if she does then great. If she doesn't then she wasn't worth your time anyway. | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 08:22 PM |
| 3 | [FR] #1You sound like your main obstacle is conversation, and another one would be more friendly openers. Although your opener can be garbage as long as you follow it up with some good discussion. For your first opener, it was rather closed and was asking for just a simple answer, not a conversation. Also, it was way too normal and boring. Figure out some contextual and interesting so that they won't just be giving the simple answer to a simple question. You initially put the ball in their court to con… | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Okay Seddit, so how do I get my way into a social network? How do I become the guy that gets invited out for parties rather than the guy that scrounges around on Fridays looking for something to do?Give me some examples of your conversations, that would definitely prove more helpful then your brief descriptions. Most likely your friends have already classified you, and it's going to be hard to break their preconceived notions. Not impossible, but it takes time. Go into some more detail and I think we can all help you out a bit better. Also, I asked about what you're trying to invite your friends to go do. I have a feeling there isn't an answer because you seem to just tag along. You need t… | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 07:57 PM |
| 36 | Okay Seddit, so how do I get my way into a social network? How do I become the guy that gets invited out for parties rather than the guy that scrounges around on Fridays looking for something to do?At the risk of sounding arrogant, I'll drop my modesty to try and help... I get people asking me to hang out constantly, 3-4 people a day at least, and honestly I don't even think about why. That is, until I read posts like yours. There isn't one reason why everyone always wants to chill, it's about overall character, on top of what you're normally doing with said people. For me, I've got my chill high school friends who hang out and play board games, with my college friends I play NHL or FIFA, … | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 05:25 AM |
| 3 | The Fake Alpha MalesThe use of alpha and beta are a joke in the PUA community. Anyone who is an "alpha" doesn't go on a message board proclaiming he is one. I think we can all agree on TofuTofu having some nice game, now go notice how often he uses the word alpha in his FRs. It's pathetic when some posts alpha tips like "Don't be the person who laughs the longest." That shit is just silly. Girls look for men, not boys who are trying to look like men with the help of some internet bullshit. | /r/seduction | 11/08/11 11:27 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Doing work.I rarely say it, but you played this perfectly. Post an update after some new developments. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Former FWB hangout rules?This is sound advice. If you want to get it done and over with just go with your plan of direct game, but this would probably ease you both back into it. Plus, you can tell within a few convos where it is heading. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 05:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally moved on from my oneitis...by getting with her friendHe represents a lot of what is wrong with seduction. He is the kind of person that gives us all a bad name and you promoting him does nothing but further tarnish our image. "I saw railing this little tubby as an opportunity to exercise my skills" -Jeffy Is this the guy you want us to learn from? You're supposed to be a moderator, come on... | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 05:32 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Finally moved on from my oneitis...by getting with her friendThat is the biggest filth in all of PUA material. I can't even believe you'd recommend it. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 06:49 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Day Game Wine Tasting / Some Q's"Hey it's Narssault from Winery Y, What's your itenerary for the rest of the day?" "We're at Winery Q" "Watch out, some sketchy girl was trying to lure me there. Be careful." Open up your conversations, don't make them have to work to keep it going. Also, why wait 40 minutes? Send her a text in like 10 so she get's in when she is in the car with her friends. That way you show confidence plus she's clearly going to show her friends so you have help from them as well. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 05:08 AM |
| 5 | The worst case of 'one-itis' I've ever read. Don't be this guy - he regrets not telling her how he felt as if he ever had a chance. It's quite clear she was never attracted to him in the first place.I dislike how he defines his passion is getting to know people. It's a huge excuse for him not finding other things to do in life. He loves getting to know people, but when people get to know him they realize there is nothing to him. Reminds me of how reddit differs between actual content and meta-posts about things related to reddit. You need to have actual content to have something worth visiting, not just a bunch of people saying how they try to get on the front page. This guy's life has no c… | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 06:39 PM |
| 2 | A neat idea (I think): a grading rubric for self-evaluation of seduction/PUA skillsWhy the personal attack? The definition of quantify is to express the quantity of something, AKA numbers. The context is about grading yourself, which by itself is fine, but the entire point of the OP's post is putting numbers on how you did. Yes you may be going up or down, but that would just be change in the numbers. I don't understand your logic. Clifton gets it, listen to him. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 06:21 AM |
| 2 | A neat idea (I think): a grading rubric for self-evaluation of seduction/PUA skillsI like your statement of, "Lets not ever shut the door...", but I still don't think having a rubric of sorts is a good idea. We can't box up everything into A pluses and B minuses; every situation is just too unique for that. More-so we should reflect on each encounter individually and think what we did right and what we did wrong. It's the same beef I have with the acronyms, but thats for a different day. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Goal-Oriented Strategy for Progress & DevelopmentI don't like this way of thinking about seduction at all. I workout as well, and I set goals for myself there, but I find goals in seduction a slightly creepy approach. These are people we are talking about. More than just games and gimmicks, I find that the key to women is passion, and conveying that passion. It could be anything, the more diverse the better. I suppose to even get to this point you have to have approached, so maybe set a goal to meet more people. Bringing numbers into it detrac… | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 05:59 AM |
| 6 | I lived too much by seduction "rules" and now I've found a girl who doesn't really respond to this stuff. Good story.Don't say "I only said that because..." unless it's teasing. It comes off pretty weak on your part. When she says "Why not?" stick to your guns and defend your position, even if it's not really your position, and start some playful banter about why it wouldn't work. Your TL;DR is just off man. There aren't really seduction rules and games, something this community sometimes fails to see. It's about conveying confidence and manliness, but staying true to yourself. If you want to kiss her than do … | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, Is she interested in me?Do you think sitting next to her is that big of deal? Is kind of an oddball move. On one hand you're breaking the norm by not sitting across, plus the kino or whatever, but it's kind of strange, and you don't get to face each other. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 05:18 AM |
| 0 | a long thread of people criticizing seddit on redditYou're talking to an engineering student... Objectification is when you treat people as objects, not when you treat objects as objects. We're talking about meeting people and trying to be more friendly and open, and I think we should talk about it like men, not like boys in middle school. I'd much rather read a well written account of some guys night rather than the basic "I got AA but then I negged and eventually # closed". The beauty of a story lies in the details, so yes I would like you to r… | /r/seduction | 18/07/11 08:51 PM |
| 2 | a long thread of people criticizing seddit on redditI laugh at the irony at which some people throw around alpha-ness on this board. We stand behind the "improving ourselves" banner to cover up a lot of objectification all while very few FRs show any sort of class at all. Sad we can't talk about how to get girls without having to throw acronyms around like 14 year old girl texts. In my mind we could use the criticism but we're too alpha to take it. Let's just say they're all betas and call it a day. | /r/seduction | 18/07/11 06:41 AM |
| 2 | FR: Work TrainingSomething about this FR just made me not like you. I think it's because you just don't seem genuine. Did anyone else feel this? | /r/seduction | 02/07/11 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Hello I am a novelty account that collects stories about you stealing someone's girlfriend. Please help me out.wait wut? | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 05:50 AM |
| 5 | Seddit, let's talk openers, pickup lines, and overall having fun with conversationsEveryone here is quick to judge, I suppose it comes along with a bunch of guys trying to act 'alpha'. By all means if you want to use jokes for openers then do it. Being yourself and natural will come off a lot better than trying to constrain yourself into a little box that isn't you. A lot of people here take everything way to literal, almost as if they are reciting "The Game" into their heads while they talk to girls. Do your own game, keep in mind the basic concepts, and have fun. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Since everyone's posting about their OKCupid successes. I thought I'd share my failure.I disagree, but I also see your point. How I perceive it, self-deprecation is one of the boldest things you can do. It shows your abundant self-confidence plus it can easily turn into some banter with you challenging her. I'd say online is really not the best medium for it, but in real life, if you can pull it off, it's definitely not a forbidden area. I do it all the time because if a hilarious joke is to be made, even if it's at my expense, I'm going to say it. In PUA speak it's part of the no… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 05:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm not funny and it's making me pissedWit comes a lot from being happy, and from the sound of your writing you are not a happy person. On top of that wit isn't really something you can learn just from something I write to you. Like everything, it's a developed trait that some people are just better at than others. Right now you think you need to be witty, but really you don't, just be normal; be yourself. If you ignore me, which you probably did when you read the cliche "be yourself" line, then you're going to end up trying to force… | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 12:29 AM |
| 1 | [LR] From OKC to the bedroom, okc messages includedI went from thinking; ok, decent opener, good response, oh dear lord this guy is ballsy, to holy fuck that was awesome. | /r/seduction | 04/06/11 06:42 PM |
| 3 | [LR]Breaking the law."Then call me a criminal." I lolled. | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 06:38 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Managed another K-close with a different girl in 1 class period.This happened all in the middle of class? | /r/seduction | 05/04/11 11:52 PM |
| 5 | [FR] OKCupid F-Close: Logistics, logistics, logisticsBlack and white photos are dangerous; if not pulled off correctly you end up looking like a wannabe photographer. I assume by your post you have already thought about this though. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 06:45 PM |
| 2 | I can't seduce my GFI'll 4th that there are other factors here at work. Either she did cheat on you, or something else... Either way she is kind of being a bitch. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Most flawless pick-up I've ever had all becasue of Nazis and cashcab.Jesus, this was straight out of Dickins. | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 07:31 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)It appears they are in fact hating. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 04:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Blond Lawyer 7.5 PullI never understand that when someone writes a FR and says "we start dancing", is grinding implied or is it just normal face to face stuff? | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How to pickup while running?I windsurf that lake all the time! It's crazy how many bitties are there. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 08:16 AM |
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