So long time lurker here, figured I would add a short LR partially for the heck of it and partially because I have recently started a site/blog whatever centered around online dating (and how to go about it) and figured instead of just shamelessly self promoting it I will try to add some value to this board, and whoever wants to check it out can do that!

So right now I am spending my times travelling around Asia, this happened a few weeks ago in Laos. It's pretty text book I guess, and from online dating, but such is life.

Knowing I was about to head over to Laos within a few weeks\days figured it could not hurt to look through some dating sites to see if I could find a women to keep me company while I am there. I was considering going with a Swedish backpacker girl I had met in Vietnam, but then again right now I prefer meeting new girls and new people instead of sticking with the same group for weeks/months, so I decided to just go alone.

Going through Laos on some various sites I can see it is pretty slim pickings, but on a site slightly more Asia targeted I find a really cute girl. Though I don't like numbering girls other than 0 or 1 (e.g will fuck or wont fuck.) I'll indulge in it for reddit, I guess she was a 7 or an 8, probably more 8 or a 9 if you like asians. Pretty short but unlike alot of asians she had some nice boobage going on. Anyway enough about that.

Decided to send her a message, i'll give a transcript of the messages just to show what I sent

Subject: Cooler than you.

Yo, lets get together sometime soon so we can measure my coolness up against yours to find out who is cooler. Hopefully you live up to your profile so you are cool enough to hang out with me. Has to be around <date> though since thats when i'll be in <her city>.

(She had something retarded in her profile about her being super cool or some shit and only message her if you are cooler than her, fuck do i know.)

Re: Hahaha. it is actualy from a song maybe you are cooler than me thou. I see from your profile you are travelling, are you always trying to pick up girls when you go to a new country? What will you be doing in <city>?

Rere: Not sure exactly what apart from taking you out for a drink. Enjoying the fine weather and food while taking in the sights I guess. Anyway heres my number send me a Text and we will schedule something later. <My Vietnamese number.>

(Completely ignoring her "shit test" or whatever you want to call it about picking up other girls. Sometimes I answer one like that with some sarcastic answer like "only or Sundays" or "only the ugly ones\only the cute ones" depending on whatever I feel like and how I see the situation I guess. I Seem to get that specific type of shit test alooot though. (Do you always\do you do this a lot or whatever. Not sure what that means, heh.))

Anyway I am pretty direct with us meeting up. A few reasons for this, first of all, all women are easy, but as a youngish non chode Caucasian man in Asia, calling it easy does not justify the easyness. Secondly, I do not at all care if she turns me down, I am not looking to spend a lot of time seducing her online to slightly increase my chances of meeting up. I just tell her come lets meet up and if does not want to, thats fine, if she does want to, then great.

Next day she sends me some text saying we can maybe meet up for some tea or something and I figured this is pretty much in the bag. (Still a week or two untill I start moving to her city in Laos though.) So anyway I chill around in Vietnam, go tubing in Vang Vieng (Great fun) Anyway on my way to Laos, talking to some other travelers it becomes apparent that it is in fact Illegal, like straight up against the law, for a foreigner to have sex with a Laos citizen\resident. I look that shit up and sure enough, against the law. I decide against my best judgement though and decide to meet up with her and just not have sex with her if I feel its a bad idea.

So I send her a text something like "I'll be there tomorrow lets go get a drink at like 10 or something"( figuring I would incorporate her into my night out, and and maybe try to pull some tourist or something If I decide against outlawing myself by sexing her up, but still feel like geting some.) and she instantly responds, turns out basically everything in laos closes at like 10 or 11pm, so we decide to meet up for dinner and drinks after at 6. Sure enough next day there she is 6pm cute as a button. (Buttons are very cute) So I hug her and give her a kiss on the cheek (she seemed kind of shocked/taken aback by the kiss on the cheek but whatever.) We go get something to Eat, I pay for the dinner, costs me like 50 000 Kip which totals out to be like 4 euros or something. She has surprisingly good English/is a good conversationalist unlike most Asian women I have met. She works in some tourism thing\with Americans though so I guess that explains it.

Anyway we go get something to drink In a pretty odd bar(if you can even call it that) I go for the trusty BeerLaos (Maybe thats a type of branding that would hit home in the American Beer market, BeerUSA anyone?) Pretty much the worst beer I have ever but whatever. I keep up some light physicality, and a lot of eye contact which I can tell is working well. Anyway she starts talking about her job and how she is so happy she has gotten it since it makes her realcash compared to most Laotians or whatever the fuck they are, so she was recently able to afford to move out from her parents and have her own place.(She is 26) I can feel it SUPERclearly that now is the time to pull. So I make a snap decision , decide to fuck it and that I don't feel like turning down this. If having sex with Laotians is a crime, then call me a criminal. And start probing about her place, like how far away it is, how she got here (Turns out she drove a motorbike) etc.

I then go "You should show it to me, lets go" and grab her with me and leave the bar. Go to her bike, hope that she is not a super lightweight with her alcohol, so she will crash on our way to her place because of 2 beers. I use me sitting behind her on the bike as an opportunity to get a bit closer to her\ a bit more touchy feely than I Strictly need to for the safety of the bike. Get to her place, which is basically a really small house split in the middle to form 2 1room apartments (e.g a room with a bed in and a bathroom.) in the middle of nowhere. Go in and her room is basically just a mattress on the floor and a desk + closet. We basically just go straight to bed and fun times. Again in the morning, and then she shows me some around in the city. All in all a great time.

Wow, that was a lot longer than I had planned. Whatever its done now. Laos Officials still haven't arrested me so I think I am in the clear! TL:DR. Travelling in asia, set up girl online in Laos before going there, having sex with locals is illegal in Laos. Do it anyway. ???. profit.

Last but not least a little shout out to the site I recently decided to put up. It is a site mainly dedicated to Online game\online dating (And to be honest it is more made for the AFC than the aspiring PUA, so there will be a lot of things most people already know but whatever.) So far I have only added some articles on the absolute basics, but will probably keep on adding articles as long as I can be bothered. If it helps someone out with something somewhere I am happy. So here is the site http://how2onlinedate.com If there is anything specific you would like an article on, or something you would like to comment on\disagree with, then comment here or on the site. (More likely to get back to you\respond to you on the site though.)

Thank you for your time.