Hi Peoples! About a week or so since my last LR so figured I would put up another one.

My first and second LR can be found here: [LR] Breaking the Law [LR] Aunt & 2 nieces

Been a few weeks since the following happened but still have all the messages and I am not old enough to have gone senile yet so memories are still pretty fresh, anyway here goes:

This is about a girl I met a while ago. She is from England (but living in Asia) Sent her a message through an online dating site, got her number, called her up when I was in 'her' city and scheduled a meet up.

So I go there at when we had decided to meet up, 8:30ish (probably a few minutes late) and wait around for a few minutes. Starting to consider the possibility that she has flaked me, but not giving up yet. A few minutes later she calls me though and tells me she is is in the right area but can't find the place. After some stumbling about on the phone we manage to find each other. I give her a hug and pick on her for having to have me to guide her when she is the one who lives here. She is easily as cute as her picture\profile suggested and has a gorgeous British accent. I love British Accents (some of them at least.)

We go to the bar nearby, I make sure to lead her into a more quiet, or secluded area of the bar if you will, but also make sure that she sits down first so I can sit down next to her instead of across from her. We order drinks and she picks up her wallet as if to pay her part or whatever she was thinking but I just pay and tell her she can get the next round (which she does.)

Anyway we start talking. I lead the conversation to her online dating history. Asking if she goes on a lot of online dates , and poke fun at her saying she is probably some sick online player girl who picks up a new guy every other day from various dating sites. I sometimes like talking about other dates/online dating experiences since most girls have had some awful dates. Make is pretty easy for me to stand out as more awesome than those guys. And it also creates some trust between us, kind of conspiring and talking shit about her past dates.

It is also usually an easy way for me to segue the conversation into sex. If I feel the date is going somewhere between good and great, and I sense there is some sexual chemistry between us, I like to say something like "So do you always plan to sleep with people you meet online on the first date or am I just lucky?" Or something like that. When I said that to this girl she at first burst out laughing then said "I never sleep with people i met through the internet on the first date" With kind of a.. suspicious undertone. Hard to explain. At some point during the conversation I just kind of slowed down the conversation and leaned towards her and eventually kiss her.

I make sure to be the first to break the kiss, and after I have she pinches me and calls me a bad boy, but she seems to have enjoyed it. Anyway we keep talking and mucking about the bar for another hour or so, getting somewhat physical, and eventually head out of the bar. For a short while we just walk aimlessly around with my arm around her, then I start walking towards my hotel bringing her with me. At one point she asked me where we were going and I just 100% ignored the question and started talking about something else. I find it pretty hilarious how well doing something like this works at avoiding questions. Eventually we got to the hotel and she realized I lived there. But I just lead her in and she follows. In the elevator up, between us making out, she said something along the lines of "We are NOT having sex tonight" To which I just said "Of course" not and kissed her.

We get into the hotel room and after some of her saying "I should not be doing this." But eventually she gives in and "does this" , we meet up a few more times in the week or so I spent in the city. Moral of the story : I like online dating.

For a somewhat more in-depth version of this LR, including the transcript of the online messages and text messages between us, you can check up the article about it here: How to online date: Walk-through #1

And if you for whatever reason are looking for some tips and advice mainly centered around online dating you are welcome to check out my site at How2onlinedate.com