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I'm in a similar situation. I believe that I have grown afraid of the responsibility that comes with relationships. I think it helps to give yourself time with women. Time to get excited.
/r/seduction24/06/15 05:54 AM
2

To me, seduction is not about manipulating people. It's about developing the most attractive traits of yourself and knowing the social dynamics that will get you the girls you are really interested in. As long as you are being yourself and are open about your intentions with the women you meet, you are fine.
/r/seduction23/05/15 06:26 AM
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I unhook bras a lot as well and often I get in trouble for it because apparently, it's really uncomfortable if the bra is unhooked while she still has her shirt on. Just go a little further every little step. You will get direct feedback from her. She will stop you if she doesn't want to. If I'm ever unsure if she's okay, I say: "are you okay?" Or "how do you feel?"
/r/seduction15/05/15 09:58 AM
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I'm going to laminate that shit and bring it to the club with me.
/r/seduction13/05/15 09:03 AM
2

Love yourself relentlessly and whenever you don't know what to do: ask yourself how a self loving and accepting person would handle such situation.
/r/seduction06/05/15 03:39 PM
19

Say: "Wait, do you smell popcorn?!"
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:02 AM
1

Almost everybody speaks half way decent English. Don't worry too much about your German.
/r/seduction04/05/15 03:59 PM
2

Not my experience at all. I think Italians and Spanish girls give you a way harder time.
/r/seduction04/05/15 03:58 PM
1

With a girl that is considering to kiss you in the future, you never blow it because you try to kiss her earlier. If she's not feeling it yet, she'll let you know and you have to go back and spike some more comfort. Smile, take a step back chat some more.
/r/seduction05/04/15 05:46 AM
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It's a question of focus. I think that one can become good at talking to women and flirting with them, but really it's the whole package that sells. Nothing makes you more attractive than knowing what what makes you happy and pursuing it with all your heart. This is more important than banging that girl from Spanish class, because it will change your mindset and priorities: Your life and your happiness are priority no. 1. If she doesn't want to date you, that's okay because her happiness is her …
/r/seduction20/03/15 06:51 AM
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Bring nice and casual is the best. Meanwhile you lead the awesomest life you can possibly live and become really really happy and in tune with yourself. They will notice. Then you just invite them along casually to some of the cool things you do all the time without much thought behind it because it really is just a casual invitation. Then you make her laugh a lot and lead the interaction, you tease her and touch her a little. See how she reacts. If she seems into it, keep going, if not, take a …
/r/seduction20/03/15 06:25 AM
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When you hate your acne more than you love your liver! (I did it and it changed my life!)
/r/seduction11/03/15 07:15 AM
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Not feeling worthy and thus not trying to make a move (!) talking too much and thus not making a move Texting too much. getting excited too quickly Not being attentive to which girls show interest in me Not being in the moment and freezing, esp. when in "competition" with another guy.
/r/seduction07/03/15 10:23 AM
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No. I spend a lot oft time with my co-workers. I don't fancy any of them.
/r/seduction04/03/15 05:57 PM
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Before everything you do, ask yourself: how would a self loving person go about this. Be specific about what you dislike and ask yourself: can I change this? If yes, change it. (Start small, build habits) if no, accept it once and for all. Recompensate with things you can change. Also: from now on, no more talking yourself down. The down talking is what got you into this mess. Stop it and let your convictions be followed by actions.
/r/seduction21/02/15 12:42 PM
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I believe that the most impactful book I've ever read in terms of self improvement was Wayne dyers your erroneous zones. It will help you figure out and solve many inner blocks that keep you from becoming more sociable (starting with your conviction that you're not in fact sociable). It will help you to allow yourself to improve. Then you can go with books like models. They are more particular and address things like clothing as well as body language etc. For advice on how to dress properly, pre…
/r/seduction14/02/15 01:30 PM
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It's all about how sure you are of yourself. Girls giggle. It's their thing. If they say: "it's such a weird thing to say!" You could respond with: "it's such a weird thing never to say hi!" Smile and be open. People have all sorts of assumptions about how the world is supposed to work. If you are sure of yourself and don't let them mangle your opinions (while remaining open in your judgement) it won't matter.
/r/seduction14/02/15 09:45 AM
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That's really cool!
/r/seduction13/02/15 06:02 PM
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It's all about expectations man. The last time I went out alone, a friend oft mine was supposed to Tag along but then didn't. I went to a concert, thinking oft doing just that. Then I met a really cool girl who was there on her own as well. I didn't expect anything and just wanted to have a good time. I ended up having loads of fun with the girl and going to various clubs that night, making out. It can happen but it really doesn't have to. Just let it happen and have fun. Talk to guys as well. B…
/r/seduction08/02/15 07:44 PM
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Is there data about the claim that most men are kept away from their children by the mothers of their children? I'd like to read up on that!
/r/MensRights03/01/15 08:51 AM
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People from barcelona are not very open, unless maybe you speak catalan. Stick with tourists and expats. There should be plenty.
/r/seduction04/12/14 08:17 PM
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A lot of it surely has to do with the predominant idea of masculinity: Having sex with many women is what defines your status as a man for many. If that is the explicit goal, women naturally become objects. Vaults, which you want to open by pushing buttons so you can feed your ego with what you find inside. That's why there is a market for "cheat codes to get into womens pants".
/r/MensRights09/11/14 08:50 AM
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Sex without commitment is not my goal in life. This holds true for most of my friends as well.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 03:53 PM
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The term toxic masculinity and the statistics are from the op. I adopted them because i do believe there is a crisis with male identity in most parts of the world and the statistics describe a symptom of this crisis. In the U.S. it might be more apparent within the black community but it's race independent. Economics and the disintegration of families (no father-figures) might be the reason. The thing is: it affects me as a western european white man as well as it affects a black man from Louisi…
/r/MensRights28/10/14 04:59 AM
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I did not. Many men may be maltreated as a result of our standard of masculinity, but that is merely a result of what I am speaking of and not the thing itself. I mean a concept of what and how a man is supposed to be. It is upheld by society as a whole and thus by men and women equally.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 12:34 PM
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Yes. And do you see most of society capable of critical thinking?
/r/MensRights25/10/14 03:02 PM
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How we treat men is also a part of masculinity. Gender is always something that affects society as a whole. A self understanding is only part of it. How you are perceived is the other part. They are largely intertwined.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 06:15 AM
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She says "toxic ideas about manhood" and "toxic masculinity". This is clearly about gender roles.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 06:11 AM
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I haven't understood her as hating on men in these tweets. She's talking about a crisis of masculinity in our society which I can hardly deny. It really is not a coincidence that men are more prone to violent crimes, but i want to stress that this is specifically NOT because we're inherently evil but because of how we are raised as men and what society expects from us. I enjoyed this ted talk on the context of "the man box": http://www.ted.com/talks/tony_porter_a_call_to_men We're supposed to be…
/r/MensRights25/10/14 06:09 AM
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I don't think we have to bang girls by the masses. I much prefer intimacy these days. You seem to as well. As a matter of fact, i've been told by women that sex with me almost seemed like a well rehearsed ritual, like a service. All measured and quantified in orgasms and positions. Right spot right time but somehow off. I won't deny I'm in a bit of an identity crisis. I banged so many women for nothing but my ego. I wanted to prove myself as the ladies man, the manly man. Internal validation is …
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:43 PM
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No mention of the word wage gap? Did i watch the wrong video?
/r/MensRights07/09/14 04:07 PM
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Doing stuff would be an option. Get a mission in life and make use of every second of the day. Set goals for yourself and go after them. Not having to work is incredibly advantageous. You can try stuff and travel around the world. You can build thimgs learn stuff, study, figure out your dream career and what your mission in life is. Bill gates doesn't have to work anymore either. You see that motherfucker slackin?
/r/seduction02/09/14 06:58 PM
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About your expectations: if you go up to a girl thinking: i want to sleep with her, you will telegraph that intention. The conversation will be a form with checkboxes of the way there in your head. People realize that very quickly and feel like they're manipulated into giving you something they have.
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:54 AM
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Yeaah. No.
/r/seduction24/12/13 05:37 PM
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Didn't work on iphone either
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:49 PM
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Lol romantic. Did you read what you just wrote? You are in sex mode. Very quick on the next-button. Play that game and girls pick up on it. It's a tough and physical game that plays on primal urges and emotions. It'll get you sex but not necessarily girlfriends, because you just seem fun but have no "partner value" to them. My advice: Get more rapport, form deeper connections and sleep with fewer but higher quality women.
/r/seduction18/12/13 10:33 AM
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That actually made sense to me though. We're very obsessed with career and willing to por so much of iur life into it that we can't really live it anymore. You can be good with women and successful, actually you should be successful if you want to keep a high quality woman who's probably successful as well because of relationship dynamics. A successful chump will however still be a chump and take what he'll get instead of finding out which women he actually clicks with because he has neither tim…
/r/seduction18/12/13 10:21 AM
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? Explain
/r/seduction18/12/13 10:12 AM
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I don't think he has a concept of 10 and 5 seconds there. If you do it for that long you probably look like a clown, a rapist, or a videogame avatar that's timing out.
/r/seduction18/12/13 10:11 AM
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Oh god yea. Also: Sit that girl there and dress her up for an evening gala (like that lamborgini women story he told) to anker getting girls to his teachings. A couple of things he said were really good but some made me cringe a lot e.g. His use of fuck was so geared towards the bro type audience. Stories about his sexual conquests (and actually bringing one of them and alluding to the things he's done with her) that weren't necessary to illustrate his points at all. A guy can say a couple of no…
/r/seduction18/12/13 10:09 AM
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Don't be greedy. always be generous. Also: you look down on your friend. You are arrogant and think that just because you go to college, you should get all the girls like some medaö. Not really nice. There is a word for a guy who hooks his friends up with girls: it's wingman. Be a good wingman and go out to have fun. Greedy people are unattractive. The underlying (toxic) competition between you and your friend is poisonous. Girls pick up on it and you lose.
/r/seduction14/12/13 03:43 PM
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Pictures are good. Cool stuff you saw, good food you cooked. Take pic, send it.
/r/seduction11/12/13 10:11 PM
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You better run. The zoo keeper will be fucking pissed!
/r/seduction11/12/13 10:09 PM
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Take 2-3 texts until you propose a date. Make every interaction with her meaningful and goal oriented.
/r/seduction11/12/13 09:52 PM
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Neediness is for emotion, not from any kind of physical stimulation. Make her work a little for your approval.
/r/seduction11/12/13 09:50 PM
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Go out. Grocery stores, clothing stores, bookstores, in the street, at sports events, in parks, literally everywhere. And that's just during the day!
/r/seduction11/12/13 10:21 AM
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I think the best way not to be boring is never zo be bored. Look up the ted talk about 90 day challenges and maybe visit projectreddit. Awesome things you can learn doing are rock climbing, anything theatre related, music! (Listening a lot, going to concerts, playing guitar, learning to dj, singing in a choir et cetera), geo-caching and other outdoorsy stuff that helps you balance with computer time, keeps you fit and outside. Whatever you do make sure you take something with you while doing it.…
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:40 AM
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start a video like that and you have me quitting in no time. who are you? kanye west?
/r/seduction27/11/13 07:55 PM
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I think it's the orange. Unless you are (black and) absolutely sure you can pull it off, better stay away from it. Chucks are great though. Just not in a color widely used, only as an indicator for dangerous road side situations. Also the vest with jeans is too large a gap between formal and casual. Some chinos would have closed it. In other news though: thank you for the post. It's an interesting topic you brought up!
/r/seduction27/11/13 07:17 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLoPXNquIxM
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:07 PM
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nothing beats negative self-reinforcement when it comes to not reaching a goal.
/r/seduction02/10/13 12:07 PM
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a woman who is happy with you will generally not leave you for someone else.
/r/seduction26/08/13 03:16 PM
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but looks are hardly an excuse. that's my point.
/r/seduction15/06/13 06:38 PM
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Looks like looks don't matter as much as you thought, huh?
/r/seduction15/06/13 08:55 AM
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You spend money so the community gets something for free. Slight difference.
/r/seduction15/06/13 08:49 AM
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Check the side bar on shit test responses. This is a classic.
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:31 PM
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"The job was done" is an interesting viewpoint. mine is: a number is just an IOI. It should be an encouragement to keep going and to establish a deeper connection with the other person. This is why it seems a little as if you are going through motions and checking off lists (smile, check! Touch, check! Number, check! Nothing to do here! Better move on!) It's okay to leave her to cook a little but you better be back there later.
/r/seduction30/04/13 05:06 AM
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Why did you stop hanging around with her after you got the number?
/r/seduction28/04/13 07:14 AM
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i'd say it's the ladies night concept. clubs, parties, concerts are treated as mating grounds. Girls are the prize. If the women come, the men will come too. Swingerclubs do this a lot: Men pay 100$ women pay 10$. There I understand it, because if they didn't do that it'd be 95% men there... but at a pop concert?
/r/MensRights10/05/12 09:33 AM
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well, I agree...on a legal level. I just think it's dispicable.
/r/MensRights10/05/12 09:19 AM
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hadn't seen it here, i'm sorry.
/r/MensRights10/05/12 08:55 AM
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so it would also be okay to say: Black people pay 300% more than white people?
/r/MensRights10/05/12 08:51 AM
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i don't know man. I think she was just a charming hired gun. I'm pretty sure that this won't work unless you are totally different from the thousand guys who come in there every day and try to chat her up. My advice is to avoid hired guns completely until you are quite advanced. You can always go back to that girl in the store and all, but really, all it shows is that you've been thinking about it and planning maybe while she'll probably hardly remember you.
/r/seduction05/05/12 12:21 PM
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"YOU JUST WANT TO TOUCH MY PENIS!"
/r/seduction30/04/12 10:22 AM
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That's almost funny, considering they didn't let women vote until the 1970s in some parts of switzerland.
/r/MensRights08/03/12 08:58 AM
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i couldn't get to when the article started talking about the actual topic because it was just overly emotional noise that just sickened me. I don't think we'll get anywhere with men's rights if we write texts like this.
/r/MensRights23/02/12 09:20 PM
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"A few years ago I learned French, and mastered the language well enough to speak in horrible slang with a fully authentic accent." yeah...no.
/r/seduction18/02/12 01:23 PM
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also: don't be afraid of being creepy.
/r/seduction09/02/12 11:12 PM
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for the 3rd or 4th time, I'm talking about stealing a kiss from a girl not about telling a story.
/r/seduction27/01/12 04:09 PM
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people post in this forum not to show how great they are (some do, of course) but to share ideas. this is an idea. wtf do I care if he's done it or not? Important for me is only whether I find it to be a good idea or not.
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:56 PM
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are you kidding me? of course I'm not talking about op making a bold move with telling us a story but about a hypothetical person actually doing what op proposed.
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:54 PM
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now firstly you've highlighted the definition of a different word, namely the adjective routine, not the noun routine. Secondly, the reason for a routine task to be monotonous is the fact that is has been experienced many times. You are not going to do it many times with the same woman, so she won't experience it as routine just like somebody who sees a play for the first time won't think that he is witnessing a routine task even though the actors might do 2 shows a day 3 days a week. Thirdly, m…
/r/seduction27/01/12 10:49 AM
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how is this lying?
/r/seduction27/01/12 10:36 AM
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it's a bold move to steal a kiss at the risk of getting slapped. Whether you like routines or not is a question of your style of game, but a bold move is not becoming more or less bold for the girl because you've discussed it with your peers first, just like you're not less bold to do anything risky because you've talked it through beforehand.
/r/seduction26/01/12 06:54 PM
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every seduction needs a bold move. This is a bold move.
/r/seduction26/01/12 11:30 AM
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it's true. Sometimes it's slowburn time and the most lost situation turns into the best lays ever.
/r/seduction04/01/12 10:58 AM
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THIS, THIS a thousand times THIS
/r/seduction29/12/11 02:28 AM
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as an uncircumcized male, I can tell you that I have never had a bladder infection. As it was already stated, cleanliness is a question of knowing how and teaching them.
/r/MensRights28/12/11 08:43 PM
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I fight the fight by just splitting the bill until somebody really made me feel like I want to invite them.
/r/MensRights09/12/11 12:49 PM
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but there's a little spin on a story...and there is downright lying, shaving polls, and constructing an identity narrative for millions of people that helps keeping up this hurtful, even catastrphic idea of "us, the righteous ones, vs. them the morally unsound." The idea of 'us vs. them' is a horrible idea. It lead to things as horrible as the violencia in Colombia in the 60s and it has led the american public to start oil wars and give up their civil rights over that phantom of terrorism. It ha…
/r/MensRights08/12/11 10:11 AM
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I know. I'm just very much anti-fox news. I believe they have shown themselves too many times as not interested in informing the public but in actively misinforming them for their own purposes and that of their allies.
/r/MensRights08/12/11 09:50 AM
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Fox News does not make news. They make entertainment. Every article on there will have the tendency to simplify a matter and to propose an opinion as fact. Part of the conservative agenda of Fox News is their idea of what a family is, of gender roles etc. By accident, you've found a pseudo ally in them. I have to answer with yes though, for a different reason: See, I'm not from the U.S.. I look at all this from Europe and I wonder how a political situation such as yours could even occur. And it'…
/r/MensRights08/12/11 09:46 AM
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the actual study would have been nice.
/r/MensRights08/12/11 09:34 AM
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fox news? really?
/r/MensRights07/12/11 03:46 PM
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that was very funny. I don't think you have to worry about something like that happening to you if you act congruent to your personality, as opposed to acting interested even though you're not, like the guy in the video.
/r/seduction05/12/11 08:28 PM
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it may also suggest a freedom of social inhibitations. She can have slept with guys for her ego or for fun. it depends on the specific person. Personally, I have the impression that most women don't have a lot of sexual skill. Chances are that a more experienced woman has way more of it and give you a way better time!
/r/seduction04/12/11 09:58 AM
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the point is different. I don't understand it as him bragging about his success. To me, he's merely stating that he firstly won't go out and buy dinner for a girl he hardly knows 3 times in a row (since that's the epitomy of the chode who goes straight into the provider category) and is secondly able to read the signs of whether she's interested or not...you know...signs a little more subtle than lips wrapped around your cock.
/r/seduction23/11/11 11:17 AM
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it's better if you give me yours, is more of a polite no usually. even if you called yourself and are in posession of her number, your chances of getting anywhere are very low because you took it even though she had actually told you she'd prefer you didn't have it... I'd say, you really need to work up more comfort with the girls before closing them. You probably should have smiling and very politely said to the guy that you were in a conversation right now or, if you choose to let her loose be…
/r/seduction04/11/11 12:36 PM
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that title sounds like you want to bully yourself out of being bullied.
/r/seduction04/11/11 11:51 AM
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depends on the scale you're thinking in. after world war 2, europe had pretty few men left. edit: and most of our mating behavior still works as if we lived in 50-100 people tribes.
/r/MensRights22/10/11 01:03 PM
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even though the reasoning here is off, it's an evolutionarily sound idea for a society to place more priority on the survival of women because pregnancy is the bottleneck in biological repopulation. I'm not an anthropologist and maybe one of you can help me out with this, but is there any culture on the planet in which men don't do more high-risk-jobs?
/r/MensRights22/10/11 09:08 AM
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I just found this. That's the way to go.
/r/seduction09/09/11 12:19 PM
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check the top voted comments of all time, one is about shit-tests, namely the boyfriend one and others. with the other one, put yourself in this frame: you're fucking james bond. Every day you go around town and talk to girls and THEY ALL want your dick SO FUCKING BAD and flirt with you HARD. You like it, but you never depend on any single one of them, because you KNOW it's going to be 10 minutes and the next one is already hitting on you. How do you react to some HBnoteventen telling you unprov…
/r/seduction02/09/11 12:45 PM
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When she told you that she was wearing only underwear under her over-all, that was a shit test. How does he react? indifferently, delighted, horny, creepy... her looks and the vague (or not so vague) hint at her sexuality are her weapons and she uses them very proficiently. If you prove yourself to be immune to the most basic of her lures, you unlock achievement no. 1: respect as a person.
/r/seduction02/09/11 11:53 AM
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that's pretty awesome, can you link to the original information?
/r/seduction02/09/11 08:59 AM
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fucking great. the one with the underwear was shit-testing you but also showing interest...and it was the hottest of them all, so I guess it's a good thing for you to hammer into your head that...even though your game works on ALL women...it works EVEN BETTER, the hotter the girls are :)
/r/seduction02/09/11 08:57 AM
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if you've done it right, she'll be begging you to come by then. It's a fun game to toy with that. If she doesn't want to comply (saying: how are you going to hinder me to come? or something of the likes), don't hesitate to take drastic measures like hanging up. This goes either your way or it doesn't work at all. There is no negotiation possible without a complete loss of frame. All you have to do is allow her and for some added intensity to visualize how the release takes control over her body,…
/r/seduction27/08/11 10:09 PM
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did she lose it in a good way? because I really liked the joke. :D
/r/seduction27/08/11 10:06 AM
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I've never worried about that and nobody ever accused me of being cheesy doing that. I suppose it's my frame. I'm about philosophy and spirituality and with the exception of shallow party girls, most women have a streak for that too. I explain it beforehand, I tell them about what you can do with it. Depending on the girl I frame it almost as an experiment or game. Sometimes I just ease into it from a different angle. Once I've had a good friend of mine almost orgasm by taking a good feeling she…
/r/seduction27/08/11 10:03 AM
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it seems as if you could've gone for the SNL, no? with the photography you've had the best excuse to ask her up. it was a very good FR! I've particularly enjoyed this part: She is leaning in to see the photos and our heads are nearly touching. But I don't want to get ahead of myself on the kino, so I hold back a bit there. Just toy with our proximity. She'll notice how close we are. Half an hour into the conversation, I've had her talking a bit more. Find out we have both been married previously…
/r/seduction27/08/11 06:04 AM
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this is really not tricking anyone. I hardly use NLP otherwise. I believe that any good relationship (regardless of nature) is supposed to heal the other. The whole thing is on the phone and you don't necessarily get anything out of it, unless you can enjoy her complete ecstasy on the phone and reap in the benefits of how the relationship develops out of it.
/r/seduction27/08/11 05:45 AM
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Seems more like you're not building up enough commonalities and comfort with the girls you're dating. Tofu would probably tell you to go caveman all the way (assume attraction, especially if a girl already went home with you after a date). If you want to do things more like the techniques in the OP though, I would suggest, you show her something, pictures, books...something you have stories with and work your way up the vin di carlo escalation latter. I've made good experiences with one-handed n…
/r/seduction27/08/11 05:40 AM
1

did you relax your sphincter too? I read somewhere that its the best way to get a broad alpha way of walking with your legs confidently apart.
/r/seduction24/08/11 01:18 PM
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only if you really need to go consensual.
/r/seduction24/08/11 07:58 AM
2

don't set the number out as your goal before ejecting. your goal is an ongoing relationship, be it as fwb or however. so if you numberclose some girl, just do it sometime during the interaction, but not make it out as your goal. So instead of ejecting after the numberclose, from now on, try to always go for instadates and see how far you can take it. if you've made it into an instadate (or day2 if it's the only thing you could get). let her get comfortable with you, and kino right away...go for …
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:36 PM
1

No, there's nothing like it! we must be talking about different things...what about arranged marriages, from india to aristocratic europe... They were entirely about money and status. thinking 'love' economically is what i'm talking about. not 'new york' and 'hoopz' trying to get the paper from flava flav specifically. Also you forget that in nearly all past societies women did real work that was productive and something the men needed in a woman. Now we don't really see that,in the housewife. d…
/r/MensRights23/08/11 08:53 AM
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have you read my post, where it said: i really dislike golddiggers...oh boy... if a girl even demands I buy her a drink she's out. and: I'm very much convinced though, that an empathetic society will get further in the long run, but may be overrun in the short run by brutalized opportunistic greedy capitalism. ? because it seems like you didn't. It's just that there is no sharp distinction between a real gold digger who flat out plans to get a rich guy and has no other criteria because she alrea…
/r/MensRights22/08/11 03:53 PM
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i really dislike golddiggers...oh boy... if a girl even demands I buy her a drink she's out. but if I think about it... this has always been very common practise until only very recently (a hundred years maybe) that it started to become a little different in certain parts of the world. Men want women first. If women want economically successful men and the marriage market is there to satisfy that need...does it not have the effect of people trying harder to become more economically successful in…
/r/MensRights22/08/11 03:19 PM
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that second one was a little dickish but that might be because I'm skinny too. but that first one was pretty great. I'll try that. amog defusing is one of my sticking points.
/r/seduction22/08/11 02:47 PM
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The key moment of going out alone is the one when you enter the bar, I think. Talk to the first person you see, quick chat with the bouncer, go get beer, talk to next person while getting a beer. introduce yourself to all three of them. You will have established yourself like a regular who knows the whole bar in less than 5 minutes.
/r/seduction22/08/11 08:13 AM
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not sure if troll...or misunderstanding. edit: you really run around with a condom on your flaccid dick all night in case you get laid that night? I just honestly can't believe it, is that common practise?
/r/seduction22/08/11 08:05 AM
1

quite forward but might work if you pull it off confidently enough. you can feel if a girl doesn't really want to hold your hand...then toss it away and change the subject BUT be sure that it doesn't come off as oh you don't want me? well I want you even less
/r/seduction19/08/11 12:29 PM
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what kind of speech impediment? you hardly need to talk at all to DHV. you can DHV with your social value, with your style, by being classy, generous, alpha. own your thing. if you think you're less of a person because of whatever disadvantage you have, you will come off as such, people will pick up on it and treat you accordingly.
/r/seduction19/08/11 12:25 PM
3

"teen pregnancy rates" that's from a cyanide and happiness comic with dave the downer...if she recognizes it, she's a keeper. :)
/r/seduction19/08/11 12:07 PM
1

it's the furiously...if you want to vary it a little, you can also say: vigorously or compulsively.
/r/seduction19/08/11 12:04 PM
2

"Maybe you should see a doctor."
/r/seduction19/08/11 12:02 PM
1

tells people to keep from revealing what this is about...reveals mostly what this is about.
/r/seduction19/08/11 11:36 AM
1

some website calling themselves "porn wikileaks" is in no way "wikileaks". Seems way more like something 4chan would do.
/r/seduction19/08/11 11:33 AM
2

There are seats and computer in the library of our university which are reserved for women after 8 pm. They have the same reason, these parking spots have. They are located very close to the exit and near a place of safety. A multi story car park at night is indeed a very sketchy place, and while I admit that men can be assaulted, mugged and murdered, let's face it, it's less likely. European muggers are less likely to carry a fireweapon than in the U.S., which makes it necessary to overpower th…
/r/MensRights18/08/11 06:48 AM
1

this part of the jeffy video relates to what I mean. To me, the concept revolves around accepting you're not going to be everybodys darling. It's impossible. It's being Starbucks, as Jeffy puts it. Everybody goes there but nobody wears the T-shirt. I think the result of gaming will be many times more rewarding if we don't date girls who we can convince that we're the shit but girls for whom we are the 10s. This fantastic oktrends post underlines how polarizing will actually increase the amount o…
/r/seduction17/08/11 05:03 PM
1

Tell them straight up but nicely that you'd like to finish your conversation with the girl. alternatively: bounce the girl to a different place.
/r/seduction17/08/11 11:25 AM
1

or kill them...with fire!
/r/seduction17/08/11 11:22 AM
3

you actually went through the trouble to create a throwaway account for this?
/r/seduction16/08/11 06:12 AM
1

what worked for me once was the following: I was working and this girl sat a few tables down across from me. Somebody entered through the door and was still talking, so she got annoyed and looked around what was happening. I saw her annoyance and raised my fist over my head in mock-uproar. She smiled and the ice was broken. Once you've made her smile it's easier to approach. I could have gone up to her and asked her if she wanted to go for coffee, but I met her by accident in the hallway and cha…
/r/seduction15/08/11 07:02 PM
1

I'm not but I've found it very interesting nontheless. it's true, he sometimes is very specific about how girls react to black men but much of the things about southern europe and germany are accurate for a white male too.
/r/seduction15/08/11 03:18 PM
2

don't expect more. do nothing out of spite.
/r/seduction15/08/11 07:46 AM
3

feels good to take control again, doesn't it?
/r/seduction15/08/11 07:33 AM
1

you should have agreed and amplified the 'are you gay?' REALLY overplaying the gay thing and touching him all over until he gets really uncomfortable.
/r/seduction14/08/11 09:48 AM
2

Exactly: The reason you think she's an hb10 is that you're making her important than she is.
/r/seduction12/08/11 12:25 PM
1

When I was there during the summer, I had a girlfriend, so I can't really tell. The beaches are full of beautiful people from all over Europe though. The clubs are are gigantic, with regular DJs like David Guetta and a very sexual vibe going on. everybody's dressed to impress. I think it might be more about looks there than in other places. During the winter it's really cozy...small townish.
/r/seduction11/08/11 07:46 PM
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I think you don't have to apologize for talking to various people at once on a dating site like okc. After all, you should be flirting on there and not negotiating relationships. you're not indebted to any of the people you meet on there. So you pretty much got a Seddit-Advice Response from the girl: you're tying too hard. Never apologize unless you've REALLY fucked something up badly, which wasn't the case. Look at it this way: By apologizing, YOU framed it as if you were doing something wrong …
/r/seduction10/08/11 06:03 AM
1

relevant
/r/seduction09/08/11 06:27 AM
1

go get 'em killer.
/r/seduction03/08/11 01:59 PM
2

where are you located? in Germany? edit: no, you wouldn't be. germany has a pretty good economy.
/r/seduction03/08/11 01:48 PM
2

a music teacher even? music is the panty dropper. cardio is a good place to start. Try swimming too!
/r/seduction03/08/11 01:40 PM
3

195 pounds at 6'2" is not really overweight. You're just on the verge, which can actually be a good thing. you're the good kind of tall (as in not freakishly) which is a huge plus, and you're a middle school teacher...meaning, you're good with kids or can frame yourself that way. (But we all know women hate kids...) Glasses are not necessarily a bad thing. Bad glasses can be however. I just got new glasses a couple of days ago and they work like a peacocking item. I get comments and notice that …
/r/seduction03/08/11 01:29 PM
5

seriously, it's like: be in a band and reap in the panties.
/r/seduction03/08/11 12:26 PM
4

look, inner game is not something you do, it's a set of beliefs about yourself. 'outer game' is a set of strategies. some are very general, like push/pull...others are very specific like some routines from the mystery method. IMO you need pretty much only inner game. The rest will come by itself, but outer game may help you to become confident in yourself and your abilities --> inner game. tl;dr: inner game is king.
/r/seduction02/08/11 12:57 PM
5

can't tell if trolling...or just odd.
/r/seduction01/08/11 10:29 AM
8

this is really rather r/relationshipadvice kind of stuff.
/r/seduction30/07/11 09:52 AM
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there is a gigantic difference between the southern countries, spain, france and italy and the germanic countries like netherlands, scandinavia and germany. It's in part because of the nature of language (english is germanic, french/spanish/italian are not) and also a question of culture. French people are superproud of their language. They will pretend not to understand you just because they think you should speak french if you come to France. Spain has always been rather isolationist culturall…
/r/seduction29/07/11 11:13 AM
2

oh yes, I came here expecting this too and now IAM SO ANGRY!!!!ARRRHGH!1
/r/seduction29/07/11 09:20 AM
5

holocaust is pretty bad too!
/r/seduction26/07/11 12:08 PM
1

a guy I know had sex with a girl I know and broke his penis, drew back in intense pain and she patted him and said, it wouldn't matter.
/r/seduction22/07/11 05:05 PM
1

I remember not being able to get it up with my first girlfriend. It was just nervousness. I know this happens sometimes with other people too when they're really excited about a girl. just relax man.
/r/seduction22/07/11 01:18 PM
1

it's odd, but I get really turned on by the whole headscarf thing, if they otherwise wear sexy clothes.
/r/seduction15/07/11 07:50 AM
1

the power of persuasion is a great book.
/r/seduction14/07/11 02:38 PM
2

Now, given that you yourself should test yourself regularly (after every unprotected encounter with a new mate optimally), you can non-chalantly bring up your results and explain your policy and ask her what's her stance on it. a woman that gets offended by that is not worth dating, unless she's told you that she's slept with somewhere between 0 and 2 guys and always with condoms.
/r/seduction14/07/11 02:13 PM
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great start! I also like: so bitch, you got da herp or can I rawdog ya?
/r/seduction14/07/11 01:58 PM
1

I thought the amnestic head bump was just a movie thing... especially with head bumps you laugh about right afterwards.
/r/seduction05/07/11 06:11 AM
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count your blessings man. I know exactly how you feel. I think there is a problem in yourself, not with women or anything...in your self esteem. you feel like a loser and wait for things to happen that strengthen this belief. you don't even care that you were doing well in the beginning, which is 1000 times better than most guys already...all you care about is that you dropped out of state afterwards.
/r/seduction02/07/11 01:16 PM
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I guess it really depends on the kind of game you're running and the girls you're into. In the right section of a bookstore you can have a conversation with some actual content instead of the club-bla-bla. I find that to be my cup of tea.
/r/seduction27/06/11 07:30 AM
1

if a girl is a real uggo, she can be an HB10 at a dungeons and dragons tournament. HB Scale is not about looks...it's about desirability and that depends on the situation.
/r/seduction22/06/11 08:14 PM
2

there is aaalways the guy who's downgrading the girls in the pictures. now: HB Scale is for social value. A fucking princess with a huge entourage that centers around her, loads of money and good looks (as if you could even judge that properly by the misty pictures with the blacked out eyes), has immense social value and can therefore very well be an hb 10.
/r/seduction22/06/11 01:59 PM
1

girls usually say that to me :D
/r/seduction14/06/11 05:04 PM
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It's funny, but I did that on my last date and it worked great. We'd built up well to the date and went out. she initiated kino first, I led her around at the small of her back a lot, we laid hands on each others shoulders or around each others waists sometimes...then, when she crouched to look at something, I smacked her ass (pretty hard) in public. She jumped up and hit me (the good hitting) and we escalated kino a little afterwards. After I'd gone in for the kiss and we'd had made out for a s…
/r/seduction14/06/11 05:01 PM
4

get over it, sis.
/r/seduction13/06/11 09:40 AM
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As virtually everyone said: that happens. It might have been you, it might have been bad luck. practically, it might also mean that you need to work on pre-approach game (social proof, talking to everybody, not 'scanning' the room from the bar), having loads of fun. If all the girls immediately told you that they have boyfriends you may have come across as telegraphing too much interest beforehand which very quickly turns to creepy.
/r/seduction12/06/11 09:18 AM
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and again... the hb scale is not about how hot you think a girl is and your preferences. it's about the social value of the girl, which can be super high even though you might not like her.
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:24 PM
2

that's what bonding is: creating a similar reality. Shared life experiences and a similar evaluation of them. That can be something as simple as having liked the same movie or the same concert or as intense and life changing as the divorce of the parents. With hot women it's crucial to make sure you know what it's like to be high value too, to have people calling you, hitting on you and the likes so she knows that you know where she's coming from and what reality is like for her.
/r/seduction10/06/11 09:32 AM
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by starting to talk about yourself a bit more. (call me the prophet...) association is the key term here, I think. Establish a common reality between you and the people you're talking about by relating your experiences to their experiences.
/r/seduction10/06/11 08:54 AM
1

that would be horrible. imagine it would spark copycats...
/r/seduction07/06/11 07:40 AM
2

this is really not the best environment to pick a girl up. If anything you can start by approaching the whole group of bricklayers first, joke around and if it's possible isolate the woman, work very quickly, get the number and eject.
/r/seduction05/06/11 11:38 AM
1

Mike Hunt! I.C. Weiner!
/r/seduction05/06/11 10:59 AM
2

You're being the websites bitch by volunteering too much information to easily. Remember: Don't ever give a woman a straight answer. (at first) it's as if you were trying to inform the profile readers most efficiently about you. starting with the ENTP thing. I don't think, profiles are very much to fill a gap with information but merely to make people curious... So fuck with them, come up with unexpected responses and make that profile space yours. "I'm a little conceited at times, but for the m…
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:56 AM
2

I'm impressed with your efforts! Keep going! you'll become good in no time!
/r/seduction05/06/11 01:00 AM
1

this seems rather exaggerated at times...
/r/seduction03/06/11 12:38 PM
6

now here's what you think of yourself: 'I'm shy and I have no success with women, I have no game.' Who exactly do you think will want to be picked up by the no-game guy? that would make a girl feel easy. Now, think of the great things you have...for example: good body, hot girlfriends. What I like to do when I'm out with my girlfriends is act like they're all mine. I sit between them and put my arms around two and act like I'm the fucking man...do you want to know why? because I am the fucking m…
/r/seduction28/05/11 07:35 AM
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as always with lines...it's not completely universal. If you came across as needy beforehand, you will come off as scheming and reactive which will make you even more unattractive than you had already made yourself.
/r/seduction28/05/11 07:05 AM
1

have you had good experiences with immediately proposing a date with the first msg after the numberclose?
/r/seduction21/05/11 09:45 AM
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relevant username.
/r/seduction21/05/11 08:49 AM
2

I've had a great time going out by myself a couple of times. Just try to have fun and do not even start to procrastinate: No empty moments sitting at the bar and watching people. The minute you enter a bar, you start talking to people. On the way in, you should already be in conversation with whoever is closest, even if it's a middle aged couple, or two incredibly ugly girls...
/r/seduction20/05/11 10:26 AM
2

also, you didn't even post the link.
/r/seduction19/05/11 09:43 AM
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yo...get out of the frame of you needing advice to get a woman. stop looking for rules you need to abide to to get a woman. The only rule you have to abide to is your integrity. If you feel like calling her the next day, do. if you feel like calling her after 2 days, do. Hell, if you feel like calling her immediately after you've typed in the number, do so. But don't ever fear that you might come off like this or that...Be natural, be yourself and go with the flow. don't force anything but be as…
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:25 AM
3

Could you please elaborate on what exactly your findings are in terms of game?
/r/seduction19/05/11 06:14 AM
5

you didn't fail...you did worse: you didn't even try. You can read up on LMR Techniques pretty quickly: it revolves around not engaging in a logical debate, (never never never engage in logical debate), verbally agreeing while reescalating from a notch down or even freezing out. Work with the uncomfortable silence and let the accumulated horniness work for you.
/r/seduction18/05/11 10:11 AM
1

why would you ask the 20 women of seddit when you can have the 50.000 of askreddit?
/r/seduction16/05/11 03:21 PM
2

After all: Imagine, some girl just stopped with her bike to come up to you and say, wow, I just had to stop and talk to you. You look stunning!... People do that walkingly all the time. the fact that you're on a bike makes it look like you're going through even more effort, enhancing the effect.
/r/seduction14/05/11 02:30 PM
2

also, wear the 3 wolves and the moon shirt.
/r/seduction14/05/11 11:54 AM
3

this sounds like there's gonna be a webcam on 4chan
/r/seduction14/05/11 10:36 AM
2

I will not contest you as a specialist in buddhism, you must have noticed, I am not. but maybe you exaggerate a teeny tiny little bit when you say: "utter bullshit" and "nonsensical". Ask yourself if you might have been somewhat influenced by anger (understandable anger if you feel that something you cherish has been misrepresented)? I will try to answer with my own life philosophy: While the mind may not become something, it may very well shed things, it has been burdened it with, which stand b…
/r/seduction12/05/11 06:49 AM
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in a controversy, the instant we feel anger, we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves. please be more elaborate in the discussion of your opinion because otherwise only your opposition will come across and you have helped nobody.
/r/seduction11/05/11 05:33 PM
2

more quotes great quotes are: ** If a man can control his mind, he can find the way to Enlightenment and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him** A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker. I do not believe in a fate that falls on men however they act; but I do believe in a fate that falls on them unless they act.
/r/seduction11/05/11 05:33 PM
5

I still think that the phrase "I neg her to bring her self-esteem down a little" is the main reason for the image problem of the pickup scene.
/r/seduction11/05/11 02:50 PM
6

upvote for veganism!
/r/seduction27/04/11 06:37 AM
1

Brad P's ebook the adventures of brad P has a ton of club extraction advice.
/r/seduction27/04/11 06:03 AM
3

seduce everyone. especially seduce your girlfriend. everyday anew.
/r/seduction26/04/11 12:41 PM
1

yeah...well you're being put off. jealousy, and showing high standards might do the trick though. take it back 3-4 notches, be a little reserved for a change. don't jump at every opportunity she gives you to hang.
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:30 AM
1

what exactly do you mean by flake?
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:09 AM
1

you must be british. sunblock...do you use it?
/r/seduction26/04/11 06:51 AM
0

I am impressed with your determination to make this point by creating an extra account for the purpose...
/r/seduction26/04/11 06:49 AM
1

Her: "Do you want to use me for my body?" you haven't played much on the agree and amplify card. It might have worked well to tell her that you're not after her whole body but that you're obsessed with her left elbow...or the gap between her teeth.
/r/seduction26/04/11 06:47 AM
2

actually you shouldn't have mentioned finals week because of various reasons. you establish yourself as a college student...as in apprentice, still a boy etc. With a 32 year old, that won't help most probably it won't. it kind of seems like you would have liked to be there next week but you can't because of that. to conclude that, my tip to say "No. now is your chance." (with complete willingness to walk away) and to fuck justification. justification is reaction. you don't want to react, you wan…
/r/seduction26/04/11 06:45 AM
3

next time, say it first. it's a disqualifier you can either use for yourself... or have it thrown in your face as a shit-test. you decide. if you have to deal with it as a shit test... laugh, ignore and keep your frame or agree and amplify: "you're old enough to be my great-grandma, and lucky enough that that's my fetish...mmmmh grannys...!" are you going to be here next week? this: from a hired gun... is usually business, not game. don't get sucked into this. don't get any ideas.
/r/seduction26/04/11 06:03 AM
1

I could never date you because I would always be thinking that you're lazy haha, she disqualified herself. maybe she's read game and sees right through you :D who got gamed? :D
/r/seduction25/04/11 08:18 AM
2

you showed me this before. I totally approve this message.
/r/seduction25/04/11 07:30 AM
0

you might be a good influence on the youngsters. try it out.
/r/seduction23/04/11 09:27 PM
2

who's your guyses favorite? apart from cajun? I think the most impressive is phil...this odd guy with a green polo shirt.
/r/seduction23/04/11 10:35 AM
2

some do, some don't. NLP-wise it's like that: you can mirror her speech. If she uses smileys a lot, you might work them in sometimes. same with words she uses. but don't just straight up copy her speech. that looks like mockery. let it flow in your conversation naturally while maintaining your own style. I think many of us use smileyfaces in online-communication. there are certain rules, when they are appropriate...to tone down something that might sound harsh otherwise or to show irony when wha…
/r/seduction20/04/11 08:03 PM
2

if you propose something that is obviously going to be: the two of you alone, you're putting yourself out there as to your leading the situation as in: you won't do it if she doesn't go. that makes her the important part around which you're accommodating your life. non-alpha. thus: Why don't you join me for a round of pool at such and such place. or I know this really cool place in that and that neighbourhood I'd like to show you, come and join me there for a beer/wine/appletini tomorrow. import…
/r/seduction20/04/11 07:59 PM
1

not when you show up. why would you state the obvious? in a text it works fine.
/r/seduction20/04/11 06:58 AM
1

tomorrow is thursday, no? I think it's best to give one day in advance. I prefer to call, tell her you're doing something cool and that you'd like her to tag along.
/r/seduction20/04/11 06:56 AM
4

I'd call. you don't seem like you're going to fuck it up. just tell her: hey, I'm going out this saturday, why don't you tag along? it's gonna be a blast! and see how it goes.
/r/seduction19/04/11 06:25 PM
1

True! If you introduce the talk about leagues and value, you just show that you're thinking about it constantly, thus being self-conscious about it, thus making yourself look like a chump.
/r/seduction19/04/11 07:35 AM
3

make up nicknames. a name that you invented yourself is a lot harder to forget. in some tofutofu FR he kept calling a girl Larry all night. A fun nickname also creates an awesome "we"-experience. nobody else calls her like you do. (maybe that won't work with Larry though.)
/r/seduction19/04/11 07:03 AM
2

It's a question of how, I guess. If she looks at you offended and says her name, you can smile amusedly and say: I know, I meant your lastname. I have too many people in my phone. I don't think you'll come off as a jerk.
/r/seduction19/04/11 07:01 AM
1

great post blogpost! i don't see the connection to my statement, is there one?
/r/seduction18/04/11 01:50 PM
1

anyone else think that the purity ring thing could very well have been a shit-test?
/r/seduction18/04/11 12:22 PM
1

I think you might get some theoretical input from Johhny Soporno (www.seductivereasoning.com). He's way on the polyamorous side of things but his theory is quite enlightening. There are hours of free seminar on the website if you scroll down.
/r/seduction18/04/11 10:57 AM
4

there is not one way to kiss well. but it's a form of microcommunication, like a little dance with the mouth. you don't kiss on your own. you kiss together, so what you do should be reciprocal. This means, when you open your mouth, she should too. once you got the "lip-syncing" down, learn to tease with your tounge. don't overdo it with the tounge. lips are soft, that's a good thing. capitalize on the softness of your lips.
/r/seduction18/04/11 09:13 AM
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hehe, with some girls you just have to find the "window of opportunity". There are these girls you can't have and the girls nobody can have. You just have to enjoy and share.
/r/seduction18/04/11 09:07 AM
2

guys....abundance mentality means exactly that you don't have to take EVERYTHING you can get, just because it's easy.
/r/seduction18/04/11 06:13 AM
2

you downvoted your own post?
/r/seduction17/04/11 12:55 PM
1

This is so true. I've been feeling like I always make a power struggle out of every conversation to come out on top instead of just being myself. That's a surefire way of sabotaging yourself.
/r/seduction17/04/11 06:56 AM
2

amog lions. dem fuckers.
/r/seduction16/04/11 10:01 AM
1

sports give me energy.
/r/seduction16/04/11 07:36 AM
2

you're probably feeling stressed because you think you're not performing well because she does not show you her intimate side. maybe she never does...what do you know? some people seemingly never drop their facade...some people are nothing but facade.
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:58 PM
1

never be judgemental. in fact: don't even let it become an issue. if she steers the topic on that, change the topic. rinse, repeat.
/r/seduction15/04/11 02:29 PM
2

"I am married and I have two children with a woman who I love, but she does not love me back." I thought that was the problem.
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:40 AM
3

you could also re-seduce your wife and make her fall in love again. ideally you'd never have to dump her.
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:27 AM
1

let's settle for: drunk assholes give getting hit on a bad rep. do you concur?
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:12 AM
-1

maybe he was caught in the middle of his movement.
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:42 PM
4

I didn't see you could read more of the story. hadn't read the kids part.
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:08 PM
3

quite the asshole to abandon your children like that.
/r/seduction14/04/11 05:15 PM
2

trust me. if the mall doesn't do for you...you need to move.
/r/seduction14/04/11 05:05 PM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GF1b1pf9DRY no seriously. go to the mall. you're 17. it's school, sports, or mall. where else would you go?
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:53 PM
13

hehe, probably because drunk guys give getting hit on a bad rep.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:50 PM
16

smile at her, go down a notch, keep going. don't make it a big deal.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:43 PM
12

i'm not against alcohol. i'm against alcohol being the only way to have fun. I love how alcohol loosens me a little, but I still believe that the inhibitions we suffer from can be overcome without alcohol.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:40 PM
2

i don't think it's that easy. of course, it's an easy quick excuse to say: that bitch was just plain crazy, when he might really just have been unattractive, didn't notice her signs, or got outalphaed.
/r/seduction14/04/11 01:29 PM
10

coming to a place she told you she'd be is not very alpha indeed. Go if you go for the concert, don't go if you go for the girl. the girl should not be priority, you have your mission in life. your things you want to do and enjoy that's the priority.
/r/seduction14/04/11 01:04 PM
5

what we can learn here is that really it doesn't matter that much what you say. It's way more important firstly: how it's done and secondly, what the other circumstances are. If the guy hadn't been drunk and his friend not an idiot, he might have gotten the girls number after all. a line is never a magic key to success with women. your behavioral cues make you either attractive or unattractive.
/r/seduction14/04/11 08:06 AM
1

you can have all that as long as you don't fall for the mirage that you cannot live without it or that you're incomplete without your girl/wife/family. love is love. it's awesome. maybe the deepest and greatest emotion you can feel but any relationship will in its core have a power struggle that you must not forget, even if an intense and grown relationship will grant you weak moments (while in pickup, no weak moments are allowed) oscar wilde let's one of his characters say this: MRS. ALLONBY. T…
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:31 AM
2

that kills the symptom but not the disease. it'll help but the way I understand him, he already has another girl.
/r/seduction13/04/11 04:08 PM
2

by realizing it's schizophrenic and wrong to expect something like that. watch the videos on seductivereasoning.com not the news bit but the whole seminar that you can download at the bottom of the site. the guy really goes into detail about that.
/r/seduction13/04/11 04:06 PM
5

actually those are two problems wrapped up in one: first of all, our society still oppresses women in their sexuality as in: it's not ladylike to be desirous. you probably fall in love with girls you kind of consider angels whereas you wouldn't fall in love with your fuck buddy because the idea of her being sexual seems like a turn-off relationshipwise. the deal here is to learn to love women who love sex and are open and unapologetic about their sexuality because they are really the best women …
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:47 PM
1

and do you like your fuckbuddy? I mean really like her or are you a little creeped out by her sexuality?
/r/seduction13/04/11 12:52 PM
2

sounds pretty much like a blow-off. what ever you do...don't say "Aw, you're no fun!" 'aw' is for pity in that case it sounds like self-pity. I propose the following: Tell her it's not a problem and to have fun. you'll have a great time anyways. while having a great time, you'll meet another girl, a better girl. being the fun and alpha guy that you are, she'll not reject you. you will have a fling with her and if you meet that first girl somewhere you're nice to her but aloof, you have fun again…
/r/seduction13/04/11 12:50 PM
9

I recommend you work on your inner game. you get this desire because you don't feel complete and the thought of a relationship with a girl excites you a lot because you think it will fill an inner loneliness that you know you feel sometimes. that's what happens to so men. Then...the odd woman comes along and decides to 'rescue him'. he'll always be dependent on her love and affection, making him...effectively...their bitch. if you strip yourself of that incompleteness and develop a willingness t…
/r/seduction13/04/11 12:39 PM
3

"alright bitch, you've got it....I am so gonna fuck your cousin!" nice pull brother.
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:39 AM
1

that quote actually made the article a little less credible.
/r/seduction13/04/11 08:39 AM
2

I join the chant: ** do not, (in the sense of DO NOT) fuck the company.**
/r/seduction13/04/11 07:56 AM
1

actually you can see how it fazes him a little when she talks about all the other great stars on stage and her idea that he should be nervous about it. he crosses his arms but plows through it well.
/r/seduction13/04/11 07:55 AM
11

look down on her quickly, look back up and say: "thanks!" instead of something like...you too.
/r/seduction11/04/11 03:44 PM
1

"it's not gay if you don't push back!!!...or is it?" or something of the likes because it shows that you're confident and secure enough with your sexuality that you can take the idea of somebody thinking you're gay even though you're not. it's a shit-test, so this would be: agree and amplify. you can also laugh about it or ignore it. get really comfy with yourself: you can practise. get into a fake argument with your wingman somewhere in the street and loudly say stuff like: "Just because I trie…
/r/seduction11/04/11 11:59 AM
2

also: don't ask if you can kiss her. usually, if she's held your hand for quite a while you can be quite sure that you won't be turned down and even if you do, it doesn't mean you fucked it up. (just stay the same, generate more rapport and comfort and try again later.) if you have her on your hand, you can do a lot of physical push and pull by moving away and dragging her close. do that a lot while you're conversing along and then, one time, when you draw her close, lay your arm around her wais…
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:12 AM
1

especially if it's a phallic object.
/r/seduction11/04/11 09:39 AM
2

what!?! why???
/r/seduction11/04/11 09:38 AM
1

as a dumb joke you can throw something like this in but if you say it earnestly it's pretty much admitting that you have no humour of your own....
/r/seduction11/04/11 09:36 AM
3

then you have not calibrated it enough. If it wasn't a ridiculously conservative woman (that would probably turn me off anyways), you can start with incidental touches with the backs of your hands...for instants. you'll get micro reactions. if she recedes even a little, just don't do it again until you've established more comfort. I've met a girl on the train once who was very reluctant to touch first, but she got used to it, once we had established more comfort and a 'we' idea.
/r/seduction11/04/11 09:01 AM
1

there's a lot on here about asian girs specifically. For example in this post, which has a second part too.
/r/seduction11/04/11 06:37 AM
1

of course it can. it was about protecting her from the amogs in just the right time. the extraction from the venue is the hardest part in game. all the amogs and cockblocks come out at once when it comes to the good-byes. with the buying temperature so far up, you need to be on your toes and protect your target.
/r/seduction11/04/11 06:18 AM
1

there are many examples about this in Brad P's e-book, which you can download for free.
/r/seduction11/04/11 06:15 AM
6

even then...
/r/seduction09/04/11 02:56 AM
1

you sign with poopsauce and post with gulliversbuffet, so I thought you might have accidentally not used your seddit-pseudonym, since poopsauce has anniversaries and shows his love to his girlfriend via wolfram alpha.
/r/seduction08/04/11 08:55 AM
1

have you posted this under the right account?
/r/seduction08/04/11 07:26 AM
0

Now that bitch won't leave me alone which is exactly what they don't want. so they play nice and then don't answer the phone. know how the deal works, and don't get upset. it could have had so many reasons...
/r/seduction06/04/11 11:49 AM
1

relevant!
/r/seduction06/04/11 10:54 AM
1

using body language and tonality to build attraction. have you tried out gambler? he does that too, but implies 3 phases, attraction, comfort and seduction.
/r/seduction06/04/11 06:17 AM
1

this might have actually led me away from the concept of pickup entirely if it had been the first thing to encounter... cyanide gas? really?
/r/seduction06/04/11 06:12 AM
11

where does "nosy twats who insert themselves into the conversations of complete strangers" start and "opening a set" start?
/r/seduction05/04/11 01:27 PM
1

Peaches - Talk to me! also: virtually all tracks by either Seeed and Peter Fox which are partly german, or Daft Punk. That shit wakes you the fuck up. edit: formatting.
/r/seduction05/04/11 01:07 PM
1

I like to say: "why are you so angry inside?" somewhat pitifully. then I shake my head lightly, look her in the eye and say: "that's sad, you know?"
/r/seduction05/04/11 11:41 AM
2

you can write some quick comment about the conversation immediately afterwards so she has your number and even let her come to you afterwards. I wouldn't immediately ask for a date. start out with some light text banter to get the attraction back up, then propose place and negotiate time.
/r/seduction05/04/11 09:54 AM
2

pu is sort of a sales situation, isn't it? It's about making yourself a good deal (fake it till you make it) I've read that Salvador Dalí conditioned women to the scent of watermelon by always having it present while stimulating them sexually. We constantly work with physical anchors when we move dates around to get them into new mindsets. I've successfully applied anchoring for myself to get into state: I pressed your hand in a certain way (thumb and index finger press the skin between thumb an…
/r/seduction05/04/11 08:56 AM
2

maybe her grandparents were in town and she was going to hang out with them. you can't always draw lines between what you do and their reactions. I get confused all the time in social situations too. just smile and say: some other time! maybe you hadn't created enough comfort yet. and talking about familiy and sharing something about your grandparents would have been a good opportunity to do so. tl;dr: make that turndown an opportunity.
/r/seduction05/04/11 08:55 AM
2

also: use the search function. there are many great threads about this already.
/r/seduction31/03/11 09:37 AM
0

For the sake of science I will agree with you...but only partly. When we're here, discussing game, you're right. As much as economy (valuable keystrokes, extensive concepts caught in 3 letters...) is important and valuable. This, however, only counts for our interactions here within seddit. It boils down to an inner game thing: I think that language (in a wider sense) is the only way we have to impose our reality. Now you can function very well in a subculture by adopting its ways, its terminolo…
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:49 AM
29

Actually that seems like a pretty cool way to lose your virginity. big ups homeboy.
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:37 AM
2

you don't even know the story behind this. she was seen with a guy... you don't know when that was, you don't know if it was actually her boyfriend since there is no Red Light appearing above her head when she's in a relationship. This could have been anything...from a fling to a close personal friend. maybe she's even polyamorous. If it matters to you on your terms, you should ask her if you're out with her. If it only matters for you in terms of your chances to get with her, you're worrying ab…
/r/seduction30/03/11 06:21 AM
3

this is especially true for your girlish soul. it was an extraordinary act of openness and a great start for successful therapy to share this with us. I'm very happy you're taking steps to your own liberation my friend. Once you gain access to your inner fag and pussy, you have a serious chance on becoming a human being. I recommend you start taking it up the ass by one of your loving brocicles! It will work wonders...don't judge if you haven't tried!
/r/seduction29/03/11 11:21 AM
3

your TL;DR is something I might get a tattoo of :D
/r/seduction24/03/11 02:40 PM
1

what's the difference between fapping and sex then? does it mean you get less driven and assertive and attractive if you have a lot of sex too?
/r/seduction16/03/11 11:09 AM
2

they won't think he's awesome until number 2 and 3 join and the snowball starts rolling.
/r/seduction11/03/11 07:00 PM
4

is this you?
/r/seduction07/03/11 07:40 AM
1

and the girls like that there aren't many men?
/r/seduction04/03/11 03:24 PM
3

you're not asking her anything. hardly any girl will reject you on that line if she doesn't hate you. however, it's like telling a girl that you like her, while she's not convinced that she likes you back. You reject yourself.
/r/seduction04/03/11 01:55 PM
1

I hate it when people start talking in the library. but you can ask her to get coffee or something. This works great if girls express how they have trouble concentrating with their bodylanguage.
/r/seduction03/03/11 10:46 AM
3

great moment. the adrenaline of being in that thing heightens the experience. Great move. That's why it works so well to take your dates to dates with action and emotional engagement. Be it theatre or that hurricane simulator. great would be any type of ride at a fare. something like this!
/r/seduction03/03/11 10:42 AM
2

or bring a wing and really really have him interpret you. That's just a fun social game to get used to banter and role-playing. Only...you need to know a foreign language and so does your wing.
/r/seduction03/03/11 10:33 AM
1

whatever inside jokes you've had. I sometimes say things like: We were just talking about Sodom and Gomorrah here, and it made me think of you. It only works if you can actually frame her as a bad girl. if not...it turns out weird.
/r/seduction27/02/11 11:47 AM
8

I don't think the asian obsession benefits your game because firstly it's some kind of one-itis type of thing and secondly there is a bunch of dudes with the asian fetish. so much, that people have actual words for it. If the girl ever thinks that you're after her because she's asian, you're out, I'm pretty sure.
/r/seduction27/02/11 09:03 AM
9

Impressive, from start to finish. I particularly like the idea of pangloss and how you just plain plowed through this superaggressive cockblock. The strategy you used was a bit like TofuTofus the godess technique. Awesomely played.
/r/seduction25/02/11 07:20 PM
2

i read in one of the brad p. FRs that with one girl he had to do the rinse-and-repeat of lmr-killing for 5 times! don't get discuraged. ever.
/r/seduction24/02/11 01:32 PM
1

I've had bad experiences with the hair-grab when attraction was not high enough.
/r/seduction23/02/11 07:09 PM
7

upvote for complete redundancy.
/r/seduction22/02/11 03:52 PM
12

awesome! you forced the IOI. In quite a stealth mode actually (that yawn trick is quite golden.). If you force IOIs there is no rejection anymore. You already know that she's interested now all you have to do is not fuck up and escalate. Read gambler on how to perfect this. I've heard of the term "pinging attraction levels" as well.
/r/seduction20/02/11 07:10 AM
1

not sure if its IOI everything she does is an IOI (this statement is not applicable for enounciations such as "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME YOU FUCKIN CREEP!", "DON'T KILL ME PLEASE, I DO EVERYTHING YOU WANT" and "AAW, you're nice.")
/r/seduction16/02/11 07:07 PM
2

man... you just haven't started yet. adrenalin seekers are just the right people to do the most insane cold approaches. Once you start and get over it, there will be no stopping you. It's like jumping out of a plane or a steep slope or whatever. The only difference is that the field is a different one. You'll win some and loose some, but it's always an amazing rush to make that decision, to overcome your fear and to go do it. Then you'll see that not much bad can come out of it. worst case scena…
/r/seduction15/02/11 02:33 PM
1

physical touching is easy whilst cooking together. move past, look what she's doing...correct her hand while she's cutting something and whenever you talk to her touch her...touch her arms, back neck the whole deal.
/r/seduction15/02/11 02:27 PM
1

I think he meant to give you advice for the next time: she has to go to class, you tell her that you're going to do something fun...whatever...paragliding or rockclimbing. boring is low value, fun is high value. it's to project higher value.
/r/seduction15/02/11 02:23 PM
1

I think that counts more fore office people. I think waiters are allowed to sleep around...like barkeepers. what's the big deal?
/r/seduction15/02/11 02:10 PM
3

you should not tell her that she's too old. With age, always disqualify yourself and not her. here's an interesting thread about that. I assume (did not field test) that if you go into: yes, WAY too young, you and I would never work out, I'd have way too much sexual stamina and you'd always be like aaah...not anymoooree....I'm tireeed, and it would frustrate me. topicchange. ...or something like that.
/r/seduction15/02/11 02:08 PM
2

Now also: what has been started is a fight in your head between approach anxiety and not-approach-anxiety. You know how bad you feel for letting an opportunity go past. Everytime you'll beat yourself up about it and you will begin seizing them!
/r/seduction15/02/11 12:43 PM
2

david wygant teaches women too.
/r/seduction14/02/11 09:36 PM
8

why thank you very much, my good sir.
/r/seduction14/02/11 06:55 PM
4

it shouldn't. The boyfriend thing can mean so many things. She means to disqualify herself, yeah, but the game is far from over. While I don't advocate that you take sbs. girlfriend away, but stick in there and get the details before you eject prematurely.
/r/seduction14/02/11 04:12 PM
2

also, get seats next to each other and follow the vin di carlo escalation ladder. girls get extra turned on if you manage to do really dirty stuff while nobody can see it. People around you are getting their food not suspecting anything while you stroke her pussy under the table. They love it. but you have to work up to it.
/r/seduction14/02/11 04:01 PM
50

no. the hb-scale is not about your perception but a guess at societies perception. it's used for calibration. Even if you don't like megan fox, and think she's a 6 or 7, you have to game her like a 10 because that's how people treat her.
/r/seduction14/02/11 03:46 PM
2

it's not random if you think of one and ask her. random is when you can also end up with your mom :D
/r/seduction14/02/11 12:54 PM
1

I think, this woman could read your thoughts as to your intentions on taking her up with you. she avoided anything "rejectionlike" by ejecting from the situation. Maybe her anti-slut-defences kicked in too because she got horny so she ran not only from you but also from her horny self ("that's just some guy I've just met on the internet! What am I doing here?"). Whatever it was, you have no reason to be discouraged you have done nothing wrong, your desire is not wrong, it's healthy and it was al…
/r/seduction14/02/11 06:39 AM
3

read up on core confidence vs. situational confidence. This is a major belief change and it will make you much happier. I noticed that if I feel like I'm losing state, it helps to take a break, i.e. I go out of whatever club we're at and get some water somewhere, take in some fresh air and analyze how anything bad that happened is really nothing (because it never is) that should affect my state. Then I go back in or to another venue. Here's the deal with this: Your situational confidence is brok…
/r/seduction14/02/11 06:26 AM
2

4 days are not so long.
/r/seduction13/02/11 06:05 PM
2

Nice! You could have just taken her with you as well!
/r/seduction13/02/11 07:50 AM
1

how about just /r/fieldreports? seductiontechnique is just as generic as /r/seduction. it will attract the exact same kind of people...just less. FrsandTechnique is indeed not perfect. let's perfect it.
/r/seduction12/02/11 07:03 PM
3

wtf is that?
/r/seduction12/02/11 06:58 PM
1

WEEEELLLL, I kinda know this is asked a lot and I won't beat you up about it but there is a guideline on how to proceed before you post anything on here in the sidebar. basically, click here and read for at least one week before you create a thread.
/r/seduction12/02/11 06:56 PM
5

A motel seems really sleazy indeed. How about the two of you go on a weekend holiday sometime? Do you have a friends house where you could crash a night? What about cars? You know...many people in the mediterranean countries of europe have these problems. parks and parkings are full of young couples messing around because they cannot go home for that. I think it's important to have the right frame for that because having sex somewhere in the open, in a car or any place that is not really a priva…
/r/seduction12/02/11 11:10 AM
1

I try to think how I would move through the site-navigation. If I wanted to know about seduction, I'd go to /r/seduction. If I were interested in the topic, I'd also read the sidebar which would say: For Fieldreports and fieldtested and advanced stuff go here, for fashionadvice go there, for sexual advice go to this place and so on. Now, your concern is valid but I have the feeling that some of the regular field reporters whose reports I've enjoyed a lot have already moved elsewhere. If you thin…
/r/seduction12/02/11 11:04 AM
7

I'm really inclined to do it the other way around, that is: One Subreddit for Fieldreports and material, discussion etc. The newbies will always come to /r/seduction first. They will always ask their questions. This is the reason why there is this obscure invite only seddit. You cannot really influence how people perceive the idea of this subreddit before they have been here. Who the hell reads the sidebar if they have a question they obviously believe to be related the topic of /r/seduction? He…
/r/seduction12/02/11 09:26 AM
3

The point is not how to win the competition. The point is not to see one and not to define your self worth in comparison to what other people (best friends or strangers) can or can not do. Comparing yourself to others all the time is the ultimate recipe for unhappiness. It's completely fruitless because you need to find your inner self and not the one of your best friend. You can only shape your own life. So instead of looking for somebody who you can compare against and look unfavorably, look a…
/r/seduction10/02/11 04:25 PM
2

surround yourself with losers so you won't look as bad? I don't think that's very helpful.
/r/seduction10/02/11 04:19 PM
2

it's a tough and challenging thing to go through. I kinda know first hand.
/r/seduction10/02/11 04:13 PM
2

never apologize for being alone if people ask you who you're here with. Be confident about it.
/r/seduction08/02/11 04:42 PM
1

An awesome idea also is to act like an idiot alone in front of as many people as somewhat possible. You will understand that the feeling of embarrasment, unlike i.e. pain, just goes away. There is no real reason anymore for it. Your friends will (hopefully) like you anyways and the people you don't know...why the hell would you let THEM tell you how to feel?
/r/seduction08/02/11 03:18 PM
6

my attention sp
/r/seduction08/02/11 02:25 PM
1

what do you mean AA?
/r/seduction08/02/11 09:16 AM
3

AND you can have 4 wives!
/r/seduction08/02/11 08:42 AM
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