So, my friend does improv theatre. I'm actor myself and decide to tag along to a workshop of a friend of hers which was kind of fun. There is one cute chick there and we get into a conversation. After the workshop we go to a bar: I want to sit next to her at the bar but after some confusion I have to sit next to some guy who comes up and sits down with me and my friend. He's quite interesting and talkative, which is fun though. We change venue, drop most people including the cutest girl but there is one other. She's a stealth hottie (thanks brad p.). I didn't consider gaming her until we were at the next venue and I got a good look at her. For some reason she has cut her hair short and kind of weird but she has a banging body and the eyes.
In the next venue, my friends come and the group gets larger and livelier. I talk to stealth hottie but then a girl bumps into me from the back. I'm actually quite in state by then so I tease her about how she's causing a ruckus but she doesn't understand. Her friend tells me she doesn't know german. Now I switch to english and suddenly I'm in a conversation with both of them with stealth hottie in my back probably listening. I amp up the banter with the girls and they keep engaging me when I try to turn back. I'm interested only half heartedly (they're both hb6s, blonds, one from norway, one german) which plays to my advantage. I leave, grab my friend we're staying at and dance all sexy. She asks me: what about the girls? I say: they're getting jealous right now and she smiles at me mischievously and grinds. Best friend ever.
We hang out all touchy feely and I engage in conversation with stealth hottie again. She's a player, I can feel it and I like to play with her. We're sitting on opposite barstools, our knees quite close to each other. I touch her knee while saying something. She notices and touches mine quite blatantly and we enter sexy stare contest for about 10seconds. I smile, Then she looks away. I get up and move on. I reopen the 6s which are with some chumps which they readily drop in the second I approach them. I take norwegian chick to go and see the live act somewhere in the club. Some ridiculous rapper with no shirt and sunglasses. We make fun of him. I tell her to give me her phone so I can take a picture of her licking the sweat of his nipples. We banter. I ditch her move back and forth. By this time, when I withdraw, she tries to hold me back and pull me closer again. I never comply with her.
We all want to change venues. I merge the 2set of sixes with my friends. Norwaygirl thinks she lost her phone. I tell her to go look in all her pockets. Her friend tries to call the phone but she finds it. I tell her she just hid it in her pants and convinced her friend to call her so it'd vibrate, FINALLY I start getting a sexual vibe going. This is definitely one of my sticking points. Sexual innuendo. I tell her she's bad all the time and she tries to turn it around on me but it never works.
The next place has live music too but completely different. It's a rockabilly club. There's rock&roll music. We go in, I grab my friend again and we dance like maniacs and bring life to the otherwise rather slow venue. We do crazy rock and roll dancing. After a couple of minutes, norwaygirl approaches me and tells me that I'm a good dancer. I say: I know, I'm awesome and go back dancing with my friend. Stealth hottie had to go get money from the bank and arrives. We dance. She's a great dancer. We do all kinds of couple dancing moves, most of which I just kinda swapped from a merengue class I once took. These moves are great because you're essentially leading them, pulling them close, letting them float away. We are the center of attention. I almost kiss stealth hottie a couple of times but never try to. We go to the bathroom together she says, I have to tell you something. I say: later. I sense, it's the boyfriend deal, take a leak, go up and of course she tells me: My heart already belongs to somebody else. I say: I don't want your heart. Maybe I kiss you but it's all fun and games.
Now fellas: I read a thousand times about this shit-test (she has a boyfriend actually who dropped by later. nice guy...beta, as we left he followed us and asked if we left because he came...) but i still fucked it up I think. I go back to dancing alternatively with norway girl who is getting really feisty and stealth hottie, who is really smooth and aggressively flirting with me. Both girls grind me and hug me. One of my friends does not understand the concept of wingman. I can see he's competing with me. I cannot have that but I don't have the presence of mind to go and tell him to fuck off my target. Nor does he understand how alternating between the two girls increases the attraction. Norwaygirl is pretty much buying temperature but I get involved with stealth hottie and kind of have trouble cutting her loose and going in for the kill with norway girl. My friend picks up on norway girls horny vibe and starts making out with her. you idiot...you get a wingman instruction later. stealth hotties boyfriend comes. Things kind of fall apart like a mirage. stealth hottie shows her player side. She makes out with my (female) friend. I can sense, she's trying to play on my libido, which kind of turns me off immediately. I tell her that what she does is cute but that it doesn't work and she bites my ear but there's no coming back from playeretteland once I'm on to you.
The rest of the night was pretty uneventful. As we go home, I have a talk with my friend. He says he's sorry, and that he feels he gave me enough time to make it happen with norway girl. I spare him the details of the push pull strategy and tell him that I opened them, established comfort, merged the sets and everything. There was no fucking with me being first on that one. I tell him that I could sense him competing with me. I gave him examples when he did it. It wasn't that bad since I was only half heartedly interested in the girl but I had to make sure we understood each other the next time. I told him: Before you do something like that: ASK!, I explained how competing actually works against us, he understood. I hope we have that settled. He's a good friend and has some game actually but drunk and bored he seems to get a little selfish.
Anyways seddit: to wrap it up:
My sticking points are:
protecting my target obviously (actually it boils down to making a choice. I was not 100% committed to one of the targets...I think that fucked it up for me.)
amping up sexual innuendo
Shit test performance
I realize many things I can improve. Can you name some more?
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